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Ngl it definitely scratches an itch when it's from a person who has gone out of their way to make their relationship seem perfect to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:42 PM
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6'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:35 PM
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I didn't realize being destructive and childish were the keystones of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:20 PM
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Idk man, why don't you file a complaint or suggestion to the Department of Evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:07 PM
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No a manchild is a man that reacts to negative emotions or adult conflict like a child would, i.e. shouting, slamming doors, breaking shit, storming off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:05 PM
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It's a term reserved for plants and animals and the connotations are rather sterile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:45 PM
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Of all the words to convey sexual attraction, you chose the one that equates her to a domesticated animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:37 PM
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I hope you don't say this kind of shit out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:28 PM
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A lot of them have made it clear that they don't care to make friends or bond with people in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:45 PM
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It's an insecure attachment style. They are complacent and put in less effort when they think they have you, like when you're being nice and attentive, and then overcompensate when they think you're slipping away. Unfortunately a lot of people operate this way. Avoid them if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:49 PM
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Hypergamy is definitely real but too many women allow themselves to be shamed out of doing it and sell themselves short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:44 PM
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"Singing in cursive" was originally British people singing in their accents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:57 PM
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Are there no British singers that come up with their own songs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:55 PM
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If a woman knows you’re a virgin, she probably isn’t expecting to be blown away the first few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:21 AM
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What’s wrong with him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:17 AM
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Getting close with the glue of a friend group is such a life hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:13 PM
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I'm really sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:51 PM
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They're not complaining now either when they have a rich dad. Dating a man that is beneath you literally only benefits that man. Dating a man that is at your level or above benefits you and the children you'll have. That's what women should be taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:49 PM
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If the women they want are passing them up for better men, they're obviously not benefitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:27 PM
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Men complain about hypergamy when it doesn't benefit their dating life but the fact is that nobody would ever complain about their mother being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:39 PM
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I would hope that most of these people are aware that it's still very possible, even up until a woman is in her 40s. I think the argument is mostly used as a scare tactic to discourage women from waiting until their 30s to marry and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:21 PM
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You don't love us anymore. You never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:16 PM
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I should be asking you the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:12 PM
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What? People rarely talk about how men's fertility declines, including women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:12 PM
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Not my fave but it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:00 PM
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It's not the teachers, it's that many high school students lack the experience/perspective to draw from history lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:26 PM
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I know this is supposed to be a kind gesture but I absolutely hate the idea of being duped like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:23 PM
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Except they're actually women and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:24 PM
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Believe it or not, many centrist politicians do actually lean one way versus the other and they run on these platforms because it appeals to the most people and gets them voted into office. Where is Al Gore now? He has less influence and power than he’s ever had in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:14 AM
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The problem is that when it comes down to it, extremist ideologies accomplish very little in the room where decisions are made. Centrists are at least able to negotiate on both sides and gather enough buy in to move the needle - and move it much further than the "all or nothing" approach that most extremists take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:50 PM
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Centrism is the most mature, practical, and based ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:30 PM
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Women aren't a monolith of political opinions and voting for a woman because she's a woman is bad practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:21 PM
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No, I don't believe that most women think this way. If an autistic person is high functioning enough to hold their own in social settings, they can consent. It sounds like she was being overly cautious and as a result, inadvertently ableist. Autistic men struggle with dating (even high functioning) because they struggle with interpreting non-verbal cues and expressing themselves appropriately, which makes them difficult for women to connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:05 PM
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More like Becky ring, Stacy fling - in that order. He married and had a child with his high schools sweetheart and now he's about to have a 4 month relationship with Ariana Grande.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:47 PM
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If a woman has sex 100 times with 1 man, is her vagina tighter than a woman who has sex 15 times with 15 men (1 time per man)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:52 PM
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I'm not claiming to know anything about you, I just think this is a strange takeaway from a funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:03 PM
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I do government relations and advocacy work. Some aspects of my job took no time to learn but it still took a little over a year for me to build the relationships I needed to be really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:51 PM
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She's talking about it on an anonymous forum, that's hardly advertisement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:49 PM
