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She is ugly.
/r/MensRights13/01/18 08:23 AM
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This article is about one guy that doesn't like being a Sugar Daddy, he's not speaking for the rest of them. Sugar Daddy dating on sites like sugardaddyforme or even new ones like tempted aren't just about money in "return for sex", most Sugar Babies get treated to luxury vacations and pampered with shopping trips, and Sugar Daddies can afford this because they are wealthy and successful.
/r/MensRights21/09/15 04:02 PM
3

It happens, but don't worry about it, nail it tomorrow, there's a world of women out there.
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:45 AM
3

Sorry to hear that you haven't had much luck approaching girls, but keep at it, it really does work. Persistence is the key.
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:43 AM
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Don't worry OP, try to overcome your fears and start talking to women, you may starting getting some success :)
/r/seduction15/05/15 04:50 PM
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I much prefer daygame than meeting girls in bars or clubs.
/r/seduction11/05/15 02:49 AM
1

Facing "rejection" from girls is a part of the dating game. There could be a 100 different reasons why she said no at that moment, don't take it personally, just move onto the next girl.
/r/seduction10/05/15 09:07 PM
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Just talk to them.
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:59 PM
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So what are you going to do, give up? Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. Flaking is all part of it, just keep going, onto the next one.
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:36 AM
3

If you focus on the risks/fear, it'll multiply in your mind and eventually paralyze you. You want to focus on the task, instead, on doing what needs to be done.
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:32 AM
0

"I have less than no romantic/sexual interest in them, yet sometimes they can feel almost my entire body against them." Maybe they're not sexually interested in you, that's why they don't pursue you when you do that. But generally, if a girl (especially a hot girl) squishes her boobs against a guy, it means she's interested in him.
/r/seduction28/04/15 04:56 AM
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"with so many inexperienced people giving advice as fact, when anyone who has even read 1 thing from the sidebar would disagree with." How do you know who's inexperienced and who isn't? You should speak for yourself.
/r/seduction27/04/15 02:07 PM
1

At no point in his post did he say he is trying to get "Chicks to hop on his dick after 10 mins". That's probably what you do.
/r/seduction27/04/15 01:51 PM
1

Lol, your comment seems quite bitter. How do you know the guy is a "weirdo creeper"?
/r/seduction27/04/15 01:33 PM
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"Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks." Are you sure that you have never been rejected in the past because of your looks?
/r/seduction25/04/15 04:57 PM
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I absolutely agree. Day game works best for me, when you get confident and approach 4 or 5 girls in a day, maybe get 1 or 2 phone numbers from that, then work on them and set up dates. This is far more satisfying than using any dating website/app. It's Ok to use them but only to supplement meeting girls in real life.
/r/seduction25/04/15 01:48 PM
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I would say there's a good chance she's interested if she does that. Another thing with eye contact that I do sometimes, is while we are talking, I look into her eyes, then briefly glance down to her nose, then back up at her eyes. Another trick that may help you.
/r/seduction25/04/15 02:53 AM
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How r u?
/r/seduction24/04/15 03:36 PM
1

