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Are we watching much television or film anymore? I don't watch practically any. The only series I sometimes watch now is Fallout, but the lead is a woman and I definitely don't like any of the male roles so far. Every single one of them is a psychopath, and some of them are even portrayed as "good" psychopaths. 🙄 I hate that! Honestly, when boys are made protagonists I usually don't like how they're portrayed anyway. Harry Potter was a rare exception! Hail Mary recently came out and had a male p…
/r/MensRights28/07/26 05:26 AM
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Oh look, a secret admirer. 🙄
/r/MensRights28/07/26 05:15 AM
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This is standard... if you're abused by a woman people assume you did something to deserve or provoke it. Even if you're proven innocent they're still hostile and say you still deserve it, because you're male. I don't know why men post these kinds of things when we all know what the reaction will be. We know society has become misandrist. Are they expecting to be treated 'special'?
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/26 11:52 PM
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I think anyone who still genuinely believes women have more empathy than men at this stage is just a clown.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/26 11:46 PM
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We need mental health resources, friendly therapists, a huge cultural shift. Right now all those resources are being sequestered by feminists. Vote against them. Any candidate supported by feminists, vote for the other one, no matter who, no matter what.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:40 PM
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When they come to conscript you into the army to defend the society that despises you, tell them to go look for the yelling women who need an outlet for their anger.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 01:58 PM
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Yes! That is the most repulsive thing to me. I hate lying and manipulation. Tradcons at least are honest about their intentions.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 06:31 AM
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Back in the bad old days when I was still in the feminist cult, I read a book by John Stoltenberg, Andrea Dworkin's partner, where I remember him saying he would not date women because if he did they'd expect him to "be a man for them". I'm bisexual and I was always like, "Damn, John... that's so sexist! They're not all going to be like that. I'll just date feminists, they won't expect any gender roles from me." I mean, I also saw feminist women insistently, compulsively, demeaningly dehumanize …
/r/MensRights26/07/26 10:06 PM
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Yeah, eventually.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 09:37 PM
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All the men at the table just kind of looked up briefly, we glanced at each other, and quietly resumed eating. When she was done ranting one of them politely changed the subject. Ugh. I hated that job.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 08:20 PM
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What difference does it make? The fact that you're not even sure and you'd have to ask says it all: progressive feminists are indistinguishable from traditional conservatives in their attitudes towards men and the masculine gender role. She could be either. I dislike feminists because of what they do and how they see me, not because of their tribal affiliation - not because they're feminists. Someone doing the same things I dislike is not going to endear themselves to me by saying, "Oh, but I'm …
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 08:31 AM
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I think we're comparing apples and oranges. Japan is different. Western feminists have tried to sell people on the idea that people are fundamentally the same all over the world, all cultures are fundamentally equal, "patriarchy" is the same everywhere, and all women and men all around the world have essentially the same experiences. It's just more nonsense. Cultures are different, standards are different and experiences are different. It sucks that Japanese women are objectifying their male co-…
/r/MensRights26/07/26 08:16 AM
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They can't admit anything is harder for men. They think even prostate cancer is harder on women, because women have to do the "emotional labor" of supporting vulnerable men - or of dumping them so they don't have to deal with it anymore. I wish I were joking. I've read articles talking about how healthy women suffer more from men getting cancer than the actual cancer patients. I think it's just a narcissistic trait. "Everything must revolve around me and my experiences. I'm the princess." It's r…
/r/MensRights26/07/26 07:28 AM
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Nobody who loved their partner would want to see them go to war. These women do not love others. They are not capable of it.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 06:36 AM
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Years ago, while eating lunch at work, a woman started ranting at length about how modern Western soldiers were so unattractive because they just push a button and send out a guided missile, and she has the hots for medieval knights who would charge into battle on foot and fight to the death for their "ladies". I couldn't believe my ears. 😵🤮
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 04:28 AM
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She's missing a mirror she can periodically gaze into lovingly. Why do they love war so much? 🤢
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 04:22 AM
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That's all well and good for you. Since you want the same things they want, you get what you want. I don't want that. I don't care what "women want". I have my own wants. Women who want daddy-lovers have nothing to offer me that I want. I don't find them attractive at all. To me, that is the kind of role you adopt with children, not your peers. I find it repulsive when women act like children. I can lead, and I do lead when I know I'm the most competent in a situation, but I am not looking for a…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/26 11:14 PM
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We live in clown societies. You just can't take them seriously. I'll remember to stand in the back when they start coming around looking for soldiers to fight for this crap.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 07:47 PM
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That is what it's like, though. The AI is just internalizing the patterns. Girls have and need no impulse control. They do whatever the hell they feel like, whenever they feel like it. They touch anybody and anything without asking as if their touch was a gift from heaven. They assume the whole world wants it. Women have straight up just reached for my dick without giving it a second thought, shoved my face into their breasts even when I was pulling away and clearly uncomfortable. They don't car…
/r/MensRights25/07/26 11:38 AM
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I have to admit, I'm honestly very demoralized at this point about dating women, and not because of the nonsense in those slides. It's next to impossible to find anyone I can relate to. But if there is one thing women I've dated are not and have never been it's afraid of me. 😛 If that were all it was, at least I could relate to that, but the only place I've seen that is in delusional screeds like this one. It's the opposite, I'm usually much more wary of danger and they seem to crave it, to the …
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/26 11:06 AM
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I'm sure she is convinced she is the victim.
/r/MensRights24/07/26 07:10 PM
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Oh they're not even trying to be coherent or apply the same standards. They're blatantly sexist and they're proud of it. I've been in relationships like that with women, sex was giving them 3 to 4 orgasms a night and they'd just roll over when they were 'done' and go to sleep. I don't mind women finishing first. I love seeing their orgasms. But come on... I give you four orgasms a night, my tongue is sore all week... you could be mildly enthusiastic about me having one orgasm every few days or s…
/r/MensRights23/07/26 08:43 PM
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I'm actually seeing people insist that all female perpetrators are secretly males in disguise. I'm not even shitting you. Every time a story is published about a woman committing an act of violence I see comments saying, "It's a man! That's a bloke!" Deranged.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 02:25 PM
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It's really heartening to see young boys asking all the right questions. 🙏
/r/MensRights23/07/26 08:30 AM
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Did she lock you in? 😔 ((hugs)) Glad you're doing better now.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 05:13 AM
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"Am I too woke, or is wishing misandrists a bad month misogyny?" 🤡 Forget about Fermat's Last Theorem, this is a real tough question.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/26 05:00 AM
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That is so fucked up. 😖
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:54 PM
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If these aren't the views of normal people, how do their comments get upvoted to the top? Who is cheering them on? Where are all the dissident, critical voices? Why do I only see criticism in places like this while people scream "incel" everywhere else? These views have been mainstreamed. They are the new normal.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:52 PM
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Absolutely. There is no credible path to any kind of remotely healthy, egalitarian society unless we also talk about toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 03:42 PM
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big hugs Welcome dude. I'm glad you're here too. I don't have feminist friends anymore. I honestly don't think feminists can be our friends. They don't have it in them to see us as friends. You can't be friends with people who look on you with quiet contempt at the very best of times. Bet you're an awesome man and huge source of happiness for the people closest to you. 🤗
/r/MensRights21/07/26 01:57 PM
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Only feminists could turn a post about how women and men can be friends to "men are not people" in one comment flat, and then look you dead in the eye and say, "we're a serious, coherent movement just fighting for equality."
/r/MensRights21/07/26 01:43 PM
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They don't go to jail. That's a bald-faced lie, like pretty much everything that comes out of these people's mouths these days. I've read in the US they're fined. Here in Spain not even that. Basically nothing happens to them. It's completely unpunished.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/07/26 10:13 PM
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She's baiting you. If you showed her DMs you'd be in for a round of gaslighting. I'd just block her.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/07/26 06:27 AM
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The ECHR is a joke at this point. The entire European Union is. I'm not even sure if Brusselcrats take it seriously anymore or they're just pretending
/r/MensRights19/07/26 02:42 PM
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Are you really a trans-adjacent TERF MRA? 😜
/r/MensRights18/07/26 10:12 PM
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What a nightmare. This is one of the worst nightmares imaginable.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 09:30 PM
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Reddit is very much dominated by female-supremacists and their adjacents. They will ban you for life from subs that have nothing to do with politics if they even see you associating the "enemy". They're totalitarians.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 06:02 PM
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Haha. Katie's alright, but she'd better be buying her own tickets, peanuts and Cracker Jacks. I'm not Katie's bank. 😜
/r/MensRights18/07/26 01:16 PM
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What does any of this have to do with men's rights? Exactly zero of us are lesbians. That's also wrong, the DV rate for lesbians is still higher than other cohorts, even after you account for abuse by past male partners. But that's their problem to address and solve. We have no shortage of our own problems.
/r/MensRights17/07/26 12:07 PM
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This is terrifying. It really is a nightmare scenario. You're incredibly strong and brave and I'm so happy that have been able to come through it. No matter how careful we are about trusting people in our lives and intimacy, it just takes one mistake, one moment of naivety or benefit of the doubt, and any of us could wind up in this position. I have a friend who has BPD and she is being treated for it, and the treatment does seem to work for her. She is a great friend and I've never seen her mis…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/07/26 05:20 PM
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Oh my gawwwd. It's her PREFERENCE! 😭 PREFERENCE! HELP, HELP, they want to take away women's PREFERENCE. 😭
/r/EverydayMisandry16/07/26 07:53 AM
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So can you, if you feel "fiscally abused" - or are you forced to stop working? 🙄 Oops, forgot the "no accountability" clause.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 07:34 AM
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It's not just feminists that do this lovergirl scam, as awful as most feminists are.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 07:31 AM
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A huge number of heterosexual marriages just seem to be straight up alimony scams. Alimony needs to be abolished.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 07:28 AM
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Yeah, I ain't signing that shit. Don't leave the workforce.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 10:41 PM
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Whoa! First things first. If women created and attended a group about female violence against men, you'd have to pick me up off the floor and throw cold water on my face before anything else. With that out of the way - I'm not asking why they aren't addressing female violence against men. Pay attention. I'm asking why they aren't addressing male violence against men. Most male violence is against other men, you see. They claim it's all because of "patriarchy" and that they're against "patriarchy…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 09:44 PM
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Join them and propose they combat their violence against men too. Go on. Give them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 08:14 PM
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Rabid misandrist of the day. They should make it possible to restrict your organ donation only to children or other adults who are also listed as organ donors. I definitely wouldn't want to save that monster's life.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 01:24 PM
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Men need to rebel. That's it. Stop conforming. Say no when they tell you to stuff your emotions. Open up freely. Kick anyone who shames you for it or "real man's" you out of your life. Reciprocate their lack of support. Make friends and relationships where vulnerability and affection is normalized. Support only the people who support you. Ditch the homophobia. Be free. Turn your back on this culture and all of its enforcers and enablers.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 07:49 AM
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It's a troll post. They have nothing better to do with their time. Just block.
/r/MensRights14/07/26 11:26 PM
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I know, it's a bias. I recognize that. But it's not the same bias. It's the opposite bias! 😅 It is from my personal experiences. I live in Spain. I've tried dating US women... and they really are much more like women from Latin America or Eastern Europe than women from Western Europe. "High maintenance" style, traditional, expect you to roll the red carpet for them and pay for them. Plus I've found they have an added nastiness to them that Latin American women don't that makes it even worse. You…
/r/MensRights14/07/26 06:08 PM
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China, like the West, is a place where the top 1% of powerful men dominate the country, and the rest are on the bottom. It is generally much worse than the West in terms of equal partnerships. Women actually expect you to buy them a house there as a condition of engagement. They don't even wait until the divorce. You have to sign the house over to them immediately, just to get married. 🤣 It's also true female sexual assault victims are silenced in China, especially if their aggressors come from …
/r/MensRights14/07/26 04:46 PM
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I've been shamed for sexual desire throughout my life and still am today. That's been my experience. I'm less sexual compared to most men and most women, though. I'm not into hook-ups, and I don't experience any lust for people just based on their bodies - I'm demisexual. I guess it's not impossible it was shamed out of me. I don't care what women or anybody else is wearing. I was with a woman swimming at the river the other day and a nudist walked by wearing nothing at all. I didn't care. It do…
/r/MensRights14/07/26 07:43 AM
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Or a maid. But I guess this is like their porn, which they call 'erotica'. Or the prostitution they call 'dating with high standards'. Everything needs a cute new name for them, because they think being a woman makes everything sugar and spice. I have an ex who got erotic massages with "happy endings' from a sex worker... She called it "genital therapy" and called the prostitute her "therapist". I am not kidding you. 🙄
/r/MensRights14/07/26 06:11 AM
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Just got through Mario Odyssey and have been dabbling in Tears of the Kingdom. Finally made actual progress in Baldur's Gate 3, but had to pause after my graphics card started overheating at the hotspot. I need to repaste it today... Or next week. I won't have time this week unless I do it today, and I don't have a "stand-in husband". 😂
/r/MensRights14/07/26 06:01 AM
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Coherence is patriarchy! 🤬
/r/MensRights14/07/26 05:56 AM
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Well said. Misandrists have a ready excuse for even the worst atroocities if committed by a woman. No woman is ever to be held accountable for her actions. They even want to abolish prisons for women now.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/26 05:55 AM
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When asked why I broke up with my last girlfriend by women I'm getting to know, I mention it was because she started screaming at me. It is low-key a test. A lot of them think that's normal and not a reason to break up, and others actually assume I "must have done something to deserve it". In either case, if they think screaming at me is okay, the dating is over. I refuse to live like that. If I'm going to be partnered it has to be uplifting and joyous to be together, not miserable.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 04:02 PM
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Congratulations for your win, even though it is very insufficient for the immense pyschological damage, and the fact that you were put at risk of a conviction for one of the worst offences, with all the consequences a wrongful conviction would have entailed for you. I'm sure she feels no remorse for you, but is very remorseful for the money she now owes. People capable of remorse don't do things like this to begin with. In Europe you probably wouldn't even get 500$. She would just face no punish…
/r/MensRights12/07/26 10:00 PM
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No. There is no point to that either. These aren't people you can engage productively with. They simply have to be defeated. Practise empathy with people who practise it with you, and respect your humanity. Don't empathize with people who hate you. If there is one thing feminists have taught me, that is it, even though it wasn't the intended lesson. All they will do is burn you, abuse you and leave you for dead. Believe people when they tell you who they are.
/r/MensRights12/07/26 09:34 PM
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Thank you so much for your support. It means a lot. Going against the grain on principle is a very hard thing to do. All my respect. 🙏 You give me hope that someday things will change.
/r/MensRights12/07/26 02:14 PM
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This is a very good point. More people read public dialogues than just the people involved. We're representing ourselves and our ideas to people who may not know much about either of us.
/r/MensRights12/07/26 06:40 AM
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I don't think so. I've never met one who wanted to dialogue. The very nicest ones just patiently and insistently want to convert you. They don't listen to or care about your perspective. The rest hate you and want to destroy you. They're more like religious fanatics than anything else. What I have seen is when they put on the moderate act and manage to ingratiate themselves into mixed spaces, as soon as they have enough influence and power they immediately use it take over and completely ban any…
/r/MensRights12/07/26 06:38 AM
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Dates are always fraught, because it's more likely they end with neither person interested, or with one way more interested than the other, and that is never going to be fun. My relationship problems with men are usually around emotional avoidance. I'm very emotional and sensitive, and I like emotional presence from other people. That's the thing about most women I really appreciate - although even that isn't mutual, they usually hate to see an emotional man. It's harder to find a man with a ric…
/r/MensRights11/07/26 11:02 AM
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You can't even satirize these people, they are that unironically, pathologically narcissistic and evil. Their true selves always make the satires look like the better versions. I will vote for anything and anyone this point except anyone associated in any way with these smug, sneering, cackling, gaslighting monsters.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/26 09:15 AM
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This violence against women? The same violence against women she and her woke cult are facilitating? https://www.foxnews.com/us/american-mother-murdered-irish-tourist-town-international-manhunt-targets-alleged-asylum-seeker
/r/MensRights10/07/26 10:19 PM
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Ding!
/r/MensRights10/07/26 10:14 PM
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If the Taliban or Iran are the enemies? Damn right, I'm pro-NATO all the way. You and the feminists are welcome to cry about it, though. Wish you'd go live with them.
/r/MensRights10/07/26 09:19 PM
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Oh yeah, I've always wanted to be a sexually abused as a bacha bazi and then forcibly inducted into a terrorist gang.
/r/MensRights10/07/26 08:36 PM
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"You hate men" is a common response to misandry.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/26 07:05 PM
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Tal cual, amigo. Es muy triste. Quién sabe si algún día cambiará esto.
/r/MensRights10/07/26 08:32 AM
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I'm sorry I was ever involved in feminism. 😔 I never imagined it would turn out so evil.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/26 07:42 AM
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Everything is portrayed more sympathetically if a woman does it, even bloody murder.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 08:12 PM
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The air conditioner hits them harder, too. Even that portable electric fan does. What a rough life. 🤣
/r/MensRights09/07/26 05:26 PM
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I'd prefer they didn't pay attention to us. You know if they started making movies about princes they'd be all about how the awkward shy guy got bullied and ostracized until he hardened up, turned into a super hero, and used his confidence to help and impress women. 🙄 They'd be worse than nothing at all.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 12:38 PM
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Under feminist auspices, certain countries (like the UK) have legally defined rape to require penile penetration so that anyone with a vagina literally cannot be prosecuted or convicted of it, regardless of what they do. Beneficiaries include small boys and even babies anally violated and tortured to death by their doting angelic mothers (legally just "sexual assault"). At the same time, as they've tightened the legal definition, culturally they've completely debased the word, calling everything…
/r/MensRights09/07/26 11:13 AM
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They're so pathetic. They can't even just say what they actually think, that they agree with TERFs and don't even see trans women as women, because their own dumb cliques have made it taboo, so they use "AMAB" to say the exact same thing while still pretending to be trans allies. 🙄 This is their modus operandi - they don't like you or want you around, but they're so unfathomably stuck up their own arses that they actually demand that you pretend they do like you, even while they're shitting on y…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/26 06:45 AM
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These people really love the sound of their own voices.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/26 05:33 AM
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Women can be awesome and men can be awful. We're all human.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 09:18 PM
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Good for them. I wish them happiness. Well, the non-violent criminals at least.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 05:45 PM
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The narcissist comedy club. 🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/26 05:45 AM
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I've become convinced it's an epidemic. I see it everywhere. It's actually becoming scary. I'd never have thought this could become so widespread, but tradcon-feminist tandem seems to have achieved it with one of their main dogmas: "women are not responsible for their actions, men are responsible for women's actions". They act like spoilt toddlers and it's "yas queened" until it blows up into the most toxic, insufferable, acute narcissistic personality disorder imaginable.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 03:00 PM
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What a nightmare. 😱
/r/MensRights07/07/26 12:59 PM
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Sure. Everybody has issues.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 11:24 PM
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The vibe sounded right. 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry06/07/26 11:14 PM
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Yes. You literally see that crap on the malementalhealth sub, too. I think they're also anxious not to be seen by women as "gay", God forbid. 🙄 This is unfortunately the main reason I prefer other bi/gay guys as friends... I'm sweet and tender to my male friends and expect the same energy back, but I find most men only give that kind of energy to women. 🤷
/r/MensRights06/07/26 10:53 PM
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She gleefully retraumatizes him. It's not even a hypothetical, I've seen it play out. They're frustrated sadists and they love a big, juicy, vulnerable target.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 10:37 PM
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I know. How "naive" of us. 🙄
/r/MensRights06/07/26 09:07 PM
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The idea of men having sexual prowess is based on the notion that sex is men as prize studs performing for women, who just passively lay there and evaluate the performance like a Roman emperor giving the thumbs down to the gladiators. 🙄 I can't imagine a sex life like that. I wouldn't ever want sex. To me, sex that is worth having is mutual desire and complicity. It's not a single act, nobody is performing, you're both physically and emotionally present, and you're complicit in each other's enjo…
/r/MensRights06/07/26 09:06 PM
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What red pill? Isn't the red pill just the same as the blue pill? "Yes and that's how it should be. Take it like a man so women will like you more."? Dictators? 🤨
/r/MensRights06/07/26 03:10 PM
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I shed tears very often, several times a week, normally reminiscing or daydreaming or longing. Sobbing or bawling happens much less often. The last time I sobbed was my last breakup, which was years ago at this point. I'm emotional and I'm fine with it. I don't care what anyone thinks about it - I don't want them in my life if they have issues with it. I don't care how manly it is or isn't. I'm not an actor playing a role. I don't need to make any special effort to be me.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 10:36 AM
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It's absolutely repulsive. It truly is. I had an awful date just last weekend telling me how she's angry at a guy she knows because he wrote a nasty song about his ex-girlfriend after she used him for his money and left him for another guy, who had the same kind of money but also nicer abs. His nasty song about her is like the number one moral failure here in her mind. I was like wow... Reddit stories are real. 😬 I'm just amazed by all of this. I'm bisexual, but I'm seriously starting to conside…
/r/MensRights06/07/26 10:26 AM
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I ignore it and absolutely do not bottle up my emotions. My emotions being leech-repellent is a bonus as far as I'm concerned. And if I had a co-worker who got special treatment because of her sex, I'd lose respect for the company and look for another job.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 04:23 PM
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I thought she was laughing about her brain. 🫢
/r/MensRights05/07/26 05:43 AM
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I don't want to be valued for my money or for hiding my emotions. I'm not interested. Having more women interested in me who I don't want anything to do with isn't helpful to my dating life.
/r/MensRights04/07/26 11:47 PM
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They really deserve their own private island. Together forever.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/07/26 11:17 PM
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It doesn't matter if you are or you aren't. They treat you as one regardless. I just avoid them as much as I can.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/07/26 11:14 PM
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It's not the word that is the problem. It's the people who identify themselves with it. As someone once said, "I like your Christ. I don't like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ."
/r/MensRights04/07/26 10:42 AM
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This is why I wouldn't go to therapy unless they really convinced me they aren't sexists. They hate you before you've said a single word because you're male. They just take your money to beat you down. If you really want that you can get it for free on Reddit. Just post any hardship and say you're male, and you'll get therapy for men: "You deserve it. You deserve worse." Don't pay them for that.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/07/26 01:40 AM
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What exactly does society want from us? To be the lowly, derided paypigs of sociopathic princesses? To be ground into cannon fodder and flung at the enemy to lower the price of gasoline? To dig our own graves before we commit suicide and make sure we die in them, so that we don't inconvenience any women with having to clean up a dead male body? What is there to adapt to? There is little to adapt to that I would ever want to adapt to.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 11:47 AM
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Well, in fairness, women looking for a man to be a provider-protector don't love their provider-protectors in any meaningful way. They 'love' them in the sense you'd love a really good car - as an object, prized for its utility, not as a person. They see relationships as a transaction and are expecting a man who also sees it as a transaction. Start asking them about love and authenticity and you may as well be speaking a different language. They just respond with genuine confusion. They don't kn…
/r/MensRights30/06/26 09:16 PM
33

