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| 1 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumWhy? Doesn't it make you feel invisible and unloved? I don't know why, just like men with a certain temperament. If it's too much coldness and aloofness, and if they are not willing to step out of this persona, it very well might, so I've learned to be very explicit and verbalize my needs when they aren't being met because it can be very unclear - especially for someone on the spectrum. Very true, I just imagine that neurotypical men can overcome their behavioral shortcomings more than autistic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Should we bring back the blind date?Going to a blind date to meet a total stranger is just another thing these people have to carve out time for :/ And, again, if they are a desirable prospect, there is no reason for them to go out of their way to meet someone they don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Should we bring back the blind date?but how are we going to make it a norm in friend groups, unless it's normalized on the societal scale? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Should we bring back the blind date?I guess I'll be the only one who criticizes your suggestion, but this is just my two cents. Blind dating is not necessarily a bad idea... If you are not bringing much to the table. How many attractive people do you think will welcome the idea of a blind date? How many financially stable people will agree to this? Changes like these have to be instituted from top down, not from bottom up. We sort of have to invite people who are most sought after to implement this in their dating lives first if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalThanks! Same to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalI do realize that I don't have a right to a soundproof bubble around me - this right does not exist. :/ I also do think there is circumstances where I wish men read the room a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalI guess because I would not talk to a stranger unless there is a very strong incentive, but I forgot that there are more people than just me in this world when I wrote this take :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalI see. It might all just be inside my head then :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalBut why search out a company of a stranger? I don't get it :/ Unless they find me hot and want to bang. Which by the way is not a bad thing necessarily, I am not trying to dunk on anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalI don't get it :/ I would not go out of my way to talk to stranger because I want to get to know them unless I need something, right. A stranger is probably not searching for a relationship with another stranger - for all they know my last name could be Hitler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalI am not dunking on men, but they probably initiate the entire cold-approach campaign in order to have sex with a woman that they find sexually attractive :/ which is not even a bad thing necessarily, but I do think this is the point of cold approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalMaybe. Then it's just me I guess :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If men are trash you're the dumpsterBecause Eve ate the fruit and absorbed the juices of self-awareness :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalHold on, of course it's objectifying - you are asking a person out because they are fuckable, that's it. Now, we can say that many women don't mind being objectified, or even like being objectified, but objectification is exactly what's happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:07 PM |
| -1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalLooks matter, but if you are selecting for only looks - some people don't like that. It's presumed that you are only choosing to cold approach a girl because she is hot - we all know that men want to put their dicks inside women no matter what and this has nothing to do with wanting a relationship. In a way, you are saying "ma'am, can I fuck you with least amount of investment possible?". At least this is a message that I'm hearing if a stranger approaches me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:04 PM |
| – | CMV Men are way more honest in a discussion about dating/dating strategy then Women which is sad because if Women would be honest they could elevate those discussions to a new level.Three people that upvoted my comment understood perfectly what I was trying to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:59 AM |
| 3 | What women like vs what men think they likeYou are not alone, arctic monkeys harvest more poon than Tates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:17 AM |
| 16 | CMV: If men are trash you're the dumpsterWe are all trash. Every one of us. Nobody is a catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:14 AM |
| 4 | CMV Men are way more honest in a discussion about dating/dating strategy then Women which is sad because if Women would be honest they could elevate those discussions to a new level.Average man in these little manosphere corners of the internet is trying to convince us that he will discriminate against some hot girl because she is already 28 and has an Instagram. Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:04 AM |
| 2 | CMV Men are way more honest in a discussion about dating/dating strategy then Women which is sad because if Women would be honest they could elevate those discussions to a new level.Everybody is manifesting. If a OF girl walked into a room and showed a glimpse of attention 70% of men in these red pill spaces would wife her up immediately even if they had to get cucked, they'd be on their knees. Come on dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumThey did not volunteer specifics and I did not ask, but I suspect it's the fact that my husband did not entertain conversations with them back when he was a boyfriend. He sat there for fifteen minutes, pretended to listen, and then he just got up and went to the other room, which they felt was rude and unwelcoming :D I know that comment is insensitive, but from their perspective they were simply trying to help you land the best possible partner. The people who gave advice are the types of peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 01:30 AM |
