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Honestly - this sounds quite a bit pua-ish. Showing (faked) effort and acting like he really was interested in you as a person till he picks up you start to like him; then an attempt to "break" you, so you will take anything from / for him - because "He Is So GrEaT oThErWiSe" and will think of yourself as lesser / somehow guilty for his treatment of you. That guy is manipulative af, if he does this conciously or not. Plus he showed you in his "down-moment" how he will treat you and how he really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:06 PM
2

Just another prime example of men showing women how much worth they see in us....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:50 PM
36

And neither the therapy / meds nor the ring for the proposal ever existed. All just emotional blackmail, nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:33 PM
42

100% this. A classic "man-pire"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:53 AM
10

Woah - he thinks he has a right to her money? And not even just for one thing - no. It has to be for 5, 6, 7 different ones. While criticizing her for the few things she buys for herself - also with her own money.... .... and I bet he doesn't lift a finger at home and with the kids.... don't think it's more than the absolute minimum and all the rest gets done by her when she comes home from work. What a weak excuse of a man and a human being. I'm just so concerned that women like her - poor soul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:49 AM
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Go try the same with men.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:38 PM
3

Such a sadistic POS. They can't stand even the slightest "not functioning" of a woman, even if it's for a very "real" reason. Run, sis!! Such a guy will never be capable of loving any woman. The ingrained hate (and the coupling with lust/pleasure in their brains - just like pavlow's dogs,) goes to deep. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:52 PM
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"Women have very little idea of how much men hate them" Germaine Greer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:44 PM
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So, it's like it always is. Man gets (for once in his life) confronted with the consequences acts of his fellow men have for women - everyday and for our whole lifes (and these are "just" the secondary/indirect ones); but in his mind, the only thought is that this is somehow also to blame on us and that he's the true victim here. And he get's angry and agressive. Who had have thought..... I know, it's not that of a harsh example (which also says a lot, sadly), but still; he sounds exactly like a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 09:41 PM
5

Oof. Didn't get that. That makes it so much worse. This poor woman...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:24 PM
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What I don't get: They both (read him too) wanted a baby. To have a baby, there has to be 9 months pregnancy. As it is, only the woman can do that. So she doe's it for both. Why does he act as if clearly pregnancy related needs / things are "just" her needs? Even if one agrees to the rest of the setting, this one doesn't add up at all. So he has to at least make 50/50 with all these things too. Not to mention all the other issues regarding his behaviour..... from a 38 year old..... Edit: A word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:21 PM
10

"... even if she had wounded me..." - what the actual fuck!?!! Really, this one is pure male depravity. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:55 AM
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There we have it once again. But hey! Not all of em, right? Right??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:11 AM
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The obvious rest aside for a moment - this language! I could barf. It's the same in my language. Just, let's say 10 years ago, it would have been (if at all in that manner) "I want to fuck / do it / whatever with her". The word which indicates a relation to another person is entirely gone. Language is a good indicator, be it for culutural or personal values. And this just screams further dehumanization. At least to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:00 AM
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And what about the ugly things on the inside...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:41 PM
3

So why are there studies then who state the exact opposite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:46 PM
14

