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| 2 | This girl set me up perfectlywomen care about what you're communicating holistically, not what you're saying through words. If you show up out of nowhere & say let's do anal you're communicating that you're a scary creep & possibly dangerous. If you say the dumbest corniest shit ever in the right tone of voice it communicates exactly what it's supposed to Stop fixating on words & learn how to use the other 90% of interpersonal communication | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 03:34 PM |
| 33 | This girl set me up perfectlywhen will guys realize you can literally say anything as long as you say it right tone is the only thing that matters | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 07:04 AM |
| 9 | Play into your archetypeaint that mfer australian | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 05:12 AM |
| 27 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueWhich is great for them! Men shouldn't either | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueBecause they know they can't get it as easily, because women don't have to settle for mediocre, because men are willing to settle. I swear it's not circular logic. fwiw this whole dynamic used to be reversed; back in the roman era & even the early medieval era women were considered the horny, desperate sex & men were the rational, less horny sex. Back then women settled for mediocre & dick was put on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 03:31 AM |
| 43 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuePussy's only leverage because men settle for mediocre faster | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'They were always attracted; they weren't always willing to admit it. Most of these girls are high sex drive but (due to upbringing or whatever) high inhibition & aren't used to getting the tingles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 6 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?It's all about delivery man Girls will eat up the most boring shit in the world if you deliver it in a compelling and charming way one time I talked to this girl for literally 30 minutes about different types of rocks & she still fucked me later that night another time it was the development of dreadnought battleships Sometimes I do it intentionally just to see how much I can get away with. Like everything and dating, you're going to talk about something, own it completely and be interesting abo… | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?What are you doing? Chasing after chicks that aren't that into you You're the prize homie. Be the guy they want | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.Intimidating women just make me slower to approach them b/c I'm inclined to pedestalize them & gotta knock it off. Def not going to leave them—"intimidating" just means they're are hot asf for whatever reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 7 | My strategy for tinder and bumbleHey, good advice on this sub? Boggling!! | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 04:25 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Stilts | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?Holy shit dude | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How i seduced the one who feared intimacyGod bless you op | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 12:21 AM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Thanks op | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:38 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Those kids ain't gonna be birthed they'll be extruded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:32 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Oh Lord their kids gon to look like spaghetti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesimagine telling ur great grandpa a guy can sleep with a woman the same day as meeting her, without marrying her, without being her beau, or her fiancé, without meeting her parents, and without the risk of pregnancy or STDs, and without being run out of town and shunned from society, in fact he’d instead be celebrated—but that most guys say it’s not worth it because they might have to eat a hamburger and beer with her for an hour first. ... But you’re right about “options.” BOOM GOD the gold on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:44 AM |
| 5 | New research: College women value physical attractiveness in their sexual partners just as much as men do.no shit sherlock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 03:19 AM |
| 4 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Yeah, isn't this just braindead obvious stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott Adamsyo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 3 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott Adams!remindme 6 hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott AdamsToo many men Too many women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doAnd you wet the bed while you cry yourself to sleep. I'm just explaining what the phrase means, as clearly as I can. Go project your crappy sex life on somebody else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:09 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doNo, it means the things you need to do to be proficient are numerous. A learning curve is on x-y : capability-requirements axes. (not capability-time axes) When you encounter a steep learning curve, you have to learn a lot very quickly (the requirements are high) to achieve baseline proficiency (capability is small but nonzero). For example, learning to fly a helicopter has a steep learning curve. You must know 90% of it to do the bare minimum (not crash). This means you must quickly learn a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 10:44 PM |
| – | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.You're right. I clarified my revised position here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/nuwoh3/cmv_for_the_majority_of_straight_men_younger_than/h10rppu?context=3 Thanks for challenging my view. The way I would characterize your situation is that your primary desire has been fulfilled, allowing you to recognize the importance of fulfilling your secondary desires (companionship, family, friendship, etc) through your relationship with your GF. Thus, you're not going to throw away ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:52 AM |