Yaaaas quaaaaaaayn slaaaay, isolate that mayuun from his friends and make him completely dependent on you, it's empowerful! 🤡
/r/EverydayMisandry30/06/26 08:53 PM
6

The torture and murder of Lucio Dupuy was done by feminists with female-supremacist motivations, though feminists refuse to acknowledge that. But feminists refuse to acknowledge even a single misdeed.
/r/MensRights30/06/26 01:35 AM
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That reminds me of a push in Spain to use the feminine as a generic instead of the masculine, which I happily accepted. So, naturally, I started referring to "las fascistas" and "las nazis". The same people were outraged. "How DARE you! Of course they always have to be masculine - they're bad!"
/r/MensRights29/06/26 08:23 PM
2

Not all women would do that, but do be careful who you trust. Maybe if the topic comes up, bring up male victims generically and see how she responds.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 10:47 PM
6

It must be an awful feeling. You know they're not just making you invisible because they can't see you. They're making you invisible because they don't want to see you. They don't want you to exist at all. 😔 It is not fair. I see you. You are human and you are as valuable as any woman and deserve to be safe and accepted. *hugs*
/r/MensRights25/06/26 10:12 PM
23

Watching woke feminists turn Westboro Baptist on gay men has been a trip. Like, what horrible traumatizing experiences did you have with gay men to justify that? 🙄 You don't date them. You don't have sex with them. They don't hit on you or pursue you. It went down like: "Do you think you could maybe stop objectifying us for just a New York minute, Rosemarie?" "F***GT!!!!!! DESTROY THEM ALL!! YOU'RE AN AFFRONT TO NATURE!!!!" Rosemarie has no chill. 😬
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/26 10:05 PM
3

The stigma is much worse. People despise weak men and believe they do not deserve protection. They don't despise weak women. One of the first things police still ask male assault victims is, "why didn't you fight back?"
/r/MensRights25/06/26 09:54 PM
7

I got you. We were all defenceless once. Any of us can remember being a boy and being at the mercy of adults. Even when I was a small boy getting beaten by adult women literally twice my size, people would scream at me "take your beatings like a man!" What a privilege being an eight-year-old "man"! 🙄 I don't care how many muscles you have, I care what's in your heart. We all deserve to be safe. There is nothing glorious about violence. It's a tragedy at its very best, when it's in self-defence o…
/r/MensRights25/06/26 09:46 PM
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Some men are at the tail end of the strength curve and not only do they get to be attacked and ridiculed for it, they also get to be gaslit by the same people saying they're privileged because they're stronger. I love men regardless of their physical strength. Physical strength is a characteristic, NOT a moral virtue.
/r/MensRights25/06/26 04:59 PM
1

Seems like trans men in woke spaces either get to be seen as either not really men or fundamentally evil. Must be horrible.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/26 04:57 PM
3

You do have to watch where you are looking. I have a tendency to daydream and stare out into space. When I was a young boy it would get me in trouble because people would think I'm staring at them, but I was just staring in a specific direction and got lost in my inner thoughts, and stopped noticing people coming and going from there. One time when I was a boy a grown woman on the metro got up and approached me and made a movement like she was going to hit me and I just looked wide-eyed. I reali…
/r/MensRights24/06/26 05:33 PM
1

What country are you from? Sorry... this is probably the Western Europe in me speaking, but this question is so wild to me. I don't even undersrtand it. Maybe I'm just lucky but I've never had any issue in any gym beyond people occupying the machines while staring at their phones. 😛
/r/MensRights24/06/26 05:25 PM
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ERRRRRM... But that includes me!!!! What about me? HOW DARE YOU NOT DATE ME!!! YOU HAVE TO DATE ME!!!! 😡 Also, cismen so invasive. 🤡
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/26 11:17 PM
19

That is absolutely insane. At this point I think they just want to abolish romantic relationships.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 04:38 PM
16

Some of the most genuinely empathetic women I've ever met regarding my abusive experiences with women had nightmarish experiences with men, actually.
/r/MensRights18/06/26 09:01 PM
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If they weren't I'd suspect I fell into a parallel universe. Our men's rights theme song is now, "Man, I feel like a woman!", and I am totally here for it. We need to sing it to piss them off even more. 😁
/r/MensRights18/06/26 08:56 PM
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The gaslighting is real. 🤣 Insufferable prats.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/06/26 07:42 AM
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And don't forget to specifically bash trans men... otherwise they'd feel left out! Because, you know... we're talking about men men. Also, transmisogyny, grr! Oh, and my worst fear is what the normies might think of me. 🤡 10/10 woke princess points.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/26 10:30 PM
8

