microchipgirl Archive

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1	Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussion Who cares what the women looked like? Porn is a business transaction, nothing more. He's someone who only got that many people to have sex with him for money, regardless of freakish penis size. Again, if to men the only thing that matters is quantity not quality, and it makes you feel better to fantasize that a parade of capitalistic sex with people you don't even know is better than self respect and standards, idk man that's really sad, and y'all should cut off all contact with all women includ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 12:59 PM
1	Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussion Quantity over quality, got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 07:54 PM
2	Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussion And in what universe is 1500 partners a good thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 02:51 PM
2	Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussion Because the porn industry loves freaks	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 02:51 PM
1	What it means to be settled for sexually You might be thinking about cam-girl stuff (... which is still run by men behind the curtains). I'm talking about the pickup vans and casting couch shit, but then again, it really is all of it. Just because it "stars" a woman doesn't mean it's created by her. It's very much the men calling the shots there, it's created by men and for men, and it shows. Women in porn geared towards men have internalized misogyny otherwise they wouldn't be doing it. Again, a terrible example of "good sex" that way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 07:29 PM
1	Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad advice Sources?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:29 PM
1	What it means to be settled for sexually Well porn (especially porn created by men) is a TERRIBLE example if you're trying to determine or demonstrate what emotionally connected sex looks like, considering it's just a performance for strangers, often of people who are literal strangers to each other. It's actually the total opposite of what you said about wanting to satisfy each other. Try having your own experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 08:12 AM
2	The female orgasm is a myth 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 12:29 AM
2	at which point misandry starts? How is women protecting themselves against men = treating men poorly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 12:05 AM
1	If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature? Merely responding as an aside to his statement that women don't get taxed "like men" as if they don't at all. Women do get taxed in ways men don't. That is all. 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:29 PM
1	If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature? Hm. You've never heard of the pink tax?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 02:35 AM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. 🙏🙏🙏	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 03:07 AM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. People are not adopting as many kids as there are kids in the foster system. So, adding more kids to that demographic will not only not solve anything, it will create more problems. The solution is that abortion needs to be completely legal and accessible to all people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 03:07 AM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Sorry I didn't come back sooner. So, you shampoo. Do you use conditioner or other in-shower treatments? What do you use after the shower? At what stage are you using them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 03:00 AM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. Welp with the recent election this is going to become a lot harder for women overall. So, the problem not only still exists, it is now on it's way to worsening. Any suggestions for people who cannot get abortions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 02:58 AM
1	Is it wrong for men to only love based on the condition of celibacy? So it'll be just women, not kids 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 03:56 AM
2	Is it wrong for men to only love based on the condition of celibacy? Yeah so my step-dad who my mom married when I was 3 had the same mindset. He resented me bc I so resembled and was a reminder of the man who "got her first" and he took it out on me in the form of fists and belts and worse until the cops finally took him away when I was 15. If you want to be a budding abuser of women and children, continue on the path you're on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 03:48 AM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Without knowing your hair type: Frizzy hair is curly/wavy/textured hair that isn't moisturized enough. What's your current routine? Products and habits, how do you dry and wear your hair, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 01:08 PM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. There are plenty of girls and women who have wanted to and were prevented from obtaining said abortion, through legal and illegal/unethical measures. Girls and women, today, are still being prevented from accessing abortion services in a lot of areas of the US (not sure of the rest of the world). How can we make it 100% legal and accessible to obtain safe abortion services and Healthcare, worldwide?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 11:03 AM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. considering almost all child abuse is commited by women. Where are the studies showing this statistic please? Authentic request, no snark	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:55 AM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. Abortions like... The illegal kind?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:44 AM
1	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. We are forcing unwilling women to give birth to kids they did not intend to have. Unwanted kids tend to grow up in poor homes and with abusive men (stepfathers). If we say abstinence is not the solution, how do we prevent kids (or significantly reduce the number of them) from growing up in abusive and/or poverty situations?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:41 AM
0	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. He should make better decisions than to have multiple children with multiple women. We don't like when women do it. Why continue to make it okay for men to rampantly impregnate and then abandon multiple women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:31 AM
3	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. I was ridiculed in the mid90s for being "too wet" while another girl in the group was ridiculed for being "too dry" and this was started by the boys we were going out with and their friends, who also made roast beef jokes about others... However I didn't hear my first instance of small penis ridicule until after 2000. I'm certain genital ridicule existed long before any of that. We're all going to have our own experiences about this that shapes our perception of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:13 PM
3	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Off topic but: It's not constructive advice as there's nothing actionable for us here, and it's not actually advice to anyone here. 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:32 AM
1	Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general? I actually had a guy I was dating literally tell me about this exact thought process, that he struggled with thinking that any girl, including me, who liked him must have something wrong with them in order to like him. It was a bit wild to hear, because I had always felt the same about myself. And in the 14 years since then, I've observed that a lot of other guys seem to feel this same way, even if they don't say it. I'm not sure about other women feeling this way, but they def have other weird …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 03:07 PM
0	Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general? Not that I really fall into that demographic of women necessarily, but there's a huge difference between getting ready to go to, like, lunch and shopping with a couple of friends vs getting ready for a date with a guy you think you might fool around with. Like I'm not concerned about matching my underwear, lining up my landing strip, or just all around looking attractive when I hang out with my friends. If I'm gonna hang out with my friends, I just need to brush my teeth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 03:03 PM
