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In general I find as a man I get compliments from Other men. This depends on your friend group and how open they are to supporting each other Women who think I'm "Safe to compliment". These are generally friends, and aquaintances when they know I have a partner already. Unfortunately enough guys take a compliment from a woman as an expression of interest and sometimes get quite creepy about it. I've had a two different female friends decide to "compliment more random guys" and then later say "oh…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 12:41 AM
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Sow hen you are at these events, are there opportunities to discuss whatever you are doing with women? Like "functional" conversations to start. Like "I need help moving this trestle table can you grab the other end?" Stuff like that
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 11:56 PM
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When you say "how to talk to women" what are meaning by this? I was assuming you were at the "I literally don't know how to have a conversation with a woman" stage (plenty of users pop up like that.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 11:36 PM
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Be around women in low pressure environment where you are doing a thing. Like clubs or classes or sports or whatever. A group where there is a thing" that is the focus, where you can start off talking about the "thing" and build your confidence through practice. Note it makes a *massive difference to be doing this in real life. For me a lot of this came through volunteering. From really basic conversations that are about the "thing" you can try out just more general chatting. If things go well t…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 09:35 PM
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Hey are we discussing definitions of incel again? The word "Incel" has its original meaning and current meaning: The Technical (original) definition of an INvoluntary CELIbate person. Which is how it started (The REPLY-ALL Podcast episode INVCEL has a good interview with the founder). The current meaning which is more of a cultural group, which is where someone has absolutely bought into the "blackpill" of incel ideology/thought/facts/worldview/whatever. Like simply check out the Wikipedia artic…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 03:37 PM
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Thanks for the info mate!
/r/ExRedPill14/02/25 02:08 PM
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Dude is all over this post replying to everyone its a bit wild.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 04:03 AM
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Because I can do whatever I want. Okay And I do not need your permission. Also okay To rephrase - was it a particular Google search or Reddit search that brought you to this post?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 03:54 AM
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Hey mate this is an old post (1 year plus) to suddenly by commenting all over. What brought you to such an old post and made you want to make so many comments?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/25 06:10 AM
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Dude you don't have to engage with every comment,especially if they are just seeking to rile you up.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 03:45 PM
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I also popped an edit in my previous long comment trying to break down the main ideas or points or threads as I read them of your original post
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 03:41 PM
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So does this mean you don't really have a social circle right now at all? Men or women? it seems relevant so roughly how old are you and what are you doing in life right now (highs school/college/work/etc)
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 03:37 PM
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Hey mate, when you want help you'll get better responses if you make your request as clear as possible. Not sure how old you are but have you ever been taught about essay structure at school? You don't need to write a proper essay here but breaking your ideas up into paragraphs would make it a lot easier to read and follow and respond to. So I'm going to try break this up a bit I grew up paranoid and outcasted with AuDHD and CPTSD. Afraid of growing up to the real world and often dream of fantas…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 03:26 PM
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Hey mate have you been around any divorces? Like one where you knew both parties and got to talk to both. And then we how they were several years down the track. I've been around a few, both adults older than me and friends my age. The ones I've been around clearly show the flaws in both parties. That there were major incompatibilities that could not be resolved by that couple. And with distance most of these divorces were "good" things that allowed each member to move on to be generally seek ha…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 03:51 PM
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Dude are you just promoting your YouTube channel? Damn it's impressive looking at a profile and seeing just so many removed posts. Maybe take the hint?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 04:37 AM
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whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic Hey so as someone who's been on the Internet a while I generally assume the chance that I'll change someone's mind is low. At a certain point that chance goes from "low" to clearly "none". At that point, why continue? Arguing with someone who's just going to say stuff to make me mad has zero benefit to me. I block and move on with my life. I think the "parting shot" you describe …
/r/ExRedPill06/11/24 09:27 PM
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Hey so testicular cancer patient here. One testicle got turned into medical waste. The general feedback from women is that they don't care at all. If we've got to the point of being naked around eachother its very low on the list of priorities. I strongly doubt its affecting your life nearly as much as consuming incel content, your mental health, and how you are thinking about women. That is definitely where I'd be focusing your efforts.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/24 07:59 PM
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A brilliant summation. I had the start of a reply in my head then saw this and realized it was a lot of words to say the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 05:51 PM
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This trend sounds like something quite unhelpful for you to engage with. There have been versions of this for years. Its popped up on reddit before where there will be an r/askreddit question about what women dislike in a partner and other people will react to that list as overwhelming. Because it is. But its also a sorting problem. You are in a situation where you are collecting everyone's dealbreakers without any sense that its different people all of whom have a bunch of things they do like a…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 03:19 PM
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My dude, a whole bunch of women took the time to answer your (kinda hostile) questions honestly. What if anything from those responses are you willing to accept as how they actually feel about relationships? Multiple times in your posts on this subreddit you've been accused of not listening to women and running off with your own ideas (heavily influenced by redpilled sources). This would be a great chance to demonstrate you are listening by reflecting on what these women said about their experie…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 01:14 PM
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So are you willing to provide any context here mate? Like are we talking about situations where you went on a date or like a year long relationship or what?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:33 AM
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"all the ones you've had" - you mean relationships? How old are you and how many relationships? (Also I'm assuming your reference to a Ferrari is hyperbole right? Those aren't a common thing people have) Because damn dude that's sucks. Where are you finding all the people who act like that? Because if you are routinely getting stuck in relationships like that maybe you need to change environment. Like I've lived in a few cities in the USA and Australia as an adult and never found myself in such …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:32 AM
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Depression definitely doesn't help. I found when depressed it was much easier to fall into black-and-white thinking. Stripping nuance and context cause it's like some large % of your brain is constantly running depression.exe so you need to take shortcuts elsewhere. And one of those would be grouping women up into a monolith. And another ris assuming the worst. So you might assume the worst about all women. I'd be recommending actively seeking help for your depression. And also figuring out if y…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 09:17 PM