| 3 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Very interesting. Good to see some quantitative evidence (even if their data are self-reported). Thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Can't speak to that perspective, but thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?I didn't grow up in as extreme an environment but it's certainly very harmful to all parties. Thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.If I had to guess, men are possibly more responsible for pumping out unwanted babies. They don't bear any immediate physical burden for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Interesting... would like to explore that perspective more. But first, more anecdotal evidence. I have other lady coworkers in the same field, in the same position. They still get hit on, but it's nowhere nearly as desperate. They are nowhere near as attractive. This suggests that it's more about the perceived "value" of the sexual conquest, not simply a desperation for any woman (although that's surely still a factor). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?Because it prevents women from figuring out there own sexuality. By making them so ashamed of there sexuality and keeping them inexperienced and innocent, they will instead marry the most useful man instead of the sexiest man (based on what she was raised to believe was the best). Interesting. Did not expect that perspective. Will have to think on this one. Appreciate your tenacity & patience talking to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.I think a combination of innate desire and how boys are socialized to understand and act upon that desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.They have wives and families back home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Yup. It's crazy how overwhelming the desire is until you're just like... Yeah, it's just a thing two people do. Yet you've got people literally OBSESSING over every detail of how to get it or wasting their whole lives just chasing hotter and hotter women. It's not going to make them happy, but try getting them to believe that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 6 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Your primary desire is fulfilled. You are worrying about secondary and tertiary desires now. That's how I said it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Sorry, running a cycle meaning being on steroids and other performance enhancing drugs. https://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/research-reports/steroids-other-appearance-performance-enhancing-drugs-apeds/how-are-anabolic-steroids-used If you scroll down a bit you'll see a bit about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.What specifically do you interpret as public fantasizing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.What | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 0 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?Hmm. Let me try again. I want to get more specific. Again in as few words, why does assuring the modesty of women prevent energy from being focused on sex and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Thanks for attempting to participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.a) I've caught them in the act b) A recent friend in my very male dominated industry (oilfield drilling) has been open about her experiences as a really conventionally attractive girl in a field where there are virtually none. The thirst she receives from nearly every person, from roughneck to company man, 19yo to 65yo, has been eye-opening. In a community where rough men marry early and marries, she's what they can't have but they really desire: a friendly young athletic city chick with a bad a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Of course we're working with anecdotal and experiential evidence. Give me yours against mine. Don't just say "you're wrong" without a "here's why". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Don't worry, I wasn't asserting that you were. Just making a point in agreement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Women aren't stupid. They can tell when they're being objectified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Then don't post a top level comment in a CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 0 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Ok. Thanks for trying to CMV. You've challenged my claim and presented an opposing one. Can you give me some reasons why I should believe you and accept what you're asserting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Gym daily & eat right (not diet, just saying get the calories you need without wasting your time & money on a dirty bulk) will put weight on you as fast as is healthily & naturally possible. Thanks for the input. I can definitely agree that YMMV on what's most important first. If you're got personality down, focus on fitness. If your personality sucks but you look fine, work on that. My original comment was simply to say you can put on good, decent weight with minimal extra fat (within reason) w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:34 PM |
| 8 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Ah, I was grossly miscommunicating. I said "all men". I meant and should have said "all men who aren't otherwise sexually fulfilled (primary desire is satisfied)". If you can't tell, I'm not surrounded by married friends & stable, committed LTRs are not on the mind. A bit jaded by the guys around me willing to cheat. My bias crept into how I was communicating. Of course. A man in a happy marriage with a wife he loves won't cheat on her. If she fulfills him, why would he throw that away for a one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:31 PM |
| -1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.If you don't mind, go into detail about your edit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:09 PM |
| 11 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Absolutely true. Most don't even admit it to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?If I'm attaching imagined emotions to you, you're attaching imagined talking points to me. That very first comment I posted explicitly said you won't get ripped, you'll just get consistently big and look decent. I barely know what the hell looksmaxxing is and I couldn't give a flip. I'm not sure why you think I'm arguing for whatever it is, but I'm not. Let that one slide, and it'll save you some space in your future rants. In the sake of clarity, here's my point: eating clean and lifting heavy,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:58 AM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.None. Guys don't talk about sex like that. What kind of guys do you hang out with who do? Just because men don't talk about sex like this doesn't mean they don't feel that way about it. Actions, not words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:50 AM |