1	Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general? I wasted so much time in my 20s with hours-long primp sessions before seeing guys who in hindsight did not give 2 fucks about how nice my hair, makeup, or underwear looked, or that I'd just spent 3 hours removing all of my body hair for them, and probably a bunch of them never really cared what my name actually was. This song is pretty good but actually doesn't even go into the true depths of just how much "getting ready" really involves. At one point I started toying with the idea of not waxing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 02:59 PM
2	Intrasexual competition among women is so strong that women will do just about anything to be perceived better by men Same here, a lot of times when I give advice in the heartbreak support and relationship advice groups I'm often called rude and get reprimanded for not being supportive (which to me just looks like coddling and placating) because I point out that she made a bad choice or something else, and "if you're not going to be supportive just keep scrolling" like ok then have fun trying to make it work with your deadbeat/cheating husbands instead of going to therapy or learning how to recognize red flags …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 02:19 PM
2	Intrasexual competition among women is so strong that women will do just about anything to be perceived better by men I'm confused, what exactly is hard to hide? I don't see the point of lying either, but not because "the truth always surfaces" or some weird shit like that, but just, who cares enough to lie about shit that doesn't matter? I am easily honest about my past, because I would never want to associate with anyone who would think less of me for having been through my life, and I also don't care that much about how it looks to anyone else? I actually tried to date a guy once who looked down on me for ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 02:13 PM
1	Intrasexual competition among women is so strong that women will do just about anything to be perceived better by men You obviously don't look for men on dating apps and sites. I could not believe the amount of guys I saw using filters in their pics. It's gross. Using filters by anyone for others to see is gross behavior. I mean, overall, filters are gross. They make people feel terrible about themselves for not looking differently than they do. I wish they'd never been invented.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:58 PM
1	Intrasexual competition among women is so strong that women will do just about anything to be perceived better by men I don't do any of these three things, does that make me not a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:52 PM
1	Can you be red pill and not bash women Genuine question, what is a 4th wave feminist? And what are the 3 waves before that? 🤔🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:38 PM
2	Can you be red pill and not bash women Most women really do not care that much, nor have this ridiculous "6+" rule that seems to be overstate in these spaces. As a short gal myself and as someone who used to date mostly super tall dudes (I eventually realized I hate it) my favorite height range for guys is 5'4-5'8, though the taller of that range would feel better if I were taller myself so that we were more physically lined up. Some of the shorter guys I dated were also the cutest ones (like, they had the cutest faces that I found m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:26 PM
0	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? No chance of relationship? Then neither. I would develop a crush on guy #2 (because hazel eyes are a weakness of mine) but if he wasn't interested in me then the crush would eventually fade. I would never be interested in guy #1 because he doesn't look physically attractive to me, looks like he's from a completely different culture/mindset, and he doesn't look like he has any sort of personality I would like at all. I wish men understood that just because YOU find guy #1 hot doesn't mean all wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:13 PM
0	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? Not OC but yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:08 PM
1	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? One of my celebrity crushes is McLovin 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:00 PM
0	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? I wouldn't say sexually as I am demi and it takes a bit for me to get that far, but I for sure think he looks like he's hilarious and would make me laugh, which is super important to me, and if both of these guys asked me on a date I would say no to the first guy and yes to the second. I don't find the first guy attractive at all, he's weirdly alien looking or something, and I've never been attracted to that ripped abs look. He's also missing his body hair. The second guy looks like he would w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:00 PM
0	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? On the topic of height, speak for yourself, say us women who love a 5'6" or below hottie. Same with jacked. Too many muscles = yuck. Some of us really prefer the thin lean body type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 12:41 PM
1	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? Not sure People mag is exactly an authority on the subject of what is sexy or not. Personally, I only find one person in that list attractive (and only at that younger age, I don't find him attractive at his current age), and the rest are just ugly to varying degrees, no matter what age. I've always wondered who votes on these men because they're all just so unattractive in my book. The comments on that page are interesting and I agree with most of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 12:39 PM
-1	OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money? Y'all need to stop acting like blanket statements are true. Some women find older men attractive, and some do not, and some don't care either way. That is all. Same goes for literally every other preference any person could have in a potential romantic partner. Women do not automatically become ugly as they become older either. What a sad way to view the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 12:25 PM
1	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? What exactly does that mean? Can you provide examples? I ask because your question just sounds like you're looking for any reason to place the blame for divorce on women as a whole and/or say that women as a whole don't take responsibility for things. Though in the case of divorce I'm not sure what responsibility there would even be, outside cheating? I've known people who divorced amicably, so those are "faultless" divorces, and they coparent well together. If you are talking about cheating spo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 12:19 PM
1	the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awareness But it does mean you aren’t having sex outside of a relationship. Define relationship. You are clearly using it in a different context than I. You’re looking for 1 person at a time to be with. Clearly. I never said otherwise. How?! Unless he’s sleeping with men, he’d have to LTR another woman. LTR stands for long term relationship and I'm unsure what you mean by using that term in this context. (they’re monogamous remember?) More on that below. No way you’re hiding another woman from you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 02:29 PM
1	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? I don't know what SMP means. People don't become irrelevant just because they are over the age of 35 or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 01:58 PM
1	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? It's not often a matter of "figuring it out" because there aren't always signs (when there are signs and the person either doesn't or refuses to see or heed these signs, it's often due to trauma and as such these people need compassion and empathy, not scorn). People can successfully hide their negative traits for years even from a spouse before finally showing some certain side of themselves (hello, for example, have you never heard about people who come out as gay after years or even decades…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 01:56 PM
1	Are people with autism, on the spectrum, more likely to be asexual than people without autism, on the spectrum are? Then would that not be more a case of being autistic yet not being on the spectrum? 🤔 I love arguing semantics, even though I think "arguing" is a weird word to use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 12:55 PM
5	A lot of women have an exponential amount of dating/relationship experience in their life, which simultaneously helps them reach their full potential, but men have far more untapped potential that exceeds women when it comes to knowledge in dating/relationships. Tf?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:27 AM
2	Is it over for inexperienced men who didn't go to college? This is probably the best answer I've ever seen to any ppd post ever. 🙏	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 02:14 PM