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:09 PM
2

Thank you too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:33 AM
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We don't need their awards anyways - it's our connection & community, that we are no longer kept isolated from each other and that we are speaking up and open up our eyes and often the eyes of the ones around us too - women and men. To make things better, to get free. For me, comments like yours are waaay enough! Thank you so much! Hope, this finds you happy, healthy and free (or with the strenght to get it!!) & wish you a nice day. Take care :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:39 AM
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So, like always in their mind - he has a right but she doesn't? Of course...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:04 PM
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I too think he leaves out a lot of information here.... Although that seems to be almost always the case, but this here screams it even more... Edit: Also that mention of being a "victim of abuse" - where did he get abused?! He wants to abuse, now that he's unhappy because of things outside of their marriage. What a nice "partner".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:19 AM
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Just a little lighthearted thought of mine I usually get when encountering such scenes: I'm sorry (am I?), but I can't help me with this inner image; but when a guy pulls off this kind of behaviour, there's always a little picture creeping in my mind, in front of my inner eye.... And it's the picture a really agitated rooster; ruffling his feathers, trying to look big and intimidating towards the "naive little female" but simultaneously he's also trying to look "super-full-fledged-fluffy-shiny-r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:34 PM
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Exactly. But also a sad reminder about how things really are.... still are. Also it's unfortunately not practiced everywhere (the anonymised applications); in my country no application would be accepted without full info - which gives of course plenty of possiblities for discrimination. I have to say though, that in my country (I'm swiss) it's fortunately no longer that abundant as it used to be - but it's still there to a certain degree nonetheless (also it depends oftentimes massively, in whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:12 PM
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And then there are the (obligatory - sadly) guys saying "ThIs GaP dOeSn'T eVeN eXiSt!".... where there are simultaneously so, so many studys and experiments proving that even already while applying for a new job, there are massively lower chances if the application has a female name on it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:01 PM
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".... she is a deadbeat mom..." -NO. SHE IS NOT. If anyone, then he is. Bet the child is almost all the time with his parents, most likely the mother? If he could, he would let that kid fall down like a hot potato. It sounds like the only reason he hasn't is because the court knows the story, so he can't go and get rid of the child (I'm so sorry for this little boy and this harsh words - he didn't deserve a "father" like this). Also, he seems to like to present himself as *"the brave single dad"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:08 PM
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And as long as we get these reactions just for claiming our own (!) lives; nothing more, nothing less - so long we bitterly need it. Bitterly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:53 PM
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Like you said. Often it's - sadly - just two things: Wanting to have a "mini-me" (which means of course only a boy) and the classical "baby-trapping". It's sad and it hasn't to be like that, but if we take an honest look around us, we see just so, so many prime examples of this. Too many. Edit: Typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:08 PM
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It's sad because they don't do it out of love. Like she does. They do it because she "pays" for it it that manner. Also - no mentioning at all of loving her back. Only "yeah, right! I have to love myself and invest in myself!". I mean, that's totally okay - but not like that. They seem to see love just as something they get. Profit out of being with a woman. And that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:39 AM
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There are individual men who are like that, yes. And such a man absolutely is so loveable. *But....* NOT ALL MEN. Not as a class (as they see and treat us); not as a whole / social group. Then they are far, far away from that. So far we somethimes can't even imagine. I'm happy for her because I think she wrote this out of love for an individual man. But I so, so hope for it to not be just an illusion and a trap for her. Also - this type of generalized thinking can be (is!) so dangerous. And now …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:32 AM
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Guess they were desperately looking for something to construct a reason to blame the victims / women. Like always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:28 PM
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And: If they see something here what would really interest them sincerely - why don't they take that question and ask in one of the various (!) subs about women where men can post? Hmmm.... I wonder why....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:20 AM
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Just notice the amount of mindless downvotes on her comments.... But who's always talking about generalizations again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:57 PM
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Reading the first part, I thought "yeah, right so, expose the roots of a lot of problems!" .... .... and then I've read the rest. Honestly, so many men try so hard to turn literally everything into a "just-blame-women" - thing (and most if the times while simultaneously profiting of it). He started somewhere and then he lost his brain. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:12 PM
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One example more of this oh-so-well-known pattern... He at first: "oh I love you so, I would do anything blah-blah-blah... now give me / do for me - "insert anything' - because of that" Her: "Uhm, thank you, I guess, it's just I do feel a bit unconfortable with - 'insert well explained and respectful reason here' -" He then: You frustrated, worthless manhating whore! Telling a guy wanting something from you and then don't complying with it without saying a word is straight up misandry! (which me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:26 PM
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But: Consumers = 100% men. Bittersweet irony....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:23 PM
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They are doing such an amazing job! Honestly my numer one go-to-source to give people who are for the first time really interested in the harm of porn. Especially because they also emphasize the consumer side of things so good (the victims side seems - sadly - often times not interesting enough to get people to look seriously into it / change their mind). Thank you FTND!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:26 AM