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If these are the thoughts you walk away with after a funeral, it’s probably time to give the pilled stuff a rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:46 PM
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Medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:45 PM
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These people are grown adults, I'm not going to ask for their parents' opinion on anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:44 PM
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Sperms dies even when you do impregnate somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:41 PM
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It's usually low level employees that say things like that. And there are definitely some types of people who feel coaches and managers are overpaid and unimportant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:39 PM
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No, just be discreet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:17 PM
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Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:20 PM
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Terrible advice, the people there are wicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:17 PM
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This link you posted doesn't really prove your point - it is suggesting there are things that can make sex unenjoyable like stress, medical issues, etc., not that sex is inherently unenjoyable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:31 PM
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Hot women, easily. Men will sometimes try to humble a hot woman down to his level in order to get her. Women don't do that with hot men, they become pick-me's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:25 PM
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You mean the literal same outfit for days on end?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:49 PM
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I'll take my chances on the incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:55 PM
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Blah blah blah scrotes mad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:19 PM
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A few times now I've talked to these men who seem perfectly nice and then as I learn more about them, it becomes very apparent why they struggle. And it's not their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:13 PM
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Each day serves as a reminder that some of these PPD men should probably just be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:32 PM
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Facts. Abs give men that cockroach look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:57 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:35 PM
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I love that the female flaw is not having their toesies painted and the male flaw is not fucking showering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:34 PM
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Then you either live under a rock or are too young to remember them in the Sunday comics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:23 PM
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I'm saying that even if you are looking for a relationship, most men won't offer you that until you sleep with them. And in the meantime, they'll just sleep with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:19 PM
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Most men don't offer commitment or exclusivity before you sleep with them. Best you can do is wait a few dates and hope he isn't being deceitful about his intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:19 PM
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How do you think the classic boomer “I hate my wife” jokes got so popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:42 PM
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Aren't you a child
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:34 PM
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I appreciate it tho because sometimes I forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:31 PM
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Rosacea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:28 PM
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What's that have to do with the fact that they treat her differently when he's around?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:35 PM
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Be obsessed with dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:14 PM
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Not really. But eugenics often has institutional/systemic connotations, whereas on a more individual level it's just mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:45 PM
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Not even. A lot of women enter the dating market with pre-conceived preferences because of socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:40 PM
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That's gambling addiction energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:15 PM
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I’m confused. How do value and domestic abuse correlate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:29 PM
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I mean the things you are trying to differentiate are “very obese” and “very very obese”. Shows a bit of desperation to drive the “women bad” narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:09 AM
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Sounds like OP’s gf already had the right idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:08 AM
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You’re actually splitting hairs over a small percent difference between obese and really obese people lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:54 PM
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Y’all would really rather take dating advice from other struggling singles than people who are married/in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:06 PM
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Most men are not in shape lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:02 PM
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I love when men come to this realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:01 PM
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So we’re clear, one group of women does not represent women as a whole. Also, talking about clubbing and parties and dating is wildly different from talking about threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:03 PM
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Compatible marriage and family building goals, compatible lifestyle hobbies, money management skills, stable job/income
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:27 AM
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It sounds like he heard one hot girl say this and decided that was a sufficient sample for hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:23 AM
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Where do you live where you can report multiple women talking about having threesomes over the weekend? Casual sex and having boyfriends aren't really hobbies as much as they are social activities, like hanging out with friends. A lot of attractive women that I know have hobbies related to fitness. Yoga, pilates, lifting, dance, etc. They're usually into beauty, skincare, and fashion too. I don't necessarily think that they do these things because they are hot, but rather they've elevated their …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:31 PM
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I feel like this is a chicken/egg scenario. Is she a hot girl because her hobbies are exercise, fashion, beauty, etc. or does she have those hobbies because she is a hot girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:20 PM
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Sure but one of us needs to quit or switch departments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:50 PM
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Most women are not doing professional special effects makeup every morning or wearing enough to look like a different person. Men, who hardly notice when a woman has gotten highlights or a haircut, would be unfazed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:52 PM
