mikew_reddit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Relationships are hard, but worth it. Both partners have to put in effort to make it worthwhile. If it's one-sided it won't work. People complaining everyone is boring are usually not able to keep themselves entertained which is a red flag. They have unrealistic expectations; and do not realize how dull they are (often more boring than the people they criticize).	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:01 PM
2	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America I live in a college town this is like saying you live in beverly hills and extrapolating everyone in america must be thin, rich and attractive. you live in a town with more educated people; education correlates with being less fat. go see rural/middle america or any location with food deserts and you will see a much different demography (and body types).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 09:59 PM
1	If women don’t want to be approached at the gym, the grocery, the bar or in the dms - where are guys supposed to meet women? The way you meet women is the same way you meet men Men should learn how to make a lot of male friends. Then make a lot of female friends, and then girlfriends. The rules are the same for everyone. A lot of guys have low social intelligence and this would help improve their skillset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 02:29 AM
1	The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most grounded "Don't judge a book by its cover." How they look doesn't determine how they behave. To presume otherwise is unfair; give the person a chance to show who they really are. In every level of ugly to attractive there's a range of bad to good people. Anything else is confirmation bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:10 PM
7	Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are. I like to think I'm pretty objective. Women are morally superior to men on almost all dimensions lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 08:57 PM
3	Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women? All of my friends in school and college are happily in relationships In this instagram age, I think the word "happy" is thrown out way too much. People fake it all the time, even close friends, and it's near impossible to know what is genuine and what is not. Real relationships are hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 01:31 AM
0	"Try harder/Do more" comes from a Just-World Fallacy So I don't get why everyone responds to people who are having dating troubles ... where they're fully and totally responsible for their own success or failure, and that they just need to keep trying harder to succeed, because it doesn't work that way. Then don't try - that's completely your decision. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 04:12 PM
8	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? The very lonely men with no woman contact are a small minority it's a sliding scale. There's terms for men in other countries that are isolated (eg Hikikomori in Japan). Men without any contact with women is probably small. But there is a crisis of general loneliness in many countries. In a digital age where we're all connected so many more are lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:07 AM
13	Do women "really" hit the wall at 30? what's happening to the typical thirty year old Typical American 30 y/o (both men and women) are overweight to obese and take terrible care of themselves. I'm translating "typical" to mean average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/20 08:49 PM
1	Study: Men who do more housework have less sex The headline doesn't state causation, only correlation. It doesn't say that housework causes less sex, it says that men that do housework have less sex. We don't know why this is. The reasons people have sex is varied. Housework or lack or it doesn't factor into the top 5 reasons couples have or avoid sex. As a thought experiment: If you do a ton of housework or do none, but keep everything else the same. It won't significantly change the number of times you have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/19 09:44 PM
1	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. why should ppl have children then? To propagate the species. People come up with a lot of other reasons, but we're genetically wired to reproduce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/19 10:08 PM
2	Everybody is wrong here. Generalizations abound. Post title: "Everybody is wrong here." You're not helping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 06:20 PM
10	One woman’s take on “nice guys” Even with all her flaws (let's say she is bottom 20% look-wise), She's not anywhere near the bottom. From a link further up the page: https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-thumb-237505214-200-ihkthfzccwdujivkslpdwelifvwqtwbq.jpeg https://www.quora.com/profile/Emily-Payton-20	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/19 04:04 PM
0	Change My View: Women are more sexual and harass-y to men, it's just that we accept it Any post that starts out "change my view" is from someone who doesnt want their view changed. It's a waste of time to argue with these people. They're actively looking to argue their position, not find holes in their position.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 06:43 PM
1	How to Get Laid Tonight (Even If You're Only Mediocre With Women) you’re kind of a dick	/r/seduction	15/08/19 05:15 AM
3	How to Get Laid Tonight (Even If You're Only Mediocre With Women) in two short sentences you’ve shaped my perception of you and i’ve never seen or met you. how you present yourself matters. think about that. i’ve never seen you and immediately have a negative perception after reading two short sentences; you can’t blame the shape of your head. get rid of that downer vibe. be someone others want to be around (fun, confident, a leader, or whatever works for you) instead of being a pity party. i did upvote you for putting yourself out there in all your self doubt…	/r/seduction	15/08/19 03:05 AM
