mikedo82 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that? You should be dating/sleeping with multiple women at a time, if that were the case you wouldn't worry about her timeline. It will happen when it does, but until then you'll get it elsewhere. The exact purpose of casual is not giving a damn about the past but rather getting yours and having a good time doing it (with lots of different women). And also, stop dinner dates unless exclusive, that's just wasting money (unless you like doing that sort of thing)...	/r/seduction	18/06/26 07:00 PM
1	For the guys with 100+ bodycount, what’s the 1 girl you can’t forget? I live just outside of Austin, definitely some pretty hot women here.	/r/seduction	21/04/26 12:45 PM
8	For the guys with 100+ bodycount, what’s the 1 girl you can’t forget? 43 now, 25 at the time. My military buddies Smokeshow little sister (she was 22), she was the hot sister back home that all the guys in squad wanted to smash. I lived with him briefly when I got out of the Army in FL and she came to visit him. She invited me back to her hotel after a night of drinking, but I was in the process of getting back with the toxic af ex (always a bad idea). I’m not one to cheat so I shot her down. Don’t think about her often but when I see her on his social media. Def …	/r/seduction	21/04/26 12:43 PM
14	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes For men and women, there will be signs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 01:28 PM
2	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes You’re focusing on such a small part of the dynamic, there are lots or other things that come into play. What type of guy are you hoping this will attract? Are you attractive enough yourself to date the ones you’re interested in? There’s so much more. I’d say live your life however want, just know that all actions/decisions in life affect us in some way. Best of luck in finding your happiness OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 01:19 PM
21	Nice guys pretend women are a monolith because they dont want to acknowledge that they are shallow and only see women as holes to fuck. Dude is also rumored to have a ‘hammer’. So rich, tall, funny white dude that’s hung is a low bar. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 05:33 PM
4	When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needy Attractive ppl in general are given a lot more grace in all regards. Pretty privilege is a thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 06:15 PM
30	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy 100% doable but you have to look good to attract them (unless you’re into blindly spending money to have them around). Met my now wife at 30 and she was 23.	/r/seduction	17/08/25 07:22 PM
2	Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex with lol. 👍🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 07:12 PM
1	Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex with Cool, totally your right. Just been my experience as a guy who’s had pretty solid success with dating when I was single. But I’m definitely glad to be out of the game, married (with kiddo) going on 12 yrs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 07:06 PM
7	Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex with The great majority (at least in my personal experience) of single men will always choose to have sex with varying degrees of women looks-wise vs going home solo and not get laid. Most have a bar they are unwilling to go below but some will literally sleep with anything. Also, you never truly know what you want/are looking for in a partner unless you have variation. Might discover that what you once thought was a no, is actually someone you are into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 07:02 PM
8	Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex with No. They just wanna get laid and options sometime dwindle as the club/bar closes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 06:51 PM
44	Why do so many women in their 20s prefer older men over younger men (even by 10–20 years), while younger men get overlooked or dismissed? This. If you just step out into the real world vs online, it’s just not what I see at all (highly populated area in Central Texas). The great majority (both men & women) pretty much stick to partners typically within 5 yrs of their own age. The large age gaps are definitely in the very small minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 10:36 PM
24	Why don't men want to date single moms? But many women, even moms, completely remove single dads as an option. But they definitely shouldn’t, single parents should absolutely try and date other single parents. There’s just more commonalities. I don’t think it’s a great idea for men or women to date a single parent. You’re just never the primary, you’ll always come second to the kid(s). But this is also how I think it how it should be, a good parent prioritizes their child. Then there’s the issue of the ex-baby daddy/momma, where they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 07:15 PM
0	when a girl says on bumble that she has a belly Code for ‘I’m fat OR at least bigger’. So she doesn’t feel guilty for catfishing you because her photos used are likely old, have angles to produce a slimmer build or are edited like crazy.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 05:25 PM
