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You can debate gender dynamics without over generalizing about a whole gender. It’s enlightening to say the least. I agree I expected intelligence and nuance as opposed to so much unintelligent black and white thinking. Oh yeah that can be tough to navigate Truthfully im only on here during the weekends when I'm bored at work lol so it probably doesn't take much of a toll on me. At the end you just got to remember not to take it personal and that most ppl dont think this way I think something ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:00 PM
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Lol i own a house lil boy, you dont know nothin bout that And like i said, my account is linked to my personals Hmu if you bout it, otherwise im just laughing at you for entertainment until the end of my shift
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:23 AM
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but then when I send the soldiers in 20 deep you'll be begging for mercy. Pfffttt 🤣🤣🤣 you autistic pussies bately have the balls to talk to an attractive woman, I'm supposed to believe yall are goons? I mean you want to test that out? My name on here the same as my personals Feel free to hmu and we can see if your and your band of retards is bout it But let's be honest, this is nothing but you being an internet tough guy, you know youd backtrack if shit got real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:12 AM
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Lmao boy id smack you like the bitch you are Like i said you ain't bout it, never was
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:56 AM
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Im God's chosen. He put me on this earth to deal with pretenders like you And im God, and you tryna box and failing You exist because i allow it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:52 AM
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you lost a long time ago We were never playing, you have to be on my level before you can play, i just said that lmao guess you didnt sound out those words this time huh? Your arms too short to box with God kid, like i said you aint bout it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:48 AM
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See? Nothing original, you even went back to the same corny insult Like that's the best you got? Where's this smoke you thought you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:44 AM
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Lmao You aint bout it lil boy Come up with an original comeback and then you can try to play this game with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:41 AM
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Yes little one, good job sounding those words out Id pat you on the head if you were here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:37 AM
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Dudes really determined to live up to his username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:32 AM
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He said after spewing typical TRP rhetoric all through his comments You have permission to use that term when you learn to think for yourself Youre dismissed, the adults are talking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:30 AM
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By animals you mean your pets and the cute/cool ones, right? Yes How much meat have you eaten this year? A fuck ton. That's not a gotcha, youre not saying what you think here Id advise you not to continue embarassing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:24 AM
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What exactly is sad about it? Animals>people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:53 AM
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It really does. Whatever you’d thought you’d gain from coming here, you probably won’t find What were you expecting to gain? This sub is for debates about gender dynamics and so that's what happens What were you expecting different?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:52 AM
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Let’s say this woman fits most of the ideals that I often see in this subreddit: she has a low body count, fulfills your emotional and physical needs, approaches issues like team so you’re not fighting each other instead of the problem, etc. Sounds perfect But she doesn’t want children. Then we wont have children
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:29 PM
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Yupp Cornball- a person who tries to be cool and is painfully unaware of how uncool they are Every single last one of them. Corny ass bitches. Unanimously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:16 PM
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Cornballs, all of them, unanimously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:24 AM
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Probably, but if men are smart enough to know that super hero movies don’t reflect real life why do they think that porn reflects real sex? They acknowledge the actions that occur in super hero movies dont reflect real life, they still believe the chiseled muscle bound body the super heroes have is ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:22 AM
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Imma go with porn on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:18 AM
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On top of not understanding basic facts and getting upset when people challenge them with stronger arguments and actual data. They cherry pick tiny bits of data and ignore the rest of the research and then falsely represent data, and it’s just so annoying for anyone with strong logical reasoning skills and a solid grasp on realit Yea most movements are like that, feminism's bread & butter from it's inception has relied on half truths and incporrect data interpretation Different convo tho I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:11 PM
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Any advice on how to actually internalize that mindset though? It would depend in the root of why you feel the way you do in the first place Are you afraid of loneliness? Do you think highly of yourself? Do you have fulfilling relationships and hobbies outside of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:08 PM
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I mean, I don't like the potentially misogynist vibes coming through You dont have to Some of that comes from some aspects of reality, but it's really not as bad as the manosphere makes it out to be. The issue is that the manosphere isnt offering solutions. The manosphere and Tate and F&F arent wrong in their obeservations and assessments, the prob is they frame everything as AWALT and therefore women are someone men need to be wary and paranoid of The women the manosphere talks about do exist, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:58 AM
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I think dudes should be authentic and live as they want to live for themselves and then find women who are compatible with those lifestyles. It's odd to me that he had to weigh anything, as you shouldn't be performing an entire lifestyle and value system just to get women This is what ive been saying on here. It's in men's best interest to stop caring about women Be ambitious if you want, or dont if you want. But regardless of either choice, fuck how women feel about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:59 AM
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Feminists goal was not to abandon men Maybe but it needs to be noted intent doesn't always matter when it comes to results which I would argue it has and that the issue here isn’t based on aspects of feminism going awry. Not necessarily disagreeing but what would you say the issue is based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:47 AM
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Feminists tried to abandon men, and now they complain that men have deteriorated. A lot of left leaning wokeism is a reverse psychology exercise where the adherents dismantle existing norms then voluntarily restoring what they destroyed and taking credit for the supposed "progress" like they reinvented the wheel or some shit Like how theyll pretend diversity is a virtue and then complain about tokenism Or how feminists broke the system where men had to commit before sex happened. Then when their…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:57 AM
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This is not a secret and men know this which is exactly why men shouldnt tolrrate having to wait too long for sex A woman who wants you will fuck you next to immediately. If she doesnt, shes not into you, move on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:11 AM
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OP literally rejected the guy due to his n count. Some women seem to care. My last paragraph: "They just need to do what the woman in the post did: reject high n count men"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:20 PM
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If men are allowed to be grossed out by high body counts, why can't women? They can which is exactly why it's NOT a double standard There's nothing that stops women from rejecting men with high body counts, they just dont. Men and women are different and men don't have to be ok with the things women are just because it will make women feel better about the supposed fairness of the situation. No hypocrisy, hypocrisy would be a man sleeping around and getting mad at other men doing the same If wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:36 AM
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I regularly say on here it's in men's best interest to become indifferent and stop giving so much of a fuck about women If you dont invest your self esteem in women's opinions and instead choose to just do what you want, fuck how they feel, it won't hurt as bad when youre rejected. You didnt lose much It wont hurt as bad if you end up single, you never invested your happiness in your relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:58 AM
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most average guys in relationships are just doormats that allow their gfs to disparage them in every possible way in exchange for once in a month access to pussy Im an average guy in a relationship Im definitely getting "access" to pussy more than once a month, hell more than once a week What do you consider being a doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:42 AM
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I think a subset might This is my take I credit red pill with helping me get out of my incel phase, but as time goes on and i learn more, especially with subs like this, i feel as thought TRP is only helpful for certain men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:17 AM
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I call my female friends my homegirls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:31 AM
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Those guys arent crippling themselves by being risk averse Relationships and dating are a risk, a gamble, an investment, no matter what way you slice it. A good principle when investing is to not invest more than youre willing to lose Incels biggest problem is they cripple themselves by caring about women's opinions so goddam much, they do all this "investing" with their looksmaxxing and wealth building, and when their gambles fails, theyre left with nothing When i was dating i never worried abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:27 AM
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they put themselves out there with more intensity than guy friends when they've become single When they BECOME single is the key word here That's what u/termaggravating8043 is saying The behaviors youre witnessing arent their default single behavior, it's very possibly the result of no longer being committed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:38 AM
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Even better Most common guys do pretty well with women so this just affirms that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:08 AM
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I put my own stats and got 18.3% Does that make me part of the top 20% chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:05 AM
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I mean a man could give a woman all that, she'll just move the goal posts and suddenly it's not enough Most men learn the hard way you can give a woman the world, she'll just fold her arms and say "what about the moon and the stars" Obligatory NAWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:50 AM
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If she is attracted to you, she will make everything really easy for you to fuck her I want everyone who reads this to remember it next time one of yall tries to pretend like men shouldn't be wary of AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:44 AM
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Sure but there's nothing wrong with discussion is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:26 AM
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They don’t, and some men are enraged at that fact Those men dont get women so what's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:16 AM
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Yupp, your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:18 PM
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I don't want anything but if you mean men in general then yea, something akin to that would be helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:16 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:14 PM
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Well i mean not give a shit as in be indifferent Same way women do men. Women dont obsess over men, the women on here never skip an opportunity to remind us. And this isnt a bad thing given that these women appear to be much happier then men. I simply think men should do the same. As in stop crippling yourself over women's opinions of you. Stop modifying your behavior and doing things you dont like for the sake of women's comfortability. Stop taking it as a blow to your ego if some random girl d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:53 AM
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Use the magic box in your pocket to peruse millions of nudes and pornographic content freely offered by women instead of creeping on women at the beach and the gym. Instead of peering down women’s shirts at work. Instead of following strangers around stores or screeching at them from moving cars. Instead of sending dick pics and constantly trying to get the attention of women who have other things to do. Ok Men’s sex drive isn’t women’s problem anymore than men’s appetite is. No one said it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:32 AM
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I addressed this already Things going bad for women isnt evidence that that somethin is bad unless you think the definition of a bad thing is "affects women negatively" As for the obsession with women ive already addressed this as well: men need to stop giving a fuck about women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:24 AM
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Do you mean women i specifically have a romantic interest in? Well chances are if I have a romantic interest in them then theyve already showed me theyre deserving of the kind of treatment my mom and sister are. So yes If youre talking bout women in general, i treat them as i would any other person: indifferently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:24 AM
