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I used the word debate in the wider context around the kind of insular circle jerk attitudes that lead to my banning. The comment in question was not a debate, it was a response to another one of my comments. I statement around how I felt the red pill had good lessons to offer, but that some of the attitudes in the community, specifically the rampant misongny, were components that should be disregarded. Just so I'm clear, you're asserting that any poster who disagrees with any portion of TRP, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 12:45 AM
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I'm not saying I went there to inflame or cause massive debates with everything I said. The post that got me banned, was a statement of the reality of TRP as I see it. If you ban everyone who has a slightly different view point, even if they agree with you on a lot of other issues, you're just creating a toxic circle-jerk that will descend into, well, what TRP became. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:36 PM
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I don't agree with victim culture, no matter where it manifests. I also don't agree with dismissing men's rights issues, such as the kangaroo courts of school administrators used offense allegations on college campuses. I'd argue that antisemitism and mental health issues, while vastly less socially acceptable to mock then small penises. But yes, both are vastly more accepted then others topics. As for my dick size, I'll just say, if I had a small penis do you think I'd advertise it? That's why …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 10:25 PM
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I'm actually conflicted. Lately I've been realizing how having a small penis is one the few things it's still socially acceptable to publically shame and mock. And unlike being fat, it's something these men can't change. I'd tell you how "small" I am, but you'd likely not believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 09:39 PM
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I'm not familiar with any prominent RP diets that are deadly. I've seen good fitness advice, and bad, like with any fitness forum. But the overall message of staying of taking care of your body, is a good message.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 09:11 PM
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I'm not sure the context of what you were banned for, but this whole approach of refusing to discuss, debate, or defend your beliefs is incredibly unhealthy. People and their ideas get stronger and evolve through vigorous debate and discussion with those they don't agree with. How can you be so sure that you're right, if you can't defend your convictions to those who believe you are wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 09:07 PM
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Okay so those are my thoughts. Up vote, down vote, point out where I'm wrong or right, or ignore me. What's your goal with your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 08:56 PM
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How does blanket hating an entire group of people with diverse beliefs within make you any better then those feminists who cast the same wide net over all men? What's it like going through life with so much general hate for such a diverse group of people? Incela and MRA have no overlap within? What's it like to be so will fully ignorant to reality?
/r/MensRights18/08/18 06:34 PM
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Conflating radical 3rd wave feminism with feminism destroying societies is disengenous. Feminism is present in the most successful nation's in the world i.e practically all first world nations. Now I agree that radical feminism does largly get a pass in a lot of these countries, it's a pendulum swing. America is better off because women can vote, own property, have let's recourse for sexual assault, but I agree that radical feminism becoming mainstream, just like radical Islam, is bad and should…
/r/MensRights18/08/18 02:54 PM
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Call your boyfriends...? What does that even mean? What's the difference, in your mind, between played and FWB? To me FWB implies they are a friend, someone you'd hangout with even if you weren't sleeping together. If you don't want to be exclusive and you have others, sack up and explain that to her: "Do whatever you feel like. I'm not your keeper" ....then casually change the topic and don't bring it up again.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:32 PM
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Jesus Christ. It's not manipulative in the negative sense. She's feeling you out. You're doing or have done the same in different ways, even if was more direct. You still didn't answer my questions below, most important of which was: What do you want? Do you want her as a casual and nothing else? How many other casuals do you have right now?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:20 PM
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That's the most no shit statement I've heard all day. Yeah, ultimately she has free will and can do as she pleases. And yes, giving no fucks is the best approach - but if he's asking internet strangers, he either has mixed emotions on the issue (hence my questions) or he lacks the confidence to properly give off the no fucks given vibe.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:33 PM
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Why is she asking you? Is she looking for approval, wanting to make you aware she has options, trying to force a commitment conversation? The answer to your question is what do you want? Do you want her for a GF? Do you care what she does? Personally, I'd tell her that she's free to do as she pleases and move on from the topic.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:23 PM
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I feel like you aren't reading into the article enough. It's blaming society for perpetuating certain myths and bad attitudes for people's lack of dating skill fundamentals. Im in my 30s. I was raised around the very same toxicity it's speaking about, but after trial and error I learned the fundamentals. Some of which are: Be confident Don't be needy Don't over complicate things You can only keep a fascade going for so long Learn from your mistakes, and there's ...and many more From that foundat…
/r/seduction17/08/18 04:39 PM
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Yeah, the underlying problems of not understanding the fundamentals of how to properly date or attract people. That can be as simple as start being direct with people you're attracted to, showering daily, not making awkward sexual comments, or any other number of fundamental skills that should be the foundation from which advice is applied to.
