mikehirsch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Second divorce has broken me Just plan on using them to get thru this phase. I’m thinking 6 months	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/25 12:29 PM
1	Second divorce has broken me Venlafaxine. What kind of side effects are you having? I get really bad night sweats but it’s a small price to pay imo	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/25 12:28 PM
4	Second divorce has broken me If you are feeling like your brain is stuck on a loop with constant rumination, it could help to look into anti-depressants. I’ve never struggled w depression but after my separation I got to a point where I legitimately could not stop thinking about her for more than 30 secs. It was so mentally draining and exhausting despite knowing it was the right decision. The meds help break up that “loop” and rumination. Honestly by week 2 I was feeling much better. I’m on week 6 now. Obviously everyone’s…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/25 12:30 PM
1	How much do you pay child support? Is that what you did?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/25 07:57 PM
1	How much do you pay child support? Do you mind sharing how much you make and what state? I’m around 400k and am worried this will be me	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/25 05:42 PM
6	The Apps - Tell me your lessons learned Hinge is by far the best. You are able to leave comments on girls’ prompts (and vice versa) instead of just liking pics. I would say 90% of my matches are just from leaving funny or witty prompt responses. It gives you so much more to work with as opposed to something like Tinder which is strictly focused on looks. I personally like paying for premium. I like to see who “likes” my profile so I can decide to match with them when things slow down and conversations w other girls fizzle out. Make it…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/25 03:55 PM
1	I Can’t Stop Crying Today Hey man, how are you doing now? I am one week in and looking for some hope.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 02:17 AM
2	My ex hates my guts Just beginning my separation and I can completely relate. Her only goal is to make this as hard as possible on me. I am dreading this	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/24 09:16 PM
9	I have a (mostly) healthy relationship with my wife, but there's zero sex. Unsure about what to do next. 34m 33f My therapist once asked me “can you picture a life without her” when I was faced with a similar dilemma. My mind excitedly went to picturing me in my own place - free from having to ask for permission to do every little thing, free from the fighting. It was clear I could very easily live without her. You seem to have the opposite reaction to that question. Find out why and find out if those reasons are truly things that only she can provide. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/24 09:28 PM
2	Was marriage worth it? What a question to ask the Divorced Men subreddit lol	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 06:44 PM
6	Due to a sense of duty, some husbands are the guards of their own prison. Hey! I actually averaged more sex single!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 09:50 PM
1	How you guys fucked up in your marriages? How did you think you got something from a handjob?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/24 11:31 PM
2	Alimony 11 k/month 5 years 10 k /month 5 years !?I make 20 k/month after taxes is this as horrendous a deal as it appears??? Wow, how many kids do you have if you don’t mind me asking?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 11:26 PM
1	Ready for divorce, but can’t pull the trigger. Which state are you in?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 10:57 PM
2	Supplemental Income Post Divorce How often do they calculate CS? Is it every year?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 09:27 PM