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Policing anyones thoughts is a pointless endeavor. Focus on behaviors. I only focus on behaviors. Im not policing thoughts, she asked what men would like, i answered Men liking it doesnt mean women have to do it so i fail to see where the policing comes in
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:20 AM
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My relationship with my mother (and by extension my sisters and platonic female friends) are what i credit with preventing me going full blackpill My mother made sure to teach me not to be a fool, women are just as capable of malice as anyone else But because i had examples of good women in my life, when i came across these malicious women, sure i still ended up bitter and angry but i never felt AWALT because i had examples of women who aren't like in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:17 AM
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Can be? Sure, lots of things CAN BE bad But it isnt a bad thing in it of itself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:32 AM
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You too For what it's worth i feel as though both our points got muddied because we were both replying to other's comments as opposwd to directly stating our opinions ourselves Im open to civil discussion if you are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:54 AM
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You don’t have to delete shit to argue in bad faith Wasnt aware and that was not my intention, i was only tryna tack on points i intially forgot upon hitting reply Ill avoid this in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:44 AM
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And you’re not slick. You are going back and editing all the replies to me after I’ve replied to them. You’re not debating in good faith at all. All my edits were me adding extra points, i havent deleted anything so my original points are all there black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:38 AM
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@ me next time And yea youre not stating what you think you are here, especially since you removed the context Random user: what is that men want? Me: for womem to stop giving men a hard time about their fixation on looks and sex Random user: those fixations negatively affect women Me: so keep viewing them as bad things if you want. If women dont give a shit about men, men shouldnt give a shit about women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:27 AM
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YOU just claimed women should not see men’s fixation on look and sex as bad. I never said they SHOULD do this, i was asked whta men want from women and that was my answer I was then told this negatively affects women to which my reply was quite literally "then go ahead and keep giving men a hard time about it". Im saying you dont HAVE to view it as a good thing, but you want to know what men want and that's it I never said anything on what women should or shouldnt do. If you want to continue vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:16 AM
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Oh i see the issue, you think men not giving a shit about women is a bad thing Youre defining bad thing as "negatively affects women" It's not. Men shouldn't care about women, and that's perfectly all right Your really contradicting yourself😂😂😂 Where? Youre saying fixation on looks is a bad thing because it negatively affects women, but men dont need to carw about women's feelings. So men doing what thwy should do (not give a shit about women) is ok It's only a contradiction if you define "bad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:43 AM
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You do understand those components lead to behaviors that negatively affect women right? So? So what’s your point? Ive stated the point twice now but ill branch off it Men dont need to give a shit about what negatively affects women. Men dont need to adjust their behavior for women's comfortability. Doing things the way women like doesnt get men what they want, so they dont have any reason to do things the way yall like I just states this. Women do not and are not going to adjust their behavior …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:36 AM
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They dont have to do anything but stop acting like men's fixation on sex and looks is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:23 AM
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It’s miserable for girls and inconvenient for many women. Ok so keep men a hard time about it if you want. You asked what men wanted and i told you I mean realistically whta is it you would like men to do? Lots of things are miserable and inconvenient for men, doesnt mean women are about to adjust their behavior so why should men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:50 AM
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It isn’t news. Men’s fixation on sex and female bodies is well known to girls and women. You said that was anecdotal. He provided evidence that it's not What do you expect women to do with this information? Stop giving men a hard time for their fixation on sex and female bodies. It's not a bad thing. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:25 AM
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I’m unsure of what information you’re actually trying to convey here. What is the purpose behind “women can’t possibly understand”. Do women need to understand? What is the purpose of learning anyone's perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:05 AM
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but the motivation for existing for most people isn’t access to sex. My point exactly The only ppl who exist purely for access to sex are simps. Whom Taint claims not to be one of yet he saids simpish stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:09 PM
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But I think if certain men take women off of it, they wouldn’t feel any motivation to do anything. Then they weren't going to do well in a position of power any way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:03 PM
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It's both simpish and true. Then Taint needs to stop tryna dunk on simps like he's not one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:58 PM
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“Woman/women are the ultimate symbol of status for a man.” -Tate Tate says things like this and then has the nerve to try to talk about simps What could be more simpish than pedestalizing women to the point of making them "the ultimate symbol of status" for men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:53 PM
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Im 5'4", the height thing was always a bit of nonsense to me Again not because it's not true, ive been turned down plenty of times for being short But i believe in seeing ppl as individuals not as part of a collective, at least to the best of my abilities The general statements TRP makes are supposed to be a guide. You apply it, sprinkle in some nuance based on the individual woman in question and voila
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:02 AM
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I discussed this the other day, it's some of these ppl take shit too extreme Like to give the devil their due men are generally more attracted to younger women but these guys turn that into "if youre over 30 youre fucked" It's the same thing with the height preference. Theyre not wrong by pointing out women generally prefer taller men it's just they take that and turn it into "if youre not 6 feet tall youre fucked "
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:23 AM
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There's no such thing as too high standards and that goes for either sex The only thing is understand that if you cant find someone who meets your standards it's not a sign that there's something wrong with the opposite sex Again that goes for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:48 AM
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Some guys just like em older, it seems 🤷🏻‍♀️ my husbands brother married a woman 7 years older. I do like them older admittedly lol When i was kid 2 of my biggest crushes were susan sarandon and julianne moore and they both got 40-50 years on me. That isnt to say im attracted to them exclusively, I still find women my age or a few years younger attractive Just for one reason or another ive always gravitated towards older
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:41 AM
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little over 5 year difference. 6 years briefly before our birthdays lol Same lol my wife is 7 years older, there's like a 2 month window between our birthdays where she's only 6 years older lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:34 AM
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Indeed The issue is the way they interpret things they jump straight to negative Redpill says "women prefer taller men". This is true. Incels take this and turn it into "if youre not 6 feet tall youre fucked" Redpill says dont be a doormat. Incels take this and turn it into "be a scathing jackass from the jump"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:21 PM
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She is in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:30 AM
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Been married to a wonderful loving wife for 10 years. Isn't that what you guys sorely desire Also married, TRP was very instrumental in helping me The epiphany was realizing red pill is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:34 AM
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Yes women are not a monolith On to the next one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:04 AM
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Then they would my spend their days shit talking ‘simps Um they do? last thing incels do is put themselves around women for extended amounts of time, they’re online angry at chad,calling for apocalypse, and repeating that ok Cupid True but doesnt negate the point. Liking women has nothing to do with you getting laid so the idea that incels arent getting laid because of misogyny is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:43 AM
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Unsuccessful men can fix this problem not by improving but by doing what they want women to do I actually encourage them to copy what women do: Stop giving so much of a fuck about the opposite sex and relationships and find happiness outside of that Of course if you come across a woman you like and she likes you do your best to make it work but men really need to stop crippling thenselves by caring about women's opinions on them so much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:11 AM
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Maybe speak for yourself. Maybe they should speak for themselves too. Women do this too. Should all opinions stated here be prefaced with "me personally..." Genuine question, i often find myself doing this simply to avoid this conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:54 AM
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Why not focus on things that will actually make these men’s lives better? Agreed. The solution is to teach men not to care about women If these guys stopped wrapping themselves up in women's opinions of them theyd be a lot better off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:17 AM
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If there's no official commitment made I dont expect a woman to be seeing me exclusively and vice versa So it's not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:31 PM
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I'm just making the point that we have an oversupply of essentially useless men. Possibly There's nothing they can do about it. They can't self improve their way out of it. Not disagreeing the issue is everyone thinks these men should just accept this and i dont see why they should. However they react to this is perfectly ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:27 PM
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didn’t give a fuck what anybody thought of them and just lived their lives we would all be a bit happier This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:15 PM
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Simply put, we starting to have a pile of men who simply aren't as useful and we don't know where to put them, and women simply don't want them for anything. We dont have to put them anywhere, it's up to them to either accept their position or manipulate their way out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:06 PM
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It's only an insult if the woman's deluded herself into thinking she's above average The point of noting that she's average is to put that unearned arrogance in check
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:17 AM
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You're literally on this sub lmao, 90% of posts here are just men complaining about women Yes the sexes complain about each other, one more than the other, groundbreaking observation See my other replies, the vast majority of men in real life are going about their lives tryna get by like everyone else, thye could give less than a fuck about "controlling" women If you want to change the premise to "Men on this sub want to control women" then you have something to work with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:41 PM
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Of course I decide what is of weak character? When you (or anyone) makes a judgement on something or someone are you (or they) not making a decision? Even if your judgement aligns with someone else's, you are deciding (for whatever reason) to take their judgement as being a good one. You stated "Red pill men are of weak character" which is an objective statement If you're statement had been "I feel as though red pill men are of weak character" then there wouldn't be anything to say against that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:28 PM
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Certain specific men do yes The vast majority of men are moving along with their lives, trying to get by like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:01 PM
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Redpill men are of weak character... You dont decide what counts as weak character but let's throw you a bone and pretend you do for a second... so tf what? No like seriously, so tf what? Who gives a shit about what you think counts as "weak character" This discussion was literally had on here last week. If the men displaying "strong character" arent getting what they want then there's no reason to stick with it If youre unaware, men getting what they want is more important than women's characte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:55 AM
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Yeah MEN cant even meet the bare minimum!!!! hahahahah Plenty of them dont youre right, once again i never said anything to the contrary Im not against them being berated, im just also in favor of berating the idiots that let those lames nut in them I fail to see what part you have a prob with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:49 AM
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Abandoning kids is wrong. This doesn't contradict what i said Sticking by your kids is the bare minimum so you dont get praise for doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:46 AM
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Nope being a parent isnt an act of virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:43 AM
