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| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?What if you intervene, because it's just your basic ass instinct to do so, but then latter talk mad shit about everyone involved because you're still pissed that you had to intervene? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 04:17 AM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?They feel entitled to our labor, attention, service, money, help, and affection. Not so much to our bodies though. If they did, there wouldn't be a gender war right now. We'd basically both have what we want from each other already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAWALT makes no moral claim. There is no equivalence whatsoever between a general claim (All Women Are Like That) and a definitive one (Men Are Trash). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGGuys who think with their dick are more pigheaded than actual pigs digging for truffles. Do not underestimate how stupid, weak, and retarded men get when they are horny. They make jackasses look like clever animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:31 AM |
| -2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGThen you should know that The Red Pill did not start as Pickup Artistry. And that in fact in the very beginning Red Pillers fucking despised PUAs and considered them lowlife scum, sellouts and grifters (which is what they actually are). Also, MGTOW is over 20 years old and actually invented a lot of the "tools and phrases" that PUAs hijacked to grift incels with. That whole "Keeping Frame" bullshit advice is from Pickup Artists from the 80s or 90s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:34 AM |
| 6 | Passport broing should unironically be illegalWomen doubling down on their bitchery is not going to bring all the mens back. Just admit you are not what men want so we are just looking for it elsewhere. The reason women are mad is because they can't tolerate the idea of men having genuine options that do not include you. Those other women are not being "exploited" they are happy to find a man that wants them and men are thrilled that these women are just genuinely feminine and likeable and not feminist-putrified pits of despair. There is ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:23 AM |
| 5 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAWALT is a semi-clever inside joke/axiom invented by MGTOW that means "Variations on a Pattern." It's a joke-ish and intentionally ham handed way to stress the fact that women operate on patterns of behaviors which are predictable and manageable. That is why it's All Women Are LIKE That, and not All Women ARE That. Similar is NOT Identical. Nuanced and critical thinking skills are necessary to get the joke. Autists struggle like a mofo at grasping old school Red Pill aphorisms which tend to be w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGNo because we'd just be getting into the specifics of what exactly women are like and which in particular to avoid. AWALT begs the question: All Women Are Like What? This would be a means to specify what and identify who. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:08 AM |
| 14 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGThe idea would be more like "this girl is extreme drama, watch out!" or "She's literally insane and unstable, possibly on meds, not worth it!" or even "She's a false accusation waiting to happen. Stay the fuck away!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:59 AM |
| 32 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGI was taught in grammar school to avoid using acronyms if I expect people to comprehend whatever the fuck I'm talking about. To never assume that the audience just knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:54 AM |
| 0 | What movies would you like men to watch?Mad Max Fury Road - We needed a fun and cool option and I actually think this film kills it symbolically in terms of showing the plight of womanhood controlled and confined by evil men...and all by inflicting it uncharacteristically on a man. Yeah.... Saving Private Ryan already does that without the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:41 AM |
| 23 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGYa hear that boys! All we gotta do is say that our "intent" ain't what we are actually using a thing for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:49 AM |
| 115 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGwhat the fuck is AWDTSG-1GLPNIFUREADINGTHISURGAYLOLO+&% or whatever the fuck? Can we stop with the Newspeak as if everyone is in on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Red pill men speak often about failing to form romantic relationships with women, I believe the ideology is flawed.A metaphor. The concept is as ancient as Plato's Allegory of the Cave. The Red Pill is just a modern reiteration of the metaphor of the sun. The Red Pill is a metaphor for any kernel of truth that causes a cognitive cascade effect in which greater truth is revealed. It's a metaphor for opening your eyes. Notice that it has fuck all to do with "dating." Getting red pilled is a metaphor for being exposed to a certain truth which makes you open your eyes to reality. Being red pilled means you see r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Red pill men speak often about failing to form romantic relationships with women, I believe the ideology is flawed.The Red Pill is not an ideology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:15 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himI am a man and I get equally disgusted by these whiny and almost hysterically screechy assholes begging for pussy. Makes want to take their lunch money even though I packed my own. Sex isn't that fucking important, if any dude has the urges so bad that's what fucking porn and/or your imagination is for. Just rub one out and get it over with and then go about the rest of your day like normal ass men have been doing for millennia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:29 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himI am not saying that this type of conversation is somehow supposed to arouse anyone. What I am saying is that this type of sex-speech makes one who is already aroused deflate like the Hindenburg. It de-hornifies me, and I go limp like a boned fish. More than that, it just makes me not care for it in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:06 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himCue men whinging about their needs, feeling unloved, how women are "witholding sex" etc etc. Those ain't men. No man ever would believe that sex is a "need." That's an incel mindset. I would not begrudge women to stay the fuck away from those weirdos. Most normal ass men if we do not get any sexual attention from a woman all we do is just move on and try to find one who's down, and we don't bitch about it - because there is no point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:58 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himYou mean the whole "let's talk about sex like it's a mental problem that we need to solve with dry speech as if we're talking about zoning permits" thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:53 AM |
| – | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Was that hard? Why couldn't you have just done that from the very beginning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:49 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himThat said, I also think men should be more upfront about just how horny they are. We ARE up front! It is you women who just don't listen because you think we are just Larger Females with a dick and more muscle than you. And no, sex isn't just sticking our dick in a wet hole. It's more about just physically savoring a whole woman in every possible way through touch, taste, scent etc. You ever wonder why we look at you with "hungry" eyes sometimes? That would be a clumsy explanation why. Sometimes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:35 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himIf you think stress is sexy then you are clueless. When men are stressed out, sex is the last fucking thing in our mind. Also, maybe this is just a "me" problem, but whenever women start talking about sex it always ends up just completely de-sexyfying it for me. Like, I don't wanna do this shit anymore, the whole things is off-putting and kinda repulsive in a non-sexual way now - somehow. I can't explain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:22 AM |
| – | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.No, I did not "basically" say anything, I actually said something. Go read again what I actually said without adding your own spin or projection unto it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:15 AM |
| -4 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Think about what you just asked me for a moment and how is it in any way, shape, or form related at all to what I said. Just think... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Talking to women is impossible.Talking to women is easy, being interested in them after doing so is the impossible part. Also, if you think cold approaching random ass girls on the street is somehow ok and not totally fucking weird and awkward as fuck then you my friend have zero social skills. You need to learn more on how the human race functions. The opposite is also true by the way, women cold approaching men is as fucking creepy as when men do it! Once in a while random strange girls do that awkward creepy-glancing where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.I did and discovered a whole other universe of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.You will be surprised how hard it is to find a girl that is hot and not promiscuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.It doesn't mean he's wrong though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:55 AM |
| 3 | The wall isn't real. It's a psyop that benefits mediocre men.You're demonstrating a deep ignorance of what "The Wall" metaphor actually stands for. The Wall stands for women's depreciating value as viable options for serious men as they age. It means that men of every demographic will always prefer younger women around their early to mid 20's. This includes men who are serious and seeking genuine relationships. They will not be looking at 40yolds with their 3 kids, a mortgage, and divorce-baggage. They will be looking towards a 25yo girl who is healthy, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 07:14 PM |
| 0 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionMaybe because nobody is trying to convince you of that. The reality is that men innately know that women's submission is something we need to earn and build up our own character, status, wealth, and power for. So many red pillers defend the patriarchy, which basically coerced women to be submissive to their fathers, husbands and (later in life) their adult sons. Why the fuck is the RESPONSIBILITY that comes attached to said submissiveness always ignored? When a woman submits to a man, and he can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Men have so it so easyYoung, pretty, thin. Nothing else matters to men. You are as clueless about men as you are about women. Yes, being young pretty and thin do carry most of the weight when it comes to attracting men but attracting a man is not the same as locking one down. Women know they can attract men, any men. That is not their end goal. Their goal (in theory) is to attract a man that they actually find attractive. A man attractive to women is a man who provides for all her needs up to and including social sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 06:00 PM |
| – | The phrase "men are afraid of other men" is just a feminist way of calling men bitches or pussies.So glad my dignity and masculinity doesn't hinge on the opinions of the sheep. Feminists can call us whatever they want, it doesn't affect actual men. They love to talk shit just to soothe themselves. That's why they are so clueless about masculine nature. They refuse to see reality so they just invent their own and then sit there like confused morons wondering why we don't fit their stupid model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?If it’s fake, why are men complaining endlessly about being single? 5 horny and socially awkward idiots complaining on a subreddit does not make it "all men." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?Isn't it mostly men who complain about the "male loneliness epidemic?" No, it is not men who are complaining - That's what I'm telling you. The term itself was coined by feminists in the media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:24 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.The Red Pill is not a world view dammit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?men should stop constantly complaining. Who is complaining exactly? 🤨 This right here is the part I'm calling out. Is all this "complaining" legit? Are men actually marching on the streets or plaguing the airwaves with complaints? Or is it the feminist establishment media speaking in behalf of men the way white people keep acting outraged in behalf of minorities and feeling offended for them? Nice of you to completely gloss over everything I said to maintain the feminist narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?everyone that is desperate and lonely is a performative male? That is not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 07:20 AM |
| -1 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?We're not. Or have you not cared to notice that all the media writing about this bullshit is edited and written by feminist women? Specifically, the fucking stupid ass term "Male Loneliness Epidemic" was entirely invented by feminists in 2023 to shit on and shame men. In contrast, Men has been calling this same phenomena "The Sexodus" more than a decade before. Meaning men were leaving women in droves - an exodus away from women voluntarily due to women becoming intolerable and toxic AF before t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?I was agreeing with you. The problem is that they never seem to just go their own way. The problem is that men already did, and then there was this massive ass campaign of which I even received the end of it in school in which we were taught that too many men being single "is a bad thing" and not settling down would cause some kind of Handmaids Tale type of shit where there would be there roaming bands of men just reipping women for no reason. That men who don't do relationships are somehow less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:46 AM |
| – | If "bluepillers" basically all agree that there are no valid criticisms of leftist gender ideology, then you all are far more unified than you like to pretend.Again, drop the woke BS. That crap doesn't apply here. Red Pill rhetoric is about the hard facts of life, especially in speaking against bullshit nonsense of which wokeism is ripe. We dispel myths, break delusions, and enforce reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:15 AM |
| 0 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?We did, and now there is this mass bullshit campaign to gaslight men back into relationships called "male loneliness epidemic," and all it's accompanying rhetoric which is as real as women's willingness to get drafted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:12 AM |
| – | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?Find maintaining a relationship is too much work? That's fine, don't have a relationship. - MGTOW now exiting clown-world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:10 AM |
| – | If "bluepillers" basically all agree that there are no valid criticisms of leftist gender ideology, then you all are far more unified than you like to pretend.Blue Pill is a metaphor for those who still "believe the delusion" who swallow the programming, remain plugged in, brainwashed, complacent, blissfully ignorant etc... It has nothing to do with this woke BS you're peddling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 05:51 AM |
| 1 | It's not a hot take to say that most women (doesn't matter if they conservative or liberal) don't like pegging, feminine men, or bisexual men.Womanly women like and indeed prefer manly men... who would have thought that the math maths here, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Sex and relationships are mostly an Esteem need, not a Love & Belonging need. Conflating the two makes the surrounding discourse a lot more confusing.If the nature of a need can change then it is not a need, it's a preference. Why are so many people starting to get all confused about things that should not have any way to be confused about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Sex and relationships are mostly an Esteem need, not a Love & Belonging need. Conflating the two makes the surrounding discourse a lot more confusing.I am pretty sure sex and relationships are a thing due almost entirely to our hard wired biological imperative to reproduce i.e. the urge to fuck. Where do you even get "esteem" from? Who even thinks like that? We just wanna fuck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:02 AM |
| 1 | A case against hypergamyIf she's hot then me too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 03:15 AM |
| 2 | A case against hypergamyyou seem jaded and bitter, which I don't think has to reflect real life. That's your mind getting the better of you. Hmmm.. That reminds of the following wise words by Seneca: "We suffer more in imagination than in reality." Yet, it's reality that has jaded me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 03:14 AM |
| 1 | A case against hypergamyI was talking neuroscience and observable/repeatable/predictable behavior but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 06:46 AM |
| 0 | A case against hypergamyInternet? 🤨 No wonder, get off the interned dude. The real world awaits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation."I truly believe western men are cowardly. They are terrified of being alone. Never having kids, and dying alone. Yeah right... I dumped my girfriend because I am soooo afraid to be alone. - MGTOW, cough!\* Eh hem! I mean LMAO 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 06:18 AM |
| 1 | A case against hypergamyYou cannot argue away a hardwired instinct and biological fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 05:17 AM |
| 2 | A case against hypergamyThere is nothing wrong with women wanting a man who is stable, hell there isn't even anything wrong with women wanting a man that is socially and economically better than her. That is expected and even required if both are serious about having kids. What is an issue here is that women want more than just the best that they can get, they always want better. Hypergamy means "more is never enough." Women are never, and will never, be happy nor satisfied with whatever man they get. This means women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 05:03 AM |
| 5 | A case against hypergamyHypergamy does not exsist for the last time. Suuuure. And men are attracted to women for their careers and social status and totally not for their physical youth, beauty, and fertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 04:52 AM |
| 3 | A case against hypergamyThere's far more women to choose from today than there were fifty years ago. What a delightful Blue Pill notion you have there bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Being disagreeable is the most common dating problem amongst men.[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 03:31 AM |
| 1 | The Male Loneliness Epidemic Is Like The Obesity EpidemicThere is no "male loneliness epidemic" Stop propagating a feminist narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 06:50 AM |
| 19 | Being disagreeable is the most common dating problem amongst men.By definition, being disagreeable is not a good thing. That's because you are deceptively injecting the definition of antisocial behavior (being unpleasant, offensive, ill-tempered, uncooperative, inconsiderate, and difficult to deal with) into disagreeableness in order to shit on a key trait of masculinity (as always). Disagreeableness is non-conformity, the perseverance in personal conviction, independent thought and motivation, innovation, not easily influenced, skeptical, not driven by a nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 05:55 AM |
| – | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.The lack of male role models is a symptom, not the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Loud + combative does not equal masculine & quiet + submissive does not equal feminineI'm sure hard biology and just reality in general plays no factor whatsoever. Everything is "society says." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:16 AM |
| – | How many women could you take in a fight?The average man would probably be beaten up by just 2 motivated average women. 3 certainly. There is no way in hell you actually took up any kind of combat sport if that is your realistic assessment of the world. I took boxing and I know from experience that a blow to the nuts only pisses you off even more when adrenaline is pumping. All you dudes who are overestimating women's fighting ability consistently fail to factor in men's general aggression. Even tiny ass men fight with a certain feroci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:14 AM |
| – | How many women could you take in a fight?I think I can comfortably beat 10 women of average size if it's a fight out in the open. As for men, I think 3 or 4 average dudes could beat my ass. (Yes I know how to fight, I took boxing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:08 AM |
| – | Can you guys stop bringing up sexual assault to men?or your aunt. 😐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.The Red Pill would have men see you for who you truly are. If a man is a piece of shit, do you really want to be that man's equal? You know that a lot of us treat you like utter shit precisely because we do not think too highly of our own selves to begin with. And then there is the opposite problem, some men think way too highly of themselves to where you could never measure up. Respect means treating women as they ought to be treated. Not more, not less. Only as you deserve in a tit for tat mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:51 AM |
| 4 | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.No. The Red Pill is a metaphor that concisely describes the disillusionment that comes after discovering the truth about so many societal fairy tales about women, work, government, laws, education, etc. Those that think the Red Pill is about dating or stupid cringe shit like incel culture or some other BS are stupid as fuck and are completely out of the loop and have bought in to yet another delusion peddled by the dating gurus, life coaches, influences, and other crawling parasites that feed on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelYou sound like a quitter. And you will continue to get quitter results. Learning when to quit is actually a mark of wisdom. Often people stay in the grind out of stubborn pride or even cowardice, the fear of what others will think or say. The ability to identify what is not worth enduring for is trait of intelligence, and the courage to walk away us a mark of character. And the women who are virtuous ie virgins you still regard will skepticism. No. Those women I leave alone and I give them a wid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelYou need to look up what the word Hypocrisy actually means. But you said they’re permanently tainted. So you are too. That's exactly what I said. Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:47 AM |
| 1 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?The things that make me healthy are the things that have worth and value to me, my body and my health are the recipients to these valuable and worthwhile things, but I myself am not of any worth to myself. That just doesn't make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Do men who want these “robot gfs” or really think a robot gf will make women jealous think through this logistically? No, I think men really do actually want artificial women who can function as receptacles to the love we all want to bestow on women which women themselves are becoming less and less worthy to receive, scoff at, mock, and weaponize against us as society keeps degrading further and further. If you have a robot gf, you’re really going out on dates together? Posting together on Insta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?I took your question as meaning "Sense of worth" because self-worth is also a nonsense word. I am not worth anything to myself, but I am acutely aware of what I am worth to others. I can understand my own value in the eyes of others, in my own eyes, I am not worth jack shit to myself because I AM myself. It's like asking a dollar bill what is it worth to itself? The question is ridiculous so I just assumed you mean to ask if the dollar is aware of what it's value is according to other currencies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:06 AM |
| 1 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Dignity is dignity. Why would we call it anything else? Self love is not Dignity. In fact, Self-Love is a contradiction, an oxymoron. It's like the sense of sight, you see outward, it is not possible to se backwards as if your eyeballs can somehow see back into your head instead of outward. Love is something we project outward unto the world that originates inside ourselves and travels outward toward a receiver. When our own love is somehow projected back unto ourselves that is called perversion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:43 AM |
| 1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelNot really. My "whoring" was actually a stupid ass moment of weakness. I was on a rebound from breaking up with my ex. I am slowly coming back to my baseline of generally ignoring women like I had done before. It's just that it's harder to do now that women give me that kind of attention and now that I have the experience of what to do with it. Back when I was still naive and kept to myself it was easier dismiss the attention as friendliness or confusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:31 AM |
| 2 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Easy... Honor Courage Wisdom Strength Mastery and Competence Leadership Discipline and self control men are often not taught self-love growing up. That's because we are not girls. We do not require "self love" like fucking narcissists. What we require is self mastery. That means leaning into our natural masculines drives like learning, growing, exploring, and mastering our world and environment. Self love is a concept that makes no sense to a man because Love is something we project outward unto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:11 AM |
| 2 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelExactly how am I a hypocrite if I am not looking for any long term relations with these girls, and neither are they. But they will, which is the problem. You cannot expect commitment from a man after you've burned the things about you that are worth committing to: Virtue and Trust. This is like burning your car, and then expecting to get retail value for it. It's not hypocrisy when you expect the consequences of your actions. I was not sleeping around when I was with my girlfriend, in fact I had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 04:45 AM |
| 2 | What is it like wanting female validation badlythat men have a deep yearning for approval not just from women, but all people, other men, peers underlings and superiors, and that it comes from testosterone. That is the exact opposite of reality however. Men are significantly less needy of other people's approval than women. In fact, we are a hell of a lot more anti-social than women, hands down. We have a very efficient capacity to fraternize and work as teams but having some sort of "need" to be accepted by the mob? Hell no. Men who have su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What is it like wanting female validation badlyDo this. Walk outside and watch real people out in the real world and see if your question is even realistic. Not all men are incels in this subreddit. I wish women could know that our fixation on you is not more complicated than any other bodily function we have like sneezing or passing gas. It's literally hard wired into our brain and in the absence of women's attention the drive to mate gets "psychologically transmutated" into other goals that sometimes ironically have nothing to do with wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Women/girls, what expectations do you have of yourself when dating?I think I'm "expected" to be pretty all the time, always have my hair and makeup done, etc but that's just not me. That's not an expectation the majority of men have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 06:01 PM |
| -1 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices"Unselected" men feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices now? When the hell did that become a thing? I certainly don't give a shit, and neither do any men I have ever met or spoken to. This has never even crossed my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.You have any idea how pathetic that sounds my guy? I am telling you, I am "highly desirable," and I cannot tell you for the life of me why. Thank fuck the meaning of my life does not depend on it. Women are just insane. I genuinely do not comprehend what the hell it is that they find attractive about me or any other guy - they just do, or they don't. And you wanna know the punchline to the joke? It turns them off when you genuinely try and care about them. But when you stop giving a fuck and wis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:48 PM |
| 2 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.Right in the dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:42 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.If something requires you to sacrifice everything then it's not worth anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:40 PM |
| 2 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.The Red Pill would actually be the awareness of false masculinity. It is the Blue Pill that gives the false senses. The Red Pill is the metaphor for being aware of the falsehoods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:35 PM |
| 1 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.That sounds like a sucker ready for buy whatever bullshit advice the Dating and Life coaches are selling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:33 PM |
| 2 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.The Blue Pill be like: "Am I a joke to you?" By the way, from what you just said it's obvious you haven't got a clue what the Red Pill actually is. Sounds more like you've been buying into whatever BS the podcasters, influencers, dating coaches, and self-help gurus are selling. The Red Pill is a metaphor for waking up and not swallowing all that bullshit they're selling**.** The Blue Pill is a metaphor for staying sleep, staying with the program, buying into illusion (which sounds like what you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeBeing at a bar or club is a waste of time, so when in Rome... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:01 PM |
| -1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelThat's exactly why I dropped out and broke up with my girlfriend, even though the love was real (at the time) I just couldn't keep pretending like all things were peachy and destined to be "happily ever after." I chose the immediate pain of separation now in order to spare both of us the slow burning agony of hypergamy. Hypergamy is a fact of life with women, and I refuse to compete for any woman's heart against any and all men who she perceives as a better option. Through experience I learned t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?You don't give a shit about listening to whatever I have to say anymore than I care or have the patience to explain myself about something I've already explained to death and gone over billions of times in my life to countless women. All we do is just talk past each other and it's maddening as fuck. I meant what I said, it's exhausting as fucking hell. You women just don't get it, never have and never will. I tell you something is blue and in your brains you insist I just told you it's red. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 03:33 PM |
| – | Young men should consider alternative options if failure loomsHere's a better idea, how about we don't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Nope, no answer. Because, like I said, it's frustrating as all hell just thinking about it. Why would I torture myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Men are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traitsOne of the very first red pill axioms I ever read was: "Do not expect sympathy from those who receive none." Males almost seem genetically predisposed to suck worse at interpersonal bonding. That is totally not a completely gynocentric worldview at all. Men do not bond like women, we do not emote like women, we do not communicate like women. All your confusion, and women's complete cluelessness about men in general, has it's origin here. Your complete failure to comprehend that men are not women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Like I said, it's exasperating just to think about. I don't even know where the hell to begin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:32 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldGood advice, there is one very crucial problem though: Men do not have that kind of pull. You talk as if even top tier men have endless options, we don't, as if we are equal to women in that all we have to do is wink at any girl we fancy and she will come a' running. Most men struggle just getting fucking noticed by women. You're over here talking about "dating around" completely out of touch with reality bruh. This reminds me of rich cock suckers dismissing the problems of the poor by stating: … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:21 AM |
| – | Why do women share with you when they have been raped before?Is he human, or is he Dancer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:13 AM |
| – | Why do women share with you when they have been raped before?It bothers me as well. It makes me feel like a total creep now as if anything I do next will somehow be under that context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:06 AM |
| – | Why do women share with you when they have been raped before?Sure, as a man I can sympathize, just realistically don't expect any kind of sexual intimacy from me, ever, after giving me that information because now I am going to feel like some kind of creepy, rapey, slimebag taking some kind of advantage of you. It's just ughhh! Nope... I'll just shake your hand and see myself out. But seriously, there is no way in hell I can have intimate relations with a girl who tells me that. If she's just a friend I hang out with and our relationship is platonic then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers are rude and that's why women here are unsympatheticA lot of redpill men here act rude towards women for daring to have different opinions to them. Multiple times redpillers have told me to basically shut up or that I'm "unqualified" to debate them. Which is narcissistic and frankly ridiculous. Again this has happened multiple times. It's entirely possible you've been arguing with a bunch of 14yolds. I was debating with one guy and told him I don't like certain sex acts that I have tried before and some I have never tried before. And he responded… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:53 AM |
| 0 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Women are so complicated it's exasperating to think about. This is why honestly after sex I just wanna leave, it feels like a marathon just to get there, and a complete hell to stay there. Men leave just out of pure exhaustion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:30 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching?It's always creepy AF and only socially inept men think it's even remotely a good idea. The only context in which cold approaching would be ok is at a Sex Club or any other setting where you're expected to pick up women for casual no-strings attached sex. But if you somehow think approaching strange girls at a park or at walmart is not the most creep-shit thing in the world to do then by all means proceed and tell the class how it worked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.You’ve let a terminally online cabal of misogynists direct your life for you. How sad. That is not at all why I made my decision. If anything, these idiot online PUA-bros would have cheered me on as a Chad with their cringe ass "you are the prize bro!" mindset. I made my choice out of self respect and the understanding that our entire relationship was not built on anything real or solid and would collapse latter down the road when inevitable resentments towards me would start creeping in and acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.I got news for you, all those disparate actions are who you are. You are not "changing" with each action you're just acting out different aspects of who you already are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.We are not arguing whether or not an identity remains despite actions, we are arguing what defines said identity. But maybe you can explain to me why there were multiple persons doing multiple actions using the same body or something like that. It was always the same person doing multiple actions. You know it is possible to do BOTH good and evil simultaneously right? That's well within our capacity. Sociopaths do it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Your experience doesn’t negate every other person’s experience. That is true, but when millions of other men's voices are all calling out the same thing you kinda stop feeling like yours is an isolated case, or rare. You dated one person who wasn’t truly happy to pull her own weight. No, to clarify, she was perfectly ok (or so she believed) that she could and should pull the entire weight for my sake. She was ok with me not working and being generally "low status." She did not believe it would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:41 PM |
| – | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.they have no buisness telling woman how to raise their kids. Don't worry, the law already says so, and the courts enforce it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Are we talking about the man or the woman here? Because men are already doing all that shit for themselves and then some. It's called being an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.The first thing that will happen is the guy will start asking questions: Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Women like you are the exception, not the rule. There is a reason your lot is highly valued, even before women of your character started becoming extinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Most women are happy to provide in their own ways for their partners. It has never been my experience where women don't come to resent this after some time. Yes women feel good and special providing for a guy, but they take notes, they never forget it, and then weaponize it when he scores enough demerits with her to justify her decision to ditch him latter in the relationship. This is the reason I broke up with my own girlfriend before those demerits would start to accumulate and she would myste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.That is bullshit. Actions determine who you are and vice versa. Actions and Identity are the same thing, they are not two separate aspects of the same person, they ARE the same person. Actions influence personality and personality influences actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Yes. Satan can be a real humanitarian, a real hero to women, children, and puppies and treats them all better than God himself. Doesn't stop him from being Satan however, and it says nothing about the intention behind such good treatment. The question of identity is a very complicated one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:57 PM |
| – | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.You are misdirecting the question. It is not asking what value kids bring to men, it is asking what value to men bring to kids. What objective value is there in men sticking around if we ain't shit? If anything, staying would make a man into a fucking creep, and possible pedo. Men's instinct is to bring value, NOT extract it. We do not bring any value to kids, therefore, we don't stay. It's simple math. This is why my own dad did not fight the fucking court and I understand this and do not blame… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.The question is complex and multifaceted. Generally, we are what we do. It is our actions (not feelings) that determine who we really are. But this only says who I am to the world, it does not tell you jack shit about who I truly am when I am in my own world. Because if, I am what I think and what feel, then I would make satan himself blush. Part of being a man is the responsibility to do what is right and correct, even when you truly and desperately want to do the opposite. Using women as an ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Women don't tend to wait for a man to get sick before ditching him. Losing a job is usually enough. Or did you conveniently forget that for every 1 guy who leaves a sick wife there are about 30 women who leave a financially struggling husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Why do you suppose the Red Pill even exists? Society tells you one shit, they sell you on it, and then reality smacks you with it's opposite. THAT is the Red Pill in a nutshell. It's naive to think the Red Pill is just a guy thing, or that it's just for men. The reason that cottage industry exists is to sell women something that they already posses. It's part of the Big Con. For men the con works in the opposite direction, it convinces men that "they are enough" so that they become complacent an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.That is exactly what the Red Pill is about. Tearing down the Delusion, breaking the machine, or escaping the plantation. Whatever metaphor you choose they all mean the same. Especially for men. Nobody gives a fuck that we (individually) exist. And in a way it's sort of perverse to imagine that anyone should. This is why I cringe and it irks me to no end to see these soy-boy assholes begging women for affection and attention. Such grotesque display is so far removed from masculinity that it makes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 03:44 PM |
| -7 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.How your partner treats you mostly comes down to who they are as a person. Not really, who I am as a person has absolutely nothing to do with how I treat women. The rest of what you said is on point though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 05:49 AM |
| 10 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Do you consider your actions to be fundamentally divorced from who you are as a person. When you work a shit job for a living just to make a living, yes. You can definitely discern a person's character from his actions but these themselves don't tell you shit of who they truly are. It would be highly unreasonable and honestly kind of arrogant to act like my partner should be happy and stay with me simply because I exist. Yet this here is exactly what women demand from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.Answer the question, or just admit you don't know either. I'll ask again: What is the value in a man staying for his kids? What value is there in this? SERIOUS question. Because I seriously haven't got a fucking clue. But I can tell you 1,001 reasons why "men ain't shit" though, or any of that other fucking shit I was preached at since childhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.And exactly how do you get back something you donate through a faceless institution? I don't think "getting it back" is even a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:27 AM |
| 0 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.It's not a preconception when you grew up solidifying the concept with repeated experience. You can only get burned so many times before you figure out that the stove is hot. You either learn the lesson, or lose the hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:20 AM |
| – | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsWhat are you even talking about? Did my analogy completely fly over your head or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.At this point you’re only doubling down out of pride. What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:13 AM |
| – | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsIf you don't crave romantic love from women then you're gay or something. Teh fuck? Are you like 9 or something? Get off the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.And why not the Mother, Female Judge, and bitch female lawyers who orchestrated it all and destroyed my dad from the inside? Even God said do not fear those who merely kill the flesh, but be weary of those that kill the spirit. Last I checked only women are the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.Explain what the value is then, seriously. As a man of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.What fucking part of there "not being any value in it" did you see fit to inject your manipulative insinuation that "men see no value." This right here is an example of the sneaky, word-twisting, hyper manipulative bullshit that I'm so fed up with about women. It's a joke how predictable this is. At this point all that matters is that more men see it and learn to recognize it and accept it as just a fact of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 04:28 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?Then stop acting confused when you purposely misrepresent the concept in order to argue with a straw man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:13 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?You are the one who is confused and thinks TRP = PUAs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:10 AM |
| -3 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.Look, you confirmed that men don't see value in raising children with your own complete lack of concern about your ex. That is not what I said at all, and I don't give enough of a fuck about this argument to keep going back and forth. Believe whatever you want and stop asking questions if in the end you're going to make up your own answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:06 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?That's not what the Red Pill is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 07:30 AM |