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But it's much more likely for all the women saying they'll break up with their man to find better if he has an Android phone or shows basic human emotion to actually DO that IRL, because doing that is easy and legal. Hey mate what real world experience are you basing this off? What relationships have you had that reflect this? Like relationships that you have had with others or at least those you've had a "front row" seat to? As I outlined in my other response what you say does not reflect how i…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 01:11 PM
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Okay so have you had any relationships with women? Have you got good friends who are women? Or is this largely based on online discourse? I ask since as a man who's had and has both romantic and platonic relationships with women, as well as platonic relationships with men, I really don't find most of this holds. Every man wants to get with every woman No, have you not met a woman you did not want to "get with"? have you not had a date with a woman where it was you who decided to go no further? I…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 11:12 PM
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Whenever I've seen a demographic breakdown it's usually shown men seriously outnumbering women, often something like 3-to-1. I've also seen both online and in my real life more than one guy who just spams likes, with just liking everybody or having an extremely low threshold (liking 80%+). That's been going on for more than a decade now (hell that post you linked to is years old) so it's not a new phenomena. So I'm in no way surprised that the women who are on apps and trying are going to be mor…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 02:12 PM
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One thing that definitely helps is being a "peer-reviewed man". Being seen around women and seen having female friends really helps. Your already some degree of "vetted" if you are introduced as someone's friend.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 11:10 PM
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No I don't, stop putting words in my mouth. This isn't your safe space - you can't just expect redpilled thoughts to go unchallenged especially when used as a blatant misdirect. Wishing everyone else luck as I don't have the patience for trying to hand hold this user through their bad faith arguments today
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 10:58 PM
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Dude this isn't PPD. You can't just throw out redpilled talking points and expect an attaboy. Go back to the question.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 10:54 PM
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That wasn't the question.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 10:52 PM
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Hey mate this seems like a much more positive position than you were in last we talked. Especially glad to see: I wouldn’t be on Reddit so much/blaming others for my problems. Since that should be something of a help to your headspace Definitely happy to react to any further posts if you want to talk about this journey
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 10:45 PM
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IF you wanted help the discussion would be what your life looks like, what your goals are, and what changes you could make to work towards those goals. Like some basics: How old are you? Are you currently in employment/studying/whatever? Do you currently have an in person friendship group and what does that look like? In particular does that group include any women? Do you actually get chances in your life right now to meet new people, in particular women? (in particular anything in terms of soc…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:16 PM
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Because you are in a subreddit like this I'm assuming you want to try and improve your situation. Which is why I (and others) are motivated to try to help. So maybe you could workshop what you might do. Talk about what things are going on in your life that you might change or tweak to help you in dating or in general. It's also worth remembering this is reddit. ALL we know about you is your words. We don't know YOU and all that is going on. So it takes some degree of patience on your end as well…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:40 AM
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Hey mate that's not the impression of the advice you got on your last post, a couple of folks tried pretty hard to help. Though you absolutely got some people aggro with the inconsistency in your age. You will definitely run into issues if you start spouting redpilled or blackpilled terms, since a lot of spaces are going to view that as too big a red flag.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:13 AM
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Hey mate if you've not seen r/IncelExit before you might find that a useful subreddit to watch I'd also add to those who are saying you might want to look at social work as a field to be pursuing education in
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 08:21 AM
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Are you doomed? Well since this is EXredpill most folks here would say no and agree that is total BS. It's quite likely in your life that you'll be broken up with. Very very few people get it right the first time. Maybe you'll even get divorced. But it's probably going to be for various incompatibilities and stuff. You'll probably also break up with some folks.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 12:04 PM
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Hey mate I think you need a major purge of what content you are consuming online that's messing with your perception of women. I'd also add trying to find some real life social activity that puts you interacting with women or girls so that you can break down what barriers you are putting up that "others" (or worse dehumanizes) them.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 09:19 PM
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Its dehumanizing. And it can slip under the radar more effectively than other terms that are used in more private places (for example femoid). Its slowly becoming less acceptable though, as more people become aware of it. There are people who'll use it accidentally (apparently its common in military circles and can crop up with those for whom English is a second language) so its not an automatic indicator, but it can be a red flag when used.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 11:54 PM
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Through his posts (including many deleted ones*) OP has had many, many arguments about this. They seem uninterested in change and I'd pretty much say they are trying to recruit people into the black pill (if unintentionally) by being only willing to engage in "debate" not well intentioned discussion. *OP pattern of posting an incel-adjacent topic on the changemyview subreddit then deleting said post caught more than just my attention. It's a pattern that takes a few rounds to catch but then it b…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 08:47 PM
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Hey man you've posted a LOT in r/changemyview about this topic (and deleted a lot of it as well). Do you think this combative style of conversation is helping you at all or is it just digging you deeper? I don't think me or anyone else is going to argue you out of being miserable. That's something you have to choose for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 08:34 PM
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I think this might be unnecessarily broad in how you stated that first sentence. Asking what someone's job is is a fairly standard "getting to know you" question. It's what most people put the most time into each week and has a lot of knock on effects (how much time does someone work, how stressful, what education they achieved beforehand, do they travel for work, is it physical or not). I absolutely get that a focus on income, especially disposable income, would be a red flag most of the time t…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 09:46 PM
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If you think you are getting derailed by that specific aspect of your post, you can always throw an edit on your post to add an explanation that you don't think that is a good example of your thesis.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 11:15 AM
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Which parts of the Original Post are you seeing in your real life? Like also I went into more detail with discussion with OP about an alternative phrasing where men are more "active" in dating while women are more "passive" due to cultural expectations, does that ring to you at all?
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 10:45 AM
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Okay so sounds like you are thinking too much about a hypothetical to distress yourself. IF you do find yourself in such a situation you absolutely would be right to consider if you want to still be in such a relationship. Why would you do so much nice stuff if it wasn't reciprocated in the longer term? (There are ebbs and flows in relationships). BUT it would be much, much, much more likely that you would end up in a relationship where your partner was also trying to do similar things for you. …
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 10:19 AM
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Okay so in relationships in general there is going to be a huge variety of experiences. Especially if you seek it out you can find yourself a partner who is just as active in making the relationship work as you are. What exactly are you worried about within relationships?
