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It’s not “if [i] say so.” There’s solid proof. It’s a fact that they’re pushing that kind of content.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 04:41 AM
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That used to be the case, but now there’s overlap with those creators in the YouTube red pill space. They’ve moved on from only offering dating advice to also having guests talk: “politics”, 9/11 denial, antisemitism and alt-right. Red pill is being merged with tradcon.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 10:43 PM
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Yes, which is your choice. The implication here is that the man is ALWAYS the leader whether the woman “personally loves being with q more dominant and assertive man” or not. They want it to be the default and only accepted way. If that’s your preference and agreed upon by both partners then it wouldn’t be toxic.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 02:26 AM
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Just a point of contention here, but we did a poll and of the respondents this sub is majority male.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 02:19 AM
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Can you also make sure to include the facts that disprove all the absolute nonsense they spew? They constantly cherry pick and misuse data and I’ve yet to see anyone point out, “they that’s not what data says actually.”
/r/ExRedPill07/07/23 09:22 PM
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All of this! Not to mention the “guys lining up” in DMs/OLD have opening lines like: “Sit on my face” or “When can we fuck?” It’s so foul. The majority of messages are like that, too. I’d like to know who these lines are working on lol
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 04:15 PM
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I think the question is less do we care about them having a high body count and more are we impressed by them having a high body count (which is the argument red pill makes). No, im not impressed at all.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/23 04:21 PM
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Take it up with the dictionary not me
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 05:10 PM
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They are mixed because of the path to radicalization.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 04:55 PM
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They’re celibate. “Incel” as a term worked in the 90s before it was hijacked. I don’t disagree that it’s why they’re acting how they do, but it’s deeper and more dangerous than being invisible. There have always been people who exist who don’t have sex despite wanting to. The incel community takes it a step further to radicalization. If you get in early enough, sure, you can change things. But often by the time they show they’ve entered the incel community they’re pretty far in. More here.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:35 PM
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From the dictionary: “a member of a group of people on the internet who are unable to find sexual partners despite wanting them, and who express hate toward people whom they blame for this” And “a member of an online subculture of men who want to have sex but are unable to find sexual partners, typically blaming women or hating people who are sexually successful” You can read here how the shorthand morphed into a different definition than simply “involuntarily celibate” and why it’s important to…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:24 PM
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I would not classify people who feel not enough but maintain a healthy outlook as an incel.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:14 PM
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I don’t have any incel friends but even if I did I wouldn’t say “hey let me pair up my mentally healthy friend with someone with no self worth and a negative outlook on women.” Good on you for seeing commonalities between your two friends, I’m glad it worked out! I just don’t know that I believe in the incel-foster-program approach as a large scale solution
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:06 PM
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If that’s you in your picture I’m not sure why you think you’re unattractive because you’re not! You look nice and like a person who spends their free time contemplating the big questions of life. You aren’t ugly
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:03 PM
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I think it works as a comfort in the sense that it reinforces and confirms negative beliefs they hold about themselves and validates them.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 02:30 AM
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I think you can also assume that at least some of the views are the same people watching a few times — like how you might comfort watch a TV show over and over.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 08:19 PM
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I’m cracking up that OP thinks therapy is just “talking about feelings”
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 10:59 PM
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This!!!! His attitude is so foul I wouldn’t spend 10 minutes with him
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:47 PM
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Anyone with “coach” in their channel name that isn’t a sports channel is probably a scam artist
/r/ExRedPill12/06/23 04:46 PM
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I just want to be clear that’s not how it works in Muslim culture either! Men can have 4 wives. HOWEVER! If the first wife says no, he cannot marry again. If he does it without consent from the wife she can decide to leave because she was deceived. Of course it doesn’t always work like this because of the lack of women’s rights in certain places, but that’s how it’s supposed to work.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/23 04:40 PM
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Cool, thanks!
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 05:51 PM
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What’s the book called? I would love to check it out at the library
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 06:49 AM
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They’ve slept with 500 women bc they can’t get any to come back for seconds I guess lol
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 06:02 PM
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I ain't reading all that. I'm happy for you tho. Or sorry that happened
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 05:58 PM
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Aren’t in the same bracket at the time of the study. They could have met in college when socioeconomic status would be determined by their parents, or met on the job where they were similarly matched and the wife quit her job to be with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:45 PM
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If they have friends they are more than likely not sharing their red pill nonsense with them. The one thing about red pill is that they tell their listeners not to talk about their beliefs unless someone else brings them up first. They say that it’s because people “don’t know the truth” of red pill, but the reality is that they know they’re spewing BS and it will further alienate their content consumers from other people
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:39 PM
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HELL no lmfao
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:28 PM
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If someone feels secure and comfortable so they relax and take down their walls with you and then you withdrawal of course they’re going to express interest because they’ll wonder why you’re doing that and what they did wrong. Sometimes people aren’t “less interested” they’ve just stopped putting on an act or they’re stressed about other parts of their lives.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:27 PM
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They’ve been having a guest on who says that 9/11 was a plot by Israel and Jews run the world…. Clown ass freak and fraud gobble it up and so do their corny followers. This is not the result of or the solution to “male loneliness” or “empathy for the male mental health crisis” or whatever other BS reasons they and people who watch their content give as an excuse for consuming it
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 12:38 AM
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Might help you get the woman, won’t help you keep her
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 03:25 PM
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He should be embarrassed by his existence and personality.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 06:15 AM
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Insecurity is preyed upon and exploited. They feel comfort in having a community of similarly afflicted. The rest follows typical cult patterns
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 02:41 AM
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Omg oxygen thieves is such a cutting insult! I’m saving that one to use later. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:44 PM
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You mean freak and fraud? Cornball scammers
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:42 PM
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I always find it interesting that people find Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate to be “strong and masculine.” To me, they reek of insecurity and seem like they’re overcompensating to seem like something other than what they are. They seem so pathetic and small to me. To help with your insecurities and invasive thoughts get therapy. You should also try addressing the transactional ways you think about relationships and the way you feel the need to punish people (i.e. giving the cold shoulder) rathe…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 02:21 PM
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This! Health care is one of the few continually growing fields.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 09:09 PM
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When talking to other women we’ve all agreed that 90% of the time seeing “Entrepreneur” on a dating profile means he’s unemployed or equivalent. Obvi we’re exaggerating with the 90%, but aside from the hyperbole the point stands. So no, probably won’t help with dating. 9-5 = stable, predictable, reliable
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 09:07 PM
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This! I noticed that Freak and Fraud interviewed some 9/11 truther who said the entire thing was a plot by Israel. And the viewers were gobbling it up.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 03:16 PM
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I also want to remind everyone that in the grand scheme of things people like Andrew Tate and Fresh and Fit are nobodies. They’re unknown and will be forgotten. They’re fringe which is why they can get away with acting like they know some kind of big secret.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 02:20 AM
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Yeah. I mean fresh and fit are peddling 9/11 conspiracies on their pod.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 06:30 AM
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Yes!! I’m not a licensed therapist. Also when we say vulnerable we don’t mean “tell me every bad thing that happened to you as a child!” We mean shit like tell me when I’ve said something hurtful or feel free to tear up when something devastating happens on a movie… tell me one of your secret guilty pleasures… you get it.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 11:01 PM
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Thanks for the long winded explanation that completely missed the point! I know how therapy works. I also know about sliding scale offerings, which I see you conveniently left out. The point that you ran past so easily is that they’ll put all this work into maintaining a shitty grasp of their own emotional regulation but won’t put any actual work into healing their trauma beyond expecting their partners to be a dumping spot for their trauma and a personal therapist. “Who can afford therapy?” Man…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 10:59 PM
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They also do all this but refuse to go to therapy!!!