| -3 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?Hmm. Your response is full of correct historical points, but you managed to miss my point nonetheless. I'm just going to go ahead and say I agree with basically everything you wrote from a factual standpoint. Still, I want to convey my point. Let's do this slowly. In as few words as you can manage, why were women required to be modest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:48 AM |
| 5 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.I'm just calling it as I see it. Be honest: how many men you know would fuck somebody, any woman out there, on the job. If you say less than 50%, you're lying to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?What part of shut up go lift did you miss from TRP? Angry? Your bullshit's as amusing as it's perplexing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Projecting? Go on about my female traits, I'm curious now. If it's a debate sub, share some of your depths of knowledge. If it's not an incel sub, quit the blackpill shit. If it's not a fitness sub, stop ranting about sodium & how out of date the standard "lift heavy, eat clean" advice is. Projecting my ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Again, I'm not the one crying about genetics on reddit. If you've got so much wisdom, why not share a bit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?You are one weird, angry motherfucker. Want to fuck hot girls? Get hot. Want to be hot? Go lift. It's that simple. Well, maybe not for you—your charming personality is clearly going to do all the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?I don't think you're anything, man. You just sound sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?How do you know this? You're telling yourself lies that just make you feel worse. I'd be happy to let you know the world isn't as dismal as you make it out to be, but you don't seem willing to hear that. Why are you going out of your way to be miserable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Thanks for reminding me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Whatever you say, bud. I know a gym with hundreds of normal, well adjusted people that'll tell you otherwise. They're the guys and gals getting stronger & looking fitter, not the weirdos bitching about genetics on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Swinging by the gym for an hour after work is completely reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:00 AM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.I wanted to say "straight men with functioning libidos", but didn't want to fall into a no true scotsman situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:12 AM |
| 5 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Some men even hate it about themselves Challenging this mindset in myself was a big eye-opener to its existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Thanks for the comment. 1. I can't speak for incels, and I can't speak for guys who struggle with getting sex. I can say men of all walks who are ostensibly sexually successful still have their mind on better sex nearly continuously. At a bare minimum, put them in an environment with an athletic, outgoing young blonde, and you'll see how all the 20-years-married men & the engaged jocks start acting immediate fools. There's plenty of guys who won't be one hundred percent sexually satisified until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:04 AM |
| 5 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.This has nothing to do with this subreddit. Why would you think it is based on the idiots in here? Have you observed men in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:47 AM |
| 6 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Since you're pressing me? No, I'd have to guess it's bad for men & it's bad for the women they bang. As an example, it's why conventional beauty standards are so strong/rigid--even if somebody who is conventionally attractive isn't exclusively what you find attractive, if somebody who looks like that is harder is harder to obtain and you obtain then (note the inherent objectification here), you feel more sexually successful, regard yourself more highly, and are probably regarded more highly by o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Thanks for asking. I'm making a claim that it is the case. I'm not offering any evidence in support of it, as I have none that's not ancedotal or experiential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:02 AM |
| 0 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.What do you consider sex addiction? This post is concerned with male self-judgement & self-worth (primarily shaped by societal norms) & not physical desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Discovering your inner C hadThey want to be miserable; it's a victim complex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:13 AM |
| -2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Make a top level comment & CMV, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.This is an example of fufilling the secondary desires after the primary are satisified. Once you know you're sexually sucessful you can decide "hey, companionship & trust & comfort in a relationship really does matter. I care about having those things." If you're unable to find a loving hot woman to get into a relationship with, you'll probably feel bad about yourself & your life, as you can't satisify your secondary desires. You won't stop banging hot women as long as you're able, nor will you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?That's the definition of objectification. If you see a person's body & think "I wanna stick my cock in that thing" instead of "oh, hey, a person", that's objectification. It's not an inherently bad thing, but it becomes oppressive when, for example, you punish women for showing too much skin. Why would you start punishing women for showing too much skin? Because the person doesn't matter, the female body is viewed in the eyes of the law as a sexual object to be hidden from male view for moral re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?Nonsurgical male birth control. It'll further reinforce the casual market as even the most cautious individuals (male & female) can finally raw it with STD-free strangers with no worries about popping out a kid. It'll just put further pressure on those who can't or won't compete in the casual dating market & continue to bifurcate the dating world between those in it for sex & companionship and those in it to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:49 AM |
