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| 1 | How do i stop pleasing people ? How did you guys change? The start is too hard..First, take it easy. Don’t judge yourself harshly and do not accept the way others judge you. They do so to elevate themselves and feel superior. It makes them feel good. Living in Iraq is unfortunate as the country suffered a lot and society is cruel to those who are different. In the West there is more individualism and effort is made to help those who are not following the usual path. But even here, we still have a way to go. Maybe you can move away. Other than that, if there is no accessible… | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Being inherently nice isn't the problem, being nice thinking it'll get you guaranteed girls is a problem.You can’t be “inherently nice” if you are basically an asshole. You can pretend, deceive, but at the end your nature will come out. That however has little to do with “getting laid”. Some horrible people are “getting laid”. That includes criminals, gang members, violent thugs, even pathological liars - as well as regular folks. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Have any introverts been able to get good at thisSometimes yes. Perhaps you can go together with a friend or acquaintance. You need to brush down the anxiety in such environments. Going once with high expectations - almost everyone may get anxious. You need to be friendly with everyone not just girls. I know it’s easier said than done. Still like any other skill, it’s a matter of practice. At the end, it will help you in life in general. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 07:11 AM |
| 8 | Have any introverts been able to get good at thisA small piece of advice - go to parties, concerts, bars without specific reason. Even places like yoga classes. Just to absorb the atmosphere. Talk to people naturally, men and women. Just be yourself. Don’t set the expectation bar high beyond having a good time. Be social with everyone around without passing as pushy or creepy. You’ll get results when you don’t expect. | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Strange text from girl...shit test? how to reply?My intentions are the purest and best in the world! (I want to date you). | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl online but 1st date stress meWhy do you think you’ll disappoint her “if she wants to go further”? You really don’t have to “confess” for being a virgin if you feel uncomfortable. However, it also doesn’t matter much for the future of this relationship. Good Luck. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 11:44 PM |
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