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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Query about specific bits of redpill		mightbedumbquery	/r/ExRedPill	21/06/16 08:59 AM

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1	Query about specific bits of redpill I didn't think the redpill way of looking at the opposite sex was correct when I stumbled upon the subreddit. However, reading all the stories and anecdotes has changed my views somewhat. At the moment I'm of the opinion that all I can do is be the best I can be and display the traits that I find important (fit, make lame jokes, confident, assertive, treat people well, stand up for those around me) and try to meet the best person I can. However, due to my lack of relationship experience I am con…	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/16 07:00 AM
1	Query about specific bits of redpill So...having a balance of beta and alpha qualities then, and be confident and assertive. I can go with that. And also...don't get complacent? i.e. keep being a bad boy..........?	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/16 06:49 AM
1	Query about specific bits of redpill Thanks for your reply. I agree with most of what you have said, and am kind of glad you are basically validating what I have been taught to value in relationships, and good long term partners. I hope the way we are thinking about this is right. Because the redpill world seems significantly more....distopian. I do have a few questions for you however. Since this subreddit is called exredpill, I assume you were once a redpiller? What made you try it out given your good relationship, and why did yo…	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/16 06:38 AM
1	Query about specific bits of redpill So I'm guessing that you do not agree with AWALT at all. If that is the case can you tell me why? Personal experience? Knowing lots of people who made it work? Also, "but I speculate that women who are inclined to cheat on them would possibly pursue a "beta man" who allows her to be herself and has genuine interest in her thoughts, ideas, and feelings.". Doesn't this mean the beta man is getting with someone who is going to destroy his life one day by cheating? For what its worth, what you said …	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/16 06:32 AM
1	Query about specific bits of redpill Thanks for your reply - I agree with a lot of what you have said, especially the bit about being in an "equal partnership". Thats how I always saw it, however redpill obviously disagrees. I have a few further queries below if that's alright. "Neediness is the biggest relationship killer. You want this relationship but you don't need it." - So its ok to go into marriage with this mindset? "A man who takes responsibility for his needs, knows his boundaries, respects his partner's boundaries, acts …	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/16 05:58 AM

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