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 10:02 AM
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Cool glad you like the active/passive phrasing since that's a bit of a better position to be working from. I'd suggest as you get to know more women and have relationships you might see the more subtle ways women will push relationships into happening. Again this is very much a generalization and there are plenty of exceptions (with my current girlfriend was very much the one who pursued me, she started with subtle hints which i missed but then moved onto actually hitting on me directly). And al…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 09:51 AM
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Like how old are you? Got any good female friends? Like I'm wondering if you've ever gotten a good insight as to what a woman might be putting into a relationship on her end, or if you're just listening to tales coming from just guys? The "first move" and "proposing" status are very much cultural inertia. You absolutely can find women who do this in the modern day. But we're all bearing the weight of cultural expectations from the past which put women in a much more passive role and men in a muc…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 09:21 AM
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Hey mate up top - what are you basing your opinion on women on? Is this based on relationships you yourself have had? I ask because this seems like a lot of very specific online talking points here. My own personal life has definitely not found any of the things you stated as generalities.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 08:53 AM
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A phrase I like that encompasses a lot of the problems with the redpill is "All Women Are Like That" (AWALT). Which yeah, kinda falls apart quickly when you try to make "all women" do two contradictory things
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 08:03 PM
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Personally I've pretty much never run into that attitude being said by any women I'm friends with. I'd say that you are totally fine to filter for women who act like that (if someone isn't at least offering to split the second date for example). I'd be super curious as to the "behind the scenes" of such videos. How many people do they talk to? What sort of questions or discussions do they start with to prime the interviewee to answer like that? Maybe such women do exist, but I'd expect that you'…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 12:03 AM
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Right on dude love to hear it! Glad you found good friends too, that can take a bit of time and be a bit frustrating when you come out of a red pilled space.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 02:39 PM
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So there are some deep conspiracies that Reagan was gay and there exists a secret sex tape of him in homosexual acts. I wonder if that's percolated out into some part of the manosphere?
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 09:04 PM
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Yup, there is a lot going on there and my dude needs to consider changing their direction.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 09:30 PM
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Also additional note - i can see a bunch of attempts by you to reply something to me in nostupidquestions but it looks like those are getting caught in a spam filter. Would you like to talk or would you like to continue with that plan?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 06:33 PM
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Fair enough, I went through your post history you went through mine. I still don't understand why I'm a "shill" and why my comments are "psyops" - feel free to explain with more detail if you want I still have the many questions I already asked you, but lets just start with teh below: By your own admission you have done 20k cold approaches with no success, and have had to do time for threatening people. Yes that's really worrying. Aren't you at all interested in looking at an alternative plan fo…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 06:26 PM
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This isn't my job. I am not sure what you think I am shilling for. I just remembered our past interaction (not hard to find) and then realized what you'd been posting recently. It took one Google search to find that news story, it was the top result. Copy, paste, click.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 05:41 PM
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What am I a shill for? By your own admission you have done 20k cold approaches with no success, and have had to do time for threatening people. Yes that's really worrying. Aren't you at all interested in looking at an alternative plan for this? This doesn't sound like you are happy or having much success in your current path
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 05:28 PM
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Yeah I just wasn't up for adding that to the list of issues. I'm frustrated that OP seems to be someone who "drip feeds" little bits of information that by themselves are somewhat concerning, but get really worrying when viewed as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 05:20 PM
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Hang on, didn't we have a discussion on r/NoStupidQuestions about you going onto college campuses to creep on women? During class hours because you are unemployed? Yeah here it is I think its very creepy. It speaks of a man who isn't confident he can interact with a fully matured woman his own age and also has a very immature version of attraction largely based on youthful aesthetics. I think you should be looking at doing some much more serious introspection. You might find it helpful to create…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:40 PM
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People who take the courses? I like to assume they are inexperienced and looking for a way to make up for that inexperience. And that they are being taken advantage of by the people offering the course. I also like to hope that such folks might be able to engage with discussion of how to approach relationships in a healthier way.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:56 PM
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The r/IncelExit r/exredpill response to that is "you're shallow vapid and gross for wanting to have sex outside of a relationship you should be looking for a partnership not just sex", which to me is dissmisive and unhelpful You got any exact quotes you want to link for context? I've seen a few of your posts and i wonder if you are choosing to take the responses in a particular way (as well as the many comments I've seen you not engage with). Edit to add: what did you think of this detailed comm…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 01:46 PM
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One thing I've said to awkward guys is if you are unsure about "date or hangout" us to explicitly use the word "date" (assuming you want a date). Don't say "catch up", don't say "grab a coffee", don't say "hang". Say "date".
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:01 PM
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Hey so a question - have you had a relationship with sex? Like one where you did get a chance to repeatedly please your partner? If so, did the size of your penis matter? I'm asking because this sounds very much like something you've determined based on "stuff online" rather than "lived experience"
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:56 PM
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Hey mate have a look at what comments you are engaging with in this post. Out of a dozen comments you chose to engage with this one, which reinforced your world view. In what other ways are you choosing what to engage with in your life?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:52 PM
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Did you even read the subreddit name before spamming your content here sunshine?
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 08:16 PM
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Am I wrong for thinking my ex who is a virgin and at the time dating him I was too, is an incel? For just being a virgin? No. That doesn't make him an incel He would complain about women who only want guys who are six feet and all of that 🙄 Oh that, that sounds like someone who might be an incel. It seems like a lot of young guys these days are virgins but it really narrows the dating pool for me as the thought of dating a virgin especially as someone who lost their virginity makes me cringe. Wh…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 10:26 PM
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Yes, this is all good stuff. Its also more than than two words "be yourself". How could you expand on that further? You might say that it takes reading the room to know what or how much to share. You might want to discuss how the amount you share depends on how well you know someone. Imagine you are talking to someone who is really struggling with the basics of social interactions. How do you explain it from that starting point? See my previous statement: When dealing with folks coming out of th…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 06:50 PM
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Being yourself means own who you are. And what does that actually look like? Like I would make the assumption that this advice is being aimed at a socially awkward teenage boy. Because your advice might mean "double down on being a NEET and be proud of it" which Im guessing you wouldnt agree with. When dealing with folks coming out of the Redpill (or incels for that matter) my general assumption is that they went down that path looking for concrete answers when they were inexperienced and uncert…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 05:52 PM
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Given OP is trying to look for alternatives to redpilled advice I'm guessing he wants more details. What does "being honest" mean? What does "being yourself" mean?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 04:07 PM
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A few thoughts: Make sure You've got the basics under control. Basic grooming. Clean clothes. Don't smell. Etc. Dress and style with a look in mind, perhaps expanding your wardrobe. Having some sort of style is going to be better than just rolling into whatever clothes are lying around (though if you get your wardrobe right it can end up that easy). Be interesting. Have hobbies and/or develop a lifestyle that people would want to be a part of. Again this depends on what you enjoy. If you are add…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 03:17 PM
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Hey so have you actually experienced either of those personally? Or is this based on assumptions?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 06:04 PM
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So I am a serious home body and don’t socialise that much I’m not talking to any girls and online dating is atrocious I mean yeah you are going to have to change that. Either figure out online dating and/or work on your social life. I'd vote "social life" since it has a lot of other benefits. Also somewhat based on this post and somewhat based on your post history maybe do some serious reconfiguring how you think about women. You've got some serious hangups going on right now which aren't going …
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 03:47 AM
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Are they? Like taking your word for it, women with careers aren't dependent on their partner. They aren't going to be as scared of the problems that will come from breaking a divorce since they have the resources to make a single life. This is both in terms of the basics of finances (they have their own income) and other resources like having an independent social network (their work friends are somewhat separate from the couples friends).