| 9 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.American anti-competitive "capitalism" relies on continuous market growth to keep consumer prices low. The economy will tank in our generation unless immigration fills the birth gap in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.who will never admit it though On the contrary, many of the women I know are more upfront about this then most of the dudes I know. Ancedotal, I know, but I think worth mentioning. That said, I don't really know anything about female-female interactions besides the little bit I observe occasionally as a third party, so I wouldn't feel at all qualified to make a post about it asserting such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:35 AM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.I probably should have said straight men of any age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Exactly. Depends on how long-term your perspective is. Money's a good choice if you're interested in putting your dick in a hot woman/women on a recurring, regular basis several years down the line. Also, money buys those tertiary goals, which you will eventually want once your primary & secondary goals are satisified. Thus, some guys will decide money's worth it & will sacrifice putting their dick in a hot woman once or twice right now for income. Ultimately it's the same motivation of putting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:24 AM |
| – | Seduction fantasies and relationship narrativesGood post. Accurate description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Yes, absolutely agree with OP. Side note: Everybody should plan for a future without a partner. You'll have a better relationship if one comes along. Settling is bad for you & awful for the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:16 AM |
| – | Most men are losers and that's why they're singleAs for your other comment, I want a woman that is 9-10/10, how does one attract a woman on that level? Men have a few options 1. Be as attractive as her, 2. Luck into it, 3. Make yourself worthy through financial means. Good fucking perspective. Don't settle--it's bad for you & terrible for the other person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:06 AM |
| – | Most men are losers and that's why they're singleDude congrats for realizing all this. It's cheap advice everybody's giving out but it really is worth it: start lifting heavy & then start eating well. You'll have so much more energy, focus, & motivation, not to mention confidence when you do. The physiological effects of anabolic exercise are great, but the psychological impact of knowing you're getting stronger because of the work you're doing is even bigger. Really shapes how you view yourself & how you view yourself in comparison to others.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingThese are just men who don't trust themselves to stay attractive enough to keep a hot girl who's proven she cares about having good sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Part 1: If you're fat: Eat one 1000-1500 calorie meal a day with low (sub 100) calorie snacks until you're at the appropiate weight for your height. Run or walk a mile a day, try to be faster every time. Drink a fuckton of water. Stop drinking booze. Proceed to part 2. Part 2: Eat a clean (high protein, low unprocessed sugar, low fat) 3000-3500 calories a day, lift HEAVY (simple power lifts are all you need: bench/dead, squat if you don't have a nice ass/quads from your running) an hour fifteen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.What was the point of my previous comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.So you want to be retarded, huh? Your lucky day, champ. I can outretard you. No, she didn't. What you're saying here is you've had a rocky relationship with your mother for years, and you've never really quite felt like she loved you like a mother should. Nope. Here, you express your denial that your distant maternal relationship through your late pubescence deeply affected you in ways you still don't really understand. You act like I asked? Oh, wait I didn't? And here you finally admit that you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.No you didn't. OP clarified her point. You're taking somebody else's words, written with a specific intention to communicate a specific point, and deliberately misinterpreting them. Why? To argue about a point that the other person never made. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, buddy, and assume that for whatever reason you just don't get the chance to talk to actual people very often, but the real world doesn't work like that. It's okay to be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.What Lilith said: Most women: either: 1) strictly fuck in relationships 2) fuck charming hot guys Implying: Only a minority of women: a) Do both (AF/BB is here) b) Do neither c) Do something totally different Capiche? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.Lilith is right 90% of the time and y'all hate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.You don't read. She's talking about two different groups of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:30 PM |