4	Wife wants to have sex more than me and I feel insecure about it. Jerk yes, but there’s lots of discussions about the neg effects of porn and a correlation to ED.	/r/askMRP	08/11/24 06:44 PM
6	Wife says she puts out enough No issues with your answer, statement of fact without any whining. It’s a ‘her problem’ if she has issues with the truth, only she can control her own emotional response to the things you say. There will be highs and lows with her sex drive throughout the pregnancy.	/r/askMRP	28/10/24 12:39 PM
2	Wife proposed an open marriage. Would you say this is same as, or worse than, ILYBINILWY? You do both man. Her even asking (vice having a mutual conversation about wants/desires) to bang another guy is a full stop imo.	/r/askMRP	30/08/24 03:19 PM
4	The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest. Online exploded the options for anyone on the upper end of the desire level (looks/fame/status/rich). But the biggest issue is FOMO. With so many options, ppl are hesitant to pick because something better might come along after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 02:56 PM
1	Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single? Well as a father to a young daughter, it’s my job to teach her as she grows but at 32 either she heard but didn’t listen or just chose not to heed whatever advice might have been given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 01:46 PM
16	Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single? Nothing, it’s her life to live. The unfortunate thing is, if you read some of this woman’s posts she claims to be single after a 12 yr relationship. So if true, it’s not like she’s been just playing the ‘perfect prince’ waiting game. Her LTR ended, now she’s taking time to get to know who she is and what she wants. If she does it the healthy way (which she appears to be) then great, someone will believe she’s a good fit for them and she might be an even better partner than she was to the LTR guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 12:20 PM
1	For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality? No not at all, I’m sure there are plenty of instances where the hymen was broken pre-sex. But with my experience with my wife that was not the case, ergo pretty easy to see that she was a V. If you’re trying to imply that my wife is lying, then that’s on you. Best of luck, if you haven’t yet I do hope you find a great partner for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 04:21 PM
1	For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality? The typical signs when a woman loses her virginity (slight pain, initial resistance and a small amount of blood). Also, she was raised in a conservative religious home and she told me she was a virgin when we first met. She chose to wait for the right person, fortunately for me I was that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 03:56 PM
–	For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality? No, nor has she asked me at any point in our relationship. Hers was 0 so no real need for me to ask but I wouldn’t have (for context she was 23 and I was 29 when we met). If you just pay attention to how a person acts, who they choose as friends and what’s their basic relationship history (LTR vs single for extended periods of time while doing the whole ‘club girl thing’), it will say all you really need to know about a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 03:32 PM
–	For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality? Depends on what you’re looking for, both can be fulfilling. Personally I enjoy the pursuit of a new partner and all that entails but I also throughly enjoy the amazing relationship I have with my wife of 10 years. The desire for ‘the chase/something new’ never really goes away but rather you make a conscious decision to be faithful to your spouse. My ‘bc’ is much higher than my wife’s but there’s minimal risk of infidelity on my end as I cherish the relationship I have with my wife. And I know t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 02:37 PM
5	The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong. I agree there will always be men out there who are willing to take what they can get, if a woman just wants commitment she’ll be able to find it. The issue is most of the even extreme red flags you listed aren’t going to be interested in that 4/10 dude. THAT is where the issue will be. In my experience both sides (men and women) don’t understand what group they are in and what they can realistically expect to obtain. Regardless of what society says, there are levels of attraction and unless you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 02:32 AM
5	What is love after swallowing TRP? My bad. I was being sarcastic, difficult to have that come across clearly online. I completely agree, I know tall guys (6+) who are cheated and walked all over. I’d have a hard time trusting someone claiming RP who doesn’t lift. I’m 41/5’6”/165/Married and I warmup with more than that.	/r/askMRP	29/11/23 01:41 PM
6	What is love after swallowing TRP? My guy is 6’2, he doesn’t ‘need’ to do anything else…	/r/askMRP	29/11/23 02:31 AM