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Relationship means partnership. Power imbalance = no partnership / no relationship. I can understand if someone for the very moment can't / won't speak something trough, because they need to recollect themselves / calm down a bit / need a bit of space to think for themselves. That's okay. But it stops being okay if that's an overall tactic that gets used every time. Especially when someone gets agressive / threatening. Then that's nothing more than abusing the love of the (real) partner. If you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:32 AM
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I think it's because that type of men sees us women not as humans put of ourselves, but just as extensions of men. So they can't stand it to see women who don't fit in that mold, especially if they seem to be happy like that. Just think about all the guys who go off like hell when they see a woman saying "I'm fine being single"..... even if she's not even close to their type and they have zero interest in her anyways; but it can't be for them that a woman says publicly she's fine without a man..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:43 PM
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If they only would get how much they are telling us about themselves while they are badmouthing others like that... and how pathetic it makes them look. Also - could you imagine the outrage - especially of guys like this one - if a woman would talk like that over them, but the other way round?! Would be a nasty scene....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:04 PM
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And how they feel threatened. Everytime I've seen FDS mentioned in other subs it's like that. And always - really every single time without even one exception - they are telling completely false things, are lying. If the sub was so bad, then why not come up with actual examples, facts and maybe reciepts for their claims, like a simple screenshot? Nobody here wants "to kill all men" or "just wants to screw them" (in which way then...?!?) or are "just complete misandrists".... * sigh * we are crit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:00 PM
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He really should have worked on himself - but that has nothing to do with women. Funny - if women are always the problem to blame + carry the whole reaponsibility, even for his actions - how long he took to get to that conclusion... also, for that amount of women in that time period they could barely get to know him and know about his situation and about the other women before and after them, but still they are to blame and the cause of it? My dad always says "if there is a constant problem in y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:08 AM
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"... one of the few women who are actually worth something..." wow. how offputting and disgusting is that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:23 PM
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.... and then you have to fix it the next day before it collapses on its own. And clean up the mess he left behind....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:20 PM
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Exactly! Everytime I've stumbled over someone commenting on FDS, they were really just telling flat out lies. Also - it always seems as they aren't interested in discussion at all, it's always just about the fact that it's women only. No power over this place - that is it what really seems to bother them. I mean, there are enough womens - subs were men can participate as well / are even encouraged to do so for finding dialogue and common ground / understanding for each other. If they see somethi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:02 PM
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also.... why are they apparently lurking and creeping so much in here? No interest in really talking/discussing problems between men and women, no interest in what our sight and perception of things is, no (self-)reflecting... ... but always searching for something to bash on, in an attempt to rob this little space from us - in comparison to the tons of subs which cater just to men; with a huge amount of porn, and there just too much of them with explicit misogynistic, women hating and degrading…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:45 AM
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It's because for them, they are real human beings with struggles and thoughts and feelings - but we are just women....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:37 AM
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Why are they thinking it is based on looks? It's in the first place about the mindset of a person and how they treat others. But when they go and insult women over their bodies/looks, we then can't point out that they may also aren't the great price they think they are...? Okay.... here we go again (and again and again and again....).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:32 AM
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Thank you for not just telling us, but explaining why it has to be like that! It would be a shame, if FDS would get taken fown for such a constructed "blah-blah-brigading-blah!" - reason.... I recently did the same mistake by wanting to mention a particular sub as an example - I really didn't think much of it other than that. But fortunately the moderation here works really well and the system was able to catch my post in time. The mods then contacted me about this and explained it to me - so I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:24 AM
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".... but I won't be your friend. I'm not interested in your personality. There, I have others for that. I just want to use your body. You see, I don't ask for much! You know, I mean.... in the end - you're just a woman, right?!" /s Edit: Typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:12 AM
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I would say: there we have it! It has to stem from something / somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:21 AM
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Thank you so much! It feels good to know there are others thinking the same way about it, even if we are a minority going against the mainstream. But someone somewhere has to start... ... and I'm happy to have found so many good folks here on FDS :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:24 PM
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Aww, thank you so much for your kind and sweet response! It gave me a big, wide happy grin on my face when I've read it; I'm so happy if I could make you feel happy too for that moment! Maybe I'm sounding a bit kitschy right now - but I don't really know how to put it other words :/ And you're so right about the fact that we could - and should! - take the positives out of our past experiences, and take the time and focus for ourselves to heal and to grow. Sadly we can't prevent to get hurt, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:42 AM
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She's "realistic". Sounds more like she has given up and surrendered. Gaslighting herself to be able to live somehow with that. Just take a look what kind of porn these men are watching - and you know it all. This us what they really think and feel about us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:11 AM
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Yes. But mental health in women?! Doesn't exist. We are just irrational, overreacting and are emotional unstable. Oh! And either whores or prudes. Proably mentally unstable, illogical prude whores. Something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:03 AM