| -7 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.And now we know why boys are being raised by grifters. Because their dads don't care. My dad cared, till the fucking courts took him away and only allowed him to see me once a fucking week. My ex kept my sperm and last I heard she is still willing to have my kids without me. But that's neither here nor there. Anyway, I already answered the question. I'm done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:43 AM |
| -2 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.This is the same as an intimate relationship with another human being to you? That is the nature of all relationships. Yes. All relationships are transactional, ALL! Without exception. What the hell do you think the Red Pill is supposed to be waking you up from? What delusion do you think is being shattered here? The delusion that you are loved for being you. All my life, the feminist establishment tried to shove that bullshit down my ear, attempting to convince me I am some special little snowf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.I don't date. Hitting up friends for booty calls is not "relationshipping" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:32 AM |
| 0 | How quickly does your mind go to sex when you meet an attractive guy?Women's minds don't work that way. They do not immediately go to "how can I have sex with this guy" when they find a man attractive. Their first instinct is how can I control him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:30 AM |
| -5 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.So men are punk b*tches that don’t have any agency and are brainwashed since birth. Okay. You are talking about literal INFANTS and children, not men. Funny how women never go after adult men, you all choose your attack when we are literally at our most vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:27 AM |
| -12 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.Because there is no value in it. Some men want to do it but women are quick to remind us how much they hate our presence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.I broke up with my girlfriend precisely because it would never be possible for me to ever provide for her. She already had a career and earned way more than I could ever work up to earn. And I'm pretty sure this inborn instinct of mine is in my DNA and was never something that was taught to me by my mom. If anything, moms tend to spoil this instinct out of boys by coddling the shit out of them until they feel that love is just something that is owed to them. My girlfriend did not "owe" me love. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.If you hate dating so much then just be single. I already dumped my girlfriend, what else you want? 🤨 Also, having FWB is not "dating." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsthen you'd understand red pill doesn't apply to average everyday couples. It does. It wouldn't metaphorically be called a "Red Pill" id it didn't, after the symbolism from the movie in which the idea is taken from. You just don't know what this entire thing is about and you're struggling to comprehend by either inventing your own take on it or borrowing what outsiders hostile to the concept judge it to be. All the advice it gives only applies to the social media/rich vain people. The Red Pill do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsEven raving fools accidentally tell the truth from time to time. The messenger holds no baring on the content of the message anymore than writing 2+2=4 changes the math just because it's written on the wrong piece of paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:38 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?What is truly interesting is the sheer gynocentric spin you place on an impartial and impersonal statement. Only because you're a man I will bother to explain: Of course the lesson is twofold here. It's both. I did not think that this would need to be explained but since you're too feminized in your worldview to see it I will condescend to explain myself. Lesson #1: Gold diggers exist, they are ruthless, cunning, cutthroat, covert, and chameleons. They will wear any color to get at a man's heart… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:25 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?The first lady's relation is transactional, even Trump makes no pretenses of it being anything other than that. What hits men with the message the hardest is witnessing the dagger is aimed at at a man's bare chest, not his wallet - paper doesn't bleed. The pill is red for a reason. I know women will have no clue of what I'm talking about, but men do, and that is enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:13 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?The Red Pill has no narrative. It's a metaphor for "opening your eyes." Women are not even the focus of the Pill, they are just a very obnoxious distraction from it, another distraction from the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:08 AM |
| – | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?It's exposing female nature loud and wide through a credible source: women. Men telling other men that women are gold diggers usually convinces no one. When we see the shit for ourselves as women do it precisely as predicted, that tends to convince even the most ardent Blue Pilled soys who still believe all women are unicorns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?I think this is going to Red Pill a fuck ton of a lot more men than any Red Pill "content creator" could ever hope to do. To borrow an old MGTOW slogan: "We do not recruit, we just watch them arrive." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?She's confused as to why you're injecting a subject that has nothing to do with the topic. Sneaky sneaky... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:06 AM |
| 0 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.You have a very childish understanding of a very complex subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Yes. Being "fulfilled" is not automatically a good thing. That right there is a Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsWhen you get older and hopefully wiser, look back to this and reflect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsWhy do men act like women only want to fuck old rich men? We don't, that's a childishly simplistic summation of what we actually believe. Your average suburban american couple consists of two middle class working people. That's the metaphorical "Blue Pilled" myth. Not all of us are from LA and Miami where superficiality is all that matters. We are aware of this, we're not stupid. Not everyone lives in pimp and hoes land. Again, we know. Nobody is claiming this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsMyron is just one man in the legion, a sapling in the forest. Most younger guys discover the Red Pill through guys like him. He's an introductory course on the subject just scratching the surface where deep thought isn't really required. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Crack addicts also find "meaning" in their degraded state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Girls, the media, teachers, everybody. It was even on fucking movies and shows which is why I never got into watching TV or movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:30 AM |
| -2 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Growing up I always heard that shit which was confusing as fuck since women also bitch that that's what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:17 AM |
| -1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.There are men out there that find joy in providing even when they get nothing in return. They are just happy to make their wives and families happy. Such men are immensely disgusting. They're called simps and cucks by the way. Even women don't respect them and just seem then as worms they must tolerate just for whatever resource they're extracting from them. Dating women is degrading as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:10 AM |
| 0 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Some men genuinely like providing for their partners. A natural flaw in our masculinity that feminists have been more than happy to point out and which the Red Pill is obliged to correct. The urge to provide is a genuine weakness and when you actually sit down and think about it, it's emasculating as fuck, which explains why women themselves are instinctively revolted by it and call it possessive, clingy, creepy, and of course "icky." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:07 AM |
| -1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.only to relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsIf believing that about a stupid metaphor that Gen Xrs invented to rage against the machine then you do you girl. Keep on believing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsTo them it’s not a belief system: it’s an identity. Jesus Focking Christ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:36 AM |
| 0 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsDon't RPers believe they see the 'truth' that women are only attracted to a small % of men... That statement is a matter of fact and a Red Pill axiom is that "Facts don't care about your feelings." It does not matter whether anyone believes the truth, it does not change the reality of it. It exists independently of whether or not anyone is cognizant of it. What we call the "Red Pill" is a metaphor for accepting the truth, the Blue Pill is a metaphor for those who are either ignorant of the truth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsA lot of wankers use the moniker to sell their magic beans in the open market to thirsty incel-ish imbeciles. Your post is like someone whose only knowledge of Scientific Medicine is a bunch of tiktok videos about "detoxing." The Red Pill is a lot more complex and far larger than any of these stupid assholes peddling bullshit for subscriptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsThe Red Pill is not a belief system So I’m basically the exact type of woman red pill hates, woops. You are inventing an accusation for something that we don't actually care about. The rest of your post is just shit you made up and daring us to defend it when in fact that is NOT what the Red Pill is at all. Nice try though, Not the first time we have come across this sloppy accusatory shit-testy tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | What do you feel like hinders you most in dating?Being fully honest for me it's financial and the fact that the majority of girls are just higher economic status than me so in that respect they are out of my league. I had to move back in with my mom and am working in an apprenticeship while going to trade school. All the girls my age are in college and they all look down on dudes that work with their hands. It's not hard finding hookups for me as long as I just don't catch feelings for any girl ever again. I already had a girlfriend and we wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesI repeat: "We do not emote as you do, we do not think, prioritize, feel, view, or conduct and act on the world as you do." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Men don't hold each other accountable for their misfortuneWe do, It's called Government. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 05:29 AM |
| -1 | Why do toxic guys always seem to have girlfriends, but normal guys struggle?OP was just asking why do "toxic" or "not good" men seem to be most appealing to most women. We already understand (and is assumed) that most women have a brain and will ultimately use it when choosing a guy but at their most raw passion they always gravitate towards bad men. The question is why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first.Men are the ones who approach. Always have and always will. When the fuck did this become a controversy or even a question? The only ones bitching for women to do the approaching are incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 06:24 AM |
| – | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseI think you just invented a new Ironic phrase similar to "serial monogamy:" Serial Commitment. So then, those who just pump and dump women don't really have issues with commitment right? They are just jumping from one commitment to another. It's not commitment if you just end it whenever you feel like it and start another one over and over again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 06:19 AM |
| – | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseThe sleeping around part is the reason men do not want to commit. We are happy to fuck, not so happy to commit. Men commit only to women who aren't easy because we do not want to risk her fucking around with other guys if we are going to be committing to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:25 PM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling menIt's as if you read nothing of what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:21 PM |
| – | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseThat's exactly my point. That is the reason men don't want women with high body counts. They are unstable. Fun for sex, but relationships? Hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKSo Quasimodo's issue is just in his presentation right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseThe beginning and the ending of your sentence are mutually exclusive subjects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worsePost-nut clarity is usually the culprit. After we orgasm we also reset our brain and that is when the full shock and humiliation of all the stupid shit we had to do just to get sex (without the fog of lust) comes flooding back unto our minds crystal clear and without the rose tinted lenses it was wearing 10 seconds ago. Any and all feelings we may have been nursing for that woman have all now been chemically wiped out of our brain. It's like being instantly sober after being drunk 5 seconds ago.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Women are the ones red pilling menI mean, in the sense that women are not choosing men as much as men want to be chosen—sure, That is not what getting red pilled means at all, like, not even in the same universe. This isn't about "blame." It's about accountability. It's about spitting in our eye and then being genuinely confused when we get angry. But that insinuates that there is blame that should be rectified by a change in action. No, it means there is exposed hypocrisy that needs to be acknowledged and taken into account. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKWhen there is a woman genuinely interested in you. That right there is the crux of the entire issue isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:11 AM |
| 9 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKDating for men is not a question of how much work, it's a question of how much it's worth. Women are just not worth the effort. They are just more problems, more noise, more stress, more pain, and even the sex they offer severely declines in worth and value right after sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:09 AM |
| -1 | Men don’t care about MenMen don’t really advocate for men’s rights consistently. That's because we are not women, we do not ask for our rights, we do not need advocates. Men take their right through the use of force and violence. We are the ones that decide what rights we have and who has them. Your entire worldview is slavish and more like that of a subservient if you think we as men have to be asking 3rd parties for what is ours. Men do not ask for our rights, we dictate them and then enforce them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Women approaching men should be the norm.Everything you just said makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:37 AM |
| – | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"The other commenter said it best. Men start at the bottom and have to crawl their way up. Women start at the top and fight to stay up there their whole lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:35 AM |
| 1 | What is that guy supposed to do in the video - genuine discussion for both genders, no blaming each other[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"What are you talking about? 🤨 "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself" This is out of the feminist's playbook ☝️ For like the past 30 or 40 years this is literally how women have been "leveling up" in society by tearing down men to make themselves look better. If you make a man wait for sex, you don't really like him. He doesn't have genuine sexual value to you Pick better men, not just guys who are just going to use you for sex The lower your body count, the higher your value (which means you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Women approaching men should be the norm.Um no. The reason we approach women is because we are literally PHYSICALLY compelled to do so, hormones are a hell of a thing, especially testosterone. We are physically wired to feel pangs of compulsion towards approaching and seeking out women even when our sense of reason and higher cognitive functions and intellect scream at us that it's a very fucking stupid idea. We approach women because we are horny and enamored by them. And we are horny and enamored by women because we are chemically pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Women approaching men should be the norm.There’s no drive for me to do it. Boys figure this out about girls in 5th grade. Incels are incapable of comprehending this because they are just horny imbeciles. They are like feminists in their solipsistic mentality believing that the opposite gender is just a copy of theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What comes to your mind when you hear of a straight guy with many female friends but is still a virgin?My mentor at work/school. He's straight and there's a few younger girls about my age that hover around him cause he has that "older hot man" vibe about him but he never reciprocates any instigation from them, he isn't married, doesn't date, and I have never seen him show any interest in women at all and he never talks about relationships or anything close to it. One of the girls asked him once why he isn't married just out of curiosity and he shot it down fast saying something like: "that has no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:20 AM |
| -1 | What do you think of a relationship that is purely transactional?All relationships are transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 05:37 AM |
| 0 | SWers (and entertainers as a whole) should be held accountable for the views they projectWhat the hell is an SW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 05:35 AM |
| 1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenThat is the most clueless thing ever uttered by a woman about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Would you be a Single FatherYou have no clue what "red pilled" even means, and no, I meant that as a general statement outside of the red pill context. We aren't repelled by you, we are just indifferent. You may as well be a fern. I think you might be confusing me with the older Red Pill generation of dudes from like 10-15 years ago. The older dudes that modern feminists like to mock while ignoring those of us who don't stand out because we just walk the walk without running our mouths all the time. For guys in our 20s bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Would you be a Single FatherWhat we actually wonder is how in hell do women see any value in defeminizing themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Would you be a Single FatherAnd you all wonder why we don't want to be fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenAs a man, having kids is NOT about how that's going to benefit me. As a man, having kids is about how I am going to benefit them. This is an irreconcilable difference in our attitudes which is the reason I have totally and completely given up on women. All my life I always had this goal in mind. To improve myself in order to provide for a wife and then for my kids and all that work and sacrifice to be for their benefit and not my own. Now that I'm older and maybe wiser I have woken up and come t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Having kids and pets is the main cause of relationships between men and women not lastingThe fact that modern people consider pets and kids interchangeably says a lot about this fucked up world we live in. I cringe every time I hear people refer to their fucking pets as "children." The term "dog parent" is so fucking cringe I never hide the disgust on my face for those people. And yes I have a dog and no, a fucking dog is not a child, or a surrogate for a child! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:37 AM |
| -3 | Would you be a Single Fathersince they are the most likely to be the absent parent And you've never wondered why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:13 AM |
| -3 | Would you be a Single Father"I am not raising this child. you can take it and raise it and I will leave you or we can both give the child up for adoption" would you be ok with raising the child alone. Yes. And fuck her child support. And how would your current life change if you took on this responsibility? I would get a hell of a lot more serious about life to begin with. My sisters and my mom would definitely want to help since they like kids. They could help me babysit while I finish trade school and level up on my earn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:03 AM |
| 0 | What position do you hold that you genuinely can't understand why the opposite gender pushes back on?It’s already a crime to lie and report a crime that didn’t happen to police. Our argument is that the consequences for that crime should be far more severe and punitive to discourage women from maliciously fabricating life-destroying lies against men. As it stands, women suffer no consequences fro tying up the court system to destroy a man's life with false accusations. Even when found to be in perjury women suffer no actual consequences while the man in question gets his whole life destroyed wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 04:10 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?You need links and sources to prove to you that hypergamy exists, that law and society is biased in women's favor, that 2+2=4 ? So if the wrong person tells you that water is wet you're telling me you need a credible source to tell you the same exact thing before you would believe an observable fact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | What position do you hold that you genuinely can't understand why the opposite gender pushes back on?How would you prove someone is “lying about rape”? When the accusation contradicts the facts or the complete lack thereof to even substantiate the accusation. You know? How "burden of proof" is supposed to work. Do you mean if a man is tried in court, and found not guilty, the woman should be charged? No. It means a man should have the right to counter a woman's false claims and for these to have punitive consequences if found to be true. But the burden of proof would still fall on the one makin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:29 AM |
| 9 | What position do you hold that you genuinely can't understand why the opposite gender pushes back on?Now you know how all men feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:25 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Impressive how you completely missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?I'm 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:04 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?gold* that was a typo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:03 AM |
| -1 | Being offish or disinterested around women is not as attractive as men on here often think it isWomen have been blessed with the ability to make men stupidly attracted to them while men are cursed with the full awareness of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:08 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Do you even know what you're talking about? Your logic would have us believe that gold is fake just because there is fake gold out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:05 AM |
| -1 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Who the hell is steve bannon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:59 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?The culture, feminism, government, the education system, etc... The machine that grinds you down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Being offish or disinterested around women is not as attractive as men on here often think it isI keep seeing dudes claiming that being offish, cold, or acting disinterested is a magic key to getting women. I have never seen anyone, anywhere, ever say that. developing a dislike for women even when you physically desire them naturally suggests you aren't getting along. You're late to that conversation, women have already caught on that they're completely unlikable to most men without the literal sexual addiction we are hard wired and genetically programmed to feel towards them. There is a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:56 AM |
| -5 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?They wouldn't have any reach at all if their rhetoric didn't contain so much truth and explain so much. These men aren’t necessarily in the Manosphere That's because they are the Exosphere of masculine spaces. It's the reason the Red Pill is so ubiquitous that feminists can't seem to comprehend which direction it's coming from or in which direction to attack it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:59 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Never heard of ant of them and I've been into the Manosphere since I was 13. The people I know are Bar Bar, Happy Humble Hermit, Hoe_Math, Think Before You Sleep, Einzelgänger, Screenwashed, etc... Do you not think they’re relevant and influential on young men? No. The reason the manosphere is so "dangerous" to women and the establishment is because it's more massive than the mainstream can mock, it's more subtle than women can define, and more truthful than anyone is willing to admit, hence bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?The possession of attributes that promote and sustain strength in body and character such as Competence, Tenacity, Assertiveness, Leadership, Integrity, Reliability, Appearance (looking the part), Decisiveness. That being said, some men are more masculine than others. Masculinity can be both overt and subtle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Good men don't push boundariesEven those of us who have no issues pushing boundaries just generally DON'T because its just not worth it. And then we gotta hear from mutual friends how "if only he tried a little harder I would have said yes." We have no patience for these little fucking games. If a woman isn't willing then no means fucking no and I better not fucking hear her bitching latter that I didn't try hard enough or that I didn't persist or that she was just waiting for me to try a little bit harder or for a little lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:36 AM |
| -2 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?One would have to be masculine first, the treatment is just the consequence of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:02 AM |
| -1 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?Paying for a stranger is not the same as paying for the love of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?It means your answer is no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?It means your answer is no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?Sounds complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Most men should stay away from pursuing/going after Older women.What about older women perusing younger men? My last 2 relationships have been with older women and they were the ones who initiated things with me. I haven't done much perusing since high school due to life circumstances and because I have nothing to offer women but still it's been older women who feel confident to approach me and flirt and initiate things while girls my age still act as if they're too good to breathe the same air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women?I think OP is referring to the media giving men shit because of the backlash to the MeToo movement where a lot more men today than ever before are actually avoiding women and a lot of women (especially older) have issues with that. They say BS like men should "man up" and still interact with women even at the risk of a fucking false accusation which only exacerbates the problem and makes men want to avoid women even more. Also, the issue is that "the good men" are the only ones doing the avoidin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Women have an unarguable backup option that men do not have - thereby definitionally have an easier lifeDude, your entire argument is derived from just thinking with your dick. Women's lives are not easier just because "sex." I am not denying your conclusion, I am denying your premises. How does having a backup option help women with their taxes? How does it help women with their fertility window? Their job? Education, housing, income, getting pizza, or scratching their back when laying in bed face up? Stop thinking with your dick. Life is a hell of a lot more complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:39 AM |
| 1 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youI think you're confusing yourself. I never said it isn't a dichotomy, in fact I was asserting that it is! What I said is that it is NOT a false dichotomy. This is because these two characteristics are opposite and do contrast with each other, making them a true dichotomy and not a false one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 04:33 AM |
| 0 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?Again... It's not the entirety of masculine behavior but it's certainly a requirement. What part do you fail to understand? Where in this sentence do you see the statement that the required component is the entirely of the construct? That's like saying that a wheel is a car just because a car requires wheels. Boundaries and a spine are masculine qualities just as wheels are to a car. That does not make said qualities exclusive to masculinity just as wheels are not exclusive to cars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youThe dichotomy isn't false, you're just misrepresenting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Has manosphere content gotten you laid?I'm not a sponge (a passive feeder). I read for information, not indoctrination. I actually posses and apply critical thinking skills. If I didn't have these I would be another effeminate, soft spoken, emasculated, gynocentric creep like so many of these dudes in here that can't figure out why they repulse - and feel repulsed - by women while being attracted to them somehow. I actually have self awareness. I understand why I like and don't like people in general. The guys in the manosphere aren'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 03:28 AM |
| – | Is it possible that Gen Z /alpha men can do better with women than previous generations?Not with the Gen Z and Alpha girls we have to deal with. Women haven’t really changed that much. Riight... I have gone out with and been in relationships with older women and girls my age and younger and no. Women have most definitely changed, a LOT! You can even see the change in real time if you just give it another year. Because of that, introverted, “weird,” or neurodiverse guys can actually do better if they apply themselves the right way. Um, no. It just means that these girls are just as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 02:46 AM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Not caring about sex is a discipline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:21 AM |
| 2 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youCorrection: The dichotomy goes: Men who are nice don't get girls. Nice, as in, pushovers, servile, needy, insecure, effeminate, boring, safe, risk-averse, predictable, docile, passive aggressive, emotional, and creepy. Men who are assholes, because they are assertive, dominant, self-assured, independent, risky, fun, adventurous, unpredictable, wild, stable, focused, charismatic, and socially savvy get all the girls because they are obviously a lot more appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?Having a spine is masculine behavior? It's not the entirety of masculine behavior but it's certainly a requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Has manosphere content gotten you laid?I'm 21 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?but I'd bet good money that someone (though not you) would be willing to rail her on a slow Tuesday. I'd bet good money on that as well. No way in hell any dude would ever be willing. And pills & drugs are not allowed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Most women can defend their “sexual” standards, but not their “relationship” standards.There is no issue with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Most women can defend their “sexual” standards, but not their “relationship” standards.What other word would you prefer women to use for a neccesary condition for her to get into a relationship? Requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 07:11 AM |
| 1 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?In fact, the most appealing thing in that moment may simply be that she's down. That's it. Yeah, no. I have been around plenty of women who are down to fuck whom I would never touch. A woman has to meet a certain threshold of attractiveness for even the most horny dude to feel any attraction towards her. Otherwise, a guy can actually feel disgusted and irked (speaking from experience here). And if you disagree, why do the terms "post-nut clarity" or "coyote ugly" exist? That post-nut clarity exi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 06:25 AM |
| 1 | You’re not a good person just because you proclaim so.I never say that I'm a good person. Fuck being a "nice guy." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?I keep breaking up with every woman I ever develop anything serious with. Including a my last ex whom I truly loved and even lived with. It say about me that I am just not "female compatible." I always feel extremely exhausted, exasperated, trapped, suffocated, and a strangling sense of life draining death looming over me. The longest I lasted was a year and a half with my last girlfriend and I did my best to suppress that building sense of self-erosion but ultimately my self-preservation instin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?I encourage you to test that theory. lol We're just falling over each other in pursuit of masculine-ass women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What’s a recurring pattern in your dating life, and what do you think it says about you?Do you? Serious question. It makes no damned sense how a woman would ever imagine herself to be ugly after a guy thirsts for her. What the hell is wrong with women? You seem to have everything just backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 06:00 AM |
| 5 | Has manosphere content gotten you laid?Manosphere content is not for getting laid. The place is not a den of sleazy ass Pickup Artist influencers selling their bullshit to incels. The Manosphere is more about learning how to not get burned by women and by the system as a whole. It's about knowing the pitfalls, sharing advice, and learning about female nature from guys who have the battle scars and a story to tell. I first started to look into the red pill when I was 13 when I was just frustrated as hell at how the girls were changing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Most women can defend their “sexual” standards, but not their “relationship” standards.He used the word figuratively in the form of allusion, not literally. He was implying OPs use of word structure per their definitions, alluding to how taxonomy structures living things. I thought women are supposed to be these genetically predisposed mega geniuses at using and understanding verbal communication n' shit. At leas that shit is what was beaten into me and all the other boys in school being preached at how the girls are "BeaTur Cahmoonikators" than the boys and how impressive they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Most women can defend their “sexual” standards, but not their “relationship” standards.He's actually enforcing basic ass vocabulary and the actual definitions of said vocabulary that women love to "deconstruct" in order to verbally deliver their mental gymnastics. Women always love to do this shit where they fuck up language and especially the meaning of words as a lame attempt as verbal sorcery to somehow change reality when it doesn't suit them. For example, the stupid ass overuse of the word misogyny which are virtually meaningless right now and are just buzzwords that are indi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Jesus fucking Christs... It's like we're speaking two completely different languages here... I'm out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.We are picky bit not in the way you think. What gets our dick hard is not the same as what gets our minds and hearts serious. We can be sexually attracted to thousands of women but we can only respect and commit just one of them. This is what you women pigheadedly refuse to understand. Just because you can arouse a man sexually does not mean you arouse his respect or devotion. the way guys describe the “typical woman” is a very attractive party girl. No it's not, you are conflating two different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:29 AM |
| 6 | Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great.No. We believe women lie because what they say does not correlate or match with what is in reality. We believe women lie because they say one thing and then do another. That's the definition of what lying means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:32 PM |
| 2 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateThis debate about paying for sates is so fucking stupid you'd think those embroiled in it don't even know how to human! The one asking is the one paying. You can skip the rest of my spiel. Take women out of the equation entirely: If a dude - A DUDE! - is the one asking his male friend to go out and hang somewhere and do some fun shit it is usually that guy who is gonna foot the bill at first until eventually the other guy gets into it and then they're both paying for shit just to have fun. There… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?I agree, but that's where we're headed. I feel like I am living in that brief moment if shock-realization between walking down the street and getting hit by a bus. I know what's coming, I see it coming, and there isn't jack fucking shit I, or anyone else, can do about it. Just wait for it, hopefully it won't be so bad. Women just don't comprehend the extreme demand that there is right now for "women." The fact that (approximately) 60% of men are single while only 30% of women are single means wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?And I'm impressed at the pigheaded determination I am seeing here in trying to distort and turn a good thing into a bad thing. This is truly a perverse and fallen world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possibleDid you even read at all what I said? 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?And who says I wasn't already that? Those qualities are prerequisites for leadership. If I wasn't those things my girlfriend would have been the one to dump me long ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?You get the same qualities with AI now. It's only a matter of a couple of years or possibly months before these things are available on Amazon. That's why I ask what you mean by actually wanting women because it seems to me we want them so badly we are literally creating them to fill the demand since real women are just not in enough supply to meet men's demands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Those are nice but they are burdensome without Dignity, Accountability, and Honor on her part from which she can gift those things to a man. Without these qualities all we have is a dependent and that shit gets stressful and irritating as fuck real fast. Slaves require ownership and with ownership comes fun stuff like costs, maintenance, upkeep, service (you don't want your property breaking down now, do you?) expenses, and responsibilities. A slave girl is nice on paper and/or porn. But they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?The first one. A woman is a completely different and separate mind from my own so there will always be disputes and it intrigues me whenever they happen because she's sharing what it's like to be her and how she's navigating the world. It's attractive when a woman demonstrates that she is "other" and not just a parrot voicing back at me what I say to her. It's possible to argue while still being on the same side. This is the difference between a loving wife and quarrelsome one. A loving wife has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?But if it means “not quarrelsome”, then why not just say “peaceful” or “cooperative”? Because the guys who say this are stupid as fuck and lack the vocabulary to articulate the complexity of their own feelings. They hone in on the descriptive word "submissive" because that is what the end product looks like. They are too autistic to elaborate or use better language to more accurately convey what it is that we are truly looking for in women. It also doesn't help that modern women are not as intel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?That's why I said code. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?So you want to always get your way? No. Sounds selfish. Because you're ignorant of what I'm talking about. What’s the benefit to women to be with someone like you? I could not, and have not, figured that out yet. That's why I had to break up with my girlfriend. Being useless to a woman is emasculating, even if women convince themselves it's somehow ok in the present, I posses enough wisdom to know better and I had enough balls to make the tough choice and separate myself from her. But that's an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Respect: Giving due honor, consideration, special regard, kindness, esteem, and maintaining boundaries towards another's dignity and humanity. Not to be confused with Leadership, which is the ability to guide and influence people towards a goal. And certainly not to be confused with Authority. Although, ideally, a Man's Man would posses all 3 qualities; but a God among Men would imbue them unto others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?What are "actually women?" Can you define what it is that you think we are rejecting in place of agreeable sex dolls? And why would that be the better choice for us? Genuinely curious what women think here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?And what about the word Respect makes you think that it's not about being able to speak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?It means she isn't part of the competition instead of part of my team. It means I can be at rest with her without having to justify, prove, explain, compete, or in any way have to put up my guard and go on fight mode. If coming home to a woman and she makes me feel like I never left the street, then that is where she belongs. Not in my home. This shouldn't need too much explanation. In fact, it shouldn't be explained so that women don't go on and fake it. The less women know what men seek the le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?And you cannot demand respect. It is given, because you behave in a way that she admires. This is called manipulation. If respect is something you give only when you admire someone then that is not respect, it's a bargaining chip. It's ammunition for you to do your little manipulations and men ain't buying it. Respect is something that is due to another person on the quality of their merit, rank, competence, and/or station in life, if you cannot afford your dues then you have no business being i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possibleIf you have to resort to a numbers game it means you suck ass at strategy. So instead of learning to refine your shot your suggestion is the shotgun approach: fling enough shit at the wall and hope something sticks. Instead of learning to build networks you're over here befriending women you're not attracted to in order to get to the attractive ones? Why so convoluted? Why not just network with the attractive women from the get go? Cold approaching is always going to be and always has been creep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 03:22 AM |
| 15 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Submissive is just code for Respectful. We mean we do not want quarrelsome women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Women should not be asked to settleNobody is telling women to settle. It is women themselves who always feel like they're settling because no man is ever good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:48 AM |
| 0 | If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options.If men weren't so needy and desperate They're called hormones. Their job is to literally shut off the rational part of the brain in order to compel men towards sex without thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:53 AM |
| 1 | If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options.The thing that stops men from seeing women as they really are is the desire to have sex with them. I believe that this here is the entire thesis of the Red Pill ☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableTrans women look like women but they are not women. Every trans woman can attest to getting hundreds of messages a day from men desperate for her attention. DMs in the anonymity of the internet where one can explore dark passions is not the same as being out and about in the real world. Hitting up a trans for fap material is not the same as wanting to marry one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableTrans women are not men. They're not women either. And I’m sorry but the men into trans women are not “niche”, they are extremely ubiquitous. Because, as I explained, the vast majority of men are straight and straight men will always be attracted to anything that even remotely resembles a woman. For fuck's sake we have sex will literal plastic that's shaped like a woman. You are attempting to argue that being so attracted to the female form - as a man - is somehow gay. lol I love how you then go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Women should not be asked to settleFine, then men should not be asked to "be better." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableI have, I have a friend who likes thick women but what I am understanding here is women are confused over what "fat" actually means. This is what we mean when we say fat woman. And this is what we are actually into when we are into thick women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableYou're not contradicting me... Straight men aren't into dick. At what point are niche dudes who are into trannys "straight?" Also, you're actually enforcing my point. Straight men are very attracted to femaleness. Even to the point of chasing after men who are passable as women. The reason trans women intrigue men is because they look like women. The attraction is for & towards women and not men, hence why they are straight. If the "man" in question looks like this it does not mean he's no longe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableThat's true, but that doesn't mean everyone is getting sex. Just like the majority of men are not having sex nor in relationships either even though somehow the majority of women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableFor example, lots of men fuck fat women. 0.001% of the male population is not "lots of men." why do so many men fuck women but don’t dare be seen with them? You mean hookers? The reasons are obvious, they don't want the wife to find out or get arrested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableYou're not listening to what I'm saying and I'm sick of repeating myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableHow many times, backwards and forwards, and sideways do I have to explain this to you? Men ultimately don't give a flying fuck about what other men think. We do not police or manipulate each other like women do. We couldn't give less of a fuck about what other dudes think or "judge." It's actually what women envy about us, how we function completely independently from whatever the fuck "society says." Most of us anyway, those that succumb to the peer pressure are not men at all and even women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:41 AM |