2	AF: BB is still the ruling principle I have, but again the guy is just a pushover and just fell into the relationship or they’ve been together since very young in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:01 AM
2	AF: BB is still the ruling principle It’s the argument “just be yourself, be a good/nice guy and you’re bound to find your match”. That advice has been pushed for decades and it simply isn’t accurate or true. OP maybe overly simplified the above philosophies but the simple truth is both women and men deserve what they are willing to put into it. If you want to casually walk through life on easy mode you’re bound to fail unless you’re in the extreme upper echelon of attraction and/or family money. Everyone else has to work for happi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:00 AM
0	AF: BB is still the ruling principle Yes. But usually she wears the pants in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 01:55 AM
1	What else can I do? how else to handle semi-starfish sex? Man, you definitely sound like you’re putting in all the effort/work on your end. Maybe do a surprise wknd away? My wife seems to always let the feisty version of herself come out when in a new location.	/r/askMRP	24/11/23 08:25 PM
12	What else can I do? how else to handle semi-starfish sex? How’s your fitness level? The more desirable you become to other women, the stronger the need to ‘maintain your attention’ will be for your wife. And if/when star fishing does happen, tell her to turn over and put that butt in the air. Once she does, be more vocal and aggressive. If she still doesn’t get into it, at least you enjoyed it more than you would missionary starfish.	/r/askMRP	23/11/23 02:46 PM
71	Do I marry this man for stability as a single mom? Regardless of your age, you’re still acting like a child. If you really care about this ‘great guy/catch’ you should inform him of your actions while in said ‘committed’ relationship with him and let the cards fall where they do. Place yourself in this guys shoes and think about how you’d feel. Either way, I’d strongly recommend to start acting like a parent and making better life choice in general. Best of luck.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/11/23 04:02 PM
3	What sex act permanently taints a woman? Sleeping with a guy in exchange for a trip/money/material item (jewelry/designer sh!t) (IE. Sex work).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 09:43 PM
11	Regarding Body Count and not being a Virgin Sexual past is a tricky but important topic in relationships. As others have stated, your number will have meaning to every potential partner but likely won’t be the make or break that is pushed so heavily on social media today. If someone isn’t comfortable with yours, simply move on to the next potential partner. I don’t personally ask the specific number as it doesn’t really matter, odds of untruthfulness is high. Rather, have adult conversations about life and everyone will show you who they …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/23 02:19 PM
1	High value men do not want 21 year old's Post wall woman (an idea I don’t necessarily follow rigidly) comparing HVM who like a young/vibrant adult females to Pedd*s…… Riiight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 01:07 PM
1	Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old? This link is a much better depiction of what ‘fit’ at 50 is, these women look amazing (that figure at any age would be good). The crazy extreme in this post… young and fat/morbid obese OR leather skinned fit and 50. 🤷🏼‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:45 PM
2	Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old? Get a little bit chubbier as you are, keep that ‘youth’ look lasting longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:41 PM
2	Boyfriend doesn’t know if he sees a future with me because of N-count OP, please don't listen to this poster. Bad advice. Playing games with anyone (let alone a HVM) will never go well for you. Any guy who you make wait and discovers that you have an n count of 30 will absolutely walk.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/23 05:34 PM
7	I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any children The pool boy…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/23 05:13 PM
3	Does it not concern men that their low/no body count partner might one day realize "Hey I've only slept with 1 or 2 dudes? I want to see what's out there before I die!" The concern for a partner to be unfaithful is something that never goes away, regardless of the partner; esp when you factor in all the time (years) put into building/developing it. For me (a higher n-count male with a 0 n-count wife) it's was worth that risk. For a majority of my 20's I refused to consider virgin women for that exact reason, fear that she would decide she needed 'life experience' (ie strange d) later in life but that all it was, fear. It's never a guarantee that your partner wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 03:42 PM
1	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls Hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 10:54 PM
4	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls Average 20 yo fem is 5’4 170. Damn that’s terrifying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 10:51 PM