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When they even present themselves like a piece if meat for sale to consume - then run! How do you think then they see us? Like a soulless "torture-is-fun, just do it all to me, I'm worthless and I know it bang-doll". Run!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:56 AM
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"Eroticided violence", "just a fsntasy"..... how can't they see it for what it reslly is? They are even telling it to us: The have deep down the desire and the wish to hurt us, to harm, abuse and degrade - so severe that it is the key to their personal lust.... ... your / our (it doesn't seem to matter, they use and "consume" every woman if / when they can / could. These are not relationships out of love, and they are nit partners. They ar max "love" you like someone would say "I love my fridge!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:52 AM
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Yes! And also people seem to have forgotten how deep it's supposed to connect. Don't forget - this is where new life (can) be created! I'm not saying this in a manner like "it is just strictly for that" and so on, not at all. But I do think it is something going too deep and too close to act with it like that. Sex is connection, relationship, bonding - in which fashion ever. It is not a commodity like a piece of chocolate you just consume. We even have just to look at what happens in the body, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:23 AM
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THIS! Perfectly said in one short sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:04 AM
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.... you wrote a perfect FDS - summarizing post with this, OP. Beautiful said and written - and true. Thank you a lot for posting it! And also.... much love to you and every other one of you ladies reading this. You are not at fault for the actions of others. They did decide for that? Then you have to decide for yourself too. And please choose you, choose being safe and choose sanity (as dramatic as it siunds), choose happiness, rest and peace, strenght and good faith / trust in yourself. Choose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:02 AM
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Why are they always getting angry towards women when they themselves mess up.... If it would be okay / no big deal - how they want to convince us - then why react like this? Maybe..... because it's true and they know it.....? Hmmm...... ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:48 AM
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Variety..... of course all these things lose the appeal for them, because there's nothing more in it than strictly mechanical, emotionslly empty attempts to stimulate some nerves on the body, to get a similar empty physical reaction. There's just emptiness - they are playing with a package with nothing in it. They abuse themselves and ruin their sexual identity, the ability to build (and even just have) deep connected relationships, trust and bonding, love. All this while (for this!!?!) building…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:03 AM
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I'm 180 cm tall - converter says thats 5'11 (hope thst's correct?). I think I've never ever met a man who didn't had the urge to comment on that. Men that had nothing more to do with me as like coworkers, friends of friends and even complete strangers on the street. They seem pretty obsessed with height. Which doesn't means just being tall - but being taller than women. Edit: Typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:37 AM
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;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:21 AM
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They don't want to deal with the expressions of women in general. For them, we have to be quiet, obedient and predictable. When there is a woman going off, like screaming, cussing, yelling - that's the same, just multiplied. They don't want to be "forced" to acknowledge our existence, nor our reasons thoughts / emotions. Uff... when I think about it... how much ignorance and coldness and complete lack if compassion does it need to seriously ask, why someone breaks out when they see a family memb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:15 AM
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We don't want to change you - indeed, we don't want the change (you did yourself; in a timespan of probably even just weeks)!". Yepp! I think that sums it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:06 AM
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So.... where is the split of the electric bill? Just deduct it from the rent. And I'm quite suspicious, that this is not the only thing where 50/50 is nowhere near in sight. Other maintenance bills? Groceries? Insurances? Car/mobility? .... and all household / domestic work? Nothing about fairly splitting costs and make it easier to stem it for both - but this sounds not like that at all. It just sounds like taking advantage of her. Like sadly so often.... Edit: Typo(s)... :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:50 PM
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... but never forget: It's always just his brutal honesty - towards others, of course. Never much brutal honesty (or often just honesty at all) to himself. Why does someone has to have different "stages" of honesty? Honesty is just honesty. There are no "gradations of honesty" - either you are honest or not. And the choice for the label as explicit "brutal" just gives of vibes of it being an excuse for something else. Like the desire to verbally abuse, but to do so under the safe (safe for himse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:40 PM
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Of course. With such people it's never about the what - but about the who. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:30 PM
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the classic one. but really - how dare we?! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:29 PM
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Put the "jokes" aside and they tell you quite frankly what they are really about. Don't interprete things in, that aren't there. When they come at you like that "jokingly", you can guess how they'll treat you when it's getting serious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:26 PM
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It's so sad, but you're just right with that. Our toxic "culture" & the over the top pornification down to every small corner of our daily lifes resulted in so, so many men not looking for a partner, but for a kind of personal servant. Property. Flee when you hear / see those things. You wont find love in such a man. It's sad, but true. I don't say they can't heal. But id they do - in that time they don't need a new relationship. It would just result in two wrecks, instead of just one. Stay safe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:08 PM
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I'm neither a doctor nor a scientist - but I always wondered about this Wouldn't it be more like female subjects would be the more hormonally "stable" ones because of this? I mean we have a quite strict / regular cycle which gives you a perfectly balanced base to study on / with it. And as far as I know about male hormonal changes, I thought to have read that men (I don't know about it in animals, but think it could be the same / similar in other mammals) have instead of a four-week-cycle one th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:15 PM