/r/seduction17/08/18 03:09 PM
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You may be ugly and damaged on the inside, but maybe you just have low self-esteem. Seek help.
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:12 PM
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Because most people who are using it don't have the correct fundamentals in place to begin with? Give advice to someone whose never played basketball before, and they may still not be able to dribble. But a coach telling his existing player to do X or Y is a whole different story.
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:11 PM
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You're pretty close, buts low/no confidence men who feel the traits they lack are the key traits to getting women. "If only I wasn't..." or "If only I was...". When in reality, it's LIKELY their lack of confidence and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:06 PM
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Okay so sex on the first date isn't ideal in my experience IF you're goal is an LTR. Can it happen? Of course, but you just removed the biggest mystery from the board - is he a good lover? You say you're a sex god, but I have yet to have a casual who truely enjoyed themselves with me and then NOT want more. Not counting bar or party ONS of course. Something about you is putting them off OR you're going after a type of woman that isn't looking for LTR, which is kind of apparent by all the sex you…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:31 PM
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On paper, overall, I don't think I look to good for reasons I don't care to document online. But, I'm very comfortable socially, intuitive, and confident. I don't have any issues finding women to date or sleep with when I want to. So to answer your question in reverse, those men lacks the those things is not able to sustain attraction when put into a close personal encounter, such as a date. When those guys do finally get married,he result is where beta bux trope comes. They can provide for a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:54 PM
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Agreed. A lot of the men who find TRP are jaded for one reason or another. LTRs have different pros and cons then causuals, but the biggest advantage is having an partner who compliments you and your lifestyle. And of course, it's the best way to raise children.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 02:45 PM
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Are you happy when your single? Why do you want an LTR? If it's because you're dissatisfied with something about yourself, where you're headed, who you are, etc. It will only result in a short term bandaid that will get ripped off and leave you worse then before. If it's to compliment your life, then that's good, healthly, and normal. My suggestion would be to keep your casuals and keep dating until you find someone worthy. Do not try and turn one of your casuals into something that it shouldn't…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:03 PM
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Eh. I'm educated and I would only seriously date another educated person. For me, ALL things being equal, I'd go after the women with a graduate degree. Of course, that isn't even close to being all that matters, but my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 02:51 PM
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Not sure if that's a bad joke, or you just not very bright. Actually, I guess it could both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:56 PM
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That's not what he's saying. Women, on average, are much weaker and smaller then men. Your average 5'7 male could easily over power your average 5'10 female. Now considerer that most dates between a man and woman occurre between men of equal or greater height then the women. Putting yourself into an intimate situation with someone, who if they chose to, could over power and harm you is inherently risky, but required if you want to date (for straight people). When I get hit on by women that I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:50 PM
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Eh. It's one thing if she has a guy friend that you hang out with as well and you're comfortable with. Not always, but can be. This right here? This is bitch-town USA. You should have grown a spine and some self-respect from the start and told her this was a deal breaker, but you didn't. Guess what? You still need to grow a spine and break it off with her.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:42 PM
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Regardless, he did bring it up and he needs to own it. "Yeah, believe it or not other women want to sleep with me. But has anything I've done since we became exclusive given you a reason to treat me like I'm not an honest man?" Put it in her court to either drop it or flat out tell you she will never trust you again. You need to be stoic and unemotional when you do this. She needs to see that you are okay if she leaves, and won't tolerate this topic if she stays.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:10 PM
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TRP is about self-improvment, embracing your masculinity, and becoming the best possible version of yourself. All of those things lead to atteacting more women. Yes, previously low value men will need help developing their sexual strategy. However, if you abandon those core principles to get laid, you haven't actually improved who you are - just your ability to get laid - which is clearly PUA territory. Edit: ROFL reporting me for pointing out this was post was PUA trash?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 09:40 PM
