mikey152 Archive

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1	Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges. I think you’re kind of missing the forest for the trees here…. If you continue to focus on fairness and who has it worse, not only will it change nothing…it’s just going to make you miserable and even less likely to get what you actually want. Like how good do you think you’re going to be at forming a relationship with someone you resent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 11:21 AM
0	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity If the alternative is to lie about, or at the very least hide, who you are...you are acting selfishly. In a sense, you are basically using other people for your needs. Sure, you might not get as many women/dates being honest, but the ones you did get would be genuinely interested in you and not some mask. If you decouple your identity from your sexuality, this would be a lot easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:13 PM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. And now YOU are oppressed and the cycle continues... Even if this IS true (and I don't know that it is...certainly not all women are oppressors and not all men are oppressed), maybe your aim should be to break this cycle instead of perpetuating it. Instead of being a victim, be honest with yourself and look within. Be the best version of you and let the chips fall where they may. You might not have the life you think you deserve, but it will be a lot better than the angry one you are living now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 06:44 PM
4	Women DO LIKE nice guys who treat them right - but men don't understand female language - CMV This is the correct answer Do you know where I see the biggest discrepancy in looks? Church. There are some truly wonderful guys (read not nice but truly good real people) that punch WAY above their looks weight class	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 08:42 PM
2	Women DO LIKE nice guys who treat them right - but men don't understand female language - CMV Listen, being broke and fat DOES say things about your personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 08:41 PM
1	Women DO LIKE nice guys who treat them right - but men don't understand female language - CMV I would upvote this ten times if I could	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 08:39 PM
0	The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rug There’s a difference between a nice guy and a good guy. Women (and people in general, not just women) want to be around good guys, not nice guys. Basically, if you’re only nice to people so they’ll like you/sleep with you/you don’t want to fight…you might be a nice person, but you are not a good person. Women can tell. It’s also extremely unattractive because it’s all fake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 07:59 PM
3	Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ? I love how this is just a woman thing, like men don’t care way less if a woman is crazy/dumb/mean when she is hot. The vast majority of women aren’t attracted to assholes BECAUSE they are assholes…that premise is just dumb. What is more likely in most cases is the things women ARE attracted to likely correlate with a man being an asshole (ie selfish) due to an inflated ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 04:09 PM
1	CMV: It's ridiculous for women to think dating a men with a high body count is the same as dating a women with a high body count, and making fun of men who care. If you’re over 21 and an alcoholic, you’re a loser…if you’re under 21 and an alcoholic, you’re cool. But at the end of the day, you’re still an alcoholic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:18 PM
0	Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Ideal At the end of the day…people (not just women) are attracted to authenticity. So I think you’re right in the sense that it seems to be a bit of talking out of both sides of the mouth going on, but I think that’s because you’re focusing on the wrong thing…masculinity isnt so much about a list of traits as much as it is the ability to live outcome independent. To be mentally and emotionally strong and mature. A rock. Most toxic masculinity is fake ass alpha shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 05:56 PM
2	Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Ideal Being nice isn’t the same as being good. Nobody likes fake people…being fake nice for validation/sex is just as bad as being fake alpha for validation/sex. Neither one is authentic and both eventually show their true colors. It’s a cliche, but this is what being yourself really means. Don’t apologize for who you are and DEFINITELY don’t lie about who you are and what you think. If you don’t like yourself, don’t pretend to be somebody else…just work towards the person you want to be. The differen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 05:46 PM
2	If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important? What I can’t decide, is if you are being intentionally obtuse to try and make a point nobody is arguing, or if you really don’t see it. Everyone knows that one of the risks associated with having casual sex is one or both partners catching feelings. If both partners are single, they either stop having sex or stop having casual sex and start a relationship….pretty cut and dry and the only people involved in that decision are the sexual partners. Same scenario with someone in a relationship? Now t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 01:11 PM
1	Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men? I think there is a part you are missing…This isn’t all on the woman. The situation plays a role (did you meet at a party/bar/tinder or did you meet somewhere more wholesome?) and so does what the man wants. Hell, even relationship status, age, mental frame of mind etc all play a role. But I can give you anecdotal evidence of this…my wife was very “sexually liberal” in that she took guys home from bars, had fuck buddies, etc. in fact, she was pretty sure she was never gonna settle down. On our se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 06:45 PM