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I’m gonna keep this in mind when somebody gets mad at women for monkey branching and being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:23 AM
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Errr..no, not quite. It's not the betrayal, it's watching him pleasure other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:58 PM
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Yeah, or just generally allowing your man to be unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:47 PM
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It is what it is, sometimes the relationship just runs its course and that's fine. Most relationships that start out that young don't last. People change a lot in their early adulthood and that can make maintaining a LTR very challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:45 PM
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She's still super young. Committing to a guy forever just because she's known him for so long would have been a bigger mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:36 PM
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It's hard to measure who likes who more, but I know that some men will display as if they are the one who cares less to maintain control over the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:33 PM
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I sort of see the appeal in cuckqueanry but only as a fantasy, I think going through with it would make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:21 PM
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It is to men who don’t have access to casual sex but want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:25 AM
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This isn’t always true in dating because men and women value different things in one another and set standards accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:17 PM
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Women are intimidated by cold approaches and even then, most of the time they’ll just say no. But this isn’t a cold approach. You have a class with them and reason to approach. Just make it casual, ask them questions related to the assignments and steer it into a general conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:14 PM
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Most women would still rather be pursued by men than the other way around. I won't deny that women who shame the cold approach have shot themselves in the foot but these are women who are in a class with him, it's hardly a cold approach and I doubt he will be castrated over it. It gives the same energy as women who cry that dating men is a toss up between being brutally raped/murdered and finding out the guy is married two months in. It's foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:54 PM
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I actually acknowledged it a couple of comments ago when I mentioned places closing due to lack of utilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:48 PM
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You need to be able to suplex a grown man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:44 PM
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For Christ's sake, get over your persecution complex and just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:40 PM
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Did you only read half of my comment, because I did acknowledge that we have less and the reason we have less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:35 PM
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We still have parks, public libraries, and bookstores - all of which you can hang out at without paying money or a small fee, if that. There has not been a time in history where you could hang out at a bar or cafe without purchasing a drink or exercise at a gym without paying a membership fee. We may have LESS of those because people are CHOOSING not to utilize them. People are more socially anxious and isolated than ever before leading them to be disinterested in spending time outside of work/h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:29 PM
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There are some good group travel expeditions out there. Or if you aren't into the set group itinerary thing, just schedule some group tours and activities on your own and make friends along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:18 PM
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They've cited cafes, bars, gyms, and libraries as third places - last I checked we still have those. The places that are closing are doing so because people are choosing not to spend their time there anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:11 PM
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These articles don't counter what I'm saying. The third places are still there, people are just not utilizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:53 PM
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Well those are what 3rd places traditionally were.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:27 PM
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Any woman who sticks around with a man for 6 months and no commitment is a doormat. But I guess that’s what y’all want?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:55 PM
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We’re experiencing loss of people utilizing 3rd places. There are plenty of gyms, cafes, libraries, and parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:53 PM
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We have more of those than ever before, the problem is that people are sensitive and antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:24 PM
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Ew that’s ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:57 PM
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It’s too hot for parachute pants, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:55 PM
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Yeah, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:50 PM
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If a woman can make up any old number and assign it to herself as her body count, then how much does body count actually matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:32 PM
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Then the ladies should be able to ask what a man’s bank account or credit score looks like and expect an honest answer. How often he watches porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:38 PM
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Depends on the woman because some like to take things very slow like that. Kissing on the first or second date seems like the norm though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:56 PM
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Can we shame fat men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:59 AM
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Unfortunately it was deleted when the user who made it got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:07 AM
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Most of the people were average to above average. But that’s naturally going to happen with these kinds of things - more attractive people are going to feel more compelled to share photos of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:43 AM
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Something to this effect happened a couple years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:59 PM
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The statement about most women not being on dating apps isn't true. I believe about half of women under 30 have reported using dating apps. The reason for the uneven ratio is that women are more likely to be able to hop on an app, get what they want, and then leave the app. Women who haven't used apps usually meet guys at bars, parties, and work/school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:26 PM
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Kind of? I think a lot of people understand that nobody is perfect, including those who might be their "on paper" ideal. But there are certainly those whose expectations are unrealistic and they end up settling because they've run out of time or they have no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:11 PM