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So I'm guessing you're pro choice if you dont want to be funding unwanted kids? lol. Yes I also dont want to fund dirty old mens viagra or all the lexapro for the incels who cant get sex... Then why arent you and other women speaking up about it? Men dont have to stay silent about the things they dont like just cause you want to be passive And it sounds like men get harsher prison sentences because men are more of a threat to society because you guys commit the majority of: murders, assaults, ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:42 AM
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Thats why theres so many shit dads out there. And im sure the women those shit dads are having babies with are just such saints arent they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:37 AM
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This whole subreddit is 111,000 ppl out of a population of 300 million and that's just assuming we're all Americans Men by and large are just tryna get on with their lives just like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:28 AM
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Women severely overestimate how much men give a shit about them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:23 AM
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Both of my exes were basically incels. Most women aren't dating supermodels, it's literally not possible. Admittedly im not sure why you're saying this Im not one of these guys who thinks average men have no shot and that women only like 10/10 chads Is your argument that men in relationships share the aame mentality as incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:40 AM
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No, even more so. More and more women will choose this as times go on. Yes but again that only affects the men yall are already fucking Which if anything, the incels want that This is like when the Roe v wade thing happened. Incels supported it and women's response was "we should just stop having sex with men entirely" So you're going to dead bedroom the guys youre fucking and you think that's a punishment to the guys youre not fucking? Go right ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:34 AM
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women will choose a life without men Women are already doing this, women on this sub never skip an opportunity to point it out Youre saying the consequences for their actions are women will continue doing what they're already doing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:29 PM
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It's not my standard lol Im not saying the women in queston would exploit for sure, Im saying the fact that she has her own money isnt evidence she wouldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:55 PM
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the more women who have that side of life sorted, the better...right? This isnt evidence the woman in question wont want you for money Greedy ppl are greedy, they always want more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:41 AM
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It’s survival of the fittest and men don’t like that Nah when we had actual survival of the fittest yall called it misogyny Women have no hope of competing with men unless they have other men (AKA Big Daddy Government) to help them out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:39 AM
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Capitalist societies are not anarchies. The whole point of being social is that you are dependent on others for maximal success and fulfillment This probably the best answer It's not wrong to look out for your selfish individual interests But consider the possibility that the way to maximize your benefit would be to actually cooperate with the collective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:24 AM
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My dick = adds value Other dick = ruins women Make it make sense Me> other men What's there not to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:44 AM
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If you take that stance, then the increasing number of single mothers by choice and women refusing to date and focus on careers instead should be no surprise to you It never did I dont fault women for what they do because they only do what's on their best interests I don't believe women's standards are too high or their careers are ruining them But if women are going to do what's in their best interest so are men. And if doing things the way women want hasnt gotten them anything then there's no …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:17 AM
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Yupp, this is why ppl say TRP is immoral Women always respond with "then that makes it sociopathic" but at some point men have to go "yea so what?" For a lot of these guys, following this type of morality isn't gainint them anything in fact it's netting them a negative At some point men realize gettinf what they want is more important the women's judgments on their character
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:46 AM
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I’ve been here for too long and I still don’t understand what it is that these men want, and whether they actually want it or think they have to want it Funny because the men here routinely say what they want I on the other hand cant grasp for the life of me what the Hell the women here want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:45 AM
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Translation: men are bitterly jealous of the crappy boyfriend and desperately wish they could treat women crappy as well. Theyre jealous of the crappy boyfriend because she clearly was into him more, not becaus they fantasize about being crappy If theh had treated a decent guy that same way, they would aspire to be the decent guy since that's what she responds to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:28 AM
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Because morality has not served them, they reject it As they should Explain why they should comtinue following a set of beliefs that doesn't bring them what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:42 AM
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Thank you for proving my point. Becky from accounting isn’t dating a hells angel shes dating Tom a nice, good looking dude who has way more to offer than Jeremy with social anxiety and a bad attitude. It is indeed what she gets, a happy life, while Jeremy tells himself she’s with a drug lord. Oh well i thought you meant like a legitimate criminal, not a man's caricature of his competition Otherwise i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:03 PM
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It doesn’t make sense which is why you’ll often have arguments of ohhhhh these women would rather have criminals than a nice average guy! It put the guilt on her when reality is she’s choosing from her options a better man. She THINKS she chose a better man, she clearly didnt since she chose a criminal But hey that's what she gets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:27 AM
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Kulaks were wealthy landowners who restricted grains and acted against Soviet reforms In other words they were ppl who did what they want with the stuff they own and the losers got mad about it No wonder incels love communism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:54 AM
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Ukraine deserved it 🤷🏻. So did the PKI
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:19 AM
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If im being honest it's because ive done well without it so to me it would be superfluous The only reason to get a degree would be for the sake of saying i have one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:32 AM
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Women couldn’t have bank accounts in their name until the 1960s Because of coverture laws directed at men Women's problems are actually just a side effect of men's
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:22 AM
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Why can’t men have the responsibility not to lie to women and be honest about their intentions? Will that get them what they want? Getting what they want is more important than what women think is morally ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:33 AM
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I say this so much and its always ignored. Is it? I see it quote frequently acknowledged And for a group so afraid of AF/BB I’d guess they don’t actually want that either so why push for it? There's no push for it, the reality is AF/BB is already what's happening
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:00 AM
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All that happened is women realized nothing would change unless they acted as a group. If men did this youd call it misogynistic (not you specifically, women in general) Despite that i dont disagree because the onus is on men to not care about being called misogynist. I agree it's in men's best interest to work together no matter if it's misogynist or not. Fuck how women feel about it, they need to do what it takes to get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:22 PM
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It’s always been handed to men Wrong Men had to fight for the right to vote and only got it by agreeing to sacrfice their lives for the country Coverture laws were specifically for men, women only got the side effect of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:17 PM
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The best we can do is to teach them how to be more attractive but guess what? They don't want that advice, they want to act like a victim and blame everyone else. I used to have zero success with women in the past. I'm not ashamed to admit that Exactly and same. I used to struggle with women and came across RP. I took it as "oh this is how the game works so in order to do well Imma need to do xyz" These guys take it and go "this is evidence the sexual market is cruel and unfair and it needs to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:57 AM
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They are bitter because there is a clear inequality and bitterness is an understandable result. An understandable one yes. A logical result or a result that should be enabled? No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:55 PM
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i think we might be able to make the issue better Agreed Can we not at least acknowledge that a third of men being sexless isn't ideal for society? Society will be fine. It's not ideal for those men specifically. And to some degree i empathize with them. Dealing with the opposite sex is frustrating for both sides but being a male i will understand the male side more If they say things i agree with then I agree and keep it moving. But i have no problem speaking up if I dont agree And a lot of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:43 PM
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one third of men are living lives where they are seldom touched. I dont think it makes sense to pretend this isnt an issue. I fail to see how it is an issue Losers lose. It's ok when losers lose. If the issue is that these supposedly disenfranchised men will dismantle the system then theyre only proving OPs point: incels are sexual communists They have no hope of competing so their best bet is to make it seem as though the game itself is immoral and therefore needs to be destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:30 PM
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they can accrue the benefits by associating with a criminal man without any of the risk. This is a big part of the answer Womem more often than not outsource their violence to other men No need to get violent when you can call on daddy or hubby to do it for you It also should be noted women's lack of physical strength plays a part. Women attempting to get violent with men won't go well for them and they know it. Women are kidding themselves if they dont think women overall would be more violent …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:36 AM
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supporting degenerate behaviour. Partying and having a lot of sex isnt degenerate behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:16 AM
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OP is competing in the wrong contest to begin with For sure. To be clear im not saying size doesn't matter at all, being bigger will definitely help in the sense of a better reach and you can pack more force behind your punch But this all assumes that you know how to punch in the first place which let's be real most ppl dont. This is another reason why tryna point out "MmA hAs WeIgHt ClAsSeS fOr A rEaSoN" isnt the argument they think it is. MMA fighters actually know how to fight, you chubby dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:49 AM
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doesn’t justify preaching at half the population because they don’t live up to a standard that they can’t help Honestly in my experience the only men who feel the need to reiterate that size matters in a fight are are fat/tall guys who either cant or have never been in a fight and are just REALLY hoping that if they end up in one their size will be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:20 AM
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Online? Or offline? Either Would you take your beliefs that you openly admit on the internet and spout them in the real world in your job which pays your mortgage etc? I would and i have Ppl online seeverly overestimate the influence they have over others lives. Like ive said before there's nothing anyone online or offline could do to fuck with my life. Im going to win regardless Also jobs arent hard to get, losing one job just means i get another. What is the threat there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:48 AM
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You'll find that men in these communities who spout all sorts derogatory and misogynistic things from behind their anonymous usernames online know better than to do the same offline in the real world, for fear of being outcast or losing their job etc. And if you aint scared of none of that becausr there's nothing anyone here can do that will affect your life? Asking for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:35 AM
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Shooting themselves in the foot there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:21 AM
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Why shouldn't a woman fuck any amount of men she wants to and then lie about her n count to land as stable and handsome a guy as she can for marriage. Plenty of yall are already doing this, men who believe in enjoying the decline are just responding accordingly to it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:17 AM
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I disagree with AWALT It's important to recognize certain patterns and trends amongst groups but i still believe in treating individual members of said group as individuals I also dont think they're wrong on how they feel bout n count but I personally dont care for it as N count never bothered me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:32 AM
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Lol i dont care about the attention, like i said i just aint scared of what anyone on this sub has to say Sure I'm happy but you also have the freedom to judge, I'm not gonna tell you you don't It's just anyone's judgments mean absolutely zero to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:48 AM