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:37 PM
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A lot of good answers here already but I want to add that they could be spinning a false narrative of what happened. Imagine: you’re having dinner with your partner, suddenly they trauma dump after years of repression. They immediately clam back up. A year later they do the exact thing they complained about happening to them. Their partner points it out. Suddenly they’re “weaponizing” what was told. Only… that’s not what’s happening. Their partner is pointing out a cycle of abuse or a hypocrisy.…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:34 PM
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I’ll add onto mommy issues: Abusive fathers that led their mothers to leave, but they blame the moms
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 01:28 AM
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And let’s not forget! Women “can’t” have babies after 35 but men can get women pregnant forever and ever and ever with no change in sperm quality!!! Except…. That’s not even true! But who cares about facts in red pill 🤪
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 01:58 PM
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If a man cheats it’s ok because “it’s just sex” but A man can’t just have sex because women “need emotional connections” so men need to Create emotional bonds with the other women but It’s just sex, and even though they’re dating it’s not real because They have to pretend to be in a relationship and create emotional bonds to get sex! But remember It’s just sex, so “cheating is different for men”
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 01:57 PM
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Because they’re hypocritical. They’re convinced they can do what they want with limited consequences and are not interested or concerned with living in a society. They see how people react to their disgusting behaviors and confuse revulsion and hatred with “respect” or “envy.” They’ve also decided that their messaging should be that “every man” wants to live that way, and if they say they don’t they’re “lying.” What they fail to realize is that grouping men into one stereotype of “sex crazed ani…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 05:55 AM
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It’s a sub where the dumbest of the dumb go to argue
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 10:51 PM
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Well duh, because wOmEn CaNt HaNdLe ThE tRuTh
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 03:23 AM
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“High value” for people who live in reality: Trustworthy, reliable, consistent, honest, stable, loyal
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 03:20 AM
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Can’t date anyone but can cheat with all of them…. Interesting “standards,” huh?
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 02:55 PM
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A tenth grade biology book
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 04:26 AM
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People like different things. I don’t find muscles or a height above 6 feet to be attractive at all. I also just don’t really find looks to be that important? Average is better to me. I’m more interested in a potential partner being personable, reliable and trustworthy. I guess one thing I really do care about is hygiene, especially dental health and cleanliness.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 02:41 AM
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“Dominant” is my nightmare
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:11 PM
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No
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 02:07 PM
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I ain’t reading all that I’m happy for you though or sorry that happened
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 01:34 PM
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Red pill “logic”: I am right, you are wrong, and even if I’m wrong I’m still right. also, all women are liars, whores and deserve nothing in life, also I make $9 an hour but one day I will be a millionaire and have a harem but I’m not focused on women I’m focused on myself but my only hobby is the sometimes going to the gym and watching YouTube
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 10:00 AM
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I’m not sure where playing dumb = rational arguments, but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:01 PM
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This sub has become people complaining about their own issues finding relationships; then refusing to treat women like humans or equals and then arguing when people try to give advice that could help alleviate some of the issues they’re having. It’s so corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:29 PM
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The Highly Sensitive Person; Brain Makeover; Living A Life in Balance; You, Happier
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 05:00 PM
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Sorry, you’re sleeping with women you aren’t attracted to? Not sure what to make of this. Please consider therapy.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 04:07 AM
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No, I see the clips. Maybe you should date him, seems like you’re riding his dick hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:55 PM
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He’s not. He’s having sex with multiple women. He’s not in a relationship and he even says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:25 PM
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Oh no 😩😩😩😩how will I go on without spending time with Myron, a mid-30s man who has never been in a relationship but for some reason finds himself qualified to speak on them 😩😩😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:45 PM
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I would rather die than spend 5 minutes with Myron. He’s vile, unintelligent, belligerent, annoying and unimpressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:23 AM
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Yeah I have a degree in statistics and the guys a moron about statistics. It’s unwatchable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:49 AM
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I would quite literally rather be shot than spend even 5 minutes with Fresh and Fit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:33 AM
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You’ve posted 4 times today. Consider condensing into one post in the future so we can have an ongoing convo on all the points instead of a disjointed one. Many of the things posted are related or entangled.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 08:41 PM
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“Blue pill” ?? Do you mean…. People living normal lives? Lmfao
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 06:17 PM
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If anyone feels their needs aren’t being met and they have not been able to work through it then they should leave. Doesn’t matter if they are a man or a woman. Deciding to “get your needs met” on the side while expecting your spouse to continue to shoulder the burden emotionally and financially while you have fun is sick, twisted and gross. And the majority of the time it never works out in that person’s favor and just causes more problems. It doesn’t have to be extreme. It could be a new medic…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 11:09 PM
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And if they said no? You’d do what?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 10:16 PM
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I draw the line at cheating being a shit cowardly thing, period. Divorce and “have your needs met,” then. Your partner isn’t some back up safe spot for your emotional needs while you secretly get your needs met somewhere else. If they agree “hey sure let’s open this up” that’s fine. Going behind their back like a little shitbag? Cowardly and pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 09:25 PM
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One party doesn’t get to single-handedly decide to open a marriage? I’m not sure how this is being suggested as equivalent to divorce. And where do you draw the line at this? Your wife can’t have sex for 6-12 weeks after having a baby. Your needs aren’t being met, so cheat? Your husband has cancer. Your needs aren’t being met. Cheat? Your husband has extra hours at work and comes home exhausted, needs not being met. Cheat? Like…. Morals are where exactly in this scenario? It’s been one week with…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 09:10 PM
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This is fucked. Jesus.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 06:06 PM
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LOINS???? Hahahahahahahahaha
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 06:19 PM
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Your evidence is…. A woman on a tv show, acting? Hahahahahahahahaha
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 03:54 PM
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He literally fucked over his followers at one of his little “hustlers university” meet ups lol there are screenshots of it all happening because he and his cornball brother decided the attendees “embarrassed” them.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 06:48 PM
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They’ve banned them and they just come back repackaged. Fresh and Fit were removed and all getting removed did was give them a bigger audience when they rejoined. Then they got on rumble and that gives a direct connection to far right nonsense. The red pill movement is essentially a hydra at the moment. Cut off one head spawn 10 more.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 10:26 PM
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This documentary was so wild! I watched it the day it came out totally blind about what I was going to see. I was in shock. I really enjoyed the last episode where you get to see the current member(s) and how they were still brainwashed. Just so so wild and it shows how even “smart” people can get dragged into nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 10:23 PM
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Awesome!
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 08:24 PM
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Sane people aren’t going around talking about living by “pills.” That’s my thoughts on it.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 05:50 PM
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Do you not see the word “majority”?
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 04:24 PM
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Also: a reminder that the majority of these red pill creators are single and have not had long term relationships. Wonder why Lmfao. Also, the only “proof” they have of them having many women is… them saying it.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 07:01 AM
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Other places you can find that info: - books from the library (free) - Help Me Be Me (podcast, free) - A bowling league (build positive male friendships) - Karate - Wilderness/outdoors clubs - School sports and clubs
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 06:59 AM
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Positive approach: talking to me as a normal person about a shared interest or making a light hearted observation or approached by a friend of a friend in a low pressure setting. Understands if I say I’m not interested and moves along Negative approach: approached, groped, grabbed or followed in a bar. Immediately demands to buy me a drink, refuses to accept a no, lingers next to group for the remainder of the night or circles us like a bloodthirsty shark, repeatedly approaching all night The ne…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 07:13 PM
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You asked in your post specifically about marriage options. You can start with this. Beyond that I’m not doing basic internet searches for you
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 08:59 PM
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My close friends careers: - graphic designer - social media - consulting - therapist - professor - advertising - chef - baker - events management - teacher My close friends who are not in liberal arts but also make 90k+: - manager of a McDonald’s, no degree - engineer (degree was in English lol) - accountant (masters in accounting) - doctor (undergrad degree in biochem) - small business owner/entrepreneur (she owns her own makeup brand and store, no degree) - factory worker, has been there since…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 03:50 PM
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And the thousands of studies disproving this are what, lying?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 03:43 PM
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Ok! I have no female friends making under 90k and all of my close friends are in liberal arts fields. But go off.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 05:29 AM
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Neither myself or any of my female friends were interested or have ever been interested in older men. At 22 I thought men who were over 30 and hitting on us were foul creeps who couldn’t get women their own age so they looked for people who were younger and easier to manipulate. At 28 I find men 35 and older doing that the same.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 05:28 AM
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Their argument then is that men automatically take the wife's side or if he disagrees he's a beta simp.... you can't beat a moving goal post!
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 11:48 PM
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Wait until they find out about project managers
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 10:24 PM
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I am also a creative!
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 08:25 PM
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Red pill loves to classify men as if they’re beef or ice cream! “Super Premium!! 80% butterfat!” “Grade A 93/7!”