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 07:46 PM
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Mate you realize there is a massively spectrum between Social Butterfly and Hermit right? Like Redpill often presents things as simple binaries which annihilates nuance, context and compromise. The most successful guys I know now in my late thirties all made time for a social life in their twenties. They were also wise enough to moderate around important events ("hey it's exam week so can't come out tonight").
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 12:41 AM
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To be clear you are refering to this comment right? Because it seems like you are applying a very specific lens when reading that interaction
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 06:04 PM
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Hey man you don't sound like you're doing too crash hot mentally. I'd echo what others are saying about seeking help. And also about taking a break from subreddit you find are reinforcing your mental health issues.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 07:39 AM
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This subreddit would generally give you more complex advice influenced by your situation, generally to people who are making their way away from extreme and polarized views. If you wanted dating advice you could ask for it here, though it would help to give much more context.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:53 PM
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There would definitely be overlap. Think more the Andrew Tate style bullshit. A lot of toxic masculinity and performative masculinity.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:37 PM
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So the name is a reference to the Matrix (see here) Its used in a number of different contexts. But the dominant form on Reddit is with regards to gender and dating. This is the use that is relevant to this subreddit. These ideas have some basic self ideas built in (get in shape, dress well, find things to be confident about) and a bunch of misogyny (generalizations about women including things like hypergamy and such). They provide "easy answers" to the complicated question of dating so are qui…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:23 PM
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Dude you've got a brand new account with no information to give context about what you are saying. You're refusing to give any context or summary. It's a massive video at multiple hours. If you want people to watch it act less like a bot and try and sell some of the talking point of your idea here.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 02:54 PM
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Because there are quite a few superficial people in this world, and TikTok has an advanced enough algorithm to make sure to feed them the stuff they want. Also how does browsing that subreddit make you feel? Cause it seems to be a subreddit designed to make sure you see content that's going to distress you
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 10:01 PM
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Some do. Some are women who also dig that philosophy. Especially if they are also bound up in conservative/reactionary/antifeminist viewpoints. Think of all the "tradwives" for example. Some are women have shit going on that means they ignore those red flags. Surely you know people, not just women, who overlook what seems to be obvious red flags in their partners?
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 05:50 PM
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Hey so you might want to slow down with your comments and try a bit of editing and formatting. Its might make it easier for your point to be made. It sounds like your main points are something like: Everyone is coming from a different background so no advice will work for everyone In particular you are unhappy with western, middle-class standards being seen as "normal" when they don't apply to others Would that be correct?
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 03:06 PM
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I agree its quite possible to end up in that situation as a young man. That's when you might find picking up a new activity/class/whatever comes in. Find yourself something with a bit more of a mix.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 02:49 AM
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*women What advice do you think that women should be getting that they are not from "modern feminism"?
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 10:18 PM
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Yeah I guess. But I feel like I need to learn how to turn conversation into a friendship first before I even think about dating I mean, yes that. A relationship can be (very simplistically) seen as a friendship with additional complications. If you aren't making friends its going to make it hard to manage a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 04:47 AM
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Hey so it's also not a black/white distinction. It's more of a spectrum or relative scale. Like the girl you had talked to in class, that would be warmer than the girl you were in class with and didn't talk to, which was still warmer than the girl who was a stranger in the cafeteria. But part of why I like a warmer approach is that you have already established a rapport of discussion with them and have things to talk about. So you have a reason to start a discussion. It sounds then you have to f…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 02:32 AM
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Hey so when it comes to approaching women I'm a big fan of a "warm approach" where you already are known to them. This is to contrast to a "cold approach" where you just try to start a conversation with a stranger in a public place (which is a very high-skill and low-success strategy). This means people who you've already met in a social situation. Friends of friends or people you do an activity with (hobbies/volunteering/sports/whatever). Per your OP this means you "stand out" because it means …
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 01:35 AM
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Hey mate I've always thought this page does a good job of going over how to be a friend in this sort of situation. It's a delicate and somewhat unintuitive path since only she can make the choice to get help/get out
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 05:45 PM
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Well said. Also there was an update to the block feature this year that stops people you've blocked being able to reply to you. It's great for dealing with little trolls.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 02:51 PM
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I think its combinations of: Word choice hanging our in these toxic spaces will get specific words into your vocab. Like the obvious "females" Different meanings for words the meaning of words will change. for example the way you say and what you mean by "feminist" can indicate a lot about you. References made: Things like "The Wall" or "80/20" or "spinning plates" aren't part of common vocab and using those indicate where you might have picked them up. Stances taken It can be easy to take a sta…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 05:49 PM
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I mean it's better than suicide. But that's a low bar.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 05:08 PM
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I think its wildly delusional and only begins to "make sense" if viewed through the lens of someone so myopically black-pilled that they cannot fathom the repercussions of that choice. It ignores so much while taking so much effort that could be more beneficially directed elsewhere. I would note that it's possible it's used as the "reason" someone who's thinking they are trans comes out that that could be helpful as others have noted. But I'd hope such a person would have other, better support t…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 04:23 PM
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The second bit. His comment about penis size. Quite a few people disagreed.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 04:54 AM
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Hey my dude if you are talking about the "red pill" within gender discussion it's got a pretty solid definition (see my comment for more details). Trying to force the usage back to the Matrix definition is not going to work
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 08:03 PM
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So the origin of the term "the red pill" is from the matrix and within that movie it used in the context you describe. "The Red Pill" as used in the subreddit title is a particular evolution of that term which describes a number of beliefs that are presented as upsetting truths about gender and dating. If you are looking at the wiki page for red pill scroll down to the section "As political metaphor" and have a read from there. Especially when it starts mentioning the manosohere. That is the spe…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 04:50 PM