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I problem is that TRP typically attracts damaged men who either suck at relationships, getting laid, or both. They read this shit and the other cavalier misongny that is spewed by guys like this on here and assume that it's all part of a single life philosophy. I do include the use of AWALT as part of the rampant misongny as well, so im going to rant on that. That phrase is so hypothcritical, hear me out: Women tend to guard their sexuality, and men their commitment. How is a women trading up he…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 09:29 PM
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Is this what you think will impress the men on TRP that actually embody the principles of being your best self and taking responsibility for your actions? Proud because you had unprotected sex with women who are easily bedded? Proud that you may be responsible for creating a single mother? Proud because if you do knock them up, you set yourself up to shirk any of responsibility you have for that child? The only men here who may congratulate you or admire your story are the ones who still broken,…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 09:08 PM
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I've always believed that being comfortable alone is the key to happiness when you're together. One of the biggest red flags in a potential partner is when they go for relationship to relationship without serious time being single. They tend to, in my experience, be much more needy and less sure of who they are and what they really want, outside of companionship. Being together, and I don't mean casually, involves compromise, but somethings you can't compromise on. Myself, I need alone time, tim…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 02:58 PM
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Read my post history if you care to. I take issue with radicalized men on TRP and the incel community quite frequently. If I wasn't already banned from the femminist subs for saying other reasonable things, I'd post there as well and point out absurdity when I saw it. I'm extremely moderate and tempered in my views and I believe in Men's Rights issues. I also believe criticism from within is much more productive then when it comes from someone with opposing views. Edit: grammar
/r/MensRights26/07/18 08:57 PM
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Perfect timing. No, Men's Rights is not inherently misongist and you basing your views off the radical examples trotted out in the media is the same as basing ones views of feminism off the absurd radFems trotted out online or on Tumblr. Toxic feminism is definitely more popular then toxic Men's Rights because it's more culturally accepted (see college campuses), but radicals always exemplify the worst of any group, and for a group as large and diverse as feminism, and to a lesser extent, Men's …
/r/MensRights26/07/18 07:56 PM
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The Vice website has always been just a half step removed from BuzzFeed quality and hardly mainstream outside of some corners of the internet. Basing your view of feminism from the examples trotted out online is the same thing as people basing their opinions on the Men's Rights movement on the MRAs who overlap with Incels or the misogynist factions of The Red Pill or MGTOW.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 07:15 PM
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Click bait article is filled with hypocrisy, I'm shocked. I get the sentiment, but it's not news that radicals think radically and hypocritically. Im dating a self desribed feminist and she would no doubt take issue with this article just as she does with issues like prejudice against men in family court and other similar issues taken up by MRA's. In summary, using radicals to paint a broad brush is easy and cheap.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 07:06 PM
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This fruit is so low hanging, it might as well be my ballsack. I can go grab another dozen articles objectifying women.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 06:48 PM
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Normally I detest PUA stuff, because it's fake and just helps to temporarily mask deeper issues.... but this is actually insightful and can be useful when taking a holistic look at who you are, who you want to be, and how others view you.
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:36 PM
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Maybe the guy lost his mojo with her. Maybe she saw him the light and changed her mind. Maybe she wanted to make out or cuddle. No one owes you sex. Play your cards right and maybe you'll get it. Play your cards wrong and maybe you'll still get it. It's a mystery sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 05:52 PM
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Eh. I didn't come here because I was helpless. TRP didnt make me who I am. Read my post history, you can believe it or not. If you mean in general, then sure. Ive said as much in my posts.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 11:27 PM
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God damn dude. It sounds like YOU make a lot of poor decisions. So because you're choosing to "save strippers" (WTF does that even mean?) or date suicidal chicks, and shocker, didn't work out - ergo AWALT? To be fair, I think AWALT is a crude generalized construct thought up and perpetuated by guys like you. "Woa is me. I only date unstable girls, why are all girls unstable???"