| 8 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableYeah but men don't do that. We do not and cannot function like that because guess what happens when a man tries to control another man that way? That's right VIOLENCE! Actual violence, as in, we will kill each other. Men have evolved a psychological and subconscious form of détente with other men. That's why we feel a type of disgust with how women manipulate and control each other and in turn attempt to control us - which doesn't work and only manages to piss us off and, yes, incite violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableOf course denial because what you're speaking is nonsense. We do not operate like that. And the further go on to say you’re miserable because you aren’t living up to this impossible standard other men set for you? I said we are miserable because we aren't living up to the standards we set for ourselves. Misery, drudgery, discomfort, duress, stress, and hardship are all part of the landscape we have to traverse in order to become more than what we are. This is why we say that men are not born, we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserablelol No we don't. This is statement is so deeply ignorant of male nature I don't even have any words to say. We have no desire or even the idea to control other men's sexualities. Like, where the hell is this even coming from? Who even thinks like that? The very idea of it is alien and foreign to us. Other dudes are sure as hell welcome to try. As if our sexuality is something that can be dictated. This is something women would say. I always hear women speak this kind of dumb nonsense. A man date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:00 AM |
| – | it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out .I'm saying that mastering your needs is better than being a slave to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:00 AM |
| – | it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out .It means you don't run your mouth and put your foot in it. It is better to let people think you're a fool than to open your mouth and confirm it. We are masters of our silence but slaves to our words. Whatever you say cannot be unsaid and often whenever you leave something unspoken it sounds louder than if it had come out of your mouth. Controlling your stomach means you control your appetite, you have the fundamentals of impulse control. It means you watch what you eat because you are what you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:58 AM |
| – | Does a woman's cheating past matter if you are the Alpha at the finish line?why would a woman who has left her current partner and cheated on her partner with me leave me? Why would she cheat on me with another man? Because there is always a "better man." The mere illusion of there being a better man is enough for her to already have one foot out the door in your relationship. can't I satisfy that woman's hypergamy instinct? No. Women's hypergamy plays on her imagination. If she so much as imagines another guy being better than you or imagines/feels that you're alphanes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 08:33 AM |
| – | it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out .Welcome to manhood. Life is already a bitch, don't end up marrying one. Here's some free internet advice: The man who has learned to control his mouth, his stomach, and his penis has already solved 90% of his problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Men need to have higher standards.Yeah and we also need to have higher wages and longer lifespans... At least dreaming is still free. It is exceedingly annoying whenever this "men need to have higher standards" BS gets thrown around as if the reason men are casting such wide nets isn't because of the severe lack of fish in the sea. Men barely get any attention at all from women - if at all, since the majority get no attention period - and here you are asking a choking man to hold his breath? And then wonder why this isn't ignora… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable.Nobody expects women to have men's libido. This is something that is as obvious, know, and even instinctual as water being wet. The fact that women have a much MUCH lower libido than men is part of Female Nature. it destroys the narrative that “men have more reasonable standards than women” Nobody pushes that narrative. What we actually say is that our standards are way lower than yours. That they are so laughably low that all we require is basically a pulse and to be female (both optional of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesWorld literature, art, cinema, and the entirety of the arts is what we base this on. Not "vibes." Men posses emotions that women can't fathom which you then mock or degrade into something childish in order to try and make sense of it. The biggest masculine concept women struggle with is the sense of Honor as one example. Men also posses instincts and intuitions that women just don't. I am starting to notice how women feel a strange sort of unnerving terror when they start to figure out that men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:36 AM |
| 1 | If attractive men use women as disposable with all that entails simply because they have options, then logically any man who will have options will behave like that, and others will just quietly want to, what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life?what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life? Shouldn't that be a question for women? How the hell should I know, as a man, what women want? I am not a woman. You tell me. I am a "man with options" and it is not the way stupid incels make it out to be. It just means women give me more preferential treatment because of my looks, height, and sound of my voice. It doesn't mean I just snap my fingers and all the women come running to me. Even though they are physically attracted they still a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesNot really. It feels more like relationships with women are just way too fucking complicated, they feel like a job where you pay your boss. I can see why so many men just want to stay single and prefer just staying friends with women just for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesFaith and Loyalty are not emotions. We are rational and stoic. Not "logical" or robotic which is a stupid stereotype invented by feminists to mock our masculinity because you just utterly don't comprehend it. We do not emote as you do, we do not think, prioritize, feel, view, or conduct and act on the world as you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesLower testosterone causes mood and cognitive imbalances. It literally makes men less interested in women, unable to concentrate and focus, and more difficulty regulating emotion. It also physically causes men to have that stereotypical incel-look where they get a fat belly and skinny arms and legs. It also impairs memory and emotional regulation aka "incel rage." In fact, I suspect that incels are a consequence of lowered testosterone across time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesMajority of men can usually tell. And when in doubt, ask around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 06:16 AM |
| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedRed Pill just means Reality Check. It's a metaphorical smack upside the head that snaps you out of your fantasies and back to reality. really high value such a ghost, because now you're more valuable than men who have money and status. I don't understand what you're saying here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:41 AM |
| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedAnd I'll let women argue my point for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:36 AM |
| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedAnd thank you for confirming the Red Pill. It reminds me I made the right choice. My ex was high value because she is feminine, beautiful, kind, intelligent, and everything I love and value in a woman. When I first started dating her I didn't really know how high up the "social ladder" she really was. I don't think I would have agreed to go out with her if I knew then what I know now. Would have saved us both a lot of BS. And yes, she was the one who asked me out, and yes she is older than me. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:19 AM |
| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedA woman with money is never going to be "high value" on account of her money. In fact, it can severely disqualify her in the majority of men's eyes. It's the reason I broke up with my girlfriend despite loving her sincerely and being in a committed relationship with her for a year. Not that she didn't have value or lost it somehow, but women with money present an irreconcilable conflict to men who value their own masculinity. My choice was between a life of emasculation with a woman I love, or g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:03 AM |
| 15 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesWe bribe hoes. There's a difference. As a result I was ghosted, slow fades, no commitment. Sounds like you've been weeding out the losers. It's a patience game. Desperation attracts the fuckboys. What I’ve consistently observed is that the same men who say they want “low body count” women put in far more effort for women who are sexually available. Because being horny is one fucking hell of a motivator. Women just do not comprehend how potent of a hormone that shit is. It literally overrides hig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 07:49 AM |
| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedthere are some women who are attracted to older guys, it's their right, That's all you have to say. many women actually noticed that after 30 something, young men start to flow in their dms Because the women in question look like this. You missed the part about being ugly and the motivation being solely her money, basically, and inverse of what gold diggers go after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneDo you even comprehend what gatekeeping means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneYeah, and women refuse a man after the man made the choice to approach them. It was the man who made the first move, he was the one who chose that particular girl over any other girl. It was his choice to approach or not approach her. You should also know that the vast majority of men choose not to approach. Those men who still do are the exceptions. And even when men decide to approach a woman, and she accepts, it is still his choice if he wishes to remain with her, or move on. This is why wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 07:26 AM |
| 0 | What are the problems with dating apps?A Red Pill is anything that causes you to see and accept reality. Trauma has a funny way of shuttering your mind rather than opening it. Someone that is traumatized is not red pilled, they are just traumatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneMen are the ones expected to propose after emotional coercion from women and society. It's still not normal for women themselves to propose or else they would, and are actually starting to rise. You're also ignoring that the vast majority of men simply do not propose, marriage rates are on the decline. You are laughing at women screwing over men who decided to commit to them. That isn't helping your case here. Men already have a natural aversion towards committing to women, especially under a le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 07:01 AM |
| 0 | What are the problems with dating apps?The red pill just means snapping out of one's fantasies and back into reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 08:30 PM |
| 4 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealI see what you did there... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealI was under the impression that most dudes that get pegged are conservative cucks. Why would openly effeminate libs even bother with having a woman when they can just get a man to go the whole way with them without shame or any need to hide? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 08:26 PM |
| 2 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealyeah... I'm not touching that with a 10ft pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What are the problems with dating apps?Most guys don't have that experience but I do and from a guy's point of view it's not creepy to get approached by older women. Guys who have a certain threshold in looks have at least one experience of being approached by an older woman or at least getting stared at or noticing women being extra friendly and approaching. I first noticed it when I was in high school and older women would talk me up. I didn't get asked out till I was 19. I recently started talking to a older woman who wants to hoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneWomen are the gate keepers of sex and relationships... Correction: Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. Men are the ones who decide if he wants to stick around or move on. Women's entire mating strategy and instincts are geared towards increasing her best chances in retaining a man's fidelity whereas a man's is geared towards getting sex. Thus, women decide which man is worthy of sex, but it is men who decide which woman is worthy of his time and effort. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:49 AM |
| -1 | What are your values? Do other people share them?My values are: Loyalty Leadership Duty Sense of mission Charity Compassion Retributive Justice Strength Perseverance Autonomy (independence is a pipe dream) Respect Gratitude What I value in a Woman is: Femininity Meekness Kindness Motherhood Temperance Respectfulness Modesty Grace (refinement and elegance) Everything that I value here is based on my placing the ultimate value on a woman giving me her trust. That is the one thing a woman can sincerely give me that I value above all other virtues… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:11 AM |
| 22 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealpegging connoisseur you say... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:56 AM |
| 1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealWhat makes you think women aren't already doing that? They are rewarding what they are truly attracted to, that's kinda the origin of the Red Pill ya know... Telling men they don’t have to be masculine but then proceeding to date only masculine men. Again, what makes you think women aren't already rewarding the things they truly like? They lie just to appear moral and righteous but their actions are their true words. Telling men they should be vulnerable and open up about their insecurities to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:45 AM |
| 0 | What are the problems with dating apps?Let me re-phrase: Unplug from the internet and go into the real world. Take the Red Pill = Unplug. Go into reality and leave the digital fantasies behind. And no, I was not telling you to watch porn and play games. I was making the comparison to draw attention to how equally useless porn and games are to dating apps. They are all worthless, meaningless, and ultimately unproductive towards the goal of finding actual human connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:13 AM |
| 3 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.It's very hard to tell unless a guy outright says it because we are also very good at hiding our feelings, and the reason we most often hide when we love or have a crush on a girl is because it's just not right. Either she is already taken or we have nothing to offer her or are cognizant that we are not attractive to her or it could be any number of reasons why a guy judges that making his feelings known to her is just not the right thing to do at the moment. And with life, that window closes ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:36 AM |
| – | What makes you not to want to date a woman?When she can't keep shit to herself and talks all our secrets out loud. Drama. When she's untrustworthy. Drama. If she's stand off-ish. If she's just not attractive. Being woke. Drama. If her face and her neck are different colors And Drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:01 AM |
| 3 | What are the problems with dating apps?That's it's a god-damned app and not a real person in front of you? You may as well watch porn and play video games, it's less taxing on your mental state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:00 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.My argument is that using this term to describe them is sexist, derogatory, and hypocritical. Perhaps, but that's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 05:49 AM |
| – | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?A clever employer knows that people have good days and bad days. A wise employer knows that accommodation on a bad day is just an investment for surplus productivity on a good day. At best, overall productivity is boosted, at worst, you break even and there is no true loss. Unfortunately most employers function as bureaucracies where productivity goes to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 05:35 AM |
| 2 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Well, it happened to me. And honestly I think it only happens to every man once in his entire life - if at all. I know of only two other dudes who have experienced genuine love based on how they describe their priorities. The rest of the guys I know I can easily tell it's just a temporary infatuation at or very temporary horny feelings at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 05:30 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Men who use this term are admitting that their own dicks ruin women, creating a great argument for why women should never sleep with them. That's exactly what we're telling you. If you think women are "ran-through" for sleeping with lots of men, then the only conclusion one can draw is that women should stop sleeping with men--including YOU. Again, yes. That's the message that we're intending to send across here. It is a sexist, self-owning term that only exists because of men who are too insecu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 07:59 AM |
| 8 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.My dad once told me "sex is always gonna feel important up until you love a girl for real." What he means is that being horny is always gonna be a fucking thorn on every man's side till the day we die. But when love is genuine and real then sex can fuck off all the way to the back row of our priorities list because we actually care about the girl we love and are much more interested in literally everything else about her from her hair color and texture to the shape of her eyes to her favorite mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?Um... I am not a woman but... if something is going on with you physically where you can't perform the job or can only perform it under physical pain and duress then HELL YES. This isn't even a gender issue. This is a basic ass common sense issue. I think the reason that woman in your article couldn't find a lawyer and the reason the laws aren't specific about this is because, again, it's common sense! Any employer who isn't a complete piece of shit 3rd world exploiter will know that pain = poor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:35 AM |
| – | A Glimpse into the MatriarchyThat sex club sounds like a typical public school (without the sex and a hell of a lot less anti-masculine). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?There are definitely a lot of men out there that don’t necessarily hate women but hate the idea of marriage and having a family. I am one of those men and we do not hate the "idea" of marriage or kids, we actually want those things, what we despise to no end is the application of those ideas. And I get why they’d feel that way. Just makes it harder to find a man that doesn’t. They’re very fearful. And for very good reasons. Which is why more and more of us are just fed up, exhausted and opting o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?You should know that you are rare, and very valuable. Like I said. What you've just expressed is not a common thing women want, at least not in this era, especially in my generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?It is not a "hunt for a virgin" it is a hunt for a woman who will not fuck around and make me raise another man's baby. It's a hunt for loyalty, Otherwise my line will end just the same as if I had remained celibate or died at a war somewhere. Nature sees no difference. There is nothing "Manly" about tolerating disgusting things just to prove one's manhood, in fact, that is exactly how you jeopardize it. If one can be goaded into proving their manhood with any arbitrary "test of manliness" that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?Millions more women say they hate men, hate marriage, hate kids, chalk it all up to "Duh Patriarchy!" Not only that, the way they act says more than their words. Even when they pretend to want these things their actions show a deep contempt of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What is Red Pill for you?I just did, I figured a lot of people have no clue what the Red Pill actually is so I dug up old phrases, axioms, and sayings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 10:56 AM |
| 1 | What is Red Pill for you?The Truth. It is not a "set of beliefs" as if it were a matter of opinion or politics. It's a set of facts, as in, Reality and Truth. A Red Pill is a metaphor for a kernel of truth that causes one to open their eyes to the bigger picture, to wake up, to realize, and to disconnect from the machine. Red Pill is basically a synonym for a Maxim. Notable Red Pills (or Maxims) include: All Women Are Like That (AWALT). Implying women share common and predictable traits. Your co-workers are not your fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?You get it. It's the same reason men don't like whores. The idea of going inside someone that countless anonymous dudes have been into isn't just gross it's kinda creepy. Like putting on underwear that 30 other guys already wore or sticking your hand down a drain where you have no idea what's in there but you know for sure you won't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:54 AM |
| 0 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?I think men who want a woman who's never been a whore to any other man are either immature or insecure, so definitely not interesting prospect partners. You can think what you like, but that it still our most basic and universal standard as men across all cultures and time. Our dislike and distrust of promiscuous women is instinctual due to the pragmatic implications and evolutionary pressures. Those men who got cucked by promiscuous women didn't pass on their genes. Those who mate-guarded the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:50 AM |
| -4 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?You have no idea how unreal that sounds. Women today hate with a passion everything you just said. It just sounds sus. Like, what do you really want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.You sound thirsty as hell dude. I agree though, you should be desirable as a man if you have any hope in hell of ever getting a girlfriend or sex but it's pathetic as all fuck is this is your sole waking thought. Life doesn't revolve around our dick my guy. You can be a thirst trap for women without having sex with them. You just need to know that they are willing, it's totally up to you if you wanna actually have sex or not. Lately after learning a few hard lessons I have decided that sex with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.Exposing women and calling them out on their BS is not "bitching about them." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.To the passport bros... MGTOW? is that you? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.MGTOW are the original Red Pillers - even before the movie from which the idea gets it's name came out. MGTOW is very old, the acronym is just the modern incarnation of a very ancient idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:33 AM |
| 3 | It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your ownIt's a bad thing when you're a simp. It's only not a bad thing if you genuinely like her and she respects you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical for RP menYes. A lot of women are actually mentally unstable or outright insane. If I had to guess I would say about 2 out of 5 women have mental problems now and 1 out of 5 have serious ones. I'm not joking. Finding women who are just mentally stable is getting very hard. I used to dismiss it as just "drama." But no. Let's be real for a moment. The shit that a lot of women do is just unstable and disturbing, sneaky, malicious, unhinged, and creepy. We men just tolerate it because we're stupid and fall fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical for RP menI already did and I had to let her go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical for RP menPhysically it's easy enough to describe: larger eyes, long healthy hair, hips, legs, waist, breasts, small shoulders, short, high voice, basically all the physical effects of estrogen. Character wise: passive, demure, curious, receptive, vulnerable, nurturing, intuitive, fussy, grateful, emotional, humble, patient, obedient, devoted, inquisitive, submissive, mischievous, pushy, supportive, respectful. Femininity is the polar opposite of the most hyper masculine instinct: Pride (the bad kind). A … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Hypothetical for RP menTate is a clown, King of the incels. Yes I'm more traditional. I'm catholic and it's not unnatural for me to resign myself to staying single for the rest of my life if I'm never able to find the right woman. Life is already too complicated without the drama of dating. My relationship with my ex-gf didn't work because I'm not at a proper stage in life. I could not reconcile that she already had her whole life and career set and I'm just low status, uneducated, and while we were dating I was also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical for RP menIt ends and starts with sanity. Cannot have intelligence without a sound mind. I didn't list my priorities in any particular order but if I had to choose my top priority it would be femininity. It disturbs me how unfeminine modern women are becoming. Feminine virtues are extremely attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:07 AM |
| 3 | Hypothetical for RP menMy ex-gf is 27 and I'm 21. Youth matters but Health, Sanity, and Femininity matters a hell of a lot more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:47 AM |
| 1 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?I treat her as that: Temporary. But also let me tell you, just because we commit fully to a woman it does not mean circumstances won't ever come up latter on that won't break our commitment to her. Women are constantly changing so the woman we love and commit to will not be the same person latter on in life therefore do not expect us to stay committed when the person we commit to is not there anymore. My ex-gf was a potential "forever" and I had to break up with her for complex reasons. I did no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Hypothetical for RP menI'll take the one that's not mentally fucked up nor physically used up please. My priorities are Sanity, Health, Prudence, Restraint, Femininity, Sanity, Gracefulness, Sanity, Youth, Intelligence, and Sanity. a 21 year old woman with a decent sexual past (high bc) and modern values You mean a used up woke hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Most women are not revealing to their current spouses that they are second best. We are very aware of that. Which is why it is prudent for men to assume that we will always be "2nd best," and never assume we are any woman's first choice. Given this knowledge and with women's hypergamy, it is just wise for men to always have one foot out of any relationships with women. Fully committing to any woman is as idiotic and stupid as paying full new-car price for a used one. This is where another Red Pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:03 AM |
| -1 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?The reason women become unappealing is They rack up a high ass body count which is a severe turn off to men. They have kids which the majority of men want nothing to do with. They accumulate a lot of baggage which makes them bitter and jaded. They believe that they can just pick any idiot to "settle down" with. Their attitude changes and they become more stand-off-ish and hostile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 07:35 AM |
| – | Guys seem not to understand the concept of enjoying one’s company.Boring women are usually not dumb. And dumb women are usually not boring. So... according to math, a boring and dumb woman is a vitamin, hence, why men love eating them. For the protein. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 07:08 AM |
| – | Guys seem not to understand the concept of enjoying one’s company.I can reply by saying that women don't seem to grasp that "enjoying one's company" is not the same as enjoying a man's utility. Women, even here when they describe the men they're with, always use language that suggest they enjoy what the men provide and conflate it with enjoying the man's company. No ladies. Just because you enjoy what a man gives you does not mean you enjoy the man's actual presence. You just enjoy the gift, not the giver. The old Red Pill axiom states. "Women love what men pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Women are the mess and I just don't want to deal with it. Why can't women just be simple, upfront, no drama, and without all the mindfuckery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Of course it's a me problem. But I also pointed out that I see the same pattern playing out with other guys and when I see guys explaining why they fuck up their relationships I see a LOT of common features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?I don't think you understood anything that I said. I was not "playing a role." I do not pretend to be something that I'm not. That is not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Yep, I figured that out the hard way, but then I discovered something else that I totally did not expect and couldn't even imagine. Sometimes when a girl likes your "authentic self" you may resent her for it because she is accepting a part of yourself that you personally detest. She may bring up some part of a man that he hates, and if she genuinely likes this part of him he will lose respect for her for enabling something about himself that he hates. This is why relationships are just way too f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Emasculation isn't real? Can you explain that one? You’re just an unlikable person that shouldn’t be with anyone. And yet women somehow like me and show interest in me, my ex-girlfriend not included. Women must be emotional masochists, yet one more reason I should keep my distance for my own sanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?No. The term "Alpha Widowed" refers to women who are always comparing their dates and suitors to the "one that got away." Specifically women who dated a man above her league that no man can ever compare to that guy and thus no man could ever live up to that impression that he left on her. Thus "Alpha Widowed" meaning no man will ever like up to that one that got away, the one she truly loved but could not lock down. Every other man will always be 2nd best. And let me tell you a secret: No man wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?I did not say you enjoy it. I said that it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Because we cannot be ourselves when we're around women. We have to constantly hold back, walk on eggshells, mind their feelings ever so carefully as if we're handling wet paper filled with shards of glass, and always be on edge about not offending them in the slightest or failing to meet any of their changing expectations. Men hate having to be phonies just to be liked. We all attempt it, and we all resent it. That's just the common stuff that they even made fun of in old sitcoms from even our g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Or does it vary by the times were in?I think we are because every time I hear women speaking about something it's like "lady, what century are you even talking about" because all the complaints and issues women keep bringing up have nothing to do with current reality. Except the complaints about incels or that men aren't approaching women anymore, those I agree are modern problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Or does it vary by the times were in?Why do so many men make this mistake of thinking that women are simple as you’ve made them out to be here. Because men tend to underestimate the complexity of female nature. Men commit the blunder of ignoring women's subtleties and believing you communicate as up front as we do. That's why the Red Pill exists. I do not and did not imply that women are "simple." Men are simple creatures in that we are functional, minimalist, practical, and down to brass tacks in the manner of our character. Compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:18 AM |
| 3 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?I like how you completely ignored the part where the man is initially attracted to the woman with absolutely no effort from her part and somehow that is a power imbalance in men's favor. Sure, because it's men who use our sexuality to manipulate women all the time right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 11:30 PM |
| 3 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?This ☝️ Women have no clue how draining and soul crushing it is to emotionally and mentally run at peak capacity just to get a woman interested, and then when we inevitably cash-out and revert back to our base level energy women take it as "taking her for granted" and "low effort." Like, bitch! We're just fucking tired and crashing from the workout that it takes just to get a woman interest and then retain their attention long enough to learn more about her. A nasty side effect is that this is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 11:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotI think it's a good thing to get men to face rejection more so that we can improve dating as a whole. Yeah except that when men expect rejection when acceptance comes it's always unexpected, creepy, and even repulsive. It warps women into these manipulative, cunning, sneaky creatures that always want something and are too chicken shit to ask for it up front so they scheme and conspire behind our backs using our attraction for them as a lure and a fog to always get one over on us. - speaking from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:55 PM |
| – | Why are women so attracted to talent?Being able to get up, go to work, and effectively take care of your tasks and needs is basic Yet, precious few mofos are able to accomplish this. Ask any employer, or parents still supporting their 30-somthings at home. If you are one of those that is able to get up, go to work, meet expectations and obligations, pay bills on time, etc, I got news for you: You are in the minority! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Just wanna chime in a thought here. Just as women think and view sex as dehumanizing, men think and view relationships with women equally dehumanizing and emasculating as fuck. It's one of the main reasons we sabotage them and feel uneasy and hostile to the whole fucking idea of relationshipping with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Yeah that's just BS. Women are always comparing men though you do it less systematically and overtly as men. Where do you think the aphorism of "Alpha Widowed" came from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:32 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menFor women, one of the most common complaints is directly the fact they like don't find absolute most men desirable. "I see a gazillion pretty gorgeous goddess looking girls for each somewhat cute guy!!!!!" is an extremely common opinion among women. My guy, women are starting to become instinctively aware of male scarcity. I've notice how women are starting to get bitchy and even angry whenever "good looking" guys who aren't gay are just not that into women. I have gotten dirty looks whenever wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Life is a little more complicated than that. I broke up with my girlfriend even though I genuinely love her. There is no "other" and I have decided that there never will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:09 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menMen should smile more Hell no. Then ya'll would call it creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?A woman doesn't need to jump on a guy's dick to show she's attracted to him. My ex used to: Cuddle up to me unexpectedly. Enjoyed sniffing me. Stare at me. Get pinchy. Make up excuses to always be touching me and get all up in my intimate space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Or does it vary by the times were in?It's not a "deficiency." You're making the same stupid error feminists make in comparing apples to oranges, men to women. We do not function the same. What men are attracted to and what we optimize for is NOT what women are attracted to and what they optimize for. This is making the stupid assumption that women are attracted to men in the same way in which men are attracted to women. They're not. The discrepancy is due to what each of us actually wants. Men want sexuality, intimacy, and faithful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?I couldn't. That's why I broke up with my gf. I handle it by not dating women anymore - problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 07:40 AM |
| 1 | What's something you find attractive in men that you think men wouldn't find attractive in women?Women have dainty feminine arms and hands that can be strangely attractive too. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Misogyny and misogyny denialMRAs are a political and ideological offshoot of feminism. MGTOW is the true way for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?From what I have seen on this sub, it seems that a lot of men have a negative view towards sex, especially towards being the partner receiving penetration. What you see is not what we see. When they describe a woman having sex, instead of saying exactly that, they often use negative/violent sounding expressions such as “getting railed”, “getting their back blown out”, “getting destroyed/wrecked” etc. Literally anything can be made to sound negative under the right connotations. The connotation i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?I don't know about other dudes but here are my two reasons based on my experience why I have treated girls that genuinely liked me "worse" than those who just felt "meh" about me. It's impossible to distinguish between a woman who genuinely loves us from a woman who is just manipulating us. They appear identical and indistinguishable until it's way too late and we either get betrayed or screw it up ourselves. The "love" feels undeserved, phony, false, manipulative or just plain fake and performa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Women should chase menI was the one asking, but, ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Women should chase menShe always did her best to establish a balance which in a way just made things worse cause out relationships was already emasculating for me then her "effort" - which was honest because she actually cared about me - just felt like she was condescending to me. And what do you mean by selling me a fantasy? I don't think she was interested in any fantasies, she genuinely wanted for us to be together and stay together. We talked about marriage a few times but the imbalance between her being better e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:51 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsRed Pill Wisdom 101: The man who learns to control his mouth, his stomach, and his penis, has already solved 90% of his problems. Sociopathy is not needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 07:00 AM |
| 0 | Women should chase menmen treat you the best when they know they can lose you at any second I broke up with my girlfriend for exactly that reason. 😑 Women never figure out how exhausting it is to constantly have to prove yourself, and that all the love in the world towards a woman will not override a man's basic instinct for self-preservation, especially after being alienated from the woman he loves when no matter how much we struggle to get closer she is always "unattainable" even when you're already intimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Women should chase menAre all men as sensitive as you Why are you attacking our man-feelings bro? Stahp! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?No. Because I am already against marriage as it is. Giving me any excuse at all to not marry is not going to persuade me into it. Unless it's with a hispanic woman, they kinda take on both names. So any kinds we have will have both of our last names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?First, nobody is arguing that they should. Second, no they shouldn't. So if modern females handle the childcare, the food, take care of the home, and work for their $, what exactly does a male add to their lives? Nothing, therefore, women shouldn't complain that more men than ever in the history of our species actually want nothing to do with women. I've seen men say they should be the leaders and protectors. Problem is, no one wants or needs those anymore. That's perfectly fine. Just don't stan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Hybristophilia contradicts hypergamyThe rigid idea of being "attracted to criminals" isn't. But the psychological idea of being attracted to dangerous, or potentially dangerous, men sure is. The attraction is towards men who are Daring and Dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Hybristophilia contradicts hypergamyHybristophylia - psychologically speaking - is women's attraction to dangerous and daring/bold men. A man does not necessarily have to be a criminal for a woman to find him attractive in this sense. All she has to do is perceive that he has the power, potential, and the will to break rules and to be dangerous if he so chooses, and that he isn't shy or inhibited about it. I think women fetishize such men because they are turned on by the risk and uncertainty of such a man, and also are attracted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Have you given every woman you’ve ever dated the same treatment?Nothing, that was one of the leading reasons I had to break up with her. There was absolutely nothing I could possibly do for her or give to her that some other dude could do better. And there was nothing I could give her that wouldn't be something I could also give to any other woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:37 AM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.Same thing we get out of rubber necking a car accident on the side of the road: Absolutely nothing! Just morbid curiosity. do you really value the advice and sentiment given by other men on here? Yes. I know a lot of people on here don’t want to listen to women’s advice, but is speaking over and dismissing them doing you any favours? Yes. Otherwise we wouldn't be doing it. If the goal is to get with women, why are you dwelling in a space most women would be put off by? Because "getting with wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Have you given every woman you’ve ever dated the same treatment?No. I gave my best to the one woman I truly loved. The others that came before her were just casual-ish relationships where we were just into each other superficially. But with my last gf it was deep. My treatment of her was fully present, fully interested, and fully intimate. I gad to break up with her for complex reasons and I will never love another woman as I love her. If I stay single the rest of my life I am fine with that because I don't even desire to ever go through that ever again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 05:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herShe is advocating for men to be simps. There is a reason men move on - and MUST move on - after getting rejected. And that's to NOT BE A SIMP. Her advice is malicious because when women initially reject a man and he still demonstrates favor and commitment towards her, she is not going to be intrigued by this, she is going to be irked and turned off even more! She is going to see him as a stupid tool, a clown she can use. Which is what he is if he lingers after she says no. Masculine men who have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"?Everything you said is funny as hell but I felt like I got punched in the gut because it reminds me a lot of my ex-gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 03:28 PM |
| 1 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.socioeconomics, mental health, values, etc.... all just variables and equations within the formula and hypothesis about women that form the greater "Theory of Women" (Female Nature). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 1 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.The problem is the complete opposite of what you are saying. Why do women always get shit completely backwards? The issue with men analyzing women is that we overdo it! We over-analyze women to the point of mathematical models for predicting your behavior and even down to genetics, physiology, aesthetics and abstract theories. It is the difference between engineers geeking out about a car's specs and overanalyzing the shit out of it to the point where the concept of "what is a car" itself comes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:29 AM |
