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Now days in games that actually have stories certainly. Modern video games try really hard to flesh out there characters. Because the artists making these projects genuinely want the medium to be taken more seriously as an art form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:24 PM
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You know very little about other people and even less about men. Go touch grass and interact with a real person face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:42 PM
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Look I find this "issue" genuinely stupid and childish. I don't particularly care about it one way or another but it is completely insane to suggest that characters like Cortana,Tifa Lockhart, or hell even Lara Croft are "just sex pictures" in their original forms. These characters have depth behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:38 PM
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Ok this just seems to be you working out your own personal issues in dating by venting. I think this is a weird place to do it but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:52 AM
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You think people should give up on dating if they aren't married by 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:30 PM
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Would you ask the same thing of a single 40 year old woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:26 PM
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I get the feeling that this is almost entirely inspired by me telling you that you weren't a hero for abandoning a friend who was clearly suffering from depression and that it really can't be extrapolated to broader society. The problem there wasn't a lack of empathy it was you being a bad friend. Your supposed to help your friends through the tough times even when it's difficult or makes you uncomfortable because you would hope they would do the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:45 AM
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Your first comment doesn't make any sense. Why would men join a movement they think doesn't give a shit about them and thry perceive as being hostile to them. Not to mention that male feminists are often the target of gender essentialist stereotypes in feminist circles. Its common to hear radfems call them predators. I'm gonna be real here I'm not gonna read a whole ass other reddit post over an internet argument. So sorry if there's something relevant there I don't address here. As to your firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:54 PM
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Okay to answer your first question. No FEMINISTS not women need to work harder if they want men to believe they give a fuck about them. Some woman have been saying that but I'll tell you the actual reality of the situation is much different. I haven't been in a shit ton of relationships and even I've been broken up with over being to open with my emotions. Women also love to weaponize moments of vulnerability against men later. But this is all ultimately besides the point which is that your init…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:17 PM
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I'm not saying to throw the baby out with the bathwater I'm pointing out that your initial thesis is not entirely correct and arguing that the feminist movement more broadly needs to crack down on these types if they want that message to resonate or be considered sincere rather than self serving which is how it comes of when coupled with the vocal extremists. If you'd like to provide me an example of a normal feminist condemning the kind of instances I talked about I'd love to see it because I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:59 PM
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Your first point doesn't refute what ive said the "manosphere" has only existed in one form or another since roughly 2010. Further the maunstream red pill position on this that i dont entirely subscribe to isn't that being vulnerable is bad in and of itself its that women hate it when men are vulnerable. I'd also like to point out the feminist response condemning sharing your feelings with your partner as making them your therapist hasn't helped on that front either. that don't want to focus on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:40 PM
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I believe all life holds value for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:26 PM
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I don't think that is uniformly correct. I believe it might apply to you personally but I don't think it's true of women as a group. I think specifically of discussions of male suicide that come up from time to time and the massive response from women online that the rate needs to be higher. Further feminism is not a monolith and while it's true that some feminists do care I'd say it's current main stream form broadly defines it's self in opposition to various issues. I think of feminist lobbyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:25 PM
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I think your misunderstanding what the issue here is. The issue with the concept of behavior is not that being rude and abrasive doesn't hurt your chances it's that being nice or acting within how I imagine you define good doesn't increase your chances like at all. I won't defend the other guy your referring to because he's wrong nor do his beliefs reflect my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:59 PM
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I know what it looks like when people are rude. The man in that clip was openly rude to a transwoman. Also I'm pro trans I don't think you should be mean to trans people just for existing. Further I hate to tell you this but the guy in that clip is not struggling to find a date if he's attractive enough to get on an internet dating show. Everyone in that clip is roughly in the top 10% in terms of appearance for their age and gender. This is also a TikTok rage bait reality show and should not be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:40 PM
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It is but it doesn't work it plainly doesn't work in actually increasing any tangible results in the dating market. Individuals don't come to things like the red pill without having tried every blue pill advice in the book. Your actively arguing in the comments with the lived experience of tons of men telling you that it doesn't work. If it did there would be no need for things like the red pill to exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:04 PM
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"Sure it hasn't meaningfully happened yet but that's because we just haven't been doing it hard enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:58 PM