1	Are people with autism, on the spectrum, more likely to be asexual than people without autism, on the spectrum are? There are a whole TON of variations in sexuality, and our sexuality is not static. At least not women's. I know autistic folks who are super sexual, because they are with partners they love and are very compatible with. And I know some who have a "more average" drive. And THEN I know others who, at times, have thought they are or were ace because of how they felt in past relationships. (I am one of those). Turns out, if you're not into your partner as much as you think, or if you don't like the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 04:03 AM
3	Are people with autism, on the spectrum, more likely to be asexual than people without autism, on the spectrum are? If autism is the spectrum to which you're referring, then one cannot be non-autistic and still be on the spectrum. That is all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 03:48 AM
1	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? Absolutely! Not just dating but married. Go into the relationship advice groups of fb and take a poll on whether women are dating or married to men they don't find physically attractive. I did that exact poll 2 summers ago in one such group and was saddened by the near unanimous answer of "yes, I am with a man I don't find attractive". I furthered the poll by asking "why?" and the most common 2 answers were either that he was nice to them and they decided that was enough, or that he'd been someo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 05:56 PM
1	the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awareness Monogamy is not mutually exclusive with being in a relationship nor does it mean waiting until marriage to have sex. You can be monogamous and single. You can be monogamous, single, and have had sex in the the past. You can be monogamous and in a relationship with someone to whom you are not married. You can be monogamous and in a relationship with a man who is sleeping with one or more other people. You can be monogamous and never have interest in getting married, regardless of your relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 04:32 PM
2	the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awareness Don't worry, I don't either. I can't understand how the term "tiktok famous" can even be a thing cause it sounds like the most brain dead shit ever, and I'm so glad I'm too old for all of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:47 AM
1	the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awareness Of course they can. Men can't keep it in their pants, even when they're married. Scroll up a bit and see the comments talking about how men need variety even when they have a very beautiful partner. I've seen comments from many guys over the years saying they expect their future wife to be completely monogamous for them and shd must accept that he will still fuck other women. It's disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:44 AM
1	Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine? Those things you mentioned are part of what makes up compatibility. You can't be "compatible but there's no mutual attraction in this area or another" that's just "not compatible"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 03:00 PM
1	CMV You will never get pump and dumped if you make a realistic pick of men when you consider youre Partners. She never said "hot men never lie/would never lie" she said "they don't need to" in order to get sex from many women, because many women are willing to have sex with them already. It's not a complicated thing, what she said. You took what she said and ran to the extreme, and right now I'm too tired to remember the name for that behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 04:27 AM
1	CMV You will never get pump and dumped if you make a realistic pick of men when you consider youre Partners. Er, don't want to hear what? I mean of course no woman wants a man to tell her he thinks her vagina is "weak" any more than a man wants to hear a woman tell him she thinks his erection is weak or penis is small (basically nobody wants their genitals to be insulted, especially not by someone they were intimate with!), but women are absolutely waking up to pelvic floor health (which doesn't always mean kegels, there are actually many folks suffering from their pelvic floor being too tight and te…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 04:25 AM
1	Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks? I'm with you on the concept of keeping things clean during the day-to-day so that the deep cleans aren't needed so often. Again, if I lived alone (💭💸💸💸💔) it'd be totally different. I'm envious of how quick and simple your cleaning processes are. I also agree with you that my system isn't efficient, which kills me, but I live with a family member who's somewhat not able to live on her own for a variety of reasons that all trace back to mental illness, and with that comes living with her slovenly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 04:08 AM
–	It feels like many women believe they're better than men in general. I mean, I've never raped a man, so yeah. And I don't think a man who doesn't like me owes me sex just because I was nice to him. I don't feel entitled to a man's body and emotional labor. It's hard not to feel like men are somewhat "less than" 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♂️ Fully recognize this is the mood I woke up in and someone's gonna come after me for this, but fuggit	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 12:32 PM
1	Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks? 😔 That sounds horrible. I'm sorry your marriage isn't going well. I hope you leave it soon so you can move on to a happier life. Nobody deserves to be abused. 🫂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 09:00 PM
1	Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks? You only wipe down your tub and sink for 5 minutes a week? When I clean my tub weekly, it gets a 1 hour soak in cleaner where I keep coming back in periodically to spray more cleaner as it drips down the walls or dries (in between tending to dishes); scrub with a brush for about 15 minutes (this includes all 3 tile walls and all fixtures) as hard as I can until I'm breathless and sweaty; clean the shower curtain liner by hand while it's hanging while trying not to get too much cleaner on my arms…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 08:23 PM
–	In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the house Op keeps insisting to people who ask about his wife that this isn't about his wife and yet in other responses brings up comparisons to his wife, as well as rudely putting down nearly every woman responding whether they fit his required demographic or not, and dismissing/saying tldr to many of the comments in this whole thread. The only 2 people he's responded favorably to are both men even though to other women he's said he won't read their comments bc they aren't specifically childless stay at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 06:58 PM
2	Sex before physical maturity & potential for consequences Jfc I need psychiatric help myself after reading through that comment history 🤕🤕🤕	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 04:00 AM
1	CMV: Normal women get ignored. Yo you got your head on backwards, 3 out of 4 women have been sexually assaulted	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 05:09 AM
–	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 You didn't answer the question. So if the dad gets kicked out, he's the victim, and whoever does the banishing is the problem, and the kid pays for it, and we should be trying to resolve that, but if the dad willingly leaves then fuck the kid, it's the kid's problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 07:19 PM
–	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 I had to read through eeeeeeverything else to find a comment with solution that sounds like not only the most helpful and sensible but also isn't bashing women nor trying to say that men have it worse in this scenario. I'm all for caring about all genders and wish we could find solutions to all problems, not just some, but it seems like most folks here (as seems common in ppd) are talking like caring about women means not caring about men and are talking trash in return rather than coming up wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 07:14 PM
–	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 Um, there are absolutely tons of modern women with 0 tattoos; anecdotally I and almost everyone in my inner circle and the circle of women who I work with, and many many acquaintances from elsewhere, have none, here in the US. The age range is 18+ (literally up to 60s and possibly beyond), with a variety of political, religious, and cultural beliefs, all modern. Perhaps "modern" isn't the demographic you're actually thinking of. Maybe you're thinking of only the under-25 tiktok-inhabiting commun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:01 PM