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 07:05 PM
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Less options but those options know what they want and are less immature imo.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 07:03 PM
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I engage until it is no longer serving the thread. Once they start negging or cherry-picking data or being purposely obtuse or hit me with “facts over feelings 🤪🤪🤪🤪” while not sharing a fact…. I’m out.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:55 PM
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Yes and no! Complicated beast to tackle. Treating it like a cult is the only way to approach it and free people from it. And sites like Reddit and YouTube and any site that uses algorithms (TikTok, etc) are hugely responsible for the growth.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:53 PM
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At my first job after graduating I made $8.50 an hour, second $45k, got promoted to $50k (I qualified for SNAP, low income housing and a tax credit because of the city I lived in). Then i interviewed for another job and bounced up to $80k, worked there for almost a year and got laid off because of Covid, went freelance and made $17k that summer, got a new job in a new state and went back down to $65k, got promoted to lead a department and got $88k, we got cost of living increase of about 4% whic…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:50 PM
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My salary is public info. I also make more on top of that too. I rover sit and use that money for investment, work as a mentor for a non-profit which pays me $500 per mentee and do consulting. So actually yeah I lied, I make more than $100k.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:43 PM
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I’m a writer
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:41 PM
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My career is writing…. So yeah, that’s liberal arts.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:40 PM
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It makes them into cold, selfish and uncaring people. Every red pill person I’ve interacted with is so inhuman in behavior that they are vile to be around. To know that someone can think about everything as a game and a competition… it’s definitely narcissistic and unethical and it feels slimy being around or associated with them.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:39 PM
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They changed their mind. It happens. Sucks. Tinder sucks.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:23 AM
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During 2015–2018, 13.2% of adults aged 18 and over used antidepressant medications in the past 30 days. Use was higher among women (17.7%) than men (8.4%).
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:21 AM
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“HSV-2 infection is more common in women (approximately 1 out of 5 women) than in men (almost 1 out of 9). This may be because male-to-female transmission is easier than female-to-male transmission”
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:20 AM
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My degree is in liberal arts and I make 100k…. Seems useless I guess LMFAO
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:15 AM
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“Harem” “Main bitch” and anything in that realm. Also “high value man” when they mean high income
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 10:08 PM
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On another clip he was saying how no matter what he’ll be able to have 4 wives. That’s not how it works. He wouldn’t get to decide that, his first wife would decide that and if she said no…. It’s a NO lmao
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 10:04 PM
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I hate Myron. He’s always spouting shit about Islam and his right as a man and it isn’t even true. The only people following how he’s defining Islam are literally ISIS.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 07:25 AM
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25 is generous, more like 20 LOL
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 07:15 AM
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Grifters gonna grift
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 07:14 AM
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These are the same guys who say that if a woman is abused or if a man isn’t showing up or if he walks away from his family it is because she “picked wrong.” They have worms for brains logic.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 06:52 AM
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There is, people just don’t want to accept anything other than what they think they “deserve”
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 03:50 PM
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You’re so strong wtf this must have been so hard for both of you. I hope you had a strong support system and therapy during this process.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 06:00 AM
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I block any man that I don’t know who messages me or sends me a follow request, so tread lightly. I’d be more worried about the instant block than being boring. What if you start with “hey” and something you found interesting about them (not physical) “hey! I noticed we liked the same musical artists. Have you ever seen name of band live? I just saw them/am saving up to see them/hope to see them. Are there any other similar bands you like? I’m always looking for new music.”
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 12:55 AM
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Yes it is saying that money is just as important for men as women. People who are looking for longterm, lasting relationships recognize the value in stability and financial security. I’m not sure why red pill people spend so much time worrying about the top 20% when they aren’t in it. Worry about yourself and what you can achieve, not some pipe dream. Hardly anyone becomes a millionaire. Why waste years obsessing over what you don’t have? It’s goofy. On the age point: why do you “need” tons of w…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 07:49 AM
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There’s tons of data to disprove all of this. You are experiencing confirmation bias. For example: It’s true that many couples have a financial gap. But it’s also been shown that a gap of more than $36,000 can be detrimental to a relationship. And let’s not forget that the majority of Americans make less than $45k. And desire for a financially stable partner is nearly equal for both men and women. The “80/20” theory where all the rich guys are getting the “attractive women” was also a misreprese…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 12:16 AM
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Sounds like a grifter with shit friends
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 11:29 PM
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If that’s your “observable reality” …. Respectfully you need to surround yourself with better people.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 11:24 PM
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Some of them believe it. Some of them are dating men who believe it so they adjust to that as the default or to justify being with a man who believes it. Or just to make him happy and keep their relationship stable.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 10:45 PM
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nervous laughter what the fuck😀
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:15 AM
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I agree with you! I meant more like these red pill clowns would think he is “feminine.” He’s not to me. What makes him masculine to me is the respect and care he shows for my mom, myself and my siblings. Everything else he does is a bonus.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 06:02 AM
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I’m 90% sure my dad would be considered a “feminine man.” He’s also the best man I know. Things my dad is or does (which shaped what I consider masculine): - he can fix or build anything, and if he doesn’t know how he will teach himself - a true partner to my mom. No one “leads” in my parents relationship. They are equal in everything - makes us feel happy when we are sad - pushes his kids to be better and to be kind - sacrifices to make sure his family is safe, happy, secure - he’s a big softy!…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:49 PM
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My thing is, how do the people watching these fools not realize that there’s only three things happening to these gurus. They have been married for 20+ years. Clearly they practice none of what they preach They have never been in a long term relationship and have to LIE to women to get them to give them affection or sex They have to pay women to be with them (Andrew Tate)
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 06:59 PM
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The world of warcraft incel feels entitled to date someone who brings everything to table while bringing nothing to table and complaining women dont see him for his true good. Reminds me of: "feminism is a cancer" he typed, vaping and chugging mountain dew "it's killing us men." The microwave dinged, his taquitos were ready
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 06:57 PM
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I would say this is how most people live lol
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 06:18 AM
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I think it’s less about being a specific type of person and more about being considerate and well rounded and tailoring to your specific partner. It’s also about being flexible, empathetic and willing to change/grow/adjust. This goes for both partners! It’s also not always 50/50, sometimes one person will give 80 while the other gives 20. Other times it will be opposite. Successful couples navigate through seasons together
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 09:46 PM
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It’s to the point now where these red pill zombies will find a woman who doesn’t cheat and is a virgin and all these things they claim they want, they’ll lie about who they are and STILL traumatize her using red pill tactics. All while cheating on her….. then when caught/exposed or broken up with they’ll say its her own fault and “all women are the same.” It’s not ethical or sane and that they can warp it into being fine is actually scary to me.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 07:15 PM
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They’ll literally go “cccHhhhhh” when you start talking, like they’re shushing a barking dog lmfao
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 04:34 PM
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You’re probably not going to change his mind. So I’d just say “Hey man, I don’t watch that stuff anymore. It was making me feel [however], so I started spending time doing [activity] and feel a lot better/My priorities have shifted and now I’m into [whatever]. “ then invite them to do something else. You might be able to pull him out that way. Unfortunately it may also mean the end of your friendship.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 10:30 PM
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I am saying from the female perspective when approached by someone who is only focused on doing whatever they can to get laid you can tell when he’s been hitting on women all night and for weeks just trying to get anyone to bite. He can’t talk about anything other than your looks or his “value.” There is no real conversation at all. He has no other interests and is only going on and on about what he wants. You can feel the desperation. This guy doesn’t go away when you say you’re not interested,…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:16 PM
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You are being intentionally dense. I’m not talking about being “upfront.” I’m talking about being so obsessed with dating that you have no other parts of your personality to share.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:03 PM
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I think it’s also that they’re constantly trying to force a relationship. If your only interest is getting laid or getting a relationship you can kind of tell (from the female perspective). I know it sucks to hear the same advice over and over but trying to force it is not the answer. I hated hearing “it will happen when you least expect it!” But it’s true unfortunately lol ugh
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 03:04 AM
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Which is insane because…. Have they been to a Walmart? Seen a nascar race? I’ve seen some unconventional people in relationships. I think the problem is even deeper than that. They know they could date, they just want an IG model and won’t go for anything else.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:38 AM
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They’ve been investigating for months and trying to arrest him and he was literally in hiding and denying he was in Romania. They needed proof he was there to arrest him. Charges are sex trafficking, rape and something else I can’t remember
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:33 AM
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Different from “reality”? I lived it! It was real! How is that not “reality”??? I HAD APPROACHED. My body was good, my personality was good. Doesn’t matter, once I got a date I was in a 4 year relationship.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:29 AM
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I’ve never said they don’t feel desire or wouldn’t feel that naturally. I said that the VALUE they are expected to bring in society is tied to that. The OBLIGATION they feel to conceal emotions comes from socialization. People telling men that they can’t be soft or show weakness has caused loneliness.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:25 AM
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Again, I couldn’t even get a DATE. I don’t know why your first instinct is to tell me “no, you’re wrong. What you experienced is wrong, it’s not what fits what I believe, it’s wrong. You could get 100 men, you’re wrong.”