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Where are you that that is the norm? I would say there is a very traditional view that the only acceptable emotion for men is anger. I do not think that's helpful. And I think there are plenty of environments you can find yourself where that is not the dominant view. In my own life for instance that is not the dominant view at all. If you find the people around you are only espousing that view, are you able to change that (whether by changing who you associate with or where you physically are)?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 03:30 PM
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So some stuff I do when I volunteer to make new friends or perhaps introduce myself to a nice lady (volunteering is my jam but you can run the below with most social stuff) Purely practical conversation. "I need help moving this table can you grab the other end". Simple stuff. Simply breaking the ice. Talk about the thing you guys are doing. "Damn this table is heavy isn't it?". Talk about why they do the thing "how'd you end up up volunteering here?" Expand beyond that. "So what do you do when …
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:23 PM
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Okay so I cannot help you with the OCD. But. Basically the warmer the approach the more likely your chance of being successful. You'll have advantages like: * some sort of shared interest or values at least social circle to give you a starting point. * an immediate topic of conversation to begin with * third parties who can give you help or feedback ("hey buddy, if your friend single? She seemed nice at our last meetup reckon I should ask her out?"). * they might already have a positive impressi…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 03:45 PM
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What exactly do you mean by a "cold approach"? To me it means approaching someone who is effectively a stranger in a public setting (like a train station) and I generally think of it as one of the most difficult ways to date. Personally I find comments like this one that could be called "social vetting" generally a better idea. Expand your social circle such that you meet someone who isn't a total stranger and you are in a much "warmer" situation
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 02:44 PM
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My dude, what are you basing this on? Have YOU had relationships? Have you got close female friends to discuss this with? To me this sounds like a young man who's watched too much pilled content. Who are the "men" you refer to with such generality? Because it ain't me or most of my friends. I feel like men and women in modern times are in a limbo assuming the opposite gender has it better in dating than they. With the right friends you can start to work out that it's much more granular than just…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 10:32 AM
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Yes Very much so. Its a very particular guy who isn't going to support that (redpilled asshats) Though I'm wondering if the "off the grid" lifestyle has a bit more overlap with redpill garbage than other niches?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 05:22 PM
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why would you care about karma on this account that seems to be only exist to complain in this subreddit? Edit to add:OP was complaining that their comments get "angry downvotes" when they engage
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 05:17 PM
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Some general thoughts. To some degree or another society treats men and women differently. This varies from environment to environment, situation to situation, depending on the specific context. It's very easy to find situations where one gender has a problem or issue the other gender at least appears not to have. Even then there are often different issues that arise in the same context which are subtle and difficult to see from the outside. From that it's quite possible for a RedPilled man to n…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 08:42 PM
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In general yes. I've got a bunch of good female friends including some who've had major periods of being single that overlap mine. But its not always going to be possible. Sometimes you need to know your own limits. If you are crushing on someone you might need to take a step back for a bit because you can't be a great friend right now.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:15 AM
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So I half remember a deleted post by OP where they said something about that. It might of been more of a "testing the waters in frustration" than a genuine desire. But also that's my memory of something long deleted so shrug
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:27 PM
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Fair enough, worth adding that for others reading who might be in the same boat as OP. OP has been dropping these rants in this subreddit for a while though. Hopefully they might engage with comments in one eventually.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:08 PM
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Hey mate you're still just wallowing in a negative echo chamber of redpill content eh? How's that going for you? Seems like you are still unhappy. Maybe consider changing that? Edit to add: body dysmorphia sucks mate. It sounds like you might be suffering from that and if so it's worth taking it seriously and seeking help. Your face is fine (based on your profile). Height is a preference. That means that there are some women out there that won't date you. But that doesn't mean all women won't da…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:02 PM
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oh shit i didnt realize. Ah shit yeah that response is a shame.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 12:19 PM
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Got a direct message too. Is a bit frustrating
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 11:26 AM
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Hey man reviewing your posts in this and other subreddit (see here, here and here). You also don't seem to ever reply to any of these comments so I do hope you are reading some. I'm not going to engage with any specific point here but instead ask: "what is going wrong inyour life and what do you want to be doing differently?' . Because reading your post history I see a lot of throwing blame at society at large. Stop. Take some ownership and start actually engaging with people who want to help yo…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 01:34 PM
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I mean if you think you would enjoy having a sex doll that could be something you do. They seem quite expensive but if you can afford it. But also from vaguely remembered posts you've since deleted I suspect its much more your personality that's holding you back, as the pics on your profile are neutral. They aren't hurting your chances. but they aren't making up for a shitty personality.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 01:14 PM
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I don't understand how feminism would be a negative overall. I could definitely see it clashing with someone coming from a redpill/Chad/simp mindset since they all seem to preclude dating as something approaching equals. Pretty much everyone woman I've ever dated has been a feminist to some degree or another and I'd happily wear that label too. I've been dating pretty much exclusively in feminist countries as well. It might be that your attitude to women has just always been quite negative and y…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 04:49 PM
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I mean it sucks if that's the reality you find yourself trapped in. Its not the reality I'm in at al. I also don't see why you need to be either a "chad" or "simp" when neither is really necessary. Me and the men I know as adults explicitly do not describe ourselves in either way. What sort of dating environment was this? It sounds maybe something like a Club scene or other intense environment. Have you tried dating as an adult with low but reasonable expectations - just trying to vibe with anot…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 03:55 PM
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I mean you are making some big genralizations there about women. Do you paint men with a similar broad brush? Like there are definitely women who suck. There are women who are attracted to really basic, superficial traits. But I don't see that as a female trait its much more a human trait since I see all of that in men as well. And since I know both men and women who don't fall into that why would I paint people so broadly? Like if you want to say that you've been burned in romantic relationship…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 02:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing I definitely agree with your criticism of the redpill as it currently stands. I personally don't see why self improvement has to be tied to being redpilled, and plenty of the blokes who are doing best at life I know are entirely outside that paradigm. I definitely agree with not hating women, but you might want to dig into why you think choose to "not talk to women or make them part of your life" seems like a good idea, perhaps in a separate post since that has potential for m…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 11:52 AM