Toxic masculinity is when men wear sequins. 🤡
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/26 07:33 PM
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The more disgusted they are, the better. They have an inverse moral compass - it always points the wrong way. May they choke on their sexism.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/26 07:00 PM
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Nevah. Nevah evah evah. Didn't happen. Must have imagined it. You have to admit, though, nothing tops the sheer gaslighting narcissism of, "you kill yourselves because you don't think about the people you inconvenience with your dead bodies." You really have to be monumentally twisted to even come up with that and repeat it with a straight face. Or maybe they cackle with glee every time they write it? I guess those are just the things that come naturally when you have "basic empathy", though. 🤡
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/26 04:39 AM
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Once I was in group and we were asked what we would do if we woke up and everybody's sex had been swapped. Men said things like, "I'd be curious to re-explore life. I'd want to know what sex feels like. I'd want to experience pregnancy." Women said things like, "Ewww, disgusting. I'd kill myself."
/r/MensRights16/06/26 04:59 PM
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The fact that they actually, seriously defend this shit and say it's not malicious just blows my mind. Deranged. How the hell did feminism become this?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/06/26 06:35 AM
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Wow! She's awesome for saying this! All her hit songs instantly popped back into my head. I was also a fan back in the day. 😁 It's so easy to say, though, when you think about it? Isn't it? I just can't imagine what the hell posesses people to be so fucking hostile to vulnerable men just because they want to help vulnerable women. It's amazing how low the bar is... literally just "acknowledge I'm human."
/r/MensRights16/06/26 04:47 AM
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I can't emphasize enough how completely repulsive seeing a grown woman with an "overgrown spoiled toddler" personality is. It's amazing to me they genuinely believe this is "hot". 😯
/r/MensRights12/06/26 02:30 PM
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Omg. The way people talk about this as if we stopped paying our bloody taxes. 🤣 Who cares? Things change. They'll live.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 02:27 PM
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All the women in the audience with any experience with female kidnappers: "She's punching up, so why did I get hit? 🙃"
/r/EverydayMisandry11/06/26 08:53 PM
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Moving is not easy, but it is definitely in my plans. I'm looking for employment abroad. These people will never be re-elected after all this, and they know it, but I don't know how much of the damage they did will ever be fixed even after the next election. I do definitely want to be here to vote against those bastards, though. I've never wanted to vote so much in my life.
/r/MensRights10/06/26 04:51 AM
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Spain is now a woke feminist hellscape. You have to be very careful who you trust in your space, because you can be sent to jail just on the word of a woman. My ex-girlfriend had to rescue an autistic guy once from two women who became his flatmates. They stopped paying rent and when he told them they had to leave, they threatened to call police and tell them he tried to rape them. He called her sobbing because they locked him in his own room and she went to go get him and vouch for him to polic…
/r/MensRights10/06/26 12:08 AM
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Boy same.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 11:22 PM
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That is sweet of you and I agree. I would be over the moon to get an engagement ring. I think the important thing in any engagement is not getting expensive gifts, it's the mutual love and commitment. These things are supposed to be about what they symbolize, not about flexing big bank accounts. I've gotten flowers from girls, and it's wonderful, but it's not the price of the flowers that made me happy... I've never been focused on the price of the flowers. It's the meaning behind it. If anyone …
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 10:36 PM
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Yeah. It's a very weird flex. "We suck, actually. You should date men, they're way better." 🤣 I mean, I'm bi, so I'd just be like... "Okay, bye. I'm going to go get my romantic prince who gives me a tiara! Have fun dating King Kong." 😛
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 10:02 PM
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They're just trying to remind you they hate sensitive men, they're disgusted by gay men, and you have to be hypermasculine. As you do when you're in a progressive, anti-sexist movement. 😊
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 09:59 PM
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That's geektastic!
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 09:58 PM
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Don't worry about it. All of this is rich people arguing. I don't know anyone else arguing about $10.000 gifts, not even misandrists. 🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 09:57 PM
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I totally want an engagement tiara now! 😊 Also that last image... wow does he rock that dress!
/r/EverydayMisandry09/06/26 09:55 PM
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Ugh. What is wrong with some women? 😲
/r/MensRights09/06/26 09:20 AM
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Andrew Tate is a red herring, I've found. It doesn't actually matter what you think of him or of misogyny, he's just something they try to tar you with the second you defend your dignity, innocence and humanity. You can say you hate him, it goes in one ear and comes out the other. They don't care. Actually I'm starting to think they don't even hate him. He's one of those "if he didn't exist, we'd have to invent him" figures to them.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/06/26 09:35 PM
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They think were were born to fight for our lives and if we are injured or killed we deserve it for being "weak".
/r/EverydayMisandry08/06/26 09:06 PM
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I think some of them are guilty and self-hating, and they tend to be self-harming and I feel terrible for them, but I also think a lot of them are faking the concern and genuinely are evil, and they assume all men must be like them. That's why feminist women say they are more afraid of their own "male allies" than other men. When 50 Shades of Grey became popular just look how many of these feminist men started rubbing their hands and saying, "Oh yeah! This is my time to shine!" That isn't how an…
/r/MensRights08/06/26 03:03 PM
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This meant to be our version of the "pink tax". 😜 If these were our problems... I'd be a feminist!
/r/MensRights08/06/26 02:43 PM
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Try "men can't be raped" for rape culture. Try "I can't feel as bad if it's done to a boy", as a female co-worker once said to me.
/r/MensRights08/06/26 03:20 AM
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They do believe this. They talk about the "male species".
/r/EverydayMisandry07/06/26 11:27 PM
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That is nice to see. Thank you. 😊
/r/MensRights06/06/26 09:24 PM
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We have a "fighting age", apparently.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 06:21 PM
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You have one of the chillest familial problems I've ever read on Reddit. Count your blessings. 😅 Since you both care about each other, lean on that. You can say something like, "I know you suggest these things because you care, and I care about you too, but I'm happy with how I'm living my life. I don't want to change, just like you don't want to change. If we could both be less pushy about telling each other what to do maybe we would argue less, and I'd really like to argue less with you." Focu…
/r/MensRights06/06/26 05:48 PM
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If it's internalized misogyny, why don't they treat feminine women that way? Why don't they treat more 'feminine' women worse than more 'masculine' women? 🙄 I think that's just a cop-out invented by feminists to hand-wave it away so they're relieved from the burden of being self-critical, and interrogating toxic femininity the way they interrogate toxic masculinity. "Oh yeah, it's a thing, but we're totally not accountable for it - it's the patriarchy again! So it's actually men's fault, again. …
/r/MensRights06/06/26 09:50 AM
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One of the weirdest things to me from the new woke left is its unbridled hatred of the poor and working class. Until 10 or 20 years ago, the left romanticized the poor and working class almost to a fault. The left wing idea of romance was two working class people striving and fighting together. They were all about "class consciousness". The idea of marrying for money wasn't celebrated - it was seen as anathemic and treasonous. Now it is totally flipped. The left utterly disdains poor and working…
/r/MensRights06/06/26 06:56 AM
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Thanks, it's very appreciated. I agree with you, it's not a left/right thing. We shouldn't be swept into either 'wing' of politics.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 06:34 AM
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The idea that men don't face systemic issues is absurd, delusional and patently false. Could only be claimed by a mind with such heavy ideological glasses that they've blocked out actual reality entirely.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 06:31 AM
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As long as I feel treated and seen as a human being, I'm fine with anybody. I find a lot of extremely dehumanizing sexist narratives are so deeply ingrained people don't even think twice about repeating them, and it is a constant stream of alienation. You can't start a conversation with the premise that someone is a violent sex predator and expect that to be a normal, cordial conversation. That should never be a normal, cordial conversation. I think a very helpful metric when judging anything is…
/r/MensRights05/06/26 11:08 PM
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Alimony should be completely abolished, but this is certainly an improvement over lifetime 😲 alimony.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 07:11 PM
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Of course. Any number of people in any number of groups have it easier than other people in the same groups. We all see things from the lens of our own experience, and there are as many experiences as there are individuals.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 05:10 PM
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Good. Gay men are awesome. The gay guy in the office actually got roped into doing her work for her once, though.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 01:39 AM
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Doesn't take much. Once knew a woman at work who would go around to all of the men in the office, flirt coyly with them, and have them go over to her computer and do her work for her. Sure enough, one day she came over to my desk, leaned towards me, deliberately shoved her cleavage in my face, and told me she needed me to do her own assignment for her. I looked up into her eyes and shut it down with one simple monosyllable: "No." She almost went into shock. I think she'd convinced herself that w…
/r/MensRights04/06/26 01:22 AM
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Because they experience no negative social consequences for it. They are praised and fawned over regardless of what they do or who they hurt. That unfortunately encourages narcissistic, self-absorbed personalities and toddler-like emotional development.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 01:15 AM
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Big hugs for all the men here struggling with mental health! (())
/r/EverydayMisandry03/06/26 10:15 PM
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Ugh! I'm sorry bro. My ex-girlfriend also got conned once by a woman who turned out to be a fantasist and made up a whole personality and life story. It took her years to come to terms with it. People are so fucked up.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/06/26 12:42 AM
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I dated a woman once who told me on the first date she had been raped. I appreciated it. I didn't call her a red flag and a manipulator. But then, I'm not an evil feminist.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/26 09:08 PM
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It's Reddit. She's genuinely that twisted.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/26 09:05 PM
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Believe women and disbelieve men, basically. They're like a cartoon caricature of evil sexists.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/26 09:05 PM
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Sickening, but that is where we are at. The things have been deliberately programmed not to sympathize with or help certain groups of people and to give a carte blanche to other groups, solely on the basis of how we were born, and we are one of the "bad" groups. Woke ideology has imposed itself.
/r/MensRights02/06/26 04:52 PM
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If we lift each other up without putting the other side down, eventually they’ll catch on Awesome sentiment! And even if they don't... we'll still be lifted up. 🤗
/r/MensRights01/06/26 09:31 PM
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Let's celebrate it here. If I see anything helpful for men's health I'll post it here! 🤗
/r/EverydayMisandry01/06/26 04:51 PM
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Nobody who feels genuine affection for another person would ever treat them like this, and nobody who wants a loving, fulfilling relationship should ever tolerate being treated like this.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 01:57 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c0q25dwj807o It gets "better" as the article goes on. First they butter you up, then they lay it on you thick: Selling your five-year-old daughters into "marriage" is totally sympathetic and feminist, actually! That's just what you do when you live in poverty, right? Just like the US unilaterally abandoning Afghanistan and handing it over to the Taliban was also the totally woke, feminist thing to do. It's actually your fault because you don't want to give the T…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/06/26 06:52 AM
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Any woman trying to talk down to men for being "princesses" or even using the term "real man" ever is someone I want nowhere near me. I completely ignore them. If they contact me or say anything even slightly annoying in any public forum I participate in, I just block them. They're repulsive. I agree, in a healthy relationship, both people make the other feel special and cared about, but that's definitely not what women who say they expect to be treated like "princesses" mean. They mean they're …
/r/MensRights31/05/26 11:46 AM
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Ugh, yes. I remember when a feminist first started gushing to me about Leni Riefenstahl, and I was like... really? Really? This woman in particular has got to be your icon? Given what feminism has turned into, though, it's actually appropos.
/r/MensRights30/05/26 11:02 PM
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I was a feminist activist for many years and I left it for a reason. I've never found the principles consistent with the reality and it's definitely not a place for any man with any kind of abuse history to be anywhere near. I respect and appreciate that you can see how sick, cruel and wrong this is. I really wish it was different. Thank you so much for caring and for your integrity. I wish you the best. I hope someday things will be much better for us all.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 05:39 PM
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The US is much more two-party, but anywhere you can have interest groups in parties to push the parties to defend your interests more. I think the main point is, we shouldn't be framing those interests as partisan or inherently "right wing" or "left wing". That's a trap. Getting mental health resources so depressed and suicidal men and boys have psychological care from people who aren't biased against them because of their sex and don't hate them is not "left wing" or "right wing". Encouraging m…
/r/MensRights29/05/26 04:07 PM
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💯
/r/MensRights29/05/26 04:01 PM
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Completely agree. We should reject the liberal / conservative dichotomy entirely.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 03:59 PM
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This is the same BBC that just ran a tribute to a man who literally sold his own daughters to child rapists for money, so I wouldn't take anything they have to say about misogyny even slightly seriously.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/05/26 03:53 PM
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I think it's more like visceral repulsion they have for us. Like the most traditional, ultra-conservative men who say women are "run through" and have to be virgins... that's how most women see bisexual men.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/05/26 03:18 PM
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Saying the quiet part out loud, "we feminists actually relate to violent, reactionary homophobes, not those repulsive soft men who reply, 'I'm flattered, but I'm actually straight. Sorry.'"
/r/EverydayMisandry29/05/26 03:16 PM
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I don't give a shit. We already are. It's becoming fashionable to call men misogynists for not being interested in women or properly titillated by dumbass, vapid attempts at "sexiness", and you know these people see and use 'gay' as an insult. The actual insult is the way they see us and want us to be.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/05/26 12:58 AM
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One run by and for misandrist feminists and probably policed by their male minions. I bet their heads started spinning like in The Exorcist when they read "kindness to men".
/r/EverydayMisandry29/05/26 12:54 AM
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I can't even begin to describe how disinterested I am in "dating advice". These people think it's a sport. I'm trying to find a person I love and who loves me too. I can barely find any people who even seem capable of loving anyone but themselves. Yet people assume I want to impress them.
/r/MensRights28/05/26 10:23 PM
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I wouldn't bother posting anything about any of my issues in those communities, especially any gendered struggles. I already know what they think about men. They think vulnerable men are disgusting, weak and unmasculine and they hate us. Why even bother being there at all? These are spaces for women, centered around women's health and as soon as they see "m" they already know you are "bad". We already know what they think of us and our struggles. They just see us as "failed men". I wouldn't want…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/05/26 10:00 PM
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Awesome story! Thanks for sharing it. 😁
/r/MensRights27/05/26 12:18 AM
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Just block her. It's not worth the aggravation. I block immediately when I see this kind of rhetoric.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/05/26 04:10 PM
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And you married him. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:44 PM
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I don't care. I'm interested in people close to my age, who have been around the block. I relate to them. Plus, young people will never be able to share my 90s nostalgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:43 PM
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Anybody with a shred of actual humanity would do anything they can to protect their family and their loved ones, regardless of their sex, and regardless of the sex of the loved one. It's another story, of course, if they don't actually feel love. That doesn't mean you glorify your loved one being in harm's way because you get off on them protecting you. That is not loving a man. That is narcissism. It's loving yourself. It's loving the idea of being rescued. When we genuinely love others, we wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:53 PM
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Reddit is a cesspool.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/26 06:32 AM
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Most people never loved, and you can absolutely tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:28 AM
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Men tend to gender gendering, but women tend to gender gendering the gendering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:24 PM
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"Everyone in possession of a brain" already filters out most people. I think it is true, though, a lot of the "gender war" noise is heterosexuals absolutely convinced that their experiences with the opposite sex could never happen with someone of the same sex, because they would totally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:18 PM
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Absolutely nobody ever. That never happened either!
/r/MensRights24/05/26 03:30 PM
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Not the thing that never happens again!
/r/MensRights24/05/26 02:11 PM
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I think the semantics of love are worth arguing over, otherwise we are all using the same word to mean vastly different things, and talking past each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:12 PM
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There is nothing fickle about love. Love is insanely persistent, painful, almost pathological. It makes you very vulnerable. It may mean you love someone who does not love you back, and all you can do is watch them and wish for the best for them, because you cannot bring yourself to stop loving them. It may mean you can't get over someone for decades after a breakup, or after their death. It makes you run into a burning building on the slimmest of hopes that you can save somebody. People fear it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:05 PM
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Probably very few, but I met one. Takes all kinds...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:36 AM
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People who are possessive do not care about genuinely being loved. If you genuinely care about being loved, of course you want your partner to be free, so that they can choose you. You want to feel secure that when they come to you their feelings for you are authentic. Affection from someone who is being coerced is not meaningful in the slightest. If you genuinely believe they would run off with someone else unless you controlled them, then you already believe they do not love you. What could po…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:29 AM
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DARVO personified.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 11:06 AM
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Sex isn't just PIV. Clearly you are not aware, because you keep talking about sex as if it is, even now, even while claiming "women" are aware of it and "men" are not! I'm not "using it against women" - what an utterly infantile way of seeing my post! Is this is some kind of stupid team sport or pissing contest to you? as if women are the ones against receiving oral. You are wrong about that, too. A lot of women are against receiving "oral". But anyway, I wasn't even talking about "oral"! Sex is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:58 PM
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Thought what? What is it exactly that you even "think" about? The most incorrigibly sexist, implacably prejudiced, unapologetically bigoted people you will ever meet in your life believe themselves to be righteous egalitarians. It's truly grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:36 PM
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From Ellen Ripley and Mister Rogers to this hopelessly sexist crap in three short decades, the Feminism Story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:18 PM
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Sex is not coitus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:47 PM
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Sex is a language of mutual affection and bonding. It is treated as a reward by people who have shallow interactions with others, see each other as objects and lack the emotional intelligence to grasp the significance and value of a deep emotional bond. You cannot provide affection as a transactional service in exchange for other material goods and services, because that is by definition not authentic affection. You can only provide access to your body and a performance, and that is only interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:45 PM
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Then most of Reddit are trolls. I've seen it all over the place. I think this is very relevant and it's good it has taken you out of your comfort zone. Before social media, when I was a teenager and involved in feminist activism, I went to Planned Parenthood, which ran a group for young people wanting to do pro-choice activism. Like any other group back then, we met in person, face-to-face, and discussed what drew us there. People from all walks, of all types, all backgrounds, all views. Outgoin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:33 PM
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They don't see male victims of violence as victims. They see us as "failed men". They also just do not take women seriously as agents, and they don't see violence from women as genuinely harmful, even when it kills people. That's why they constantly use infantilizing language with women like "girl boss". They see women as large infants and violence from women as little more than a tantrum that a "real man" should be able to "take". If anyone seriously hurts a man, even another man, to them it sh…
/r/MensRights23/05/26 11:18 AM
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Are you trying to describe a political assassination as a positive influence? You disagree with somebody so you just kill them? That what counts as being a "good guy" in your city, too? Hopefully not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:47 PM
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There should be standardized testing.
/r/MensRights22/05/26 11:43 PM
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Did I ever roll my eyes when I saw this one advertised. Maybe back in 2000 they could have hyped this crap up.
/r/MensRights22/05/26 06:33 PM
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Those are mass events, not clubs. People don't go to them to meet people, they go with people they already know. Friend of a friend is actually known as "Mr. Two Tickets" because he always buys concert tickets in advance and tries to rope someone into going with him. Where did I meet that friend, you'll ask? Dating app. Originally she wanted a hook-up. She's just one of the few people on dating apps who took "let's be friends" seriously. It's just how things are these days. This subreddit used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:54 PM
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It makes them money because it works. To stop using dating apps we need actual in-person meetups again based on interests and hobbies like there used to be, instead of subreddits like this one, but that is not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:28 PM
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Yeah, no. That's not what hive mind did. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:26 PM
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Yeah that's totally what the "romance" genre is about. 🤣 Back before the Internet, when we only saw the covers and hadn't read any of it, you could actually get away with saying this though and have it taken seriously.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/26 08:57 PM
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The government and the rich and powerful, of course. They're already in charge of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:36 PM
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I mean... is it that much less believable than going through the process of having sex with an actual man, when you hate men so much even the idea of birthing a future man fills you with disgust and dread? Anyway, artificial insemination is only expensive and lengthy if you need medical assistance due to infertility. Otherwise the turkey baster method works fine. You'd just need a donor, and I'm sure there are self-hating pro-feminist men willing to debase themselves that way.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/26 03:52 PM
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Pfft. You sound like my grandmother talking about my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:00 PM
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I'd love to raise kids, but that is a huge commitment. It's not something I'd do on a whim or with just anyone. I'd really have to build up a lot of trust with a woman to feel safe enough to have children with her, and confident we would be stable, loving home and a team. I don't advertise that much, because I've found it just attracts the wrong kinds of women. So normally I just say "open to it".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:58 PM
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You want a daughter? What would you do if you became pregnant with a son?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:55 PM
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It was a huge sample at a time when online dating was at its peak. It seems a fair bet it is a representative sample, or if it is off from the general population it's probably not off by much. It also tracks with my dating experience. More men than women think I look attractive, even though the number of gay and bisexual men out there is a tiny percentage of the number of heterosexual women. Why do you need this not to be representative of women? Does something change for you if it turns out to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:28 PM
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What "deal"? There is no "deal". If you don't like us, stay away from us. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:57 PM
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That's interesting. My sense of attractivenes in men is influenced by both women and men. Women have a very, very narrow view of what an attractive man looks like. The Adonis. This is also a standard with men, but there are other standards too. Men are more diverse in what kind of men they find attractive than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:25 PM
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This is based on an OkCupid study. You can find it online. OkCupid actually stopped publishing its studies not long after they decided they weren't supporting whatever kind of narrative they want to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:23 PM
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I agree. I think it's much easier for us to be seen as hideous and monstrous if we 'let ourselves go'. There is a lot of pressure not to be ugly, and it's much easier for us to be seen as ugly if we have defects. Women can get away with more and still be seen as beautiful, but for us the second anything is a little off we become 'ugly'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:21 PM
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I'm bi. Probably over 50% of men and women I'd say are physically attractive, but there is a lot more to attraction for me than physical attraction. Men and women do things that make them unattractive to me. They tend to be different things, but they are very prevalent in both, and that knocks the number of people I actually find attractive down very much in practice. Probably to less than 1% when all is said and done. It's not because of their appearance, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:15 PM
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Artificial insemination, I guess.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/05/26 10:33 PM
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Huge.
/r/MensRights19/05/26 12:15 AM
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Back in the olden days we used to say "bad" and "wrong" to express the same exact sentiment without trying our best to come off as a pretentious jacka--problematic individual.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/05/26 12:11 AM
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Hear hear. I thought "problematic" and "problematize" were repulsive - now meet "unproblematic"! These people sound like Orwellian IngSoc Party apparatchiks. Ick.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/05/26 12:09 AM