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I've been in this sub for a long while. What I take away from it is that a lot of men here spout some very derogatory and misogynistic things about women from behind their anonymous usernames. My username isnt anonymous at all, it's the same as my personal insta I aint scared of what anyone on this sub has to say about me personally, i welcome all the smoke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:22 AM
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The 30 year old My rule is you have to be born prior to the 2000s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:26 PM
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they deem below them to keep simping for them Sort of. They want men they deem below them to stay in their place You see this being echoed by the replies from the women in this post. Men who have no shot are supposed to just shut the fuck up and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:41 AM
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The way you avoid this is by being a grown ass man about your intentions. If women don’t want to sleep with you cuz all you want is sex, you take the L and move on. Lmao i love when women say things like this Why the fuck should any man ever just take the L and move on? Because of your sense of morality? Following your idea of what is moral clearly doesnt get them what they want so why should they go along with it? This is part of OPs point, leverage is only bad when men do gain it because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:39 AM
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Yea, it's so horrible that we just want you to wash your own dishes, do your OWN laundry, remember your own doctor appointments. Dont be obtuse, men can do all these things and the moment they do the goalposts move and suddenly it's not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:06 AM
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Men, as a collective Full stop right there There is no collective The onus isnt on men to call out other men, the onus is on women to start looking at ppl as individuals and not as a collective Yall dont like when men say AWALT then dont do it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:03 PM
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Where a group is determined by their philosophy, it is entirely coherent for it'd adherents to outline their own framework. And so you pointing to those feminists and claiming theyre not real feminists is a no true scotsman because theyre still doing things that adhere to feminist philosophy It doesnt matter if you dont agree with what they do or say, if they are doing things in the name of feminism, theyre feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:41 AM
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Women couldn’t get a credit card or loan without their husbands permission until 1974 Cause of coverture laws which were targeted to men. Women's problem are usually just a side effect of men's problems, another reason why men should only prioritize themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:38 AM
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That's not empathy, you were just being nice to get something in return. Everyone's nice for something in return Even if it's just "making other ppl feel good makes me feel good" youre still only doing it because ypu get the good feels in return
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:04 AM
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If you really think it’s only one guy If you really think it's that significant, Ive got a bridge in brooklyn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:08 AM
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The link you provided has the definition i gave People want it to mean the other thint because thwy want to get the insult off More importantly, let's pretend he is correct? So what? What is he tryna do by pointing it out? Inb4 "well as a man i dont respect it"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:10 AM
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Yes i have no problem with it but I dont think the guys here who would are wrong Ive been with a former porn star before. It's fun but it's not for everybody and I dont pretend everyone should just be ok with something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:16 AM
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Then why even worry about it? Im not saying they should but i dont believe those who do arent in the wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:14 AM
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Why wouldn't a woman be allowed to decide what she does, when she does it and with whom she does it? I already touched on this. She can do what she wants. But men will react however they want as well. I think you feel like im assigning blame to women when i dont think either gender is to blame. Both parties are just doing what they want, i see nothing wrong with either. Is she not allowed to make her own choices? She is. Men will react accordingly If you're not happy with the choices she's made …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:59 PM
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You have no idea how long other men have waited lol. How would you obtain this information? I sorta touched on this in one of my replies to her "If for whatever reason he knows..." It's in a man's best interest not to ask, nor assume that every woman has slept with someone immediately before The men who make that assumption shoot themselves in the foot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:50 PM
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Would you marry a woman you had sex with after the first date? I dont see why not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:49 PM
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Damn we came to a mutual agreement on PPD I dont think we're doing this right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:08 AM
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Fair I think men need to treat each new potential relationship uniquely. To your original point, it is wrong of men to just assume that every woman has fucked a guy immediately before. Plenty of women make all men wait and if you come across such a woman you have no reason to be upset when she makes you wait. Im only pointing out that if he knows for whatever reason that she's not opposed to fucking immediately, just not with him, then it's not wrong for him to dip
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:02 AM
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"She better not have a high h-count or I don't want her." "If she doesn't fuck me immediately I don't want her." Good lord, if she has a high n count it's because she's not opposed sex early Then you come along and all of a sudden there's a "waiting" rule for you. That's what the problem is. So yea youre damn right im not bouta wait around when other men got it immediately. Again men dont have a problem waiting if they made other men wait. Pick one or the other. Either make all men wait or dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:54 AM
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Enough men disagree and get an "ick" from women who sleep around that if we really like a guy No they get an ick from women who apply different rules to different men. If all women slept around on the first date it wouldnt be a discussion. If all women made every men wait it wouldnt be a discussion. This gets expressed here all the time and the women just go "well different rules for different ppl" Cool that's perfectly fine but men are gonna react accordingly to that, if we're not the one getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:49 AM
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A woman who fucks you right away will fuck any man right away Personally Idc if she fucks other men right away as well just as long as i get that same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:36 AM
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See I do not blame people for acting in their own self interest Neither do i which is why i dont care when men complain about women only wanting Chad or making them wait for sex to ensure that's not all theyre after. Women are only acting in their own interest when they do that. The thing is tho, on that same note, i dont care for women's compaints about men lying or manipulating. Theyre just doing what's in their own interest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:05 AM
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Men who dont make an effort to please women during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:52 AM
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Because they believe women deserve equal rights and respect. That’s what it means to be a feminist. No Feminism doesn't have a monopoly on believing women deserve equal rights You can believe women are equal and not be a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:35 PM
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It's just you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:10 AM
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I'd guess that women don't necessarily want a guy who's had a lot of partners, but do want a guy who had the capacity to have a lot of partners I actually saw a meme once that basically said "I like that he doesn't have hoes but like why doesn't he have hoes? Do I have a spot no one wants?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:23 PM
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Late reply but I appreciate you offering your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:35 AM
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I do think there are solutions, and I want to understand them. But it’s difficult to move forward if the problem isn’t being acknowledged. Agreed Look, I don’t know where you live. I personally am in the UK and I am aware that (for example) in the USA there are areas which are still very old fashioned and conservative. In school we were all horrified when we learned that abstinence was still taught in some US schools. USA. East coast. Dont live in a conservative state, quite the opposite, abstin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:45 PM
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In terms of the whole thing about just being one voice and therefore not making a difference, if several people in a group call someone out then it makes more of a difference. Usually in this kind of circumstance there will be guys that feel uncomfortable but won’t speak up. If someone else speaks up though, they start to speak up and agree. Maybe. I'll apply this more to my real life then. On the vain of Not All Men - I know men who would read what you’ve written and very clearly be able to pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:06 PM
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Feminism is huge - not all feminists are saying the same thing - but no it’s not all half truths Again different convo degrading to women. RP stuff is truly vile, when women try to explain why it’s misogynistic RP men switch off. They can’t see past a set of very rigid wildly inaccurate beliefs Ehh we'll just agree to disagree on RP i guess. It was extremely helpful for me, Ive had better relationships since i came across it. And i still acknowledge that it needs more nuance and try to incorpora…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:36 PM
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but they can’t treat women however they want and decide what we should and shouldn’t have to endure. I didnt say yall have to endure it. Men are going to do what men do and women are going to do what women do. No one gets to tell anyone how to behave Again certain behaviors will get negative results. And for those who dont want negative results, we encourage them to act a certain way. But others wont care and you have no control over that There is no justification for men to decide what does and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:00 PM
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So you are saying “not all men”, while simultaneously making sweeping statements about women that are, I’m afraid, simply inaccurate I dont believe in "all women" im saying the women who say "all men" get met "all women" as a response I dont do that, I'm explaining the logic of the men who do Men don’t get to decide the parameters of how women are treated. They can try, and see how far it gets them romantically, but I suspect not far No we do, that's the thing. You dont get to tell ppl how to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:04 PM
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I don’t think anyone is saying we want men to police other men’s behaviour. We just want men to stop treating women badly. Each individual man has a responsibility to not mistreat women Most men dont mistreat women and yet they still get lumped in with the men who do. That's my point. And there are definitely women who will tell men it's their job to call out shitty men. They think it's men's job to call out shitty men but they also dont want men to set the parameters on which we do the calling …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:45 PM
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For example abuse or mistreatment is often said to be because of the woman’s poor choice in a mate. When it’s the man who did the mistreating. I think this is more of a defense mechanism because women use these bad experiences and go AMALT. Women tell men it's our responsibility to keep these horrible men in check and it's just like no, sorry ladies it's not our job. But then women will tell us it's our fault these men exist because we refuse to put ourseves in harm's way to take care of these g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:12 AM
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RP men just don’t take any accountability. What accountability? What is RP responsible for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:39 AM
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I love the women on here tryna answer for men like yall understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:24 AM
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Women aren’t out with pitchforks demanding commitment No but yall sure as fuck wont shut up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:01 AM
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That's nice. Address them, im not one of them If theyre claiming to not care about women but still complain clearly they still care. If men didnt care theyd handle rejection much better because it wouldnt bother them so bad a woman doesnt want them Women are taught to be happy without men, idk what's the issue with teaching men to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:46 AM
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It's not on women to solve The solution is to teach men to stop giving a fuck about women. Dont worry about how they feel or what they think of you, do what you want regardless of what they have to aay about it Men who put women on a pedestal make themselves miserable because they twist themselves in knots trying not to look bad to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:31 AM
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shaming people for exercising those rights. And? It's ok to shame ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:27 AM
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The fantasy for men of stealing a girl is real Lol im a hiphop head and a few fans and I in a FB hiphop group started talking about this The punchline in rap songs is never about getting a girl or even a lot of girls, it's always bout taking YOUR girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:30 PM
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Hard to say as there's prob a number of reasons but i would assume competition is the most obvious answer I often say incels are basically sexual socialists. They have no shot of competing so their best bet is to make it look like the game itself is immoral. Ironically you can also get the other end of this spectrum, the Derrick Jaxn type guys who try to prop themselves up as the "proper" way of behaving as a man. Theyre the equivalent of "im not like other girls" women I suspect another reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:03 AM