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You've been asking a few questions lately but you've not replied to any comments yet. If you want more specific advice to your situation you might find a conversation helpful. I generally view most of the ways into the redpill start with a lack of success. Usually in dating but it can be in other realms. When searching for information the Redpill offers clear, simple answers. It often also comes with some good all-purpose advice (engage in physical activity, develop hobbies, dress better etc), w…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 02:19 AM
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In a perfect world whomever is interested should be the initiator, and it explicitly should not be gendered. But there is a huge traditional weight against women doing any initiating. So depending on your environment (how strong and present that traditional weight is) will effect how often women initiate compared to men. Like I was chatting with a lad in an evangelical community in rural Kansas bemoaning being forced to be the initiator. Which sucks, but it's reality in such a traditional enviro…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:05 PM
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They often elaborate that many women these days won't settle for any man who makes less than 100k a year, or who does a 9-5 or other forms of traditional work. Lol wut? No. Just no. Also how old are you? Now I'll concede it's possible that if you were to ask women to describe their ideal dream man's job/financial position he might be an entrepreneur making 100k at age 24. Similarly to if you asked a group of men to describe their ideal dream woman's body type you'd get a bunch of talk about wild…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 03:48 PM
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Though perhaps the subreddit may have started with noble intentions, reddit isn't actually a great for that sort of discussion. Like if you assume you have 100 people in the subreddit with a ratio of 60 who are pro-Skub and 40 who are anti-Skub (see here). if someone makes a pro-Skub comment it will end up with net 20 upvotes, and an anti-Skub comment will end up with a net 20 downvotes. You'd also expect a similar spread of negative replies. So over time anti-Skub commentors are likely to start…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 09:36 PM
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A few thoughts. Firstly in the modern western world its possible for anyone (man or woman) to live a life without a partner. I've known both at all sorts of different age groups happily existing. Any individual woman can make it without a man. I've actually usually seen it said that a woman finds it easier to exist as fully single than men (probably due to the stereotype of of women having deeper social circles). This does get harder as you move into more regressive places (like to my understand…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 04:17 PM
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I'm not one for "singular soulmates" so I'd say some-body not some-one. But I do think that it's possible to overcome almost all* obstacles you start with to build a social network and find a partner. It might take quite a bit of work and overcoming major obstacles. *I am sure there are some wild combinations that can make this impossible. I think that is a very small proportion of red pilled (or incel) individuals.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:34 AM
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I mean that's a shitty thing to say about old women. And a weird standard for women in general. Like right now it sounds like you are stinging with rejection so go walk it off and stop posting for a bit. Or go game or something. Instead of vomiting pain onto reddit.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:08 AM
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So your last post was: incels should start having sex with older women Why is it different that this young woman did something similar?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:50 AM
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A lot of the most basic dating advice floating around the world is fairly surface and can be quite unhelpful (or as you say "fairy take"). There is definitely space for more specific and detailed advice for young people, especially men, who have found themselves in a position where they don't have a good grasp on how to form relationships. There are better sources of advice than the redpill though.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:01 PM
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I would be curious to hear from any women in that age group how they feel regarding this sort of deception. I suspect that this would match what I've I've found that most people I know are very suspicious of anyone who opens up a potential romantic/sexual interaction with such a big lie. I would also be curious if you have done this yourself and how it went if so. Or maybe consider how it would go to set up a specific "young man seeking older woman for sexual experience" dating app account where…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:16 PM
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I would push back against your assertion that "it does". Within a fairly specific set of conditions it matters quite a lot. This is especially when people are being fairly superficial, like young people hooking up (and even then other factors like looks become quite important). Though its quite important if you are specifically in that environment, its important fades as you move away from that and experience more of the world.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 11:45 PM
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Well I'd say generalizations from a misogynistic perspective is part of the redpill that the topic at hand is falling into.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 11:24 PM
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I think the statement "women are attracted to status and money" is far too vague and far too generalized to be useful in normal conversation, and extremely easy to paint as a redpill statement. There are certainly people (men and women) who prioritize "status and money" above all and to the exclusion of all. Most people (men and women) regard at least a lack of "status and money" as a negative, and it enters into the pool of things we look at in potential partners (along with everything else lik…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 09:01 PM
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Trying to parse this. You were normal (referred to by you as Blue Pill). You tried being Red Pill and it screwed up your relationship with your crush. You currently are seeing sex workers. Now this bit gets a bit hard to follow. You now are no longer red pill, and are making friends with women and using their slang as you are no longer as concerned about performing masculinity. Is that about right?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 05:44 AM
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This is ultimately a social space. That you don't actively participate in your posts when others are putting in effort to participate in your posts is something that catches people's eye. More than one person has noticed this and id agree that your frequent posting and rare commenting obscures your intentions. With no clear intention you leave room for assumptions, and pithy responses like this make it easier to assume poor intent
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 08:28 PM
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Looking at this post and your other post here. I would suggest that right now you really need to work on basic socialization. From: I do not have friends. Nobody invites me to events. I get fired from jobs. Typically I get fired from 2 to 4 days. This is perhapbs BPD. that sounds like you really struggle there. Like it sounds like your social circle and ability to maintain basic relationships is going to need work. Does that sounds right? The below assumes that is correct: If you can't really ho…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 05:27 AM
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Mate reading this and your other comments I think you are catastrophizing this all pretty badly. You might want to give it a bit of a break since if you do think you are ex-redpill i don't think you've really gotten as far as you think you have. That or you are just trying to stealth recruit here. But I hope its the former
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 02:41 AM
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I think you are carrying a lot of your personal experience into this. I'd echo the other commentor. Pretty much all kids could use social skills classes with some chapters on dating.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 02:21 AM
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I'm somewhat confused by your title and the body of your post. It seems that your text is mainly criticizing women for perpetuating toxic masculinity, so then why would "mandatory dating classes for young men" help those women have a better view? What exactly is the argument here outside of "i work with women and they can be shitty?"