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Crying isn't masculine, stoicism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:47 PM
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But when a woman says this about her boyfriend it's "bad vetting".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:02 PM
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Morality is determined by what actions create the best outcomes and there is a lot of evidence that promiscuity is more physically and mentally damaging than it is helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:54 PM
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I think n count and suggesting weight loss are quite a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:47 PM
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Why what’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:41 PM
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Promiscuity from either gender is generally perceived as a net negative for society, which is why it's considered morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:34 PM
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Thank you 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:03 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:02 AM
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No, adulthood would have been so much more fun in a child's brain. Driving to work everyday and playing pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:16 PM
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Yes, he's schizophrenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:15 PM
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Lol okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:30 PM
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If a woman really wants kids but isn't in a relationship and is approaching 35, of course that is going to change her dating priorities and attitude. But I find that most women who know they want kids find partners well before there's any rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:19 PM
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Where are you getting this "95% of the risk" number? My entire comment is based on statistics. Here is a source if you are interested - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:55 PM
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No it isn't. The financial burdens in divorce for men are often short-term, especially nowadays since alimony is uncommon. He may have to pay child support, but it's likely that he would have allocated that amount of money (or more) to his children each month anyway whether or not there was a divorce. For women, the financial burden is long term, especially if she wasn't working or only worked part time as she no longer has her husband's income. Women also typically take on more of the burden of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:34 PM
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Some women are wired differently and have a hard time orgasming no matter what. The desensitization from toys is temporary and usually wears off in a day or two at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:54 PM
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8pm is typically when people are the least active and have down time, compared to the morning or day time. She's probably not not out and about every single night at that time and excusing yourself from the group just to take a pill is doing too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:46 PM
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**more emotionally expressive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:39 PM
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Statistically speaking, promiscuous men are more likely to have all the issues listed than promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:56 AM
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There are definitely some women who are delusional about where they stand in terms of attractiveness and OLD has amplified this. I still think most women are pursuing men within their looksmatch, maybe up to a point higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:58 PM
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I'm a 28 year old doomer millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:46 PM
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I'm personally not attracted to men that are notably better looking than I am and I think that goes for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:43 PM
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Obviously it's a benefit to themselves as well. Women have pretty much always had the ability to marry up in social class. Considering marriage and having children is inherently more risky for women, I think choosing a partner who makes more money is a perfectly fair exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:41 PM
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Because women are more likely than men to put their career on pause or work less hours in order to care for young children, so it makes sense to find a man who makes more money and can compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:00 PM
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They wanna do everything but go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:34 PM
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Reeboks are for kiddos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:06 PM
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Men’s fashion does not change nearly as quickly as women’s fashion, but anyway - Timeless outfits are always king. Jeans, t-shirt, converse, button ups, sweaters, etc. Men should spend more time working on their physique than worrying about fashion because muscles look good in damn near everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:28 AM
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Some do in a sexual context, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:24 AM
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Because women are wired to care for children, so if a man is being needy it gives us child vibes and we don’t wanna be your mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:53 PM
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The worst, bermuda shorts were so out of fashion by the time I was in high school 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:48 PM
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Okay well truly traditional people aren’t very common anymore, the women here are talking about having joint finances but having the man do the act of paying on a date. Hence why I called it a gesture/nod.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:46 PM
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Nah we got dress coded all the time for wearing shorts that didn’t reach our mid thigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:08 PM
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Better luck next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:07 PM
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No. As a woman it's pretty wise from a family planning perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:30 PM
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Because one less woman who meets their criteria is one less woman in their already meager dating pools.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:29 PM
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A lot of men like to pay too. It's just a nice gesture and a nod to tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:12 PM
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If I'm center left, would that make my opposite side center right or far right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:08 PM
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Hello???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:04 PM
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Not you again 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:21 AM
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No they’re not even fun to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:16 AM
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I’ve seen plenty of below average people on there. Ugly is uncommon and most people get that way by being fat, not by having a busted face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:53 AM
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Why are red pilled men so unlikable UGH