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That's a terrible argument. If we follow that logic we should all be Mormon because their the happiest subset of American.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:56 PM
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Have you considered that your just a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:32 AM
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Not in the modern day it's all online now. Because the world is shit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:29 AM
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Proof read dude you made some crazy spelling mistakes in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:28 AM
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I think this is a case of kind of taking a monolithic approach to this subject. As a man who likes his women on the larger side what I consider fat might be different to a person obsessed with clean eating might. It's honestly kind of truly subjective as to what too fat means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:24 PM
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They didn't cause any broader societal harm and were certainly not the dominant approach to dating. I'm not opposed to the idea of the internet being a tool to meet people. I'm opposed to how it is implemented and functions under a hypercapitalistic society. There's simply no way to do implement these without things developing into the situation we currently find ourselves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:52 AM
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A return to a pre internet version of dating across the board is the only viable solution. Things weren't great before but they were better than the current environment. Ban dating apps, and social media possibly, and things will improve almost instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:31 PM
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Even if we take those statistics at face value, you shouldn't most of them are of dubious quality, the majority of women don't espouse that horse shit. Further, being a victim doesn't excuse bigotry, a victim of say a robbery by black person is not excused if they are racist, for good reason. Overwhelmingly, in my personal experience, the individuals who hold these views are upper middle class white women who have never been physically harmed by a man. They mostly use those views to explain away…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:28 AM
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I'm sick of pretending that all these women are victims of abuse of some shit. I know a few irl they aren't their just bad people. Do some exist? Yes are they the majority, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:02 PM
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What a warped and weird view of marriage. As for addressing your point I'm familiar with multiple divorced women who are looking to remarry but have been unsuccessful in those efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:02 PM
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Your main here is undercut by looking at divorce which is where this primarily occurs. Women initiate the majority of divorces this occurs despite the fact that men are actually more likely to remarry following the end of a marriage than women. I don't disagree with the broad idea that this sentiment is stupid but your argument has a clear Achilles heel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:29 PM
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Fantasizing about being a rapist is gross and uncomfortable. In perhaps a less valiant explanation is that fantasizing about being with a partner who wants to be with you and finds you attractive is generally just more sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:01 AM
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I really don't see that talking point here that often. I only see it in the context I explained earlier but carry on I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:50 PM
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Okay stop complaining about a lack of partners. That is the only time this is brought up, if your unwilling to adopt the simple solution to your problem, quit whining to other people about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:59 PM
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Frequently it is all men get out of non-marriage relationships. I've never had a girlfriend get me anything for any holiday despite making sure they all got something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:02 PM
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Objectively all of those type of guy are inherently better than someone who is abusive, by virtue of not being abusive. Which is when the point your talking about is brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:26 AM
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None but that doesn't mean they should be elevated anywhere near power. Hoteps are silly but I wouldn't want one in the halls of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:29 PM
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What can largely be defined as a women's supremacy movement. Common in radfems, they are also frequently terfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:30 PM
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Lots of women have hand fetishes for some reason. They are about as common as feet guys. It's also not talked about as a fetish despite very clearly being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:35 AM
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Then those aren't the standards by which you or anyone for that matter makes friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:46 AM
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Never met a man who does this. In fact a lot of men have fantasize about helping their partner fulfill their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:02 AM
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No its not. Do you only make friends with people who are exclusively interested in the same things you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:55 AM
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I'd like you to consider whether everyone shares your view on what it means. I've certainly been called that online before and while I don't think it socially describes me I certainly fit in the same general group. Others in similar positions to me often used in both contexts and seeing it deployed as an insult pointed at genuinely terrible people does not feel good. It is a big part of like I said why I do not like the rise of the term being used as an insult. Your probably correct in how you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:22 AM
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I do think on some level societal factors play into my issues. Simply things like expanding third spaces, as someone tries to avoid alchol those can be limited and reduction in work hours, I'm an attorney so it's often hard to find time away from work when it's not unusual for me to work 90+ hour weeks. I also think men in general face unique struggles within society that go undressed in most mainstream discussions on things like gender issues. Could I do more to Improve things like my appearanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:33 PM