Good pictures are vital with OkCupid and Tinder, not many girls will reply to you if you have bad quality photos or look like a dork. I've also tried a few sugar dating sites like www.establishedmen.com & www.tempted.com There are a lot more hot girls on these sites.
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:37 PM
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This is what I do - Say if she's sitting on a bench (I live in a large city so there's parks with benches), go and approach her and sit next to her, say "Hi, are you waiting for somebody?" She will either say yes or no, then you can introduce yourself and say "Do you work/study here"? Then take it from there..When you get more confident you will find that the conversation will flow naturally. You can then ask if she has a boyfriend or even make a joke "How many boyfriends have you got" I use thi…
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:28 AM
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I understand what you're saying but believe me, you are worrying about nothing, it's all in your mind. I once had approach anxiety years ago, just like you, every guy had it. You will overcome your fear and soon with be approaching girls and talking to them. They are only girls, most of them are shy too, they aren't made of gold. Start saying hello to girls in the street tomorrow, I bet that you will soon start enjoying talking to girls and get addicted to it before you know it.
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:09 AM
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Dating websites are for losers and women who are insecure, attention seeking and generally fat and/or ugly anyways.
/r/seduction19/04/15 02:24 AM
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Sounds like you spend too much time on your computer. Get out there and start talking to women.
/r/seduction19/04/15 01:32 AM
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True, not every girl will fuck you, but there are still a lot of girls that probably will. Go out and talk to them, have fun!
/r/seduction18/04/15 02:01 PM
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Agreed entirely! Day game works best for me. Be persistent, confident, and when it comes to it, don't take rejection personally, there could be a 100 reasons why you didn't get her number at that moment.
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:46 AM
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Great! Talk to at least 3 girls tomorrow as well, and the next day. 'll be leaving the house and talking to some girls to.. It really is easy isn't it? I still get approach anxiety sometimes, I think most people do, it keeps it real.
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:31 PM
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Day gaming sure is the way to go. I think you can make is 1 out of 6 if you do it regularly (every day) and are persistent with it. Your cold approach will improve and you will gain confidence quickly! It's addictive, have fun with it.
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:49 PM
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Take a look at this video on day game techniques, it will help you no end. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kNWAXmemYM
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:42 PM
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If the person is nice.
/r/seduction13/04/15 04:17 AM
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All this kind of stuff is useful. It's a numbers game, the more girls you approach, the better you will become at your "game" and the more pussy you're going to get at the end of the day, which in turn naturally boosts your confidence. 2 Important Points: Be persistent Don't let rejection get to you
/r/seduction11/04/15 05:17 AM
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"Instead of trying to ‘not care’, focus on the positives that you DO care about: being direct, expressing your intent, pulling the trigger, taking action, going after what you want, facing your fears to prove they’re irrational, feeling like a man by risking rejection." This last part sums it up nicely.
/r/seduction11/04/15 01:36 AM
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Women don't know what they want and change their mind all the time.
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:09 PM
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True, but he doesn't look nervous on this speech video at all, he may be wearing a shirt that's not ironed but that's probably his style, rough n' ready, and it works for him. But having said all that, surely a lot of girls tell him to just piss off as well.
/r/seduction06/04/15 04:30 PM
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I agree with almost all of what he says, it's great, simple philosophy that most men don't do.
/r/seduction05/04/15 04:08 PM
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You seem bitter.
/r/seduction05/04/15 04:05 PM
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Lol he doesn't come across "creepy" at all, and if you watch his videos on YouTube he approaches HOT girls in the street, keeps them talking, and gets a bunch of numbers without batting an eyelid. In one video he even intentionally dresses like a dick to prove it's more down to his daring, confident style that shines through.
/r/seduction05/04/15 06:44 AM
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In a nutshell - If you're hot, yes use it, if not then no. People swipe left or right purely based on your looks. Harsh but that's Tinder for you.
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:16 AM
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Guys, I was just in a supermarket in line at the checkout, a nice looking girl walked up in line behind me, she was holding a buffet salad, I turned around said Hi and asked if it was her lunch, and asked if she had whatsapp, she said yes, but I'm not going to give it to you, but in a nice way, I said ok no problem. In the past I would have let it get to me, but now I think so what, there could be a hundred reasons she wouldn't give me her number at that moment, she could have a boyfriend also. …
/r/seduction30/03/15 07:21 PM
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The easy answer is to say "Ok cool" and then to walk away. But there are a lot of situations where rejection isn't all that clear cut and you are actually better off trying to hang in there and see if she is testing you.
/r/seduction28/03/15 11:51 PM
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Move onto another girl.
/r/seduction21/03/15 01:17 PM
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Remember they are only "rejecting" a stranger, they don't know you so don't take it personally or feel sad about it. And there could be many reasons why she "rejected" you, a lot of which could be no fault of your own.
/r/seduction20/03/15 02:45 AM
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If she sees you with another hot girl, all of a sudden she will want to talk with you.
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:50 PM
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Just think of dating a girl as the first step of getting her into bed.
/r/seduction13/03/15 10:45 PM
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It's an interesting question you make. Also this guy has memorized and mastered everything on seduction right? I'm sure there are still many reason why SOME girls still may reject, or at least play/shit test him, then it would depend on how much patience the guy has. There are many different variables that come into play, remember every woman is different, it's not clear cut back and white even though he is a king player, it's not down to him. He may be not be her type looks wise, even though he…
/r/seduction12/03/15 01:54 PM
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Maybe they aren't really into him, maybe she has a boyfriend, there could be lots of reasons.
/r/seduction12/03/15 01:23 PM
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"What, like a hawk or a tiger?" No, like a girl walking fast.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:49 PM
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Lol, can you stop pretending to be "Alpha", it doesn't suit you. And nobody still hasn't explained what "SMV" means, it does not say in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:09 PM
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Not being funny but what does SMV stand for? I put it into google and it came up with slow moving vehicle.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:31 AM
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Good to hear, punished harshly they should be.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:38 AM
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It's terrible why they don't press charges, I hope this isn't the way forward.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:07 AM
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I'm not familiar with this, is it true in the States they don't take it seriously?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:04 AM
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Short answer - Absolutely not, you are never too old to make new friends and create new social circles.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:17 PM
2

