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| 1 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?You can flirt all you want. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 07:35 PM |
| 2 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?I agree that you have to actively listen to women. Identify common interest and explore them, and build excitement about things you both like! | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 06:07 AM |
| 1 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?Calibration in this sense means just adjusting your personality down a few notches. That's fine if you want a one night stand I suppose. But I'm thinking you are looking for a girlfriend, so you need to be yourself and figure out what kinds of ladies like you for who you are, not a toned down fake version of you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 06:02 AM |
| 1 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?Ok, bluntly, you're in a smaller community, but the women (they are adults, don't call them girls please, they are women or ladies) who are in your intellectual league are around. But as a matter of statistics, many of those girls are not going to meet modern traditional physical ideals. A few may. You need to get in situations where you are interacting with many women, and focusing solely on personality, intellect, and maturity to the exclusion of physical traits. I understand the psychological… | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?I think the key here is what does "hella boring" really mean. Again, it sounds like you are socializing with people who are I'm sure very nice and we'll intentioned, but who cannot relate to you because they are not your intellectual peers. Even in the community you are in, your peers exist, but you need to be looking for them. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 05:10 AM |
| 2 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?Along with what I've recommend, I agree with these comments to in general. I just get the impression that, while OP should pay attention to and react to the behavior of others, that doesn't sound like the primary issue. The main issue sounds like he is around a group of people who are not intellectually in his league. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | So how do i pick up girls if i am weird?Firsr, don't worry about a few people saying you're weird or different. I've been hearing that my whole life. For every lady who thinks you are too weird for her, there are more who love your kind of difference. I think we need more information to give help on your specific situation. Are you in a smaller community? Are you going to college? Is it a more conservative environment? What kinds of women are you approaching, and through what methods, for example. Also, can you be more specific about … | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do I see so many interesting and reasonably attractive older men with unnattractive women?Well, first, I don't think a discrepancy in the aging of married couples is related. Sometimes one or the other goes, sometimes neither, usually both :) I'll add a slight twist on the idea that an older man, with more wisdom, appreciates the other aspects of a woman. But why? An attractive man with any social sense has dated and perhaps been married to attractive women as much as he wants. Enough to understand how transient feelings about looks are. Once you've been around a gorgeous woman with … | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a woman I see on the other side of the room without looking awkward?When you are walking towards her, when she makes eye contact, assuming it's too far to conveniently speak, nod your head, raise your eyebrows a bit very quickly, and smile disarmingly, which nonverbally says "Hi, I'm a friendly person, and I want to say something to you". Keep walking towards her, breaking eye contact periodically while doing so, otherwise it's creepy. When you get within speaking distance, if she hasn't looked up yet, say "Hey" or "Hi" so she looks up and you've established eye… | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 08:38 PM |
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