9	I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other. The red pill uses scientific method? Thanks for the laugh. Confirmation bias has no place in science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 03:02 PM
10	I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other. Both groups are incredibly self-centered versions of the male and female experiences, respectively, as it relates to interactions with the opposite sex. They both want the same thing: validation from the opposite sex. FDS wants a man who dominates everyone around him EXCEPT for her because SHE is special. It’s not about him, it’s about what it says about her. Similarly, Red Pill men want an attractive woman who denies men left and right but gives into him easily and freely because he is special.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 02:54 PM
21	The main dating problem for women is that they want commitment and relationships from guys who can enjoy the fullest extent of their company without committing This post really represents the blind spot a lot of men have on this sub: You can have casual sex with women without treating them like a sex object, just as you can commit to women while still treating them like one. Saying you would make a girl your girlfriend based on looks and very minimal interaction is either one of two thing: either you see her as a sex object you’d want to fuck multiple times, or you’re desperate and will take anyone who isn’t fat or a bitch. Flat out, no girl is going f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 06:44 PM
2	The main dating problem for women is that they want commitment and relationships from guys who can enjoy the fullest extent of their company without committing It’s because men, on average, aren’t as in touch with their emotions…as a result, when they feel a certain type of way about something they fee an innate need to justify that feeling with logic instead of just going with it. They think it means they aren’t run by their emotions, but what it really means is they are better at lying to themselves about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 06:24 PM
1	What do small penis guys do? I don’t think the statement is necessarily incorrect so much as it needs to be qualified. “Big Dick” is relative…a guy with a decently thick 6 or 7 inch dick has a “big dick” statistically, but I’m not sure he is guaranteed to see it that way based on perception. A guy with an undeniably large dick, though? Chances are pretty good that dude is confident unless he is a total train wreck outside of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 01:30 PM
-4	N-Count Mega-Thread If I had a magic wand, the one thing I think I would change is the whole pseudo-science evolutionary psychology instinct bullshit that runs rampant. If you don’t want to date a high n woman because you have a fragile ego, just admit it. If she is sending clear signals that she isn’t looking to settle down and you are, so be it. If you can’t handle that she used to be easy and has since changed and has more respect for herself so now you “have to pay for what other guys got for free” so be it. Bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 11:17 AM
3	The only way to date as a modern male is to screen hard At the end of the day, it really is all about a shift in mindset… If you ARE desperate and/or needy, you’re going to come across that way no matter how much you try and hide it with game or resentment or whatever. Sure, maybe you’ll hold it together long enough to get laid a couple times, but that is probably a best case scenario for most guys. So really, just stop putting so much pressure on yourself. If you aren’t having fun, is it even worth continuing? I know the need for validation is stron…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 11:02 AM
0	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy This post is 100% accurate. Self pity = Narcissism + failure	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 01:58 PM
2	CMV: Rejecting someone for things like height or cup size is not morally equivalent to rejecting them for things like weight or personality To be fair, you could almost argue the opposite… If you’re not attracted to someone because of something they can ever change, well…it’s never going to change. If, on the other hand you’re not attracted to them because of something they CAN change, perhaps it is less of an issue in the long run.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 06:31 PM
4	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. My wife has a stressful job. She has three kids (one bio and my two). She has a pain in the butt family that comes to her with their problems. She has pain in the butt friends that come to her with their problems. It’s a lot of stress. After the honeymoon phase, we settled into a one or two time a week pace with sex…mostly vanilla. I was generally initiating most of the time and maybe feeling some type of way about it, because my wife loves sex. We would argue and that pressure from my insecurit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 10:16 AM
2	Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible advice Getting a hobby to attract women is needy as fuck and I highly discourage that type of advice. On the other hand, living your life and growing as a person regardless of what other people think is one of the keys to a happy life and winds up being very attractive. Having a hobby isn’t what makes you attractive…it’s being an authentic person who enjoys their life that does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 04:35 PM
2	All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible. Sometimes I am just amazed at how cold and calculated these posts are. Some of you really need to re-examine your priorities in life, IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 04:04 PM
