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| 7 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?To try and make themselves look more desirable, perhaps? | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who is attracted to feminine guys and tomboy females.Yes. You are the only person in the entire world of 8 billion people that is attracted to feminine guys and tomboy females. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds like an excellent way to spend too much time in your head. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 64 | Not a bad ideaEnvy. The most predictable of human emotions. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/07/21 05:22 AM |
| 2 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?Well, that’s not too bad a place to start. Thing is, we don’t know anything about her situation. She may be dating someone, she may be unavailable etc. etc. It would be good to find out some logistics first. I’d just message her casually, saying it’s cool to see her on here, and maybe referring to something you had in common. A teacher, a situation in school, or whatever. Goal is to find out if she’s receptive in the first place and if she’s worth your time. If she’s receptive, you can invite he… | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 04:53 PM |
| 6 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?We need to know more information about where you've seen her, was it a dating website? How did you get her number? With this little information, this sounds pretty creepy. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What turns a girl on in general and conversations?Agreed. Like anything in seduction, if it feels forced or unnatural in any way, it's a major turnoff and a sign of insecurity and inexperience. | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 6 | What turns a girl on in general and conversations?Fascinating. Makes you think, if women NEED to feel desired, it's important not to just give them what they need, but to ration it and drip-feed it to them, and just give them enough to have them coming back for more. | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayHonestly man, I would not put too much thought into the exact specifics of this date. It's impossible to get the full picture. No one can have an idea what she is going through in her life right now, where in life she is, what she wants, if she's maybe seeing someone, if she's actually depressed, anxious, if she is potentially intimidated by you, if something maybe happened to her... Girls are all individuals with their own reality and life and mental processes, and they are, very often, all ove… | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Stop tsking opportunities for grantedThank you! I'll take it and wear it with pride! 😊 | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Stop tsking opportunities for grantedI don't see why it should be one or the other. It is likely a complex psychological and social behavior, caused by an interplay of both social and instinctual influences. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Stop tsking opportunities for grantedThe 3 second rule is a classic. It is possibly the very foundation to learning actual game in real life: Basically, it is opening / talking to someone within 3 seconds of seeing them. It is taking action before your brain can think its way out of it. 5 second game is a variation of this, ideally played with a friend. It is to never have more than 5 seconds of 'idle time' in between sets / interactions, or you get punched in the shoulder. An excellent training tool! | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Stop tsking opportunities for grantedGood point. Knowing this doesn't change anything though. It is only by taking consistent action (3-seconds rule, 5-seconds game etc.) that you can slowly and gradually, unlearn this persistent genetic evolutionary programming called approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 5 | How did you guys get over approach anxiety? I picked up girls before, but it’s been like 5 years coming out of a long relationship. Seems impossible to get restartedTrue that, but it gets better over time. See it as a skill. Like getting better at a sport, a game or playing an instrument. Every time you do it, you just get that lil bit better and more experienced. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 11:03 PM |
| 84 | How did you guys get over approach anxiety? I picked up girls before, but it’s been like 5 years coming out of a long relationship. Seems impossible to get restartedHonestly, the best way to get over it is not give your brain the time to get approach anxiety. 3 seconds rule, see = open, eliminates any lag in between that is breeding grounds for AA. It’s like getting up in the morning, the longer you lay there in bed saying you should get up, the harder it is. Bite the bullet and just do’et. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceThe more people go on Apps, the better our odds get though :) | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | When a Girl says she has a boyfriend...What's 'his offer' you talk about? | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?Just shows you how much more important taking action is than working on looking good. This is the real world, not a tv show. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?Just shows you how much more important taking action is than working on looking good. This is the real world, not a tv show. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?Just shows you how much more important taking action is than having good looks. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?Just shows you how much more important taking action is than having good looks. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | My biggest fear is that I'll chat a girl up who appears to be alone and then her boyfriend comes back from the bathroom...I think the fear comes from intention. If your intention is 'I'm going to seduce this girl', then yeah, you may feel guilty and awkward if her bf shows up. If your intention is 'hey, I am just having a fun time talking to random people, if anything goes past that, it's cool, if it does not, that's cool too', then you will keep your cool when that happens, because there's nothing to feel wrong about. Takes off a lot of pressure in your game. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...It was not you that got rejected, it was your approach. If your approach is coming from a friendly, fun-having, non-needy place, it is almost impossible to get 'brutally rejected'. What were you saying to these girls? Were you under the influence of sth? | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What women mean when they say they want a nice guy.Women are not all one and the same person. What one woman will mean by 'nice guy' may be not what another one interprets. The only way to find out is to ask the woman in question. | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 01:08 AM |
