midniteXOG Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Amicable divorce, but my ex wants me to contribute to her “rent” for an apartment she owns. Am I being unreasonable? Why would you do that? If she makes more than you, then why doesn’t she lay your rent?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/25 01:42 AM
3	Dating after 1 year post divorce Go out and do it with no expectations. Casual lunch, walk, dinner, etc. Be upfront with yourself and the other party about the situation It’s like riding a bike	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/25 12:30 AM
1	What’s the stupidest thing you had to deal with while going through your divorce? Somehow I am managing to stalk her when I’m not even in the same state at time of the alleged incidents “Rules for thee and not for me” when it comes to communication around our kids	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/25 10:25 PM
2	Wife wants out.. Game Plan Record any and all convos discreetly. Keep any and all texts and emails Email yourself a diary of what’s going on, so it’s date and time stamped. Do not leave the marital home File a police report if any abuse happens, you don’t need to follow through with anything, but use it as evidence. Have kids? Split custody 50:50 from the get go You can not trust her for anything, nothing she agrees to matters without official documentation and court orders Hire an attorney and listen to them, but they ar…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/25 09:47 PM
2	She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfair Dude I get it. We have 1 child, she worked from home with sitter 3x a week and I worked 60 hours a week outside of the home. There’s only so much I can do with that time	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 11:41 PM
1	Cohabitating awful Ah yes, I was afraid of that. Can you not do it under the guise of fear for your own safety given the current events?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 12:51 PM
3	Kinda of a scary/moment Let them rush into another mess…… Forgive yourself, then her. Acknowledge your mistakes leading up to this, and learn from them	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 02:07 AM
3	She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfair It’s not single motherhood if they accept child support*	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 01:58 AM
1	She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfair It’s easier to blame anyone and anything but themselves. That’s the behavior that got them into this mess. Sounds like the “mental load”now too much for them to handle, again by their own doing	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 01:54 AM
2	Got all my papers done today Prep for her making it all about the money and be surprised otherwise. You cannot trust her	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 01:12 AM
1	Cohabitating awful Why does she have access?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 12:37 AM