8	Despite popular rhetoric, it is women not men who have extremely inflated self images Are we going to pretend that “dude flexing in a mirror” selfies aren’t a thing? This is really the true problem, imo…it’s not so much that you’re wrong that there are a lot of superficial women out there in social media…it’s the hypocritical tone you take about it like men don’t have equally self inflated egos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 01:17 PM
2	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? Pressuring people is not attractive. It works early in a relationship because it is ew and exciting and so their defenses are down…but over time, constantly being bombarded with shit you don’t want to do by somebody faking being an alpha is just annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 11:36 AM
1	Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings Real confidence is outcome independence….doing something because you want to or because it is the right thing to do, regardless of the outcome. Self validating. Being who you truly are in the face of things like rejection and not letting it shake you. Doing things that you make you look good to others in order to gain something (validation, trust, respect, etc) is not confidence…it is pride. This can lead to narcissism (or self pity if you fail to gain what you seek). That is NOT what people are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 11:26 AM
3	Body count and infidelity excerpts So wait, you don’t appreciate it when someone takes a single aspect of your post, extrapolates it to the point there is no longer context, then makes statements about your character based on these out of context “straw men” Interesting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 04:57 PM
3	Body count and infidelity excerpts The ways this sub Reddit continually reduces complex, multi-variate people into single-variable stereotypes so that they can apply bullshit statistical narratives never ceases to blow my mind. Context is everything…that is why actually getting to know people is far more powerful than any statistics model. Narrative like this make it easy to maintain the pity party that a lot of the red, black whatever pilled men of ppd love throwing for themselves…you see, if all women are sluts and all sluts ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 03:35 PM
3	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? …And people that do are like a breath of fresh air. Unfortunately, it’s easier said than done. It takes an incredible amount of will and self confidence (with a dash of maturity) to live life outcome independent on your own terms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 04:34 PM
1	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? Two things: First, did they lie? If not, I don’t really see the problem. It’s not like the man is paying out of the goodness of his heart…he is trying to get something out of this, too. Second, women won’t just accept a free meal from any man…most of the time to even consider an invitation there has to be mild interest or at the very least no disinterest/neutral. A lot of times, I think saying it is just for the free food is a coping mechanism for when it inevitably doesn’t work out…but they’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:57 PM
3	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? This might be the single best post I’ve read in a while…too true. If men could just grow up and women could just respect themselves, the world would be a better place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:44 PM
2	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? You’re completely missing the point. No matter how detailed your criteria or standards are, it’s all still just a paper exercise. None of it really matters. At the end of the day your emotional brain is driving and your logical brain is just along for the ride…your logical brain might say “it’s faster if we stay on the highway”, but if your emotional brain wants to get off at the exit, it’s getting off at the exit and your logical brain will be quick to say “well, at least this way we can stop f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:40 PM
1	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? So…when your partner gets a sweet new haircut and finds this perfect pair of jeans that makes their ass look incredible, are you going to be like “listen, honey, I love you, but your number has gone from a 6.5 to a 7 and we are no longer looks matched…we need to break up” Maybe if you got to know people as people instead of evaluating whether or not you would date/fuck them or they would date/fuck you, you might understand how needy/immature/sad what you are saying really is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 02:16 PM
1	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? If it’s not what you want, of course it does…I am a person, not a math problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 01:47 PM
1	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? Why would you settle for anything less than what you want unless you’re desperate? That’s kind of the whole point…who are you to tell people what they should and shouldn’t settle for? As far as “standards” go…most people with any kind of wisdom will tell you they are bullshit. Someone will come along offering something you didn’t even know you wanted. That doesn’t mean you settled, it means you grew/opened your mind/matured…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 01:35 PM
4	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? The point is you’re focusing on something that matters very little in the grand scheme of things…you’re boiling down whether or not someone is a good match based on a subjective number that is 100% superficial. Men on this sub wear the “men are less picky” thing like a badge of honor…as if “you have a vulva and you’re not fat…you’ll do” is a compliment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 12:48 PM