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:06 AM
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Yes definitely. Aside from the aesthetic benefits, it's good for your heart and joints. There's also no downside to being stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:57 PM
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Like who
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:22 PM
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The chances are low but there is still a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:42 PM
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Head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:39 PM
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Something about overweight women being able to punch up for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:37 PM
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The only human relationship that comes close to unconditional love is parent-child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:00 PM
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Idc what people do. What gets me is pretending to have very little preferences in an attempt to paint yourself as the underdog in a lopsided power struggle, when in reality you do have many preferences, some of which are just as ridiculous as the opposing side's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:55 PM
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And so it goes on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:43 PM
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I'm hyperbolizing a little bit but men acting like they aren't asking for much yet having a slew of expectations is a theme here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:15 PM
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I don't see a lot of this tbh, but both of those things are so subjective anyway. Does in shape mean he's healthy and active or does it mean he's a gym bro? Does success mean he has a good job and can live comfortably or does it mean he's a millionaire? Is tall 5'10+ or 6'2+?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:12 PM
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My personal favorite.. Men: all we want is a woman who isn’t fat!….also she has to be a virgin but instinctively knows how to deep throat without instruction, she has to have a job but can’t be a nurse or secretary or anything that requires her to leave the house, she still has to do all of the domestic chores, she’s never allowed to argue or be upset, she has to be okay with me cheating, she has to snap back to her pre baby body approximately 2.3 weeks after giving birth, and she’s not allowed …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:35 PM
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I wish men would just do it instead of using it as a Hail Mary to get western women to want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:06 AM
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Arranged marriages usually come with huge social and familial ramifications in the event of a divorce, if divorce is even allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:04 AM
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Madonna-Whore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:36 AM
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She ignored you or called you a creep? Those are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:29 AM
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Do we know for sure that these women’s bfs are tall and in shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:24 AM
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Believe it or not, but people don't usually think in terms of objective top/botton percentages. They just think "I like my partner, they are attractive, they have a good job, and I would choose them over most people, therefore they are top x%".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:47 PM
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Of course women think their own partner is top 20%, that's why they chose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:16 PM
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People who expect to be loved unconditionally have silly goose energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:35 PM
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Of course. Who wants their relationship to feel cold, transactional, and utilitarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:31 PM
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Got nothing against abortion, especially for homosexual couples Hold on a minute, something isn't adding up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:57 PM
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If they're already attractive, sure it's a plus. A notably deep voice on an unattractive man isn't going to make him more attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:54 PM
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Of course you can, I'm just saying that sometimes having a LTR at the same time can complicate things. For example, say you get a really good job offer in another state after graduation that beats all of your other job prospects but your partner can't move with you because they just accepted a job in the state you're currently living in, signed a lease to an apartment, etc. You can either take the job offer and be LDR, take the job offer and break up, or turn the job offer down and settle for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:52 PM
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It's not that they need years of vetting, it's just that people in their early 20s are often focused on building their career and getting their shit together and sometimes that makes having a relationship complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:18 PM
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Whatever you say, MrHustleTopG
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:34 AM
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I’m doing it right now 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:04 AM
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Lol the consequences of divorce are mostly consistent throughout the western world. Women disproportionately lose more household income because men are generally the financial providers and women bear a higher burden of single parenting because they are generally the primary caregivers for children. Working women tend to make less money overall because domestic priorities (I.e. childcare) override career ambitions. Even if a mother starts working on a part or full time basis after the children s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:57 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/ Essentially, men are more vulnerable to short term consequences (mostly well being) but women are more vulnerable to chronic consequences due to disproportionate loss in household income and bearing the higher burden of single parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:13 AM
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Rock climbing and partner dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:40 PM
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Women are significantly worse off than men after divorce, especially if there are children involved. Whereas in marriage men are more at risk of losing money and assets, having children is significantly more of a burden and risk to women. Of course women want the fathers of their children to be beholden to them - it would be foolish of them to not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:29 PM
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Harems have only ever been acceptable for the elite because those men had the ability to provide for multiple women. If you aren't doing that, then you're just a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:59 PM
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My point is that marriage is not a one-sided assertion of control. The woman is just as locked into the marriage as the man and both consented to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:30 PM
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Marriage is ultimately a mutual decision made between two partners and requires both parties to consent. Men have the agency to not get married if they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:05 PM
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I’m just being goofy 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:53 PM