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They're gaslighting you. Don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:01 AM
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Why would you care about the murder and rape of men and boys when you hate us anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:53 PM
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Really? It's justified to hate women I don't even know because of other abusive people who happened to be women? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:40 PM
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Nah. If he really really hated himself he would have absorbed the dogma that the most dangerous men to women are the ones they know and trust, and he wouldn't claim to be safe either. Seriously committed pro-feminist men actually say they are dangerous and that any man who claims to be safe is a counter-revolutionary because even if it's true it hurts women by encouraging them to trust men. Clearly amateur hour. 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry18/05/26 07:01 PM
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At least they're better than the ones that call you a misogynist when you say you're an egalitarian. 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry14/05/26 08:47 PM
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No, it doesn't. But it doesn't preclude it either, because it does imply total trust, whereas not being in love definitely precludes it for me.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 11:40 PM
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These are the people who call us "misogynists". 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/26 10:50 PM
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I'll file that one under "quick, think of something that makes me look good."
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/26 03:13 PM
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I believe in love. I've always been very picky, though. Even though my past relationships haven't worked out long-term for one reason or another, I am lucky enough not to have anything like the Eldritch nightmare stories so many of you guys have. I wouldn't with just anyone though. Just a very special person.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 12:05 PM
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A lot of men seem incredibly easy to convince that a woman wants to marry them out of love, even in the unlikeliest of circumstances. Maybe people just have a tendency to create an idealized version of other people in their minds and they want it to be real so bad they shut out reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:26 AM
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You can't "extract" intimacy, unless by "intimacy" you just mean sex.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 02:49 AM
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If you'd have told me 20 years ago women would end up being the primary defenders of gay bashing I'd have laughed and said, "Impossible... homophobia is misogyny, isn't it? Isn't it?" Wow does time put everything in its place.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 02:47 AM
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Random dudes do try to hit me up. It's 2026.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 02:45 AM
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I've been asked to vet men for a friend and I was honestly amazed at all the red flags she missed, including two very likely psychopaths who managed to contradict themselves within the same missive while describing themselves and their supposed feelings and aspirations. I always figured I'm just more sensitive, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:38 AM
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They're several centuries regressed in their thinking, and have had no opportunity to evolve because no one dares criticize them. They have insane levels of sexism and gay-bashing.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 02:00 AM
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The only one here who has said "take away women's right to divorce" is you. I guess you're the misogynist.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 01:48 AM
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If one of you is incapacitated it really helps to be married, otherwise you are treated like a stranger and probably their family will be in control of their treatment. Even so... I wouldn't risk it. I've seen too many horror stories by now where men married psychopaths who faked love the whole time so they can divorce and keep half the assets, and these days people don't even bother to hide it. They're not even ashamed of it. I even know a woman who married another woman, and she got taken for …
/r/MensRights12/05/26 01:43 AM
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It's AOC, so maybe she just means it looks like they'll be tall.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/26 01:01 AM
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No. That is just not true. I approach women who seem to share my values and interests, or seem extremely intelligent or said something compelling, or whose bravery I admire, or whose kindness I admire. Their appearance is secondary to me. The physical trait I most focus on are the eyes. I avoid most "hot women" because I find them overwhelmingly narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:32 PM
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What are you even talking about? What the hell is a top 1% Stacy? I treat everybody the same. I'm nice to people who are nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:09 PM
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Finally The Guardian has an appropriate welcome message, I see.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 09:20 PM
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What the hell is "young men of promise"? Is that supposed to mean they still had a chance to prove themselves innocent, or they still had a chance to get enough money to become worth saving?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/26 06:55 AM
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Terrible and scared for her. How would you feel if your son is dating a woman who only values him for his money?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:26 AM
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The women who decreed Ángel must be turned over to his abusive mother in Argentina, laughing at him as he sobbed and begged them not to, leading directly to her murdering him, both had PhDs in critical feminist psychology. Are they the ones I should ask?
/r/MensRights09/05/26 11:43 PM
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You are an anonymous account on social media. Why should I preferentially form my opinion on the basis of your statement? Are you a feminist scholar? What does it mean to be a "scholar", anyway? A university degree? A PhD? A thesis? A publishing deal?
/r/MensRights09/05/26 11:05 PM
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I have. I've seen this said more than once on Reddit.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 10:49 PM
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So yesterday when I was leaving the supermarket I came across a woman in a hoodie crouched down on all fours. A man was walking his dog and, as we both passed her, she barked loudly at the dog. Know how people say pets resemble their owners? The guy and his dog had the same flummoxed reaction. As we hurriedly walked away, we just looked at each other, and he started making cute faces and said, "well that's just what I needed." I burst out laughing, I'm pretty sure this could be made into a gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:46 PM
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Feminism used to be a set of politics centered around the liberation of women from traditional female gender roles. Believe it or not, in the early days men's rights activists organized alongside them, and they were initially allies. But the extremists took over and wrecked it. Now it's like a fledgling fanatical religion that has just found its feet and converted the powerful, and is moving through its hypocritical "burn the heretics" phase. You cannot question it. You are obliged to deferently…
/r/MensRights09/05/26 10:20 PM
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Male beauty standards are rooted in hybristophilia.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 09:32 PM
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((hugs)) 🤗
/r/MensRights09/05/26 06:38 PM
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I wouldn't ask for your "empathy" any more than I'd ask blood from a stone. Anyone who feels isolated and needs to hear it should know that not all of us are like you. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:18 AM
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Back when I was in grade school there was an awkward girl in class with no friends who everybody mercilessly ridiculed. She was fat, her parents didn't groom her well, and she had a physical condition that required surgery which caused her to walk with very exaggerated hip movements. It wasn't only the kids who tormented her, it was also the adults. In fact, the adults encouraged it, and the children happily obliged. People bonded over their ridicule for her. They would laugh and snicker wheneve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:59 AM
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Yay for positive, uplifting stuff!! 🥰
/r/EverydayMisandry08/05/26 08:37 PM
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Having poor social skills shouldn't be an invitation to bully people. If we lived in a moral society, people would have empathy for others who are struggling rather than ridiculing and degrading them, and encouraging them to spiral. You aren't good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:35 PM
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Fair play then. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:54 PM
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You seem to have a real problem understanding that just because some people in a group you don't belong to are terrible, it does not follow that all people in that group are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:51 PM
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The problem is your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:50 PM
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Oh please. They see it. They don't care. No empathy. A person with empathy absolutely cares how their partner treats others. "Insulted the wait staff" is widely considered a red flag for a reason. They're Bonny and Clyde types. They're dating a sociopath because they are sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:21 PM
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A woman where I live was scammed out of her life savings after being convinced Brad Pitt was in love with her and somehow needed her money to get out of a jam. How can you be so heartless? These are obviously people with cognitive disabilities and they are being taken advantage of by predators. Half of them are women. Do you hate men so much you'll even throw your own sisters under the bus just to make extra sure no man can ever be recognized as the victim of any woman ever? Thank your lucky sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:18 PM
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Really? But the men they're talking to are for sure totally alone because they have a terrible personality, right? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:02 PM
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I think you're conflating "emotional" with toxic, and they aren't the same thing. I have very good relationships with very emotional women, because I'm very emotional too, and we tend to vibe if they can handle me being emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:54 PM
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Like I said, I don't 'feel' feminine or 'feel' masculine. They're just labels people put on different things I do. I only feel like myself. I do not believe femininity is the "absence of masculinity". Masculinity does hinge on social validation. The whole point of shaming people to behave in a certain way is to make social validation contingent on their compliance. So of course it hinges on social validation. Men would not care about there were no social reward for it, and no punishment for non-…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:22 PM
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No. Men come to see ourselves as feminine because people around us, including women, call us feminine, or any number of bywords (or epithets) meaning 'feminine'. It is absolutely the presence of something, not the absence of something else. I don't identify as a man. I am identified as a man. There is a big difference. I experience no essential "like a man" feeling. I don't know I'm a man because I "feel like one". I know that is how people see me and will treat me. To me that is all that it mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:04 PM
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By refusing to comply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:51 PM
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Child birth is physical experience, not role or way of acting. Men need a witness and validator for manhood because it really is just a performance. We're much more like women than what is considered publicly acceptable to show, so most men fake it and exaggerate anything about themselves that is considered acceptably masculine so that they are not singled out or ostracized. People want to fit in. I should also add that we aren't static, either. People evolve over time. We have different stages …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:46 PM
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We're actually all individuals just like women. Some men "put the most value on sex", some don't. What we value in a relationship is different depending on the person. I don't use the term "wife material" at all. I say soul mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:58 PM
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That's a take I can live with too. Anything but imposing behaviors and roles with an iron fist and having the audacity to call it "nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:18 PM
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You're naive. Most men are much more like women in private than they let on in public. They're faking it for you. The macho act is nearly all performance and fear of being singled out. There is no "masculine identity". There is going against your nature to conform to social expectations so that you don't lose community. That is what masculinity is in a nutshell. Being conditioned to go against your nature to conform to social expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:15 PM
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Brava! I... didn't expect that take from a Trad Pill Woman. What brought you to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:11 PM
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I'm not an actor. I don't wish to "perform" anything. It isn't a gesture of goodwill. It's a reassurance that they're not actually serious about equality and never meant for men to be free from masculine gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:08 PM
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Yeah, well, you know... I think I'll also stick with my "big picture" interpretation what it's like to be my own sex. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:56 PM
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The fact that you think my experience as a male of how my own sexuality is framed is about you and your life experiences as a woman, and you have the nerve to say I think I'm "omniscient". Unbelievable levels of arrogance. Have an even better day. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:14 PM
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No, it's widely framed as predatory. You're either gaslighting or so used to the predatory framing that to you it just looks "neutral" and you can't even imagine how it could be possibly questioned or framed any differently. Not sure which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:58 PM
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There is contradicting yourself, there is being hypocritical, and then there is straight up gaslighting - which is what I'm seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:27 AM
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No. It's not even religious cults, they don't frame male sexuality as predatory and harmful either. Actually, I think it's nobody! We're totally just imagining it. 🙄 Everybody is out there celebrating male sexuality. Glad that's settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:25 AM
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That's not my experience. Someone goes to the trouble of actively calling themselves misandrist because they genuinely have extremely misandristic views. They believe we do not have full human emotions, aren't capable of love, that we're inherently rapists or would rape if we could get away with it, we're emotional parasites, we're poisoned by testosterone, all kinds of things. They use this to justify abuse and violence, because an inherently guilty creature can never be a victim and doesn't de…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:42 AM
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This is intentional. It's a 'putting us in our place' thing.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 05:09 AM
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Men are simultaneously reviled and eroticized as sexual predators. That's the most fucked up thing about it. You're supposed to be hated. You're supposed to be disgusting. You're supposed to be scary. That's the whole point of your "role". The angriest, most visceral hostility comes when you say you are not, do not want to be and will never accept being a sexual predator. That is when they really come down on you like a sack of bricks, and it doesn't make a shred of difference whether they're "f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:30 AM
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Not to say that I doubt you, but that doesn't sound very misandristic so far. Where does the misandry come in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:22 AM
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"Just not true, to be honest." "I don't give a fuck." This brief exchange summarizes most any interaction with these people.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/05/26 04:15 AM
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Oh, are we the indie rock people now? That's actually awesome. 🤟 I'd really like more sex stereotypes that I can at least actually identify with. Also... Taylor Swift's music sucks. 🙂
/r/EverydayMisandry07/05/26 02:14 AM
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I don't see why, since I'm in favour of child support, and someone here even said my scheme would mean it probably increases for most people. Plus I'd probably be a lot harder on a deadbeat. That's okay though - unlike most people here, I'm not trying screw over the other sex. I mean for things to be fair and just, with the same standards, rights and responsibilities applied to everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:56 AM
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That's okay, thanks for explaining. I think alimony incentivizes people to get married who aren't serious about building a stable household. People who aren't happy together should definitely always be able separate. That includes when the spouse is so poor that they have no meaningful financial support to give. So it has nothing to do with alimony. Alimony is not about helping people, it's about transactional wealth transfer as a condition for a marriage I agree with you child custody should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:00 AM
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Not entirely. Prenuptials separate any assets from before marriage, but child maintenance is still scaled based on the wealth of the spouse, rather than the needs of a child - so it's still covert alimony. That should be abolished also. All of it should, it incentivizes people to get married and have children for money. During that time she becomes accustomed to a certain lifestyle. Once you divorced that doesn’t change. Right. But it should change. People should not get married to lock in a wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:49 AM
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No. I don't think ending alimony would keep miserable people married together. I haven't said anything like that anywhere. You apparently think that and totally projected it onto me. People would still get divorced. Divorce just wouldn't be a viable strategy for increasing personal wealth, so people would be less incentivized to marry for money in the knowledge that a divorce would always make them wealthier than they were when they started. I mean you've basically said it all yourself: "She doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:34 AM
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And people who need support for reinsertion in the labour market because they've been dedicated to full-time child care for years should absolutely get it. So should people who need it because they've been dedicated to full-time elder care, or caring full time for an infirm family member, or caring for any other dependent. These people also exist. It isn't just child carers who end up in that situation. And that does exist now, at least in my country - it's called 'dependency support'. It's a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:20 AM
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I don't think either should. It's not the state's business that your spouse turned out to be a bad spouse, any more than getting ripped off by your friend should entitle anyone to half of their friend's assets. You divorce your awful spouse and, if you both have a child, the spouse contributes enough to raise the child. Alimony culture creates a perverse incentive around dating, marriage and having children that does not favour stable households. The divorce rate speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:59 AM
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In a modern home? Three square meals a day, a house with a room for the child, heating, air conditioning, electricity, public school supplies, enough for some extracurricular activities, some travel, and if the primary child carer needs to work, depending on the custody arrangements, enough for daycare. This should be split between the two parents. Shared custody should be preferred. If one of the parents doesn't want shared custody, or can't have shared custody, they should pay more in child su…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:51 AM
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I disagree. If you have the essentials you're not struggling. People are struggling when they don't have enough for the essentials. Maybe you just have a narrower view of what the 'essentials' are, but I'm not talking poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:44 AM
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Yes. So an older woman marries a younger man. He becomes a SAHD. No job. No education past high schoo. He raises their kids. Keeps the house. Maintains social obligations. Keeps everyone's calendar. Budgets her allowance. "Doesn't refuse sex" - which, by the way, ICK. 😬 Doesn't argue, which also: 😬. Are you redpill or feminist? Anyway, woman cheats on him because he's out of shape. She leaves him for another young man. Still no alimony? Still no alimony. Enough money so the children are comforta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:42 AM
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Right... so we should ban divorce altogether to avoid change and upheaval? We should subsidize families so that they can't get any poorer than they started out? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:36 AM
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There is really nothing to disagree with. The fact of the matter is when people with children become poor the state does not intervene to maintain the child's previous lifestyle, and you are not advocating that it should. Society allows the children to become poorer along with the parents. Why should it be different in divorce? That's a blatant contradiction. So it cannot actually be about children's mental health being affected by becoming less privileged. That's just a lie. It's about encourag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:32 AM
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That's just you manipulatively twisting what I'm saying to demonize me as a person rather than engaging with my actual argument. Child support should be enough for the child not to struggle. No child should have to struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:13 AM
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Exactly. So what is the problem? Child support should never make anyone more wealthy. It should be enough to support and raise the child. That's it. Change is part of life and it is much better for a kid's mental health to deal with change honestly than to pretend that everything always stays the same. Furthermore, people's fortunes can ebb during the marriage. Should the state intervene to stop a wealthy couple with children from becoming poorer to maintain stability for the child? Why not? Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:59 PM
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Really? Tough. Most kids aren't born to rich families and grow up with the basics. It's utter nonsense to say a rich kid must continue to enjoy a privileged lifestyle because one of the divorced parents is rich. It's just covert alimony. Using marriage as a financial instrument. It is actually very good for kids. No one should be entitled to be rich by virtue of marriage. That means more people will choose to marry and have children with a partner because they genuinely see a future with that pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:51 PM
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'Raising a child' is ambiguous. If you marry a millionnaire and send your child to summer camp abroad for 50.000€ a year, current child support laws consider that is part of the cost of raising that child and needs to be "maintained". It's nonsense, and actually covert alimony. The cost of raising a child is food, medicine and shelter. Nobody should be entitled to a life of luxury by way of marriage. A huge number of vacuous heterosexual marriages and unwanted children would never even happen wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:45 PM
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I would abolish alimony, day one. Child support would stay, but only enough for the basic needs of a child based on the price of a basket of essentials. No provision whatsoever for "maintaining previous lifestyle."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:29 PM
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I think this is a typical introvert problem. We tend to find other people exhausting. When we're in a relationship, we pour all our energy into one person, and call it a day. If the relationship dies, we're completely isolated with no one to talk to. I don't agree that the Internet has made it easier to bond. I think it's the opposite. Before the Internet, this subreddit would necessarily be an in-person club. We would meet in person and see each other face to face. We would share our stories. W…
/r/MensRights05/05/26 10:07 PM
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We get a lot of the worst experiences as boys, but these people aren't actually just ignorant and need somebody to tell them our horror stories. It's just rhetoric to agitate their own bases and encourage indiscriminate hatred, and to bait a vulnerable guy to sharing something traumatic so they can use it to hurt him more. Be careful what you share, especially if it's still raw for you and can affect your mood. If they smell blood they say the most cruel things they can think to hurt you as much…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/26 09:04 PM
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Wow! 😣 That's not even subtle. That's just blatant. Ugh. The world sucks so much!
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/26 10:22 AM
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Pfft. You were being 'uncivil'. What a joke.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/26 10:21 AM
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I don't know who these people are or what these podcasts are that you listen to. "Women can't handle the truth that men cheat" is just a bizarre thing to say. It doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:13 AM
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People are so nuts.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/26 07:30 AM
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From what I can see of red pill thinking, they see their role as traditional masculine men, and part of that role is controlling women. So they don't see their negative descriptions or prejudices against women as something to criticize so that women change. They see them as something inherent to women that real men should control and neutralize. Their relationships with women are inherently adversarial. They aren't looking for someone to be vulnerable with or communicate honestly with. They're l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:04 AM
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Time travelling lizard people conspiracy theories seem to be a common feature of many political spaces these days. I don't think they're just a redpill staple. It's more people grasping for explanations for disaster in a world that feels out of their control, a lot like how thousands of years ago people would make "angry thunder gods" to explain violent thunder storms. At their core, I think redpill guys seem to want play a hypermasculine provider role to traditional wives who expect them to sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:47 AM
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You guys are so weird. If you ever find a woman who only cares who you are as a person, please send her my way. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:30 AM
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For me, when you're in a relationship there is no way it is ever going to be healthy unless you see one another as human beings with human souls, not ideological objects of contempt. You either put aside your prejudices and open your mind to really discovering the individual you're being intimate with, or you sacrifice your relationship with the person for your relationship with the cult. Maybe they will disappoint you. Maybe they will sweep you off your feet and make you giddy with happiness an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:27 AM
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If you’re constantly told women are hypergamous, manipulative, or incapable of real loyalty, you become suspicious even in good relationships. You're telling me that if you're constantly encouraged to be prejudiced against people because of their sex, it sabotages good relationships with people of that sex? I wonder who else this might apply to. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:00 AM
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I've never in my life felt I am superior to women. The only problems I've had with women are because of what they've done to me, not because they are women. Some of the worst people in my life were women, but also the best people, people who rescued me and helped me, were women. I'm only interested in the soul of a person, not their sex. But in my experience most people are not interested in my soul, only in my sex. They don't even believe I have a soul. They look at me and only see a monster. I…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 07:45 PM
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We are not smarter. We have more concentration at the extremes of low and high intelligence, but most of us are average intelligence like women. We are usually much stronger physically, but that's not meaningful. Physical strength is not a moral virtue, it's just a circumstance of how our bodies are. It doesn't make you better or worse than anybody just because you're stronger or less strong than them. It doesn't make you better or worse than anybody that you can bear children and they cannot. W…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 07:11 PM
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Wow. It's insane to tell even another woman she needs to be more of a man. And that's supposed to be empowerment? Because somebody needs to be doing the worshipping, I guess? I think it really is just a cult of socially sanctioned narcissism at this point. Thanks for your support sister.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 05:18 PM
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It's a horrific experience. You can't filter someone based on their exes. That's exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:03 AM
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I'm very wary of strange women and careful about who I allow to get close to me. If you're male and you're hurt, attacked, trapped or abused by a woman, nobody will sympathize, nobody will take it seriously, and nobody will help you. In fact they are more likely to help her. You have to be very careful who you trust. I have very bad experiences from childhood. I've been mostly okay at filtering so far as an adult, but I couldn't filter my ex-girlfriend's jealous ex-girlfriend and she almost stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:40 AM