–	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 They can decide to put me in a war, they're adults period. Men are the ones who decided they can force you into war. You wanna be bitter about it, be bitter at men, who created all the rules. Because I can and is of my personal gain and interest, should give the opportunity I should and will. I take this word soup to mean you'll do anything that you find beneficial to yourself at the expense of others, meaning zero consideration for any other person in the world. Is that correct? I am a man in 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 05:12 PM
–	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 Do you have any suggestions as to what the solution for sorting out men's shit could be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 05:05 PM
3	There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ? Having a bf/gf doesn't automatically mean you have sex every day. Not sure who told you "relationship = daily sex guaranteed" 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:54 PM
1	As a woman why should I get married? A man to protect a woman from... The other men? Fwiw, I live in a pretty rough part of my large city, I'm older and unmarried, and I've never had trouble with men around here. I have, however, been the target and victim of men who were supposed to be "the protectors" at various points of life. So idk, not trying to be bitter but it seems like if a woman keeps her distance from men on a personal level, she's much safer. 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:42 AM
1	As a woman why should I get married? How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:15 AM
–	CMV You will never get pump and dumped if you make a realistic pick of men when you consider youre Partners. Vaginas are a muscle, if you don't work it out with kegels and orgasms, of course it will be weak. But men don't wanna hear that, they wanna believe only a virgin has a tight vagina for life as long as she only ever sleeps with them only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 04:58 PM
1	CMV You will never get pump and dumped if you make a realistic pick of men when you consider youre Partners. Nice strawman. You're all over the place trying to twist the convo into something that doesn't resemble logic though you're insisting you're the logical one. Hm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 04:52 PM
–	CMV You will never get pump and dumped if you make a realistic pick of men when you consider youre Partners. Once again putting the onus of men being horrible creatures on the shoulders of women. Fabulous. How is it a woman's fault you're a lying POS who will manipulate her in any way you can in order to have sex under false pretenses while actively disliking her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 04:44 PM
0	Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship? So, like Danny Devito? Midgets don't fall into average stat territory though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 12:37 PM
1	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? It just feels the best for me. I've dated guys ranging from 5'2 to 6'5, and the 5'6 height was my favorite. In retrospect, anything 5'10+ sucked, whether the person was nice or not. 5'8 is my max.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 08:19 PM
1	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? Yes, actually, because my cutoff is 5'8 (I make an exception for 5'9 but no higher). I don't want a super tall partner, idc how cute his face is. I'd be tempted to overlook it but I know I'd regret it I I did because a guy being too tall really does make physical stuff bad. Even kissing becomes uncomfortable at best and causes muscular spasms that last the next day at worst, as I have chronic pain issues. Plus it just doesn't feel as good to hug a guy when my head rests on his lower chest and no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 02:15 PM
1	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? 6'6? Definitely ick, no matter how facially attractive he is. 5'6 is my magic number, give me that any day. Fuck all this nonsense about stoicism and insisting all women are liars 🙄🙄🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 01:54 PM
1	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? Second guy, yes, esp if emotional connection was there. First guy, no (like majorly never). Funny how women can have different tastes, huh? A ton of these guys refuse to believe women aren't a singular entity 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:40 AM
1	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? Tf? Literally weight is not the only factor in what can make people attractive or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:29 AM
1	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? Tall? Speak for yourselves. 5'5 to 5'8 is pretty fuckin magical in my book. I've dated heights down to 5'2 and I've loved it each time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:18 AM
1	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? He looks like the guy I'm already with 💜	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:06 AM
1	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? Also, I had no idea the DINK model "required" both parties to be career-oriented, excessively or not. I thought dual income simply meant dual income, no qualifiers required. My fiance and I each make roughly 40k, maybe a shade under, and I'm fine with that so far. I don't want either of us to be so busy with work we lose focus, energy and commitment to our relationship and our own personal growth. I hate hustle culture with a passion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 11:59 PM
1	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? Literally same to all of this	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 11:47 PM
1	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? Of course, as this is exactly the type of person I want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 11:42 PM
2	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour Thinking about the whole thing where guys start out all polite and non-sexual and then in a blink turn super sexual, I have a theory, about at least some of these guys. I think maybe some of these guys really are decent enough but maybe not sure how to uh "seal the deal" I guess, like they don't have solid Game? And so they start off pretty mild but then aren't sure about how to progress, so then maybe after a few days (or hours or whatever unit of time) they start thinking like "shit, this feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 05:25 PM
2	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour But spam swiping is obviously not working, so it sounds like it's not the way to go? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 02:10 PM
6	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour A far as recognizing fuckbois based in looks and bio alone, it's honestly impossible if their bio gives no explicit indication. Before any contact/conversation, guys can look so... I dislike using the word "normal" but I don't know what other word fits. But over the years I have matched with so many guys where even initial conversation seems pretty normal, and then things can even progress to off-app/texting and after a day or so, BAM, UDP™️ (Unsolicited Dick Pic), or he just starts talking sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 02:08 PM
1	Why do women hold it against guys who are late bloomers? I'm seeing this after the body was deleted, does late bloomer only refer to sexual experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:16 PM
2	Why is it so common for straight people to complain so much about the opposite sex? pick-mes and their male counterparts. Why is the term "pick me" (as well as like 100 other derogatory terms) an inherently female one? Why can't it just be about any person and not using gender as the foundation? 🤔 IRL over the last, say, decade, I've met quite a few (estimate 2 dozen) pick mes who were men and only one who was a woman. Online it's obviously different bc social media skews female while chat forums (much less visible/out there) skew male. But the Real World Experience has been th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 12:16 PM
1	Where have all the good men gone? I also think that if one parent declines abortion, then they must be legally required to raise and care for the child. Which should be doable with those safety nets. So... If the man decides he wants the child and the woman does not, you are saying you think the woman should be forced to carry for 9 months and give birth, against her will. You know that's what you're saying, right? I know it's been like 2 months but I am bad at remembering to follow up on comments 😬🤦‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/23 01:28 AM