| 2 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!'I don't know if you're worth a drink yet' | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 02:27 AM |
| 10 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.Seems like she wants to if you propose a cool date / activity. Chicks like leaders :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.I don't think anyone would ever argue drugs don't change the way you feel. Let's just hope you have learned enough to not be dependent on a supply of foreign chemicals your body now is used to having around. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 05:17 PM |
| 2 | I am Chris Shepherd, AKA Tenmagnet. I've been in this scene since the beginning and I've met pretty much everyone and been everywhere! AMA.What are some of your core beliefs about attracting women? | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 09:47 AM |
| 19 | Seddit, I need help with an HB10 who doesn't drink. It's not oneitis, it's a unicorn.I'm honored to meet the Ambassador of Masculinity in here. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.Sometimes it is the best thing to do, sometimes not; it's only one of the many options and has the danger of being interpreted as 'this guy gives up quickly.' | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 01:19 AM |
| -8 | Book of Body Language SummaryThis stinks of creepy nerd mindset, hard. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Alpha Example From the movie Love and Other Drugs.Hahaha, movie writers love complicating things. | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 03:36 PM |
| 34 | If nice guys are beta, why do women always say they want a nice guy and then wind up sleeping with alpha douche bags?It's pretty simple: alpha douche bags make the move, beta nice guys wait (forever) for the girl to make the move. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Last night, after a few bottle of wine, my bro texted me and said, "Losing AFC status is like discovering you're in the Matrix"nah, more like ads & frustrated tv/movie writers. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Last night, after a few bottle of wine, my bro texted me and said, "Losing AFC status is like discovering you're in the Matrix"nah, more like ads & frustrated tv/movie writers. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 07:21 PM |
| 2 | So beautiful... ;_;makes sense | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 05:35 PM |
| 1 | So beautiful... ;_;What's the point of reading FR's? | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Lesson 1: Primer on Being a Modern Alpha MaleRespect: you practice what you teach. | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Lesson 1: Primer on Being a Modern Alpha MaleDifferent things work for different people. Saying "Everyone studying seduction on this board should live their life to become the embodiment of these eight points." is promoting blind acceptance of your own personal beliefs with little reflection. | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 01:15 PM |
| -2 | Lesson 1: Primer on Being a Modern Alpha MaleI like how we should become leaders by following you. | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 12:57 PM |
| 4 | We all could learn something from this guy (Made his move like a BOSS. Video)I don't know if it qualifies as a pickup. It's more like a party trick at this point. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 09:16 AM |
| 1 | "IAMA mPUA" Interview Series #1 Questions - Savoy of Love Systems, ASK AWAY!!Just butting in cuz I know an answer: 3-second rule. After 3seconds, you get into your head. Do the 3-second rule for 2 weeks until it's part of you, even if it's just saying: 'Is your name Rachel? Thought I recognized you' & leaving. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 09:47 AM |
| 8 | "IAMA mPUA" Interview Series #1 Questions - Savoy of Love Systems, ASK AWAY!!Is Ross Jeffries' work still relevant? What are your impressions & how did the pua-arts evolve since this pioneer? | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 04:17 AM |
| 6 | You Are Not Too Old. You Are Not Forever Alone.The unconscious mind does not process negation. Rephrasing the title in a positive way is more powerful. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Ask Seddit: Do NLP/Language Patterns work?NLP is about learning how your mind works anyways, and it really is the only field that studies the action of how our mind works in reality, not just on a chemical level. In a way NLP is learning how you think & about using the correct thought process consciously. For seduction; knowing clearly how you work inside, and teaching other people this, could be seen as a DHV no? | /r/seduction | 10/12/10 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl on Facebook I haven't talked to in forever in town I'm moving back to'Hey, nice you're back; wanna grab a coffee Tuesday to catch up?' | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Girl complains about creeper guy. Best approach in this situation?Sounds like filler on her part = mostly irrelevant. It is a bit negative though, so don't be interested, or segway into something positive, like a conversation about how people with choices like you two, act differently then people without them.. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How convenient is it to practice this stuff when working in Jersey City?If it's only women you're after, it's easier staying. If you want a complete (rational, emotional, social, physical and creative) life-changing experience, while knowing it will be much more hard work: go. | /r/seduction | 29/07/10 01:23 PM |
| 1 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackIntertwine fingers and spin her around then, easy ;) | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 09:34 AM |
| 2 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackSo does a high five from time to time, and you don't have to study, understand, study some more, train so it becomes fluent and not 'studied' and field-test for days on end... Might as well learn the 4 lines and make some comedy shit up on the spot | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 06:01 AM |
| 1 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackHaha, come visit Europe then! | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 05:59 AM |
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