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I was feminist until I saw feminists abandon actual sexual equality in favor of... whatever the hell all this "be a real man" shit is they are tag-teaming with traditionalists on. My values haven't changed at all. I've always been for sexual equality. Feminism is just not about that. It's a now institutionalized part of the dominant sexist culture and an integral part of the problem of entrenched sexism. I really believe in equality and I genuinely thought my feminist friends at least mostly did…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:16 AM
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That's an interesting hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:41 AM
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How nasty. I'm a man, not a "moid". Please either be respectful or just don't engage with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:36 AM
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Every other game or fandom in existence is the vast, vast majority of all actual video games where most gamers overwhelmingly spend our playing time! 🙄 The multiplayer shooter simulators you're talking about are a niche that is known for attracting macho personalities who think playing The Sims makes you 'gay'. 🤣 I've never even played Call of Duty. Sorry, if we're talking about questionable entertainment, I'm squicked by all the women into "true crime" podcasts, not men squealing over the next …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:06 AM
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Yeah, in Call of Duty and Valorant I believe it. Gaming also means The Sims, Baldur's Gate, Mass Effect, Animal Crossing, Overcooked, Mario Kart, Pokemon. But you zero in on the literal war games that form the preferred hangouts of misogynists. "Readers tend to be Nazis. I know because I went to a Mein Kampf book club and they were all Nazis." It's nonsense. People who don't like video games or believe they're childish should just be honest and not need to make it into a political panic to justi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:20 AM
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Sadly, you're shouting at the wind. Nothing that contradicts people's preexisting belief system is going to be accepted. Cognitive dissonance will always invent a post-hoc justification that absolves them of any need to re-examine their biases and assumptions. The reality, of course, is most women have incredibly regressive, ultra-sexist views on gender and the role of men. Of course the men they tend to prefer reflect that. Those views have become entrenched as feminism has transformed into a q…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:08 AM
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They're so full of themselves it's nauseating. What kind of narcissist makes a whole selfie-video, article and incoherent pseudo-sociological thesis because a man moved some weights for her at the gym? Her whole premise is that economic independence means men are now wanted for things other than economic provisions, yet then goes on to admit, "These days women make fun of men who have abandoned chivalry, splitting the bill" adding "Some of these men deserve to be made fun of. For sure." Oh. I gu…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/26 06:19 AM
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I'm reminded of several bad dates I've had with men over the past year, where they will start love bombing immediately, and start acting as if we're already a couple from the momennt we see each other, or even from the moment we start chatting. It's completely jarring to me. I'm looking at a tentative first contact to even see if we're compatible, or at least might be friends... and if we are, having a heart to heart, seriously getting to know each other. Some of them are already coming up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:09 AM
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Fisto! Definitely Fisto. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:30 AM
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Got it. I can't speak to it first hand either, but that's what I've observed growing up male - any female attention improves your social standing among your peers. In junior high school my friends were all girls, and they came from two separate cliques. Two were from the nerdy clique, and we bonded over nerdy stuff and playing Warcraft on the computers. Two were from the popular 'hot girls' clique and we bonded over existential philosophy and theories of mind. Boys initially disdained me because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:21 PM
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Ironic question. People generally very strongly want validation from their peers and are terrified of being ostracized. Humans are tribal, and getting on the tribe's bad side historically has not been a good survival strategy. That's how mobs form. People may have reservations about what the mob is doing, but they are too terrified of being cast out to speak up, so they play along. That's also how you get cults. For heterosexual men, I think women's validation also gets them men's validation by …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:10 PM
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You wanna message me and I can send you an o so manly voice message? Ick. 😬 Many of us marry men we do not respect but love like you're a puppy. You want to be a puppy mike? I don't know. Maybe? I am kind of submissive deep down, and you sure don't make it sound unappealing. 😳 I get nothing giving you this advice and you likely will box me as a dude because it's convenient for you, but I give it because I care. I want everyone to succeed. For just three small payments of $19.99? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:42 AM
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You do an awful impression of a woman, honey. 😘 Seriously. Turn your account over to ChatGPT. It's going to do much more convincing job, even at peak server load. Love A man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:22 AM
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The four stages of denialism: It's not happening. It's happening, but it's not a big deal. It's your fault that it's happening. It's actually a good thing that it's happening!
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/26 07:33 AM
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We all have 'icks', not only women. If I myself am a woman's 'ick', that is not my soul mate. If a woman prefers "some chad", that is not my soul mate. My soul mate would appreciate me as I am, not be disgusted by me. I don't get how this is such a hard concept. I don't want to mitigate her 'icks'. They're deterring someone I want deterred.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:58 AM
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Again, some of what you say is just good advice for anyone. Exercise, be fit, be well groomed, be hygienic, be organized, have a stable financial situation. This is "lifemaxxing". 🤣 It's not that it's a bad thing. I'll be frank... I've met women who are complete disasters, and yes... it is a turn-off. Over forty and still living with their elderly parents and asking for spending money as if they were teenage girls, completely unkempt, too unfit to do anything physical - even a stroll through the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:11 AM
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I'm not being hyperbolic. I'm bisexual. That's like a "Turn Undead" spell for sexist women. They just turn right around and shamble off in the opposite direction moaning 'reaaal maaan'. 🤣 I do agree it makes no sense to be fixated on attracting people who you don't actually like. I can't imagine how you could find a person you don't like attractive. I can understand being bitter and cynical about people, but that isn't going to make them any more likeable, so why so much attention to what they t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:53 AM
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What do you mean "doesn't work"? What is being nice supposed to "work" at? You're not nice because it "works". You're nice because you're nice. You're nasty because you're nasty. Most of us can be both nice and nasty, depending on the circumstances, or how much people get up our craw. People around here sure know how to bring out my nasty side. 🤣 If you're only "being nice" as a dating strategy, then it's not who you genuinely are. If your niceness is who you genuinely are... why would you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:35 AM
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Mugged by reality. I told you you were in for a surprise. 🤣 I love cunnilingus. Enough that it's a serious sexual compatibility issue for me with women. I strongly prefer women who also like it and want it. It's such a compatibility issue, if things are starting to get serious you have to at least brook the question: 'what do you like to do sexually?' and see if this comes up as something they find gross, because that is not uncommon. A lot of heterosexual women find it gross. In fact, a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:43 AM
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What even is heterosexuality? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:27 AM
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Aside from the fact that it wastes your time? Because you have to reject them. I don't like rejecting people. Hm. There it is, I guess... Psychology. It's my personality type. I don't like rejecting people, so I guess I try harder to 'scare' away people I'd have to reject so that I don't have to do it. The idea of trying to attract them makes no sense to me. I guess I can see how if it doesn't cause you anxiety to reject people you just take the dopamine and run. Like I said: sensitive. 🤷‍♂️😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:22 AM
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Okay, great. A woman was attracted to 'me'. Feels good. Dopamine hit. But is this an actual viable relationship? No. Because she doesn't even know who I am. All she sees is how I look, maybe what my profession is, what my public-facing personality is... and that's it. Who is she? What does she want? Oh. Gifts. Money. Princess treatment. Of course. 🙄 "Oh no, I have to turn this person down now... she will not take that well." Bye bye dopamine, hello anxiety. I've been through this. It's not fun t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:14 AM
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It is a bit frustrating for the reaction to be, "Do everything the women you don't like demand so that they find you attractive! That'll show 'em!" 🤣 Like, what? That's your liberation? Anyway, they do actually shame men very hard. They do talk down to and shame men. So much so that feminists have even adopted their vocabulary, and now you see them deriding men as "betas", "cucks" and "incel losers" and also adopting the mantra of "be a real man and pull yourself up by your own bootstraps". I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:53 AM
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Yeah. You're very much alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:46 AM
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Not really. Any woman who takes "alpha male" role play seriously is definitely not my soul mate. I'm not looking for someone to perform a role with. I'm looking for someone to be myself with. Sometimes that comes off as masculine. Sometimes it comes off as feminine. I don't care. All of the time, it's who I truly am. My soul mate is someone who appreciates me as I genuinely am. I don't need training to be who I really am. I also don't need training to understand most women are sexist and don't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:38 AM
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No. The best policy is finding out what you like, finding out what the woman you're with likes, and mutually deciding whether or not your likes are compatible. What you want, and don't want, also matters. If you want less PiV, that's completely valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:01 AM
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I'm not so sure about that. Sounds very naive. Sounds a lot like what I used to think before I started having sexual relations with actual women, but after I binge-read Andrea Dworkin's life work. 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:59 AM
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"I want you inside of me" is never not going to be sexy to hear, and I get the emotional appeal of it, and the feeling of being physically fused and complicit in the other person's pleasure, but I really wish they were less centered on PiV every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:55 AM
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Works for me. Boy are you in for a surprise. 🤣 It's women who are going to fight you on that. Women have always pressured me for penetrative sex. I'm very happy just kissing the kitty. I can tell you have no idea what it's like to be a man who has sexual relationships with women. You're barking up the wrong tree. I can't see promoting oral sex on women as anti-women, regardless. On the contrary, I think it is the most respectful and pleasurable form of (non-reproductive) sexuality available. Any…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:50 AM
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goal is to get women That is where your premise is flawed, and makes everything else you say wrong. That is your goal. That is not all men's goal. My goal is not to "get women", so why would I care about anything "redpill" is talking about? My goal is to find my soul mate. That's not to say there is nothing good about putting an effort in to be more physically healthy and fit. That is always going to be good advice for anyone. But you guys really just seem to want to attract women - any women - …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:49 PM
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Sure, works for me. Anyway, avoid that kind of stuff, it's awful for your health. She's actually a perfect spokeswoman for a potato chip brand. 😂
/r/MensRights02/05/26 11:35 PM
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It's projection. Look through that whole sorry thread and find a single woman standing up to the others and saying. "You're out of line." "That isn't fair to men." "That's hateful and prejudiced." "That's out of proportion to what happened." Anything. They are the ones who go silent in the face of injustice. They are the cowards who go along with whatever their mob-like cliques do because they fear the social repercussions of dissent.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 10:06 PM
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Glad for you. :)
/r/MensRights02/05/26 09:54 PM
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I also hate it. I'm too much of an outlier. I'm too sensitive. It's not appreciated, so I have no one to nurture or comfort. Abused as boy, and now seen as a threat. Sexually assaulted, and now seen as a predator. I've gotten all the hatred and vitriol for being male, the disbelief, the roughness and carelessness, and none of the supposed benefits and privileges. It's like a boot stepping on your face forever. It's being gaslit from cradle to grave. It's miserable. I'm trying to make the most of…
/r/MensRights02/05/26 09:53 PM
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It's self-flattering post-hoc rationalization of their own hypocrisy, typical of narcissists. These are people with selective blindness. They have their eyes open to misogyny - and genuine misogyny is horrific. They have their eyes shut to misandry. They only see what they want, so they never have to worry about doing the right thing. Boys are being tortured to death by misandrist mothers and people just refuse to accept that is what it is because it goes against their narrative, not because it …
/r/MensRights02/05/26 07:50 PM
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Okay. You screenshotted it, so it must be true. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:12 PM
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Teaching someone that they were born inherently good and empathic and anything they do is harmless because they did it is a recipe for churning out narcissists. That's where we are at, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 05:14 PM
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They mostly don't care and have no trouble pivoting into open homophobia and screaming "gay men are misogynists".
/r/MensRights02/05/26 05:06 PM
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If it's not a relationship with the narcissistic 'yas queen' caricature that has become the norm it can be very fulfilling. But to be a good person and a good partner, you have to worry about what it means to be a good person and a good partner. You can't even begin to do that if you've been told all your life that you are inherently good and harmless, because you were born that way. You can tell when a person has been so glazed that they've never once even considered whether they were the probl…
/r/MensRights02/05/26 04:57 PM
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People see male sexuality as contaminating the people we're intimate with. Forever. We take away their 'purity'. You transition to another social status. You're "tainted". This is why they're obsessed with women being "virgins". This is why lesbian women hate bisexual women and literally say they're "contaminated by dick". This is why straight men and lesbian women can develop this anxiety that makes them become violent. To the rest of us, it's just something we might be more or less into, but w…
/r/MensRights02/05/26 04:49 PM
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Women are not the empathic gender. That claim is just more narcissism. They're as flawed as the rest of us. We're just living in a society where we are pushed to pretend otherwise. Women's in-groups are more *exclusive*, not more inclusive.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 03:54 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but it sure doesn't surprise me that nobody approaches the whiny fake women making YouTube videos about how nobody approaches them. Just watch their videos and it's pretty obvious they're repulsive narcissists. They're predators looking for victims, not a relationship. Heterosexual dating is a complete nightmare. Every time you think "it can't possibly get worse than this", it gets worse. Feminists have created an environment that is critical of men and what they cal…
/r/MensRights02/05/26 03:42 PM
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Good for you. My friends have also noticed things about me they would rather that I change. Being 'predatory' isn't one of them. 🙄 Maybe you're projecting your own experience with predatory urges onto others? Your judgement of me will mean as much to me as my judgement of you, I'm sure. Given that we're both total strangers who know nothing about each other, that is as it should be. The only thing you know about me is that I'm male. Everything else about me you think you know is what you believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:15 AM
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Because I am me. I spend every minute of every day with myself. I'd have noticed. How do you know that you don't act predatory? Because you're a woman? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:05 AM
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It doesn't describe how it always is, but for any woman talking about your money or "earning potential" - yeah, that's how it is. Do not be naive about them. A woman like that will destroy your life without the slightest hint of remorse, and they can plan that shit for years. Same deal with any man talking about a woman as a "hot piece of ass". Yeah, probably he'll dump his wife when she's older and try to find a young model. It's not rocket science. They are literally telling you who they are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:57 AM
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No, honey. That is not how that works. They don't "grow to love you non-transactionally". They wait for the most opportune time to divorce so they can take half of your assets and be set up for life, or segue into an even more profitable marriage with a wealthier man. That's all that it is. They do not love, and that is not what love is. The woman who carried her brother down a mountain to get medical attention and, when asked "wasn't he heavy?" replied, "no, he's not heavy, he's my brother." Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:26 AM
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But that's all nonsense. Women are different, just like men are different. Sure, there are broad trends and stereotypes exist for reason, but there are also outliers and exceptions. We are all individuals. Some women are romantics, some are not romantic at all, some are just plain psychopaths - I'm pretty sure I've clocked more than one in this subreddit already. You know who you are. 🙄 What makes absolutely no sense whatsoever to me is the idea of "transactional love" as if that were even possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:22 AM
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I'm actually surprised. All of us, blue, purple and red men, if we're romantics or believe in love, seem to agree that it does imply self-sacrifice and it cannot be transactional. Actually... we all seem to have very similar ideas of love. 🤗 This is awesome. For once I actually feel kinship with my sex, lol! I think there is a problem, though, if love is all sacrifice, and that trips a lot of us up. Yes, of course if you can save a hundred innocent lives by pricking your finger, you prick your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:58 AM
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Both of those types of love are arguably 'romantic'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:03 AM
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What am I assuming? You literally said you do not view sex as an act of love and complained that the men on this sub do. That's all that I was talking about. I haven't assumed anything. I'm just saying, just because you don't see sex as an act of love doesn't mean those of us who do see it as an act of love are inferior and should see it the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:59 AM
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To you it's not, fine. It's just some materialist humping and fucking or whatever. To some of us it is. The thing that makes sex desirable is the emotional complicity and mutual vulnerability, not the acts. That's why the transactional sex just doesn't interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:43 AM
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I do view sex as an act of love, yes, but that doesn't mean love equals sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:39 AM
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That's where it gets tricky. We have that tendency when we're in love. It's inevitable. When another person's happiness makes you happy, it becomes very hard to distinguish what they want from what you want, because you find yourself wanting what they want just because it makes them happy. But that is not fair to yourself or to them, or to your relationship, because it obscures your authenticity. You can't love someone for who they are if they're not their authentic self around you, and they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:33 AM
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I think love is not a single feeling. It's an amalgamation of feelings in concert that become consolidated over time with familiarity. Affection, admiration, fascination, fondness, respect, trust. It's the feeling of being happier with someone than without them, of feeling your mood brightening when you see them happy and achieving their goals. I suppose that's why inverting it, as misandrists do, and implying women are happier without men than with them (that we're "unloveable"), is such an eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:26 AM
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Yes, but the key difference is that women’s anxiety around male standards came from patriarchy in a very material way. Women were legally, socially, and economically dependent on men. In some places, they still basically are. Patriarchy is a system where fathers run families unilaterally and women are chattel who are sold by their fathers to their future husbands. We no longer live in a patriarchy, and I don't live in one of those places. The patriarchy is dead. Indeed, some of the most stalwart…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:14 PM
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If you're a woman looking for commitment-free sex with men, it's ideal. If you're anyone else... it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:15 PM
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Oh. Well, I sympathize with romantic heterosexual women who are looking for a deep emotional connection, but have trouble finding men who have that same desire, or don't just want them sexually for their bodies. I have trouble with that too in my dates with men. I also sympathize with what some lesbian women say about having a hard time finding women who aren't passive or who will make some effort to engage them conversationally. I have trouble with that too. I don't sympathize with any of the "…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:12 PM
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That's what I asked, yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:21 PM
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Which woes? Different women have different woes. Some of them are very sympathetic. Some of them are even similar to my own dating woes. Some of them aren't sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:13 PM
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No, it doesn't, and no, I'm not. I don't "act predatory", and I'm sure as hell not being praised. I'm a human being, not a "predator". Again, please be civil or leave me alone. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:03 PM
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You might be right. I don't know. But trying to quarantine them is actionable, because they self-select themselves into the quarantine. Trying to convince Cluster-B that other people actually have their own souls or subjectivity that they should find interesting and valuable... If that is actually possible, why hasn't it been done at any point in human history? How many wars, massacres and genocides would have been avoided if we could actually do that? It's a beautiful dream, but it's a dream. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:54 PM
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Perhaps. It's simply that your post addresses a series of issues and then ends with a prescription. That prescription may help many men, but I doubt it would help enough men in general to really make an impact. We need to break with the idea that we are all the same and accept the truth that, while we certainly have some things in common as men, we are different - often vastly different. And those differences matter more to our outcomes than our commonalities. So we need more tailored solutions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:42 PM
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I don't think we should accept objectification as natural. I don't. If all most people want is an object, though, how can a minority who want a human connection possibly stop them? Moreover, why should we even try? Look how women reacted when OpenAI took ChatGPT 4o away and updated the AI to glaze its users less. It was right out of Brave New World. People ready to riot to get their soma back. Why should you fight to take men's sex bots from them, only to see them riot and lynch you for your tro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:09 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:53 PM
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I think it is an important consideration, because people now speak in totalizing terms as if men and women were monolithic hive minds and all of our feelings, motives and actions were reducible to our sexes. That is quite simply a delusion, and any policy that starts from a delusional premise is not going to work in practice. For some lonely men, it's wanting emotional authenticity and human connection rather than objectification. For some, it's not being taught to build stable lives outside of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:52 PM
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You're talking about social engineering. You want to train men not to objectify. That's noble, and years ago I might have agreed... but I doubt it will be effective. In any case, if you wanted to change human society you'd have to want to train objectification out of women just as much. Do you? Or would you just deny that women also objectify and that is part of the feedback loop leading us to this outcome? A technological replacement for men is also on the cards, after all. We've already gone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:29 PM
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It's a vile sexist personal attack. "That's on you really" is personal. It's in reference to men being "rapey", and therefore "you" by extension. That is never going to be civil. I'd block, but that's also against the sub's rules. Please don't engage with me if that's how you're going to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:22 PM
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Please be civil. If you can't be civil, just leave me alone. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:01 PM
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It's the same dystopia as the one we already live under. People already use each other as objects, so honestly who cares if actual objects are developed for people to use? It won't help those of us who aren't looking for objects, but I suppose it will satisfy most people. That's a positive thing. Maybe the lonely hearts club will become more wholesome then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:56 PM
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Believe it or not, we are not all actually the same. You're talking about a one-size-fits-all solution for lonely men as if lonely men all faced the same singular problem, rather than an amalgam of problems, some common, some specific to them. What we really need are more mental health resources. I don't care about "masculine success". If I did, I wouldn't be single at all, because I wouldn't be turning down women who do care about that and expect me to play that role. If you are economically in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:49 PM
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Yes, I remember. A lot of things have reversed. When I was growing up it was also said women are fixated on love and romance, and men are more vulgar and happier without them. That is also flipping. Almost like all of these "innate" roles are actually cultural fashions. The one thing that hasn't flipped, though, is that men are always seen as predatory by default and women are always seen as innocent by default. So if men want to get married, getting married must be predatory. If men want romanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:29 PM
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I'm actually old enough to remember when seatbelt laws were still new. Back then, it was older men who were stereotyped as stubbornly resistant to using seatbelts because they were "uncomfortable" and "emasculating" and "designed by women", and saying brilliant shit like, "I don't need no seatbelt, I can stop myself with my big strong arms." Oh how the turns table. The details change, but people's capacity for stupidity is truly constant.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/26 08:40 AM
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They're nonsense, but "influencers" actually have them believing this. My friend's aunt actually refuses to wear a seatbelt because "they're designed for men." I'll try not to even think about what her teeth are like. The toothpaste thing was a new one on me. 🤢
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/26 09:28 PM
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Heh, thanks. Here's hoping!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:32 PM
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"You need to maintain the spouse's previous lifestyle" is among the most absurd things I've ever seen codified into law. I honestly couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this was the actual law. This travesty pretty much guarantees most marriages will be money marriages. I feel terrible for the ignorant victims who had no idea what they were getting into. But what informed individual would ever consent to such an arrangement? It's a joke.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/26 12:19 AM
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Alimony should be completely abolished. There should only be child support, and it should be based on the cost of basic needs, not "previous lifestyle."
/r/EverydayMisandry28/04/26 11:14 PM
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They're genuinely gleeful when we suffer. That's what hatred is all about. People who hate you derive enjoyment from your suffering. They say feminists want to help and it’s other men who mock male victims…. Are they not doing the same? They are the so-called “patriarchy”; they’re doing exactly the same thing. That's right. They're narcissistic, self-congratulatory, self-absorbed liars. They really are the "patriarchy" they pretend to fight against. They have the same mentality, they use the sam…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/04/26 10:52 PM
2