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There's absolutely no reason to feel threatend here. But if you do so - to see the problem you need a serious look in the mirror. At yourself. Either change how you treat women and how you interact with us. And I guaratee you, you will see and think about us in a completely different new light. Positively. And you will understand so much more; and also you'll be able to experience deep love and true partnership if you do so. Maybe for the first time in your life. You can just win. Don't be miser…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:41 AM
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There are men who say they are "left thinking" / liberal and therefore for womens rights & equality. But not all of them are genuine. With this kind of men, this is - sadly - often just "true" as long as you / we are clearly (still) in a weaker, oppressed position than them themselves. This gives them the benefit of appearing as a real friend and ally to you - which gives them more "space" to try things with you or at least gives them the ego-boost of being the "knight in shining armor". The "st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:50 PM
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This constant pushing and trying to break boundaries reminds an awful lot about the "techniques" that destructive cults use to literally brainwash their members: Tolerating more and more pain, training to overcome disgust, erasure of the ego and generally the reversing of values and morals. Sounds eerily familiar....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:17 PM
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"My EmOtIoNs!" - while litterally shitting on the emotions of others.... aaand also even abusing the death (!!! how far can one go!!!) of a family member(s). And for what? For whoring around. Seems nobody's worth shit to him. But fucking is important. Bravo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:00 PM
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It also just says a lot about how much they value(d) all this relationships and encounters. Not much. And most likely they won't change their views and values. It was just something they consumed, like a commodity, and that's an attitude I can't stand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:40 AM
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Yes, this things are not true for all men. But they are for every woman. We have to live with this - in any moment, everyday. We never know if we'll be safe or not. So we have to be on edge and balance on it. Any moment, any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:58 PM
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This. Very well put argument, OP! It's nothing more than grooming and gaslighting. At the point where they couldn't reverse all rights & protection, they try to bring you "to do it out of your own free will". At least that's how I feel about it. The exploiting of the female body fuels a massive industry - if we could count it all together, we would feel really, really sick.... Also, I think it's a kind of "agenda" to push, promote & consolidate / strenghten things like the social status / positi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:38 PM
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Exactly. Nothing more behind that. And she even is a becoming dermatologist - so it makes perfectly sense to be intersted in these products, what new comes to the market etc. Plus, it's - just maybe! - one of the only little things she has who make her feel good, who are giving her a little, little space for selfcare / wellness just for herself and not always just for others.... and this "man" can't stand that. I've seen this so many times - they could have all they ever wanted - but if she has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:47 PM
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No, it's just a sign that someone is not looking for a partner, but for someone to posess & have advantage over. Nope! Edit: To sum it up short: Partners, not servants!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:08 PM
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Just congrats! You two will be a happy & loving duo for many many years. Wish you all the best! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:05 PM
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This works normally with all types of toxic people because - at least IMO - they try to take their power over others out of control. If you flat out refuse and show no / minimum emotional dependance on them, they fear to lose (you). Also it's much healthier for you, if you decide what you'll get to you and which things not. Can't change what happens to you - but you can change how you act and feel towards it. Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:45 AM
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Sad but true. I'm sorry for every decent man, but we all are better safe than sorry. It's nothing new predators use any kind of authorithy and / or vulnerable situations. And also - we sadly still have so often to work much more and harder for the same - not to mention appreciation and respect in our working environments. But we can use this and turn it in a win-win situation: As a customer / client / patient you'll be safer (and often also more respected and taken seriously) with choosing a wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:48 PM
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About commitment - if you feel like the person you're being in a relationship with as partners isn't your absolute best friend in the world and no literally extension/enrichment of yourself & your life and vice versa - then why are you even there? What is it then?! That says pretty much about them and how they really think and feel about it. It is or it is not. There is no "maybe" IMO. I was always told, I should just "try out" more and such stuff, relationship wise. NO! I never was and will nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:30 PM
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Better be safe and always go / drive by yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:50 PM
3

Happy new year & just all the best for you, OP! (and of course also for all you ladies!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:49 AM
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It's just so sad, that we even have to say things like this. And it doesn't stop there either - but still, people are taking this as normal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:18 PM
22

It's sad - but it just looks like such men don't see the point in gifting someone they think they already "own" (yes, this type thinks like that, sadly). So why invest something in that person? And if they do, like mentioned in the post, it's often cheap and without thought. It's a burden for them and they don't feel love towards their partners, but "love" the love & affection they get out of them. That's it. Sad, but so often just the truth. Honestly - how often see they the women in their life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:41 PM
2

And how many think still like this if they see just anything that looks female - like just or faces? Not really sure if I want to know....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:34 PM
13

We can already see it in language: it's not "having sex/fucking together" - it's "I fuck you /her". Same in my native language german; I've noticed that shift over the past decade and it just got worse. There, ten, fifteen years ago, a "I fuck you" would have been considered very rude - today everyone seems to speak (and think...!) like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:27 PM
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