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Yes, i dont believe in looking at people as part of a group, i look at them as individuals So if i dont respect you it's not because you're a woman, it's because you haven't done anything to deserve my respect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:32 AM
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I swear women are thinking men are misogynistic and hate filled to women but in reality we are just treating them the way we treat other men and how men treat us lol I always tell women if you really think men treat you bad you dont want to know how men each other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:28 AM
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There is a difference between having a reason and having an excuse. Excuse implies you aren't responsible. Assholes can have reasons, but they don't get the luxury of excuses. Ahh my bad, thanks for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:57 AM
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Having a reason for being an asshole doesn't excuse you being an asshole Yes it does, some ppl deserve you being an asshole to them Not that what she described is one of those situations, but there's certainly times where it's necessary to be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:57 AM
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I get not wanting to be creepy This was it for me in my early dating years, i had cripplingly intense self esteem issues that caused this fear to set in Cant speak for other guys but that was the readon it was so difficult for me at one point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:29 AM
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People will always, in any way, prioritize their romantic relationships over thier platonic ones. I mean this isnt a bad thing 2 of my closest friends are women, when they or I have been in relationships we certainly prioritized those but neither of us ever felt as though the friendship had been diminished. We still hung out and talked as much as we always did, we just hung out and talked a lot more with our partners The times I've had to end friendships with women in the past aftet they got boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:19 AM
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And even when a women is single its usually by choice because the guys are just not up to her standards This is a contradiction. She would be in a relationship if she had the ability to obtain the kind of guy who meets her standards She doesnt have that ability so she has no choice but to default to single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:06 AM
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never grow or move forward? What do you think theyre doing when they stop being friends with said women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:02 AM
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We do Women just call us misogynists when we do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:57 AM
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I look at it very simply: if your politics are ultimately a threat to me and people I love, I absolutely see you as an enemy If you attach your identity to ypur politics then any counter your beliefs will be seen as a threat to you. In reality it's a cop out to avoid having your views challenged. So to put it simply if you object to someone's political by going "you're just racist, homophobic, sexist, etc." Then understand in that moment you lost and dont deserve to be listened to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:29 AM
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he's that high-value, he can go elsewhere. He will
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:04 AM
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As long as that resentment stays mild and they don’t fall down the incel rabbit whole, they aren’t incels. Sure but where's the line between mild and too far down the rabbit hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:03 PM
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Men's fears of being called a misogynist for having preferences in women are entirely made up. No it def happens but the onus is on men to not care If your preferences makes you a misogynist be a misogynist then, nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:19 AM
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What is this collectivism - do I blame you for the fact that Afghani men beat the crap out of women? Do we also need to blame white people for slavery? I dont do collectivism and this is actually the arguments i use as to why so it seems we agree with each other generally lol The first part shouldve been directed more towards the original comments, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:41 AM
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instead of conquering the world and slaying poon like they are supposed to. Women called this misogyny, blame yourselves The men who dont care about women's feelings are still doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:28 AM
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Dope i have 3 of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:32 AM
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How odd would my sentence sound if I said two males chatted me up. It’s correct, but sounds ‘off’. It wouldnt sound off at all, it just means 2 males chatted you up What's odd about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:29 AM
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Why give them what they want? Why did men allow feminism if it's so detrimental to society? Honestly your guess is as good as mine, ive often said men shouldn't care about how women feel but alas I pose this as devils advocate. I think most of this is just a natural progression of techno capitalism Agreed. I credit feminism with the encouragement of dropping gender roles which i think is beneficial but id say most of the current dynamic between the genders was inevitable the more society progres…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:12 AM
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Let's take this a little further...why did men allow the society become one in which men are generally an option? Because women said anything otherwise is misogynist Maybe it is valid to think men are not living up to their duty? What are their duties? Who decides that and what gives them the authority to make that decision? The fact that women have to work is a product of the society and men allowing the situation to deteriorate this much. Women have to work because it's what they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:51 AM
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But if she settles for the beta will she be happy? If she doesnt want to settle that's fine, just as long as she doesnt start acting like there's something wrong with men (ie "where are all the good men") just because she doesnt have the ability to get the kind of guy she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:15 AM
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You’re pivoting the point. Because sex was easy up front the man will secure the LTR for more easy sex but will look for different women he’d like to date long term. This was the part i was confused on, i think i understand better He already saw her as easy so he wifed her for the pussy on tap while looking for something better Not all men think that way but it’s a risk and there’s a middle ground. Like oh well Men take risks all the time Agreed. That's why i was clarifying, i see nothing wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:53 PM
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1974 banks could refuse to allow women to open an account in their own names. Refusing doesnt mean they werent allowed, it just meant banks had the freedom to choose who they do or dont do business with. Perfectly acceptable Besides, the banking issue came from coverture laws that were against men. Banks were wary of giving accounts to women because legally speaking they couldnt hold women financially responsible. If the woman took out a loan and didn't pay it back you had no legal discourse bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:26 AM
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How is a man supposed to know that? He doesnt. Im just saying it's possible she was only easy for you because she thinks youre hot or whatever. You might not think it's likely that's the case and so youd rather not find out otherwise. That's ok. Just saying it's a possibility is all It’s everything that happened BEFORE the relationship. Funny how women think that’s the end all be all We're not talking bout before the relationship, if her being easy bothered you you shouldve just pumped and dumpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:17 AM
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Yes but if she’s too easy then guess what? She could be easy to everyone. Yea she could OR she could just be easy for you and you only And a man will never know the truth so you have to present yourself as a woman at all times Even when in a relationship? So you dont want your gf to be easy for you? You want to still be jumping through hoops for sex even after youre already in a relationship with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:23 AM
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You can come off as easy to your own boyfriend you do know that right? But arent you supposed to want your gf to be easy for you? Isnt that the whole issue with AF/BB, that she's easy for other men but she makes you jump through hoops? Well here she stated she doesnt do random hookups and only wants to be easy for one guy so what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:58 AM
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You can come off as easy to your own boyfriend you do know that right? But arent you supposed to want your gf to be easy for you? Isnt that the whole issue with AF/BB, that she's easy for other men but she makes you jump through hoops? Well here she stated she doesnt do random hookups and only wants to be easy for one guy so what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:58 AM
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Madonna whore comllex probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:26 AM
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Yes yes, I’ve found that most men LOVE it when I playfully remind them of how tiny their genitals are and that they have a statistically very high chance of developing BPH and impotence and I’ll eventually out live them. I mean honestly if a girl i was dating said all this id just laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:31 AM
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Why assholes? Because it works. Who care about if it makes you look bitter? The guys getting women weren't assholes they were normal social-savvy, good looking guys. Some of them couldve been, some of them may not have been And chances are the men who were didnt get looked at as assholes because ppl dont want to admit when theyre attracted to shitty qualities. But whether anyone likes it or not, being an asshole helps. Is it possible to get a woman without being one? Sure But you dramatically in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:23 AM
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It's like gezz did these guys pay no attention to who was getting all the girls when they were 14? It wasn't the 'nice' guys, it was the confident, athletic, emotionally intelligent, good looking guys. They seem to ignore that part of growing up though lol. No they acknowledge it quite frequently, it's why men encourage each other to be assholes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:08 AM
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This actually happened in Eastern Europe after WW2. A significant percentage of young men was wiped out. This left the surviving men to have the pick of the litter Yupp, it affects the population to this day. Russia for example has a dip in birth rate every other generation or so because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:16 PM
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Again, it’s not a privilege if you don’t want it. Yes it is. A white person not wanting their white privilege doesn't mean they dont have it You not wanting the privilege is fine. It's still privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:02 PM
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Nope, this is the thing it isn't a privilege to be watched, stalked and victimised because men want to have sex with you even when you aren't interested, its a form of oppression A man wanting tobhave sex with you isnt stalking or victimizing and women arent oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:58 PM
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Who was rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:15 AM
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And he's wrong. That's the point Nah he's pretty on the money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:35 AM
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it means women are punished for changing and men aren't Tell women to punish men for changing then. Why is the onus on men to chamge?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:56 AM
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It's sexist because its OK for them as men to be sexually experienced but not ok for a woman to have had sex at all. Then tell women to reject sexually expericend men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:50 PM
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If you don't want to be called misogynists, stop quacking like a duck. Ahh the duck test. This implies you know what a duck is and what it's quack sounds like. And given these comments it's clear you dont know either. This is why men shouldnt care when women say something's misogynist. It's just yall crying wolf at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:18 PM
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If that’s what you took from this I’m surprised. What was there to take from it because im searching for the part where you said something that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:16 PM
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Nah ill do what i like and ill let you know when you say something factual
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:57 PM
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The opposite Learning about it was what made me develop that opinion Im hispanic, ive had to deal with the same "race traitor" bullshit language from other hispanics Point still stands. Loyalty is not owed to your race so you cant be a traitor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:32 PM
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The problem is people thinking in terms of collectivism Terms like House N and Uncle Tom are based on some ridiculous notion that you owe your race/gender/whatever some sort of loyalty and you dont
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:25 AM
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They hit you They lied to you They cheated on you They coerced you into a sex act you originally didn’t want to do They coerced you into a sex act by telling you if you don’t they’ll find someone who will They yell at you They tell you that you couldn’t get someone else/better if you dumped them They expect you to have sex when you’re not in the mood They look at your phone or email without your knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:20 AM