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:22 AM
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This is scientifically not true, I’m sorry. They’ve studied this and I just told you. You might only “see” her body, but you can also see body language and how a person carries themselves or interacts with others and while you might think “oh, it’s because her body is to my liking!” your brain may actually be responding to something different. In the moment you don’t differentiate because it’s not the job of your conscious to do so. Your idea that men are testosterone only beasts incapable of de…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:20 AM
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Do you think women don’t feel desire?? I don’t understand what you’re trying to say. It is about socialization. If you’re lead to believe your only value is through being tough, having sex and providing you’re going to only see value in trying to do that.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:16 AM
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You’re giving bad faith arguments the benefit of the doubt. His argument was literally that I could get hundreds of men no matter what I looked like. This is not what happened. I am “decent enough on the looks scale” and still was not approached by ANYONE much less hundreds of men.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:10 AM
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You would think but actually no! It’s a combination of 3 different brain processes that don’t work in any particular order. So sometimes it could be lust (testosterone), other times dopamine and then the third option is oxytocin. It depends on your history with the person, what is attracting you to them (you could think oh, it’s their looks! But it might be personality). You could develop an attachment to their sense of personhood that causes you to eventually develop those feelings of lust. The…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:08 AM
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Happy holidays to all celebrating today. I’d also like everyone to know that him getting caught because of a PIZZA BOX is literally a storyline on 30 Rock lol
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 01:12 AM
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Yes!! Those videos drive me nuts because I find wrapping our value (male or female) around looks is a bad idea. We all age, we could have a horrific accident, we could develop a permanent skin condition. Any of those things. Beauty is a bad measure of value. Or when women will list qualities about themselves that make them attractive that aren’t physical (I have a good job, I make good money, I enjoy learning, I’m smart, I’m funny) and Fresh and Fit will cut them off and tell them men don’t care…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:27 AM
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Wow! I can see how it can happen. It’s so addicting to watch. I can also see how the things the YouTubers say about women would hurt you long term. They really do portray women as heartless monsters using all men. Did it impact your self esteem or how you felt about how you look? Especially since they have a particular kind of woman in mind for what women should strive for (essentially an Instagram model). Ah, men’s lib. Sometimes I get along with them, lately we’ve been tussling lol
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:05 AM
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What are you trying to say???? You’re not saying anything. You’re saying they’re sad because they can’t connect with women. Fine. I say here’s some things they could do. You call that bs. Fine. Then you say they shouldn’t go to therapy because they’re paying for dating advice. Fine. It’s not what therapy is, but fine. If they’re not supposed to find value in themselves or build confidence or heal trauma… then what??? They get an IT certification and do what with it?? They’re still not getting la…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:02 AM
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Look I want to help and try to provide feedback but everything I say is met with a defeatist attitude and some kind of rant about how it can’t possibly be true and it really drags and makes these interactions seem like you don’t want any feedback or suggestions at all, but just want to argue. I’d recommend you a book but I don’t want to cause any harm or give you any suicidal ideation. Please keep trying to find value in yourself and don’t give up on being appreciated for the things you like and…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:59 PM
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You’re not paying someone for dating advice. Therapy is not for becoming a better dater. What are you even saying???? No one is entitled to sex or a relationship. I’m sorry people are trying and being rejected. It sucks. But no one is ENTITLED to the body of another person.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:54 PM
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I’m glad you know my entire personal backstory and know that I couldn’t POSSIBLY under any circumstances empathize or understand what they’re going through. I’ve already seen that video. There are therapists who are men specializing in men’s issues. See one of them. Talk to a positive male figure in your life. Build friendships that aren’t based on sex.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:43 PM
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I think oddly the thing that makes it implode is the friendship. People separate them in their minds. “I’m dating/having sex with this person, and these people are my friend group” it’s easy to bring someone in from the outside and then discard them without the whole group imploding. I think when you are younger (not sure your age) the friend to fwb situation can work because often there are subgroups within the friend group. As you get older and the groups shrink it’s going to be harder. I reme…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:39 PM
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Damn! I’m so sad you hated being a woman. Can you say more about that? Or have you written about it on here and I can go read?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:32 PM
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I get it! I hate it for them. Patriarchy hurts men. I want them to have the space to feel valuable because they exist and have feelings. I know it will likely not happen in my lifetime but I would love to see an egalitarian society. I’m tired of this version lol
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:31 PM
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Now that they’re all lined up we will now kiss them on their foreheads one at a time as a little treat.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:23 PM
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Ok I read it and your comment helps. I would say no it doesn’t work most times and in the event that you try it and fail you lose your friend and everyone you are connected to through them because they will without a doubt tell everyone what happened. I think if it happens naturally it /could/ work, but again if it blows up in your face same results. Seems like a high risk low reward situation. I’ve got a few friend groups and no one has had success with the FWB situation. Just implodes the whol…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:22 PM
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Well, according to some guy in here the other day I’m being approached by HUNDREDS OF MEN AT ALL TIMES!!!!! so me being single until age 24 was a personal choice in my control lmfao
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:19 PM
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The advice is to be in control of your emotions, have emotional intelligence and be empathetic. And to feel comfortable in yourself and your life. Not sure how that’s “bs” but stay miserable I guess.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:16 PM
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I guess I’m not understanding what this thread is about then because it seems like you’re asking if you want to hook up is it better to set up the idea of being friends with the end goal of having sex…. Which is manipulation. Can you rephrase the question at all?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:14 PM
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I’ll add respecting the relationship as a whole. You are not seeking outside validation or straying from your relationship and the set boundaries. You are not keeping secrets that would harm your partner or the relationship or even putting yourself in a position to harm the relationship. You consider your partners feelings in decisions, not just your own.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:11 PM
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Red pill “strategy” is quite literally emotional mind games, manipulation and abuse packaged as a good idea. If you want to end up alone, sure, follow red pill. Good luck. People want to date partners with integrity, empathy, emotional intelligence and ethics. No one is telling you to “jump through hoops.” It’s not going to work out with everyone you try to date. That’s reality. You’re trying to twist everything I say into some attack on men when I’ve done none of that. No one is “jacking off in…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:06 PM
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If you have to use red pill strategies (read: manipulation) to get people to have sex with you then you need to re-evaluate and reset. Tricking people into having sex with you is not a flex and red pill technique is mental and emotional abuse and exploitation. I think framing this as “safety” and “orgasm gap” is just answers people give because they’re asked “are you saying no because it feels unsafe?” Because that’s how you collect data. In reality, I believe many women are saying no because th…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:58 PM
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No one deserves to be abused. If your friend is being abused you should share with them what you’ve noticed and ask if they need your help. If your friend is the one doing the abusing you should call them out and support their partner by letting them know you’ve noticed how they’re being treated and you’d like to help. You should also encourage your abusive friend to talk to someone about their tendencies and distance yourself from them until they do the work — many of them will not do the work.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:53 PM
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Agreed. Leads to self doubt and insecurity which just makes the feelings of isolation worse. If you can’t love or appreciate yourself you won’t be able to attract anyone else — friends or otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:46 PM
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That’s not even a good comparison. How did “look inward and work on yourself/adjust your method” equal telling a homeless person to just get a house? It doesn’t. If they’re not doing anything wrong then what is the reason that they’re not having any success?? If you approach everything as transactional and only try to build relationships around sexual desire, or try to force a friendship with the idea that it will eventually lead to sexual relationships you are setting yourself up for failure. N…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:44 PM
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I wonder how many times following lust goes successfully for anyone… I’m guessing not a lot lol
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:32 PM
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I did not “allude” to it. You put something there that wasn’t. And those people should look inward. If they’re being rejected by everyone they try to approach, there is either something not working about their approach or something about them that is unsavory. Or, they’re doing everything based off of looks and not really trying to get to know people to find the right match. Obsession with relationships is also part of the problem. There’s more focus on getting the relationship than there is on …
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:15 PM
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Where did I say every woman was an angel??? Nowhere. I said that I don’t associate with anyone who doesn’t think that men have problems too. I choose to associate with men and women who are empathetic and don’t view the gender opposite of theirs as some kind of opposing force that we need to battle for dominance. I would also say the majority of people are more interested in a society that allows men to speak about their problems than a red pill style society.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:45 PM
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It was not set up by evolution. That’s a theory peddled by Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist. He’s expanding on the idea of Ivana Milojevic who argued that patriarchy set men up as the role of “violence object” directly opposite of woman as the “sex object.” The Milojevic theory is that this benefits no one, but it has been twisted into “this is how little people value men.” All of this is tied back to an anthropologist who wrote about it in the 70s. She was using it to study genealogy and d…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:42 PM
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Look, I went back and forth with you the other day and got nowhere. I don’t know how you think women should be treating men, but none of the women I spend time with are cruel or dismissive of men. They do have boundaries, but neither I nor them are in any way destructive or dismissive of men. Obviously we don’t tolerate harassment or unwanted sexual advances, but that doesn’t make us “hate men.” Men are in a mental health crisis and have been socialized to believe their value is only in being a …
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:21 PM
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You and me are of the same brain here. I find it confusing that the argument is that they love women. Is it love or is it obsession and entitlement? I’d say the latter.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:14 PM
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Elaborate please, I’m interested in hearing more about what you’re thinking here!