| 0 | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?Men have their own sets of drives and passions. Men have a different set of axioms that fuck up our relationships just as bad as yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 05:04 AM |
| 1 | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?This isn't an argument, it's a character trait, an observation. The argument implies that there is an implacable drive to seek the perceived best and to then pursue it whenever possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 05:03 AM |
| – | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?How about you stop fucking insulting me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 08:11 AM |
| 1 | How come men are so comfortable in their own skin ?Because men's value is not judged on our appearance, but rather on our utility. This is why men fall in deep depression when we are crippled in some way or perceived as "useless." It's the reason we identify more with our jobs than women do. It's also one of the subconscious reasons we despise doctors and low key work ourselves into an early grave before the slow decay of age makes us useless and worthless. Most men dream about dying in our prime, or at least at the culmination of it. It is not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 08:07 AM |
| – | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?Jesus fucking Christ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:40 AM |
| -8 | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?Hypergamy implies that women are inherently always dissatisfied with whatever man they choose because there will always be a "better man." She will trade up as soon as she has the opportunity to do so and she will never fully respect whatever man she is with. Hypergamy is where the Red Pill axiom came: "She was never yours, it was only your turn." Men like to believe that the girl of his life will be waiting for him at the finish line after completing all of his required accomplishments to win h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menMeh, I kinda disagree with that. Women have their own sets of problems in finding men that they even like or respect. And even when they both like and respect a guy this does not mean he will be into her. Your misjudgement here is viewing this entire thing as if it were a power dynamic. As if displays of powerlessness would appeal to women rather than irk them. Because of that, their partner has to take initiative way more and put themselves in a vulnerable, powerless position more frequently, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Kneeling to propose is a humiliation ritual intended to subliminally prep men for the drudgery of married life.It could be interpreted that way, especially with modern anti-masculine feminist rhetoric. But I have an alternative view under the context of men who genuinely love the women that they are proposing to. Context is key. Without it, any story, any situation can be construed to mean some political optic or a narrative with an agenda contrary to both reality and the facts. Speaking as someone who has genuinely loved a woman and is culturally Catholic (make with that context what you will), the act … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you say that you do tend to struggle in the dating scene or with getting attention?I don't struggle at all with either of those. I don't date because I am fed up with women and am emotionally exhausted and burned out by them. I was in a serious and committed relationship and I learned a lot from it. I still notice women show interest in me but I am glad women never approach, makes my life a hell of a lot easier when I don't have to reject anyone, all I have to do is ignore or walk away and most women are good a taking the hint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:12 AM |
| 2 | How comfortable would you be if you found out the person you were dating had “lowered their standards” for you or “was giving you a chance”?I actually ended my relationship with my girlfriend because of that. I truly love her, but I made the hard decision to move on and let her go because no matter how much she thinks she loves me women's minds do not work the same as ours, it's just a matter of time before she loses respect and then the person I love will turn into someone else. I saw what the future would look like so I decided to just end things while we both still have time to move on with our lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men complain about being lonely yet refuse to approach women?The male loneliness epidemic" is a fake feminist narrative. The Red Pill would be the realization that this is a shit test at best, or a mediocre attempt at gaslighting men at worst. Men are not approaching women because women are not worth approaching. This does not mean we "must be lonely" it means we are fed up! I broke up with my girlfriend because having relationships with women, no matter how good or perfect they could ever be, is just not worth it for a man in this modern culture where ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?I thought the red pill was about changing your circumstances and adapting to your environment. Those are two mutually exclusive things. The red pill is about finding the truth, and it's up to each individual man to do with that what he will. all I ever see y'all do is whine and complain about women. Key words: "all you ever see." It doesn't mean that that is all we ever do. It seems like y'all aren't actually interested in changing anything. Like you don't want to try. The majority of us are not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 07:09 AM |
| 0 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'What you think is the "side effect" is actually the intended effect. Feminists tell on themselves when they accuse men of "weaponized helplessness" because they are projecting their own manipulation tactics unto us. Women are experts are playing the victim and the helpless spectator each and every time it suits them to dodge accountability for their actions. They claim to have fewer rights in order to entitle themselves to fewer responsibilities, even though legally they actually have more right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 06:30 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?What a completely evil cunt that sees a bunch of dudes finding happiness in foreign women and her first reaction is "we need to put a stop to that." Anyway. More power to those guys. If they can't find genuine women here and they have the courage and ability to try their luck in other places and finally find what they're looking for then good for them! That's what escaping the plantation looks like. Women should really how have any problem with this if it means that guys that you don't even like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:13 AM |
| 20 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Feminism's dirty little secret is that "The Patriarchy" is history's biggest fucking simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:02 AM |
| 5 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'We mean that women are valued just for existing. In contrast, a man has to justify, assert, and prove his worth with every breath. A man has to grow, adapt, build, and construct himself, make himself, build himself and then assert himself into a world that would rather not have him in it. Existence for a man is a fight. There is no class, no manual, no coaching that tells boys how to fight into adulthood, we are expected to figure all this shit out entirely by ourselves while weeding out all the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:59 AM |
| – | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Why do we have a generation of "weak" men? There isn't. You've just been swallowing all the Blue Pill bullshit. For example: The "Male Loneliness Epidemic" which is a feminist construct and a complete lie to sell men the idea that we are victims of ourselves and that salvation lies in reprogramming masculinity - with feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenYes THANK YOU! I have been saying this shit since 6th grade! Men are just not as socially needy as women are. We do not need human attention, we do not need emotional hand holding or sounding boards for our feelings. To add on top of that, men just need less "social bonding" period! That's why we usually stick to 2 or 3 guys we know and we are perfectly happy! And those 2 or 3 guys are not "intimate friends" either, we don't give a fuck about their birthdays or personal dramas, they are more lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:14 PM |
| 5 | The hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance a lot of progressive women have make it super easy for red-pillers to slam dunk on them.Honestly, it has just never crossed my mind that homophobia applies to women. Since forever it has always been beaten into our heads that only men are homophones as if women are incapable of bias or hatred. It just feels weird as hell and somehow out pf place. That is how waking up from the feminist programming feels I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.This is how unconditional love was explained to me by a nice old nun: "Unconditional love does not mean that I will never be disappointed in you, angry with you, upset with you, disillusioned with you, or that you can never do any wrong in my eyes that will make me regret my loving you. It means that when you do all of these things, despite injuring and hurting me, I will still tolerate what I hate about you for as long as it's for your sake in that you learn something from my pain and especiall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:40 PM |
| – | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicThere is no "male loneliness epidemic." That's cringe as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Autistic men struggle much more in life than autistic womenAutistic women are just women who are emotionally stable and sane. "Normal" women are mentally chaotic, imbalanced, emotionalistic, and unstable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here want women to sympathize with male loneliness?You can't be so dense as to confuse the desire to destroy women with the desire to attract them. Have you not figured out that not every guy here is a lovelorn imbecile? Some have an existential vendetta against women, and sex/romance are the last things on their minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many men here want women to sympathize with male loneliness?Bruh, we ain't women. We do not have the same needs that women have. We don't need to be hand-held, we take care of our grievances our own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:28 AM |
| -2 | Why do so many men here want women to sympathize with male loneliness?The question has a false premise: Most men, even here, don't want women to sympathize with their loneliness. Also, there is no "Male loneliness epidemic." That's just bullshit buzzwords to manufacture a false issue for brainrot content purposes. Part of being a successful man is being able to effortlessly attract women and a partner. It isn't very mature to ask for sympathy for how difficult it is for you to attract women. Well if you're just going to outright answer your own question then why b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?OP has no fucking clue what a Chad Widow is. He's been watching too much gay porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:28 AM |
| 0 | There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date.Conservative women are usually phonies though. Liberal women are hypocrites, they are Liberal but still prefer and are most attractive to conservative men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:24 AM |
| 4 | How do you think this "Red Pill recruiting" happens?Yeah, no... Getting red pilled is something that only women can do to men. Men can preach to other men endlessly, only women can actually convince us of it. It's literally how I was convinced, by watching the women I know, friends, girlfriends, my own mom, sisters, aunts, teachers, etc. I grew up watching the cringe ass "Red Pillers" like Andrew Tate and other clowns and yet I was NEVER convinced. In fact, they are the reason it took me so long to finally "take the pill" because I didn't want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenyour approach to relationships with the opposite sex (romantic or otherwise) is filled with ideas about the purpose of women within the universe. That's the Blue Pill in a nutshell. The primary similarity all human people share is this: we don't actually have any one, true, objective purpose. That's the Black Pill in a nutshell. My recommendation is: adopt the attitude and understanding that women are in the universe for the same reason as men are: to pursue interests, learn, and lead meaningful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 08:10 AM |
| – | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipBasically, yes. Actual Red Pillers are MGTOWs. The guys who just do the thing and don't really talk about it much. They lead by example rather than blabbing about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenThe biggest obstacle to men's rights is other men. That's because we are the ones who define what Rights are, or should be, and then we enforce and assert them - with violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want.If you cannot tell the difference between good men and bad men then why the hell make blanket attacks against all men? And then act shocked when it turns into a gender war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want.As women we shouldn't have to be fighting tooth and nail and whole god damm gender war just for men to do the right thing. And what exactly is "the right thing?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 09:06 AM |
| 12 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipyou frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationship. That's called gynocentrism, and is the antithesis of what the Red Pill stands for. You are not Red Pilled, you've been Blue Pilled by Pickup Artists and Dating Gurus. its end goal is to try and induce a personality that is focused on sexual/romantic appeal, and that comes off as pathetic to me. That's because it is pathetic. That is not what the Red Pill stands for nor what it means. I've never met a well-adjusted RP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:04 AM |
| 2 | What is great about therapy?And why should I give a fuck what that manlet says? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What is great about therapy?Maybe you should learn to read... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What is great about therapy?You have figured out life my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:02 AM |
| 2 | What is great about therapy?I did not say we are "working on our emotions" as if they are a sock drawer that needs to be sorted out. I said that we are "capable of self reflection, analysis, and meditation (colloquially called Decompression) alone." We do not require sounding boards, or to verbally vomit our "feewins" to a sympathetic ear. We can process our emotions internally, an advantage men have which is why we are very much VISUAL rather than verbal. We SEE emotions, we do not speak them. If this still makes no sense… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingFunny how that notion disappears when it's not a public spectacle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What is great about therapy?Greater Male Variability Hypothesis (GMVH) "The Greater Male Variability Hypothesis (GMVH) suggests males show greater variation than females in many traits, including cognitive abilities (like IQ), physical attributes, and personality, meaning more men are found at the extreme low and high ends of distributions, even if average performance is similar." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:12 AM |
| -1 | What is great about therapy?That's because some men literally think/emote like women. Men are far more diverse than women after all, so there are bound to be outliers. Some men are a lot more effeminate than others. These guys wouldn't have a problem processing their emotions the way that women do. But for the rest of us, such emotional/mental processing is basically alien, and even corrosive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingThe compulsion to tell her that "she's ruined" is for the purpose of throwing our voice into the greater discussion and expose any potential mass deception at play here. On a personal level, men don't really say shit if she were on the street just speaking 1 on 1 with someone else. It's because she is on a platform trying to excuse something men find unforgivable which is the reason men feel compelled to speak up and end the charade. It is a desire to set the record straight, not punish her spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingWhy are you downplaying the disgust factor though? Men are genuinely and viscerally disgusted by whores on an instinctual/subconscious level. This more than anything is the real reason we say hell no even before we rationalize a bunch of reasons to excuse the fact that we just don't fucking like whores because they are nasty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingWomen already treat traumatized boys like shit as a standard. Where do you think incel, creep. nice guy, and the endless icks come from? It seems to me like women love dishing it out but then can't take it when it comes back to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingJesus may forgive these hoes, but it doesn't mean you should... This asshole has no clue what Jesus taught. So fuck him and his stupid ass opinion. Forgiveness is preceded by Repentance. Men are rightfully weary of "reformed whores" because we know that people are creatures of habit, and women who put up a front of having changed their ways most often are just hiding their true nature and aren't truly repentant. The word Repentance (Metanoia) literally means "Change your Mind." A lot of these wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 0 | What is great about therapy?That is exactly how one is indoctrinated into a cult. It's comical how women can't seem to figure out how the manosphere itself is precisely "therapy" for men and yet you all call it out for what it actually is, a cultish ass mindset. It follow all the same lines and procedures you just spelled out. And then you wonder why men instinctively detest "therapy," aka brainwashing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:26 PM |
| 4 | What is great about therapy?Everything you just described is what men already do, entirely on our own, when we are alone in solitude and enjoying our quiet time. This is why in Red Pill circles it is heavily emphasized that a man is not really a full grown adult nor mature unless he is capable of self reflection, analysis, and meditation (colloquially called Decompression) alone and can thus sit quietly in a room by himself for very long periods of time. Every man is fully capable of doing this just out of instinct. It's t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:18 PM |
| – | Are most issues with modern dating caused by lack of effort from men?You are 100% correct. We have no fucking clue what you all like. I have never understood and still do not comprehend what my ex girlfriends ever saw in me. All I know is that they liked something. Most probably my looks but only because they say so and not because I can somehow tell the difference between men and millions of other dudes. I have completely given up trying to figure it out by the way. I'm fed up with dating with all it's fucking drama and complicated BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 06:30 AM |
| – | Are most issues with modern dating caused by lack of effort from men?It hurts so much to see average women and know that I am not good enough for them Nuclear Cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Why doesn't the red pill community try advocating for men's issues IRL.The red pill is about teaching people how to be more sexually attractive and to understand how attraction dynamics work. That is not what the Red Pill is at all, you are conflating it with PUAs, Pickup Artists and those cringe ass "Dating Coaches." The Red Pill is a metaphor for hard truths that open your eyes to reality. Nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 06:06 AM |
| 0 | Why doesn't the red pill community try advocating for men's issues IRL.First, because it's cringe as fuck and so emasculating that we would rather delete ourselves than be subjected to the status of grown children that can't fend for ourselves unless a parent figure/group/program/etc comes to our rescue. We are not damsels in distress that need rescuing. You are asking us to not just act like fucking victims but to start actually believing that we are. And to that, men with an ounce of masculinity say Hell Fucking NO! As men, it's in our nature to persevere, to str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want? No. Next question please... these are easy 🙂 Do you think women collectively use sex against men? Yes. Why do you think women don't have sex with you if they want it too? Because women are not as horny or sexually driven as men. They simply do not feel such a compulsion like men do. Our hormones and neurochemistry isn't the same. What make r pill men sure that their sexuality is right and women's sexuality an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for less"Because honestly, I deserve so much better than what these dating apps have to offer. And I deserve so much better than the men that I am surrounded by. That I refuse." I "deserve..." And "I deserve" so much better than the men that I am surrounded by... Now there's your problem. Besides, a real man wouldn't be intimidated by her circumstance anyway. WDYT? I think it's not your place to dictate to us what a "real man" would, or wouldn't, be intimidated by. But by all means. Keep believing singl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:26 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceYou can have your transactional opinions about relationships but they are not popular or cogent. I love men. Deeply. I love my husband so deeply. He did not earn my love. My love is freely given. For someone claiming "God is dead" you are sure speaking his language here. Anyway, I don't doubt you, but those who do will test you on it. My opinions are not just mine, they are the opinion of the masses. My own personal belief is that love is more than just desire, emotion, or even commitment. Love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceMaybe because their situation is such shit that they have nothing to lose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:07 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceYou can't reverse social progress in the near-term. The hell you can: Look at the Russian Revolution, the fall of Tenochtitlan, The rise of Nazism, the Mongol Conquests, etc. All rapid and radical changes in the fabrics of those societies. Most of which took place in the span 5 to 10 years, or less. And it wasn't always "progress." In most cases it's actually a fall backwards. chances are that your prisoner wife would deeply despise you on every level. You can't force women to love you or willin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:04 AM |
| 2 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceYes, he destroyed their chance of a good job or ever being loved. Trump wasn't president 20 years ago, or even 50 years ago. You think this just happened overnight? You still don't get it.... We have nothing to lose! We don't give a fuck about "feeling power," we just want this - this right here, this fucking society - to end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceInteresting how women love "poking the bear." That's probably why they prefer to encounter the bear in the woods, seeing as men kill bears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:01 AM |
| 2 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceDo incels even exist anymore? Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceYou have things backwards. We didn't vote for a "savior." We voted for a destroyer. And he didn't disappoint. Trump is the useful idiot here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:55 AM |
| 5 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceTrump was the nuclear option. We know what we voted for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status?The instinct is there to push for reproduction, whether it has a point or not is a philosophical question, not a pragmatic one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Not buying it. A woman with a body count higher than John Wayne Gacy is not attractive to me no matter how much feminists spin it. A woman that has been with a bunch of dudes is just.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status?You should lurk more on the Discovery Channel and learn about inherent male behaviors and instincts on planet earth. You see, we function as a hierarchy. And in hierarchies the ones at the top get the lions share in terms of both resources and access to females. Therefore, it's a masculine imperative to strive to be the best. It's so innate in males that it's the rule across species, not just humans. We ain't nothing but mammals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsAnd then you all get mad when men treat you like a game that need to be figured out, defeated, and then extract our earned prize out of you. More women would get the ring that they want if they held back some of the value that they provide in the relationship in order to incentivize the man to take the next step. I have heard women giving that advice to men, it does not work the other way around. Women like it when a man holds back his value and feeds it to her in exiting portions to keep her am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Slutcon - a training camp for learning how to flirt, etcWhat do you think? Only idiots will fall for it and thus deserve no pity. Falling for clever tricks is one thing, but this is so fucking obviously a con that these idiots deserve getting ripped off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Slutcon - a training camp for learning how to flirt, etcThe more I am out in the social jungle the more I am realizing that no, men are not bad at social skills, it's just that we don't care enough to play these idiotic mind games women want to play. Our lack of patience is interpreted by women as a lack of social skills. The same guy that is called "socially awkward" by women is often the same guy that they don't realized is wealthy, educated, and above their league. The test is to see how fast that "awkwardness" disappears when they find out his tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 03:46 AM |
| 3 | The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism.Gonna need more information than that bud. I still have no clue what OP is talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 03:25 AM |
| -2 | The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism.Um... what the hell is the "DL Trend?" You need to define your terms before attempting any kind of communication, more so if you're attempting to argue something. Otherwise nobody is gonna know what the hell you're saying and misinterpretations will be so rampant that they will cloud whatever it is that you're trying to say or argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Women are bad at commitmentI'm not persevering through a shitty job or relationship. I'll find another one. And that's totally fine and well within the reason why jobs that nobody wants to do are also the highest paying ones and why men also earn more than women when they decide to persevere while women constantly quit and build a bad data set that makes them toxic to average employers who view them more as a flight risk and a liability than an asset. Here's your 🍪. YES! I will eat the cookie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skillsYou are "bartering" with society, not depending on it. Big difference. That's why it's called Economy. Don't be fooled my friend. The scam of the ages is men trading their value in labor and skills for inferior product and lessening wages. The best way to not get screwed is to offer something of value and then demand equal value in return or take your business elsewhere and allow parasitical economies, and their agents, die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentOur pigheadedness is the reason we are the Apex Predator on the planet, the smartest animal in the solar system, why we live on every continent, continue to conquer deceases and find solutions to problems. Our ability to tough it through shit situations is the reason we break barriers and sustain foundations. Perseverance is a Virtue for a reason. Women are like Does, Men are like Honey Badgers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Women are bad at commitmentIs it just me or does the whole "men leave when women are terminally ill" thing just seems extremely counterintuitive? My basic ass protective instincts would compel me to stick with her until the end. What kind of piece of shit leaves a woman when she is literally at her most vulnerable? That is usually when a guy's protective instincts should be at their peak. This just doesn't make sense at all to me. Whenever my girlfriends (non-romantic) get sick I get that urge to look after them and it ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skillsBy learning to not depend on it for your mental well being or basic survival. Get off social median entirely. Don't even fucking hesitate, just do it! Learn to distinguish peer-reviewed literature from tabloid-ish trash and sensationalist journalism. The ability to distinguish Fact from Fiction, Truth from Bullshit is fundamental. Learn to control your mouth, your gut, and your penis. This will solve 99% of your problems. Find men who can mentor your in shit that you wanna be good at. Be weary, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:12 PM |
| 2 | The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skillsThey tried it and it worked! Why do you think the movement got way bigger and dropped the name? Even women are attempting to imitate it with their 4B nonsense which has already fizzled out because women can't tolerate solitude the way men do, and especially the fact that for men solitude is therapeutic - we actually need it - whereas for women it's a kind of torture. Women are notorious for choosing to have bad company rather than no company at all. That is why they stick shitty relationships be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:24 AM |
| 6 | The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skillsThe #1 problem with "lonely" guys is that someone has convinced them that their grief is not due to living in a gilded cage but rather because they're just just not "relationshipping" hard enough. There is no "loneliness epidemic." Someone has convinced these suckers that their misery is loneliness, their suffocation is loneliness, their strife, stress, repression, anger, entrapment, stunted growth, stagnation, and hindered masculine potential under this anti-masculine culture can all be cured w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 03:26 AM |
| – | Q4W: What signs or signals do men give off that communicate the message "Do not approach me" to romantically interested women? Assuming the guy is good looking and outgoing.What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.The way we end is not the way we begin. Yes, respect goes both ways. We start off respecting women, then we end up distrusting them, disillusioned, and put off. Men who don't have respect do not expect any in return. The ones who get burned are those who give women respect and the benefit of the doubt; regret is a potent medicine. That deep regret is the stuff that the Red Pill is made of. Again, only women can truly Red Pill a man. No amount of preaching or advertising by other men will ever be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What signs or signals do men give off that communicate the message "Do not approach me" to romantically interested women? Assuming the guy is good looking and outgoing.Yeah but I am wondering what is going on in women's heads when he does that. How does that look like from your point of view. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:32 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: What signs or signals do men give off that communicate the message "Do not approach me" to romantically interested women? Assuming the guy is good looking and outgoing.Women are very sociable so they do approach men all the time just not with any romantic intentions. But every so often, men who are top tier in good looks do get romantic intentions thrown at them by women just to see if he bites. And most of the time all a guy has to do is literally nothing. But sometimes women get persistent and that is when guys have no real polite ways to tell women to back off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 07:32 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: What signs or signals do men give off that communicate the message "Do not approach me" to romantically interested women? Assuming the guy is good looking and outgoing.The ring trick would probably attract a different kind of woman. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do men want a trad wife.Why do you want to put women into one of 2 groups? Because everything in between is just a slippery slope to the bottom. We don’t want to be with men that try to mold us into their version of what an ideal women is. That's fine because we are not interested in molding women. We are not interested in fakes, phonies, or reformed whores. We are interested in finding genuine women who already fit the mold. Any woman who doesn't fit what we seek is free to do whatever she wants without our attention … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Peace, hands down. This isn't even a contest. We are willing to end relationships with good women (no matter how heart wrenching of a choice it may be) who threaten our peace, no matter how perfect she is, and even if the threat to our peace is no fault of her own - I ended my relationship very recently because of this, and I'm jaded about it. Therefore, a woman who brings peace is basically a Unicorn. I have never met one and I do not entertain any hopes of ever doing so. And it's not fair to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.Bullshit. Because there are other ways to get respect. We are talking about respect within the confines of a relationship. Nobody gives a shit about respect at work, on the street, or online. We are talking about relationships here. Stick to the subject. Within a relationship, women are disrespectful as fucking hell by default these days and they insanely expect men to respect and honor them in return for their insults. There is just one word to describe this: Insanity. And men will only put up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Why do men want a trad wife.Because the alternative is so aspirational, right? Being passed around like a hoe we feel no remorse for in discarding like cheap underwear. If calling "a doormat" the one type of woman that we are telling you that we actually respect, far and above all else - just below the literal virgin Mary herself - it only demonstrates how clueless you are of what true and actual value in a human being is. As feminists are so fond of saying: "Men are pigs." This would explain modern women appear to be so d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 05:19 AM |
| -5 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.You are arguing my point in reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:25 AM |
| 0 | Why do men want a trad wife.Because a traditional wife is not about "staying at home" to do the cooking and popping babies and being jobless. That is a stupid caricature that feminists invented in order to shit on men for desiring what we desire so that they can give themselves license to play the whore in their youth and then find God and a simp to "settle" with when old age makes them weary of their passing fertility. There just isn't a place for a reformed whore in a genuine man's heart. It is more virtuous to just stay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.You are obfuscating the real issue in that we want Respect, not "validation and admiration." Love without respect is called infatuation. Because who mainly complains about being seen as unlovable and being alone due to society not caring about them? This is about the guys getting mad... that they're seen as scum of the earth just because they want companionship. Some people not getting love is not new, so why is this suddenly considered a societal problem for men? Your hive-minded feminist solip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Pick Me Girls are not respected by men. Women are not jealous of them.We don't say that women are jealous of pickmes. We say that women are threatened by them. Pickme women are likable, adorable, and very alluring and even addicting. They do have a lot of pull with men, and women hate that. They hate it for the same reason men hate simps. But unlike simps, men genuinely like pickmes even if we may not want to commit to them. We still like them as friends. Women are irked and icked by simps which just doesn't happen with pickmes in men's eyes. Remember “Men dont co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:38 AM |
| -5 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.She needs to be charged, and publicly named and shamed. Um, no. The matter should strictly be between her (the perpetrator) the victim (the dude) and a court of Law. It does not need to be anyone else's business. The court of public opinion should never be permited to have any power over individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:23 AM |
| 27 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Her "defense" is as insane as that lunatic who shot a cleaning lady who went to the wrong house because he "feared for his life." Never underestimate the dangerous combination of Stupid & Victim cohabitating the same idiot. Cowards are far more dangerous than predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:16 AM |
| – | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreI openly chastise women who belittle or scoff at their men, Your sisters would call that a "pickme" attitude - we have gatekeepers and attitude police on both sides here. The majority of women, both on platforms, and in real life, are all begging avoidant men to open up, go to therapy, etc. No. You are nagging us to emote like women. There is a big difference. I mostly see other MEN calling the alpha and beta and simp and Chad words. That's just men closing ranks against feminism. Other men make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:56 PM |
| – | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreI used to think that before I was in the relationship with my last girlfriend. The reason I opened up to her is because she always showed effort and willingness to work with me and she went out of her way many times to support me in any way she could. That is why I was completely blindsided when other issues that I could not even imagine creeped up on me and that I still don't fully understand them. Even though she was putting in effort I still felt that god damned noose on my neck, and felt it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Too many guys let normal experiences become their whole personality and stunt their growth.I think I wasn't clear, so let me clarify. I wasn't talking about middle or high school girls (the students). Those are not adults and are just as clueless as the boys. I was talking about the middle and high school staff who are predominantly female and woke (the teachers, principals, administrators, counselors etc). Who are all grown ass adults (I hope), and who are certainly not clueless of the passive malice against boys they inflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:28 PM |
| 3 | More men aren't single because they have "bad personalities"I'm gonna say a very uncomfortable and controversial truth here: Most men are single because they want to be. MGTOW never went away, it just got bigger, dropped the acronym, became more symbolic, and went silently mainstream. Perhaps piggybacking off the corpse of whatever was left of the Red Pill after the feminist incited censorship campaigns against the manosphere years ago. Why do I say that? Think about it without bullshitting ourselves. A lot of men, especially incels, confuse being horny … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:15 PM |
| – | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreLove is when you desire the good of the other, when you take pleasure in bestowing benevolence on them and are genuinely happy to see them happy (even without you), healthy, and on the right path in life, even when that other person pisses you off and gives you absolutely no reason to justify your benevolence on them. The ones who are most often an example of this are mothers towards their kids, and even they fail at it all the time or show lapses from time to time. The ones who are never credit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:59 PM |
| – | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreHanging out with women as friends is extremely different from being in a relationship with them. When a woman is just a friend I don't have to do any of this performative bullshit with her or in front of her or constantly having to prove myself to her. Something gets lost when that threshold between friendship and relationship is crossed. The same person that used to be really fun to do stuff with now becomes a noose arround my beck and a tripwire at every step, suffocating my mind and a stress … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Women give all sorts of complicated tactical reasons for not approaching men that they like as if they're masters of subtlety but in reality as all the women close to me have fessed up it just comes down to plain old cowardice. They're faint of heart. Period. So the expectation is for men to be the bold ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Too many guys let normal experiences become their whole personality and stunt their growth.Yeah, traumatic shit happening to you during your formative years having a deep and lasting impact on your personality. Who would have thought? You hear that boys? We are not allowed to bear the consequences of what grown ass fucking women did to us when we were literal children. The females are not giving us permission to be angry about the shit that they do to us when we're kids. Bear in mind, if a man says any mean thing to any woman they label that as "violence against women." Now, I realize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 08:29 AM |
| 1 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.The guy who doesn’t and is interested is let’s be honest - a coward. Every time I have ever been interested in a woman and decided not to approach and just walk away was not because of "cowardice" but because it was just not worth it. Women are just not worth it. Some men may still think they are, but in my case I have learned the hard way that they're not, and never will be, even if a woman is perfect and loving and overall too good to be true, it is just not worth it. I am starting to understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.My ex-gf approached me, and it was still a bad match. I still broke up with her after I thought we'd be together forever. A whole universe of unforeseen problems come up that neither men nor women are aware that they even exist when women initiate relationships with guys that they're attracted to. One example: A guy just not being either ready or adequate and although a woman is perfect it's possible that she can be too perfect which makes the guy perpetually feel like a piece of shit to the poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 07:26 AM |
| 5 | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreMy point is that loving women more will not make you immune to getting dumped because when we decide to do so it will be for reasons you may or may not expect. A month ago I did not expect I would be breaking up with my girlfriend, I still had hopes of figuring shit out, but I couldn't, so I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 06:49 AM |
| 6 | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreI think women understand more than men that if a relationship isn’t actively GROWING, then it’s dying. Thanks for solving a mystery that has been bugging me since high school. I could never figure out why relationships with girls always feel so exhausting and eventually leave a man burnt out. I've asked my guy friends and they share the same feeling that being with women feels tiring and they break up because of emotional burn out. Perpetually 1-uping ourselves is a miserable existence, even for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreStarting to believe that the man needs to love the woman more But towards what end? I loved my girlfriend more and I broke up with her regardless. And I did it precisely because in loving her more I could no longer handle the deep and corrosive feelings of inadequacy and of just never measuring up to what she deserves so guess what? I removed myself from her life so that she can eventually find someone better. I ended up hurting her anyway and deeply because we were already making long term plan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.It does not matter what we choose, we will get shit either way. If we choose poorly and end up with a shitty woman and end up breaking up it's our fault, or if we get lucky and get in a relationship with a really good woman but decide to end the relationship we still get shit for it and judged as "not man enough" to handle a good woman. So we will get shit either way. It's a lose lose situation no matter what the choice is. A man dumps a bad bitch and he's not "man enough" to handle her, dump a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of sleeping with someone you aren't attracted to?In the scenario where she isn't physically attracted to a guy but still goes ahead and sleep and then marries him, what is the point here? There is no point here because this doesn't happen outside of backwoods countries with archaic marriage rituals. This sure as hell doesn't happen in the west. Assuming she has a job, what is she getting out of this arrangement? Absolutely nothing, which is why it doesn't happen. You're asking us a very weird question that isn't based in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.You're explaining Briffault's Law with more words than necessary. Briffault's Law: "The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place" Simplified: "Women love what is provided, not the provider." Which reminds me of a old MGTOW aphorism: "You can either love women, or you can understand them; but you cannot do both." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | 4 Types Of Men Over 30Funny how all your types revolve around women - and are defined by them - as if they are the center of universe. -MGTOW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | why do men complain about women liking bad guy, when they literally have a fetish for crazy women?Chad loves crazy bitches because they are easy to pump and dump without remorse. Average men hate crazy bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:20 AM |