| 13 | As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status)I must have missed the release of the hit singles Women Just Want to Have Fun by Cyndi Lauper, Woman on Fire by Alicia Keys; I Kissed A Woman by Katy Perry, and Only Woman by Rihanna. Never in my life have I heard a she/her below 28 refer to herself or her she/her friends as a woman/women except in strictly professional contexts. They call themselves girls, esp. in a dating/friendly/casual context. You're on an odd and solitary crusade. Are you/do you hang out with young women at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status)Very accurate post and clearly written. This does happen to some degree everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 8 | As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status)Women are called women. Just like you don't call men boys in your post because it would be belittling, don't call women "girls". What on earth are you on about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 8 | As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status)It's true among guys as well. To be brutally honest, although personal attraction exists on a complex continuum--"girls I don't think are hot" and "girls I do think are hot" blend right into each other--there is a sharp & unforturnate divide between "girls I think my friends think are hot" and all the rest. Generally, "girls I think are hot that I don't think my friends think are hot" are relationship baited at best. Of course, there's some guys that dgaf. However, I've observed that the "girls … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: “Being an emotional tampon” is inherent to true friendship.This is somehow the most reasonable I've ever seen a comment section on r/ppd. Good shit, yall actually seem to have some wisdom between the allayall for once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 04:29 AM |
| 13 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightOne thing you'll never learn from anatomical diagrams is that every single pussy really is unique. Talk to your partner (without killing the mood—"yeah, you like that right there" is good. "Please identify your clitoris for me" is not) | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 8 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightEverybody acts like you have to be some kind of super sauve sex god, but just rolling with the vibe and openly communicating is the easiest and most fun way to enjoy yourself & make your date at ease. Imagine that! Some people call this outcome independence. I just think of it as being in the moment. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 12 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightI knew it was lower than I was going to expect, and I looked at diagrams and all that. Still lower than I thought! | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 0 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.Because soft spoken, kind, compassion, hopeless romantics are fucking annoying to be around. Snoozefests, at best. Nice girls get bored too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.spitting facts tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Two rational but opposing hypothesis about beautiful women.Hah, thanks for the laugh. Sucks when that happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?All that you just said is true in general. All that I said is true... if (see first line) you assume attractiveness is normally distributed among people. It's probably a pretty decent assumption, as most other traits that can be objectively measured are normally distributed among people, but there's no guarantee that it is a true assumption. If it isn't, all the follow on conclusions based on that assumption will be wrong, as your comment helpfully explains. I just want to make it clear that if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?I think it's because attractiveness is assumed to be normally distributed. If we used your method, with equal numbers of people in each bin, then the extreme bins have enormous variance within them—within the 0-1 bin you'd have both the literally most highness person ever born as well as the dude that's only better looking than 10% of the population. These two individuals will look very different. That chart seems to be measuring things by number of standard deviations away from the mean: meanin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.but are you tapping it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | The men who had harems were rich and powerful, not merely hot and charming (or AT ALL).Tbh the way to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 6 | The men who had harems were rich and powerful, not merely hot and charming (or AT ALL).wild thing is odds are if there's any celeb who's solely banging his wife it's probably tom "i love jesus & my wife & kids" brady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Is it just me or is relationship problems always seen as the man's fault?Absolutely no argument here! I am in complete agreement with you. (Just didn't want to make a long comment longer by making that point clear) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 03:19 AM |
| 7 | Is it just me or is relationship problems always seen as the man's fault?This is complete speculation on my part. I've got no reasoning for it besides an off-the-cuff generalization of my own anecdotal experience/observations. Generally: when a relationship has a problem & it is the man's fault, the woman lingers in the relationship. This is either because she wants to try to repair the relationship & retain her man, or because she is waiting for him to give her a definitive, guiltless reason to end it. It is common that a woman will remain in a broken relationship, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 5 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?ooooh he unlocked the relationship secret boys! gather round, what will the wise guru tell us today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 06:34 AM |
| 6 | Male VulnerabilityAbsolutely. Thread OP hit the nail on the head with that comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Why don't men wear heels too?Boom, there's your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do men say they prefer experienced women IRL and not so much online?because people online don't actually have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 10 | If women find less men attractive than men find women attractive, shouldn't women make the first move?amen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?It's super important. I got my feet wet with some RP philosophy but after banging a handful of girls I really couldn't stand to be around, I realized it wasn't going to work for me. I want a partner I feel compelled to respect beyond just basic human respect... ONS are fun, but a relationship with somebody is a lot more valuable. Of course, that won't stop me from getting some quick pussy between relationships as a stopgap measure, but the joy of hookups comes as much from seeing the person as i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Study: A minority of women do engage in af/bb dual mating strategyNope. The small percentage of men who no woman will even be attracted to have a vested interest in believing that [women are only attracted to the top 20%]. a factual statement, now stop forcing me to put effort into my reddit comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Study: A minority of women do engage in af/bb dual mating strategyBased and unpilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?especially if she, a big black woman is... white? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 04:30 AM |