1	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” No, it won't. It'll will get them many years of peace and solitude, however, and that's got quite an appeal	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 09:31 PM
–	QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity? Did you just reply to your own now-deleted account?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 02:31 AM
–	QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity? Have y'all really never heard of "safe sex practices"? Ya know... Condoms and std screening, stuff like that? I don't understand young people these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 02:19 AM
2	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” No. The argument/post/demand is that "men want women to acknowledge that men struggle with dating" not "men want women to agree that men struggle more with dating than women do"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 12:25 AM
1	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” People don't need to announce their thoughts on the internet for them to be having those thoughts. Are you of the mindset that if it's not recorded somewhere on the internet, it doesn't exist? So again, I ask, what would be accomplished by a mass internet-wide acknowledgement of men having a hard time with dating? Like, me simply saying the words "yes, men have a hard time with dating" literally does not cause anything to happen; speech is not much of an action. I just do not subscribe to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 01:52 AM
2	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” Dating men only. I would get a medium amount of matches (matching with roughly 1 out of 20 people I'd swipe right, I guess that could be considered pretty good?) and of those people at least 75% would immediately turn out to be just looking for NSA hookups. Of the remaining, I would have decent conversations and get to the stages of them asking me out, we'd make plans to go to parks or meet up for food or whatever, and then either that day there'd be radio silence or they'd wait until I was at t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 01:31 AM
1	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” I absolutely write off men for being over 5'10" or for looking like a frat boy/club bro or for having a bunch of tattoos or having a pierced tongue or for having pics where he's throwing the shocker or having biceps as big as my waist. I have no shame in admitting any of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 11:03 PM
2	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” Me. I got ghosted from texts and stood up on dates a bunch. It really stung.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 10:52 PM
1	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” But what would that accomplish? Women already know that Totally Average Normal Guy can struggle with dating. What more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 10:14 PM
2	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” Uhhhh yeah male birds have to dance for mating but that's not how humans work. Otherwise, men would be wearing the makeup, and getting the plastic surgery, and being told to diet starting at age 10 and then developing anorexia/bulimia, and wearing high heels and pushup bras and other painful articles of clothing, and getting hair and nail extensions, and... do you understand what I'm saying? Non-human species have mating rituals that center around the male being the "prettier" of the 2 sexes but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 10:12 PM
1	Men are better divided into three groups, not two The problem is your personality, specifically your lack of self esteem. So you're actually right, pictures won't "fix" it bc they will just keep transmitting your low-vibe aura. The best thing you can do for yourself and future women will be getting into therapy. 💜	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 09:40 AM
3	Men are better divided into three groups, not two Bro I'm a girl and I'm telling you that you look fine, it's your "inanimate object personality" pictures that are the problem here. Even the pic of you reading (I find reading an attractive hobby in a guy) isn't great because it's so stiff and unnatural and forced. Girls want a guy with a fun and interesting personality, with real emotions and is easygoing and relaxed to some degree, not someone who looks like they have nothing going on in life and are emotionally stunted or even devoid of good …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 09:37 AM
1	Men are better divided into three groups, not two 1000000%	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:18 AM
4	Men are better divided into three groups, not two 100%, I looked and immediately thought he looked robotic and totally lacked any personality. The only 2 pics that spark any interest/make him seem like a normal approachable person are the group and cosplay pics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:15 AM
17	CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women? It doesn't really benefit women. Get married and ruin your body to provide him with children which then causes him to stop wanting sex with you while you lose relevance to the working world taking care of the family and home and helping him find the ketchup right in front of his face, so that when he cheats and leaves you in your 40s or 50s for a younger woman you're not only saddled with being a single mother (which gets shamed while being a single father gets applauded and supported) but you c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 02:31 AM
1	How are men who are finally getting the chance to date and women who have been dating since their twenty's compatible? Why can you relate to only younger women and not women your own age? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 01:47 AM
0	How are men who are finally getting the chance to date and women who have been dating since their twenty's compatible? It's not the fact that you're a virgin that induces the ick, it's the negative way you present it, like all self pitying and bitter and resentful. None of those qualities are a turn on, unless you are trying to get picked up by an abuser.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 01:44 AM
0	How are men who are finally getting the chance to date and women who have been dating since their twenty's compatible? Yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 01:27 AM
1	Where have all the good men gone? We can't automate cell tower repair, or machine repair, or working with contagious diseases, we still need pilots and shipmen and cops and such. So I am still skeptical about that. Can you explain profit sharing to me? In ELI5 style? I think part of population control would start with a major overhaul of the sex education system, and also removing all traces of religion from the curriculum (didn't something somewhere say something about "separation of church and state"??), and also just rebu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 12:21 AM
2	on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship? I come from an extensive background of trauma and didn't have adult guidance on really anything in life, I've had to raise myself and learn to do everything myself. It's just how some people's lives turn out. I also have Quiet BPD that's much better managed than it was in my 20s (I'm early 40s now) but I still have never been able to fully trust in a romantic partner enough to feel safe making any sort of life commitment. I am with someone now who wants to Do Life with me and I am hopeful that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 12:54 AM
3	Where have all the good men gone? Seriously, that's one of the ways incels are made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 12:51 AM
1	Where have all the good men gone? So how do we get more men into the teacher position?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 12:50 AM
1	Where have all the good men gone? Those aren't the actual solutions though. Each point you mentioned are complicated problems that need to be solved individually AND as a whole. How would you suggest this? A living wage on only 20 hours a week, PLUS more housing than probably there is land available for without completely destroying the ecosystem (more than we already have). And for occupational hazards, some just cannot be removed. Electricity is dangerous, but if we did not have electricians we would be fucked. So, how do you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 12:49 AM
2	on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship? Not saying I could date a person who is functioning at an 8th grade reading level either. They have to be super sharp, and street smart. I didn't have an easy life at all and have worked to the bone just to keep my head above water most my life, I don't get along well with people who grew up with lots of privilege and don't recognize it and are used to being coddled and given everything easily. If you're not a problem solver I'll likely feel like you're in my way 😬🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 10:28 PM