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 08:53 PM
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I’ve noticed you giving the advice! It’s always good advice. At this point I think most of them are self sabotaging, either consciously or unconsciously, and it just makes things worse for them and it allows them to stay in that mindset. It’s so hard to watch.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:40 PM
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As a woman I get frustrated that when I tell them how I, A WOMAN, actually feel they tell me no women feels that way. Do red pill people even like women at this point? It’s frustrating.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:38 PM
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Ok. Stay vile and unpleasant. Seems to be working great for you.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 05:36 PM
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It was not by my own choice lol
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 04:59 PM
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I’m a woman and my first date was at 24.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 07:26 AM
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I agree. There’s a fine line between being with someone who is low income or down on their luck and being with a broke ass partner. A broke ass person is going to drag you down, destroy your credit and drain you of any assets you do have.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 10:39 PM
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LOL plz not MLMs 😭😭😭 Cutco salesmen 💀 I was thinking more along the lines of “promising businesses” like my uncle has tried. To name a few: laser engraving, YouTube hunting channel and merch line, egg and chicken business, a farm with a CSA program, dog boarding business in the barn, IT company, photography company, woodwork custom orders company…….. there are more but I forget. Point being, the man is always quitting his jobs to try some idea that he just knows is going to take off. Meanwhile, …
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 10:30 PM
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I don’t think it’s the loss of job, it’s the transition into becoming a caretaker for a grown man who often doesn’t step up in other ways while unemployed. Being the sole provider for two adults is not easy. It’s easy to get pissed off when you’re working and your partner is seemingly messing around rather than finding a way to contribute. It’s also a pain in the ass when you want to do things but your partner never has any money to pay their own way. Obviously in an LTR you’ll often pay for one…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 09:26 PM
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Try not to get discouraged. Trust me when I say things are so bad for everyone in the dating world. I joined a Facebook group where women can post if they’re being cheated on or think they are and some of the scenarios in the group are just… unbelievable. A woman found out her husband was married to TWO OTHER WOMEN while also dating 3 more and having sex with men. It’s just — there are a lot of selfish people out there and a lack of integrity or ethics. It’s hard to figure out who is actually go…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 06:28 AM
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Hmm do you feel this is because of your hobbies? I’m also not saying to date your friends, but being around women will help you better understand how we think and will help you loosen up around new people. I hate the dumb cliche that “it will happen when you least expect it!” But that’s how it was for me. I just started putting myself out there and attending concerts alone, trying new hobbies and talking to men who seemed interesting about their interests, but not their looks or anything like th…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 05:37 AM
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Word. Tough age. I didn’t date anyone until I was 24 myself and honestly looking back everyone was kind of unreliable and inconsistent at 24. It was really frustrating for me because I was a more reserved person like yourself. Do you have a consistent friend group that is a good blend of men and women?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 05:23 AM
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How old are you? Age can help us better understand how to help.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 05:20 AM
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It’s also because they come across as angry or bitter or insecure in every interaction and that so gross and red flag. They think acting “macho” makes them sexy but it reeks of insecurity.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 04:28 AM
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No one here is going to help you cheat on your girlfriend. Get some integrity.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 12:44 AM
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I just looked up “maintaining frame” and I think I’m bleeding from the ears now…. Maintaining frame is at its core based on abusive, reactive behavior. You are upholding abusive behaviors as your baseline for a relationship. It will never work until you stop yourself from doing that. Vulnerability is an important part of any relationship.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 08:40 PM
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You are showing signs of OCD. I have it and it can be manageable and okay. I would tell your therapist about your obsessions and how they are disrupting your life and get referred to a psychiatrist for more help. Some other suggestions: - Try DBT and CBT therapy - You may also want to try EMDR therapy - If you do drugs recreationally or drink heavily I would stop. This can make things in the obsession space worse - You need to talk with your therapist about how you were forcing yourself to have …
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 10:02 PM
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Are you being held captive? Held against your will? Tied up? Need a secret code to leave?? Your self esteem seems like it has taken a hit as a result of this relationship, or maybe you didn’t have any to begin with? I’d suggest leaving the relationship and getting therapy. No one expects you to tolerate this? If you’re being hit you’re being abused. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with her having trauma. That’s human. The bigger issue is that there’s no growth or forward movement there and …
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 10:28 PM
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People care because it’s the decent thing to do and they have empathy. And they care about your well-being because they care about you.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 01:55 AM
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Yeah that’s the basis of friendship and your girlfriend is a friend. However, your partner cannot shoulder your entire emotional baggage alone and should be supplemented with friends, family and therapy.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 01:54 AM
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Yes! I have a dual degree in statistics and gender studies and one of my courses was on consent. Basically any situation that has alcohol attached to it (especially large amounts) is not a smart place to introduce a sexual aspect to a relationship. It just isn’t. It’s sticky for everyone involved. You should be making these choices while you are of sound mind.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 07:50 PM
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No one said that’s not true, but that’s not what we’re talking about here.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 03:20 AM
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Well, I don’t know what to tell you. It’s a choice you have to wake up and make every day. I will say they’ve done studies and men in monogamous relationships have the highest rate of long-lasting happiness. So, there’s that. I think “the chase” is fleeting and likely won’t be fulfilling in the long run. Here’s some things to consider: https://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/men-happiest-as-serial-monogamists-says-study/5NEEJNJQJQAMKAKAVZAUJAUK5I/ https://www.vice.com/amp/en/article/9k5q3d/open-relatio…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 11:31 PM
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Agree. Honestly it all seems like stuff that would impress another man, not a woman.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 10:42 PM
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Make sure she makes it home okay. Make sure she’s drinking water too. Try to get her to eat and take things slow. I probably wouldn’t have sex while she’s “hammered” because it’s not gonna be as great as you might think. Relax and be yourself! She clearly already likes you. No need to put on an act. Have fun!