| 17 | She Comes First - Male Seductive MindsetAight lads hear me out--I love eatin pussy, I love fingering ladies, I love watching them come. But since I abandoned hookups & started persuing relationships, I find that I can't find a girl that wants to help me get off, no matter how much I get them off. Literally, they don't wanna give blowjobs, are too religious/whatever for vaginal (and I can't come with a condom anyways), and are shit at handjobs. Overall, it's like they're scared of my dick & terrified of my cum. What gives? Recently sta… | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | What's a great substitute for handshakes when meeting women for the first time?Bump butts together | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Your time is valuable- Dont waste it!complete facts either spend time in person or move on with your life you come first | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Just changed my dating profile location from London to Prague. A blackpill moment.Don't you mean volcel? By definition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 6 | My [M24] experience having an attractive sister [F31] and analyzing her relationshipsthis dude wants to fuck his sister lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | My [M24] experience having an attractive sister [F31] and analyzing her relationshipsyeah that's about what I got out of it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | My [M24] experience having an attractive sister [F31] and analyzing her relationshipscan somebody fuckin tl;dr this shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadBro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 12:35 AM |
| 4 | What topics should you talk about with a girl?Absolutely. One thing I'd say is don't end a topic prematurely. I catch myself thinking ahead often--"what topic do I have in store next, if this one fizzes out"--but it's all too easy to cut her off when she starts to trail off but isn't done yet. It's far more awkward to halt a conversational topic too early than deal with a silence. Be a better listener than a talker. Always try to get her to feel comfortable sharing. | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached?Hold frame, tease them, banter, get physical. Just like any other lady, just more fun in the end. | /r/seduction | 03/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on video: "What men find 'honorable,' women find disgusting."Good dates involve changing locations for a variety of reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 9 | Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you.Yeaaaah, that's not the case for everybody | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Turned 30 as a virgin. Now 1 year later after a few lays and my first relationshipWow, good, balanced advice?? In this sub? More likely than I thought! | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"day gay what is thsi? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Overcome Your Fear of Beautiful WomenBONK | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Are age gap relationships like mine really that gross?I'm sure you have a lovely relationship but my commitment to bad humor is a duty I cannot ignore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Are age gap relationships like mine really that gross?I was his babysitter, I asked him out when I was 14. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashSo many dudes I know that are 29-35 are dating girls 10-12 years younger than them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be.Wow... thanks for sharing, this is personal stuff but hearing somebody else verbalize it is helping me understand myself a lot more... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 21 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻carry around a large sheet of plexiglass, you can erect it between you and the lady before you engage in conversation. works for me every time | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 10 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻protip for you: go make some friends. male, female, doesn't matter. keep it platonic. sounds like you need to get a better feel for basic social skills before you apply them to things like cold approaches. maybe I'm wrong, who knows--you're actually an excellent conversationalist. but your lack of confidence is telling. even if you have the skills you need to hone them until you trust yourself above all else. so go make some friends. come back when you're feeling happy, relaxed and above all CON… | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻Aww that's sweet as fuck | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 11 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻Step one walk towards woman Step two say hello | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I moved a curl behind his earDammmmn you're a smooth motherfucker | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Pessimistic thought of the day: People say they prefer to have sex with someone they feel attached to, but what happens is that they feel attached to any sexy person in their surroundingsI've banged some hot chicks I thought were awful people. 4/10 experience, good pussy but a shit time overall. Didn't enjoy being around that person, and if you're having sex, you should feel emotionally close to them. Now, some 6/10s that I'm attached too... goddamn. In my male experience, it makes a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What is something men can wear in lieu of lingerie, that can be sexy, while still being classy and romantic?I find that a floral lace banana hammock never fails to get my lady in the mood | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 11:38 PM |
| 58 | Her passport is well stampedJesus y'all are a cynical bunch. Some posts seem hella valid, this one... not so much | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/01/19 09:51 PM |
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