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Not so fast, Failed Chadriguez - better hope you have options, nothings ickier than witnessing your man get curved by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:52 PM
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LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:50 PM
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Reminder for the girlies: let your man cheat on you every once in a while to ensure that he has maintained his market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:07 PM
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Idc if men watch porn in moderation, but you’re doing something wrong if your gf/wife catches you or finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:49 PM
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And he with you? How did you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:23 PM
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Do you want something long term with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:06 PM
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Lmfao why does that even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:03 PM
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Women vet and drive evolution aka we’re programmed to never be satisfied with the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:16 AM
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I wasn’t in the mood to cook tonight, so pizza with pepperoni, onions, peppers, and pineapple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:13 AM
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Hey handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:36 PM
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It's somewhat uncommon but doesn't really strike me as weird. I might be biased though because I'm about the same age and while I have social media accounts, I don't really post or use them anymore. If you're concerned about how you're coming off to women but still don't want to put yourself on social media, you could always create a private Instagram account and post your hobby stuff. I know a lot of guys who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:24 PM
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Just remember that daddy meant “father” long before it was ever sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:26 AM
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Lmao you cannot be for real rn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:45 PM
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Right right right, the only valid exercise is picking stuff up and putting it back down repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:47 AM
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You’ll have a cum bucket and you’ll like it 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:44 AM
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Do people in age gap relationships never talk alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:43 AM
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Every day brave men fight their innate urge to be violent 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:57 PM
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Are not all protests one group of people asking another group of people (usually the government) for something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:43 PM
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I can guarantee that there was never a time in my life when simply being “caressed the right way” brought me to an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:23 AM
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0-1 she can still orgasm from simply being caressed the right way. She’s very loving and bubbly. Her eyes are full of love and potential. What the fuck did I just read 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:42 PM
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Get real, most people don’t have PTs and are fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:46 AM
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If your friends know about her body count before you do, that's already a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:06 PM
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I’m not talking about divorce. She doesn’t even get the benefits of his wealth while married. To put it another way, she gives 100% of the resources she is able to give in the marriage, he only gives a fraction of what he is able to give in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:43 PM
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If you don't like it when people try to counter the points you make, don't be on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:08 AM
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I hope that they're all seeking professional help and treatment. As much as you may feel like you aren't doing enough, all you can really do is be supportive. Remember to look out for yourself too, extending yourself to so many people can be a huge mental and emotional burden and you don't want to become burnt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:03 AM
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So he doesn't trust me enough to not divorce rape him and therefore withholds his wealth, but I am expected to just trust that he is going to care for our children and not leave me a single mother? If he wants to operate our marriage as if divorce is imminent, then it's only fair that I do the same and not have his children. Statistically speaking, single mothers are far worse off than single fathers (especially wealthy ones). Aside from the huge physical burden that is pregnancy, childbirth, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:31 PM
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Women bare the brunt of pregnancy and childbirth. If a man is denying me access to his resources, why should I sacrifice my body and allow him access to the greatest resource I have? I won’t be treated like a second class citizen in my own marriage, where everybody in my family has access to his wealth except for me. That’s fucked up. And let’s turn the tables - he doesn’t want to share his wealth with me in case we divorce and I take it all? Fine. Then I don’t want to have his children in case …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:37 PM
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Well, that’s the kind I’d be comfortable with 🤷‍♀️ I’m not interested in marrying a guy who would go to such lengths to keep his resources from me, let alone giving my body to him and having his children. Odds are that some big risks were taken to earn that wealth. Now he wants be be “risk adverse” and keep it from his wife? Like I said, I’d rather be with a non-rich man who worked and earned the same as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:08 AM
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No it isn’t. The structure you described implies that I would never receive the benefits of my spouse’s wealth, married or not - I’m baring the consequence of a prenup without the actual divorce. I would be okay with a prenup that allowed me to enjoy the benefits of my spouse’s wealth while married, but in the event of a divorce I would lose the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:42 AM
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It’s fine if he acknowledges divorce as a possibility and I would be okay with a prenup. I think hoarding wealth and withholding it from your spouse while you’re married to them is strange and I wouldn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:01 AM
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I personally would not enter a marriage with divorce in mind, nor am I interested in taking a man for all he's got. I'm not interested in marrying a guy who has millions in the bank but withholds it throughout our entire marriage because he doesn't trust that I won't divorce and wring him dry - it's being punished for something I haven't done. I would rather just marry a non-millionaire guy who works and makes roughly the same as me, without the weird feelings of distrust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:50 PM
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How? Am I endorsing violence if I watch a movie that depicts violence? I sure hope you don’t play video games that involve fighting or killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:36 AM