1	on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship? Eh. Maybe 1, max. I literally give 0 shits about a guy having college education, esp if it comes at the expense of him being a sack of shit with a superiority complex. I just want people to know how to keep house and do other basic adult duties. Some of the guys I've known over the years who have college degrees are super shitty about it, like if you haven't gone to college you're not worthy of basic respect. Fuck those guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 02:12 PM
7	Decided to play around w/ my FWB’s tinder… THANK YOU	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/23 09:59 AM
1	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? Yeah cause chads and rappers are role models to look up to... What aspirations!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:27 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. I am 5'1	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:18 AM
1	Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY. Even then (I can't even remember if I had any celeb crushes in my 20s but let's go with Josh hotnett who I did crush on in high school) I'd still need to talk to him for at least a few days or a week to build some kind of rapport outside his looks where I could develop a sexual desire for him. I'm what I call a promiscuous demisexual, I def need time to grow a sexual interest in someone but it's not that rare, I can do it like a few times a year (as opposed to other demis who say they need like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 02:14 AM
1	Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY. 50+ is not the same as "hundreds". Not even close. Literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:48 AM
1	Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY. Not me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ No celebrity guy on this planet is "hot enough" or whatever that I'd instantly be willing to have sex (casual or not) right there. Or even within a day or 2 or a week. And I had "plenty of casual sex in the past" whatever that actually means	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:45 AM
1	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? Your dick was "hard as always" bc you don't care about the person you have sex with as a person, you only see them as an object.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 12:33 PM
1	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? Lesbian = doesn't have sex with men, or she may in her early life before realizing she's gay but she won't enjoy it. So, "banging quite a few lesbians" is not the flex you think it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 12:32 PM
1	Women are attracted to height because it is correlated with fighting success. Perhaps "Napoleon complex" isn't the right phrase, as these guys were not necessarily aggressive or dominating, just... painfully obviously insecure about their height and trying to make up for it. As a 5'1 person who dated 4 guys who were 5'4 and under over the years, I assure you that it's a problem. Even one of my exes who is 5'6 had a major insecurity about his height, no matter how much I found his height to be perfect. If a taller guy acts like a jerk, he's just a jerk, I'm not gonna cal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 01:31 AM
1	Women are attracted to height because it is correlated with fighting success. What percentage of your school was made up of 6'6 guys?? Damn. I've only ever met (and I include simply seeing customers at every retail job I've had in the last 25 yrs, and strangers on the street when I was an urban public transit user for 10 yrs) 4 men over 6'4 in the last 30 years. I live in a pretty decent sized city too, not in the Midwest or something 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 01:54 AM
2	Women are attracted to height because it is correlated with fighting success. "on average very short and very tall women struggle to find a guy who will pick her as his future wife, who has options for anyone else, and isnt fetish ing her ." Yep, as a 5'1 gal my favorite height in guys is 5'6, possibly even 5'5, but those guys tend to come with some pretty hardcore napoleon complexes that make them ineligible for romance, and the shorter they are the more desperate they are for me to get with them bc I make them feel taller. Tall guys tend to like me bc (I think) they see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 01:49 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. Well, I'm more likely turn him down for his voice being TOO deep (I don't like a really deep voice) or other things that just didn't contribute to any chemistry feelings for me. But yeah, even if everything else was exactly as I wanted, I wouldn't be too impressed or turned on by his height, I'd have to really consider it. Probably ultimately turn him down. I really just am not into tall bodies 🤷‍♀️ They're not great for me. NOTHING compares to hugging a boyfriend who is closer to my own height …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 03:00 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. But..... 40% is not 100%? It's not even half? Since when does "any = all"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 02:38 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. "If" I'm as old as I say I am? Dude, who lies about their age and claims to be in their 40s when they're younger? That's retarded. But yeah I guess not, I don't date guys for arm candy or bragging rights or whatever the fuck it is 20somethings do it for so they can post it on social media. I am so glad I don't need to bother with guys the way they are now in their 20s, they were bad enough when I was that age. I'd have to be celibate way more than I was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 02:36 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. That is some retarded shit right there. I can't understand how a fuckin app that's only been around for 2 minutes can dictate a "height requirement" for dating for like the entire world??	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 02:32 AM
1	Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual? Bro, what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 02:26 AM
0	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. I'm probably old enough to be your mother, as is common with posters in this sub, and I've never met a woman who demands that her dates/partners be 6' or taller. Like, I've literally never heard any friends, relatives, coworkers, group pals, or even overheard out in the wild, any woman saying she'd never date z guy below 6' (or making less than $x or didn't drive a certain car or have a certain type of "status" whatever tf status is). So I mean, your anecdotal evidence directly opposes my anecdo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 12:34 AM
-2	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. To believe that all women only like guys who are 6+ feet tall bc they want to look good to all the other women, I believe one must possess a shitty personality since one clearly has some of the most warped thought patterns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 12:25 AM
-3	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. My cutoff for height is 5'8. I prefer 5'6 but some guys add an Inch or 2 to their bios. This post is utter nonsense. OP only knows people with shitty personalities bc he has one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 12:21 AM
1	Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual? I'm probably twice your age and I've only met one person ever who could claim to have over 100 partners (he's since been married for close to 10 years and owns his own business). Where are all these people who are having sex with over 100 people by whatever age? How do you find them? Seems like too much work to get that high; I used to be what many would call promiscuous and I am still nowhere near that number, despite having been sexually active for 26 years now. I think a lot of you RP guys li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 01:21 AM
1	Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual? Just wanna argue semantics here.... "close to triple digits" is emphatically not "100's". It's not even literally 100. 🤓 I've noticed a distinct propensity for most men, especially younger, to immediately jump to women having "hundreds" of partners, as if 30 or 50 is just too impossibly middling to ever think of. It's like it's either below 10 or over 200, with no in-between 🤔🧐	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 11:37 PM
0	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? I seriously cannot imagine a guy who openly says to a girl "I would never give up free pussy" actually then being chosen as a sexual partner by that girl. Like, I really can't imagine it unless she's borderline or straight up retarded, and in that case, is that really even sex anyone could pump a fist over? A real player who knows what he's doing isn't going to advertise, especially not with stupid statements like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 11:32 PM