10	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? “Happy with your looks match” Therein lies the problem… As a man, the more I come to this subreddit the worse I feel for women. They keep saying the same thing over and over again and quite a few of the men on this Subreddit just refuse to listen. In a nutshell…if men want more real, healthy relationships they don’t need to get ripped or make bank…they need to fucking grow up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 11:18 AM
1	"Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTR Most of it, honestly. A lot of your assumptions present as projecting, to me. You’re fixated on looks and sex, so you assume that everyone is, and if they say they aren’t they’re lying. Then you take in their actions under that lens and color them with all sorts of subjectivity. (Ie that girl was only talking up her bf because I know how hot her hookup was). Do looks matter? Of course. Does physical attraction matter more in a mostly physical relationship? Of course. Anything beyond that in your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 04:52 PM
1	"Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTR Logical doesn’t always equal correct, it just equals logical. All logical arguments require assumptions…that’s where your feelings and beliefs come in to play. I’ve got to say…some of your assumptions are utter bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 04:24 PM
2	"Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTR EVERYONE wants to be with someone that wants to be there…that’s an expectation everyone should set for every relationship they enter in to. Having said that, that doesn’t remove you from responsibility. Part of your job as a partner is to continue being someone they want to be with, or accepting it when you aren’t because you grow apart. In other words, if you’re being a good husband to make your wife happy or get sex or whatever, you’re probably doomed to fail…chances are your needs won’t alway…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 04:02 PM
1	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? I was just thinking about this in another thread… I think a huge issue with members of both sexes that struggle in relationships is they don’t actually like the opposite sex. Sure, they’re heterosexual so they want to FUCK them, but they don’t really respect or like them for various reasons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 03:20 PM
1	So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship? Get some female friends…preferably ones you don’t want to fuck. Not acquaintances, but actual friends. If an average guy can’t get women, often times it’s because he is uncomfortable around them or maybe doesn’t even like/resents them due to feelings of rejection. The reality of the world is, if you want to act like a fuckboi (have lots of sex and not ever actually like/respect women), you’re gonna have to make it worth their while (ie be attractive). Either that or let someone walk all over you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 03:02 PM
2	Being average at everything makes you below average Who actually dates like this, anyway? The whole idea of ratings and SMV is just silly…it feels like a way to logic something that is 100% governed by the emotional brain. Ultimately I feel like that is the problem here on this sub. The men are approaching dating from a logical perspective, and the women are approaching it from an emotional perspective…likely because they are working from their stereotypical strengths. The problem is, attraction and love AREN’T logical…they are 100% based on the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 05:16 PM
1	[M] in defense of women… men are just as helpless when they encounter beautiful women. It’s called alcohol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 04:53 PM
-1	Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men. While I agree with your general premise, I think you are missing the mark a bit in a few respects… First off, the penis (and by extension, penetrative sex) is at the core of male identity. It is quite literally what makes a man a man. Concerns about penis size, sexual prowess (especially relating to piv), ability to attract sex, etc. all speaks to this core pillar of the male identity…in other words, anything that reflects poorly on a man’s penis questions his very identity as a man (and positiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 07:27 PM
1	I'm very new to all these pills but red pill seems very convincing. Can women in this sub refute the following claims ? Let’s use an analogy: Person A needs to rent a car for the weekend on vacation. When they go to the rental place, they have all kinds of cars available…including a mustang convertible they always wanted to drive. Later, when it comes time to buy a car…sure they had fun with the mustang, but it’s not practical. No real backseat, high insurance premiums, rear wheel drive in inclimate weather. They buy a Toyota Camry instead and they love it. It meets all their needs and they upgraded to some sexy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 12:42 PM
1	Two studies on mate choice hypothesis of female orgasm. Thoughts? Downvote me if you want. You’re the one that just floated the idea of putting “I like giving women orgasms” on his dating profile. That’s 100% about you and how it makes you feel. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a9169991/why-guys-love-female-orgasms/	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 04:58 PM
0	Two studies on mate choice hypothesis of female orgasm. Thoughts? Here’s the thing…that’s not actually attractive. It IS creepy. Focusing on a woman’s pleasure because it gets you off is selfish, not selfless. You’re using her body to validate you as a lover and a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:14 PM
2	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated Quite possibly one of the most amusing things I see in these forums is the disconnect between “women do everything to ensure successful offspring” and how immature and selfish modern, western women are…why is there this need to invoke fake science? Is it because the point seems stronger if you do? It’s all about opportunity, attraction and comfort, for both sexes. This should be intuitive to everyone everywhere if you just step outside of your bubble for a second. Everyone may be willing to bend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 01:18 PM
