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Ah, I see what you're getting at. It sort of sounds like you're going out with the intention of hitting on girls, and not to just have a good, fun time (with girls as an added bonus!). If your intentions are to just have fun, then back at home at the end of the night, assuming you have no "friends" staying over, you can reminisce about the good times that were had, think about what worked for you, and contemplate how to resolve what didn't. Regardless, it's easy to slip into a funk if you're jus…
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:29 PM
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A fantastic analogy! I will say that with my ex, cocky jackassery works pretty well. I just have to know exactly when enough is enough and turn on the charm. You definitely need to gauge the situation though, and 5 years seems like enough time where being a dick isn't necessary. Otherwise, getting cocky with people you already know makes you seem kinda like a jackass...
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:10 PM
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You have a lot of insecurities that need to be worked through. Any rejection I receive is laughed off as I walk away to the next group. If there's something about your life that you're not happy with, then do yourself a favor and get to work right away fixing it (or finding something to compensate for it). Failure comes with life, it's your job to learn from it and move forward, always moving forward. One of my favorite quotes is "Why do we fall? So we can learn to pick ourselves back up" (Batma…
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:56 PM
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Questions about a specific girl aren't too popular around here, but I think there can be some things to take away from this. I'm actually in an extremely similar situation myself, however we've only been broken up for a few months now. The takeaway is important and very effective, something she was doing to you but you neglected to do it right back. When she said "I'm not having sex with you" you should've agreed with something like "you're right, it would be a bad idea" and headed to the bathro…
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:26 PM
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I woke up knowing today will be a fantastic day, and it has kept on getting better. I'm meeting up with a bunch of friends after work to grill up some food and drink, then heading out to meet up with more friends where I am gonna kill it. I am on fire and there will be spectacular things happening tonight!
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:51 PM
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That's her decision, which I respect. I'm not going to push the issue if she's not down. I'm not averse to making out more though...
/r/seduction14/07/12 02:09 AM
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Solid advice, I am definitely lacking in the sexual framing. Thank you
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:12 PM
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When a girl tells me she doesn't want to have sex, I'll just say "that's cool, neither do I" before rolling off next to her. It's effective and I don't come out sounding like a jerk. I wasn't too fond of the line you used but everything else is spot on.
/r/seduction13/07/12 08:37 PM
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Kino is a good habit to have with anyone. You're obviously not trying to take kino all the way with guys, but a hand on the shoulder or a friendly pat on the back can go a long way. I always pat the door man on the back as I'm asking how their night is going, it helps them remember me later, which in turn can be a DHV for any girls around or with you.
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:42 PM
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A particular style could certainly help get your foot in the door with certain girls, and Mystery has definitely shown that an eclectic outfit can create intrigue, but it's really all boils down to being just a costume. The part that does the real attracting is the person underneath. A strong confident man is what most women really want (and dressing well is always a part of that, no one likes a slob!). The only thing that's creating a barrier is yourself, it's not something you'll want to dwell…
/r/seduction21/06/12 12:51 AM
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I just got 3 rapid fire texts from my ex saying she was worried about her dog being at the house alone for long periods of time, to let her know if I won't be there, when I was moving out, and that we had to pay utilities. My response? "If you're trying to seduce me, you'll have to try harder than that"
/r/seduction20/06/12 10:09 PM
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Exactly this. All the preconceived notions about what we're doing is a lot of misunderstanding, but there are always bad apples that will use it to their advantage and give the community a bad name. And I have successfully dated one former "acquaintance" and recently engaged in the sex with an old make out buddy. Neither were close friends before, but I didn't really go anywhere with them previously and had known them for a few years.
/r/seduction20/06/12 08:35 PM
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The Reddit meet up this Saturday seems like an interesting opportunity for a get together as well.
/r/seduction20/06/12 06:28 PM
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Well it either happens or it doesn't, it's not like you have anything to lose in this situation and you know if you don't hear back it wasn't meant to be. I too debate frequently on whether or not I should send that next text though.
/r/seduction21/07/11 10:44 PM
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You gotta move on to the next one, they can't all be winners. Texting her again shows too much interest and too few options on your half. Learn from the experience and use that knowledge of what works on the next girl that comes along. Use this occasion as a confidence booster. Also, give a little more notice before plans (text on Monday to go out Tuesday). Actually, you should've asked if she wanted to come over and watch a movie as opposed to going out for one, especially seeing as she already…
/r/seduction21/07/11 08:47 PM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. I met these girls previously but had no game whatsoever then, I would just make some awkward small talk and not really get anywhere. Enter myself a year later, and I end up bedding one of them. I almost want to look up some of those girls I had a crush on when I was younger but never had the balls to go for it and see if I can't make it go somewhere. I'd especially like to game the ones that friend-zoned me... Also, it's a good thing to be mindful of goi…
/r/seduction21/07/11 05:11 PM
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Whatever I can find! I've frequented multiple websites and have just read anything and everything I came across that I thought might be even remotely helpful. I couldn't precisely name any one theory, as I've kind of read a little of them all and just blended everything that works for me together.