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 01:52 AM
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Hey mate it hino your reddit bugged out i see this comment replicated like 5 times.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:01 PM
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NOPE You could argue that you might be INvoluntarily CELibate and thus fit the original technical definition of the term. Feel free to head back to the 2000s if you want to use it like that (have you ever heard this podcast on the history of incels?) But it would require being willfully ignorant to the modern usage of the term, in particular what's generally Incel ideology such as misogyny, hate, depression and/or entitlement. It would be MUCH better to use other terms. You can just be a "virgin…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 02:32 AM
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Hey so id be thinking you really need to be engaging with your mental health a lot more than dating right now given the situation you are in. I'd also suggest that it sounds like you keep trying to cold approach women. That's a pretty brutal way to seek out dates and it doesn't sound like you've got the mental resources for that right now. Have a read of a comment like this one where it talks about social vetting and see if something like that, more relaxed with more familiarity, might stress yo…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 11:21 PM
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Hey mate you are making a lot of wild over-generalizations and extreme statements here. Looking at this and glancing at your post history im wondering: hows your mental health? You looking after yourself there? hows your life outside of dating? You got a decent social circle going on? Good friends but also meeting new people? Right now it sounds like you are pretty damn bitter and angry over dating which is a headspace thats going to make dating almost impossible. You might need to consider taki…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 10:58 PM
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The below are m understandings of the terms. The "Redpill" as a concept comes from the original Matrix movie (from 1999), and was often used as a metaphor for some particular piece of knowledge or philosophical idea that dramatically changes how you view the world. You take the redpill and understand things differently. Its often also used in Alt-Right and conspiracy discussions as to when they started adopting those ideas (those groups also having quite a bit of overlap with the below). Given t…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 03:48 AM
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So its complicated with shades of grey. I see you are all over this thread with replies, it might be best if you created your own post with more specific context so you can invite a wider range of interactiksn than many separate reply conversations which are bing made without full context or detail. Edit: in hindsight that first sentence adds nothing of value
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 05:29 PM
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In a way you are right, you definitely don't have all the choices int he world. The pool of people you can potentially date is not 4 billion women (or 8 billion people if you are bisexual). But you absolutely have choices you can make. You can choose who to approach, when and how. You can make choices in your life to expose you to new people who you might then choose to date. You can choose to make choices that ultimately make you more attractive to the type of people you want to date. You can c…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 01:09 PM
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Absolutely hard agree with that caveat.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 01:10 PM
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Qanon. MLMs. Antivax communities. Flat Earth. Agree with everything you said, but just inspired by this bit I finished reading (well listening to the audiobook) "Off the Edge" by Kelly Weill. Shes quite compassionate to (some of) her subjects adherents. She talks about how its often similar to having a friend in an abusive relationship, you can't engage with it directly but instead keep a "lifeline" open by being a friend and iving people a "soft landing" when they exit the belief.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 01:04 PM
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All of this! I'm totally happy to talk to someone who wants help exiting the redpill (or being an incel or whatever), but someone who just wants to debate is going to both: achieve close to nothing for them be a bunch of stress for me
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:40 PM
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Personally I made a number of friends, some of whom were women, exposing myself to a wider group of experiences. And I would shut up about redpill stuff and instead just listen to their experiences and how they interpreted it to get a wider understanding. (edit to add: i also got on top of my mental health) Once you stop interpreting everything through a redpill viewpoint it ceases to be a case of being "constantly bombarded with evidence to the contrary". Instead you see much more, and read les…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/22 05:46 PM
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So could this be an incel who's spent enough time lurking in places like this subreddit and incelexit and similar to think that he's cracked the "support givers code" (bluepill code?) to be able to use his amazing logic to get advice to support his incel desires?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 03:07 AM
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Hey you are back. Your last post didn't go great for you did it? Or your posts elsewhere on reddit (here and here) Mate if you ever want some help with actually working on things like: building your social life up from zero not being super creepy to women meeting women your own age Getting out of the redpill/stopping being an ince; You might get some useful advice. That is my "supportive advice". But right now its hard to believe this as anything but you trolling.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 10:58 PM
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I mean you deleted your post but from the quotes in the comments it looks like you asked the same as you did here and in your similar deleted relationship advice post). My man you are pretty much asking for the impossible, to cold approach women as someone who they are very unlikely to find attractive. In your original post you state people literally interrupt you to stop your attempts, you are the guy that people are being rescued from. If you don't have the self awareness to realize this you a…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 12:23 PM
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If she treats you this way, how do you think she will treat your hypothetical kids?
/r/ExRedPill30/11/22 12:14 AM
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Mate its too late for me to disprove Nihilism as a concept to you. Wishing that someday you find someone who does have the energy and patience to teach you its worth having empathy
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 01:58 AM
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If you have nothing to gain or lose anyways why not make it so that no one else can gain anything either, why is this thought considered so reprehensible? Because basic empathy. but it doesn't necessarily benefit the person choosing not to act that way. Consider you might be the one in this position today. Someone else might be in that position tomorrow where your happiness is on the line. If you work towards a culture of kindness then they might choose the option that preserves your happiness. …
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 12:45 AM
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If its something that if hurting you and it sounds like that's the case then you should probably be working on that more than anything else. Make a plan for how you are going to deal with this and work towards it. If you are hanging out in spaces which are pushing redpill ideas those are unlikely to be giving you helpful thoughts to move through it. Look for positive environments that might help you engage with the positive things going on in your life (hobbies, sports whatever).