Great quotes. "Do It Now" pick of the bunch for me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:50 AM
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Roger Moore as James Bond is a great example for a confident voice.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:05 AM
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The title of this post alone should be inspirational!
/r/seduction08/03/15 05:36 PM
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The majority of men will tell you that the rating scale, as you call it, is for how the woman looks.
/r/seduction08/03/15 01:00 AM
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Actually it has everything to do with physical attraction and has nothing to do with her personality, or what she thinks. When a guy says for example "She's an 8" or "She's a solid 7", it's purely based on her looks.
/r/seduction07/03/15 11:26 PM
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Good points. What women really want is to marry a rich man and stay at home with the children. With the boom of internet dating, especially sugar dating, a lot of young single women use sugar dating websites like www.tempted.com and hook up with successful, wealthy, generous men.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 09:52 PM
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Do you want to get to know them to build up your confidence? I'm sure a lot older girls will be flattered that you are talking to them, not many guys your age would have the balls to do it. Try the day game, go up and talk to them, it may work out well for you.
/r/seduction06/03/15 10:16 PM
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I think you're having a senior moment and thinking "Omg I'm 30, I'm too old to do anything now". You need to snap out of this mentality dude. My dating skills really took off around 30, confidence and experience make a big difference.
/r/seduction06/03/15 01:13 PM
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People need to get out of their comfort zone more often, experience things they wouldn't normally do, try new things. Getting used to taking risks is important, the worst thing that can happen is you'll fail but the experience is valuable, not just with women but everything in life.
/r/seduction06/03/15 01:05 PM
1

Many young women want to live the alpha cock dream. They want it, badly, but they're too far buried in their comfort nest to go out and find it. However, these days a lot of young single women do sneak out of their cozy bubble and use sugar dating websites like www.tempted.com and hook up with successful, wealthy, generous men.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:56 PM
1

They should rename it "Online Flaking".
/r/seduction05/03/15 10:12 PM
1

Meditating is a good point, or the close your eyes and count to 100 tip. Most people forget that having 10 minutes to yourself during the day is very important. Ideally, you should take a 30-45 minute nap in the afternoon.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:59 PM
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Ok, onto another thread I think..
/r/seduction04/03/15 01:53 PM
7

Latinos? Are you gay? It's "Latinas"
/r/seduction03/03/15 01:10 PM
1

This is an interesting point you bring up. Fact is most women are whores anyway. Women have different gradients of flakiness, some will give you the benefit of the doubt if they see any weakness in you and shit test you in some other way, if you continue to show cracks then she may walk away.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:43 PM
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Approach anxiety is a huge barrier for a lot of men. Just go up to her and say Hello, she will either talk with you or not, if she doesn't, who cares, onto the next one.
/r/seduction28/02/15 04:52 PM
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One thing's for sure, you're going to learn a lot from that experience.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 12:51 AM
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Not at all, it will work most of the time.
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:41 PM
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Say to her she is meeting the wrong type of guys.
/r/seduction26/02/15 04:38 AM
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Also to add to this, when girls say "I'm not like other girls", that means they are like other girls.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 03:59 PM
1

Don't tell her you are dating 2 other girls, she will probably go right off you.
/r/seduction21/02/15 08:01 PM
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True, older girls have a stronger slut-defence mechanism to spot the players.
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:55 PM
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I think this is really weird! Why try to look at your own reflection in her eyes? Just focus on her beautiful eyes.
/r/seduction18/02/15 01:24 PM
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I didn't even see the video, the title is very true though.
/r/seduction14/02/15 04:25 PM
3