1	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? The scenario you bring up is entirely different from asking "your trusted male friends if he was a good match" which would mean that they know the potential partner well enough to judge. Which is what I am talking about. Asking your friends if someone is a match as if they intimately know both your and the other person's mind and personality enough to be able to make a determination. I would never play matchmaker with any of my friends and wouldn't appreciate their attempts to do that to me. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 11:29 PM
2	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? I've never met guys who talk like that in real life, and I'm old enough to have met lots of guys in my years. I've met lots of players too, and they didn't talk like that either. They were smarter than that. The players you know are idiots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:39 AM
1	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? What kind of lives are people living where everyone around them is sticking their noses into everyone else's relationships? Do y'all live in tiny podunk towns where everyone knows everyone, or something? I would never ask or expect my friends to vet or even comment on a potential partner for me simply for the fact that they don't know the person nor do they know what kind of partner I want, and vice versa. And I wouldn't randomly seek out the friends of a potential partner to ask if they think i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:37 AM
1	Why don’t tall woman date shorter man ? As a 5'1 girl (used to be 5'2 but ya shrink in your advancing age) I've dated guys ranging from 5'2 to 6'5. I used to think 6' was my favorite height, but I was so wrong. My favorite height? 5'6. 5'8 is my max on dating apps and even that feels a bit too tall sometimes, but I have to account for the guys who want to add 1-2" to their profile stat so I can find those guys in the 5'5 to 5'7 range. I hate wearing heels but I'll wear platform sandals sometimes so I'm closer to eye level with a guy c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:02 AM
1	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given But are all those websites you mentioned not social media? And can't whatsapp/viber/etc and meetup/etc all still be used as avenues to cheat? I'm genuinely confused about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 12:44 AM
3	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given I would very not-sarcastically and very genuinely love to know of the thousands of ways to replace social media with things that aren't social media that also aren't considered avenues that could be used to cheat, especially that work for hardcore introverts who don't generally like to socialize in person. Literally asking for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 04:58 PM
1	Men: do you stop liking women in a certain way after she is 19+ years old But what if both were physically attractive in all the same ways? Would being 30 automatically make one "less than" the other? Does personality ever come into play in these scenarios? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 01:30 PM
1	If sex is so important for men, why do they put so little effort? 👏🙌	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 01:16 PM
1	If sex is so important for men, why do they put so little effort? Back in my day we called it "blossoming" and "growing into their [body part that was ugly before]" or even just "growing up" 🙄👵🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 01:15 PM
1	If sex is so important for men, why do they put so little effort? You're trolling, right? Buying porn and catcalling are SO not what any woman is going to consider "a man putting in effort" And I'm not sure just what would constitute "simping in comments" either, but if it involves the internet it's basically not real. Real effort would be calling on the phone and spending time together. You know, things that involve real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 01:12 PM
1	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? Also, sorry for this super late extra reply, but who is to say 30 guys rejected her? You don't think she left any of them? EVERY person she ever was with was the one who left? #logic	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 12:11 AM
1	Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts? We are out here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:10 PM
1	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? I've tried with at least a handful of guys over the years, to teach them how to do stuff, and they could never learn. Like, they literally struggled with learning how to finger and perform oral, and even basic kissing. Am I to continue wasting months on a guy who isn't improving at the one job he has?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 02:21 AM
2	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? AMEN THANK YOU	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 02:19 AM
1	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? And it generally has nothing to do with "body count"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 02:18 AM
1	99% of heterosexual females want their boyfriend to be taller, and a good dealer heavier than them. I filter out anyone over 5'9 but that's obviously just my own preference. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ 99% of heterosexual men want their partner to be shorter and a good deal lighter than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 01:59 AM
1	Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why? Damn, I might stop calling myself a 4 then 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 06:00 PM
1	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Yeah no guys don't actually work that way. I am the most accepting and understanding person in the world, according to many exes, yet none wanted anything serious or long-term with me. The last guy, I wanted to marry, and I was so accepting of him and he didn't like it. So. Yeah, idk. You're wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 01:04 AM
3	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? Or maybe it's a sign that he has a healthy sex drive? I'm not willing to invest a month into someone if it turns out they suck in bed either. If I'm going to commit to having sex with someone for a year+ and possibly/hopefully the rest of my life, it better be damn great sex. I don't have time to be sitting around talking to people for a month+ here and there while my body ages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 12:14 PM
1	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? Yes I specifically am replying to that aspect of DBD's comment. They are saying why can't people wait until after they are in a relationship to have sex, and I am countering that the majority of modern guys will not enter into a relationship UNLESS the woman is having sex with them Unless I misinterpreted the tone of your comment... I possibly just don't understand what you might be saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 12:10 PM
1	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? Because guys will not enter into or be in a relationship with someone who is not having sex with them. Where have you been? 🤨🧐	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 09:10 AM
3	Can you explain to me why women stop replying/block numbers so often, and how I should feel about it? Dude. Women are assaulted and murdered all the time for rejecting guys, even in the nicest way. Have you not noticed how many school shooters are rejected incels? And you're over here talking about going to a girl's house to demand/beg an explanation, baseball bats to the face, and widespread punishment. Jfc. Men block bc they're avoidant, women block bc they're avoidant and/or afraid. Accept the way the world works these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 08:44 AM
3	Average number of sexual partners (aka ‘n-count’) ALL of the data So? Honest question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 01:02 AM
2	Q4W: Where would you go if you wanted to be approached by guys (and didn't drink)? I am literally this person and I rely exclusively on online dating to meet guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 10:45 AM
1	Do Recent Events Involving a Certain Court Case Strengthen Views BPD Women MUST Be Avoided? A Potential Solution Against the Dangers of BPD Women I have BPD and am more well-adjusted and "enlightened" than most "normal" people I have ever met, regardless of gender. I say enlightened with quote marks because that is what people frequently say to me when we get into discussions about certain topics. I don't think I'm like a super fantastic superior human being but I am pretty damn decent and I treat folks a lot better than what I see out in the world around me. So, like. Idk. I don't think BPD is the only thing that makes or breaks a person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 08:25 PM