| 0 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?We are not lying when we say that we are repelled and attracted by the same woman at the same time. Our brains have that built in flaw to make sure our dumb species mates, or else we would go extinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:35 AM |
| 0 | Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ?Being anti-feminist does not automatically mean we are pro-conservatism. This is where women are very confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:50 AM |
| 0 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Because they're hot. This isn't rocket appliances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:45 AM |
| – | We should start telling people when they are younger you aren't guaranteed a relationshipYeah, while you're at it tell us also that the sky is blue. Don't know where you grew up but that was never something that anyone ever implied as a guarantee or even that it was possible in this fucked up culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:35 AM |
| – | Men's Libido Is a DiseaseIf we weren't literally hard wired to sexually thirst after women we would seriously have no fucking reason in the world to ever talk to them at all. We have zero things in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Bruh. You are literally asking us as if we each know what is in the opposite gender's minds! If we had that kind of information this whole subreddit and the red pill itself would not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!MAGA did not hijack the manosphere. The Red Pill is NOT a sexual strategy hub. You are confusing it with slimeball Pickup Artists (PUAs). Please get informed before you speak. You clearly haven't got a clue what the manosphere even is if you think discourse over religion, politics, game, investing, hobbies, life improvement, hasn't always been an integral part of it's DNA. The Manosphere is the antithesis of the "Safe Space" it's a Hazard Zone of ideas where any and all opinion is subject to mer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Is the red pill mentality useful for people in troubled relationships where both really love each other?Red Pill is just a metaphor for thousands of little axioms and aphorisms that help men navigate a feminized culture that has been weaponized against him and to better understand women's nonsense in said world. The Red Pill was useful for me in breaking up with my gf. It gave me the nerve to choose my own dignity and walk away with it intact during a time of foggy mental crisis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe your life holds value simply because you exist?What do you mean by gained personally? We acquire and then increase our value through experience, the acquisition of skills and competence and the gaining of resources and other intangibles which we can then exchange for other valuables like housing, food, status, wealth, materials, and of course women and families. I don't understand your question. Personal value in a man is gained by the conquest of his external world. This is why we instinctively assert ourselves in a world that is indifferen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismTrue. But the problem is that so many women are hopelessly sold on the idea of marriage that they then force it unto men to decide whether or not they have to marry them or else break up. Men who then stupidly sign without fully understanding the huge set of life-destroying problems that is going to eventually erode any good thing they ever thought they had with a woman. Too few men know or even understand what marriage actually means for them or what they are truly signing up for. Too few men e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Therapy is a scam. It's insulting and annoying how that is now women's default go-to solution to every problem in life rather than addressing the actual problem. Part of the reason I am so sick of women is this hopeless drone mentality devoid of any independent thinking that is so hopelessly institutionalized that they honestly believe that more institutionalization is the solution. Telling people to just "get therapy" as a cog that just needs more grease in order to be a better fit in the machi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?My dad taught me a very important lesson after my mom divorced him: "don't you ever get fucking married unless you're a stupid motherfucker like me and you wanna end up on the street like I did." It's a lesson I take very seriously because I got to see what pieces of fucking shit women turn into when they can wield the power of the state. I also got to see my own dad completely disgraced and screwed over by the system and women in general. I've recently broke off a seriously relationship with a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?To this day I have no clue what birds or bees have to do with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:06 AM |
| 0 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?In modern feminist culture he would probably be put on a criminal watch list if he did. My dad never talked to my sisters either and the reason is because he says he is not a creep and that grown ass men have no business talking about that topic at all to kids, especially to little girls and ESPECIALLY their own daughters unless they are pedos. Girls will eventually figure out this shit on their phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?I've heard this phrase being used in 90's sitcoms. My answer is no. Had no idea it was a thing until I saw it in YouTube on 90s shows. why do you think so many guys never got that talk growing up? Probably because we already know a hell of a lot more about relationships than they ever did at our age so by the time they think "the talk" should happen they find out we know more than they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Are you afraid of being alone in your twilight years?No, I prefer it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Not with women, not anymore. I'm done. After my breakup and fucked up experiences with them all my life, I am totally and utterly done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:37 AM |
| 5 | Do you believe your life holds value simply because you exist?Hell no. The question is almost insulting in presupposing that existing as a man gives us automatic value - as if we were women or children. For men, our value is gradually acquired in life through the gaining of competence and utility which we can then barter for other valuables. Emasculation is therefore the stripping away of a man's utilitarian value because without a utility we have no reason (no value) from which to even exist! This is why we are willing to kill, or be killed, to preserve i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Depends on your genes. In my family men carry our weight in our gut, back, chest, arms and legs. We get that beefy "fat buff" appearance even when we don't weight train. I've noticed other guys get all their fat stored on their stomach leaving them with that bobby hill appearance where they are fat in the middle with skinny arms and legs. Other guys get a lot of fat around their thighs like women which is the type of fat that women find the most unattractive cause it signals low testosterone and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Plain can be hot, therefore, not average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I do not need to be a woman to acknowledge that yes, most men are ulgy as fuck. There is a reason they are all flocking up to the 1%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Never underestimate the stupid. - My dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:18 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highI do not believe women's standards are too high. I just believe that they are "not for me." Whenever women lay out the qualifications and list of traits and demands they want from a man I interpret that as them wanting a whole ass man that isn't me. It's not as if there is a "standard" that if I were to meet it then she will automatically fall in love for me. That would be stupid. What I interpret from this is that she wants a completely different man that is just not me. For example. If a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.they are being truthful in what they say but factually it's a lie ... But when they say it they don't actually believe it's a lie or do it on purpose . Isn't that called insanity? allows them to manipulate men and leave them for resources without any baggage or feeling of wrongdoing or remorse generally... Isn't that called sociopathy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Actually... yes! And I am not joking. It has become a billion times more easy to navigate and deal with women when I take anything they say as a lie with an agenda. I may not always understand women's agenda but the understanding that they lie all the time helps me not fall for their BS and figure out what they are hiding or what they are truly saying. Plus, when it just gets too complicated with their drama and mind games I just quit and ghost them cause it's not worth stressing out about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismIt is neither. Therefore the whole putrid ass system needs to be abolished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismyou lose your bargaining power in your marriage. And you wonder why men are giving the middle finger to marriage. We always knew you see marriage as a victory peace treaty within the gender war, and never as an act of loving commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismI know so many girlboss women who find a husband with no problems. My girlfriend fits that description but the though of breaking it off has been creeping and getting louder in my head lately. There is a lot of shit that is going on that I can't explain and can't deal with. She hasn't done anything wrong, in fact she has been doing everything right. She is almost too perfect. I love her and all but when my internal alarms just won't shut the fuck up despite everything appearing just fine on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to Womenvery Man Can be in the Top 20% to Women. What are you selling bruh? Seminars, books, a podcast, youtube channel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Too complicated. I'd rather just fap and get it over with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Just because we dislike a woman doesn't mean we don't find her hot. And you can't preach because women do the same shit all the damned time. They spread their legs for physically attractive dudes even when they don't like him or respect him - I know this from personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Are there any positives to usual porn consumption?And that is why men do not approach women anymore. Only the predatory weirdos do. That is exactly the reason I stopped approaching girls way back in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Are there any positives to usual porn consumption?I can vouch for this. ✋ It's common knowledge among guys. There is also a lot less regret, stress, and anxiety because once we nut we just turn off the screen and walk away clear headed and relaxed. Actual sex sometimes has the nasty side effect of sending a rush of clear-headedness (post nut clarity) which makes all the idiotic shit we had to do to lead up to sex come rushing back along with all the problems we now have to deal with because of said stupidity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Are there any positives to usual porn consumption?Porn helps keep the edge off when men have fully committed to being single. It's a good way to relieve sexual angst without the need to chase after women. It will not cure the problem, but acts like an inhaler to an asthma patient. It gives us that short breath we need to get along with our day and stay clear headed. I have been a daily porn watcher for years. That's called an addiction bud. When I said watching porn keeps the edge off I meant once or twice a month. not every freaking day! How c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenI think women are getting more and more annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"?I have never had problems with them either, on account of never associating with them. And I don't intend to finding out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?There is no "male loneliness epidemic." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | The real world treats men in their 20's - 30's onwards who are virgins as failures.Sir... and how in the fuck would the world know that any old random dude on the street in his 30's is a virgin? Is there some kind of public record or registry that has the names of all these virgins? Are we supposed to list "virgin or non-virgin" on job applications or some shit? How would you know? Unless virgins are also dumbasses who advertise their cringe status to the world even as no one asks. Perhaps the bullying is a result of wearing their virginity like a chip on their shoulder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.Women do not have the same raw biological imperative & drive to reproduce that men do. Because they don't need to. Men come to them, they have no need or desire to approach men. To use ocean life as a simile: Women are passive feeders, like corals, oysters, barnacles, and sponges in the ocean. Men are active feeders by contrast, like sharks, bass, or swordfish. Men need to actively seek out a mate, while women just sit there and their potential mates just come to them, like plankton to a sponge.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 6 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?You haven't looked into how many married women bitch and cry about their husbands have you? It's enough to cause a serious pause on any young man and seriously re-consider ever getting committed, much less married, to anything so fucked up and emasculating. It's the reason MGTOW blew up (separate and apart from the Red Pill) and has not stopped growing despite Orwellian efforts to stamp it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:25 PM |
| 8 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?Because one thing has nothing at all to do with the other. Men taking anything that they can get has no bearing whatsoever on women's choice of relationships. "many men settle for any woman they can get rather than choosing a partner" That's because men do not actually have a "choice" as if harems of women are lining up to date us. Men's choice is not between Becky or Suzie. Men's choice is between Anything or Nothing. It seems like they’re more interested in being in a relationship, and if they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badWe have a "Male Loneliness Epidemic" Said no actual Red Piller, ever! That phrase if mainstream feminist bullshit made up by the establishment media with a made up narrative to keep bashing men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 05:55 AM |
| 1 | The only criteria to loving a man.Teh fuck is larping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Why do men want to go to places with hot women if these hot women will reject them?Why would a man want to go to a club where there are hot women if these hot women will reject him? They don't because this isn't a thing. You answered your own question in the next sentence, those guys were only joking! Most men today do not go out. That was a 80's and 90s thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:36 AM |
| 3 | I feel like most mens' lives are decided as early as middle schoolGirls started noticing me in 6th grade. It took me a minute to notice that they weren't giving the same kind of attention to my friends. Biggest bullshit women ever say is claiming that looks don't matter. That's also around the same time I discovered their millions of "icks." I was into nerdy stuff with other guys and sometimes the girls would be like "eww why?" as if they couldn't comprehend why I would be into stuff that ugly boys are also into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:46 AM |
| 0 | If you became the opposite gender, what would you want to look like, what sort of life career and relationships would you pursue?I'd be exactly the same except probably just physically smaller and lesbian. I would still be in trade school and being physically smaller I'd probably struggle less with getting into tight spots and my hands being small enough to reach into places I need to repair. According to AI the "female me" would look like some chick called Adriana Lima. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedThe "gay/bisexual" shit is the load that doesn't belong in the question. The question there is about being gay, not about ending horniness itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedYou're right, you didn't... I should rephrase. You are piggy backing on a loaded question that women have previously been asking men since way before this thread started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedBecause you are asking a deceitful loaded question. If you were to ask men if they'd be willing to take a pill, like any other old medication like Tylenol or Advil, that has the power to "end horniness" for 8 or 12 hours, without any side effects, would men be interested in such a drug? The answer is a resounding YES! The reason you get a lot of "no" responses is because women sneakingly add in atrocious side effects and then talk about "the only way to achieve that is castration" and other mani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedThe idea is to nuke the sex part while leaving the drive intact. If you honestly ask men if we could just delete or turn off "being horny" at will the vast majority would say hell fucking yes! Because this means leaving everything else intact. Same drive, same ambitions, same motivations, just no more sexual angst, no more sexual mind fog fucking up our better judgement. No more simping, no more stress, no more wasting valuable mental energy on thinking about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:42 AM |
| 10 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedActually, we do. We REALLY do. Would actually be a fucking dream come true, imagine we can just take a pill that eliminates being horny. We would make whatever company invents that shit wealthier than Amazon and Tesla combined. Porn, dating apps, OnlyFans, and all type of sexual marketing and even dating itself would go extinct within a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:39 AM |
| 24 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedOur sexual desire is not "imposed" as if someone taught it to us. It's innate, as in, we are literally born with it. It's hard wired into our brains and programmed into our very DNA, literally. This thing that you're proposing has been a dream within MGTOW circles for almost a decade. The idea of some kind of wonder drug that can kill sexual angst the way Ibuprofen gets rid of headaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:34 AM |
| – | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightWhen in doubt, punish everyone involved! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | The only criteria to loving a man.Women will be happy with either sex or respect, but men require both) I hope you didn't lose sight that we are talking about this within the context of a relationship. Are you telling me women are ok with getting no respect from a man if he's just using her for sex? The reason that respect is the litmus test for whether or not I as a man will commit to a woman is because this is something that women cannot fake, and it's an indicator of her loyalty which is very important in making sure she isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?We DO get told to smile. By women! We just don't care because it's not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | The only criteria to loving a man.I'll respect you when you're not a literal sex toy. And what would I care that you call me a bitch or whatever if you still fuck me every night like the good dog you are ? Lol. An actual question. Nothing wrong with being a sex toy, just saying. And I didn't call you anything, I was just following your train of thought. As for your question, what would you care? 🤔That was kinda my point. You would have no respect for me no matter how hot and sexually gratifying I am to you as your sex toy. The s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:50 AM |
| 2 | The only criteria to loving a man.I don't have a wife, i have a girlfriend. She's 27 and I'm 20 and she's educated with her own career. You're kinda insulting her more than me here. And of course I seem like a shadow of a person to you because all you know is a passing opinion that I decided to blurt out. Aren't you supposed to be the more empathic gender here? Where is the deeper understanding that women are supposed to have that I've been beaten over the head all my life? You're not exactly behaving like the superior gender he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:30 AM |
| 2 | The only criteria to loving a man.You're just sentient dildos. I feel like that should be insulting, but somehow it just isn't. So, meh.. Even you pretend like love and respect are things that are needed, but really both are covered by exclusive sex. I don't speak for the spineless jellied simps crawling around this place, but as for myself, Respect is a requirement if I am to take any woman that I am having sex with seriously. I have no trouble fucking a girl that disrespects me, if she has no expectation of receiving any respe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:18 AM |
| – | When exactly is a woman deserving?Ohhh! I get it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | The only criteria to loving a man.You are conflating two mutually exclusive groups of men. Sneaky sneaky... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | The only criteria to loving a man.Sex is a cornerstone, and the thing about corner stones is that if one is missing then the structure isn't sound. Love, Respect, Loyalty & Sex. If one is missing then the relationship is basically a sham. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:59 AM |
| 2 | The only criteria to loving a man.Don't bother trying to give him an ounce of respect or dignity. You had reason and reality on your side up until this point. Respect is everything. Disrespect a man and find out. You are also leaving out the substance by which the lack of sex would be seen as disrespectful to a man. Mainly, that you would've already given pussy to the previous 15 guys but when it comes to him you give him the old "but I won't ave sex with you because you're special" bullshit routine that so many dumbass women be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:51 AM |
| 0 | Men should be douchebags to find loveI wasn't a douchebag, I was just mostly indifferent and just being myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:45 AM |
| 1 | When exactly is a woman deserving?Then explain. I'm curious to know under what merit did I earn this girl's love and affections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:55 AM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Competence doesn't come with Leadership attached though. A ton of men are pretty competent at life, but are just as repulsed by Leadership as my girlfriend is. A ton of men prefer to coast. Guys who can actually take charge, step up, and own shit are rare. A battalion of men tends to have just one commander. The mythical 1% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedI read that as "close their eyes, no kissing, just used them as cucumbers." 😆 But seriously, what percentage of men are we talking about here? Yes some dudes will close their eyes and fuck a literal sofa when they're horny enough because insanity is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:17 PM |
| – | Writer researching men’s loneliness, why do some find purpose in ‘self-improvement’ or ‘masculinity’ channels?There will always be dorks and autistics who take shit to extremes while completely failing to grasp the spirit of the message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better"Be perfect, as your heavenly father is perfect." - Jesus Christ. In case you ever wanna talk about impossible standards. This is the core of Christianity, the strive to perfection, an impossible goal, but the merit is in the fight and the struggle not in the attainment of said goal. Even if you don't believe in a literal God the will to be better than the bullshit around us is a noble goal in and of itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Female intrasexual competition is the reason why women tend to have few or no close friendsYou clearly missed the point. So I will repeat: Men do not define what a "friend" is the same as women do. Therefore, when you ask two sets of groups, who define the same word in two different ways, you are going to get two separate sets of responses. Example. Ask Americans and Mexicans how many "pedos" do they know. Same word, two completely different meanings to each group, therefore, two completely different answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedFat = Not hot. Men lie ALL the time. If they have nothing better to fuck, they will lie to overweight women and say they prefer a woman with meat on her bones. If a man is willing to fuck a chubby then he is clearly not lying. This is a woman with some meat on her bones. And this is not. This isn't complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.Red Pillers tend to believe that psychology is bullshit. Wha 'chu talkin' bout? We use a ton of psych symbolism and theories to explain practical and pragmatic observable behaviors and phenomena, (the way Carl Jung did), that doesn't mean we believe the source is legit empirical science anymore than Jung believed that alchemy was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:39 PM |
| 3 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.From my experience, at least with my gf, she seems to prefer and feels more at peace with the world when I am "in charge." She's a bit high strung so she has a need to feel passive and submissive and she really enjoys it because for the other half of the time she needs to be responsible, accountable and bear with all the stresses of what all that entails. She's 7 years older than me and has a career and earns much more than I do, she's basically set in life but she still prefers it when I take c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | When exactly is a woman deserving?Dating is pretty meritocratic. lol no it isn't. There was zero merit when my gf asked me out. She was just attracted tome and took her shot and it payed off for both of us. I was in absolutely no way ever trying to even find a date before she came along. Zero merit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | When exactly is a woman deserving?Simple: Women deserve what they earn, same as we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedMen will tell fat women that they love curvaceous women to get in their pants. Everything you listed is attractive except for the fat chick. No man EVER will lie to sleep with a fat chick. That is just an insane assertion of yours. That is like me telling you that women will lie and say they like short, balding, lizard skinned, neckbeards just to get their 2 inch dick. How confused must you be to assert that men will lie and say that they are attracted to women that we are very clearly NOT attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Writer researching men’s loneliness, why do some find purpose in ‘self-improvement’ or ‘masculinity’ channels?The self improvement with men started with MGTOW and it was never about "self-improvement" as if we are peacocking to women, it's self-actualization with the intended purpose of detaching from society as much as possible. Society is anti-masculine, therefore, as men, our mission is to self-actualize elsewhere. It's why we have a lot of focus on self-betterment for our own sake and looking out for #1 instead of looking out for Ms. Right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Writer researching men’s loneliness, why do some find purpose in ‘self-improvement’ or ‘masculinity’ channels?The self improvement with men started with MGTOW and it was never about "self-improvement" as if we are peacocking to women, it's self-actualization with the intended purpose of detaching from society as much as possible. Society is anti-masculine, therefore, as men, our mission is to self-actualize elsewhere. It's why we have a lot of focus on self-betterment for our own sake and looking out for #1 instead of looking out for Ms. Right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Writer researching men’s loneliness, why do some find purpose in ‘self-improvement’ or ‘masculinity’ channels?Because men are not born, we are made. We do not have the luxury of love and acceptance just for existing. We must justify and then assert our existence unto the world right as we leave our childhood, which is when we lose all value while women's continues unconditionally. Here is something for your research. Men speak in a non-verbal and symbolic language to each other that is utterly incomprehensible to women. Which is why we also use a lot less words. And even though we try to use words to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Female intrasexual competition is the reason why women tend to have few or no close friendsWomen severely underestimate men's networks. Just because you don't call the 50 contacts in our phone "friends" doesn't mean you get to define our friendships away. Men do not define what a "friend" is the same as women do. People in here always make me feel older than I really am every time I have to explain basic stuff. Like the fact that men and women are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 05:30 AM |
| 0 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedMen lie too about what they are attracted to. Lol, why in hell would we ever lie about what we want? We are notorious for being loud and to the point about what we are truly attracted to. It's never been a secret and we do not lie about it. You will never hear a man say they like a woman based on her "personality" while overlooking the lack of physical attraction. You will never hear a man say that he is willing to give a woman that he is just not attracted to "a chance" just because of her inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 05:21 AM |
| 0 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?What do you have to offer to make it worth her sacrifice? Most men are neither expecting you to sacrifice anything nor are we offering anything. A growing number of men are just done. What about in short term relationships? What do you do that makes it worth it for her? I am in a relationship and I have no idea wtf makes it "worth it" for my girlfriend. I have asked her and she gives me the same canned responses I hear women give in this place, but I honestly just don't buy it. She's with me for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterWhat exactly is the belief that you're calling horseshit here? Because I was addressing the belief that imprudent sexual behaviors and actions will lead to ulterior consequences like STDs, mental and emotional stress and duress, loss of reputation, unwanted pregnancies, and a whole slew of other issues and problems that can be avoided by exercising better judgement, discipline, and wise restraint - like an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedWe are not shaming women because they're attracted to the top 1%. We are shaming women because they are dishonest and deceitful about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.In reality most people would consider that funny as hell in a disturbing kinda way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:50 AM |
| 3 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.It's called "going monk" or guys who are in Monk Mode in life. The idea is not to "address" anything. We as individual men do not have the power to change a whole society and the mere attempt at doing so is stupid. Therefore, the only thing in our power is what we choose to do within our own lives. For a lot of men that means staying celibate and practicing the discipline involved with such a commitment. This practice builds strength and character. What leads a lot of men to make this choice is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsEmotional Intelligence means you have the capacity to both detect and then regulate your own emotions as well as to comprehend and abstract the emotions of others and manipulate them at will. Most women do not have emotional intelligence. They just love to believe that they do in order to feel special all the while proving that they severely lack it. Women believe that emotionalism = emotional intelligence. If they were actually intelligent (emotionally) they would comprehend how merely being em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?It's actually a question for CONSERVATIVE people but uh there isn't that flair the subreddit. Glad you made that distinction because I was just about to ask if you were asking Red Pillers or conservatives, because Fuck conservatives! Yes, I am Red Pilled. And no, Red Pill does not equal conservatism. So again, fuck conservatism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 05:08 AM |
| 4 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.there are A LOT of men who will still try to fuck her even if they wouldn’t necessarily want to date her after. That is 1000% correct. And the Red Pill identifies this lizard-brained urge as a flaw in our wiring. MGTOW was the response to this flaw and an attempt to fix it (kill it) through voluntary celibacy (Voltcel) "going one's own way" rather than keep chasing the unicorn like simps and following gynocentric thinking and culture. Whereas for women, him acting socially off-putting is genuine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterExplain how a woman deciding to have a baby, without the consent of the man, is the man's responsibility. Now again if bodily autonomy isn't a thing anymore then we're going to force a vasectomy on you as you wish to impose an abortion on a woman. Don't change the subject. Answer the question: If you decide to have sex with a man, and you get pregnant from that choice, explain how it is now the man's responsibility that you - and you alone - get to choose to have that baby against his will or co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptThe world never revolved around us. Stop peddling feminist fan-fiction. and this feels like oppression to some. That sounds like women projecting their own sense of loss of status and privilege in an era where they have enjoyed the most of both things than ever in our species' history. Again, stop believing in feminist BS. They had to go to wars before, they had to work longer hours with even less pay and worse living conditions everything is much better but they're angry they can't possess and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Do married men see their wives as old hags after some years?um... ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Do married men see their wives as old hags after some years?There is nothing convenient about marriage. 🤨 Especially for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Do married men see their wives as old hags after some years?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterAgain you have the EXACT same rights as women. No we do not. Men do not have the right to opt out of fatherhood the way women have that right to opt out of motherhood. In fact, men have less legal rights than women and we are forced to pay for your mistakes and subsidize your lifestyles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterYour disturbance comes from superstitions about religion that drown out the wisdom within it. The idea that Catholics "don't let people use birth control" is a deceptive reduction of a warning that is meant to prevent the consequences of bad actions by forewarning you of the consequences. A religious way of saying: "This is what you'll find out if you fuck around." Literally and figuratively. Birth control is a way to evade and prolong the consequences of unwise and incorrect actions. And it app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterAnd women DONT have reproductive freedom. So I don’t know what world you’re living in… The entire world is not Afghanistan. So I don't know what world you're living in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:44 AM |
| 6 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterConsenting to sex does not mean consenting to being a father. If you are talking about a man who has already been a father to a child and chooses to abandon his kids when they are grown that is a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 05:42 AM |
| 4 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterChoosing to release sperm is not choosing to have a child because... It is the woman who chooses to accept said sperm. She has the choice to not accept it at all. Nothing here is happening without your consent. It is the woman who chooses to accept the pregnancy when she has the option to end it with a pill sold at any pharmacy. It is the woman who chooses to bring the baby to term by not aborting it. It is the woman who chooses to keep the baby by not giving it up for adoption. Explain to me at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterSo easy for men to use that as an excuse. Because it is an excuse! In the full and literal definition of the word. If you have sex with a woman, you take that risk. What risk? That I am going to be legally coerced into child support for a decision I did not make? Explain to me how does that make sense in your head? Remember how men told women to close their legs if they didn’t want to have an unwanted pregnancy? Remember how women do not have to suffer any unwanted pregnancies anymore. Well here… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 05:02 AM |
| 17 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterWomen get blamed for becoming single mothers because.... The choice to whether or not have a baby is entirely the woman's choice regardless of whatever the man's opinion on the matter is. The choice to have sex is entirely a woman's choice. Nobody is forcing you to do anything. Due to modern birth control, women have full control over their own reproductive organs. With full control comes full responsibility, and accountability. Even if women do not consent to sex they have the option to not liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked betterThat's because the decision to have kids is not a man's decision. In fact, he is entirely excluded from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 02:11 AM |
| – | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?May as well tell me there is a pine tree across the street from her house. It's just as meaningless. writing fanfiction communities, having a collection of romance novels, keeping up on K-Dramas, Love Island, The Bachelor, having Disney Princess kitsch, etc... I would still not date her though. Something about that description sounds like she's gonna be drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 05:47 AM |
| 6 | Is hiring escorts as unethical as some people make it out to be?The danger is that "desirable men" will get tempted and figure out how much easier it is to dabble with AI Gfs and escorts to satiate our biological urges rather than keep paying the toll in traditional dating. It's like sugar for example. The thing about all these replacements for women that the incels keep peddling is that they are also massively tempting for average and above average men. Just as with sugar, it does not matter if you are at peak health or poor health, that shit is still addic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 04:53 AM |
| 10 | Is hiring escorts as unethical as some people make it out to be?I'm a 22-year-old virgin and I've come to the conclusion that I won't lose my virginity unless I pay. Every boy figures that out when he's 12 my man. Even when it's not with money, trust me, you pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:43 AM |
| -1 | Do married men see their wives as old hags after some years?If the wife becomes an old hag then yes. If she doesn't become a hag then no. Do they feel repulsed that their wives hit the wall and no longer young? No. Why men want to marry if women are aging and losing their attractiveness overtime anyway? Because men love the women that they pick to marry. There is a russian 50yo producer who married an 18yo actress, even tho he has a daughter who is 19yo, and that didn’t stop him. That wouldn't stop any man to be honest. So what stops men from leaving the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | If men are always expected to pay, why haven’t women accumulated more savings than men in western societies?A false premise is a presumption or assumption contained in a statement or question which is false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:09 AM |
| – | why don't women love-bomb men? how do women make effort towards liking a man?The only true pickmes I have ever seen in real life are drug addicts or they are insane. Some women have a weird kind of territorial/nurturing instinct where they "take care" of their man as a way to say "hands off" to other women and as a way to make him feel appreciated and welcoming to her. It's sort of manipulative but it works especially if a woman is genuinely affectionate because from my perspective it is just not possible some random girl I meet could ever match my gfs affection and inti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:02 AM |
| – | Men should increase thier standards and be ready to be single if they dont get what they want.You know the problem with western men. You guys want sex way too much. Not with fat women 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 02:51 AM |
| 1 | why don't women love-bomb men? how do women make effort towards liking a man?Why not? My gf does that. 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers?The sharp difference between a Provider and a Beta-Bux is that the Provider gets both respect and esteem for what he provides. A beta by contrast get neither of those things while still expected to provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers?Career does not make a woman more attractive. It's impossible to simplify or explain it any more simple than that. Look at this woman. No man alive is going to say to himself "wow she is sooo hot and cute because of her Ph.D and high salary!" Remove both the diploma and the career and what will men see? Exactly the same thing! It makes zero difference! Why is this so difficult for women to comprehend? I'll dumb it down even more: A hot woman with a career. A hot woman without a career. Differenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?I would give her a chance. But if there is no love then the relationship is not going to last very long. Also, I want to have kids eventually so the no sex policy would be a huge issue. Like I said, I would be willing to give it a try but I do not expect it's going to last very long. A woman that doesn't like sex is not going to like a huge chunk of who I am and we will never get to any intimate level so there's that. She may as well just be a very hot friend that I am just more fond of than my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?But you have to admit there are a ton of sins that good looks can cover up and make up for. I am a dick sometimes and I have always noticed how women are a lot more forgiving than when uglier dudes do the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?It's the double-standards we have issues with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:05 AM |
| – | Women are not repulsed by men opening up about their feelings, they're repulsed by incompetenceGrown women, yes. It's just as repulsive when grown ass women behave like toddlers. I can understand sometimes women just ooze their emotions out because that's just their natural way of communicating. But when these emotions are utterly unregulated and unfiltered that is when it becomes cringe as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:44 AM |
| -2 | Does virgin-shaming exist?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:42 AM |
| 47 | Men should increase thier standards and be ready to be single if they dont get what they want.And who exactly is supposed to increase their standards here with the majority of men already being dateless, sexless, and single already? Your suggestion is as asinine as suggesting to a starving population that the solution to their problem is to go on a diet and fast. What you're missing here is that with low standards also comes low tolerance. Just because men are willing to fuck any women does not mean they are willing to tolerate any women for any longer than it takes to do the deed. The g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:38 AM |
| – | Women are not repulsed by men opening up about their feelings, they're repulsed by incompetenceA man can expect a woman to help solve his problems. He can and should expect any support he needs at that time. That just sounds wrong and kinda manipulative as hell. That is certainly NOT what any guy my age has ever been taught about women. That's got to be some old timey thing from the 50s or something. Instead of listening to what we say, they whine about HOW we say it. You got that wrong. The reason we do not listen to what women say is because it doesn't match what they do. Women's action… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:26 AM |
| – | Women are not repulsed by men opening up about their feelings, they're repulsed by incompetenceFeewings = Incompetence. lol I actually agree with this. Guys who gush out their feelings are usually immature and incompetent at dealing with them. It's repulsive as hell, even to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:20 AM |