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Watching a horror film that depicts gore for entertainment is one thing, watching some real life gore happen in front of your face and laughing is some freak shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:30 AM
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Listening to somebody’s music isn’t an endorsement of their behavior, nor is it an endorsement of whatever is being depicted in the lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:14 AM
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Lol I’m just listening to music, idk what kinda freak shit you’re into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:44 AM
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Lol okay. Your respect is a small price to pay for listening to whatever music I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:41 AM
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Not my fault bad people put out absolute bangers sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:22 AM
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I think it’s strange that he’s so paranoid about divorce rape that he denies not only his wife, but himself, the benefit of his own wealth. I’d rather just have a normal egalitarian marriage without the paranoia and withholding of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:16 AM
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I’m confused. As the wife, am I allowed to enjoy any of the benefits of his wealth while married to him or are we just living according to the combined $150,000 we make?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:31 AM
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The weight of America’s military extends far beyond manpower. Our technology is unmatched. We have allies all over the globe. We’re geographically and logistically impossible to invade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:58 PM
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The most powerful military in the world will not find themselves so desperate as to recruit prisoners lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:51 PM
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When did I make any of those arguments? All I’m saying is the algorithm will mold itself to the content you interact with the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:58 AM
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Lol damn struck a nerve, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:54 AM
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My fyp has cats and people cooking stuff, you truly are what you algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:52 AM
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I’m sure it’s not so much that he’s “tired of the same snatch”, but rather that he knows it’s available to him whenever he wants so turning it down every now and then when he’s not in the mood isn’t a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:49 AM
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Marble cake. Also, I’m super amused at the fact that the lady in the gif is theoretically supposed to be a high schooler 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:44 AM
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NRE is a phenomenon that both genders experience, especially while they’re young. Ain’t nobody safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:41 AM
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We complain about period cramps even when we aren’t camping. Is camping supposed to make them go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:36 AM
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Oh that’s where you draw the line? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:34 AM
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People who watch IG reels but not TikTok are truly kidding themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:33 AM
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There are no age limits on adoption, but there are a slew of other limits that make adoption an unappealing and unfeasible option for a lot of people. Most people would prefer to raise children while they themselves are still young and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:28 PM
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Buy things on credit to get cashback/rewards/points and then pay it off the next month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:10 PM
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Credit Debit Cash Check Money order
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:00 PM
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What does the century have to do with anything? Women are still getting married, parents are still happy about it, and domestic violence still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:55 PM
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Please explain all of the women who’ve attended college and received degrees?? Do parents forbid their daughters to marry at the small chance they might be beaten by their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:34 PM
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No way would parents send their daughters to any college if they knew even a small percentage of rape might happen. Sure they would. A lot of people have optimism bias, “that kind of thing happens to other people, it won’t happen to me”. Plus the promise of a college degree and a prosperous future makes the “what ifs” easier to brush off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:19 AM
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Well I certainly wouldn't do it by haphazardly gathering data from a dating site without any regard for selection or confirmation bias, or for how communication styles vary greatly on OLD vs IRL interactions. I would have had a selection of volunteers ("models") of both genders submit photos of themselves at different ages in adulthood (18, 20, 22, 24, 26, 28, 30, and so on), corrected for any filters, significant changes in weight, etc. I would randomize the photos so that they weren't in chron…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:47 PM
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This study measures "desirability" solely by number of messages received and initiated on a dating app, not by any actual measure of attractiveness, physical health, or dating success. It's rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:07 PM
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Lmfao what, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:51 PM
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Lol what's your wingman going to do, act as a witness to your rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:49 PM
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I usually prefer short hair but I loooooove long hair when a guy can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:42 PM
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No, you’re only required to have the appropriate education and licensing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:19 AM
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Was the asshole high or low n
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:52 PM
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You don’t even want a wife, you want an entrapped incubator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:50 PM
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You should learn how to compromise and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:42 AM
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Often times they’re just trying to convince themselves that “he ain’t shit anyway” so they can feel better and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:37 AM
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They can still be objectively attracted to one another but the emotional attachment and interest will fizzle out as time passes and especially as they meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:09 AM
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What age range are you looking at when you say “young”? Because I somehow doubt that only 20-30% of women are unmarried at age 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:37 AM
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Tbf there are probably a decent number of young women who only think they’re not single, i.e. “situationships”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:15 AM
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