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 07:41 PM
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It is funny because I find that so unbelievably unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 05:38 PM
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Oh yeah I totally agree. We are all addicted to dopamine now. I was reading about how we are training ourselves to never experience boredom and why it’s bad for our brain functionality and mental health. Started taking phone breaks after reading that. The book is called Dopamine Nation but here’s an article summarizing it.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 05:21 PM
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So I have the controversial opinion that while many stumble upon red pill in a time of loneliness, many stay because it gives them “validity” around shitty things that they do and absolves them of moral behavior. I think “be willing to walk away” falls into the mental abuse/lying/cheating that is not only downplayed but also encouraged by red pill. I think people like it because it makes them feel cool and desired and they are able to say things like “it’s not shitty, it’s BIOLOGICALLY CORRECT. …
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 05:12 PM
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My follow up question is why do you feel that women have to be “soft and nurturing” and how do you feel that men are supposed to be?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 06:34 PM
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You can see a psychiatrist to be diagnosed and not to take medicine. If you’re diagnosed you can find a therapist to better suit your needs.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 03:46 PM
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Can you say more? What have you tried, what do you feel are your biggest obstacles to deprogramming? What do you need the most assistance working through?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 02:39 AM
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LMK if you need more! I’ve got plenty lol
/r/ExRedPill21/11/22 08:42 PM
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Damn! This is so messed up. I’m sorry this happened to you. Have you gone to therapy about this? It’s so sad that people would rather “own” someone for views than think about the domino effect they are causing. It’s unethical and sick.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/22 07:19 PM
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Hey Naus! We always seem to be on the same threads and I just wanna comment what we’re always commenting! If only red pill people would take an ethics course! They could learn all of this without becoming cynical, abusive Manichaean thinkers.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/22 07:14 PM
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When you can recognize that we have consciousness and aren’t mindless animals who are only capable of decisions driven by (a misunderstanding of) biology.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/22 07:11 PM
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Dudes a hack who became irrelevant and re-invented himself to make money. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/03/05/jordan-petersons-gospel-of-masculinity https://www.vice.com/amp/en/article/evqekn/the-fundamental-errors-of-jordan-peterson https://www.vox.com/platform/amp/world/2018/3/26/17144166/jordan-peterson-12-rules-for-life https://youtu.be/yIh2wQkCqoI https://jacobin.com/2020/04/jordan-peterson-capitalism-postmodernism-ideology https://medium.com/the-abs-tract-organization/the-detract…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/22 07:10 PM
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Don’t even bother trying to use actual logic, facts or data with this commented, I spent hours doing it yesterday and it’s just “but, but, females!!!!” And constantly moving goal posts.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 07:21 PM
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Again, not true. Online dating is not “most.” In fact, it’s just 12%. “A small share of Americans say they have been in a committed relationship with or married someone they met through a dating site or app. About one-in-ten U.S. adults say this (12%)” The highest is ages 18-29, and they’re only at 17%. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/02/06/10-facts-about-americans-and-online-dating/
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 05:44 AM
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Ok, I guess it’s allllll women and allllll men then. Got it
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 05:38 AM
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It goes both ways. You act like some men aren’t being shitty and doing covert shit via social media too. Here’s the thing: I don’t think all men are like that. And I know for sure all women aren’t like what you’re describing. Laying down and being like “well shit, that’s how it is, oh man nothing we could do” is defeatist and sad and I won’t do it. There are far more good people than bad and I won’t sit by and let us shift to internet culture BS just because a minority of people are fucking arou…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 05:32 AM
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Well according to Fresh and Fit that’s what ALL men actually want. “variety and a lot of women. To fuck them, forget them and move onto the next one. So,,, enjoy I guess. Never mind that it is statistically proven to be detrimental to male mental health, the family unit and society as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 05:24 AM
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Dude you’re literally cherry picking data to paint a story and then using a personal anecdote to try to reinforce it. I’m not even going to acknowledge your “ghetto” dog whistle. The rest is hilarious. Women are more likely to file for divorce, yes, but that doesn’t make women cold hearted bitches who file for divorce because their husband makes less money. You aren’t in their marriage, you don’t know what happened. You’ve just decided it must simply be because she wanted more money. It couldn’t…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 05:12 AM
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Sounds like you’re picking shitty partners. And no, that’s literally that “data” you were preaching. When men make less than their partner they are more likely to cheat. https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2010/08/16/129229205/men-who-make-less-more-likely-to-cheat
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 04:57 AM
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Look, you can have this defeatist take if it makes you feel better. But let’s not act like men don’t have the same behavior. You all act like you’re falling down to date a woman who in reality you wouldn’t give the time of day….. until no one else gives you the time of day. What kind of shit is “no man will ever love another girl like he loved his first girlfriend 🫶🏻” or having to hear some shit about how men will leave their girlfriend if they gain even 10lbs or, hilariously, how if a woman get…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 04:27 AM
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“Women admit it” yeah. Instagram models and above average women who are show ponied onto these podcasts to prove a point. How about they talk to some AVERAGE every day women and see what they find out. But that wouldn’t fit the narrative would it?
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 04:13 AM
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The fact of the matter is red pill is teaching men to use “female selection” — which is complex and depends on if you consider evolutionary biology to be a true science (it is, but don’t get me started) — as an excuse to abuse and mistreat women. I don’t disagree that social media is a problem. But social media isn’t reality. That’s the real problem. We’re being taught our value is tied to social media and that it mirrors real life. Not even close. Women are capable of forming thought and resist…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 03:38 AM
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Let’s play a fun game called “data”! Since you’re a big data person I think you’ll really like it! How tall is the average married man? “On average, men were 5ft 10in tall” Awww, guess it’s not the 6 foot alpha chad! As it turns out, short men are more likely to marry later and less likely to divorce. Imagine that. How much does the average married man make? The married man makes 86k on average. The single man makes $41k on average. Guess you don’t need to make 100k to get a woman! Huh! So weird…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 03:24 AM
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Also please get him to go to a male therapist. Speaking from experience of trying to help someone leave red pill…. They’ll make progress and then fall back into it again in a vicious cycle and suddenly they’ll stop going to therapy and blame it on the therapist being a woman. Just be prepared for migraines and frustration as you go forward. You can DM me in the future if you need someone to talk to about it.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 10:59 PM
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This is a good point! Do a full test for OCD, ADHD, Bipolar Depression and also anxiety disorders. Many of these have similar symptoms.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 10:33 PM
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Not even just touch, roll around on it for full exposure lol
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 10:31 PM
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Red pill conflates “logical thinking” with “rational thinking” while hilariously doing neither.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 10:18 PM
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It all makes sense and I feel for you. I don’t want to be stern or seem like I’m against you, I just want you to put yourself first in this situation and not let your empathy allow you to be taken advantage of. Red Pill is a cult and it’s hard to get people out of a cult, even if they’re only a little bit in. Check out the podcast “Rabbit Hole” it gets into how people get dragged into cult thinking via the internet and how hard it is to get them back out.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah, he’s “open” to it. Unfortunately that can also be a red pill tactic. They are literally told not to let people know what they believe because they’ll be judged and “misunderstood.” One of the catchphrases they use is “women can’t handle the truth.” So, how can you be sure what you’re being told is the way he actually feels? You can’t. Encourage him to get therapy and then step away. It hurts to see someone you care about hurting themselves, but the only person that can change him is himsel…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 09:07 PM
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Go outside and make friends. Connect with your family. Find a hobby you feel fulfilled by.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 09:02 PM
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I’m sorry, I don’t want to be rude but I want you to read all the things you just said and then explain to me why you “love” this person. Anti-LGBT government conspiracy theorist believes men are superior to women thinks you are a “man hating feminist extremist” believes in a long debunked wolf study that is applied to humans If you’re breaking up over Andrew Tate…. He is showing you his true colors. You can’t change him because he has to want to change it. You can’t care more about an adults we…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 08:48 PM
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I don’t even know what you’re trying to argue right now? You’re not making any sense. I’m not trying to “compare” anything.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 06:49 AM
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No…. I’m not. There are 170 million registered accounts. Of those 170 million, 105 million are creators. The rest are users. I’m using the data of only creators.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 06:33 AM
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That’s.. literally how averages work. I don’t even know what you’re trying to argue. This person is trying to insinuate that any woman can join and just be rolling in thousands of dollars a month. No. Not even close.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 06:18 AM
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Sounds like you’re doing amazing since getting out. Congrats on your engagement!!!
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 01:03 AM
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You might! Lots of male creators on Onlyfans.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 12:27 AM
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Yeah the majority of people don’t have the 21 subs to reach that number. They’re probably making between $20-40 a month. There are more than a million people making content so only the big accounts are raking in cash.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 11:50 PM
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Freud would have a field day with Red Pill.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 11:30 PM
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Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your experience. Do you feel more fulfilled and valued now that you’ve left? Have you been able to make meaningful and deep connections with other people that are non-romantic? I ask because I have this theory that RP actually /harms/ rather than helps. I think this because I think men are conditioned to believe that they are only valuable if they are providing or if they are having sex. Red Pill takes this, jacks it up to 11 and degrades men who are “l…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 11:27 PM
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The first step is asking for help! Welcome to the sub, there’s lots of people on here who have made it out and can share advice and stories. Do you have a solid support system IRL? A good friend group or a few people you can lean on?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 10:51 PM
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I think high income = high status. High value = someone with moral fiber and gravitas.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 10:49 PM
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Onlyfans isn’t as easy as RP makes it seem. You can look up the stats but I think on average they’re making like $150 a month if they have 21 subs. Anyway, if you have good internet find an online customer service gig. Try the big name banks first like AmEx and Capital One and then try food delivery services and then move onto retail companies like H&M. Basically any company that has a virtual chat option will have these roles.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 10:47 PM
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I just hate it because in RP it just means “rich, ripped and fucking tons of women.” Which imo isn’t “high value.” That’s based on the ideals of men trying to impress other men, not to actually be a valuable and active member of society as a whole. A lot of red pill just seems like, for lack of better terminology, a dick-swinging contest. I would define high value as a person who is empathetic, dependable, generous, consistent and considerate. You don’t need tons of money to be that kind of pers…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 10:41 PM
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Interesting take! I don’t personally like the use of low value/high value because I think it’s nonsense and reductive but I do like the use of biology in the argument since RP loves to misuse and cherry-pick biology/evolution.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 10:33 PM
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I’m sorry I can’t read this; too much jargon. Dauntless’ comment cleared it up tho and sounds like you made some interesting points.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 10:26 PM
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Can I ask how you became red pill in the beginning? What appealed to you then? And what have you learned about yourself since leaving the ‘sphere?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 07:36 PM
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No one is without internal strife or trauma. That's just not possible. Everyone should want a partner who is aware of their faults and has acknowledged those issues and is actively trying to be the best version of themselves. And when they struggle, their partner lifts them up because they know the ins and outs of that person. Whatever your suggesting in the main post is some mental gymnastics abusive behavior. Own your pain, talk to people about it, build up a support system.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 09:09 PM
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IMO if a person is asking something framed this way they should get therapy, look inward and work through their internal issues and traumas before looking for an intimate partner.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 08:58 PM
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Thank you! That’s so nice 😊
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 11:29 PM
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I don’t think it started that way, but I think alt/far right people saw an opportunity to align themselves with an angry set of people and grabbed on.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 11:19 PM
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Good bot.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 11:17 PM
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Run, run far away. What has she been watching or listening to lately? This came out of nowhere?