That makes sense, good tip.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:03 AM
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Lol, you have no idea what you're talking about, you have been reading too many "confidence building" websites. I suggest to you get off the internet for 5 minutes and start actually meeting some girls. The girl is obviously interested in having sex with him, otherwise she wouldn't have made that remark.
/r/seduction08/02/15 04:22 PM
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You have had sex with only 15 women?? You are slacking.
/r/seduction08/02/15 04:13 PM
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Can I meet him - Is not what you should say.
/r/seduction06/02/15 11:02 PM
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I'm 38 but can pass for early 30's. Sometimes I say my real age, sometimes I knock a few years off, depends on the woman.
/r/seduction06/02/15 10:14 PM
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I absolutely agree with you that when you get your life together and start to feel happy within yourself, it does radiate to other people which give you a lot of confidence. As for the point you make about you feeling like you are speaking down on your friends, how are they towards you when you do this, just the same?
/r/seduction05/02/15 09:47 PM
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I've never been to a speed dating event, I can't imagine a worse situation in the dating world to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:44 AM
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Some great tips there. It's important not to dwell on a past event too much, learn from it and move on.
/r/seduction03/02/15 11:55 PM
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If you take this attitude with women, you will never get laid. You need to learn how to seduce women properly.
/r/seduction02/02/15 01:08 PM
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You obviously enjoy wasting your time, she is a flake.
/r/seduction02/02/15 02:41 AM
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Thanks, but I wasn't talking about myself, I have no problems at all meeting and going out with girls at all. I was referring your post and the 7 phone numbers you got the other night. You will have a hard time getting dates with all of them, but then again not having seen them myself I'm not sure how hot they were, or not. Good luck anyhow.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:54 PM
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Tell her sorry you're not interested now, you have a girlfriend.
/r/seduction01/02/15 09:44 PM
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You say you have 15 matches a day on Tinder, that's no big deal, anybody can have that many, it doesn't mean those 15 are good looking.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 09:16 PM
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I agree, what usually happens is when you think you have a lot to go at, you're lucky to met 1 of them let alone all 7.
/r/seduction01/02/15 06:42 PM
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Yes, but we are talking about attractiveness of 9 and 10.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:00 PM
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I understand that, but that doesn't stop you from being attracted to them.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 04:53 PM
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Why would you not be attracted to 9 or 10 women?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 04:19 PM
1

Why is David Blaine performing there?
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:10 PM
2

Drinking more slowly sure does help.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:02 PM
2

I know it seems hard to grasp doesn't it
/r/seduction30/01/15 08:40 PM
1

Great tips and to the point. Get out there and start talking.
/r/seduction27/01/15 06:41 PM
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Good tip, I've never thought about turning the "let's just to be friends" into a positive that way before.
/r/seduction27/01/15 04:05 AM
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If it makes him happy.
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:08 PM
2

Why Legend?
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:57 PM
3

Nice examples mate. How are the girls in Denmark?
/r/seduction21/01/15 02:11 PM
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Each of your points are spot on. If you're looking to meet the "the woman of your dreams" from online/app dating, you're more than likely wasting your time, the way they flake away, so you have to take it with a pinch of salt. More men are using dating sites such as www.tempted.com and www.beautifulpeople.com Where pretty much all the girls are good looking. I much prefer the day game, when I have time that is. Meeting girls in the park, on the street, in a shop, obviously you make the first con…
/r/seduction21/01/15 01:18 PM
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Totally agree on those points. Also, the guy might not like the answer if he did ask her.
/r/seduction21/01/15 12:28 AM
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They are allowed to be flakes? Most men wouldn't want a second date if she's a flake.
/r/seduction20/01/15 11:18 PM
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Go for it! Ask her out on a date.
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:04 PM
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Great, let's all get rejected, awesome.
/r/seduction17/01/15 02:15 AM
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You're right, the odds are stacked against you, and it depends on a lot of factors and how many you approach etc.. But the guy was just asking the question, there's no need to tell him to stop dreaming.
/r/seduction16/01/15 10:47 PM
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Right, I don't get it either. His idea is to go out the house and get rejected in all situations, isn't this negative thinking?
/r/seduction16/01/15 09:30 PM
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To put you at ease, I actually prefer meeting women during the day, for several reasons. In a night club I find it very difficult to talk to them because I can't hear anything, and they tend to be with their friends/boyfriends, which makes it more of a challenge too. But during the day, there are loads of nice girls outside, a lot on their own and very approachable. Of course some of them wont talk but there are many reasons why they may not talk/be friendly. The day game my friend, especially o…
/r/seduction12/01/15 11:49 PM
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Most guys ignore that type of woman anyways.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:39 PM
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Very well put, saves me listening to the whole audio.
/r/seduction09/01/15 08:36 PM
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I could write for a few hours about this, but there's no need. What you need to do it THINK POSITIVELY ALL THE TIME, and try to maintain that positive energy. You can do things during the week to help you achieve this, exercise is one - play a sport, go to gym, go running. Keep your chin up, say hello to people. The world isn't really that bad! =)
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:18 PM
1