We are not human beings to these people. Wherever they get power, they do everything possible to harm us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:27 PM
2

Staying up all night talking is just life goals. I love that. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:54 AM
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A relationship is a shared project. We're emotionally complicit - we share secrets, desires, intimacy. We open ourselves to each other. We're mutually vulnerable. We're committed. We love one another. We respect each other. We admire each other. We long for one another. We are both self-critical, accountable to one another, and willing to hear each other out. We plan for the future together. We support and nurture each other. We encourage each other. We build together. We contribute to a shared …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:42 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:34 AM
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Then that's loving someone for who they are. It sounds to me like you see love more similarly to me than OP. 🤷‍♂️ Anyway, I wish you both many more years of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:20 AM
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Because most people mean money when they talk about male "value". "Stability" means a stable financial situation, a big house, etc. "Experiences" means expensive vacations and such. They don't see our companionship as valuable, they don't see our devotion as valuable, they don't see our love as valuable, they don't see our emotions as valuable, they sure as hell don't see our sexuality as valuable - from what I see here, more like a burden that we should heavily compensate them for even enduring…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:54 AM
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Have an even better day. 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:37 AM
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No. They lied. But I didn't. I was telling the truth. I genuinely believe in sexual equality. So now, we're enemies. 🙂 It's absolutely a legitimate thing to worry about whether you are genuinely loved as a person rather than desired as an object. I can't imagine the level of narcissism necessary to seriously believe that it isn't. companionship, love, and who y'all are as human beings is what attracted the woman in the first place. Who is "the woman"? 🙄 Another imaginary person we're supposed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:28 AM
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She recovered. She wouldn't have if not for us. Her mother certainly couldn't do that alone. So of course I am happy. We saved her life. What is the "value" of that? How many dollars? Love is rare, but it exists. I'd rather feel it than not. Anyone who feels love knows the real thing from the fake. I don't think love for a child is unconditional either. At least not if it's healthy. It's not about unconditional love. Loving someone because you love who they are is not unconditional. It's conditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:17 AM
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Well, there it is. You don't think we're human beings like you. 🙄 Never mind that rapists usually have wives, girlfriends, and plenty of prior sexual experience, and don't rape out of "sexual frustration". In any case, a bullet in the head is a perfectly reasonable cure for rapists. End of story. I don't know if the majority of men would be happier with no sex than "duty sex". 🤮 But clearly it is not a small number of us, or you wouldn't be here whining endlessly about us, would you? Whatever. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:36 AM
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She's lying. You are intrinsically valuable as a human being, regardless of your sex. Don't let any of these nasty evil fascist trolls convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:27 AM
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OP started a debate, this is the answer. Whatever your purported nature is, if it were my biological nature to go along with it, then that is what I would be doing rather than turning my nose up, wouldn't I? If you don't like the complaining, get off the forum and go back to the echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:23 AM
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If they're anything like OP, it's no wonder to me they don't have an orgasm. If somebody can find me the sexy in trading sex for material resources I'll give them a million dollars. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:17 AM
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You don't need to let yourself be penetrated to have sex. I've had plenty of sex with women without penetration or any worries about pregnancy. Even if you enjoy penetrative sex, you don't have to do it all the time either. Own your own desires. If you want penetration, you want it. It's not inevitable. You want it. Be accountable. And as someone else has said, men you have sex with should also think about and be impacted by the possibility of pregnancy when having sex. You'd have to be a mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:14 AM
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I don't know. They will be frustrated and depressed, I suppose. What would happen to you if you never experienced something you longed to experience? Do you think we're not human beings like you are? I just can't imagine what the point of sex is if there is no mutual strong desire. Mutual desire is what makes sexual intimacy appealing in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:05 AM
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The laughter when he buys her the new watch and she says, "good job, that's worth two more weeks of relationship". 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:51 PM
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I agree, there are different forms of love. But what OP is arguing for isn't one of them. It isn't any form of love. It's terms and conditions for an economic exchange. You can't buy love, so that is not what is being exchanged. I'm not sure what this has to do with anything, though, or why you brought it up. I also stood by my ex-girlfriend's side when she was hospitalized and attached to tubes and could not use the bathroom by herself. And we were already exes. So what "value" was I getting ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:41 PM
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The post does argue against the idea that women are valued for who they are, and instead argues that women are also valued for what they provide materially - mostly sexual service. And I agreed with that part in my opening sentence. But it doesn't go on to challenge or reject that state of affairs. It goes on to support it and argue that it is exactly how it should be - that heterosexual intimacy is a just exchange where women provide sex and affection, and men provide resources, both things of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:28 PM
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I didn't misunderstand. They lied. They still lie about it. Would you be in a relationship with someone who provided no value to your life? Obviously not. The question is about what we're valued for. It's for money and resources, not companionship, love, or who we are as human beings. One of us is as good as any other if he has good looks and big bank account. So intimacy is meaningless, fake and performed. It's a completely legitimate thing to be bothered about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:12 PM
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They are not taken as a given. Decades have actually been spent challenging those roles, and the post itself acknowledges that it has been successful. It is about freeing women from unwanted gendered expectations, but continuing to enforce masculine roles on men. You have that in common with redpill conservatives. In fact that is their whole argument. "Look, even feminists actually hate you feminized soy men who are on about equality and expect traditional masculine men who protect and provide."…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:03 PM
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How could she possibly not realize her own point? Of course she realizes it. What she is saying is that those men are wrong to reject being valued for what they provide, not that they are wrong to believe that is what they are valued for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:48 PM
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When I first heard it, I scoffed at the idea that women only value men for what they provide, not who they are, and assumed that it was just the bitterness of jaded men coming out of horrible relationships with terrible women. You're the ones who have convinced me it's actually true. Feminists, not redpillers. Feminists were the last people on Earth I would ever have expected to give credence to that idea. I was genuinely shocked to see feminists overwhelmingly come out in support of the idea th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:45 PM
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Really? You seem quite intent on proving it right every chance you get. This whole post is literally proving that it is in fact correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:31 PM
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My experience is that people generally use each other. Few people actually love other people. Most people see others in terms of their utility. I don't find it difficult to accept that most women only value men for their resources or that most men only value women for sex. That is certainly not all people though. The minority who want something more than that suffer the world the majority have created for them. As far as symmetry in sex goes, it should absolutely be symmetrical. I'm not interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:30 PM
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'you're' is impersonal. Not my fault the plural 'you're' and the singular 'you're' are the same in English.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:11 AM
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Charming. 🙄 Nothing like dating to build a man's self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:49 PM
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She hates men because we remind her of women. Got it. 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/26 10:40 PM
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You're both rude - and that's putting it mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:37 PM
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I'm not so sure if the few male survivors of World War III would be particularly enthusiastic about marrying and financially supporting women who stayed home and forced them to go to war. That would drastically worsen gender relations. Even today, you have some diehard trad-husband types still gung-ho about playing a traditional breadwinner role - but they are fewer than the trad-wives looking for them, enough so that wannabe trad-wives moan endlessly about us "princesses" and "where are all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:31 PM
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Sure, sure. It's fringe until it happens. Following the court decision in the UK that handed them victory over trans activists, they've wasted absolutely no time in pivoting aggressively into "ban males from childcare". This already has the support of a number of mainstream feminists and seems to be a growing sentiment that much of the original anti-trans coalition feels natural affinity for. Mainstream media are beginning to platform it and publish "articles" (propaganda) advocating for it. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:21 PM
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What is the difference between a queer man and a straight man who just isn't homophobic? Men who aren't averse to being touched by other men or have tried sex with other men and just found it doesn't turn them on are still considered 'gay', just because they weren't viscerally, violently averse from the first inkling even to the possibility that they might not be straight. 🙄 I don't take people's opinions on gender or sexuality seriously for any purposes other than understanding where the violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:08 PM
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I've met "lesbian" women like this too, and their dick fetish carries intense masochistic overtones - like they see sex with men as 'punishment'. I have no experience with them though, they give me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:03 PM
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Sorry, but that isn't even a silver star lesbian. At most a bronze star lesbian. 😂 Everybody knows real gold star lesbians live in separatist communes and were born via parthenogenesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:00 PM
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Seems like a very large number of "straight" men are faking it just because so many women are disgusted by bisexuals. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:56 AM
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If you deep dive into feminism you find women who are fighting to make it illegal for men to care for children, who advocate for selective abortion of boys and who want men to be reduced to 10% or less of the total population. In countries like the UK they successfully legally defined rape in such a way that it is considered legally impossible for men to be raped. They're not only dangerous, they now have substantial institutional power and they are pursuing their agenda relentlessly. There is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:32 AM
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Feminists piss on your face and demand that you call it rain.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/26 10:20 PM
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Gaslighting 101. The most gaslighting people I've ever seen.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/26 10:20 PM
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Ugh. The way these cultists speak is insufferable.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/04/26 09:34 PM
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Yes. It's just unrequited love. This has been a thing forever and will be into the future. It's just part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:52 PM
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The terrible advice is to date random people for superficial reasons. It's sane and healthy to develop feelings for friends. That's not the same as faking friendship with ulterior motives. Society is backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:51 PM
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I don't understand what there is to believe or not to believe. Sometimes one person wants to be friends and the other wants something more. Of course it exists. I don't understand why this has been turned into politics. It's just human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:47 PM
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Um... Listening to someone and being mutually vulnerable is how you genuinely get to know people and become intimate...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:46 PM
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At least they made these flags suitably red.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/26 11:27 PM
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I think this is just extraverts unable to understand how introverts work, and making it about gender because it's fashionable to make everything about gender. Extraverts go to classes to meet people. Introverts go to classes to learn things. I think the problem is the Internet has just greatly reduced the amount of casual social interaction we have, because we used to have no other choice than to be around people all the time. Now most things are automated, online. Even work is now online. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:42 PM
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I've noticed this already on dating apps. A lot of people's profiles basically revolve around the gym and their photos are all about showing off their body. We are leaving behind the "body acceptance" era and moving into a strict cult of beauty, with very clear standards of what is considered attractive. There will be intense demand for any surgery that can give them a leg up. Taboos against plastic surgery will be dropped as people give in to total commodification of human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:38 PM
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I remember responding once to a question "what would you do if you woke up and everyon'e sex was swapped?" I answered, "I'd get on with life." A lesbian feminist friend answered, "Yuck! I'd kill myself." It's weird, isn't it? What other oppressed group do you know that, asked, "what would you do if you woke up as the a member of the privileged class?" routinely answers, "I'd be horrified!"? - What would you do if you woke up a millionaire? - I'd kill myself! - What would you do if you woke up a …
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/26 09:12 PM
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"I'm a safe person." 🙄 The moral conceit, naked for all to see. No, you're now what's called a "nice guy" - which is a bad thing. You're meant to accept yourself as a predator because it's more 'honest', which makes it more feminist than claiming to be 'safe', or something. 🙄 I'm sorry but posts like this just make me feel, "tourist". These people can get out of this shithole any time they want just by saying "AFAB!" as soon as they feel it's 'too much' for them to handle. They don't actually ha…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/26 09:05 PM
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When I was a boy my mother and grandmother would tease me if they thought I'd been too idle in my studies, "What are you going to do when you grow up and have to get a good job to support your wife? What woman is ever going to want to marry you?" I'd answer, "I'm not going to support anybody. My wife will have a good job too and we'll work together." They laughed at me and said, "you'll see when you're older how things work." I figured that was supposed to mean when I hit puberty I'd be so horny…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:51 PM
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Things are not more or less true, or more or less right, depending on how you word them or who you flatter while saying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:33 AM
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No. He's 100% right. Feminists now reinforce patriarchal norms. They side with the redpillers they pretend to hate to shout down any resistance to enforcing masculinity. Feminism is part and parcel of the system it claims to fight against.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:32 AM
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This world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:29 AM
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You're supposed to enclose it with <thepatriarchydidit></idefertofeminists>. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:28 AM
3