| -1 | Do your feelings towards women come from jealousy or genuine disgust?It is not possible for me to feel jealous of women. Do you find yourself feeling more spiteful because women have it easy, and don’t have to think too hard? No, that is just the nature of being a woman. It is idiotic to get angry at something natural, kinda like being angry that leaves turn yellow in the fall or that ice cram melts in the sun. It's stupid. They get complimented and asked on dates without even having to try, and people often automatically assume that women are kind people. Absolu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | I think that MGTOW and 4B types are deluding themselves when they say people are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender.Surely [my gender] going their own way will bring upon a catastrophic change to the status quo that will result in my desired gender relations becoming reality! Nope. "Surely [my gender] Going Their Own Way will bring a precious and non-negotiable peace to my life, against the status quo, that will result in me realizing the many things I can live my life without!" There. I fixed it for ya. You are not in control of the negative societal trend. You cannot make a bad trend good by inventing a pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.I am not a "good man" and have never considered myself to be one, nonetheless my gf says that I am, at least to her. The issue is not that women's expectations are unrealistic, they've always been unrealistic, read anything published before 2010 or watch any show or movie made before the 2000s. Women have always had "dream boys" that they're attracted to. Operating word there is "dream." The issue is that men themselves are not as thirsty for women as before. In all that same old media I describ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 04:26 AM |
| – | What do you do to be a good partner?I love her I respect her I understand her I feel her I protect her I help her I hug her I carry her I rely on her I listen to her I mentor her I humor her I'm her confidant I will always be there I don't simp to her I don't lie to her Just off the top of my head. She showed me this song saying that it describes how I make her feel whenever I look at her with hungry eyes. Modern music is crap when it comes to expressing love so that is why we both dig through older music from a time when I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 06:44 AM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really areI believe men women often evaluate attractiveness in other men women through traits men women themselves value and then assume that women men rank those traits just as highly. So the dating struggle isn’t only about women having “too high standards.” It’s also about men inflating their own self-perception and then chasing women way out their actual league. Chasing women out of our league? How silly that you assume we chase women at all. That hasn't been a thing since like the 90's or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 06:07 AM |
| – | equal treatment vs preferential treatmentBecause building houses, roads, and the logistics involved in global trade and business do not require any rapport and face to face networking with your team, clients, investors, and field leadership right? You are falling for that stupid feminist narrative that the way in which women communicate is the correct way, while masculine forms of communication are disregarded as not being communication at all because women cannot fathom wordless, symbolic, and visual speech which is the preferred meth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Personality genuinely matters as much (if not more) than any other traitRiiigh... lol Because my girlfriend was so enthralled by my "personality" when she first saw me. Totally had nothing to do with my looks, fitness, height, and face when she kept staring at me and finding little ways to keep interacting with me to know me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: it's underhanded for men to keep their assets in their mother's name in case of a breakupIt is always good for men to look after their own best interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:16 AM |
| 3 | CMV: it's underhanded for men to keep their assets in their mother's name in case of a breakupI think women are mad that men figured out a way to not get screwed over, and instead, choose to put their assets on a woman that they know they can fully trust not to back stab them - his own mother. It's also very telling how women still prioritize what they can get out of a relationship even after it ends. Goes to show women only want money and stuff and don't truly give a fuck about any man, the only care about what a man provides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Young women are dating the same terrible menYou act as if women don't reject or break up with men for much more stupid reasons than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 05:37 AM |
| – | Young women are dating the same terrible menIt actually does, that is why even psychopaths show niceness, even if it's performative and totally fake and self serving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Women don't regret because you got better but you treat better.I think OP might have been wanting to talk about men that women have broken up with. I don't think anyone ever regrets the people that they reject because there is no basis - no missed signs - from which regret could even talk hold. Otherwise, the rejection would not have taken place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.You're literally figuratively saying women inject men with emotions? like some kind of fucking neurotoxin. There, I made the correction for you. Everything else you said is just a blatant disregard for what I actually said and you're making up your own narrative. I'm not going my own way we're walking together unshackled from one another but choosing to go through life hand and hand as equals pursuing what we want. That is what Going Your Own Way originally means. The entire thing started as an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.You're taking away personal responsibility and autonomy when you say things are injected into men. And you are attributing full intent by dismissing the biological reality and flawed human nature of what it is to be a Man. As much as I would love to agree with you that we are these perfect beings who are in full control of everything all the time, unfortunately Men are not Gods. We fuck up and make a shit ton of mistakes and there is a lot in this fucking world that we do not and cannot control.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolDays probably, but I doubt weeks unless the guy is stringing her along acting as if she's got a chance. Whenever I notice girls orbiting me I purposely create distance. Women usually take the hint and they stop orbiting and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How does RedPill actually make you feel better about life/help you?The Red Pill is basically just learning how hotdogs are made. What you do with that knowledge is entirely up to each and every individual man. It is always better to have the most accurate understanding of reality possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 04:14 PM |
| 4 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolWomen also do that when they just feel vulnerable in a public space. It doesn't mean she likes the guy, she just gets close to him to feel safer because there may be something about him that she trusts more than being all by herself on the other side of the street. This also happens when there is a creep in the vicinity, women tend to bunch up closer to the more stable looking guy in the room when a creep is present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 04:11 PM |
| 4 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolWomen also act like they're into you just to boost her own ego. It's not even about you when she's flirting with you. That's what's so fucked up. I get flirted on all the time. Women just do it to get an internal confidence boost by assuring themselves that they can still attract any man. Then there are a growing number of women who are just naive as hell with their body language and they intentionally flirt with you thinking that this is just good social skills and being friendly. So guys, spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 04:05 PM |
| 0 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.His story checks out. Older dudes in their 50s and 60s who've been married and divorced several times and been burned can corroborate his analysis. My dad came to the same conclusion after he got screwed over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:33 PM |
| 0 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.Understanding the woman doesn't help. That's a Red Pill aphorism: "You can either love women, or you can understand them - but you cannot do both" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:30 PM |
| 0 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.This is a beyond stupid reason to get married. Men are notorious for being stupid as fuck when they think with their dick or have their rational faculties addled by emotions that were injected into them by women, especially when they think they're in love and just want to please the woman. This is why the Red Pill exists. It's a metaphorical slap to the back of men's heads telling them to stop being so fucking stupid. Imagine getting into a lifetime agreement without bothering to fully understan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.My dad once described the marriage ceremony as a "waking funeral" for men. Essentially your life is over while still a zombie above ground just counting the days when you'll actually get to rest for eternity in the dirt. I understand why women, even with all their talk of feminism and shit, still latch on to that archaic ass ceremony. It's because for women marriage is a contract which favors them in absolutely every way possible at the expense of both the man and the state. She is getting a shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:20 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.Patriarchy didn't start at all. It's a stupid ass feminist conspiracy theory like Lizard People. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?Men, hands down. Because the #1 "invisible labor" is called a Hobby and a ton more men have them. Just the fact that men put in insane amounts of hours into gaming means they are spending thousands of hours into "invisible" and unproductive labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What would you personally contribute to society if you could get regular sex from attractive women?I'd rather just not have sex. Fuck society! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:32 PM |
| – | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?The question has a false premise. Men do not hate sluts, we are in fact VERY neutral, and I dare say we may even have a bias in their favor. this does not warrant the level of hatred men have for sluts. Um, we don't hate sluts. Those that say that they do are usually virtue signaling in in front of women to gain brownie points, or because they want to appear pious in the eyes of their religious congregation. Just like the religious zealots who bash on homosexuality and then turn out to be gay th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Men should be expected to pay their pregnant partner half the market price of hiring a surrogate + parenthood penalty costs in a 50/50 relationshipSo... are you a wife, or an employee? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Men should be expected to pay their pregnant partner half the market price of hiring a surrogate + parenthood penalty costs in a 50/50 relationshipAnd women have the right to opt-out, believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 04:35 AM |
| 0 | What age is it weird to have never been on a date before?Morphine helps with headaches, it doesn't mean it's the right thing to take. Therapy helps in a manner in which it just distracts people from the problem rather than solving it. Being mentally massaged into a point of view that obfuscates and reinterprets your real world problems to numb your awareness of them as a way to mitigate the depression of having a shit life will do nothing to solve the causes of having that shit life. In simple words: emotional gymnastics will not do anything to get pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Why would a woman want to get married even though men overwhelmingly reap the benefits at the expense of women?I agree with OP. Abolish marriage! Burn the whole fucking institution down right to the ground! In fact, make that shit illegal! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:59 AM |
| 2 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameThe asshole game works universally though. It also works for guys who are too chill or not exiting enough for women's drama seeking tastes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Men should be expected to pay their pregnant partner half the market price of hiring a surrogate + parenthood penalty costs in a 50/50 relationshipHow about no. How about men just remove their consent to be fathers after a woman decides to get pregnant and she deals with the consequences of her actions and decisions all on her own? That would be fair. No one is forcing you to get pregnant, why the hell should men be forced to be fathers? Especially when we do not have any say in the matter because pregnancy is entirely a woman's choice. YOU decide what you do with your own body, NOT men. Own up to the responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to have never been on a date before?He's not wrong though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:40 AM |
| 0 | What age is it weird to have never been on a date before?Why do you want it to be weird at some age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:39 AM |
| 2 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingThe problem is in women acting clueless when they insult us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:30 AM |
| 6 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingWomen won't get why some men twist themselves into knots to feel insulted by a compliment. Because calling a man a fucking simp/cuck (husband material) with the insinuation that he's too fucking stupid to notice the backhanded remark is insulting as fucking hell. Calling a man "husband material" is NOT a compliment and it never will be. You might get some stupid naive simp to fall for that bullshit and fail your little shit test but I am sure you'll be just as disgusted with him and repulsed as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:41 AM |
| 9 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validating"wanting a relationship" means using him and thinking he's some stupid naive clown ass simp making his ass wait for sex while she waved in the previous 20 guys with no strings attached. And the reason being that she isn't really all that attracted to the simp to begin with, which is why she doesn't even want sex with him, she just tolerates him for ulterior motives; she thinks he's stupid enough to fall for the old "you're special" bullshit they say to loser kids in school that can't keep up. "W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:31 AM |
| 7 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingMaybe if I were to explain it this way you women will finally get it: What if men were to tell you that you're just a piece of ass to have on the side and never acknowledge that we even know you in public? Oh! But wait don't get upset, because that's meant as a compliment! Get it? Huh? You're "Side Material!" It means you're hot and attractive and likable and sexy and cute and this and that! Why you so upset? Those are all good qualities, what's the problem? It's not as if we're asking you to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:22 AM |
| 8 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingYou are literally explaining the reason why "husband material" is so extremely offensive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:15 AM |
| 9 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingOnly complete simps cannot seem to be able to fathom how being called "husband material" is girl code for Simp/Cuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:23 AM |
| 10 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingIt is always better to be worthy of a hookup (someone she actually wants to fuck) than be worthy of "husband Material" (a stupid simp that will have her after shes had her fun with the chads). Do you seriously not see how insulting as fuck is is when a woman was willing to have sex with the previous 20 guys but when it comes to you she puts on the brakes and says to you: "No, I wanna wait with you because you're special." Are you seriously not seeing the issue here? Jesus Christ dude have some d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?True, but Bad Man and Boyfriend are not. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Your counterpart is getting dressed up and putting herself out there in hopes of serendipitously meeting her person lol right. I have an extremely hard time believing that. That is some stuff you only see in 100 year old movies that tried to depict even older romantic stereotypes from the century before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?There were 2 dudes right behind the friend at the very start of the video. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Extinct... Where else? I am not a good man by the way. Women do not want good men nor even respect them. It's the reason I have a girlfriend, If I was a "good man" I would be here crying alongside the incels. lol Also, none of those women in that video look like they give a fuck about men. Also, just by instinct, men tend to avoid any place that is that packed with women. Whenever I go out with my girlfriend we both consciously avoid any place that is packed with women. My reason is because I ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?That right there is the problem isn't it? There is no right woman? It's why they're called unicorns. Beautiful, pure, ethereal, magical, but ultimately not real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Men think Being A Passive Submissive guy is Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.No. When I say women treat me like shit when I am nice to them I do not mean I am being passive and submissive to them, I mean that I show them empathy and a willingness set aside grievances for the sake of keeping the peace and preserving friendship. It ALWAYS backfires on me, women end up treating me with resentment, disrespect, and a dismissive attitude which I never regain unless they visibly see me angry and I start treating them like shit. Then they start showing me respect again. I hate t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:43 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Struggling men should focus on making life unfair for others, especially political and social enemiesWhile true, this rhetoric often takes a toll on one's mental health and self image. Only if they have the mental resilience of a toddler. As a grown ass man I don't fall apart just because some women are assholes. My self image is not contingent on the opinions of others. struggling men would benefit tremendously from making aspects of life less fair for those who attack and demean them. That sounds an awful lot like teacher giving us more homework to do cause the class clown wouldn't shut the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Women being hypergamous makes men a resource, not a prize. The reason women reward men that pursue them is because this behavior demonstrates a sort of subservience to her will. Such a man will do what she wills. Which is what she wants. They want a servant, bodyguard, daddy, lawyer, handyman. Men should choose women who treat them like kings. That is like telling beggars out on the street that they should only take handouts from millionaires giving them the deed to a mansion with a hedge fund a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:07 AM |
| – | Let’s Be Honest: Men Can Be ‘Hoes’ and Still Get Respect Women Can’tI am challenging OPs view in that his reasoning is much too convoluted while the real reason is actually a very simple and obvious one that he didn't even address. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question from a guyThere is no patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do you want women to tell men "be attractive" ?You have to be socially dull to not comprehend the snarky intention behind adding "be attractive" at the end of women's dating platitudes. The reason "must be attractive" is added at the end of those sentences is because women say that nonsense out loud in order to virtue signal as if attractiveness isn't a factor! Women do not want to come off as shallow and therefore omit the "must be attractive" part. Which then frustrated dudes, who have been burned by real world experiences in dealing with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question from a guyBecause that is not reality. Statistics can be massaged in order to be used as fodder to bolster false statements. It's the same reason we reject the flat earth theory despite all of the "evidence." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Genuine question from a guySo what is your question? All I saw was "The Message" being preached at us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | What have you tried in your life that was *actually* deeply transformative?I tried dating a girl that is way out of my league after I had pretty much just given up completely on dating. Best decision I've ever made aside from deciding to go to trade school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | do you care about your gf/wife being funny?Honestly no. Like, is she funny in a way a comedian cracking jokes would make me laugh? No. But when I think about it, it's the fact that I love her which makes her more humorous and endearing to me when she does stupid little funny and awkward things or says unexpected or crazy things that make me laugh. I suppose I think she is funny in those situations only because it's her. When random girls act as quirky I genuinely don't care and they don't amuse me. I guess girls become funny when we care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.And can we all just remember that the original female incels were griping about not being able to find traditional dates and NOT just about fucking? And can we all remember how they were never popular a fizzled out to where now the word incel means exclusively "Male Incel," to where female incels had to have a whole new word just for them: Femcel. Being lovelorn is not the same as being a horny gooner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 07:09 PM |
| 4 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.I don't think anyone is out there arguing that women are just as horny as men. That is just ridiculously untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Oxytocin and sexual intercourse in womenmen actually produce 5x more oxytocin than their baseline level, and women only 2x more. I am not "college" but I would suspect that has something to do with the fact that men are usually 2x to 3x physically larger than women and we have faster metabolisms. That is like saying a hybrid vehicle only needs 1 gallon of gas while an V8 Truck from the 80s needs 5 times as much. Apples and Oranges man. What would prove that men are more attached during an orgasm? This is totally absurd. Of course it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 07:03 PM |
| – | Let’s Be Honest: Men Can Be ‘Hoes’ and Still Get Respect Women Can’tLet's be honest. The reason men being hoes is still respectable is because it's so very rare. Almost every woman can be a hoe at will, however, not every man can be a hoe, even with maximum effort. A man being a hoe is an achievement, a woman being a hoe is a downgrade. That, more than anything, is the real difference. Only about 2-5% of the male population have the looks to even contemplate being hoes. That's because the ability to attract the majority of women is required in order for a man to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach?I have honestly never felt that way. I have felt daunted by very pretty women many times however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Why don't you like hypergamy ?We have no issue with hypergamy itself, we take issue with women's dishonesty about it. It's the lies, hypocrisy and sneaky double-dealing that we have an issue with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 2 | The rejection that women go through is worse than that of menI assure you, it does not take me months to reject a woman when they approach me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 08:31 PM |
| 2 | who is more valuable to you, a prostitute or a regular slut?When both options have zero value it is weird to ask which one is more valuable. I cannot answer this. Both have no value at all to me. Men don't really oppose prostitution. Any man that opposes it is just virtue signaling to women I do agree with this however. ☝ Just not for the stupid reasons that other guy gave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.Women aren’t dismissing their grievances. If the only way to address his grievances is to “submit” and “defer” to a dude because he feels like he deserves it... Sorry, I missed a few stops while on this discussion bus. At what point did we establish that we are talking about submission or deference at all? And what do either of these have to do with the broader societal grievances of men? When did we get off on this "he feels like he deserves it cuz he was born male" stop? I certainly never pull… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The red pill ideology does not hold true for most high status individualsThat's probably because the "Red Pill" is not an ideology, it's a metaphor. I genuinely feel that among men at least, the red pill is more of a thing with the drop shipping, crypto, NFT, social media people. That's because you have no clue what the Red Pill actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 05:22 AM |
| – | Men using external non invasive mediums to boost thier looks should be as normalized as it is for womenYou mean basic ass grooming like men have been doing since forever ago and amnesiacs completely forgot about 5 years ago? I hate my damn generation so much... 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:29 AM |
| 5 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?Because it was a woman who took the initiative to initiate and I believed - and still do - that it was a good idea to have a relationship with her. Before she came along I had zero intentions of ever dating or ever approaching women. I completely gave it up in high school. Girls and women in general stress me the fuck out when romantic intentions creep in. I got a lot of female attention in high school and I still to today and while all the incels in here wish they were in my place for a day whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.When women collectively dismiss the grievances of men, then men are justified in collectively dismissing women's. The old Red Pill adage holds: Do not expect sympathy from those who receive none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?I'm not a neurologist but it stands to reason that if sex itself can become addictive this and drugs both utilize the same equipment in the brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond?What does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.They’re raging out because they’re psychotic and entitled. It isn't wise to dismiss signs. Denying the various and complex causes of men's rage by pinning it on a feminist flavored dismissive hand wave isn't going to do women any favors in either the long or short term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.I'm advocating for the de-schooling of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doAnd they say women don't love the bad boys. 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 06:56 AM |
| 0 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness It's very hard to be contentious when we don't even know what you're talking about. It’s not lost on me that more males than females have generally always gravitated toward conservative-mindedness and right wing ideologies. The French Revolution, Word War 2, Most of Asia, and the whole of Latin America would say otherwise. TWO: raised in a conservative-minded or right wing or republican household Who knew repression and censorship (righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | If men are always expected to pay, why haven’t women accumulated more savings than men in western societies?They have. Your question contains a false premise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.How about no. This evil idea that boys need to be "programmed" is the reason we are so fucked in the first place. You are asking to double down on a proven failure and scheme to dehumanize boys from the very beginning. Boys are failing because we are resistant to the programming! We are not the defective ones here. Girls being good and meek little sheep that sit down, shut up, and obey orders are NOT the best model to gauge boyish behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?Yep. The dealer and the buyer. And if you want to get kinki, the undercover cop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?Yep. The dealer and the buyer. And if you want to get kinki, the undercover cop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?A god among men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?Everybody gets frustrated when they have to work harder than they anticipated having to work. You mean like a 1 bedroom apartment costing 6,000 a month when it is realistically only worth 1500? Or when a job keeps demanding more and more productivity out of you, for the same pay, while taking away resources and not allowing overtime and threatening to fire you if you don't keep up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?Everything you just described you can also experience with drugs. Like the man said: It's all biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?That's a very good question. Here, sit down. You see, there are these things called hormones... These are responsible for that "pressure" and some may say "a biologically driven compulsion" to chase after women even as our higher cognitive functions disagree and may even warn us that it's a bad idea. "The juice ain't worth the squeeze," is one of those warnings our brains say that our hormones drown out. When lust overrides reason (which it often does) stupidity and degradation ensues. There is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond?You must live in the south pole where everything moves backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond?But they are jerking off to women who look like that on the regular. For men, Love and Lust are two completely separate departments in our brains. Men have the ability and the capacity to jerk off or even fuck extremely beautiful women while feeling love and genuine affection for plane women. This is because for the male brain sex is just a reflex, a biological function. It does not mean anything to us. Jerking off or even fucking a very hot woman does almost nothing to make us fall in love with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond?I believe the more important reason is that men seek out women in large part to boost their own social status. It's getting very concerning how clueless women are about men. Do you seriously believe this? I am telling you right now, men don't give a crap about "social status" when thinking or feeling any attraction towards women. The idea is just weird as hell! It's as insanely ignorant about our sexuality as claiming that we are turned on by taxes or some other nonsense. Do you ever talk to men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond?Because we can see that women who are promiscuous make shitty long term partners. This isn't Rocket Surgery. Why are promiscuous women not wifey material? You should probably ask the experts. Whether promiscuous women have a pre-disposition for being promiscuous which leads to them being disloyal or it's their promiscuity which causes their inability to pair-bond we don't know. All we know is that there is a correlation with or without causation. The point is that women who are promiscuous are j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?Because I look like one. By the way, I don't like women treating me like a chad. They are dismissive, creepy, annoying, and the shit-testing is unbearable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 05:00 AM |
| – | Red pill ‘truths’ are just excuses to frame hierarchy as biologyWhat do you mean ripped off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:12 PM |
| – | Red pill ‘truths’ are just excuses to frame hierarchy as biologyRed Pill truths are just the truth. Stop smearing agendas unto them. You are confusing and conflating "The Facts" with peoples attitude about them. The more you people keep misrepresenting and just flat out lying about what the Red Pill actually is the more you're going to convince younger guys about it. That's how it works! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What if men were shown more compassion?The cringe of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What if men were shown more compassion?As a man, honestly, people's indifference is the best form of "compassion." That's because people who are indifferent to me are those whom I owe no debt of gratitude or favor. Compassion is a currency that is bartered for with pity, and with pity there is a sort of wretchedness. When people are indifferent to my strife it gives me endless breathing room to figure shit out without their pity weighing me down because when a man is down on his luck, emasculation is the last thing he needs on top of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.since hygiene and grooming is sometimes viewed as feminine and gay. That has actually never been a thing. The most masculine thing out there is the military. There is nothing feminine or gay about being clean cut, sharp and disciplined. “Why do men not make any effort to be attractive when they’re always talking about wanting to be attractive to women?” Maybe because we have no idea what women find attractive. Women are inept at expressing what they like. And what we do perceive as women finding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.Masculinity is defined by being "more" and "other" than feminine. As a masculine agent we are expected to step up, lead, and do more, be more, and bring more in contrast to the feminine. We are also expected to be different and evolved away and separate from the feminine. To be the counterpart that stretches into alien aspects in which the feminine is unable to tread. While the feminine could be thought of as being "what is," the masculine is considered to be "what becomes." As in, actuated pote… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | If a guy uses terms like “dance monkey” and “beta bucks”, he despises relationships. (Even if he claims to want one)They hate how much effort they have to put into a relationship. Um. No. We resent that the payoff is almost never worth the effort. It's like asking to take on the responsibilities, stress, and workload of a CEO along with all the training and education this position entails, while getting the pay of an intern (which is often zero). A lot of dudes will honestly not mind being your dance monkey (simping and degrading themselves at your service), just don't get upset that he stops the act the mome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:23 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?"Shipping" is not the same as "Docking." What's with all the maritime terminology by the way? Anyway... There is a huge difference between women fan-fictioning two dudes in a "will they or won't they" emotional narrative full of suggestive innuendo vs the raw act of gay sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:07 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Because being bi and being treacherous are completely different things. It's like you're asking if we prefer a woman who likes chocolate, or a woman that stabs us in the back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Women; do you consider a man a hypocrite if he does not want to date Bonnie Blue?I consider any woman who wants niceness from men but at the same time holds it against them deserves to be kicked out of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Women; do you consider a man a hypocrite if he does not want to date Bonnie Blue?Who the hell is Bonnie Blue? Is that the chick that rode with Clyde? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Dead bedroom discourse explains dead bedroomsHe was talking about how women constantly attempt to dictate to men what our "wants and needs" should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?Who do you guys think the average woman is dating? The same small group of guys. The average looking girl working at the bank isn’t going out with a hot guy who makes 6 figures a year. She’s going out with the average looking blue collar boy and probably loves him a lot. No, I can tell you from experience she is going to be eyeing the Branch Manager who earns close to 6 figures. That's just reality. If you are an average looking man with an average job and you take care of yourself you should be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:28 AM |
| 2 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?Wouldn't the better solution be for the rich to go extinct? 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?My contribution would be 0 I am not responsible for birthrates and I just flat out don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?It's not a narrative, it's a fact. Women have an instinctual aversion and dare I say disgust for nice guys. We all see it. It's why the term exists and it is no more controversial than saying "water is wet." The only mental gymnastics here is all that stuff you said about Nice Guys somehow ending up with the girl in the end. As if that ever happens in real life. And your attempt at justifying some sort of obligation for these nice guys to settle with the women that the chads passed over. You are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"I agree, because that is the same reason men become corporate tools instead of husbands lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressWhen women piss me off it has never crossed my mind to fight them. That sort of instinct is almost alien to most men. My first and only instinct has always been to get the hell away from her. A woman who is toxic and belligerent is like a burning house, you need to jump out the nearest window and accept the fact that the welcoming environment she provided is now gone and there is no going back. She will never represent a warm and welcoming place ever again. The only choice is - like I said - esc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:10 AM |
| 3 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressI think it's important to measure the severity of the physical assault. How much damage does it do to the person? Bullshit. If that argument will not fly when explaining it to the police when the perpetrator is a male it should bear no weight when the perpetrator is female. Hypocrisy at it's finest. "Why is it being done?" This question is NEVER asked when the perpetrator is male. Men are never given the benefit of the doubt, therefore, it should never be given to women either. Fair is fair. We … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"Why are you being a dick bro? Serious question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:32 AM |
| -1 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"Touched plenty of it while cutting it today. What are YOU talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?Because women are not as valuable or as beloved as before. What are the causes for the change? While women are sexier than ever they have paradoxically become less attractive. Does this line up with your own experience? Yes. Ever since Junior High, girls have become very exasperating and stressing to socialize with. What would make you chase a women more? If I really loved her and felt that she was worth the struggle. I have never chased a woman. I have been asked out by women though. The first … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:51 AM |
| -1 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"Women so badly wanted to be dehumanized cogs in the machine and labor whores just like men. Now that they see it's not so "empowering" giving away your talent, labor, youth, and health for a wage which is perpetually used as leverage against you they are screeching that they want "Traditional Values" and "Masculinity" back. As if that genie could ever be put back in the bottle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:42 AM |
| 8 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressIt's taken for granted that the vast majority of men are not wife beaters, they're wife abandoners. OP is completely ignoring the "flight" part in Fight or Flight. Most men who are stressed by the women that they're with will just simply choose to abandon that woman. There is no reason or motivation to get violent unless the woman has him utterly trapped and cornered in some way where he feels the need for violence is his only way out. Most women don't tend to entrap men, therefore, men just use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:34 AM |
| 2 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressIt's stress in general Oh no! I'm having a bad day. I think I'll go on a rampage now! Rawr!! But yeah, in general, a man who's more stressed than another man is more likely to become aggressive with those around him Yeah because men just never grow up, solve problems, adapt, and move on right? We are still cavemen just looking to Fuck, Fight, and Food. And why are you completely ignoring the "flight" part? A stressing ass toxic woman is not someone we would be likely to "fight" as much as someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:30 AM |
| 0 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressDon't call non-violence violence. What women do is called Infliction of Emotional Distress (IED) and other assorted Psychological Terrorism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:19 AM |
| 4 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressWho says they don't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:17 AM |
| 14 | In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stressThis doesn't match with witnessed reality where we constantly see women physically striking men - even so far as making literal trends of it - because they know men can't strike back and women enjoy complete impunity, so much so that they literally record themselves striking men without any fear of criminal consequences. In fact, the crowd is always on their side when they physically assault men. The only ones who are outraged are are of course the men. Your entire spiel just sounds completely c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:07 AM |
| – | Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to womenIt's almost starting to concern me how clueless and out of touch modern women are about men. Women are as clueless about men as 9yo boys are about girls. It's a little concerning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:22 AM |
| – | Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to womenThreatening you wont marry 30 yr olds or women who didnt sleep with you when they were younger and more attractive isnt as scary as it sounds like in your head. Probably because men don't actually think that. Providing for oneself and not being at the mercy of another person truly trumps ANYTHING Yeah... Men kinda figured this out ages ago á la MGTOW. Most middle class women in big cities dont even have marriage in their top ten priorities. Cool, now you can relate to why men have never had marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsAgain, if I am doing both the working and the cleaning then what do I need a woman for except sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsBut still more than women. Uh, nope. It only looks that way when you keep listening to the same 5 incels online screeching about it. The rest of the male population doesn't actually care and sees the whole thing as emasculating and degrading as fuck. 100% of men say they would like a Billion dollars but how many of those actually want it bad enough to do what it takes to get it? Wanting something and daydreaming about it is way different than actually desiring it and planning for it with the ful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsSome women like sex, they aren't looking for a relationship I know. I've met such women. why the hell do you care? Care about what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsSo why do men still continue wanting to get married and have kids more than women do? Yeah that's a bold faced lie that is being peddled somewhere by someone with an agenda. Men want even less to do with marriage or kids today than ever before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsWell….women have their own houses, their own jobs, they cook and clean for themselves and have an alarm system (and where I live they are highly likely to have their own concealed weapon too). Yeah, you're describing my girlfriend there. Except for the concealed weapon. Women mostly only want sex from relationships with certain men, and many women can take sex or leave it altogether... Where are all these “other women “ passing out sex and why? You just answered your own question before asking i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerIf you understood the depth of this cheeky quote - and where it comes from - you'd know that those who live by it hardly ever fail at anything they set their minds to, and how could they? When all of their non-sexual pursuits are impassioned by the relentless vigor of lust. And their lust is tempered and made to burn deep and slow through the exchanges of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronorms"Being useful is not the same as being servile." - My Grandpa. Good feelings is not sufficient to make a relationship work. There has to be a pragmatic element involved, or else resentment in one person and insecurity in the other will creep in. There is this stupid modern taboo against thinking of relationships as actual relationships, you know, where a relation is involved between adults. How two people connect with each other, what dynamic they have between them and what value they bring that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsmarriage was very much a forceful thing And you think that force only went one way? And are you just completely unaware that women remaining single their while lives was always a thing and it's the reason men were pressured into marrying them so that they wouldn't remain destitute in a world where hard labor (Farm or Factory - pick your poison) was the ONLY labor? Every argument here is based entirely on an egregious ignorance of history. As if 1325 = 2025. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsUnpaid work? In this transactional dating economy? Y'all best be paying for a man's so-called "unpaid labor" with some sex or something because NOTHING in this life is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsLol hell nah, my grandma believes women were the ones that used to have the upper hand in dating and especially in safely selecting men without sex. Back in the day women's dads and brothers were part of the vetting process. Her own dad gave her all kinds of advice and shooed away all the fuckboys (of her day). She met my grandpa and fell in love with him because he was serious minded but kind hearted, he showed his softer side only to her, she felt very special that she was the only woman in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsWho says they don't? My gf "selected" me not entirely for my "personality." We have grown into each other now in our relationship, but she's told me that at first she was just thirsty for me and then those feelings evolved from there to actual love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:09 AM |