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:50 PM
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Then that's her responsibility. Don't use the possiblity that's how she'll approach it to justify being a dishonest shit bag. If I'm clear and direct about my intent and they convince themselves otherwise, that's on them. I will add though that yes, that has happened to me. In those cases I pull back and let them cool off. I'm just saying that you can have integrity on how you treat casual partners and still get what you want i.e. casual sex.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:19 PM
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Yes, this so much. By the time I found TRP out of morbid curiosity, I'd already learned most of the valueable truths through life, trial and error. I could easily pick out useful tidbits, or improve myself, but recognize the utter bullshit and misongny that festers in there. Like any philosophy, you need to pick and choose what works and what doesn't. But, yes, a lot of the new guys who find it because they are broken just soak it all in and become covered in shit. Edit: fucking bot got me good.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/18 04:00 PM
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I don't disagree with most of what you said, but I guess I've never been into leading women on. I've always hated hurting other people's feelings more then is nessecary. Being upfront may sting, but no where near the pain when she realizes she was tricked or lied to further down the road. Don't want to get into what a "man" is or isn't, but yes, I agree that truely confident and comfortable men don't play those shitty games as they have a better sense of deceny and self-respect. Neither of which…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:52 PM
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There's not one girl that you're meant to be with, but there are only so many that meet all or most of my wants, those are worth working for. But, I agree that OP is off in fantasy land and needs a hard reality check. Which it sounds like he'll get sooner then later.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:52 PM
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Wow this is so fucking pathetic. OP seriously, work on yourself....or just move far away from everyone.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:39 PM
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I'm talking about some of the other posters. Ignoring isn't the worst approach over text. But when she brings it up in person, be calm, polite, and firm when you tell her what's what.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:48 PM
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You guys are all douche bags. Seriously. It's not hard to be upfront with a girl. Maybe they'll stick around, maybe they won't, but leading them on and not being honest about your intent is a douchebag move. The same thing I'm sure you all cried about when a girl did the same to you. I have casuals and if one of them says or hints that they want more, I politely tell them that's not what I'm after. I'm happy to keep seeing them like this, or I can take off. I've yet to have a girl ask me to leav…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:42 PM
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I tell girls I don't fuck on the first date, which is generally true these days. But I've noticed that can make them want to more. This is only after we've established a romantic raport or are already making out.
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:25 PM
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I also dislike AWALT. I feel it devalues women, the implication being that only men are capable of improving themselves. A more accurate term would be "most everyone is attracted to people that attract other people". TRP acts like "hypergamy" is a purely feminine trait. A lot of men have the same or similar instincts. Just like a lot, but not all women do. But essentially, yes. Be bold, be funny, be confident, be indifferent to her whims, and then get laid.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:25 PM
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God I hate the phrase "game girls". It screams that you are still in the faking stage and haven't quite made it, but hopefully you will so I'll try: Be social with other guys, girls you don't want to sleep with, dogs, etc. People, not just women, are attracted to those who other people want to be around. Be direct. Don't dance around your motives with a new girl. The friend zone doesn't exist, but if you try and make friends with a girl you'll be just that - a friend. And that'll be entirely you…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:00 PM
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I'm going to go in the opposite direction as the other posters. How are you handling communication post 1st date? How soon do you text them? How quick do you respond? How much are you typing versus what they are? Are you making jokes at every chance? It's possible you're bad in bed, it's possible your giving off wierd vibes, but I can't help you there so I'm hoping to hear some honest answers to my questions to see if I can identify some areas for improvement. Also, never go to the movies or any…
/r/seduction16/07/18 07:15 AM
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Im always honest with my casuals. If one of them pulled that I'd remind them that it's okay she's getting affection elsewhere and let them know I hope it works out. You can be honest and direct and still get the same emotional response you want. Because truthfully, I dont sleep with anyone I don't at least like or enjoy the company of anymore, so I do hope they find love or whatever else they're looking for that I can't or won't give them. I can always pull a new one into the rotation (I try and…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:55 AM
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Yeah, this is terrible advice. It's insanely petty and manipulative bullshit that would bring him to her level.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:49 AM
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This. But also, is this within her range of normal behavior? If so, run and don't look back. If not, it can be a teachable moment for her and how she treats you when she's upset. If she pulls it again in 2 years, teach her again. If she pulls it again soon, bail.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:47 AM
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I'll make a joke about how happy I am to having saved myself for the right one - implying it's her. This usually happens after I've already made them cum or turned them on in another way.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:47 PM
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I'll only comment on dating from a straight male perspective. Improve yourself. Be the person people want to be around and women will follow. I don't just mean have a good job or just workout, I mean learn to be social, make new friends, more easily socialize in unfamiliar settings, learn to leverage humor, and all of those things will lead to more confidence. Once you have that base to work with, you can skim through dating advice books or forums and try somethings that seem to fit your persona…
/r/seduction07/07/18 02:50 PM
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Yeah, no shit Sherlock. Do you think I need emotional validation from this girl? Checking my phone for her texts? Jesus are you projecting your own issues? We use each other and enjoy that time. Otherwise we live separate lives and have our own other more regular partners. Why would I expect more? I just gave an example of how I call that shit out when she's bad with it, but it's not like she's anything but in rotation.