1	At this point, fat girls are even less desirable than they were before dating apps. What, pray tell, happens in the real world that women have no idea about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 10:46 PM
27	At this point, fat girls are even less desirable than they were before dating apps. "Multi-hundreds"? Honestly, where do you guys get these numbers? I'm forever hearing guys say that girls sleep with hundreds of men, and get thousands of DMs a week, and it's like... what planet are you inhabiting? Either you're well aware that "hundreds" and "thousands" is a literal exaggeration or you're totally delusional. And "only ever had a few" is the same exaggeration but going the other way on the number scale. Are y'all dudes REALLY completely unaware of the VAST middle ground in life?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 12:50 AM
1	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates I met my last serious partner there, we were together for a year, it was excellent 🤷‍♀️ tinder's not all bad. It's no different from dating anywhere else, whether online or IRL.... actually I think OLD is so much better, because I can get a sense of the person's interests based on what they write and show. (OKC is generally my favorite for this, but that site is falling out of style I think). And my lifestyle and social style just does not lend itself to meeting people "naturally".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 03:40 PM
3	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. I believe this to be 10000% true. (Although I also believe that "attractiveness" is 100% subjective. I checked out the decile scale of men someone posted somewhere on reddit, and found the 8+ guys to be unattractive to me (even if they had the perfect personality for me, they are just not my type at all, even if I can see that lots of other girls would call them hot), while I immediately saw 5s and 6s that I consider 9+ and would 100% be interested in dating. Attraction is a funny thing.... )	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 03:36 PM
1	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. Platforms are a no? What about standing up on a step? Railing nearby for safety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 03:31 PM
1	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. Hey Chuck and I are having fun, let us be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 03:30 PM
1	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. When I said that I meant I don't know how I'M supposed to choose men without going off of looks first. I will never choose a man I'm not attracted to, that makes me shallow in lots of people's eye but it is what it is and I'm not ashamed of it. Like I said, I have eyes. I don't think anyone should ever have to settle for being with someone they don't enjoy gazing at and find absolutely mesmerizing or precious or otherwise delicious. Bold of you to assume I have a father or brother, and/o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 03:29 PM
1	How much backup men do you have? I have none, I don't operate that way. I am a 4ish (some days I would say 3, some days 5) so "backups" don't exist, and when I manage to get a guy I like interested in me at all I tend to get super focused on just him. I am a serial monogamist. Which kinda sucks right now because the guy I am seeing (or fuckbuddies or whatever... idk, do fuckbuddies talk every day? Cause we do) is a super hot younger PUA and even though we haven't actually talked about sexual exclusivity I just assume from the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 01:25 PM
1	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. Could I interest you in a pair of early-aughts platform flip flops? Gives alllll the height, without the crushed phalanges 😂 I put them on just to show that partner how cool I thought they were and he immediately backed away and was like "nope, don't like this" even though they still didn't make me taller than him, only maybe the same height. He wasn't amused at all. Womp womp 🥲	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:15 AM
12	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. 🔔	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 02:58 AM
2	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. I usually do, cause apparently I'm a fucking weirdo. I almost always am either ignored, unmatched, or the reply I get is along the lines of "I bet u suck dick so good, wya?" The one guy this whole spring who actually replied nicely (said like "wow that's the best message I've ever gotten on here, thank you, I dig it, and I think you're rad!") then followed up with 2 weeks of begging to let him give me oral. When I finally agreed to meet up to see if the attraction held up in person, he stood me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 02:56 AM
1	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. I just found out last fall that I am one of these women, with almost every problem you mentioned (except the last one... I'm actually too reliant on outside help). I'd love to chat with you for a minute and pick you brain about this, if you don't mind? Not right this minute but soon ish?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 02:43 AM
4	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. Looks, yes. Tall, no. NAWALT. Give me 5'6 all day every day 🤤 Maybe even 5'4. The feeling of a man's body being nearly perfectly aligned with mine when we hug is absolutely out of this world 😍 And flip flops are my favorite shoes, so I never have to worry about a guy at that height pressuring me to "dress up" and wear stupid fuckin heels... I'd rather cut my feet right tf off than have to wear heels, they make my feet cry after 10 seconds and all my bones are grinding together and I want to scre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 02:27 AM
8	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. Can confirm. I'm in a bunch of fb groups for dating advice and yeahhhhh I have been shocked at the amount of women who say they have dated or are dating guys they don't find at all attractive because they perceive ugly guys as nicer or as less likely to be physically abusive (spoiler alert, the women are wrong most of the time). I had no idea this was a thing, but now that I do I feel like it maaaaybe explains my not-great dating history since I go for a looks/personality ratio of like 51/49? Bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 02:20 AM
1	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates My last 2 bfs were RP guys, the first one (30) made fun of me for following too many accounts and having a "low" followers count (whatever he called the ratio), and then next one (34) repeatedly brought up how low status I am/could never introduce me to his family bc he comes from a family with money and I come from a broken home on welfare... As if how I was raised 30+ yrs ago is my fault and I should be ashamed of myself. So yeah, there are guys out there who do gaf about stupid nonsense. POS …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 01:59 AM
1	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Am 40 and everyone on tinder is like "what's your snap?" and it's gross. So yeah, no, tons of older ppl still use snap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 01:43 AM
0	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Am 40, and I think the idea of factoring in social media "stats" as a measure of how cool you are (or whatever) is about the DUMBEST thing I've ever heard. I actually got insulted by someone last summer on here for having "low karma" and I was like, are you fuckin serious dude? Like what does that even mean? My eyes are rolling so hard it physically hurts. I am so glad I'm not a member of the generation that thinks online stats actually have any value in my worth as a human fuckin being. I would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 01:41 AM
1	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Am I too old for this stuff?? I literally cannot figure out what "followers" has to do with making a person dating material, or even the concept of popularity. That word only applies to kids in school. How can you be "popular" when you're between 30 and 70 and the only place you go to 5 days a week, to see the same "crowd", is your job? And then once or twice a week a pit stop at the grocery store and gas station. Like what kind of lives is everyone projecting??	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 01:30 AM
1	Is not wanting to get married always a red flag? What if we’re both childfree? Not in the commonwealth of MA. There's no blanket automatic alimony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 10:27 PM