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 12:52 AM
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Thank you for explaining to me my own degree, I guess I should have gone to you instead of college 😃😃😃😃 It’s a bad survey. I shared it in a statistics group I’m in and they pointed out that not only is the sample size too small for a global population, the survey is too simple and hasn’t been replicated. You talk about social science being based on these studies, and yeah it is based on small sample sizes… which are backed up by being taken over and over again. Doing one survey and publishing th…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 12:17 AM
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That’s not what I mean. They didn’t break down the answers by gender, age or sexuality. This is incredibly simplistic surveying that says, essentially, nothing. The sample size is too small to make claims on a global population.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 06:27 AM
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I think in general all people are addicted to pleasure and instant gratification. Lust falls into that category. Humans are thrill seekers. We have constant access to unlimited pleasure and dopamine is powerful. Love is safe and calm. It's exciting, but not exhilarating. I don't think I would describe being in love as "hard work" but I do think it takes consistent effort and reliability in a way that lust doesn't. It's hard to choose love knowing that it can be monotonous. Knowing the rush of th…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 11:38 PM
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I saw someone on another subreddit (I can't remember which one atm, sorry) make the point that so much of what red pill says is available in other places in a more positive way. What makes red pill unique is how its gurus speak about women -- as if we are subhuman. So if people are following it they might say "oh, it's for the self improvement!" but they can get that from a mindfulness channel, or a Buddhist channel, a men's fashion channel... you get the idea. They're there because they've had …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 11:24 PM
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It’s a bad faith survey and representation. 441 respondents is not enough to make a sweeping generalization for millions of relationships. At best, this would represent a population of maybe 40,000. Even then… ehhhh. View anything with a sample size that small trying to make sweeping generalizations about a global population with skepticism. They don’t even break it down by sexuality or age. Source: I have a statistics degree
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 11:12 PM
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So true. Plenty of books at the library too. Honestly, a 9th grade health teacher covers a lot of it. I remember learning: - hygiene - healthy living - mental fortitude - Asking for help when you need it/signs of depression - the value of friendship - importance of hobbies - healthy relationship building - healthy sexual practices I guess that does depend on your state and what they’ve approved for health class though.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 10:58 PM
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I think it’s also important to remember that these Red Pill people are telling men that they can “fix” their problems…. By charging them money to access “exclusive” information. Or even to read their comments out loud on live streams. Once someone is charging you money you go from equal to customer. What do they tell the customer? Whatever gets them to keep paying. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 10:15 PM
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I don’t know if this will answer your question, but statistically people date and befriend people in their own tax brackets.That’s not just women. That’s a trend across all genders and sexualities. However, there’s literally not an immediate benefit to this. They’ll get hit with a marriage penalty on their taxes that year. You marry “down,” you get a marriage subsidy. If we go by “logic” people would be marrying “down” across the board. Sure, it happens, but it’s not as common. Why? Average peop…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 09:54 PM
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Look, you’re literally coming in here and posting questions, then going to different subs to post about how you don’t agree with the answers you get. If you really want help you need to talk to a professional and get therapy. We try to answer your questions and bring some light but the way you react shows you are stuck in some kind of spiral of thinking this way that is beyond the help of this sub.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/22 12:33 AM
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Good bot
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 11:48 PM
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Well yeah, but when they’re describing their “techniques” they’re not going to disclose that LOL
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 02:32 AM
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I think that red pill targets men and exploits their loneliness and insecurities while downplaying mental health and creating “lone wolf” types. It isolates men from society while telling them it’s fine because they know “the truth.” It is not healthy or helpful for mens mental health or creating space for men to understand and process their emotions or get help and support they may need. Red pill is made up of people screaming “man up!” while complaining about people not taking men seriously. T…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 05:44 PM
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Because red pill “advice” isn’t about developing long term happy relationships. It’s about sex.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 04:15 PM
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Where are you moving in Texas? Be advised that Dallas and Fort Worth were rated #1 and #2 top cities for infidelities lol it’s a war zone in these dating streets. Either way, welcome to Texas!
/r/ExRedPill05/11/22 06:22 PM
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Just be aware that there are far more men than women on the apps so your dating pool is smaller and more competitive.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 04:18 PM
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Eh I’m in Texas and it costs more than when I was living in DC. For a single person or couple at least. I think for married people it’s probably a cheap option and for the mega rich it is a steal.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah before taxes. Here’s a breakdown by state.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 10:55 PM
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That’s why so many households are dual income now! Median household salary is only $70,784. For a guy to even bring home $100k he’d need to make like $140k+ in most states.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 10:15 PM
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Especially when the average US salary for men is $38,461.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 09:54 PM
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I just think it’s funny that they can’t hold down jobs themselves but think they will be CEOs and VPs making millions. They need a reality check for real.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 04:28 PM
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Ethics, too! One of the first things I felt about red pill is that it is incredibly unethical.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 04:19 PM
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Please try therapy. I always recommend CBT. Here’s why: “The goal of CBT is to help you adapt and change your mindset and behaviors by reassesing distorted thought patterns.” This is exactly what is leading to your sexism. A therapist trained in CBT will be able to help you do this. I recommend you find a male therapist because of your current feelings. They’ll probably also work in some homework for you around exposure to women to reframe how you think of us. If cost is a concern, look for ther…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 04:12 PM
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Not to mention the mewing, minoxidil and other stuff they do to try to reach what they consider peak attraction.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 03:06 PM
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I would also argue that imo the rage period doesn’t end, it’s just turned into what they call “logic” so they can separate themselves from “female behavior” (which really just means having normal human reactions). Either way, they’re still really emotional, it’s just presented as masculine and being in control rather than what it really is: unhealthy coping and abusive, narcissistic tendencies.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 03:03 PM
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I haven’t spoken to creators. I don’t think it’s worth it. They just say things like “get out of your feelings!” And “it’s biology!” Or “We can speak in generalities because the majority of men think like this if they want to admit it or not” and the audience gets off on it. They can be their own ouroboros. I don’t understand why these viewers preach “logic” and “getting out of feelings” but can’t see that they are being grifted. I did talk to him and he would just say bullshit like “a good woma…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 02:59 PM
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Ok having a neurological disorder that can impact social skills and processing is different from physical attraction. It sounds like what you’re saying is that attraction is all based on confidence and charisma, not the standard markers of physical attraction. Which, sure, maybe initially. But an attractive asshole is still an asshole. He might get laid but he’s not having fulfilling or longterm romantic relationships. Red pill tends to conflate sexual and romantic relationships. Women like sex.…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 01:57 PM
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The fact that Andrew Tate pays women to sleep with him and that Myron (Fit) looks like the human version of Woody Woodpecker and has never had a successful relationship should prove to men that “alphas” and being a wealthy ass dude doesn’t make you an attractive or desirable person.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 01:26 PM
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You’d think it’s a low bar but you would be soooo surprised. I’m in another subreddit on here and this woman was posting about how her husband was cheating on her with multiple women while his teeth are rotting out of his head. Can you imagine how shitty his breath was?? And if his teeth are rotting what does that say about his hygiene or work ethic? And women were fighting over him. It just proves to me that we aren’t very good at making decisions or judging character based on stereotypical “at…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 01:21 PM
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Of course women are picky. But that doesn’t mean what you’re calling “unattractive” guys don’t stand a chance. Have you been to a nascar race or a VFW or like, idk, Walmart? Women value stability, emotional intimacy and communication. Looks too, but look preferences are so personal. Every time red pill hosts list off the guys women are supposed to find attractive it isn’t people I find attractive. They’re always listing white ripped guys who are tall AF. Channing Tatum or whatever. Not every gir…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 11:06 PM