| 6 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.You are putting a cart before the horse. In order to reject the role of betabuxx you need to have some woman be desperate for your provisioning, but from what I'm reading - this post is probably not written by one of the high status males that single moms want to drag into commitments. i could be a billionaire and i couldnt spend my money in a beta like enviroment on another mans legacy. What money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumMy husband is also a dude, but if somebody hates the idea of fucking a guy and wants to marry a woman - that's fine by me :D I can't even begin to describe the degree to which I don't care if somebody does not want to marry black people, autisitc people, or even me. This is just a non issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumThe friends one is a sensitive topic. Had to burn bridges with a few friends NGL, because some of them were the types of people who could not hold a relationship for longer than a year but have a fuck ton of advice on who I should invite into my bedroom and my life. The comment that stuck out is "you are so pretty, you can do better" from somebody who is a couple standard deviations behind my husband in virtually every dimension, starting with IQ and ending with BMI. Who the fuck says that. And,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 10:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumRare Based Woman hold up, I don't need pats on the back from a stranger at the expense of women who do think ND is a big deal. I think it's a dumb disqualifier, you think it's a dumb disqualifier, but everybody is making what they consider to be the best decision for themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:47 AM |
| – | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault. and while Aba and Preach don't identify with the red pill, they also agree with a lot of the stuff that I think is true in red pill, while also rejecting some of the bullshit in red pill stuff. Aba and Preach are good. They are pretty moderate in their takes, it's difficult to disagree with them. I think any person who is in touch with the reality agrees with a lot of descriptive stuff in TRP. And if we did not lie to people for such a long time many TRP talking points would be ground-breaking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?I never said it was a societal problem by the way. Of course it's a personal problem. I don't see what we are even arguing over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 03:09 AM |
| 7 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumNot necessarily true, my husband is on the spectrum and I consider myself very much not autistic. I don't think autism is a big deal, there is much worse things that people hide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?We are paying double by getting knocked up and having our value diminish as we age. The society will kinda try to hold men accountable for making baby mamas too, but as a woman you'll get hit with very harsh biological penalties that you can't run away from or can't argue your way out of in the courtroom. This is what will happen if you don't play your cards wisely - and so many people don't play their cards wisely when they are 18-25 because they don't know any better and hindsight is 20/20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?We might have an advantage when selecting a guy, but in the end of the day we pay double for every romantic decision we make, so it's not just more choice - it's more choice and more responsibility that comes with this choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?That makes no sense whatsoever, women get to pick, therefore any dissatisfaction they get from that is at the very least partially due to their choices. You cannot have an outcome with a cause, this sounds so stupid. You can have the dynamics without the "fault", and you keep conflating "cause" with "let's put the burden of blame on someone". woman wants to be with a successful entrepreneur because she wants his money/status, the man in question is irrelevant to her as a person, if she could get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.There is a huge problem in progressive corners: they forced everybody who picks at contradictions - like the one you mentioned - out of their space. For the last decade or so feminists had been in an echo chamber. They didn't even know what opposition sounds like. They don't understand how people on the opposing side of the socio-cultural compass think and what motivates them. As a result, 95% of feminists sound like dumbfucks when confronted with basic TRP talking points. A very orthodox femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:47 AM |
| 1 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.Retarded post, retarded comment. OP should require marriage before sex just so that she can get married to you and both of you can drive off to the sunset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:01 AM |
| 2 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.It only takes one bad interaction to really ruin your time on dating apps because of how human psyche works. The majority of experiences are not fuckboys and creeps, but the ones that OP remembers are exactly that. The ones that I remember are exactly that too, she is not unique. But because OP is an idiot, she is oblivious to her bias, and deduced a rule from her highly filtered observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:56 AM |