I met up with an ex before, I found it tricky not to feel too comfortable. Make your intentions clear with her that you just want fun with her.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 05:05 PM
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Don't write her anymore unless she writes to you, she is an attention seeking bitch and she more then likely doing the same thing to many other guys.
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:18 PM
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Well some girls minds work like that.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:28 AM
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A lot of girls would get jealous and wonder why you are asking about their friends.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:22 AM
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The best way to beat "mind games" would be not to react to anything that she says at all, you shouldn't show her that you are affected by them. If you stay confident in yourself and do not react to what she says in any way, she will eventually get tired of her game and realize that you aren't affected by petty things like jealousy anymore. She may even drop going down the route of mind games altogether.
/r/seduction06/01/15 02:52 PM
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Good steps, also I would avoid physical complimenting her, don't call her gorgeous, beautiful or sexy (especially since you haven't even met her yet). I use Tinder, OKCupid and www.tempted.com , with tempted there are a lot of semi-hot / hot girls in my area (central Florida), I've had 5 casual dates in the past 3 months from that site.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 01:29 PM
1

Sounds good, except I would ask for their number.
/r/seduction06/01/15 12:58 PM
0

This is a great way of approaching it.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:41 AM
1

The connection is the most important but the phone number is still very important.
/r/seduction06/01/15 02:02 AM
0

You are doing all the what would be considered the hardest part, but not what should be the easiest part - asking for her number. You have approached her, engaged in conversation, and as you say, you have made her laugh and smile, so she obviously likes you and feels comfortable with you. Once you have her on board in this situation again, ask for her number, otherwise you might forget.
/r/seduction06/01/15 12:15 AM
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Rejection is always better than regret.
/r/seduction04/01/15 12:38 AM
0

In my experience, to get really good at meeting girls, you need to kill your ego. A lot of them will be more scared to talk to YOU than you talking to them. Worst case scenario, she says "no". Big fucking deal, on to the next one.
/r/seduction04/01/15 12:27 AM
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You are thinking too much about this, just get out there and meet girls! The more you go out (day or night game) the more girls you're going to hook up with.
/r/seduction03/01/15 10:15 PM
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And how have you been getting on with your new day game approach? Are you waiting for the right moment/situation to talk to a girl?
/r/seduction03/01/15 08:25 PM
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Congratulations for getting over your approach anxiety! Keep doing that and you will get more confident.
/r/seduction02/01/15 04:53 PM
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Don't text her back, she'll be wondering why you aren't texting her. Then if she contacts you after that asking something like "when are we going to meet up?" then you can take it from there.
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:31 PM
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Just go out to the bars, start by having a few drinks but drink slowly. The night will soon progress into the party atmosphere because it's new years eve. And because girls will be drinking too. Ones that are wearing revealing clothes are probably the more slutty ones.
/r/seduction30/12/14 11:38 PM
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I have the same feeling. I think that whenever you finish a workout, or exercise in general, you get a sense of achievement. And when you exercise your body releases endorphins - a chemical that boosts your confidence. Also, before you go into the gym you might have negative thoughts about something during the day, and once you've done the workout it would have shaken out all the negative thoughts (maybe just temporarily) and you feel a lot more positive!
/r/seduction30/12/14 05:05 PM
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For sure a huge confidence boost. Do you regret not getting her number?
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:51 PM
2

I have done it several times before, it makes you look desperate and also lowers the self-esteem. When it gets to that point it's best to forget her and move onto the next one.
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:12 PM
1