Don't do it to me! Do it to Julia! She hates Big Brother!
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/26 12:25 AM
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"Negotiate with your fellow men to stop hogging all the girls"? What on Earth does that mean? Do you think women are like collector's items or men's property or something? 🤦 With feminism like that, who needs patriarchy? Confront yourself. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:09 AM
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But "Not All Men" is right. It's the right side to take, because it's the truth, and it's manifestly unjust to prejudge and discriminate against people because of what they are, not who they are or what they do. The same applies to women. "Women aren't a monolith" is right. Individualizing accountability is a good thing. It doesn't mean you can't talk about or notice trends. It means you give grace to people you don't even know who didn't choose how they were born and may have nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:42 PM
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A man who is a jerk to everyone but you is still toxic. Yes, even if it's "just" other men. 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:33 PM
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It's so hard to articulate your feelings without sounding hateful when your feelings are hate. It's unfair! If it wasn't for patriarchy I would always sound like sugar and spice and everything nice no matter what feelings I'm expressing.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/04/26 06:53 PM
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I agree. 4 is just a simple statement of independence, but it's tossed in there making it seem like it comes as part of this whole perverse package of ultra-sexism. I've never thought misogyny and misandry are mutually exclusive. Saying "I hate men" doesn't equate to, "I love women". Feminism jumped the shark as soon as it became about a Marxist-inspired class war of the oppressed against the oppressors instead of a world without sexism. Feminism does not and will never fight for any men's right…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/26 08:13 PM
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It's fascinating how the thing about men that these people have turned out to hate most of all isn't even masculinity. It's femininity and vulnerability... all the same things they say the 'patriarchy' hates. They couldn't invent an original form of misandry? They had to borrow even their hatred of men from men? That's pathetic. 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/26 08:01 PM
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That isn't how I feel. I have responsive desire. I've met women like that and women who jump on a guy. I relate to women who have responsive desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:49 AM
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Don't have that in Europe, unfortunately. I've always thought Facebook is a much better company to make a dating app, because their business model doesn't depend on you being trapped on the dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:37 AM
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We don't like on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:35 AM
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That's a bad idea. People don't have any consistent standards for swiping. Sometimes you're just in a mood and swipe left on everyone. Sometimes you're feeling more charitable. Sometimes after swiping left on dozens and dozens of boring cookie cutter profiles you're so exasperated that you swipe right on the first profile that doesn't completely give you the ick, end up talking to the person, go on a date and realize to your horror, "we have nothing in common except board games." Don't ask me ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:34 AM
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Some apps are starting to put bio information over the photos, so you see both at a glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:27 AM
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You do realize that's what most men messaging me initiate with too? "Hi". Are you saying straight men actually do interesting chat initiations?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:26 AM
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I don't swipe right on most profiles. I swipe left on most of them. Profiles with no text, always left, and that's already like half of them. Red flags, automatic left. Sexy lingerie model photos, left. And those godawful fish lip poses. Anyone not self-aware enough to know how hideous that pose looks is probably not my type. :P Anyway it doesn't matter that much anymore. There are a whole bunch of these apps now that let you message without a match anyway. Most users are men. There are fewer wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:23 AM
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What an obnoxious, presumptuous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:20 PM
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A drone has escaped the hive mind of 'you men'! Capture him at once and return him to the collective. 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:19 PM
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No dude. "I want to take things slow" means I want us both to actually know each other enough to know what we're in for before getting serious this time, instead of jumping into the deep end and finding out neither of us know how to swim. Slow doesn't have to mean paralysed, to me it means let's see each other again soon and deepen our rapport.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:14 PM
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"I've met the patriarchy, and she's me."
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/26 10:22 PM
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It's just female defaultism. The female defaultism honestly wouldn't bother me if not for hatred of boys. I think this is going to become very common. They're testing the waters and you can see they're getting enthusiastic support. Boys are already being selectively aborted and there are cases of boys being murdered by their caretakers for no other reason than that they hate boys and want to prevent future men. Boys are a much easier target than grown men. Things are getting darker and darker, a…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/26 10:19 PM
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Nothing. I mean, I'm bi, but I had many female friends and had never had a sexual experience with women at one point. Until I did. About your age. 🤷‍♂️ Stay away from the people who denigrate you for being a "virgin" or sensitive, or see your value as a function of how sexually attractive women find you. They're invariably bad news, and the exact same people who value your life so little they'll send you off to die in a war without a second thought. They have a very particular way of seeing men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:04 AM
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Yes. 🤣 Check r/MyAIBoyfriend for the female equivalent. With AI videos I think within five years these two cohorts will merge into OnlyAI. 🤣 I'm jealous of them. I wish I was that easy to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:26 PM
4