1	If a man is not the best his woman has ever had, he should not be in that relationship. Feelings drive the bus…for everyone, not just women. Men just THINK they are more in control. Feelings happen first. If you make your partner feel good, their rational brain will logic that into it’s because you are good. If you don’t make them feel good, or even as good, then the rational brain will logic that it is because you aren’t as good. What is NOT happening is the logical brain comparing two people and telling you how to feel. So in a sense, you are right…how you make your partner feel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 01:51 PM
1	If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material" Fuckbois and Incels are two sides of the same coin. Both put way too much of their identity into their sexual prowess (or lack there off). If they are successful, they become prideful dochebags who use women to inflate their ego. If they are unsuccessful, they become self hating douchebags who blame women to inflate their ego. But at the end of the day it is all about them and how women react to them and how it makes them feel…the women are just a means to an end. A healthy man sees other men an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 09:59 PM
1	Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women? “I want you to WANT to fuck me all the time, but only try to fuck me when I’m in the mood.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 07:58 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material If your end goal is sex it is, I guess…but that should be obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 01:26 AM
0	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material It’s not punishment unless all you care about is sex. Not all dudes want to fuck on the first date, you know…especially with women they actually like as people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 12:12 AM
-1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material That’s the whole problem…if you’re dating her just to fuck, you’re just a crappy fuckboi and I guess you should be pissed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 10:32 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material This really comes down to male pride. A lot of the typical male’s identity is wrapped up in his ability to have sex with women. So much so that they idolize mythical “chad” who’s only real claim to fame is how often he gets laid. But like all things associated with pride (and the other side of the coin, self pity) this thinking is toxic. Everything is self-centered. A girl could be hopelessly in love with a man and want to spend the rest of her life with him, and he would feel slighted because s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:35 PM
1	Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value. I mean, if the shoe fits… For starters, you took a person’s comments and, instead of empathizing (you know, because they are complaining about the same thing as you…OLD) you are making it about you. Pretty much the definition of self-centered. You’re a hypocrite. Maybe if you stop making people a means to an end in your life (ie what they do for you and how they impact you) you will have better luck. It’s the difference between a nice guy and a good guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 05:09 PM
6	Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value. What makes you so sure that “wanting a girlfriend” is the only criteria for being a good man? Life sucks for EVERYONE to some degree. I mean, we are all gonna get old and die someday. If you had the option, would you pick the person that made you forget that life sucks, if even for a little while, or the person who reminded you of that? Let me put it this way…if you’re going out Friday night, are you calling up your buddy who is always down for a good time and is hilarious or the one who you hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 08:09 PM
1	The hotter she is, the more insecure she is You’re not going to like the answer… There are really only two proven ways to get past it that I have seen: -Religion. Like the unshakable, believe it in your bones type. That hope of “if not this life, then the next” transcends most expectations. You’d be amazed at how joyful a person who has truly “found Jesus” can be. -Acceptance that everything is fucked and we’re all gonna die someday, but in spite of that…human consciousness is an amazing gift and every living person owes it to the univers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 07:52 PM
1	The hotter she is, the more insecure she is This is the trappings of the maturing brain (no offense) at work…you’ve moved beyond just doing what feels good in the moment in favor of delayed gratification. People do what they perceive to be the right things (eat well, groom themselves, etc) because they have learned that doing those things tend to lead to even better things happening. The problem is two fold: -good things are not guaranteed by doing the right thing -good things are almost never enough…people always want more Whether you fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 07:31 PM
1	The ultimate freedom for a man is to free himself of the notions of being a "loser" or "winner" Just because you feel a certain type of way about the world or about women, then look for evidence to corroborate those feelings…that might make something your truth, but that doesn’t make it THE truth. Let’s face facts…anybody that calls someone they loved enough to marry at some point a “vicious cunt” probably didn’t do “nothing wrong”. The bitterness in this post, in this sub, and on the manosphere is palpable. For all the talk about being a man, finding purpose, etc…it’s all still just a mea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/21 02:59 PM