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 08:57 PM
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This is in regards to both comments Well "go get therapy" is the "easiest" answer when it seems like someone has a serious mental issue they aren't having a lot of success working through on their own. Its quite hard to walk someone through their problems via Reddit for many real reasons. Other ideas that are often put forward are journaling or working through ideas with trusted friends. Its not really that "easy" though, but its worthwhile When you say: Live a life where you pretend you never g…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 08:29 PM
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I genuinely hope that you get there. It sounds like this past relationship screwed you over pretty badly which sucks. There are relationships it takes some time to recover from and heal from and this sounds like one of them. Talk to people you trust and let time slowly heal over old wounds. Just don't go around hurting people as revenge
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 08:08 PM
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What you suggest will likely not really work. What would be better is to work through your past experiences, likely with a therapist or perhaps good friends. Be aware of that part of your history but don't let it control your further actions. I would suggest to learn from it, though I think I need to be clear that you need to be much more mindful to learn why that specific woman was a problem for you, what red flags did you ignore for example, that to tarnish ALL women with that experience. Its …
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 07:55 PM
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The last person who hurt you put some negativity into the world (your pain). That cannot be undone at this point. If you then go and put MORE negativity into the world that's now just made the world a worse place for no gain. You aren't going back in time to undo the hurt done to you. Its still there. You just create another hurt person on the world. Again it sucks that you were hurt, but you using that past hurt as an excuse to commit harm yourself does not make it acceptable or make you seem l…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 07:34 PM
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No Part of getting yourself together is to work on your mental health to the point where petty revenge is not your primary motivation. If you are actively choosing to harm people as you suggest in your followup comments you have not made it there yet. You are not "together" you are still working on it And yes it sucks if someone in your past hurt you because of the harm they had suffered. That does not make it okay for you to continue the cycle of harm.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:37 PM
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Hey so a thought I had reading this, remember a while back when the internet was full of guys (and gals) being super thirsty over Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil? How much of that do you think was guys having a fantasy that they in no way would be comfortable actually having play out? Because I suspect that would be the majority of people talking about her.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 10:45 PM
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Because for most women this is not their lived experience of being a woman and observing women around them. They may know a woman, or perhaps even be that woman who believes that, but those are outliers. Its like saying "Men only like redheads". I'm sure you can find some % of men who only like redheads but its somewhat ridiculous to apply that to all men. So its just you making a false claim that they know is incorrect from their own perspective. and there are a load of negative assumptions tha…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 07:08 PM
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Hey so just got a request for a chat from our Andrew-Tate-And-all-other conspiracies fan. Personally I'm declining but giving you a heads up in case he does the same to you.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 12:53 PM
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Damn that guys post history is a trip. Like a bad trip with a lot of screaming kids and mechanical delays
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 11:21 AM
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I think you listed a fairly decent spread of what people find "attractive" and then slapped a big old label with the word "looks" on top of all of them. I don't think its an especially helpful model to consider how someone's "actions behaviours words and reactions" as "looks". They are much more useful to consider using words like personality, values, sense of humor etc.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 01:15 PM
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damn I thought you got banned?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 02:34 PM
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Do you see any of my points? Nope I disagree with everything you said here and its kinda obvious you are just here to spread redpill talking points so im wondering if you missed the first two letters of this subfeddit?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:33 PM
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Hey cishet white guy here. Id happily cosign what u/sophiaphilae wrote. Sorry you've had bad experiences with women but you are generalizing so much shitty views there
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:45 PM
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why am i downvoted? As someone who read through this entire thread I would say you are being downvoted because you are not accepting any of the advice given and instead shielding yourself with redpill stuff. So I suspect most people are expressing their unhappiness over that via downvote. Edit to add: almost forgot the fact that you are responding to some advice with "reported" is really hard to take as anything but bad faith. So thats also likely getting you downvotes
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:38 PM
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Its a bit of a challenge to judge the scenario as its a bit bare bones. And you are offering some pretty black and white options. I think most people would end up somewhere in the middle, tending towards "let it go". Its been twenty years, hopefully for their own sake someone should of at least somewhat dealt with it and moved on, but with a bit of baggage from that (depending how the cheating went down). Like it might of been that their partner cheated on them on a work trip to Las Vegas, so if…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/22 08:56 PM
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Thanks for sharing all this and I'm sorry OP was too much of a child to try and read it
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 03:20 PM
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You can't be serious. Are you trolling? Its becoming more and more clear that you are.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 03:18 PM
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So to me this: they want to know if he can be the father of her kids, if he can raise a family with her. Means a lot more than: want a man that will be financially secure. I would suggest people of both genders would prefer a partner who was financially secure. Or view not bong financially secure as a negative that needs to be weighed against other positives. At least when it comes to people who are dating outside of much more traditional dating [given we are talking about women who are working …
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 07:08 PM
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This feels like you are interacting with a very specific subset of women who feel like that. Ive known a few women like this, usually in their late 20s through 30s and focused on building a family unit. But its definitely not the norm with younger folks and even with women in that age bracket its not a rule. Plenty of women looking to just have a good time. Have you talked to a lot of women about this?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 06:38 PM
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I'm curious as I see this post itself as your only interaction with this subreddit, have you actually posted or commented on here before under a different account or is this just the result of lurking here?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:58 PM
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Is this referring to an alternative account because i see this as a completely new account that was created today, and the only even vaguely critical comments you have received have been in the last half hour, where you have received the gentlest of most gentle pushback against your assertion that all anyone needs is to "eat healthy and work out"
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:57 PM
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Women will often get "thirsty guys" in their DMs. These aren't men in general. These are a specific subset of men. Most women learn really quick to be wary of that group of men. The chance of creepy and stalkierish behavior is quite high,, or if they progress to a sexual encounter its very likely to be quite unsatisfactory. Women who are at least somewhat conventionally attractive can very easily find bad sex. And for a woman bad sex means no orgasm, minimal pleasure, discomfort (or even pain) a…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 11:27 AM
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This very much sounds like if you were getting to know a man and a woman you'd be chill with any minor misstep the man made and zero in on any minor misstep the woman made. Like you set the bar for women impossibly high so the moment she misspeaks you can chalk it up to redpill nonsense. Like I'm 38, I know a bunch of women who are complicated beings with their own flaws, just like I know a bunch of men who are complicated being with their own flaws. "what I've seen" is that there is very little…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:24 PM
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So you never met a girl who didn't lie or manipulate you? Really? I'm still suspecting you are judging men and women on different scales since you realise men can have negative traits and still be "good" while refusing to do the same for women.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:16 PM
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so a question - are the "good men" men you've gotten to know, and show ZERO negative traits? Or do they all have their own flaws and faults, its just you are more forgiving of those since you aren't looking for them?
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:12 PM
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