1	How to Get Laid Tonight (Even If You're Only Mediocre With Women) Have something cool at your house that you can take her to do. It could be a hookah, it could be a Nintendo Wii Sweet I have a Wii!	/r/seduction	15/08/19 02:25 AM
0	If finding a partner is largely a numbers game, why is it that so many men give up entirely on improving themselves in any measurable way? why is it that so many men give up entirely on improving themselves in any measurable way? It's easier to blame everyone else but themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/19 02:23 PM
27	Women adjust their standards for attractiveness based on available and past choices, men do not Having been to a mostly Male engineering school and spent a lot of time around military guys I can absolutely say men absolutely change their view of how attractive a girl is based on what's available. Also true for prisoners. Guys change their gender preference in the most extreme cases. They just need a warm hole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/19 06:00 PM
3	[q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards? how do us wahmenz get our cash and prizes? Do useful things. Get paid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/19 07:06 AM
4	Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar) Most people don't like each other, regardless of gender. So many people I work with are little, whiny bitches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/19 03:26 AM
6	If you think a girl is 'Out Of Your League' Yeah, there are definitely leagues. The Victoria's Secret model isn't going to date any schlub. She has her pick of hot, rich, smart, fun guys/gals (some who have all these qualities) lining up outside her door. That's her league. If you're average Joe Schmoe (100 IQ, median $50k/year wage, driving a Honda Civic, decent but not outrageous personality) that has his act together but otherwise unexceptional, odds are poor. If women are such branch swingers/hypergamous (that men like to claim), why …	/r/seduction	25/04/19 09:38 PM
1	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? Offer and demand mismatch Welcome to Lake Wobegon where everyone thinks they are above average. Another post today described the average male: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/b3r175/is_casual_sex_a_luxury_that_most_men_cant_afford/ej1gzfn/ Median male stats Overweight 5'9.5" $31,000 a year income High school education 100iq Sedentary lifestyle Harmless disposition Many would describe him as fat, short, dumb, poor, lazy, but in reality he's average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 07:57 AM
5	Is casual sex a luxury that most men can't afford? 28% of homosexual men had more than 1000 partners: "Bell and Weinberg reported evidence of widespread sexual compulsion among homosexual men. 83% of the homosexual men surveyed estimated they had had sex with 50 or more partners in their lifetime, 43% estimated they had sex with 500 or more partners; 28% with 1,000 or more partners. Bell and Weinberg p 308." I'd like to know how many partners lesbian couples and straight couples had. I'd expect lesbian couples to have the least number of partner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/19 03:19 PM
1	I see plenty of guys here who whine and whine yet actively reject any new advice or criticism and it makes me sick 😷 A lot of people argue, despite being given solid advice. Arguing is a defensive mechanism to protect a fragile ego. They are easy to identify. Ignore them since advice is being wasted. The smart ones will shut up and listen, even if they disagree.	/r/seduction	20/02/19 12:05 AM
2	Confidence only works for attractive men. Bobby Lee is confident and successful with women, even before he was famous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/19 06:04 PM
2	Mid 30s men. Are your other male peers all going through the same relationship problems? All long term relationships are hard. Both need to work at it, or it's likely not going to be a healthy one. Working means both sides communicate clearly and effectively; both sides need to just fucking listen and put aside their egos. Most people are terrible at communicating. Even more are terrible at listening. Living together is hard. It sucks to live with anyone because they just irritate you and do stupid shit. We're also a pain to our partners (it goes both ways). Every relationships has …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/18 10:04 PM
5	Is it still flirting if there is no possibility of sex ever happening? Is it still flirting if there is no possibility of sex ever happening? This is the definition of flirting: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/flirt to behave amorously without serious intent // He flirts with every attractive woman he meets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/18 07:19 AM
12	it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t. Change her mood, not her mind. This one is probably my favorite	/r/seduction	04/08/18 09:15 PM
2	I'm a woman and I don't know how to flirt You'll attract more guys if you learn to dress and look "sexier". Sexier depends on the person's attributes; whatever your best attributes are, figure out how to show them off in the best way. Also good posture helps.	/r/seduction	29/03/18 07:50 PM
1	Bronnie Ware was a nurse who spent 7 years at the bedside of the dying and elderly. She compiled a list of the top 5 regrets of the dying\| here they are, avoid them at all cost[TOOL] The main thing (for me at least) is: Take care of your family and friends since close relationships are the most important thing. Treat them as such. Everything else follows from this. That suggests not sacrificing family and friends for money or fame. Don't work so much you never see them, or screw your friends over for a few bucks. It's easier to be yourself and express yourself, and therefore be happier when you're surrounded by quality people. They will accept all your quirks. When I'm elder…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/17 04:21 PM