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it's really bizarre, a group crying for empathy from another group that they are completely unable to be empathetic to. Quite literally what i think anytime women here want empathy from men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:03 AM
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I have no sympathy anymore for the men here. Ok? As if the women here had that much sympathy in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:59 AM
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but a woman who wants an adult male capable of holding down a job, talking, and showering everyday is an entitled bitch with high standards. Literally no one here thinks that Stop the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:25 AM
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Does it apply to both genders? Yes but women dont reject ran through men That's not men's fault and men dont have to change their preferences just for the sake of making women feel better about the "fairness" of the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:01 PM
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What gives? What gives is that it's ok to be hypocritical while dating and women need to stop pretending it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:00 PM
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Do many racists have a change of heart and completely drop their prejudices? Yes regularly Get out more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:05 AM
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If she worked she has her career so she will be fine if she didn’t, even with 50/50 custody alimony should be enforced for the very reason you just gave - you want to punish. Courts are there to stop that. Not goving you something you dont deserve isnt the same as punishment Stop the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:26 AM
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A lot of women want you to be vulnerable enough that she feels connected, but not so vulnerable that you're actually out of control Yes but this is why men dont believe women when women say they want a man who's ok showing emotions Because we know the teuth which is that women want men to perform emotions the way THEY want. Men dont get to authentically feel how they feel. Sure it's ok to show your emotions to a woman as long as the woman in question thinks it's appropriate and apparently she al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:42 AM
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Jesus christ, you guys really do have very selective reading comprehension don't you? Everyone's reading your comments fine, theyre just following them consistently Try being consistent, it really helps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:28 PM
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But it's not overall tighter, just the...point of entry. Yea pussy is like a glove, covers the whole thing Anal is like a really tight rubber band around just one part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:33 PM
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I'm unsure as to what definition of gaslighting you are using. I wouldnt call it gaslighting, that implies it's something women are doing to men I think tho that because of lot of men are often confused by the way women express themselves, as it often feels contradictory, like the original commenter said, sex is just more direct You see a common complaint is falling into the dreaded friendzone. "What do you mean youre not into me? I thought because we constantly talk and laugh and hang out that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:36 AM
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Would it be equally wise to avoid men with promiscuous pasts? I say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:20 AM
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This just makes me like men even less. Im sure the male population is devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:50 AM
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But I can’t understand how being the same height as the median of men dooms a man to a life of celibacy and being mocked and abused by every woman he comes in contact with. Im 5'4" Used to struggle with women, not so much now. I eventually realized me being insecure about my height was a bigger problem than the height itself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:53 AM
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Guess it depends on how much you cater Even if youre a woman you still wont make tons unless youve got a decent following on social media and frequently create content
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:28 AM
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Ive done sex work before, i used to have an onlyfans It's possible to do sex work as a male you just gotta accept that youre not gonna have a ton of customers and of the ones you do have, 90% of them will be male If i was a woman though, i would have made a lot more money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:08 AM
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I dont think it helps or hurts, it's neutral. The reason why is vecause youre degree and money says nothing about how good of a partner you will be or if we're even compatible on that level in the first place If youre a 6 and you decide to get a PHD and start making tons of cash, youre still a 6 youre just a 6 with a degree and money Ive mentioned this on here before but the getting a money and a degree isnt the issue. Plenty of women with money and degrees still have all the traits men look for…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:28 AM
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Lol the only people forming lynch mobs are men but nice try. Irrelevant. Hiring an assassin to do the job for you doesnt mean you arent responsible to for the murder This is the same argument women like to use to pretend they have no political influence because most of the politicians are men. Yea, and who do you think helps put them into power? It isnt solely men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:44 PM
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I will say, the way some of the men talk can be so aggressive/angry it's too off-putting to be taken seriously. Im definitely guilty of this although i kind if just talk aggressively in general I think it's just where Im from, when i travel around the country and tell strangers where im from I often get told people from here are rude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:33 AM
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Also, women are a lot more likely to engage with you if you act blue pilled whereas women tend to avoid men who are openly red pilled. Act blue pilled and think red pilled might not be a horrible strategy actually Idk tho man, when i leaned more blue pilled i got nothing but played out. In the past few years ive leaned red pilled ive had more success with women than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:07 AM
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The comment you replied to specified Western societies You commented "the societies that treat women as less than men?" This does not apply to Western societies as they are gynocentric. No women are oppressed in any western countries, once again dont try that bullshit. If youre talking about societies that treat women worse than youre not talking about the West so yes you went off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:47 AM
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You mean the societies that view women as less than men That's not Western societies so dont try that. Stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:08 AM
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You stop acting like sex is an equal opportunity entitlement given to all men equally Perfect, and yall stop acting like women who are average and below should be wooed the way a Stacy is That's literally what this thread is about. Yall are quick to tell men not to expect Chad treatment if youre not Chad but have a big fucking problem not being treated like Stacy when youre not Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:06 AM
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This is the answer Hit dogs holler
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:23 AM
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where the hell does the idea that incels are staunch libertarian individualists even come from? Im curious too because i consider myself a libertarian individualist and often my political views are at odds with incels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:42 AM
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It's really just a bunch of No True Scotsman fallacies at the end of it, all groups do it "A REAL man thinks X or he's a simp" "A REAL woman thinks X or she's a pick me"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:37 AM
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So they don't understand flirting because they just perceive everything as flirting and have no way to distinguish between real flirting and friendly? Sort of. Theyre not used to having women even so much as interact witht hem much less in a friendly manner. So on the off chance that a woman is actually friendly with them, they assume it's because of some sort of special reason ie "maybe she likes me" Ironically this creates a bad feedback loop. Men arent used to women being friendly with them s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:45 PM
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people think gun control will stop mass shootings Whos you ppl? Im anti gun control, nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:29 PM
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Let me ask how it works then. You invite women over and in the living room is your dad watching tv and your mom is in the kitchen cooking. She says hi to them and you go upstairs to have sex with your sibling in the next room That's quite literally how I did it when I lived at home lol Im grown, I work, and pay all the bills on the house i will do as I damn well please lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:50 PM
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You can't forcibly drag someone onto your property and then kill them for being on your property. No but you can have them forcibly removed. Same principle If you want someone off your property you can remove them regardless of whether they were invited or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:10 AM
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Fuck you gonna do about it whine more? We'll continue doing what we were doing before: Whatever we want ans fuck what the government has to say Roe beimg overturned means nothing, ppl will still get abortions What are you gonna do? Whine about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:12 AM
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Enjoy your abortion ban. I will dont worry. I live in a state that allows it, even the people like me who are conservative leaning aren't dumb enough to br in favor of this shit And im wealthy enough to travel elsewhere if necessary. Your morals mean nothing. People will do what they want and that includes continuing to get abortions Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:35 PM
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God forbid you be stopped fron committing what many consider a moral atrocity Lmao who fucking cares what yall think is a moral atrocity? Your morals mean nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:26 AM
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You're expecting rational thought from religious wackos? At this poiny I just agree with them and then double down on my stance "But it's killing babies" Yes it is. Women should be allowed to kill babies that are still in their womb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:46 AM
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The masses needed to have kids to give meaning to their short, unimportant lives. There's literally no other reason. I think this is the number 1 reason ppl want kids. Most ppl know theyre not going to ever do anything worthwhile so raising kids is the best accomplishment they can hopee for
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:30 AM
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Do you read or listen to opposing view points? Yes Do you espouse their views? Not if theyre incorrect Do you limit contact with people that challenge their views? No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:51 PM
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Most of the guys on PPD are ether current or former doormats that are overcompensating for their failure to have their needs met or even be taken into consideration. Fact is, for all their posturing most of them will go right back to being a doormat if they get into a relationship. Yupp Men for the most part have no problem initiating/paying for dates, doing grand romantic gestures or any of those sorts But too many men have found themselves in situations where they did all those things and it g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:49 AM
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Sounds beautiful Also to answer your other question, yes if a man has a prob with uncompromising women he too should be a compromising person himself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:30 AM
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I believe that. Those who focus too hard on the power dynamics of their relationship screw themselves over. I dont want a submissive woman so I cant really relate to the perspective of the men who do. I want my GF to be my partner. Im human, I dont always make the best judgments and I want to be with someone I feel like I can trust to offer me a different perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:15 AM
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Honestly i consider myself pretty redpilled and even Im like yea no Pointing out the dating sucks for men is one thing. Blaming it on the rights of women is just incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:10 AM
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Dominance is attractive, but even more so when it's paired with decency. This is what i tell the strong and independent types. Theyll often chalk up their failured with men to men being intimidated by their success and independence when the truth is too many women confuse independence with being uncompromising, rude and just overall unpleasant to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:53 AM
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I'm saying that by not being dominant, you will be a bad lover. Being dominant doesn't automatically make you a good lover at all. No one said it does. Dominancr doesnt automatically make someone good in bed but tender and loving doesnt automatically make you bad. Youve stated multiple times you agree with this which is why im questioning what your point is? Like where is the disagreement happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:19 PM
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If you are a man that isn't dominant, you aren't going to be a good lover. All the women here are supporting my view. "I like both" does nothing to prove that a non-dominant man can be a good lover. I mean yeah but like what's your point? "If you want to be a good lover youre going to have to throw in some variety every once in awhile" is basically what you're saying and it's like... that's not a secret. The issue is that you never mentioned that women DO occasionally want it soft and tender. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:56 PM
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Maybe someday the disenfranchised men here will actually accept the fact that men chastise them for disclosing feelings; not women. Maybe someday women will recognize they play a part in this too. There's literal threads on here where men expressed what women did after they disclosed their feelings. It's not pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:42 PM