1	Is marriage worth it in today’s era? It’s not shaming, it’s accurate. All of your points are irrelevant of sex and equally valid for both parties. I am a man and I was not divorce raped. It is not a forgone conclusion nor likely even the norm. If I had to guess, the reason there is this prevailing opinion that men get screwed in divorce is because a lot of the men getting divorced are immature and act like victims. Sort of a self selecting set.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 09:46 PM
2	Is marriage worth it in today’s era? Misogyny and bitterness…that’s all I see in you post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 09:37 PM
1	Is marriage worth it in today’s era? A more underrated aspect of marriage is legal privileges, especially if one partner is debilitated. If you’re not married and your partner finds themself in a coma, you might not have any say in their treatment or their finances…legally that responsibility will fall to the court and often times a parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 09:31 PM
1	Is marriage worth it in today’s era? This is just a poor comment all around. Paying child support has nothing to do with marriage. The two aren’t mutually exclusive. As for losing everything, you lose half. You both lose half. If you think that isn’t fair, there is a good chance that might be one of the reasons the marriage failed in the first place. Not to mention that goes both was and has nothing to do with sex of the spouse. As women earn more, this point is negligible As far as kids go, recent examples show that you are actual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 09:06 PM
3	Why do most men associate beauty with arousal? I’ve read all the comments in this thread, and the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle. More testosterone means it is easier to get aroused. Men have more testosterone. So, in general, it is easier for men to get aroused. But I do also think there is a social component at play. I don’t know that I would blame porn, though. Porn is more a result of the social dynamic than a cause. The reality is the male sexual response has been normalized. Most people truly believe it is “out of their co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 02:32 PM
1	CMV: Playing the numbers game and relaxing your standards actually yields you more total 'stunners' as a guy I’m really not attacking you…just posing a question in response to yours. I just think it is silly to base sexual success on what women look like with their clothes on…instead of stuff that actually matters like how good the sex is. But the reason it happens is two fold: Men generally get off during sex so quality matters less And External validation That’s it. So, in the end, the lens you were able to make your observation through is the issue. That’s all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 07:57 PM
1	CMV: Playing the numbers game and relaxing your standards actually yields you more total 'stunners' as a guy It was the “thread that broke the camels back” I know it comes off as a little preachy, but seriously…why do you even care? Like honestly, what is your endgame based on this perceived duality? Instead of focusing on how to fuck hotter girls, maybe you should look at strategies that result in satisfying sexual encounters/relationships…but you never see a thread about that here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 07:48 PM
1	CMV: Playing the numbers game and relaxing your standards actually yields you more total 'stunners' as a guy I’m sorry, but, who cares? Consider me an oddball, but I just don’t get the fascination with fucking 10s (or 8+s in this case). Probably because my entire identity as a person isn’t wrapped up in my sexuality like a lot of (unhappy) folks on this sub. The only thing that fucking a hot girl really gets you, on its own, is validation. Do you know what it won’t get you, necessarily? Good sex, happiness, a relationship, etc…you know, the stuff you actually want if you’re not insecure and have your h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 07:33 PM
5	What is the right amount of dates do you think a woman should wait before having sex with you? Notice all the self-centered responses from the men indicating 0-3 dates or they walk…It’s all about how she “isn’t in to him” or “I better get what so and so got, and even if I don’t know there was a so and so I am just going to assume there was.” These men are not ready for a healthy relationship. That’s not to say they can’t grow into it during a relationship with someone they connect with, but on the whole they are far too selfish to truly be a healthy and loving partner. If you just need th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 05:57 PM
13	What is the right amount of dates do you think a woman should wait before having sex with you? Flat out, anybody who has or follows a rule is probably immature and either lacks control or self confidence (probably both). Second, men (and women) who are immature see sex as validation…if someone sleeps with you, they find you attractive. The problem is, those same people are also insecure as fuck, so they are always looking for ways to discredit themselves. If they have sex with you too early, they’re just easy and they aren’t really attracted…if it takes too long and/or they’ve had sex fas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 01:25 PM
4	What is the right amount of dates do you think a woman should wait before having sex with you? It’s because younger men, especially, have a lot of their identity tied up in their sexuality. They see how badly( or not) a woman wants to have sex with them as a direct reflection of themselves as a person/viable mate. You can see it with how “Chad” is discussed with equal parts disdain and reverence…they’re jealous. It doesn’t even matter if “Chad” is a sociopath incapable of love and true affection, he fucks, thereby he gets the highest form of external validation from women and is someone t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 01:16 PM