| 2 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.Yet another galaxy brain take. OP, everybody is reacting to the environment that was created for them, thus reinforcing this environment. Everybody is fucking up, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree that male sexual desire often gives women a significant amount of power and control over men?Yes, in the same way holding somebody's leash gives you power. Power is very suitable for the owner-dog dynamic, when there is a human on your leash - anyone who isn't fucked in the head will want to walk away from this arrangement and take a shower after a contact with such creature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?I don't have necessary background to dig through this, but there is a lot of qualified professionals which can help you sort your issue out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:00 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Yeah, no shit, you guys can't get pregnant. Of course you'll try to put a baby in whoever you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?It's a strange phenomenon that happens in societies that have no sexual dimorphism. Juicy. What societies don't have sexual dimorphism? Is this clever sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Help me understand this. Do women not get to pick the men they date ? Yes. It does not mean that any discomfort from the dating dynamics that a woman gets from dating is necessarily her - or anybody else's - fault. The low IQ clown world: now we get to generalize it and say that any outcome of any romantic or sexual choice is a person's fault. You got divorce raped? Well, you chose to get married. Your fault. Even more than that, you are sort of making an argument in favor of matriarchy: if wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?galaxy brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?For one, you're the gender that gets to pick, so whatever dissatisfaction you get from this process is entirely your fault. Cringe. We are going pretty fast into the low IQ territory, because there is no such thing as "fault" - there is only people doing what makes sense for their set of circumstances in a pretty harsh dating market. I don't know what you mean by "fault". Thankfully all young and pretty girls will eventually age and wont be as pretty then you'll be spared from this plight of cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?What a Nazi Germany :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career? Very few men actually get to pick the young pretty ones, like <1% few. Men are willing to fuck what they can get, we know. This is not the flex you guys try to make it to be - in the world where you can get away with exercising your standard you will do so. Maybe it doesn't feel nice get picked only because of your looks as a woman, I don't know, I am not one. Akshually you don't have to use your imagination. Just walk into a gay club and get a first-hand experience :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYeah, I mean they probably shoot their shots where they can and begrudgingly smash who they get. Honestly delusional people are pretty fucking annoying - both men and women, especially when they dunk on others and impose all the criteria that the opposite sex ought to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?I thought I got the point :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 07:43 PM |
| – | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?me? O_o | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeBot, simp, slave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:30 PM |
| – | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Why are you so emotional? What happened? I thought I was polite and did not dunk on you personally, you are over here punching walls because... Why again? What's your degree in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?True love is not possible without physical attractiveness. This is your skewed male perspective. I don't know what to tell you. Believe it or not some guys just don't like being love for status or money. Too bad, women don't like being loved for looks, but somehow everybody feels justified to select a girl because she is young and pretty - does not feel too good when you are on the receiving end of this attention and if you happened to be burdened with intelligence, you know. My advice is that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:15 PM |
| – | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Me telling you I'm not your therapist is not a personal attack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:08 PM |
| – | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their place"beautiful in every size" and fat women on the cover of vogue is just in our imagination. Everybody is delusional. Yes, it's not a man vs. woman thing. If you want me to shit on my gender, in a strange way manosphere offered coping techniques to women who have accomplished nothing useful in their lives and who are painfully mediocre. Now a chick gets to be high value if she speaks to the script. Pearl tweeted something about Margot Robbie being a "mid", the same "mid" Pearl described herself as,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Then, this conversation is a nothing burger: women will love men for money that men provide as much as men will love women for looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeI can't argue with people who use words like "tons" and "all the time". Real world: And tons of men have gone to jail over child support payments. The child support drama is a nothing sandwich, it's equivalent to the climate change hysteria, but in the manosphere. In one breath we are lectured on all the guys going to jail or paying big bucks, in the second breath we are being lectured on the fact that women are delusional because an average salary is what, $45,000? Think about it. An average ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 5 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Women will evaluate potential mates on a variety of scales but the evaluation process is more harsh, while men will only evaluate on one scale, but will be more lenient. If a guy is not hot, a woman will go for him given that he demonstrates enough of something else - usually, status, talent, income. As a guy, you probably can't wrap your head around the idea of falling in love with somebody independently from the looks aspect and brush it off as opportunism, but this is just your perception. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Then we have to completely get rid of a few ideas: Women are attracted to older men because resources. Masculinity is attractive to women because resources. In the world where only looks trigger the lizard brain these two statements cannot be true - you can be clingy, you can be a simp, you can be a loser. As long as you are a pretty 30 yo twink, women will desire you. In fact, the self-improvement journey will make you nothing but a beta bucks, so I don't understand what place TRP movement has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:49 PM |
| – | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?I'm 23. Also, I'm not your personal therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 2 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Sure. What's your point? I don't understand what you are trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:40 PM |
| – | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?So, this response is a classic example of inability to simply look around and try to get into people's heads. "True love", whatever that means, can only occur if the receiver is physically attractive, ladies. If you love somebody for what they do and what they accomplished in life, your love is not true. This guy decided so. Because his love is based on looks, and his love is, of course, true, unlike yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:09 PM |
| -1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYou are looking just at one piece of the puzzle that bugs you the most, while ignoring the big picture. There is a smaller degree of variability among what women find attractive - not to say the margin is as tiny as you described, but women do evaluate men much harsher on the looks scale. As a compensation, men have many more ways to appeal to women than just looks, - status acquisition, social skills, money, intelligence, so guys who are perceived as average can pick another avenue and attract … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:03 PM |
| – | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYeah I think 63% of men and 1/3 of men know their place or at least starting to That's just no longer true - I would stand by this statement five years ago, but now we have people like Rollo, Donovan Sharpe, MLD, we had a clown named coach red pill (notice, I didn't bring up twinks from the Whatever podcast or objectively tall jacked dudes like Myron). These people look like shit and they are telling men - who probably look like shit - that they deserve all sorts of things because "men and women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Is the stereotypical thing of like ex-fboy/player marrying good wholesome girl a bad "prototype?"Any wholesome girl who marries an ex-fuckboy: a. is not wholesome b. wears her religion like a pinterest aesthetic if she happens to be "religious", because stuff like this is where your wholesome values are actually put to test. Wholesomeness does not consist of wearing puritan dresses and tilting your head downwards, people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:45 AM |
| 10 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".You are assuming this idea is dictated by women to men, while in the reality both genders reinforce it. All these dudes, who aspire to be a patriarch surrounded by a harem of virgins? If a guy wants to be a leader, the responsibilities that he burdens himself with aren't supposed to be convenient or easy. Weird post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:41 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Women get to be pickier than ever, but they are not picking personality. Unlike OP, for example. If OP could pick he'd go for a strong character | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of manosphere podcasters just not living upto what they say.Because this is how they make humiliation porn. They invite dumb ass bitches so they can shit on them constantly, so they can feel good about themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Is gold-digging on the rise?I don't care dude, I'm not a moral policeman, just take accountability. If you are pursuing ass - stop writing posts about the decline of the western civilization or some other stupid shit. It's your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:11 PM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?I think what he means to say is he would prefer a decent woman. But he will bang trashy women because it's cheap. I'm not the one forcing him to fuck trashy women. It's just like his inner nature crying out for intimate connection with his own species. There is swines and there is humans, and humans don't fuck with swines. If he was a human he'd obtain a human woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:14 AM |
| – | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female Playerthis is just more standard talking points with no originality and no thoughts of your own A female player is a woman who gets investment/resources/commitment from men without having to give up sex. OF is borderline sex work so it doesn't count. And talking to a girl is borderline commitment. True player does not waste his time having conversations with women. He bends them over and dicks them down as soon as bitch utters "hello". No all of my arguments cannot be flipped because men and women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:55 PM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?and women are ready to empower men like that too, because obviously he isn't alone at this parking lot according to his account, and if they also complain about the dating market while admitting to doing shit like that the same argument applies to them. I don't know what your point is, but your point is probably dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:40 PM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?dude, I fucked more men than you, why would I ask a fish something something fisherman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:39 AM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?the fact that you assumed I used it as an insult is upsetting to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Is gold-digging on the rise? Personally, I