| 1 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerThis guy describes the very basic process of dating as painful and demoralizing. Because it is! We are very aware of what dating was decades ago and it is totally not that at all anymore. What do women seriously expect when the only motivation left in men is literally just raw hormonal driven biological desire like dogs? All the higher functions that would create an allure towards women has been gutted and is gone! Women are not pleasant, not likeable, stressing as fuck, antagonistic, emasculati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:45 AM |
| 1 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerEverything in life is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:36 AM |
| – | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesWell then let's see. How old are you and what range of men are you attracted to? You know graphs, especially those that purport to analyze human behavior are often way wrong and biased right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Would you like to exchange your wife/gf for a new younger one?If I could exchange my gf for a younger version then I believe she would be thrilled as hell when she wakes up one day and sees herself being 20yo again while retaining all her accomplishments. 🥰 Did you mean exchange my girlfriend for a whole other woman? Hell no! She's my choice because I want her and no one else. It's unthinkable for me to even entertain losing her no matter how hot, perfect, or whatever the "replacement" is. It's like asking to replace a family member. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:04 AM |
| 15 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronorms"I am too educated and gay for this shit." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:56 AM |
| 6 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsMy grandma has a hilarious comeback whenever my sisters say they want a man who cooks and cleans for himself and has a job and a house. She says: "If a man has his own house and a good job and cooks and cleans for himself then what the hell does he want you for besides sex? Which he can get from any other woman." My grandma is hardcore, she doesn't mince words lol. She always says "Be useful, or be useless." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsIt's true. If men are too nice women treat them like scum. One of the things I hate about being around women is that I have to intentionally be an occasional jerk to them or else they have zero respect and start insulting and have a sneering attitude against me. But if I am just nice like normally nice then sometimes they think I am flirting and have a new set of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:48 AM |
| – | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doeswomen are generally sexually attracted to men their own age. Yeah except I get equal amounts of attention from older women in their 30s and 40s as with women my on age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsSo... women my age have the option to either tolerate a guy who is not yet at his prime or go lesbian. Because an education system that booted boys and men out decades ago and an economy that is at the terminal end of decaying capitalism is "our life choices" right? Glad my gf is smarter than that and chose to invest rather than go lesbian. Luckily, some women apply their intelligence in more than just getting a college degree and figure out that young men in their 20s at at our least valuable s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Stop injecting other interpretations into my words and then maybe a conversation would be possible. I have no patience with being bogged down in clarifying that I did not make arguments that you insist I should defend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Nothing against the kids for the shitty decisions of their moms, but do not expect single men who are not the fathers to be responsible for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Men are the Workhorses of Modern RelationshipsMGTOW? Is that you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs wont change anythingMost men who want kids is usually due to female influences in his life such as his mom or sisters who would also be happy to help him raise kids without a mom. Grandma and Aunties would be great mother figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs wont change anythingMen that don't want kids will still not have them. But the men who do want to have kids but no woman wants them this will be their chance to be fathers without a mother. I myself actually want to have kids and if I didn't have my gf with whom we have been planning this already I would definitely opt in for having kids in an artificial womb, it would definitely thrill my mom and my sisters by the way. They want me to have kids as much as I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?So they basically don't really exist anymore. They forced them to drop "boys" and are just "Scouts" now. I remember hearing about that. They are not Boy Scouts anymore, they no longer exist. And I heard that forcing girls into the program is what bankrupted them and not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Well that is different now isn't it? I have zero issues taking care of kids whose parents died. It's just the right thing to do. But lets be realistic here, the majority of fatherless homes is because women decide to have kids with shitty ass men carrying more red flags than a soviet parade and these women think that these losers can be tied down by having a baby with him. I see it happen over and over again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?I happen to know a lot of women only ever help others as a way to mine sympathies for a rainy day. They cultivate friendships as a means of extracting favors latter on. Men do the same thing but we are not so sneaky about it, when we need something we just ask for it from other men with the understanding that they will either help or they won't. If they do helps us it comes with the further understanding that we are in their debt - NOTHING is given for free. That's why guys often say "Thanks man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Was you actual world view really challenged here?Yeah, I was kinda wrong with how hypergamy works. I learned that while it's still a real thing and women do have that instinct to pair up with higher tier males, a lot of women are very clever and perceptive at spotting men who have "potential;" and depending on her resources she may be willing to play the long game with a man that she feels she can trust to level up latter in life and stay loyal to her. It's a big risk that women used to take more often but it still happens today, especially wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?When your sex determines that absolutely NOTHING in life will ever be handed to you that you deserve nothing, not even love or affection unless you take it, and you have to literally earn every breath and piece of human warmth you dare to take you kinda develop this mentality of not wasting effort on fruitless shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?I thought the boyscouts don't exist anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?All I am thinking is how awesome it would be to knock up a hot girl, dump her, and then have some rich anonymous dude raise my kids so I can go on to knock up more women. 🤔 Sucks being the financial cuck though. But awesome for the stud. No man wants to be the cuck, all men prefer being the stud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:15 PM |
| -3 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?The Patriarchy would not function if we didn't all secretly help each other. How silly of you to assume we don't help each other just because we don't hug and kiss in very public ways like you women do. But so few men volunteer There are two reasons: The majority of men are not pedos Men do not want to be thought of as pedos. There is something just viscerally disgusting about the thought of being a grown ass man hanging out with little kids. Even if you delete the perverted part it is still dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 4 | The RP concept of "She's not yours, its just your turn", is completely in line with the ideals BP/ Feminism pushes in societyyou're not responsible for breaking women's hearts Ever since 6th grade when girls start developing crushes on boys I have been getting passive aggressive BS from women in general calling me an asshole and shit talking me just because I don't conform to their expectations whenever girls catch feelings for me and I don't reciprocate. My very first experience with this was in 6th grade when out of nowhere a bunch of girls started calling me an asshole and a fuckboy and all types of shit just becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?I thought I just did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Oh. The mad scramble to be in the top 10% is because they have convinced themselves that female validation is their only worth. Hilariously, this makes them even less attractive to women. Desperation is a potent girl repellent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Plenty of average men out there have become conventionally hot and likeable this way. Yet most men still don’t even do these things. The manosphere guys saying women only like 20% of men are often imagining it’s about only liking the 20% tallest or 20% richest or 20% with the right canthal tilt and jaw angle or whatever tf. It’s made up garbage and not true. It’s more like we’re living in a sore loser epidemic. This is the lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?That's because you have a bias towards dudes that were already good looking who just cleaned themselves up. You still haven't even noticed the other huge number of dudes who no amount of transformation will ever make them good looking enough for women. These are the guys that other men notice. I am in the opposite camp. I am just attractive physically and it is not easy to ignore how women act way differently towards me compared to the next guy. I have even been about with a disheveled look and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?lol as if Loki and Thor aren't in the same league looks wise. I'd be more impressed is some women said they like Jack Black or something more average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?For example, if me and my 3 closest girlfriends were to look at a group of 100 dudes, there are probably 10 we're all attracted to, 10 no one picks and the other 80 with a mix of 1-3 of us are attracted to. You know that that's exactly what OP and the Red Pill in general has always stated right? You're just confirming what we are all already saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:03 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?I have 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:17 AM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?Yes. It is impossible to measure up so it's just instinct to reject, sabotage, or just plain walk away or ghost. I did it once and almost did it with my current gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Why doesn't Red Pill offer more mental health support for men?Because "Mental Health" is a grift, a bullshit scam. If someone is truly mentally ill they need a medical doctor like a psychiatrist, not some clown with diplomas on walls charging you by the hour to run your mouth as if vomiting words solves anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:08 AM |
| – | Men: how do you feel about traditional gender norms?The only actual "traditional" roles, if anyone has ever bothered to open a history book, are Women Nurture and Men Provide. That's it! How have traditional gender norms made your life easier? There are no traditional gender norms, what are you even talking about? Specify, otherwise the answer is no. Feminists fucked everything up for everybody way before most of us were even born. I was born into this ambiguous "confused about muh gender/Therapy solves everything/ Muh feelings/Muh Stress" bullsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereThat is not what the red pill is at all, and lying about what it is is not going to make it go away anymore than lying about Cancer and calling it a common cold is going to magically make it go away. The Red Pill is not "excuses" it's explanations. It's the "why" behind all the bullshit so that we can then decide with better knowledge of the facts on how to move - or not move - forward. Catch up. If anything, the Red Pill is an anti-cope mechanism because what it's main function is to slap you u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereYou say that others lack accountability while also complaining that those others haven't fixed your personal problems for you. Um, he didn't say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 0 | What are signs that a man is desperate from the get go ?I think it would be the same things as when women are desperate. Such as, Running their mouth. Invading my space. Snooping on me. Interrogating my friends and anyone who knows me to get info about me. Following me Asking me personal questions and sharing way too much personal information Staring Laughing when it isn't that funny Touching me for no damned reason General creepy behavior If a man - A MAN - find this creepy as hell and annoying when women do it, you can imagine what women with their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?Get therapy Yeah... I would rather.... But. For real though. I am not a stupid goon with the emotional aptitude of a toddler. I am just describing what men in general go through on a literal daily basis. We each deal with it in our own way and we all have built in pressure release valves to blow off steam long before we blow up. Mine is solitude. I need to be alone in order to recover from being drained. Being alone and just not dealing with people is therapeutic. A long time ago someone mention… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itThe Red Pill's nomenclatures, phrases, axioms, and aphorisms rattle you huh? No it does not make us feel "superior." Jesus where the hell do you all come up with this nonsense. The language is there in order to articulate shared experiences, observations, facts, phenomena, and behaviors that are otherwise nameless and whose descriptions and discussion does not fit into polite conversation. It makes men feel connected. Like we are not the only ones going through the same BS. It is men communicati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itThe Red Pill is not a victim mentality anymore than a "guide to dangerous snakes" handbook that one would use while traveling in the wilderness means that it is teaching the trekker a "victim mentality" wen it comes to dealing with snakes. When you get bitten by a snake no one would refer to you as a victim. The snake just did what snakes do. If you wanna avoid what they do you need to learn to handle them and acquire the proper respect, caution, training, and resources for dealing with them. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:04 AM |
| 3 | As a person with daddy issues, I feel kinda offended by the daddy issues stereotype in women.It fucks with boys heads too. Except nobody gives a fuck about boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 06:15 AM |
| 2 | As a person with daddy issues, I feel kinda offended by the daddy issues stereotype in women.When we say daddy issues we are talking about "Fatherless Behavior," as in that person never had a grounding masculine figure in their life to instill discipline and the respect of self and others. Daddy issues on a girl means she is seeking validation from men in all the wrong ways and with all the wrong men because she doesn't know any better due to a shitty father or an absent one. Essentially, a girl with "daddy issues" is a girl that is clueless around men and only ever uses sex as a way to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 06:09 AM |
| 1 | If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship)Honestly, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think it’s a man job to protect his girlA ton of things in this life aren't our job. But we do them anyway because we want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:53 AM |
| 4 | If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add tooYou ever wonder why there are a ton of single mothers? You shouldn't because you just spelled out the answer. So where does this leave men’s value-add? At zero, that is why we do not care to stick around when women decide to get pregnant rather than take the pill or abort. Women today literally make 100% of the decision to get pregnant. I, as a man, I have absolutely no say on that matter. Your body your choice, I do not even get so much as a damned opinion here. You get to decide if you want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:48 AM |
| – | Can you name a time when you successfully got or retained a friend with benefits using red pill techniques?No. The Red Pill is not about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Misogyny Will Have To Be Eradicated To Stop MisandryNo. The key feature of rulers is having power over men because men are the ones who Labor, Build, and Fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:25 AM |
| 0 | Misogyny Will Have To Be Eradicated To Stop MisandryYou are literally arguing in behalf of Thought Control. So hell no! I will have my misogyny with a sprinkle of biases please... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?That seems pretty dumb. I am no fresh chicken I assure you 🐔 I'm 20, my gf is 27. She never felt any type of way about my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women.Men need to be more astute when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. I think we are becoming more astute, but mostly more suspicious. That's why a lot of guys just do not want to even get into relationships at all. I was never looking for a relationship or dating. I was happy just by myself but I just couldn't say no when a good thing comes my way. I hit the lottery with my gf even though I wasn't even playing. Whether we grow old together or she dumps me in a few weeks I am perfectly fine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 04:04 AM |
| 0 | What kinds of social media habits are red or green flags for men?Angry? Yes. Judgemental? No. One of the benefits of interacting with people face to face is that you learn to discern nuance and depth in people. The most stupid thing you can do is "judge" too quickly because there are so many sides to individuals that often they don't even understand themselves. This level of human interaction is not even a joke in social media - it's just not possible. It's the equivalent of children confusing cartoons for real life. I just do not have the patience for brainr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?A legally binding contract is not a commitment, it's blackmail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?Being horny is akin to having a sort of pain. Sure you can ignore it, suppress it, and use your willpower to persevere despite it screaming inside your head day and night and even in your damned sleep! But as with real pain (like a dull tooth ache) guess what happens when you drain your willpower in controlling it? You will eventually snap! A cheat code is creating another type of pain in order to overwhelm our sensory input - like with real pain. A dull tooth ache, for example, magically goes a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you women ever confuse an attractive guy that is just being nice to you as him flirting with you? Then it turns out not to be the case and he was just genuinely being nice and polite with no romantic intentions?I'm the same way, as a man how the hell would I even flirt? All I know about flirting is those old cartoons where males overact in a cringe way that looks as if it's how males act in women's romance novels but in a very stupid exaggerated way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you women ever confuse an attractive guy that is just being nice to you as him flirting with you? Then it turns out not to be the case and he was just genuinely being nice and polite with no romantic intentions?I have actually been flirted with and then drama ensued because I "didn't take the hint." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you women ever confuse an attractive guy that is just being nice to you as him flirting with you? Then it turns out not to be the case and he was just genuinely being nice and polite with no romantic intentions?That's a really good explanation and it makes a lot of sense. And yes I definitely believe people are trash at determining if they're being flirted with because even when it's the case that they are being flirted with a lot of times the other person won't have a clue or will dismiss it as friendliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:30 AM |
| 2 | What kinds of social media habits are red or green flags for men?Did it ever occur to you that some of us are allergic to BS and Drama and hence have zero online footprint because we do not spend our lives on our phones? We "grass walkers" exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's worldAgain, will you be a good father? Maybe not when the concept of fatherhood is emasculating and demeaning as fuck. You are asking us to be tools. Sorry if a lot of us are not running at the idea of being the brunt of every modern cultural joke and jab against our whole ass gender. I love and respect my dad, but he got zero love and much less respect from both society and from my mom. So fuck that. I want to have kids but I am not too fucking thrilled about being a "dad." Are you dependable? Yes A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsBecause catching feelings for a friend you get to know more intimately never happens huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Why don't we never ask men to choose better but uglier women?Because we do not choose what we're not attracted to. If hot chicks make for dead bedrooms then ugly ones will make for extinct ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:32 AM |
| 2 | You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women.My gf is very physically attracted to me and I could tell she was from the very first time I met her. The wide eyed looks scoping me up and down and staring when she thought I wasn't looking are not subtle hints. But what a lot of dudes don't know is that raw physical attraction to a guy doesn't mean she can't become unattracted if there is something about him that gives her the ick. My gf tells me that even though she was super into me physically she could not shake off the instinct to get to k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?I have no idea what woke jackoffs define "empowerment" as but the definition of it means to acquire the ability to exercise something at will without restraint or barriers. In simple words "to have the power to do something." approaching men is the worst thing women can do for their imperative Why? My gf was the one who approached me and asked me out and initiated our relationship. How is that the worst thing she can do for her imperative? She got me committed to her and we've just started talki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Please enlighten me. What is your point in slapping away the argument that it is empowering for women to take the initiative in approaching men that you are attracted to? How is approaching the men that you want (as opposed to the men you aren't all that into) not empowering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?Well... there is the theory that Women Aren't Real, just like birds aren't real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?Yeah and men also bore the brunt of the consequences of those decisions in casualties, death, decease, slavery, genocide etc. Men populate the extremes, it has always been a minority of men pushing all the boundaries, making all the advancements, etc. The top 10% of men do not represent the bottom 90% This is why men are both Innovators and Idiots, geniuses and goons, Leaders and Cogs, we dominate both the Science Room and the Prison Block. We are both the best and the worst while women sit in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?At least it's a bargaining chip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:52 AM |
| 6 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?Why are people overcomplicating this? It's simple: Men do not want a woman that has been with a ton of men because that means that fucking around is her default setting. Men do not want women whose default is to fuck other men. Why are women struggling like hell to understand this? Jesus Christ! This appears to imply, whether intentionally or inadvertently, that sex with men necessarily makes a person worse off. Correction: "sex with a lot of men..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.Women understand male sexuality. This statement is insulting as hell considering how clueless women are about men just in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?I have no idea. You should ask women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 06:12 AM |
| 14 | What are some things women dont understand about you?Women don't seem to understand how fed up men are with them, including myself here. Seriously, if it wasn't because we are literally biologically programmed, genetically, and neurologically hard wired - against our will - to be viscerally attracted to women, we would all just go our own separate way away from women without even blinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:50 AM |
| 7 | What are some things women dont understand about you?Sometimes sex is sacrificed for the sake of peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:44 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.The great majority of men who have ever existed never reproduced. This literally means that if you never have sex and die without ever reproducing then you are in the majority. So.... who exactly are the outliers here? Sex is still not a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:29 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.You can literally live your entire life without sex and it will not kill you nor reduce your quality of life, so relax bro. Why are you digging up all of these old incel talking points? You are not going to argue sex into becoming a need when it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:22 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Only to propagate the species. NOT to keep you alive as an individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:07 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.What does that even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:06 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Sexual neglect isn’t just sad, it’s medically dangerous. Monks, nuns, and celibate warriors, scientists, artisans, & religious leaders across all of history: "Are we a joke to you?" This sick obsession with sex as as it were somehow the "all spark" which gives meaning to life is what is truly insane here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:02 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.A grown ass man is not a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:57 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Education is a requirement for most prestigious jobs. Otherwise, no, it is not a need, you won't die just because you're not educated. Employment is a necessity, a means to an end. The end being the acquisition of housing and food. Again, you won't die just because you don't have a job, plenty of jobless people are living just fine, hard, but fine. Clean water is a need, yes. Without it you will die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingBecause we are visual and physical creatures so when we visibly see a woman physically putting in effort to improve our living space it feels like an act of intimacy, she's been touching, cleaning, and rearranging all of our personal stuff, it's a visually and physically loud statement that she cares and values me as man and that she wants to be close to me. That's why it's not just "simply attractive" it's endearing as hell and very much appreciated. It's like going on to the next level. One ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:47 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Sex is not a need. You won't die just because you don't have sex. Sexual intimacy is not just about pleasure it is deeply tied to self-worth, confidence, and emotional stability. Only because you make it about those things when they shouldn't be. My "self-worth, confidence, and emotional stability" are not tied at all to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Do men care about confidence in women?It does not affect how attractive she is one way or another. If she's attractive and confident then she's hot. If she's attractive and not confident she's still hot. Zero difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?What's wrong with that? Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Hope you realize a ton of men (and this number is rising) do not make their interest in a woman know to her. I have had 3 separate crushes in my life and never made my feelings known to any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?What happens if the guy you throw yourself at stops you with his palm on your forehead and says "no, go away." What then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:34 AM |
| 11 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?To be honest, it is impossible to tell when you're all just being friendly. It is not possible to tell the difference between a woman showing interest in a man or just her being friendly or just her being flirty to boost her own ego. This is why as a man it is stupid to assume a woman is interested because that almost never happens. 99.9999% of the time women are just friendly or flirty for the clout and couldn't care less about the guy. If I took seriously every girl that has ever flirted with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?I think women are approaching guys they like a lot more than anyone has bothered to notice. The reason it's not noticeable is because women are very sly. A lot of dudes end up in situationships that the girl initiated. My gf was the one who approached me and asked me out after she got to know me more personally and I have noticed women in general have a weir way of just sneaking up on a guy to where he blinks and there she is next to him and they're in a relationship now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ?I don't think this is even a thing. Men do not think that pretty women have bad personalities. However, I have heard of the theory that above average good looking women have a higher percentage of mental disorders due to the non-normal treatment they receive their whole lives which means they grow up in a weird social bubble that maybe causes them to deviate mentally. It's not a harsh judgement but more of a caution. Pretty girls = crazy. Think of Amber Heard for example. She is incredibly cute … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women)Your mistake is thinking that a guy who "has lots of friends and an army of buddies. That he can pick her up and they crash some dudes private party. That he knows the bouncer/bartender/owner of a venue who can get him to the vip backrooms. That if they travel together he has relevant connection abroad. In essence that he is the guy who knows a guy" has to be extroverted in the stereotypical sense. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator details that extroversion does not mean "outgoing." It just means … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 02:07 AM |
| – | Most boyfriends would be happier forgiving their cheating girlfriend or wifecheating feels like a type of death. Women who cheat are basically dead to their boyfriend. No one comes back from the dead. A cheating gf is never going to be forgiven, not unless the guy is a completely weak and pathetic piece of crap for whom the only reason the woman would ever come back is to get money off of his weak ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Men: tell me about your fatherYou deserve compassion because you’re a human. That’s it. I don't know why that just sounds very wrong and off. It does not feel natural that a man should just "deserve compassion" just because. I do not mean specifically the guy you're responding to I mean it as a man in general. I don't think compassion is just something that is deserved just for existing as a man. I feel compassion for others but the idea of someone else having compassion for me in the manner in which you just uttered it to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Men: tell me about your fatherWell, he's kinda fat. Taught me stuff and he's cool. I don't see him as much as I used to. My relationship with him is normal. How has my relationship with him impacted other areas of my life? I have no idea, I don't even know if he has any impact. I just have a dad, it's not some mystical magical all-meaningful thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are much better at manipulation than womenYou left out the part where it's only about 1% of all men who do all the manipulation on 90% of women. You all just keep falling for the same dude. That doesn't mean that the invisible vast majority of men share the snake charming skills of a minority. As for the other way around, the majority of women are just manipulative as a default, that is why the Red Pill exploded and keeps growing and is not basically mainstream because it is women themselves who Red Pill men when men wise up to the mani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?I'm already in a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Yes, and it annoys me that women refuse to comprehend this as if getting horny must "mean" something special is intentional. It's no more magical than a bowel movement or getting a headache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 03:20 AM |
| 0 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?You think being attracted to someone must also mean we like them as a person. Sexuality and Personality are two different things and these are much more separated and pronounced in men, that's how we can get a boner for a woman that we can't stand. Our lizard brain gives no fucks what our pre-frontal cortex says. That's what makes it possible to hold two mutually exclusive feelings for the same person. Which feeling wins out depends entirely on the man's own personality, we get to choose if we w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 03:15 AM |
| -1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?The disgust is mutual when men find out how women's own sexuality works. The shock of it often sends guys down a dark path called the Red Pill Rage phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?I don't know what species you are but we carbon based life forms generally don't get to choose our genes or the way in which we are biologically hard wired in our brain. If we could just "choose different" we would certainly choose not to be attracted to women at all. We would choose to turn off hunger and pain at will. We would choose not to feel any sad emotion, no grief, no stress, no regret, no boredom no pain etc. We would just choose to be happy and at peace all the time and blissfully jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:52 AM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.ok then. is this comment you admitting you used some sort of fallacy but i just named it wrong? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:50 AM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.I'm not wasting time unless you have genuine questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:26 AM |
| 5 | If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all.Just my friends and women I know since high school and from where I used to work. I have never pursued women and my gf was the one who approached me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:20 AM |
| 6 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Probably got angry at feminists in the 2010s for stuff like the Gillette ad, are probably Gen Z, probably grew up in and expect to be part of a two income household, and grew up hearing a lot of man-hating online and got radicalized by that. A lot of them probably supported Bernie or third party. Honestly, I hate conservatives, but I despise feminists and their anti-male bullshit that I had to put up with in all my childhood a lot more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Sex is not personal for men. It's just a bodily function, a reflex and an urge. It doesn't "mean" anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Because Lib females are easy to fuck and practice sex with before we find a woman that we actually respect and want to commit to. Liberal women are just fr sex and fun. Conservative women are for love and commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:04 AM |
| -2 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?We do not have to like a woman in order to have sex with her. Our sexuality doesn't work like yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Most alpha/sigma grindset guys or dating coaches are really just normie/attractive men subconsciously preying on the undesirableOh No! Really? Ya think so? And here I am thinking the Red Pill is all about waking and wising up to the illusions and con-games and not getting scammed or fooled by a crooked society that's always trying to sell you something. You mean to tell us that all those cringe "Dating Gurus" who hustle incels and Influencers grifting the gullible out of their money are nothing more than.... charlatans? Ohhhh Noooooe! 😱 Come on guy, We figured this out when I was in 6th grade. It's kinda obnoxious how gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 12:48 AM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.No, I do not think that because I am not stupid. That would be an Appeal to Purity (an ironic joke given the context of the discussion), or in other words a "No True Scotsman Fallacy." I think I'm a bit more intelligent than a 5th grader. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 12:29 AM |
| 6 | If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all.As a man I only know I'm attractive cause women just tell me. I used to think I was but it's only confirmed when you get that kind of female attention and preferential treatment that you don't see them giving to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Should men forgive a cheating girlfriend that wants him back ?You know a sorry cheating girlfriend might give you money. That's emasculating as fuck. Most men would rather pay the cheater to go fuck herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Should men forgive a cheating girlfriend that wants him back ?So the woman you love the most who is so hot and will do whatever you want sexually is to be thrown away because she cheated once when drunk ? Yes. Just as the dead do not come back to life. We grieve their loss, but they do not come back. Ever. What if she lets you cheat ? This is meaningless. You cannot restore something by breaking it even further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Should men forgive a cheating girlfriend that wants him back ?The answer is a Hell Fucking NO! That is like asking should men put back the bullet in their chest after a doctor takes it out. 🤨 The choice to walk away from women permanently has never been more popular and welcoming in all of our history. I am perfectly aware that I will only ever get one and only one chance at love my entire life. Half the reason is because that is my own choice. I do not have the energy or dignity to waste chasing after women. If I find love and manage to keep it then good.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 03:45 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.If you are talking about those cringe religious nutbags I wasn't counting them as being men. As a man this whole "ego = sexuality" makes absolutely no sense. Our sexuality doesn't work that way. Ego and Sexuality do not occupy the same room in our brain, in fact they are not even in the same body part lol. The desire part does make absolute sense though, it could be a fetish. Some guys might just be going through a stupid phase, like being attracted to asian girls or tall girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 02:48 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.Enough with the damned "insecurity" diagnosis 🙄 The word is "daunting" It feels DAUNTING for men to measure up and have to outperform every other guy. When a woman's love and affection costs so much effort, time, money, and resources she is just "too much." She is priced beyond what a normal man can acquire and thus he will feel DAUNTED and discouraged from pursuing her for the same reason the average Joe feels daunted and discouraged from pursuing a $200,000 car or a $5,000,000 dollar home that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 02:39 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.You have the defilement thing backwards. Men are averse to women who have been defiled, hence the attraction to "purity" in women. When men have less than pure intentions they will seek women who are already defiled (hoes/sluts) because there is no guilt in acting dirty with someone who is already dirty. This is also why women are so offended when men insinuate that they are easy because easy = dirty = defiled, and in the greater scheme of things, defiled people have no worth or value. No woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 02:30 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.It's called advice. We try to tell young women to not go about "that life" because they will end up regretting it latter on. It's not more complicated than that. It's the same "fuck around and find out" advice given to boys, except for girls it's literal. Another problem is the other person being attracted to you and trying to become attractive to you and thus they try to dissect what you find attractive, why you find it attractive, and maybe even shame you enough for your attractions so that yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 02:06 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.That's a lot of words to try and shame some random dude for simply not wanting to commit to a hoe. Let's not lose the context of this post. Men don't want promiscuous women in serious relationships. OP is using mental gymnastics to inject guilt and shame against men who choose better women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 01:57 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.It's 2025. NOBODY shames women. Everything is always "Yassss Kween!" and shit. Even when women act worse than men ever did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 01:39 PM |
| – | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.I don't know about any "fixation" but men's general prioritization on purity has more to do with the same area of the brain where we feel disgust for rotting food or attraction for well prepared meat. It has to do with our "digust" factor. The male version of the dreaded "ick" in females. Except ours is a lot less talked about or known because we don't discuss this over tea and crumpets are dinner parties. A woman who is promiscuous is a huge risk for a man who may end up fathering children that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to pressure men into taking testosterone?First of all, a man would have low testosterone if he could be "pressured" into taking it! lol (excluding actual medical conditions or physical damage to the nads of course) The problem kinda solves itself doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women choose to moralize men's dating successThis means the most immoral man in history was Jesus Christ according to these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't into men and that's a good thingNeither are birds! And yet, they're everywhere, spying on us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Would you be better than women at vetting guys?Write down 304 on a piece of paper and read it upside down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you be better than women at vetting guys?Yes, for the same reason that dogs are better at spotting and then taking care of jackals than the sheep. Even though the dog is a completely different breed, it still recognizes it's own kind through the same predatory instincts. Women's blind spot is that they are hopelessly verbal whereas men are primarily visual. We literally see other predators and sub-par men out on the field without ever even speaking to them. By their gait, their slouch, swagger, their mannerisms, their actions not jivin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menTo be fair, guys filter out a ton of women as well without even noticing it. Like you said. A big chunk are just "meh." They are neither attractive nor unattractive. I think your percentage of fuckboys is way too high. From women's perspective it looks more than what there actually are because they monopolize your attention but in men's radar only about 1 out of every 1,000 guys or so is genuinely good looking enough to be a fuckboy and out of those probably 1 in 2,000 is actually a fuckboy. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:42 AM |
| 2 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedor it feels "gay" in some way to fuck that woman. lol what? I think you are confusing emasculation with condescension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 05:31 AM |
| 6 | More men should be standing up for the free speech of AWDTSG and Tea appYou are confusing Free Speech with Libel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 04:54 AM |
| – | Do most guys on here even see themselves as people ?I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 04:07 AM |
| – | Do most guys on here even see themselves as people ?I did not imply that you were. I was making the insinuation that these guys don't see women as people because women do not see them as people either. Tit for tat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 04:06 AM |
| – | Do most guys on here even see themselves as people ?expecting sympathy from those who receive none... and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:49 AM |
| – | Do most guys on here even see themselves as people ?As if they could all just die off and nothing would matter all that much. Every boy figures this out before we leave our childhood. This isn't a surprise to anyone, especially boys. And no this is not some melodramatic or mushy-mopey "woe is me" BS sentiment. It's just a part of growing up as a man no different than facial hair and growth spurts. It's just a fact of life and any guy that doesn't take a hint finds out very easily how much the world is completely indifferent to his existence. It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:15 AM |