4	It’s perfectly valid to leave if she took longer to sleep with you then other guys. If there was ever a problem that came from the sexual revolution, this is it…lots of people (and quite a few of the men on this subreddit) consider their sexuality a core piece of their identity. Seeking validation through sex is a recipe for disaster and unhappiness, even if you are a Chad who gets sex regularly. That hole doesn’t have a bottom, so you’re never going to fill it. Sex should be for making babies and enhancing relationships…anything else is a slippery slope, whether you’re having …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 02:13 PM
7	Why is being considered “Husband material” better than being fwb material The more threads I read on here, the more I realize quite a few of the people here, both men and women, are extremely insecure. It’s fascinating. I feel like most people’s fears and insecurities create the exact situation they’re afraid of…it’s almost as if being right is more important than being happy. The OP is so afraid of being in a dead bedroom (again, most likely) that he is on the hunt for red flags…likely doing nothing but increasing his chances of either never finding someone due to be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 11:35 AM
0	CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attract You know how sometimes when you have a really busy day tomorrow, you go to bed early and try to get some sleep…but you just lay there thinking and actually wind up falling asleep even later? You try all kinds of tricks, maybe even use some drugs that might help you fall asleep but leave you groggy and sluggish? Sometimes, trying too hard to force something before you’re ready is a problem in and of itself and no tips or tricks are gonna help you. It’s not that female dating advice (or dating adv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 12:19 PM
1	Ladies build your perfect guy This was very specific...but it describes me almost to a T, so he does exist. Already taken, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 10:11 PM
2	Youtuber "Overdose": Some Redpillers are painfully blue pilled This lines up pretty well with what my wife said about height (we were talking about a >6’6” friend that can’t get dates)... She basically said “I like it like this...” (and proceeded to crane her neck at about a 45 degree angle from parallel to look me in the eyes) “...and not like this” (and held her neck at a 90 degree angle). She basically said there is such a thing as too tall. She is about 5’5”-5’6” and I am 5’10”-5’11”...so right about 10cm apart	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 07:08 PM
3	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. Sex drive is kind of like a car...the gas pedal makes it go faster and the brakes slow it down. Every person is different, but there are some (mostly) universal truths: Fun, social environments help to release the brakes Clear lack of consequences (feeling safe, feeling casual, birth control, etc) help release the brakes drinking releases the brakes good looks hit the gas feeling good about yourself hits the gas sexual tension hits the gas (dancing, suggestive talk timed correctly, etc) Every pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 04:01 PM
2	Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex. I think your general premise is correct, but it’s built on some false assumptions. I am a 42 year old man, and for the first 35 or so years of my life my only female friends were people I dated, wanted to date, or were dating friends of mine. I was a firm believer that men and women couldn’t be just friends. Then I got divorced. It was messy. She cheated. I was devastated...it’s how I even eventually found my way to the TRP as I tried to make sense of it all. In the midst of all my woman hating …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/21 12:26 PM
5	Human affection is NOT code for sex. If a man is truly lonely, he can make friends. Man, that’s just bullshit. The whole thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/21 07:11 PM
2	Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not? If you’re only nice to your wife to get sex or if you are getting sex, you’re not actually nice. Good guys get sex, nice guys don’t. Just because two people are married doesn’t mean you are entitled to anything. If you’re married and not having sex, you probably need to look in the mirror (and I don’t mean literally unless you really let yourself go). Complacency is an attraction killer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 07:03 PM
3	Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not? First off, I’m a guy. Just stating to be clear about my perspective Second, I don’t disagree that the PERCEPTION of alpha fucks, beta bucks is true...in other words, guys believe it is real. They will even move the goal post if chad was short and fat with a little dick...it will be because he was mean or something. What most men don’t understand is the reality of the situation. If a woman is willing to have casual sex (ie more than a one off time when she was super drunk or on vacation) AND agre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 03:24 PM
1	[Q4All] Do you think it’s important to go through a “Ho/Slut” phase? This might make sense if relationships were only about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 05:24 PM
1	Is there any evidence indicating that the 20% of the 80/20 are the same men for each and every woman queried? The irony in this post is palpable.. You spent the first part of it telling us about how you are basically ticking all the boxes for a “20%” man, and yet you strike out, anyway...isn’t this basically anecdotal evidence that the 80/20 is, in effect, bullshit? Flat out, it’s your attitude that holds you back. It’s easy to spot in just one post and I don’t even know you...because at one point in my life I was you. Until you ACTUALLY like yourself, it’s kind of a tall order to ask others to like you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/21 03:23 PM