/r/seduction05/07/18 10:54 PM
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Okay I think your trolling, but maybe your just very niave so I'll induldge. Try before you buy? Bro a wife isn't property and I want a girl who knows what she likes in bed and understands I'm a good lover because she's had bad ones. I'm not saying I want to wife a club rat, but light to moderate sexual experience is preferred. Modern western marriage is not just for procreation. Ideally, it's finding someone who compliments your life in all sorts or ways, not just sexual gratification. Sex is i…
/r/seduction05/07/18 03:57 PM
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You may like it rough, she may only like it gentle. You may discover you have kinks that she won't enduldge, or vice versa. The sex may just suck. You may have a vastly higher or lower sex drive then your partner. All of these things happen, even with partners we're really into otherwise - but its a very real deal breaker depending on how it affects the overall relationship.
/r/seduction05/07/18 03:44 PM
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I'm not trying to marry or LTR this girl. Shes fun and hot and compliments the nights where I don't have the company of a prefered partner.
/r/seduction05/07/18 03:38 PM
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It depends on the number, and it matters more for women then men. Age is a bigger predictor, and your setting yourself up to marry young just to nut.
/r/seduction05/07/18 03:36 PM
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Dude you're bending to her will. She's walking all over you. I guess there is a chance of pity sex, but highly unlikely.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:31 PM
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I do it in a way that let's her know I'm aware and can respond in kind. I don't do it angrily or bitterly. It only works if does have some attraction to you or slight history with. I wouldn't do it to a girl I've only had 1 date with. Just calling out her bullshit is usually the right answer, but how you do it is key.
/r/seduction05/07/18 03:02 PM
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I think you're mostly right, but your not following through on the benefits of your strong text game. If a hot girl texts you back after you ghost, you can call her out or act like nothing happened, but do it to illict a stronger emotional response in her and make her value your time more. I have one girl I've seen a few times who does this, I'll call her out on her late replies (playfully, but driving the point home), reghost, and wait for her to text me something cutiesty or inane within a day…
/r/seduction05/07/18 02:04 PM
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Sexual incompatibility is a top (the top?) reason for divorce. Be safe, don't have to be a manwhore, but you should start having intimate relations so you know what you want, and what you don't. Look up divorce rates for virgin couples and young couples. You're setting yourself up to marry your first serious girl just to get laid. Are you Mormon or really religious? It so, divorce is less likely, but instead you'll likely have a lifetime of unmet needs.
/r/seduction05/07/18 02:00 PM
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Stop being nice? You fucking don't. You're confusing your being always in agreement and compliant to a women with being nice. Be firm in your beliefs, bold in your actions, and assert yourself. But for fucks sake, don't be an asshole.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:56 PM
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It's insane the amount of 2nd dates I get from no contact for 3-7 days versus when I screw up and text sooner. If a girl texts me she enjoyed herself, I'll tell her I'm glad SHE enjoyed herself, but mention nothing of if I did or not. Polite and keeps her guessing.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:44 PM
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Take her shopping? Might be risky if she thinks that's your new dynamic. Say you want a special date and her to look special for it. Depending on how you've held yourself and how you can hold yourself afterwards it could work. Compliment her looks that night and make her feel sexier then ever before. If she asks for a trip again explain you're not her sugar daddy. Again this is risky and you need to have already established a strong frame and hold it stronger after. AFTER, you could also randoml…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:41 PM
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I second that. Asking a random cute girls advice on clothes or cologne, worst case you look better and improve your comfort level. Best case, you get a # or date. Don't be afraid to ask for either one it it's going well.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:36 PM
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Hold strong. Be brief. It'll work it or it won't, but giving in to her demands will definitely not work. So just politely and firmly explain she can take it or leave it, as you're indifferent.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:32 PM
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I've lived my young adult and now adult life by a lot of TRP rules, but only found TRP a year ago. I don't get down with a lot of the misogyny that can flair up in here, but a lot of the advice given I had to learn through trial and error. Self-improvment, be bold, be funny, don't put it on a pedestal, date multiple women at same time, etc. So I guess that means I consider my attitude a bit different, I don't need to talk about what TRP teaches because I embody it naturally (through learned beha…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:21 PM
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You need to learn to be funny or bold, preferably both. Women typically love men who make them laugh and who take charge of situations. I'm not saying be a clown or a control freak, but a happy medium of both. It's also much easier to ease sexual or flirtatious comments into jokes or banter. This let's her know you're going after what you want, and what exactly it is that you want. TL;DR Be funny. Be bold. Get laid.
/r/seduction05/07/18 02:12 AM
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