| 3 | There is a reason why guys like anime, but hate romance novels and Hallmark moviesWell, anime is something else. It's designed to appeal to the entire spectrum of what men are attracted to. Everything from Romantic to Violent, Grotesque to Sexy, Dysfunctional to Idyllic, everything a man could possibly want. There is some anime that scratches every possible itch a man has, that shows every desire we could ever feel, and beguiles every passion we didn't know we had. Can't fucking stand Japanese female anime voices though. ughhh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 04:48 AM |
| 6 | How likely/unlikely is it to find love as a man?Very very unlikely "I've been consuming a lot of blackpill content lately" eghhhsh Anyway, you're 16 bruh. Life hasn't even hit you yet. But fear not! By the time you're in your 20s you will be so crushed by the weight of the world that girls will be the least of your problems. The stress and anxiety of trying not to end up homeless, hungry, with no job and no medical coverage will take care of that. You may even forget what girls are at that point. 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize'You are not taking into account what guys are doing to be "good enough" for modern women. Which is so daunting that the majority of men are just giving up - like I have. And by the way, the majority just aren't "good enough" for women's standards, that is just a fact, and they have no way of "leveling up" because women are pricing themselves out of the market. You are skipping the part where you actually flesh out what "bare minimum" means. To modern women, the bare minimum means: earning more t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize'Just because 1% of men are getting all the female attention does not mean the other 99% are as lucky. Yes it is very disturbing how a small minority of men have women's attention so monopolized you are just utterly oblivious to the invisible and silent majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysTrue MGTOWs probably didn't even vote and don't give two shakes of a slut's ass about what society says about them. That is kinda the point. Going your own way means you just don't care. You've stopped caring about both society and women and you're just living your life looking out for #1. True MGTOWs do not care what women think of them, it just doesn't matter to them, they don't see it as important or worth wasting their imagination on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Ai robot sex toysRobots and AI are already disrupting men's preferences in women because they are impossibly perfect. The only barrier is the cost. The majority of men can't afford the high end tech yet. It doesn't even need to be artificial intelligence. Just the archetype of a perfect girl is enough to skew men's preferences and get men enthralled with artificial women. This is exacerbated by the fact that women are extremely hostile, unapproachable, demeaning, and unbearable. Why waste time and energy chasing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:47 AM |
| 4 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Here is a wild idea, maybe we didn't evolve for this anymore than women evolved for hard labor which might be the reason we don't see many male daycare workers or many female roofers. Crazy idea, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.Because definitions of words actually matter in communication, otherwise we are all just throwing words around with no one actually saying or meaning anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:16 AM |
| -1 | What would you do in terms of sex and dating if you were a woman?That is not what I said, and no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:02 AM |
| – | "If men use you for sex, then that's all you're good for/the only thing you have to offer them." Likewise, if women use you for "your resources," then that's all you have to offer women.I could barely articulate what I was trying to say and you want me to re-explain it? This is the reason a lot of men do not like talking about these things and prefer just to ghost or end the relationship because it is impossible to put words to things that more intelligent men have written whole books about. How else am I supposed to make it any clearer what "attracted to a man for his own sake" means? Women only love what a man provides, not the man himself. They only like what he brings to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | "If men use you for sex, then that's all you're good for/the only thing you have to offer them." Likewise, if women use you for "your resources," then that's all you have to offer women.I don't know how to explain it in any more words than I already did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 07:33 AM |
| 1 | "If men use you for sex, then that's all you're good for/the only thing you have to offer them." Likewise, if women use you for "your resources," then that's all you have to offer women.What else can a man offer if not resources? Women aren't attracted to men for themselves they are attracted to all the other "stuff" that comes from a man or with the man such as money, time, his labor, etc. Women are only attracted to something about men, they are not actually attracted to men. This is why men have to purchase women's affections either with outright currency or with favors or labor or even with just entertaining her. A man has to provide something to a woman in order for her to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 07:06 AM |
| 3 | What would you do in terms of sex and dating if you were a woman?I'd definitely be a lesbian because I cannot fathom ever being attracted to a dude, my brain just can't compute and even now I have no idea what women see in men anyway. Women's attraction to men makes absolutely no sense and I just cannot comprehend it no matter how much I've tried. Most likely I would be single and just enjoy my own body and be stoked that I have all the parts I want. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationshipsHow silly of you to assume that a man will have the same sexual angst and stamina at 60 as he does at 20. lol When you mention men's aging partners you left out the part where he is aging as well. And guess what? Old men ain't as horny anymore, most can't even get it up not because of bad plumbing but because they just don't care anymore. Hormones level off and men become chill and laid back and just want a simple stress free life. And this is why women dont want relationships with yall. Don't k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.This just in! Men don't like being treated like trash! Apparently, they prefer women who are nice to them! More on this topic after the weather. Do men behave a certain way based on how “women reward them” or do men have their own morals/beliefs based on multiple types of incentives/disincentives? Simps will simp. The majority of men will get fooled by women's manipulative narratives from time to time but this can only work so many times before men catch on and refuse to get manipulated any furt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are you in this sub ? And what make you stay there ?morbid curiosity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with a (one-sided) open relationship if there was a lack of sex in your LTR?I admit if my girlfriend would actually want me to have sex with other girls just because she can't then I'd be sad instead of horny. Having sex with other girls is no different than just jerking it to porn, sex with her is not something another girl can just replace. I would still want sex with her because I love her. The thought of her telling me to go fuck some random pussy just to make me happy and only because she can't have sex with me kinda feels like a punch right in the gut for me. It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.Look up what hypergamy means. Simping is not Hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?Believe it or not sometimes we want to see a girl's face more than her tits. That's the treason why porn doesn't satisfy our whole brain and it's intentional to keep the gooners hooked and perpetually frustrated and clicking for more. My gf does the same thing she gets some kind of weird thrill or satisfaction pointing out sexy women to me when we're watching something. My theory is that provoking a sexual response from me for a strange woman is kinda of her way to feel or perceive or enjoy my r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?"It's when men actively go looking for other women to watch" That's called being an asshole or a pervert or both. There is a big difference between sneezing as a matter of course and sniffing pepper to force a sneeze just because the jolt makes one feel good. Will determines intention. Some men have stronger willpower than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What makes a guy boring?my partner and i had a long conversation the other night on how the world would be different had afghanistan been taken as a soviet state without military intervention from the US and its allies. Can I join your guys in on that conversation with my pajamas and a plate of cookies & milk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:36 AM |
| – | Commitment from a man with no other options means nothing realistically.The unfortunate truth is that men will partner up with women they don't like at all if they have no other option because just being in proximity to a woman is seen as impressive. You think too much of yourselves! At first glance you might think this is a positive for women since we have access to a larger dating pool. In reality and in practice you all just have access to the same kiddie-sized pool. An ugly guy wants to cheat just as much as a hot one. No. Cheating is associated with reckless ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:19 AM |
| 4 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?That is hilarious with how simplistic yet true it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 02:34 AM |
| 8 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?Convince you of what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:40 AM |
| 16 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?You are asking the wrong side here. When women figure this one out please let us guys know! Only women can answer "what is the point in dating men" because it is women who are dating men, not men. Women are the ones who must see a point or a purpose in dating us otherwise they wouldn't do so. So, again, when you figure it out please let us know because I have no freaking clue why my girlfriend is interested in me for a long term relationship apart from just being physically attracted to me and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?Because I do not want my life destroyed! Why the hell is this so hard to understand? There are absolutely no benefits to marriage. It is a contract that is basically insurance for the woman - at the expense of men - where she can legally destroy me in every way possible if she decides to and in fact gives her every incentive to betray me and pull that trigger. The better question here is what on earth makes you women think that marriage is not supremely insulting to men and so fucking degrading … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from Womenlol, sure... I laugh because when I was in 5th grade they used to call MGTOW "extremist." When in reality it was just guys refusing to be simps to both women and the system and living for their own peace of mind outside of the rat race. "Escaping the plantation" as they used to call it. What you are describing is almost a caricature. Say what you will about MGTOW, but at least they did good on their word. They went their own way, and society hasn't stopped bitching about it calling it a "male lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 07:21 AM |
| 0 | How can men avoid rape allegations?Video and Audio are your best friends. Also, don't socialize with women you don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenThat's a lot of words just to say: "be a worthless simp." 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:51 AM |
| 0 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenThose opportunistic men would be the incels. This has already happened, a ton eligible of men have given up on dating and resigned to peaceful singlehood. The ones that are left are of course the top 10% whom all women share and the bottom tier men who think this is their opportunity to move in - which they have. This is why women are complaining harder than ever about the "low quality" of men because all that is left is Chads and incels. The "good men" have left and continue to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenIt's called MGTOW. It never went away, it just got bigger, and dropped the name. Unlike your proposal, MGTOW had valid reasons for "going monk." The number one being Self-Actualization. The idea that women should never be an important part of a man's life didn't mean cutting them off completely, it just meant not making women the center of the universe and being a perpetual simp. The idea of MGTOW was to be in control of your own life and live by your own ideals, whatever these may be. The movem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:16 AM |
| 0 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedNo. It's watching women totally blasting average men that made the rest of us step back and think that it could be any one of us at any time. Women made it about "all men," and not "some men." And it's not an exaggeration that you can't have a conversation with women now without the risk of them destroying your life just to amuse herself with total impunity. But besides all of that, honestly it is just not worth it. It's too damned much and if being interested in women means having to put up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you date an actress who does or has done nude scenes?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?I ask because out of all the girls who have ever been interested me - or I think were interested in me - only one has ever actually approached me and asked me out, and she's my girlfriend now. Also, women's attention is very deceptive. Women flirt with men as a matter of course just to boost their own ego and don't really have any interest in the men they flirt with. That is why my now girlfriend had been flirting with me and we had been talking for months before she figured out I was just never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 04:10 AM |
| 13 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?Often times when I approached a guy, I was treated as an option. That is how dating is for men, which is why I've never approached a woman and don't intend on ever doing so. Every time a man approaches a woman he is basically making himself an "option" for her and then has to play the goof to amuse her above the other clowns vying for her attention. It's degrading which is why less and less men are willing to approach women. In a very weird way it's women themselves who are opening so many men's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?Once I become the most sociable and charismatic person in the world I’ll be asking everyone on a date. I used to think like that and kinda still do. I have never taken the initiative to communicate my interest to any woman, ever. And never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:22 AM |
| 9 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?Because men will happily use a woman for sex and services even if he doesn't actually like her. This does not go away only because it is the man who is initiating contact. it is safer for women for a man to be more invested in a relationship than she is because she has the most to lose. This is after someone has initiated contact. My question is about the initiation of a relationship and not the aftermath of that initiation. My question is abut women making the first move and they would not do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:42 AM |
| 12 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?The pitfalls are exactly the same if it's the guy who is initiating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:24 AM |
| 7 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?I admit that is news to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:16 AM |
| 13 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?No guy would ever think a girl is a slut just because she likes him. A guy will think a girl is a slut if she acts thirsty towards every guy in the room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you think having first kid in woman's 30s is selfish and stupid idea?Mt girlfriend is 27 so.... I don't care. We have talked about having kids and I am actually looking forward to it maybe in a year or two years from now when I can finish trade school and she can take time off from work because she wants to spend 6 months at least with the baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:48 AM |
| 3 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingWhy would anyone approach her hostile self? She looks meaner than dudes marching off to war! The hell she expects? Besides, women hate being approached. Even women that we already know and are friends with feel all types of offended if a guy shows any romantic interest in them. This is just too complicated. To hell with that! My peace of mind is more valuable to me than approaching women no matter how attractive they are and inviting all the problems, stresses and pressures that this brings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?No. lol Why would I ever marry a woman just because I know her and she can't have sex? Now, if I loved said woman things change. I am against marriage so no I would still not marry but I have no issues having a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedso what, women are just gonna live in a house with a bunch of other women sharing one guy? That is already the case, except women are not sharing the same house. In reality a ton of single mothers are all raising the same guy's babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedOur genes demonstrate that that has always been the case. Very few men mate with the vast majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:23 AM |
| 3 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedI don't think it is possible today to approach women - any woman - without coming off as a creep. Even if you're good looking. Women still get the ick and despite the ego boost they will still get creeped out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges?I wonder what a gender specific privilege would feel like as a man. 🤔 The only real privilege I have is my looks but it doesn't compare to women. I get some preferential treatment here and there just because of my looks but I honestly cannot tell if it's really because of my looks or if it's even preferential treatment to begin with because I can't measure it against how other dudes may be getting treated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges?Probably because everyone sees white women like... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?The ability and opportunity to have a soft spot, be caring and gentle to someone we love. When we go our entire lives without ever applying this ability we eventually lose it. Men literally cannot be kind or show kindness because that function never develops, stagnates, and we eventually just lose it from lack of use. I don't know at what age but that is what a couple of grouchy old dudes have told me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?I don't want to jinx myself but maybe I found a unicorn 🦄 - or more like she found me, she was the one who initiated our relationship. If it weren't for that I would definitely be single and not looking right now. But since I'm in it, I am committed to her and we'll see where it goes. I don't have any intention of backing down from my commitment to her unless she completely betrays me somehow, which is very unlikely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?That is word for word the MGTOW manifesto. Men being fed up and sick of women which is a thing I have been aware of since 4th grade. I used to read about it back in the day. The greatest feat in all human history is women making themselves so horrible to men that even our relentless horniness is not enough to keep men interested in women anymore and men now see their biological attraction to women more as a flaw than a feature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 04:52 AM |
| – | What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male?Credit and Tax incentives exclusive to women that men are barred from. For example, all else being equal, women get much lower interest rates on a mortgage and they are given preferential bias despite a man having equal credit and income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 04:02 AM |
| 0 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?Do I really have to sit down and write you an essay explaining how talking about a problem does not mean solving it? How running one's mouth about an issue does not magically solve problems? Do you know what it's called when you believe that saying words will magically have an effect on reality? It's called Magic! lol It's "spellcraft." Words do not solve anything, actions do. I feel dumber now for having to have to explain this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:19 AM |
| 0 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?Actual medicine (surgery and medication) and not psychobabble ju-ju. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Why are you still single?That's kinda funny because men have the same exact reaction when hearing feminists for the first time or just being online for 5 minutes. I don't go to college but all my friends that do tell me what a shit show it is and why they turn to the Red Pill to "counter attack" the feminist stuff. Half of them are of the mentality that dating is just a mission to fuck and then then get out without suffering any casualties, as if it were a military mission. The language is very combative when it used to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?Both... also had such a soft spot in their hearts for their wives and children. The opportunity to demonstrate this is not afforded to modern men. We all have this instinct, it;s part of being a man, but like any muscle after puberty, it atrophies with continued disuse and neglect until one day when a man is old enough, this instinct will just be a vague memory that he doesn't understand anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Why are you still single?What's a mentalcel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Why are you still single?Far more women are okay with putting up with it. I know, but here's the thing: Men are not Women. As far as I know she's never considered marrying any of them though. I support this because I am anti-marriage too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:37 AM |
| 0 | Why are you still single?Just my opinion here... I mean no offense, but there is something familiarly masculine about your perspective. There is a hint of aggression and competitiveness, an uncompromising assertiveness that makes me feel you'd be more of a drill sergeant beating on a man's ego and self esteem from every direction, proverbially running him through the mud so to speak, and just prowling for a weakness you can tear him down with. Any man worth his salt would run away from you because he will not compromise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:28 AM |
| -2 | Why are you still single?No man has managed to compete with her dedication to her family and job. Sometimes the answer is in the question. No man wants to be 2nd fiddle to her family and her job, specially when he is supposed to be a part of her family and not some stranger that has to compete on the sidelines for scraps of affection. Just a minor observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?nevermind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women moreHow about no. 🤨 This is extremely bad advice. This is the fastest way you're going to end up on a Law Enforcement list. Here is some better advice: Get your thirst under control and learn that being single and without a woman is better than salivating after them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?Seek psychiatric help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 09:59 AM |
| -2 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?What causes it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 09:57 AM |
| -4 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?This is like asking what are alternatives to astrology and bullshit-artistry we would like to see. How about none? How about just ending the BS? Stop selling fake illnesses to the gullible in order to sell them BS cures? How about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 08:39 AM |
| 2 | How do you describe being in love?sometimes and I’ll just want hug him super tight or bite him. That's funny, cute, and endearing. But most importantly, it's normal. Sometimes I see my girlfriend doing the most mundane things and I get a strong urge to run over to her and squish her and yes even bite her like an ice cream sandwich. Other times it's a slow burn sort of ASMR feeling where I just enjoy watching her like this afternoon when she was doing her nails next to me on the couch and I had fun just watching her and all the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 06:31 AM |
| 10 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?The fact that this dude can't figure this out is kinda hilarious in a dark way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Women should approach moreI have never been cold approached. Cold approaching is for creeps, I do not expect women to do such awkward things. The women who have approached me are women whom have already broken the ice and are familiar to me through mutual friends or knowing them through casual interactions. I used to work in a sandwich shop and made friends with a lot of "regulars" there. That's where I met my girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.What is insulting is your insinuation that jerking off is all that matters. It's very telling how it never crossed your mind that the reason we want women's interest is perhaps we want her company, a family, and a life with her. If sex is all you offer then sex is all that you are! If that be the case, women should really stop bitching how cheap/free porn is all it takes to replace you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Lack of Romantic/Sexual Experience Stunts Social & Emotional Development in Young MenBecause Romantic and Sexual experience is needed in every job application right? Trust me duded, your brain is not going to fall out of your nose just because you don't get any sex. Sex is not a "need." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Men are extremely competitive and then women go on and poke us right in the competitive nerves. What exactly do you expect if gonna happen? Women love dishing it out but then can't take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:21 AM |
| 0 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Women love to dismiss men's caution towards them as "chronically online," because we're now more privy to their online communities and true opinions on men. If a man is jaded or resentful towards women (justifiably so) the braindead default response tends to be "get off reddit." I actually believe the opposite is true, women are only honest when given the privilege of anonymity, because there are no repercussions. We should take the things they say online as factual. Sure, i admit my experiences… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Men simply want virgin women because of security and feeling of being special.Let's cut all that jazz and get to the point: Men prefer virgins and women with little sexual experience because they just come with a lot less baggage and aren't as jaded and screwed up as promiscuous women. The "virgin" part is a lot more important for what it consists of between a woman's ears than what's between her legs. It is not more complicated than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy.Therapy is a scam, it's cringe as hell how nobody sees that 🙄 It's no different than astrology mixed with psychobabble to scam people into believing their imaginary problems are solved. It's the selling of "feel-good feelings" to the gullible and impressionable who becamde sad and depressed due to their gullibility to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:24 AM |
| – | Men are drastically overestimating how badly the average young woman wants commitment.I am in a very weird place. I have no money, my gf earns a lot more than I do and she owns her own house. I am going to trade school and have a part time job and she works full time and earns close to 6 figures and has a master's degree. All I got is a high school diploma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.The issue here is that women don't seem to want to wait and just pick the meanest looking runner before the race even starts. Guys here want to complain about women choosing career over dating in her youth, but guys will also focus on their career and other goals in their youth. Then, they try looking for a woman. The main reason that a lot of men focus on careers is with the intention of using that success as a currency for purchasing women's interest. Women using their youth (which is when wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:03 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The next generation of women will have an even harder time datingAm I the only one that has no idea what "The Bop House" is? And why do those girls sound like children? Why are we interviewing children? Don't talk to me about dating unless you're old enough to understand how taxes work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Women should approach moreI think women are approaching, but like someone else pointed out in the comments, they are only approaching men they actually find attractive. I never approach women, not even women I know or have had interest in. Yet, I have been approached a bunch of times. Girls flirting, giving me their number or snapchat, and I have been asked out. I know this is not normal for the vast majority of men but women do approach and become easier towards guys they like. It's just that women just don't seem to li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:40 AM |
| 2 | How much interest and attention do you think the average woman receives?I have no idea. How would you even quantify this? Also, just because women get a lot of attention doesn't mean that the attention they are getting is being received. I tend to notice a ton of women and I never acknowledge any of them. Just because they get my attention ( awareness) does not mean I give them any of my attention (my time or effort). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:21 AM |
| – | Men are drastically overestimating how badly the average young woman wants commitment.They are able to walk into any room and find at least a1 guy they think is attractive . lol. Men are able to walk into an empty room and still find 5 girls that he thinks are attractive. This is not impressive. Women are still very picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | “Women are selectors” but redpillers constantly complain about never wanting fat women, older women, and single moms.What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 05:56 AM |
| – | Men are drastically overestimating how badly the average young woman wants commitment.That's just not true. A common feature of men's complaints in this subreddit is the insulting dichotomy women have over who they will have sex with and who they will show commitment to. Your claim doesn't make any sense to the crowd that coined the phrase "Alpha Fux/Beta Bux." This means men are very aware that women don't care too much about commitment from men whom they find sexually attractive and are perfectly content just to get railed by Chad even if this dude ghosts her after boning her. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameYou didn't lose, you just didn't win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameBut I honestly don’t think you have to be an exceptional man to pull a woman. Then goes on to list exception traits to pull a woman... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?The question is absurd. If we aren't dedicating any effort into dating then you cannot truly say we are "failing" at it because it means we're not even trying. You can't "fail" at hitting the mark when you're not even aiming at it. Hitting it would be pure chance, or luck, or both. But yes, I do believe that guys are not not that interested in dating anymore compared to how obsessed with women older men used to be when they were our age. Older men had this whole culture of anxiety and angst arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Let's say what it is, Men are in their princess era, and it's okay ❤️Calling a woman "masculine" is insulting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Let's say what it is, Men are in their princess era, and it's okay ❤️The issue is that a lot of that chasing is completely phony. Women act like they're interested just to boost their egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:02 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of a guy making you wait for sex?I gave a girl the "ick" because I implied that I'm not interested in escalating things with her to involve sex. I ad told her I think she's pretty (which she is) but that I'm not into getting intimate and I just didn't feel like I should be explaining myself and she took that as "creepy" and offensive. She completely ghosted me right after and found out she was trash talking me latter through friends. I would not call this a green flag. Women have such huge egos that it's safer to just insinuate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?You misread what I said. I am not "dating" as if I'm looking for another girl. The reason I started dating my gf is because she approached me and asked me out and I was already interested in her and had a crush on her but it just never crossed my mind that she felt the same way about me. I always just assume women are friendly and some are flirty just to boost their own ego. I never believe it's for real or that they have any real interest other than just being friendly or looking for a quick eg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?I have never asked a girl out and the only reason I have a gf is because she was the one that asked me out after finding out we had a mutual crush on each other. Up until that point I just thought she was being friendly, it never believed she actually liked me. I never approach girls, not even if I have a crush because the whole thing is just extremely exasperating and maddening. I hate that feeling so I would rather just remove myself from that girl's presence and just be done with it. I don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)You’re not proving strength here. That was my entire point. We're done. There is nothing more to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 04:08 AM |
| 2 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)Has it occurred to you that maybe we are just completely fed up and exhausted with the non-stop assault on our masculinity from every direction that we have just started to retreat from it entirely? Meaning that even the hint of any challenge to our existence as a man will be met with either hostility or complete avoidance. At least in my case, whenever I even get a whiff of any anti-masculine BS or even anything that rhymes with that rhetoric I will just ghost it and the person from whom that v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:34 PM |
| 14 | “Women are selectors” but redpillers constantly complain about never wanting fat women, older women, and single moms.And yet, fat chicks, single moms, and older women all still get boyfriends. Your logic ain't logicing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Gynocentrism doesn't make sense in monogamous societiesI don't think you comprehend what gynocentrism means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do?What I did there is called hyperbole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlThere is usually nothing wrong with most things in life, until someone starts preaching that "there is nothing wrong" about it. 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do?No man has ever said that, ever. It's plane bad advice, and anyone who ever uttered it is an idiot and should be made fun of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do?I would turn my phone off and read a book. "how many men would be good Samaritans for a random woman." Only the stupid ones who think with their penis and cannot fathom for one second that it might be a scam, a prank, or the FBI trying to catch a perv or sex trafficker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:45 AM |
| 12 | A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personalityMy personality is not the reason I have a girlfriend, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:44 AM |
| – | What amount of women u find attractive in your daily lives?If you mean across the board and include every single woman of every age and background then yes perhaps 10% is accurate but if you mean only women between 18 to 40 who are not fat then that number spikes to about 60% or more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 04:55 AM |
| 0 | It has never been easier to date as a manYeah dating is "easy." But finding what you actually want is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Sorry but this is an incredibly stupid and insulting question. It's exactly the type of garbage that those annoying ads on YouTube asks: "What's stopping you from becoming a billionaire right now! Click on the Link to learn more!" 🤨 What are you selling bruh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 05:49 AM |
| 1 | For women, words are more important than actionsWhat are you talking about? White people, Isis, Midwest? WTF? What? How does any of that make any sense with what I just said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | equality vs equity the eternal argumentThat is not OPs point, that is an entirely different subject, and argument, altogether. 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:05 AM |
| 3 | equality vs equity the eternal argumentNobody is saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureThat's because the Red Pill attracts weaktards and insecuroids that want to use the Red Pill's precepts as a patch to cover up their suckage. "but after a little while of reading and getting integrated into that sort of community," That right there is my point. Men do not "integrate" into communities out of some need to medicate a broken heart. That is a very effeminate thing to do. In fact, it's exactly what women do when their feelings get hurt, they seek out the herd. Men, we tend to get away… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What do you want from a marriage?I want it eradicated. It should not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:51 AM |
| 2 | equality vs equity the eternal argumentsince there are a lot of people who insist on equal outcomes. There are also a lot of people who believe your skin color denotes your worth. What is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:34 AM |
| 7 | For women, words are more important than actionsWhat about those of us who got red pilled during our relationship with a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborThe real emotional labor = listening to women complain about nonsense I believe that's actually a type of mental torture. The CIA uses that to break down hardened terrorists and spies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborSo... if I understand correctly, nothing less than God himself (who can read what's on your mind and who knows what you want better than you do) will ever stand a chance with these modern women. Got it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:21 AM |
| 20 | equality vs equity the eternal argumentThis is not an argument. Equality ≠ Equity. That's why they are two different words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenMen being alone is the cure! 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:13 AM |
| 3 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Biological urges are a fact. Usually when dudes mention them they are trying to explain (not excuse) their behavior. What is annoying is when women just don't "get it" and pretend as if our angst and urges are a choice like picking out a favorite color and not a biological function like flatulence or itching. That being said, the measure of a man is determined by how well he is in control of himself. Lesser men cannot control their impulses, like children. Better men are in full control. It's wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.I think a healthy baseline on whether or not your sexuality is truly creepy is if it starts triggering other dudes in the room. If even other men are giving you a glance then you know you're just being too much. Women find any excuse to feel pissy and offended by anything men do. So let them. But if you're catching bad attention from both the women and the men then perhaps you've gone too far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Will you have problems with such a woman? Just as a person or as a potential partner.Such a woman is commitment material, that is why I am committed to my gf. She also considers sex to be a very intimate thing and I had no issues dating without sex because I genuinely had a crush on her and now I love her so sex is not a priority when love is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveWhat exactly do you think Red Pillers are saying that they want in women? I think your confusion stems from not listening to what they say they actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Are you happy redpillers?Yes. The happiness comes after adapting to reality, not before. A lot of the bitter dudes are the ones who just don't want to let go of the dream they once had. They are the ones who can't bear the struggle beyond the fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?My gf earns more than I do and she's also 8 years older than me. I recently moved in with her and we're living together. I'm going to trade school and she works and earns almost 6 figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 05:47 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?Then instead of asking us how to we "feel" if women acted like fuckgirls you should have asked what do men "think" when women act like fuckgirls. Well what I think of fuckgirls is that they are just behaving like what I call Feral Women. That is, women behaving more in line with Lizard Brain thinking than with higher cognitive functions. These are women who roam the world feeling their way more on basic female instincts of survival and procreation and aren't too keen on higher things like intell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How should your gf be different from the average woman?It is always sentimental, in relationships you don't literally "own" each other. Unless you're pretending to do so in some form of kinki foreplay though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | How should your gf be different from the average woman?That's because you have the ridiculous politically correct and modern view of what "possession" means, as if it applies only to inanimate objects. That is why in modern relationships - as with material things - the neocapitalist mantra reigns true: "You will own nothing, and you'll be happy about it." Meaning everything will be subscription based, transactional, and you may quit or default on your payments and then be cut off from the service at any given time. The same has happened with relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?Why do you assume that "fuckgirls" (aka Bitches!) aren't a thing that men deal with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:11 AM |
| 3 | CMV: men push this narrative that older women are less attractive but they have it backwardsIt's not a narrative it's just reality. Maturity, wisdom, life experience, self-confidence, etc. These are very attractive traits! Um... no. She is more attractive than her. This isn't even a debate. All those things you listed are character traits which bear no weight in what guys find attractive. Yes, the traits you listed add value to a woman but only when we already find her attractive. If the choice was between two attractive women and one has those traits then yes perhaps it would skew our… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 06:25 AM |
| 22 | How should your gf be different from the average woman?That's easy. She's simply mine 😊 all mine. She is not different from average women, the only thing is that she is "for me." Average women are not in my personal space, they are not familial to me and I owe them nothing nor do they owe me anything. What makes my gf exceptional to me is that she is not part of that outside pack of women, she is in my personal space, she's intimately close to me, I know her and she knows me. She's not just a hot girl I daydream about, she is like part of my family … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Would you live in a male only city/society?Well, OP thinks a state ruled by, and for, men would somehow be a "committee." lol So I wouldn't put much stock in his conclusions nor in his knowledge of how men function here. If anything, a society of men would function the same way every society today functions, except there just wouldn't be any women around. We would still be hierarchical, pluralistic, and more than likely democratical because the only way you will ever get millions of men to function as a unit is if every man has skin in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have days in which you don’t think about attractive women, relationships or sex at all?Honestly and literally: No. It's just not possible, unless I am unconscious for the entire day. It happens in flashes often provoked by images or any thoughts that stray towards women, and lasts only microseconds, but it does happen, a lot! I can see a few guys here who are answering no and I can tell you off the bat that they're full of crap. Again, they're just giving women the politically correct and sanitized post-woke answer that is expected of them. It is just not possible to not think abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:23 AM |
| – | Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife?We don't. A lot of men just fall for the ego-goading that women do in accusing us of being attracted to what we're attracted to as if there were some sort of shame in it. A lot of men fall for these types of women's mind games but in doing so we learn very quickly to recognize them and not fall for them anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 06:36 AM |
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