I preferred Rock MY Heart
/r/seduction27/12/14 12:16 AM
1

Well if you tried it all the time between texts then yes, you would be stupid..
/r/seduction25/12/14 09:03 PM
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Make an arrangement and go and visit her as soon as possible. If it doesn't work out, you will soon forget her and move onto the next girl.
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:41 PM
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I prefer the day game to night game, I will be taking a look at this later after my turkey and roast potatoes!
/r/seduction25/12/14 07:29 PM
1

I agree, being direct in a clever way and save a lot of time too.
/r/seduction25/12/14 07:24 PM
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There are plenty of night time venues for 16-18 year old's. And he did say "mostly" night time game, so he was daytime gaming as well. I did pretty well up to the age of 25 so I don't need any tips thanks. Still waiting to hear his system anyways!
/r/seduction25/12/14 06:12 PM
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So you're averaging about 1 girl every month since you were 16 years old..That's do-able. You say that you are "mostly night game", it depends on how often you go out. But if you go out say 3 times a week and only get one girl a month, you aren't doing that great.
/r/seduction25/12/14 06:04 PM
1

Most of them play mind games, what you can do is text her saying something like "I will be back in town soon" - This will get her wondering and she will text you back. Then you can play mind games with her and not text her back for a while, she is wonder where you are and wonder why you're not texting back.
/r/seduction25/12/14 03:49 PM
4

Leave her alone or you may start to look creepy.
/r/seduction24/12/14 10:31 PM
5

There are so many of these videos/guides and they all pretty much mean the same - Be yourself, be confident.
/r/seduction24/12/14 10:19 PM
27

"She will let a guy compliment and talk to her all day and all night because she feels like it means she is very attractive, but she won’t give anything in return because her ego has already orgasmed." - Interesting, I had never thought of that, it makes sense. Great post.
/r/seduction24/12/14 12:52 AM
-2

The vast majority of people ARE getting overlooked on dating websites, especially Tinder & OKCupid. But who gives a fuck, I imagine most dates from these websites never come to anything anyway, with people putting false info/age, old photos on their profiles. More guys are using sites such as www.establishedmen.com & www.tempted.com to meet attractive women.
/r/seduction23/12/14 11:53 PM
1

Think of it like this, we are just one tiny blip in this huge universe and at the end of the day, talking to girls something not to be worried about in the grand scale of things. Don't worry about it!
/r/seduction23/12/14 09:27 PM
0

He is probably full of shit anyway.
/r/seduction20/12/14 02:17 AM
1

Have you asked her on a 2nd date? Maybe you left it too long and she went cold and thought you weren't interested.
/r/seduction18/12/14 07:46 PM
7

Once you start meeting other women, you will quickly forget that you were dumped.
/r/seduction18/12/14 04:40 PM
1

Great line.
/r/seduction18/12/14 01:40 PM
0

Elec cig
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:59 AM
1

I agree, just be relaxed.
/r/seduction10/12/14 11:33 PM
1

Don't be shy, just touch her.
/r/seduction10/12/14 07:29 PM
0

If more guys whispered in the girls ear "I have a huge cock baby, and it's yours if you want it" - The 7% of what you say, would that percentage increase or decrease?? Depends on how you say it, I guess..
/r/seduction10/12/14 07:26 PM
0

Ask her later on if she is shy and if she likes you.
/r/seduction10/12/14 12:40 PM
2

Well if this works for you, you should pretend every girl has a boyfriend. Approach every girl with this mind set and see if it works, or more importantly if you can do this with any girl.
/r/seduction09/12/14 10:47 PM
0

Just go up to a girl you like who is alone and say "Hi, my name is..." and take it from there. Always be relaxed!
/r/seduction09/12/14 02:38 PM
-1

Ask her if she has any hot girlfriends that can join you for a 3some.
/r/seduction06/12/14 01:21 PM
1

Lol! Will be interesting to see how long this will last.
/r/seduction06/12/14 12:56 AM
2

There are good tips for single guy, thanks! I can see how having a girl as a wing man can work pretty well.
/r/seduction04/12/14 01:21 PM
2

I think it depends on all kinds on things. Some girls like it when you are direct, others might get scared off to begin with. You said the right thing, it's better to be honest with them than to appear all wishy washy. However I don't think there was any need of you to say "Ill be blunt here", the rest was good though, very confident, solid, and the next girl you meet it may work on.
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:59 PM
1

