midwesttradwife Archive

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2	Can a marriage be repaired after infidelity that lead to a child being born outside the marriage? I get it. Truly, i do. It would hurt me as well. If you can, just try thinking of him as a little boy you would see at a daycare, at the zoo, at the library during story hour. Don’t look at him and think, “he is the product of an affair between my husband and another woman.” I’m not at all saying it’s easy; I can’t imagine the hurt and betrayal you must feel. I am so sorry for everything you’re going through. 💔 You will be in my prayers.	/r/RedPillWives	15/08/20 03:28 AM
10	Can a marriage be repaired after infidelity that lead to a child being born outside the marriage? Sorry, just reread the last paragraph and realized the child is a boy. Whatever you are (justifiably) feeling towards your husband and this other woman, please do not project those feelings onto this little boy. The affair was not his fault. He did nothing wrong. I understand, as best as I can, the hurt and anger you must feel, but please do not project it onto this innocent child.	/r/RedPillWives	15/08/20 12:39 AM
14	Can a marriage be repaired after infidelity that lead to a child being born outside the marriage? Wow. Lots to unpack here. I do believe that some marriages can survive infidelity, as long as both parties are willing to put in the work, and be completely transparent. Key word here is “both parties.” I don’t know the circumstances that led to the affair, so I won’t comment on that (PLEASE understand that I am not blaming you in the least. Whatever was or was not going on in your marriage, your husband made the choice to be unfaithful), but I am very disturbed by your husband throwing the othe…	/r/RedPillWives	15/08/20 12:36 AM
13	I FINALLY get to be a Housewife! So, so happy for you!!!! Congratulations!! One of my favorite Instagram accounts is MrsHinchHome. She’s a wife and SAHM in the UK, And I swear, her insta stories of her cleaning are like ASMR to me. 😂 But she has some excellent tips on keeping a clean house with a little one around (her son just turned one).	/r/RedPillWives	23/07/20 10:22 PM
59	I can't stand women anymore 100%. 👏🏻🙌🏻 I am a happily married woman (next month is our 14-year anniversary), who is a mother of four (two girls and two boys). My husband is a wonderful man who is NOT deserving of all the men bashing that’s in the media every.single.day. We are raising our sons to be gentlemen and our girls to be ladies. To all the men in this thread; please don’t give up hope!! I promise, there are many women out there who refuse to buy into the man hating feminist rhetoric.	/r/AntiFeminists	24/05/20 04:38 PM
5	Does it ever fade? I’m 38, and my husband and I have been married for nearly 14 years. The way I lost my virginity wasn’t really my choice (not my husband. Just don’t want any confusion). It doesn’t bother my husband at all. Never has. He feels terrible about what i went through, but the fact that I wasn’t a virgin when he and I started dating has never bothered him. Me? Different story. I think about it all the time. I hate it. And I wish things could have gone differently. I’ve been to therapy over it. I’ve been…	/r/RedPillWives	29/03/20 03:45 AM
7	Organizing and scheduling as a housewife and SAHM I’m homeschooling now! 😂 ordinarily, our kids go to Catholic school, but that’s out until August. So we’re all adjusting to a new normal around here. What seems to be working so far is this: We take it easy in the mornings. Kids watch a little TV while I have my coffee, and I make breakfast for everyone. Kids are in charge of straightening up their rooms, getting themselves dressed, brushing teeth, etc. I make my bad, throw a load of laundry in the washer, clean up the kitchen, and clean up myse…	/r/RedPillWives	28/03/20 02:30 AM
1	Help - Getting back in shape post-baby I would recommend seeing a physical therapist for diastis recti; they can show you the right kind of exercises that won’t cause additional problems. If you can’t see a PT, there are some good exercises available on YouTube.	/r/RedPillWives	22/02/20 01:03 AM
1	A lady team lead lectured me for 5 minutes because I started with "Hey guys" in a 25 minutes call. I say “you guys” to everyone; my male friends, my female friends, my kids, my extended family. The only thing I might suggest is that if your workplace environment is more on the formal side, I’d replace “hey you guys” with “hello, everyone.” But for your supervisor to lecture you on “guys” simply because she doesn’t see it as gender neutral (when pretty much everyone else in the world does) is ridiculous. You didn’t do anything wrong.	/r/AntiFeminists	16/02/20 06:36 PM
8	Are there any questions you guys have about arranged marriage? Congratulations on baby #5!! ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/20 04:33 PM
7	Are there any questions you guys have about arranged marriage? This is fascinating to me (my husband and I are devout traditional Catholics, and I know very little about Orthodox Judaism). Since you’ve answered most of the questions I already had, can I ask how you feel about arranged marriages overall? Do you feel that most of the married couples in your community are happy, or do you feel that there were some matches that never should have happened? As a general rule, arranged marriages aren’t really a thing in Catholicism (unless it’s a cultural traditio…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/20 04:32 PM
1	Is there something or some things you know now you really wish you knew when you were younger? I’m so, so sorry. 😢😞	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/20 12:03 PM
12	Should I accept? Nope. Wouldn’t do it. I’ve seen too many women doxxed by supposedly professional journalists as being neo Nazis, white supremacists, etc, when all they did was talk about how they love homemaking, caring for their children, and in some cases, homeschooling. It’s not worth it. I’m glad you declined.	/r/RedPillWives	28/01/20 08:32 PM
11	Is there something or some things you know now you really wish you knew when you were younger? When people show you who they really are...believe them. I wish I could go back in time and tell my 18-year old self this. Would have saved myself a lot of heartache.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/20 06:38 PM
3	Anyone else feel this guilt? Yes. I won’t go into details, because it’s a very long story, but I was in a very abusive relationship (verbal, emotional, sexual) with another guy before my husband and I started dating. That relationship damaged me for YEARS. I was completely broken, and thank God the man I was supposed to be with came into my life. My husband hates my ex for what he did to me (the sex was not consensual) but he never thought less of me for it. I struggled with the guilt for a long time, though, especially bec…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 01:53 AM
6	Baking Ideas? What a nice idea! My husband loves both pecan and lemon squares (and they’re also easy to make and freeze for later, if you wanted to knock out more than one batch).	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/20 07:25 PM