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I am a man and yes we do Im a man and no we dont. That was easy Men speak to other men as equals with no intention Doesnt mean we treat each other well or even so much as kindly. It's possible to treat everyone equally like shit. Intent doesnt matter if the consequences are negative. I am guilty of this as well which is how I observed it in the first place. Then this entire paragraph is you projecting When I’m interested in a girl, I desperately want her to like me and so I don’t act myself Inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:26 PM
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I doubt Johnny Depp had to resort to TRP to attract her Just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:01 PM
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If your idea of "works" is attracting a BPD woman like Amber Heard for a toxic, possibly violent, and short-lived relationship Interesting. Ill be sure to let my GF know she's this type of woman I was completely unaware. The lack of me being abused and our relationship going on it's 3rd year made me think otherwise. Thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:23 PM
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So maybe it's not about the pill but the apllication of it Which is something Ive always stated. TRP can be helpful, but that doesnt mean it is by default. Arguably the most important part of applying it correctly is getting past the bitterness phase. This is where most men fail
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:52 PM
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treat women like they treat men When we do this yall call it misogyny. Men dont treat other men kindly if youre not aware
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:47 PM
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In a relationship and also believe a good chunk of TRP TRP is literally the reason got out of my incel phase
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:47 PM
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I have empathy for the women who display they're capable of having empathy for men If not, you get that energy matched
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:43 PM
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Men never felt insecure. Men never got jealous. Men never felt out of place. I think many men feel the same about women because they feel women hold all the cards in the dating game
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:05 PM
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You only asked one question but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:57 AM
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Men just don't call women in times of distress. Whether I do or dont is irrelevant to me, I just need the assurance that if I did need them theyd be there, and theyve both given me that assurance And, you have no desire to bed these friends? I mean, have I thought about what sex with them would be like out of genuine curiosity? Sure. Do i have an actual desire to carry out these thoughts. Not at all. For one I'm with someone already but even then it's still a no. They could literally offer and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:05 AM
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Why? I have a few female friends. They aren't coming to jump start my car if my battery dies My female friends would and have. I know that anything i give or do for them will be returned. They dont offer anything I wouldnt offer them and vice versa. And that's how i like it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:39 AM
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I credit TRP with helping me get out of my incel phase I think i was fortunate in that I never went full bitter because I always had great platonic relationships with women. As much as i end up arguing with women on here, one of the things I feel they definitely got on the money is men would do a lot better if they had more non sexual relationships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:53 AM
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That is 100% the answer my friend I always say it's in men's best interest to no care about women When i say that, I dont mean go out of your way to deliberately treat them poorly. I mean dont hinge your self esteem on their thoughts of you. Too many guys worry about the hypothetical woman's opinion of them when they interact and they psyche themselves out because theyre desperately trying to avoid doing the wrong thing instead of just relaxing and being themselves. When you dont care about wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:48 AM
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I think TRP CAN be helpful but only if you learn to get out of the bitterness phase Too many dont, they instead allow TRP to exacerbate their bitterness and it only perpetuates their probs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:36 AM
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You can WORDS WORDS WORDS all you want (didnt read btw), but you're trying to defend "2+2=5." Improving cannot be toxic, It is if youre doing it for the sake of impressing other people LMAO! YOU LITERALLY GO TO PORN CONVENTIONS, NO WONDER YOU THINK SELF IMPROVEMENT IS TOXIC 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 https://www.reddit.com/gallery/v6go5y Has literally nothing to do with the discussion. Im in a relationship, all those pics i post are old. Dont believe me i can link you to my personal insta where the pics come from.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:26 PM
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If theyre doing it strictly for the purpose of tryna get the apporval of men, yes it's toxic Why? Because she could slim down and still not end up with a man which will exacerbate any bitterness she had prior to slimming down. But if she slims down for herself, she might walk with more confidence, be more likely to go out, etc. Which will improve her chances of meeting a man. Same with men. How often do you see them complain about how they did everything to level up and still didnt get a woman? …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:59 PM
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Nah this the internet. I do this shit for fun. Whether I care to rebut or not is simply up to my whim in the moment. I dont care to rebut you You can keep comemnting after this if you want, youll be talking to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:28 AM
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Im aware. Im in a relationship and my two best friend are women I've known since middle school. They dont think like that. Women who demonstrate this and that they are capable of actually listening get that energy reciprocated. I listen to what they have to say and we debate until an agreement happens or we agree to disagree civilly The women who demonstrate that they do think like that get their energy matched. Idc how they feel That doesnt contradict what I said tho. Plenty of women do think l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:18 AM
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That's cute you thought i gave a shit about rebutting you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:15 AM
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K 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:11 AM
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Don't give up on young Dem men, according to this hissy fit by a women's sub, Their reactions to shit like this never cease to make me laugh. Oh look, young men dont support a movement that makes it explicitly clear it doesnt give a fuck about them. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:44 AM
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You just summed up what ive been saying for a minute. Women make a billion and a half "men aint shit" posts a day, constantly tell us we're useless, dont bring anything to the table, we're the cause of all the world's problems especially our own, we're ugly, repulsive etc, constantly telli g us we have to pay for the sins of other men And when we go "damn women really fucking hate our guts no matter what we do" and react accordingly, now we're bitter misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:15 AM
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The manosphere keeps demanding sexual equality while punishing women brutally for failing to service Being called mean names from people you claim not to care about is a brutal punishment? Oh you poor babies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:39 AM
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On the contrary, those male spaces don't seem to be focused on helping men growing together, have brotherhood with each other and some positivity overall to improve yourself or just have someone you can share your feelings with actually they're more focused on saying how we women are the bad ones who always get blamed for everything and all problems men have same goes for those male figures who of course will rightfully end up being accused of misogyny, those spaces don't seem productive at all …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:23 AM
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And there are a lot of bitter men like you trying to show us exactly how it feels to be a man by disrespecting and insulting us. I mean that IS what it's like to be a man. Constantly insulted and disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:34 AM
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Also let’s not forget the casual sexual assault of - random men grabbing your ass/boobs/bag for no reason at work/uni/bars/public transport. For women, the possibility of strangers violating us is a depressing reality but we still have to go to work, and go to class, and catch the bus, and go to the shops to get our groceries. It’s an everyday thing in some parts of the world. This is NOT to say random physical violence isn’t also traumatic and terrible and common, just that random and targeted …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:17 AM
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Yupp, an honor amongst thieves thing. It's like that scene at the end of Scarface where he's about to blow up that politician's car until his wife and kids get in. "You think I'd kill two kids and a woman?! FUCK THAT!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:13 AM
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Doesnt change my answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:10 AM
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Women as a class are constantly socially enforced to care for others. And yet yall still manage to be narcissists? Incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:15 AM
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Im aware, the question was would I be ok with a hypothetical scenario where women did have motive to harass/rape in exchange for more attention from women The answer to which is yes because my life wouldnt be much different than now: id still be having to defend myself from violence. Like i said, the only thing that got shifted in this scenario is the violence i would have to protect myself from is now sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:43 AM
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How often are men targeted because of their comparative weakness and vulnerability? Almost always. Criminals often target people they feel they can "take on" per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:28 AM
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Way more men than women do combat sports, martial arts And I often encourage women to take part in these things You think a woman with the skill of Holly Holm's as scared as the average woman walking down the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:07 AM
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You know, behave as men always admonish women to behave and see if your risk of violence decreases. We already do. I literally stated this. "I already have to be prepared to defend myself" Men take measures to defend themselves all the time because we know that unlike women, if something happens to us, no ones going to come to our defense. It's just we don't go "Why should we have to defend ourselves?" Is it fool proof? No, youre always at risk, that's just life. There's nothing you can do to av…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:32 PM
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Yes As a man I'm already at a higher risk of having to deal with violence. I already have to be prepared to defend myself against random violence when walking down the street. So in your hypothetical scenario, I wouldnt be doing anything different than what I have to do right now: defend myself from random violence. Youre just shifting the type of violence. So this question for me is essentially "Would you like your current life but with tons of attention from women?" Easily yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:25 PM
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He's literally in the same boat as the guy waiting so idk what point this is supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:01 AM
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I swear, ya’ll try to gaslight so hard without just admitting the truth. The “boyfriend material” guys are less attractive than the “hookup material” guys. It's hilarious cause they dont get theyre literally telling guys they're going to get treated better if they act like fuckboys And then they wonder why so many guys are fuckboys or imitate fuckboy behavior And before one of you girls offers a rebuttal, yes fucking someone you dont care about is treating them better than the guy you allegedly …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:55 AM
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I am not arguing about the validity of the strategy. I am arguing the rationalization of this methodology. OP claimed it is because of male confusion. I am stating it is because men are trying to gage desire. Right, women in this scenario arent wrong for trying to protect themselves, the error is in their thinking that the waiting games is what will generate different results. In reality it causes the man in question to feel as though she's not attracted to him. Disclaimer: i dont know a solutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:54 PM
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I tell them the same thing i tell my female friends: choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:27 AM
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Lmao no one has the right to vote. Your rights are listed in the constitution, not a single one says you have a right to vote. Voting rights are decoded by the state you live in, the only thing the constitution says is the states cant base your ability to vote based on race (15th), sex (19th) or age so long as your 18 or older (26th) And guess what? Prior to the 19th amendment, women DID vote IF they met the requirements, which were you had to be rich and white. And guess what? The same rule app…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:13 AM
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Lmao i literally stated that's perfectly fine. If they want to leave they can. For any reason. Like i said, i dont lose anytjing on this situation so im not sure what point you think youre making And if i get one pregnant so the fuck what? No, like sincerely so the fuck what? If I get her pregnant, Ill be the best father i can. Whether things work out with the child's mother? Like i said, who gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:18 PM