hate what the dating market has become We don't have to reach far for what bro thinks of drug culture. We have the following data points: he hates drug culture. He takes MDMA regularly. We need to inhale an insane amount of copium for these two data points be married together without calling bro out for obvious contradictions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the relationships suffers when the man or woman likes the other more?I don't know what to say ;\ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:22 AM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?It's okay. You are forgiven :) Men are obviously not content with a drunk log in a vehicle despite their best efforts to prove otherwise - this is clear to anyone with a brain. Once you are no longer starving, you are not okay eating just bread and beans. Bro is not in control of his short-term impulsive libido. The actual him is disgusted but for self-preservation reasons he misplaces this disgust on the drunk logs next to him. He basically diagnosed himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Is gold-digging on the rise?A person can be against public indecency in general, while still admitting that going streaking with your friends can be fun or exciting. Bro :D If they are against drug culture and actually go fuck up some MDMA, and the morning after shit on their friends for doing MDMA with them, what do you think these people are called? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:01 AM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?Goddamn. I'll never find out what I missed in my analysis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:55 AM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?"AKSHUALLY- " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the relationships suffers when the man or woman likes the other more?I wish you saw the tears on my keyboard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:47 AM |
| 9 | Is gold-digging on the rise?"They'd prefer a more traditional culture but honestly, fucking feminists behind fast food restaurants, is kinda fun too." You guys are so much fun I loving talking to yall you are even more fun then women. This psychological yoga is insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:46 AM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?My thoughts are quite sorted out, but if you need me to help you along, I'm happy to do so. At least your edit itemized your objections. Chill. I'm on your side. Your thoughts are the thoughts of a person who fucks drunk feminists on parking lots - you are disgusted and upset. No shit. Essentially this is an exhibit A of typical thought process of an addicted bar hopper/party boi who says stuff about fucking strangers in public and thinks he somehow deserves something other than the strangers he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:43 AM |
| -5 | Is gold-digging on the rise?Can maybe you explain to me, an idiot and a stranger to sex behind dairy kween, how what our boy previous commenter blurted out makes sense? How is it anybody's fault that you can't help but dip your cheeto in some drunk girl, let alone behind a fast food restaurant? Speaking of sex on a parking lot, this is actually a very dumb and risky thing to do considering that it can get participants in some legal trouble for public indecency or indecent exposure or someone can straight up film this shit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:20 AM |
| – | Is gold-digging on the rise?I hate what the dating market has become but I'm going to play by the rules because at the end of the day men will become what they need to become in order to have sex Why do you hate what the dating market has become if you seem to be content with sex behind dairy kween? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Is gold-digging on the rise?It can create deep feelings of resentment towards "gold diggers". Resentment is just like dumb considering that the men who lust after these ladies aren't exactly into them for their personality or maternal skills. Besides, even weed-addicted losers with face tattoos get laid, there is a reason why everybody is so fixated on af/bb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Do you think the relationships suffers when the man or woman likes the other more?Ask your mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:45 AM |
| 0 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?Bro everybody views everybody as a sum of benefits they can potentially provide and then go down the list. It's like, why is everybody so sensitive and getting "insulted" over things. The truth is most of us just aren't option A, expecting to be someone's first choice is just dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?It's kinda gross if I imagine myself in this position. On the other hand, everybody wants you for something, right. Everybody wants some benefit to keep you in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:42 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: Are women more submissive or dominant towards good looking guys?These people are so boring and put so many boxes around them, do they even have dicks or it's gay in their world? These are just kinks/moods/different points of menstrual cycle etc. You'd think if they were consistent they'd say if a woman fucks you she is into you with how hypergamous women are and with how many sexual avenues are open before them. Nooo, let's get paranoid about swing radius of her tits or some other goddamn thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?what do you want me to say, don't drown in these folds I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:18 AM |
| 12 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?Dude can you please quit airing your grievances this sub isn't your journal, you are actually triggering me. She does not have to join you in your sexual isolation. Holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?The top page of pornhub is aligned with my taste in pornography | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Do you think the relationships suffers when the man or woman likes the other more?None of this is sustainable. You gave us four buckets of shit and asked to choose which one we'd like to sample. Bro none of it. I am a woman, if it explains my distaste of shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:49 AM |
| – | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?I... Am happy about this. Sounds like the problem is solved then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:46 AM |
| – | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?Well wtf, you guys are the ones who are complaining you aren't getting enough women to desire you. I'm not complaining. My BMI is 21.6 If you are making the complaint you lay off the fries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female PlayerI understood your basic talking points, it's not like I'm a stranger to this burger. Basically it's a "female is valued by exclusivity of sexual access to her", and "man is valued by how many women he can access", and everything else makes a lazy figure eight around these two talking points - that, self-admittedly, aren't even made by you. Everybody heard you, what do you want me to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female PlayerI mean women are not a bunch of idiots who allow for one-sided interactions. Most guys have to pay to play. He doesn't You are literally designed to share food for sex. It's your function and your instinct. Accept it, embrace it. Just because OF customer enjoys OF content does not mean she is not a player. She is not giving up anything in the transaction. The idea that OF girls somehow cry tears of regret is also cringe. All your arguments can be flipped, that's what I'm trying to say. And this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female PlayerHe is going to tell you that when a woman posts her shit online she signals her availability to others and since women are evolved to pair bond with the best man she can find the act of her signaling sexual availability is a shot at her boyfriend and he should take it as a marker of his low value as considered by her, meaning that he is a bitch and a beta cuck. If she is truly in love with him and respects him she does not have OF (Instagram). OP, on the other hand, will play the field because a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:11 AM |
| – | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?Fine, I'll give this one to you. There is more men who are disgustingly skinny than there is anorexic looking women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female Playeryeah, and a girl who fucks a player still gets a dinner and/or an orgasm, it's not like girls are frigid. If these interactions were not reciprocal nobody would go for them - there is not an abundance of idiots around you who are waiting for somebody to filibuster their way through straight to their bedroom my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female Playerno shit detective, it is, indeed, a sex worker. This does not change that dudes pay $6.99 and don't fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female PlayerIn my opinion, this is the definition of a female player. A female player is a woman who can get a High Value Man/Player/Guy with a lot of options to put away his options and commit to her. Cringe. A woman player would be the OF girl who gets your $6.99 and does not sleep with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:44 AM |
| – | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?You are the ones who are complaining. Also look up stats on obesity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 12:52 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:37 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?Whether they are right or wrong is irrelevant to the question of sexual attraction. You can be right and murder any remnants of her attraction towards you or you can chill and not ruin what's there, if there is anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?I thought there is no sexual desire if you are a regular man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:33 PM |
| 10 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?Sometimes it seems like people have a soup of random facts inside their brains and these facts aren't even lining up in a coherent worldview. Sir, we are talking about burning sexual desire, not about love and true connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:32 PM |
| – | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?To men for who it's a problem I'd recommend to either stop looking like shit or accept this state of affairs and move on with their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:29 PM |
| 3 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityI guess I hurt some feelings. Sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 10:14 PM |
| 4 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityHabibi, nobody cares enough to pull you out of your porn world and compete with some chick on your laptop screen, in fact, this is why we have an epidemic of lonely men - it's impossible to overstate how consistently women don't give a fuck about men they don't give a fuck about. Embrace this fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyYes, every single piece of research :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyIf it's not personal experience, I don't know where you took the idea that women have difficulty to be agreeable in the world where every single piece of research says otherwise. This is why I'm confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:17 AM |
| – | Femininity is not valued in our societyDude what even is this conversation we are talking about a problem that does not exist with a guy who does not have it. You can pass on everything I said to this one friend of yours who has a problem with argumentative women, I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:02 AM |
| – | Femininity is not valued in our societyI don't know dude, I'm not your therapist, I don't know who you are undesirable to. I'm just speculating. Maybe you are the Chaddiest Chad, but if you are observing women being disagreeable around you it's not a good sign - they just aren't that into you, combine it with women's natural tendency to go along and you end up with some pretty sad conclusions. People tend to bend over backwards to please people they are attracted to, it's not even a gender conversation. What do you want me to do? Hiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:43 AM |