/r/seduction20/07/11 09:43 PM
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Yeah I wasn't sure what it was called but I had an idea of what was going on. The other guy definitely weaseled his way in to great success.
/r/seduction20/07/11 09:38 PM
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From my point of view, she'd be lucky to get me as anything more than just a rebound. I'm an awesome catch and any girl I get exclusive with will have to be just as awesome. She hasn't proven herself to me yet, and I know she's just coming off an LTR and needs to play the field herself. Whatever happens, I'm not worried. I just felt that for my first weekend finally putting into practice what I've learned, I didn't get bad results. Yes I was cheating a bit as I had met these girls previously, bu…
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:40 PM
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It's the difference between imparted and acquired knowledge. Both are helpful and imparted knowledge can give you a leg up, but we should never stop acquiring it. Who knows where we'd be if we started out with a little extra info...
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:27 PM
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In this generation of men raised by woman (speaking for myself and not at all stealing from Fight Club...) most of us had to strike out on our own, but it's always comforting to know we're not alone in our struggles and there are others out there who once saw as we did and know what it is we have yet to learn about women, life, everything. I have no doubt you'll do a terrific job of raising your kids and if I ever do the same, our children will be superstars.
/r/seduction20/07/11 06:31 PM
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I'll relate this in evolutionary terms using the cuttlefish. There are two types of males, the large and powerful males, and the small effeminate ones. The large males put in the all the work with the females, offering shelter and protection, but smaller males have learned to go under the radar of the bigger stronger male using deception to mate with the female. So these smaller males ride the coattails of the larger, having to put in less work to achieve the same result as they wait for the lar…
/r/seduction20/07/11 06:23 PM
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Of course. I believe her and I both are not looking to be in a relationship (at least, I know I'm not), but I have no problem hanging out with her as a friend still. We've got a quasi-date tonight where I'll try to gauge her intentions with me as she's been very hot and cold since we hooked up but I'll tell her that she should take the time to date other people, including myself maybe, as she is still fresh from said break up (and I know where she's coming from as I was always the break-upee in …
/r/seduction20/07/11 06:02 PM
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About a week ago I was trying to explain to my friend how someone like Justin Bieber (despite whatever you want to think about him) is actually more alpha than someone like Rampage Jackson (if you've seen any interviews with him he constantly proclaims loudly how he's alpha as fuck) for these very reasons. He thought I was completely ridiculous and tried to explain to me how the alpha male in the animal kingdom is the one who can go out and provide food (also a fallacy, just look at lions). I ha…
/r/seduction20/07/11 05:49 PM
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Two things I think would work really well, and this is all assuming that you will be attracted to the guy and that you already know about some common ground from chatting with each other. Touching is #1. Place your hand on his arm briefly when asking him a question. Hell, the longer you hold it there the more sexual tension it'll build, but don't overdo it. I love awkward silences! I'll often break it by laughing and saying "awkward!" unless I'm using the silence to test whether or not she'll br…
/r/seduction20/07/11 05:26 PM
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You make a good point and obviously know how to stroke an ego my friend! Having talked to her the week leading up to this, she would go on and on about him and I had decided to friend zone her as she was obviously going through some things she needed to work out. He did indeed let her go as she apparently went out with a guy, got drunk, and hooked up with him without remembering. She promptly told her bf, who then dumped her (this was maybe a month ago). Just this last Saturday they apparently t…
/r/seduction20/07/11 05:20 PM
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I'm not sure how much this will help but I'm working on some of the same stuff as you. Confidence is powerful and addictive. I suffered greatly from over thinking and second guessing. I was constantly friend zoned. I decided to start faking confidence. I would build myself up and refused to let anyone bring me down. I told myself that people wanted to talk to me, girls wanted me to hit on them. If someone made a joke at my expense, I'd make an even funnier joke that turned whatever they were jab…
/r/seduction20/07/11 04:48 PM
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Thanks, we're both 28. I was glad to be able to learn some game before I turned 30, I was worried that I'd waste my 20's by never having the nerve to approach or stop being the guy who is always just friends with girls. I was so bad that my nickname from a friend was Captain Kill-game!
/r/seduction20/07/11 03:29 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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