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I mean im In a relationship, so what i said already worked so i dont have anything to complain about. Others might but theyre not my problem If she walks away that's on her. She has the freedom to do that, that's what happens when youre an adult. And if she does, I say oh well and on to the next one. It's part of the not caring about her opinion. Imma do me, she can take it or leave it, Ill be fine either way. Neither one of us loses out in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:33 PM
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What's your hurry? Do you have to have her right away? Youre not arguong against what he said. The point is that passibely dating does not work for men BECAUSE women dont ask men out. It's not "relax a bit and it'll happen eventually", it's "if you sit back and relax, absolutely nothing will happen" This is why you complain about "dating struggles" and I don't. You try to force it to happen. I let it happen. Lay down a relaxed, confident vibe that's sure to attract attention and you'll get the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:16 PM
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that doesn't mean your only option is to go to the red pill Not your only option, but certainly the best
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:10 PM
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strongly advise men who feel the need for the red pill to get out there and do what it is necessary to do to in real life make friends with the men they actually want to be like based upon what they have seen of those men in real life. I mean the red pill worked for me so I actively encourage guys to use it. If they talked with the men they actually want to be like, theyd just be getting redpilled from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:08 PM
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Lmao there's deadass a comment on there that says being tricked into sex is sexual assault 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:52 PM
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I mean it helped me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:29 PM
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Aka, red pill is women’s fault, and therefore is cool Yes actually. Unironically yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:42 PM
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Women have made it this far all on their own. LMAO. Just lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:40 PM
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If men would’ve started off society treating everyone equal, the problems we have today wouldn’t exist, or at least not to this extent. Mens grandsons are reaping what they sow. Women and men both started society together. Women seriously need to stop acting like they never have a hand in the way social customs develop
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:18 PM
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If those dates were significant in the first place, men would care to remember. Aniversaries of this or that hold little significance to men, most of us barely care about our own birthdate. So, why would we care to celebrate something that we dont even bother to remember? This is somwthing i think women overlook when they cpmplain about "emotional labor". They perform tasks like "remembering dates" despite no one asking them to do that because we dont care and then act put upon about said task
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:49 PM
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unless provoked by misogyny Yea but women think misogyny is saying anything they don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:54 AM
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No, we get it. You don't think we are special Yall arent except for a select few You don't think you're getting anything positive besides sex out of dating us No, i already addressed this. It has to be both. Not one or the other, both. You can fuck me the moment you meet me, if I dont like you on a romantic level no amount of fucking me will make me want to be with you. And the reverse of that is also true. We can date for a fucking year and be super cool, but if youre not interested in fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:17 PM
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Cool, you dont want those men, they dont want you Everyone wins. Sounds like we're agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:46 PM
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Honestly, to give women the benefit of the doubt, I kinda feel like they just don't want to take the risk. For sure. And the thing is i dont blame them. I dont get mad at women for protecting themselves, having high standards or any of that. It's just they need to understand men are going to do the same and they need to stop getting angry at men for doing so. It's ok for women to have whatever standards they want, but what I point out is that it's equally ok for men to go "yea id rather not deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:45 AM
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She’s probably going to make you wait 2 months before she decides “it’s a good thing she didn’t fuck you because X” anyways. Yea they really hate when we avoid this Funny enough this is just us using they same logic they use "Well if im going to get pumped and dumped it might as well be with a hot chad" Well if all this "getting to know each other" stuff can possibly lead to us not getting together anyway, why shouldnt i do what's in my power to actually get something positive out of this scenar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:57 AM
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From girls who aren’t any better than the ones who don’t make me wait? This part really seems to be lost on women. "If he has a problem waiting all he wanted was sex!" No we do want to find a woman we enjoy being around and are compatible with on a romantic level. And there's plenty of women we vibe with on that level ASWELL as the fact that they wont make us wait for sex Why should i choose the woman making me wait in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:31 AM
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2 and a half years ain’t shit. Yes it is How many LTRs have you had? This is my 2nd How many close female friends do you have? 2, one been my friend for 13 years the other for 12 I consider them both 2 of my best friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:31 AM
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In a relationship 2 and a half years The only one of these steps that is semi accurate is 2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:48 AM
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Lol i actually skipped school to do it I have to work full time to maintain my house and school was becoming too much of an unnecessary stress on top of work. Plus it's expensive so I figured all the money I spend on that I can just put it away and spend it on whatever the hell I want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:40 PM
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I try to do 2 in country, 2 out of country I really go anywhere, I try to go somewhere new anytime I live on the east coast so it gets pretty cold during winter and spring, i like to use those seasons to visit the warmer states The out of country trips really are just whatever I fancy at the moment. I'll literally just be sitting around and just think like "you know what, i wanna go to Egypt this fall" I look up the expenses, make a budget and do what I said I would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:30 PM
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Again, which is what we're arguing against There shouldnt be an alimony law. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:32 AM
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In a relationship but I still do the things I did when i was single that fulfilled me Maintained close platonic friendships (male and female) Stack my money so I can vacation 4 times a year to whereever i want, one for each season Engage in my hobbies (in a hardcore hiphop fan and collect records. Also super into pro wrestling, babe and I go to shows regularly)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:03 AM
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Strawman We're saying women dont bother to offer anything else than wonder why that's all they get used for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:29 AM
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No, it's like claiming you stayed at home as a SAHP or the benefit of the family unit and now you're no longer a family unit and the law considers her a valid recipient of compensation for it. That's what it literally is. No need to let your feelings cloud your argument. And that's what we're arguing against. She didnt do anything worrh compensation Be a stay at home parent doesnt mean you sacrificed shit and certainly doesnt mean youre owed something for it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:14 AM
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The thing is that privilege is something you all give us willingly Lol it's not a privilege we want to take away, it's a privilege we want as well Women have tons of backup options willingly or not. There's nothing wro g with that. So why shouldn't men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:27 AM
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Also cheap or free education. Some people will straight up call it communism. Hilariously capitalists shoot themselves in the foot by doing this because they create more people willing to identify as communists If you start calling things that sound good communism, people might just think communism slunds good But whatever you call it, the important thing is that it works! Yes absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:38 PM
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Capitalism works, it just needs some socialist tweaking to really shine Not really socialist tweaking, just social safety nets Remember socialism isnt the government doing stuff it's the workers owning the MOP Minimum wage, universal healthcare and welfare is not socialism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:11 PM
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Then he's doing the woman a favor by leaving. And youre doing those men a favor by letting them know not to waste their time on someone like you You act as though she's the one missing out somehow lol She's not missing out and neither are the men who disregard her. Lmao we're not disagreeing with each other, im just pointing out that men are literally doing what youre doing: protecting themselves. By saying this you're literally just saying that the woman who makes men wait and the man who doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:04 AM
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I wouldn't want to be with a guy like you, mostly because I have been before and it was a horribly toxic relationship. Understandable but then surely you understand why men dont want to be with women like you if we've been in a similar situation. Sure there are plenty of women like you who are using waiting as a genuine strategy to protect yourself. But there's also plenty of women who are making men wait simply to see how much they can get out of him with them giving back as little as possible.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:47 AM
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I do. Maybe my situation isnt exact because my GF werent fucking casually prior to dating but we did have sex rather quickly (2nd date) That was actually the green flag that made me want to be with her seriously. She didnt make me play some stupid ass waiting game. No monkey dancing, no hoops. She wanted me and let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:11 AM
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Women seem to hate the fact men only want sex instead of 21 traits and things like they do out of men.. But most probably accept this notion and of course continue bitching. They accept this notion they just want men to monkey dance for them first Men are quickly realizing women are not worth doing that for so they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:22 AM
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That is what you want most thought if waiting is such agony for you. Lol if that's what you want to tell yourself. I already explained why this isnt true but continue to go off More importantly than that, the guy you think is more after the relationship still wants sex as quickly as possible, he's just willing to monkey dance for it. Which is really the core of what yall are upset about. It doesnt bother you if a man only wants sex, yall are just upset men dont think youre worth monkey dancing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:06 AM
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We do Yall throw tantrums when we do and start bitching about entitlement and us only wanting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:01 AM
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Understood And it's not that i think there's something wrong with that Just that it's equally ok if men would rather not deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:41 AM
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It's not unreasonable Im saying it's equally not unreasonable for men to not want to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:30 AM
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You could try that for a while, but not long term. What women actually do is both withhold and reward with sex. You can't manipulate someone forever if they figure out they will never get what they're after. True. We agree here. Lol you complain about me failing to address something, then fail to address what I immediately said afterwards. Lol what that heartbreak sucks? I didnt think it needed addressing because it's just an obvious statement that applies across the board. Like duh, heartbreak …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:36 PM
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Do you live under a rock or are you just lying Neither . Why is it impossible that ive Sincerely never seen it? Lol the fuck? It’s very common that people say they would never date someone who ‘fucks on the first date’, on and off PPD Ok well then i sincerely doubt the men who dont want to fuck on the first date are suddenly throwing a tantrum when youre not fucking them 2 dates later. You guys like to do this thing where you amalgamate 2 groups of men, act like theyre one and then go "YoU gUyS …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:17 PM
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You can't use something without... using it. Lmao of course you can. You can use it as a carrot on a stick. You know, the way you literally quoted but failed to address. Goddamn right it's for our own gain. That's fine byt then dont complain when men do what's for for our own gain AKA lying and manipulating our way into sex If waiting for sex makes you bail, then yeah that's was what you wanted the most. Nope, that's just what yall say to cope with the fact that there's nothing wrong with dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:30 AM
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Ive literally mever seen a man say this on here or anywhere else, yall just insist this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:23 AM
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Yup, it's very easy for a guy to talk about how sincere he is but many of us know from experience dudes will say a lot of 'charming' stuff to get into bed, even if they're lies And the whole "making him wait" thing only exacerbates this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:18 AM
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2 of my best friends are women I've known for over 10 years Never any sexual attraction between us It's definitely possible but i cant comment on the likelihood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:26 AM
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