| – | Femininity is not valued in our societyI don't respect you either habibi. Around men I'm attracted to? Bro all my shittalking, and my bad manners, and my masculine attitude go out of the window when there is a thick alpha cock in my mouth. I don't know what you are trying to prove, you just keep diagnosing yourself as undesirable to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:15 AM |
| – | Femininity is not valued in our societyIt's because they disrespect you and think you are a beta. It's different. It's hard to be disagreeable where it actually matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Femininity is not valued in our societyEven if we remove the pill addicted housewife aesthetic, these so-called traits objectively suck, and it's science. Kindness is the only one that requires any real effort, the rest of them - anybody can be agreeable, sensitive and emotional, even a toddler. That's why I equated this mode of life to teenagehood. There is nothing there to respect, no shit people don't respect them. It's like respecting a person for shitting and eating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Femininity is not valued in our societyAlso, not sure what femininity has to do with acting like a 12 year old. The tradcon/TRP idea of femininity. Every single time I listen to these people they describe a (frequently) unemployed adult who has not accomplished anything but still feels entitled to an identity and can't stand up for themselves, or others. It's wrapped up in a very cute lingo like "homemaker" and "caretaker", but in essence, this is what I'm hearing. Because this is what people are describing. I don't think it's fair t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Femininity is not valued in our societyRightfully so. It's crazy enough to watch a 30 year old lady acting like a 12 year old teenage girl, but at least she has a uterus, so the society allows for a huge margin of error and goes "whatever". Watching a 30 year old dude acting like a 12 year old teenage girl is like, bro you don't even provide anything to the market to mitigate your lack of stoicism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Femininity is not valued in our societyKindness is not exactly a feminine or a masculine trait. But sensitivity, expressiveness, and passivity are not traits to begin with, they are really impulses. Tradcon brain rot people just market them as traits, but let's be for real. Traditionally feminine characteristics happen to align with impulses of a poorly behaved 14 year old. No wonder nobody has any interest in being this person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:16 PM |
| – | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedStop trying to act smart and witty Or what you gonna punch a hole in the wall, masculine leader? Hold the frame and get over it. You’re basically admitting that most women are shitty people. They view men as commodities rather than human beings. Why is this suddenly a problem? If women viewed you as a human - and career women do - they definitely would not allow you to lead after reading some of your thoughts (which career women don't by your own admission). But this way you at least can hope to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:08 PM |
| – | CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidatedannoyingly masculine, to the point where they won’t let you lead in the relationship Because women don't respect you, they tolerate you for food and shelter. The moment she outsources her financial needs her biological contempt comes out. This is shit is as deep and old as evolution. There is no feminists around Jason Momoa, but your comment is honestly a self-diagnosis and an admission that women view you as a beta with such low standards for life that you are willing to eat Burger King on 20K … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our societyI'm not following. Ellaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:39 PM |
| 14 | Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegalI think OP is either contemptuous towards reproduction like left-wing radicals, or he is pissed off that women don't want to get pregnant with his kids like right-wing radicals. Probably the latter. It absolutely does not make sense how he (she?) cherry picked some well off privileged women who choose to become single mothers. If mom can afford to volunteer to be a single parent their childhood is probably better than situations that 80% of this sub grew up in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 04:05 PM |
| 9 | Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegalNo one is entitled or have any right to be a parent, though. ? Of course they are. Who is going to womb police people, you OP? We should all call you and ask for permission to get pregnant? innocent human being. We are all about to cry. I wish you could see the tears falling on my keyboard! I don't get what is conservative about the fact fathers are important to raise a kid. This is not what you are saying, can you stop doing this thing where you say something silly and then paraphrase it to whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 18 | Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegalOP, I am a very tolerant person but in order to have a conversation we can't flirt here. If you cared about single moms and/or kids you would address the issue of people who are unprepared to have kids having kids - not a very particular issue of single women choosing to have kids by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:39 PM |