I'm not saying to "start out" with too much tongue.
/r/seduction02/12/14 09:35 PM
0

There is nothing wrong with too much tongue.
/r/seduction02/12/14 09:22 PM
1

How do you know the girl approaching is going to look at the bus timetable? She is probably coming to wait for the bus and she knows what time it comes.
/r/seduction02/12/14 07:10 PM
0

It's not too much of a big deal, there are girls that aren't so hot that work at Hooters too.
/r/seduction02/12/14 06:55 PM
2

Is it possible to be the "most attractive you've ever looked" and "the worst you have ever felt" on the same day? That would be just weird.
/r/seduction02/12/14 06:51 PM
2

I'm gonna sneeze... Aaand it's gone
/r/seduction30/11/14 08:33 PM
2

Smile with your eyes.
/r/seduction30/11/14 04:06 PM
1

Very true.
/r/seduction29/11/14 09:46 PM
1

And "The Road Less Traveled" by Scott Peck is a good one.
/r/seduction29/11/14 08:27 PM
0

Lol, nice one. Maybe after "K" you could have "whatever" as well.
/r/seduction29/11/14 07:40 PM
3

For a 1st date, rather than point 7 (confirm 4h before). I would call her just before you are about to leave your house to meet her, telling her that you are on your way. That way you will pretty much know if she is coming or not and you won't be wasting your time if she backs out.
/r/seduction28/11/14 03:44 PM
4

I think it's best to keep it simple to start off with until you get used to talking to people you don’t know. Just say "Hi" and take it from there. If you're shy and not experienced in talking to strangers it's more important HOW you say it, more than WHAT you say. The more you do it you will gradually build up your confidence and be ready to take on the world!
/r/seduction28/11/14 03:28 PM
1

It's hard not to drink in a club/bar, everybody else is drinking, and most guys need a bit of Dutch courage to talk with girls.
/r/seduction27/11/14 08:25 PM
1

Well it's a numbers game, the more women you approach or "chase", the more you will end up having sex with, but it needs to be done in the right way. I think it's all about the APPROACH and the first impressions. Project confidence (without being a dick) to her. Talk to her, ask about her, show genuine interest.. The more you do this the more confident you will become and they will want to know you more!
/r/seduction27/11/14 02:36 PM
-1

"My life is simply too busy for a girlfriend right now... it wouldn't be fair to her."
/r/seduction25/11/14 10:03 PM
3

Some people let small and MEANINGLESS things influence their thoughts and can eat away inside them.
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:05 PM
2

Internet dating is just an online MEAT MARKET, there is no need to get a punch in the gut when you get "rejected". Don't feel bad about it, remember, this person has never actually met you and they might be a complete loser.
/r/seduction24/11/14 04:26 PM
1

Obviously it depends on what they are talking about, can you be more specific?
/r/seduction23/11/14 10:58 PM
10

Yes you both will probably will be wearing shoes. So your shoes will be touching her shoes, gently.
/r/seduction23/11/14 06:27 PM
1

Regarding the woman in the clothes shop, was she the worker that tends the changing room? If you shared a smile with her and you had a lot of eye contact with her - you were pretty much there! All you had to do is say "Hi my name is..." and get her phone number. Go back and find her dude!
/r/seduction23/11/14 06:19 PM
81

Discreet touches can be a huge sexual turn on if it’s done the right way. While you are sitting at a table with her, slide your feet towards her SLOWLY and discreetly until you almost touch her feet. If your foot is able to make the slightest of contact with her foot, see if she takes her foot back - she probably wont. The smallest of bodily contact is always more exciting than an obvious move. Take your time and never rush it. Remember, the more discreet you keep the touches, the more you’ll bu…
/r/seduction23/11/14 05:12 PM
3

Some women do judge a guy just by his looks, height or financial status, but the VAST MAJORITY of women judge men on their confidence, personality and character.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:00 PM
1

It's all about CONFIDENCE. The higher your confidence, the higher your perceived "value" will be to the woman. With higher perceived value, you can attract the hotter women. For example your body language, your voice intonations..Successful men have a high sense of value and do not fear women or rejection. But before you have a chance to demonstrate your "value", you first have to approach the woman and get in the door and actually have her receptive to what you have to say. The instant you go u…
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:49 PM
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