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I fit the most common definition of incel in that I have been virtually completely unsuccessful in all romantic matters. Several people I play with have had similar or lower levels of success. I very much think there is a strong disconnect between what different groups think is an incel. I do not believe for instance someone like Andrew Tate is an incel, as utterly heinous of a human being as he is he has had sex. I feel like watering the term down into just an insult against anyone vaguely miso…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:14 PM
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All this functionally does is support one sentence in your argument while simultaneously undermining your core thesis. Or in other words you lost the exchange and are now abandoning the discussion to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:07 PM
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The main point of your post is that men don't socialize and that is the cause of the "male loneliness epidemic" and therefore it is okay to react with scorn/mockery to discussions of this topic. The man in your example is actively socializing and was able to find a romantic partner. Ergo your core stereotype is incorrect, again I read your post. Nothing in your example supports your core argument in fact it actually weakens what your trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:49 PM
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Your example doesn't support 90% of what you stated here. Did this man ever insist anything you've listed here? I'm struggling to see a connection. This man is socially active and still managed to outline the behavior you described. You ignored 80% of my argument to attempt to capitalize on a point you felt you could frame me in a negative light. I did read your post perhaps you should consider reading all of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:32 PM
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I'm sorry but my lived experience is just as valid as yours on this issue. Trying to discredit mine because I am a man is not a valid line of argumentation. As for your last point does that not disprove your stereotype that you outline in your initial post as he was successful enough with women to get a girlfriend? Further is he not engaging socially by being part of that DnD group, why does that not count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:49 PM
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I don't know of anyone who fits your description. It seems to me several rad fems have this idea of who lonely men are which does not actually map onto my lived experience. I run several DnD games so I interact regularly with lonely men and none that I've met behave as you describe. I've has to kick bigoted individuals from my tables in the past and none really match the idea of the incel rad fems seem to have. In fact the responses from rad fems included in this video ring especially condescend…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:31 PM
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A largely egalitarian democracy with oligarichal characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:24 PM
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If your title were correct would you not have already been banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:48 PM
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Have you tried changing your foreplay rather than the act. Do you have any fantasies? Do you masturbate, if so think about what gets you going when you do and go from there. It's always tricky but there must be something that even if it doesn't get you to climax you might find something at least pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:20 PM
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Ehh I think your kinda of underestimating how hard delaying an orgasm can be because if you mistime your thinking or think of something too distracting or repulsive you do run the risk of losing an erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:04 PM
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Have you tried experimenting to find something that works for you? Sex should not be a burden on any party in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:02 PM
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What you find attractive has nothing to do with how horny you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:49 PM
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Physically? No. The Behavior? Yes. Is that necessarily a deal breaker for me personally, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:06 PM
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Maybe, I don't know anything about her as a person though. She's not really my type but if she was genuinely into me and our personalities synched I'd consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:12 PM
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I believe this individual is advocating for a change in how some men approach the early steps of dating. Things like paying for expensive dates and investing significant time into things like planning and messaging to instead reserve that effort for only the most attractive women rather than any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:40 AM
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I'd throw the black pill in there as well unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:29 AM
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I've socialized with a lot of unattractive men in my time, most pro-trans but some anti-trans as well. I've never met one that assumed all trans women were into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:54 PM
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I'd like to disagree. I personally prefer plus sized women over what is considered traditionally attractive. I would like to date someone young but that is because I am young and would like to date someone roughly my own age. I struggle significantly and I like to think of myself as slightly below average as I am a little overweight myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:40 PM
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According to a non-insignificant portion of feminists absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:10 PM
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I don't disagree with you but clearly one of the sexes getting to experience it and the other not is building resentment among young adults which is not good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:44 PM
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I hope what I said here was helpful, I know a lot of what was posted here wasn't. I hope you find what your looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:38 AM