| 18 | Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegalThis post is actually deeper then single motherhood - this paints a perfect picture of some new form of pseudo-conservative entitlement that became popular with TRP movement. Did anybody else notice? Most people historically - since this family oriented crowd loves to appeal to history - grew up in differing levels of fucked up. I don't know what to tell you my guy, most people will not create a domestic bliss, most people will not be rich enough to afford piano lessons and most people will stru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Those in happy LTR's, what has been the key for your success?Compromising on small things and knowing which battles to fight. Forgiving them for their shortcomings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:12 PM |
| 17 | Femininity is not valued in our societyNobody values TRP idea of femininity because it does not require any strength or usefulness to be agreeble. Going along and putting responsibility for your life and financial wellbeing on someone else is easy - in fact, you can do nothing and pretend that you have an identity because you are going along. Do men really like the submissive type of girl who is agreeable, soft and sweet? They may find it attractive to some degree but I noticed that in general being too agreeable and submissive gets … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate is the ideal role model young guys neededI am about to redpill you so hard you will need a therapist to recover. Women don't so much hate Andrew Tate as we are contemptuous of dudes fangirling for him, because as much as you want to be an independent and confident man - I mean Tate is independent and confident - you can't jump above your genetic ceiling and remain a tier B guy, because this is your lot in life. I am not being mean, somebody just has to be tier B for Tate brothers to be on top of the Everest. The only reason why you fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?Paradoxically, they make ME feel violated and exposed, but to each their own ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?they are staring right into your soul :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?If she looks like Eve, she can probably wear body hair like a pinterest aesthetic imo :) the rest of us have to shave and try to delude others into thinking we aren't disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?I don't understand the aesthetics of any body, to me it's just varying degrees of disgusting. Male coochie objectively does not look good. Men just have a lot going on down there. Female snatch does not look much better. I find human body pretty ugly. We have anuses, acne and body hair, all this junk stinks if not shaved/washed. That's why I have authority issues - I just keep thinking about how gross we all are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:17 PM |
| – | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?Your point: blue is a color. my point: isn't red a color? you: red is a color too. me: so they are both colors. you: it's not the same! no shit detective, what's relevant to this conversation is that both are colors. you are actually an example of an illogical man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?But they both are illogical, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 12:54 AM |
| 4 | The "safe" option is underrated in generalI... Substitute for whatever shallow parameter you find attractive. You caught me there, debate brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 02:39 AM |
| 25 | Legit question for female women: How is it possible for you to have low self-esteem and confidense?Women, especially if they carry around the burden of intelligence, don't evaluate themselves based on amount of sexual attention we get from men, they evaluate themselves based on type of attention they get from men. You are projecting your own mentality on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | The "safe" option is underrated in generalI don't think people who chase stars are after satisfaction - it's about how their couple looks, not how they personally feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl40 is not an older woman, maybe in the red pill fantasy clown world she is, but come on now, if you go to these tiktok F&F shorts and look at profile pics of losers who type this shit, their motivation will become obvious. I have an opinion on the topic of catladies, and I imagine some specific people. I think OP implied catladies that did not want to end up catladies in their post - not some free-spirited artist. Women who are chronically single - let's not take someone who had been married for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlSocially compete? Why would women hot or not do that? What even is this question? Women compete for exclusive access to best mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?Oh, so we agree, then why make it specific to girls, if your problem is people in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?Is there anything at all that men do that goes against logic? When it comes to dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:08 PM |
| 9 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?How are you different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?Because it makes women feel objectified and undervalued, as if this sexual aspect was the only thing you are after. Why is money discussed upfront in a sugar baby/daddy arrangement but not in dating? Let's sit down on the first date and have a detailed discussion about your student loan mess, 5 year earning potential and how generous you plan to be over the course of the relationship, let's talk about your height and your dick size. Any guy who gets offended at that should just stop bringing up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:48 AM |
| – | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverYou are an actual child. This post makes my eyes roll into the back of my head. All I'm hearing is that women want an attractive partner - whatever set of bullshit exclusionary things women consider attractive, and attractive women have a lot of men competing for their attention. And it's supposed to be how, exactly, in your perfect world? You do realize each time there is a criteria it will exclude someone? I'm naturally at such a big disadvantage due to something completely out of my control. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 12:43 AM |
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