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I feel this. I need to know why they need to spend all day watching dating advice when they’re already in relationships 🤔🤔🤔 Why do you need to know how to get girls when you already have one? They’re so transparent I have to laugh.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 09:30 PM
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It sounds like you’re in a toxic positivity spiral. Your positive thinking gives you high expectations of a positive outcome and when it doesn’t happen it crushes you.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 07:40 PM
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I see! You might try solutions based. I would literally just find a few therapists who offer it, copy this post and spruce it up email style, send it over and ask if they can help. Include the things you’ve worked on in the past and how it hasn’t led to much change. I’d also recommend supplementing with talk therapy. Something else you should try doing is making some affirmations to say to yourself in the mirror. It will feel corny, but studies show that it helps with self esteem. Remind yoursel…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah, OP, after reading this comment I just looked at your profile and I would recommend therapy. Find a therapist who is either solutions based or uses CBT. There’s something that is holding you back and making you feel self conscious and you need to figure out what it is and healthy ways to manage it and move forward. RP thrives by demonizing and then weaponizing self confidence issues. Based on what I read you should try to find a male therapist, it seems like you’re too influenced by the red…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 05:55 PM
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The cheating was a red flag. The gaslighting to cover up the cheating. The reasoning for the cheating: “You can have sex with people and not love them as long as you’re coming home to your main girl.” No. That’s infuckingsane. It’s abuse. They would always talk about how once they were “high value” they’d be allowed to cheat. If you can’t hold down a retail job please tell me how you’re going to manage a harem. They can have a loyal and consistent woman who stands by them and will fuck it all up…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 05:46 PM
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They also seem to think that having a working wife is bad, which is insane. Cost of living is out of control. Most people will never be millionaires but they’re watching videos where already rich men are telling them to spend their 20s and 30s acquiring “wealth” before staring a family at 40 with an 18 year old. The whole “Men age like wine” concept they’re always pushing. Tell me how a husband and wife making a combined 200k and having a respectful partnership is somehow worse than putting your…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 05:29 PM
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It doesn’t even matter if they get a virgin, they still treat them like shit, too. Play mind games, manipulate, gaslight, cheat… all that. Then complain when their trad virgin woman isn’t acting how Myron told them she would 🥺🥺🥺
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 05:21 PM
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I guess you’re the expert in female sexual preferences. “gEt OuT oF yOuR fEelInGs” — red pill men when the studies, science and anecdotal evidence all point to something different than what they’ve cherry picked.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:58 AM
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Again, also wrong. If you’re a woman who is just looking to fuck then sure, maybe. But women in longterm actual relationships looking to build something permanent don’t want some guy who’s going to fuck them like some slam piece they met at a bar on a random Tuesday night and call it a day. They want someone who knows their personal likes in bed. There’s studies about this. Women who are looking for a serious partner aren’t basing on his body count. Besides, Half these “promiscuous guys” aren’t …
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:44 AM
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I am a woman and literally all the things you said here are wrong. It’s actually already been discussed in this thread.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:35 AM
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The joke isn’t that they can’t find it, it’s that they don’t listen when being directed in what feels good and think that a porn inspired performance is what women are looking for.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 12:46 AM
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They want them when they’re in a relationship because it suggests they are stable and have positive traits. Not because they are good sex partners or have sex with dozens of women. The study is focused on romantic relationships, not purely sexual ones. Here’s that study.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 12:32 AM
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No. I don’t know where they got this idea that all women want a guy with experience. It doesn’t matter either way. For me, I’d prefer someone who hasn’t slept with a bunch of people. Others might not care at all. But I have never met a woman who has said “he’s had A LOT of sex I want him!!!” It’s ridiculous that people parrot that idea around. Also, people have sex because they like it. Desirability isn’t as much in play as they say. People just like sex. Plus, desirability changes as your prior…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 11:51 PM
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Or attend a NASCAR race… they’ll see what they’re pretending they can’t lol
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 01:49 PM
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I can tell you about my parents and my brother? Maybe it will help. My parents have been married for 32 years. They met in college and got married. My dad was 19 and my mom was 20. Both were dirt poor. My dad is Mexican, 5’7, skin and bones and dropped out of college. My mom is a 5’3 white woman who is not model hot. They worked at Dairy Queen, McDonald’s and a factory for the first 4 years of their relationship and lived in a rusted out trailer because it’s what they could afford. Then, my dad …
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 01:49 PM
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Statistically speaking, men are more likely to cheat and that increases with age. About 20% of men cheat. 13% of women. The only time women cheat at a higher rate is in the 18-29 year range. This data is for married couples, though. Things are all over the place in dating, and it varies by race. Physical cheating is way less common then emotional cheating, which unfortunately many people don't consider cheating. I took a course on human sexuality and infidelity in college and learned so much. We…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 02:18 AM
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I find myself wondering if Fresh and Fit actually think longterm happiness looks like fucking teenagers, having no meaningful or sincere friendships and hoarding money from hurt men that they’ll spend on…. attracting more teenage girls they find on Instagram? It’s so dumb to me. It sounds like something a horny 8th grader would describe as a dream life, not an adult man.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 01:04 AM
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People are complicated, messy and rarely make logical sense or the best decisions. Red pill thrives by using black and white thinking and eliminating the things that make us human. Instead, it pits men and women against one another, leans into stereotypes and backs men into a caricature of “masculinity.” I’m sorry you were cheated on. It’s ass. You’ll find the right person, that one was just the wrong one. Statistically cheaters are a small portion of the dating population, so don’t let it stop …
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 12:51 AM
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They’re so goofy for this. Leo’s girlfriends are younger, yes, but he also dates them longterm. He’s not grooming 15 year olds so he can manipulate and abuse them when they turn 18, talking about aging like “fine wine.” For a group that’s so obsessed with “biology” they certainly don’t understand a thing about male fertility. They act like they’ll be 80 impregnating 20 year olds. They’re going to die crusty and alone wondering where their so-called fame got them.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 05:17 AM
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Yeah no they don’t want traditional values, they want a woman at home to raise their offspring while they have casual sex and a place to come back to sleep while being a largely absent father.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 05:34 AM
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He's still around because people are inviting them onto their shows as a way to get around the bans.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 03:57 PM
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The only reason F&F “win” any conversations is because they are constantly moving the goal posts and they never let anyone finish talking but then act pissy if they get interrupted.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 11:39 PM
1

For people who are convinced women are the problem /evil/ stupid/ worthless you sure do spend a lot of time obsessing over what we think.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 05:28 AM
2

Yea they’re literally scamming men. However, if you point that out to the men being scammed they’ll just deny it, call you stupid and double down. Can’t see the forest for the trees I guess.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 05:22 AM
3

I don’t know who is right and who is wrong, but I’ll tell you how TRP ruined my life. I’m a woman who saved herself for the perfect partner (so I thought). This wasn’t really a religion thing, it was more of a fear thing. Either way, I waited until I found the person I thought was right. During our entire relationship I was nothing but faithful. I made 6x the money he made so I paid for everything extra we did: international trips, renting cars to drive places, going to the movies, surprised him…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 01:18 PM
8

I was a hideous teenager. My mom didn’t teach me about makeup or hair, and she let me wear whatever I wanted and didn’t force me into sports or anything. I like to think all of the bullying the reason I developed a personality. Anyway, I was ugly all the way through high school and college and didn’t really start growing into myself until I graduated. Looking back at old pictures I realize that it’s because I didn’t have confidence or really understand how to take care of myself. Now I look at m…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 08:32 PM
2

I hope you don’t mind me asking, but what makes you “ugly” in your opinion? I see a lot of red pill guys say they are ugly and I guess I always wonder what they look like or how they’re measuring beauty.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 08:26 PM
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