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Look I think its a little fair to assume your talking about yourself a little here. Look "The Wall" is a thing but not in the way a lot of people here conceptualize it. Starting later is always going to make things harder I'm not going to gaslight you into believing that it will be easy. The purpose of dating at its core is to find a life partner no one expects you to be able to find a life partner in one go, it does happen but its rare. This is might seem cliche or unhelpful but the only thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:34 PM
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Dude, what does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:44 AM
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That was posted by a mega poster on this sub with the flair "feminist woman entitled to your wallet." She's either being ironic or trolling. Read her post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:37 AM
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I think it really depends who you mean by the left. I think like 98% of democratic politicians are out of touch where as a certain subsect of upper middle class liberals. But I definitely think certain sections of the left are really tapped into things. I think as "cringe" as it might be to say the Chapo guys have generally a good feel for things same with Hasan. The problem is that the Democratic party seems to want to lean into the disconnect as much as possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 12:59 AM
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Bait used to be believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:09 PM
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Fascinating to watch someone essentially do the "I eat piles of shit like you for breakfast" joke from Happy Gilmore to themselves then try to act like they won the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:08 PM
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You've slept with more men than the number of men in the United States that are in dead bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:40 PM
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The number of men in dead bedroom relationships would seem to indicate that the original poster is correct based on your hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:02 PM
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Okay you very much do have more opportunities that isn't even remotely deniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:29 PM
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Then what point are you trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:19 PM
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Have you considered that men are simply far more willing to deviate from the ideal than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:17 PM
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The ideal is not the same thing as a requirement. My ideal partner could be any number of traits it doesn't mean I fully reject anyone who doesn't live up to that ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:10 PM
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This isn't 1975, none of that except maybe the point about single moms is still remotely required.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:04 PM
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I mean it could be but lots of things technically could be the law is intentionally incredibly grey and open to interpretation so as to allow flexibility where needed. I also know that charge of DV would NEVER stick based on that behavior alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:09 PM
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No worries regarding the spelling error I don't like this sub or subs like it. So I'll keep this explanation kind of brief and have little desire to argue with this. I think your kind of mixing up a few legal concepts here IIED is a tort. If your argument is that if you pair it with other behaviors, it can lead to a domestic violence charge isn't that true for basically all possible behavior. If I order pizza every Friday night, then beat my partner afterwards that does not mean that me buying p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:57 PM
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That does not remotely meet the definition of intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress. That requires outrageous conduct ignoring someone outside of extreme circumstances could never rise to that level. IIED claims are incredibly difficult to prove and are generally reserved for either direct threats or acts of violence committed on third persons in order to garner emotional distress out of the intended victim. Further the Supreme Court expressed in Snyder a desire to move away from IIED ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:30 PM
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I prefer plus sized women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:14 PM
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To your first point I could also argue that feminists tend to know more about antfeminist terror than antifeminists. It's not uncommon at all for one side to obsess over facts that make their opponents look bad or something. Waving the bloody shirt isn't an argument. Those groups play down misogyny but aren't saying misandry is worse. I don't believe Andrew tate, for example, even knows what it is. I do not care or support those groups and I think your overestimating their numbers and overall in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:17 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCUM_Mher manifesto's Wikipedia article. Do people believe that misandry is a bigger "deal" than misogyny? It seems like most complaints on the issue are that it's seen as more acceptable or not as bad as the later. I certainly don't believe it's a bigger deal but it definitely turns me off of feminism as a movement. I don't subscribe to any "pill" ideology. I'm broadly left wing politically but don't consider myself a feminist more of an egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:06 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas here's a link to the Wikipedia article on it very weird story that people have tried to whitewash strangely? I never denied what your claiming I just do not believe that misandry should be ignored or accepted in any space really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:43 PM
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She's a terf and is mad about terf subs being banned..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:37 PM
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Andy Warhol was nearly assassinated by a misandrist. Saying misandrist terror doesn't exist is intellectually dishonest. Is it as common as the other, no. Is it a "real thing", absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:30 PM
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