Then you have nothing to worry about. You'll win again. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:16 PM
2

Good people are not good to others in order to find community. Good people confront their community if they see their community being cruel to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:51 PM
5

Yes, you can. Beacuse it's the same mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:49 PM
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Anybody, ANYBODY who sees you crying and tells you "I'm not your therapist" is a narcissist. Avoid them and let them find other narcissists and assorted Cluster-B nightmares to be with. "I'm not your therapist" is a major red flag. I wouldn't look twice at anyone who said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:24 PM
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Who cares? Let them become less tolerant if they must. Their problem is with reality. "Incel" is an insult that only signals people who believe men are elevated by their "sexual conquests". You've won the culture war. Self-described feminists are now "redpilled" and believe exactly the same things about men and male sexuality, they deride us as "f*g", they use your language and they share your worldview. You're only squabbling over who should be in power. It's simply a lie that men don't have fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:18 PM
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Stop caring what women think and be yourself. Talk about what you're feeling. Keep the women who denigrate you for your emotions out of your life. There is no point to hiding who you truly are for the sake of satisfying women's monster male fetish. That's a performance, not a relationship. You will still feel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:04 PM
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It's not hard to find women who prefer LTR and marriage, and have no interest in engaging in casual sex. It's not rare for women to want commitment. And commitment is often treated as a sign of love and security. So I'm told. I just haven't experienced it. My experience has been the exact opposite. It's been much easier to find men who want LTR, marriage and commitment, and very hard to find women like that. My theory is bisexual men generally repel the cohort of women who want LTR and marriage.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:47 AM
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*checks watch* Oh, would you look at that? They're still hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:38 AM
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No we're not. I've certainly never been allowed to date who I want without being attacked over it. This your way of telling me to shut up and take it like a man? I'm not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:51 PM
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Thank goodness for small mercies. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:38 PM
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Few people "choose" anything. That's a fantasy of the privileged, the only people who actually have choices to make. Most of us just do the best we can with the hand we're dealt in life. We don't "choose" a damned thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:28 PM
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You'd think! But no... that would be far too easy, wouldn't it? So cue the army of people screaming bloody murder at the mere suggestion of equality. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:26 PM
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Pointing out the hypocrisy of people who are in fact hypocrites isn't going to kill them. Especially when they have a whoooole society eagerly falling over itself to applaud their own merciless bullying, and for that matter every half-brained thing they do and say. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:24 PM
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I'm not averse to dating older women at all. Actually come to think of it, every woman I've ever dated has been either my age or older. The biggest difference was 8 years older than me. That's who my first sexual experience with a woman was with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:17 PM
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Yeah, it sucks to be mocked and bullied. When they stop trying to mock and bully me into heterosexuality and some warped "real man" fantasy I'll be happy to return the favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:11 PM
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Ugh. No, that's an awful dynamic too. That's my friend's situation now. The best relationships imho are between two clingy anxiously attached balls of anxiety. Any resemblance is pure coincidence. 😅 I'm over the whole fad of "oh co-dependence is bad though." To hell with that. I want a co-dependent clingfest!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:06 PM
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Until you actually meet the "masc-for-masc" guys and they're more sassy than you are. 🤣 Nah, they don't like us for the same reason men don't like them for their "body count" and lesbians don't like them for sleeping with men: they see us debased. They see male sexuality as inherently degrading. Not something you want near you if you have any self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:41 PM
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They see us as inherently degrading and devaluing the people we have sex with. That's why straight men are obsessed with "virgins" and lesbians are obsessed with "gold stars", too. It's all the same poison ideology. If you're male and refuse to see yourself that way, you might as well be an alien from another planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:36 PM
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Naah. I'm not broken up about being excluded from the tradwife dating pool. Looks like hell. 🤣 They are still hypocrites, though. Nope, not going to shut up about it. Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:33 PM
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Hypocrisy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:28 PM
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I'll mock whoever I damn well please for their hypocrisy. Fret not, it has nothing to do with pressuring you into anything - straight men can absolutely have you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:27 PM
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men generally prioritise sex while women generally prioritise love or comfort Where *are* all these women I keep hearing about focused on love and not sex? For being so common, they sure are as rare as hen's teeth. Anyway, it's an insane concept, but judging people as individuals rather than based on prejudice is the only way I've found to create a real bond with anyone - for anyone genuinely interested in knowing another person's soul, that is. We don't all have the same sexuality just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:25 PM
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What do you mean, so what? This whole post is acknowledging that it's hypocritical. That's the point of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:19 PM
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Women in general who are disgusted by us are hypocrites. They're disgusted by us essentially for doing the same things they do. They talk about us exactly the same way as the "redpill" men talk about women. Whatever though. People are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:17 PM
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I don't think women have high standards at all. Strict standards, maybe, but I wouldn't consider them "high". Anyone over a certain height, below a certain weight and rich are not high standards by my standards. They're actually quite pathetic. I'm picky myself but it has little to do with most women's or men's "standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:04 PM
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Yeah, it'd be interesting to see a poll on this where we give our ages. I have a feeling the older the men, the more likely we are to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:07 PM
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Absolutely. Honestly... it would probably help me to have someone whose future I needed to fight for. I think one of the things single men struggle with most is motivation. A lot of us seem to crave having someone else to struggle for and become demotivated when we're on our own. I don't mean "breadwinner" role or crap like that - at least not in my case. Just someone to fuss over and worry about them being 'okay'. I didn't have children with my ex because I was worried about something like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:03 PM
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The penalty for rape should be life imprisonment or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:49 PM
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Being found not guilty is not proof of innocence. The fact that people graduate from high school these days without being taught this 101 level knowledge. Yes, anybody proven to have falsely accused someone of any crime should receive the penalty the accused would have received, whether burglary, murder or anything else. It is not already a felony. It's a crime against police for misuse of resources. It should be considered a crime against the accused. It's an attempt to have the accused receive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:49 PM
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Horrifying. 🤢 Can't hate these monsters enough.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/26 12:56 PM
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Watching people on all sides never fail to be absolutely full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:49 AM
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"If a penis penetrating me makes me impure, then the penis is what's impure." Right... so then the culture that frame penises that way is... is... Misogynist! 😛 So close to getting it! 🤦 Not saying people who think that way aren't *also* misogynists, by the way. They're misogynists when they say women's lot is to be "punished" by men. But radical feminists don't do that, and still cling steadfast to the idea that penises are impure - because that is not where the misogyny actually is. It's where…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/03/26 10:22 AM
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I'm going to say something completely and utterly unhinged here, but bear with me: It depends on the guys. We're not actually all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:15 AM
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It's a corollary. These people are so hopelessly phallocentric in outlook they literally don't even take their own sexualities seriously, or the women they lead on seriously. These are the people screaming about how misogynist everyone else is. 🙄 They're truly insufferable.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/03/26 10:10 AM
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Nothing is a bigger sin to them than a man who is not 'masculine enough', it seems. What takes the cake for me, though, is the modern gaslighting twist of trying to force you to acknowledge their sexism as "equality" and calling us "misogynists". Wow can they ever get lost with that shit.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/03/26 10:04 AM
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Our best friends and "allies". 🥰🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry28/03/26 10:01 AM
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What are you babbling about? Tate isn't even in Romania anymore. 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:54 AM
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Scary. I try to keep them far away from me, but some of these people get into positions of power and trust.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/03/26 01:29 AM
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It should be life in prison at the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:51 PM
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In the process of putting him in jail? Andrew Tate is living the high life. He doesn't have a care in the world. Charlie Kirk was assassinated for his political views, not Andrew Tate, but who actually has the most extreme, misogynistic views? He's a PERFECT example of it. People are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:50 PM
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That's because people are full of shit, but you're meant to pretend you don't notice. Most people have a sense of self-preservation. They only confront or become aggressive with people they feel confident they could easily overpower. Men are more likely to feel brave because men are stronger on average, not because they're fundamentally different from women. Pointing this out ruins heterosexuals' eternal Tarzan fantasy about the nature of men and women, though, so they go apeshit when you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:46 PM
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This is what I think. I believe it's a minority of us who actually fall in love with people, who are focused on exploring other people's minds, bonding emotionally and intellectually, experiencing mutual vulnerability, admiring each other, and all the things that come with love. Most people don't do this. They have shallow affection, and look at their "partners" in terms of their material utility. That is why 'dating' apps look the way they do - they are designed for this majority. They use the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:36 PM
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As if they care about men who are raped by other men. They laugh at them, divorce them, and consider them repulsive. "Why didn't you defend yourself like a real man?" "You must have liked it." They're everything that they criticize. Everything.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/03/26 10:24 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I hope you find good people in your life and heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:39 AM
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Because loneliness is a major problem for us. The idea that loneliness means we're all desperate for any random woman to "give us a chance" is a delusional, narcissistic, sexist fantasy you're being fed. I don't care you prefer a bear. Hang out with a bear. It's fine by me. Why do you care what hurts us? You wrote this whole screed. Just go on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:34 AM
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Because the behaviour is destructive to more than just themselves. It's destructive to their children, and ultimately destructive to society, and we are seeing that play out. There are so many women like this and their male equivalents they are wrecking society. The social contract is in tatters, trust is at an all time low, and narcissism rules the day. I used to believe "just leave them to it", but that's not sustainable. Maybe if they were sterilized and lived in a zoo, away from civilized pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:05 AM
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They're repulsive. Independent people maintain themselves, whatever they think their 'maintenance' is. Independent people do not expect to be maintained. The men who are attracted to these nutjobs see them as sex objects that they pay to "ruin". No other kind of man would go anywhere near them. Like attracts like, in this case. I don't know what color the pill is that says, "heterosexual women and men mostly deserve each other", but that is my pill. I truly can't believe just how toxic mainstrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:01 AM
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Yikes! 😬
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 03:43 AM
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I'm a bisexual male but also demisexual. Grindr does nothing for me. I really yearn for meaningful emotional connections and commitment. For me it's equally hard to find that with men as with women. I also kind of relate equally to many common frustrations of heterosexual men and heterosexual women. Just my luck I'd get this flavor of bisexuality. 🤣 It is true though we can more easily laugh off the truly gargantuan cohort of women who expect "princess treatment" or want to use sex as a currency…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 03:31 AM
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Back in the 70s lesbian separatists and ultraconservative men both agreed that women only pretended to be heterosexual out of necessity, and when women became financially independent and had legal equality they'd all "burn their bras, leave their husbands and become lesbians." As it's turned out, they did leave their husbands, but only to look for hotter husbands with more money. 🤣 The seps will never get over their disappointment. Some still cling desperately to the hope that maybe they just ha…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 02:25 AM
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Wrongthink! Destroy the word! Into the memory hole!
/r/EverydayMisandry24/03/26 12:03 AM
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The right to beat me and have me arrested for it.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/26 11:58 PM
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I worry about that too. Sex is fraught, and I don't have the same ideas around it as most people, and making relationships sexual has the potential to take what could be a great lifelong friendship and turning it into a timebomb that wipes out all the emotional investment into each other. On the other hand, sometimes the only way out is through.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:18 AM
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Hm. I don't know. This is my friends' opinion on guys too. Specifically on a guy I've had a crush on over the past yeah, who actually holds the world record in my whole life for stringing me along. No woman has ever played the ambiguity card with me like this guy has. I know, I live in opposite-land apparently 🤣 Actually the women I've dated have all been very direct and 'let's go' so far with me being more in the 'let's slow down' camp. I do think heterosexuals like to gender all kinds of rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:08 AM
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That looks like a male very deep into the weeds of internalized misandry. Anyway, Reddit is never going enforce their rules against people they agree with.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/26 05:52 AM
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Misandry is 80% scam artists thinking "what can I say to manipulate these suckers into giving me money?" 🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/26 05:50 AM
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Yeah. Like half of all sex I've ever had with girlfriends was them getting intensely turned on from being gently cuddled and caressed and I've always found that immensely endearing. I wish my body were that sensitive in so many places! 😅 I'm the opposite of the death grip - the death grip does nothing for me, it just hurts. I enjoy light, sensual touch, too. I know I'm weird, because everyone I've dated, male and female, has gone for that 'death grip' and I've had to ask them to be gentle, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:17 PM
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Absolutely. What's ever not to like about watching the person you adore turn into a whimpering mess and have an orgasm in your arms? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:02 PM
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Someone can enjoy another persons company for their wealth, that's what attracts them, it could grow into "love" or not. What should be so wrong with that? Whether or not it's "wrong" is beside the point. It's not going to change. I'm just saying it shouldn't be conflated with the pursuit of authentic love, and those of us who aren't into prostitution should have our own spaces for dating based on emotional and intellectual affinity and intimacy. And if people live with each other for attraction…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 01:27 PM
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Okay. I don't get why you think it's necessarily fast, involves lots of movement and isn't gentle. Gentle movement does get me off. And, I mean... I haven't had any complaints from my partners either about my gentle movements. 🤭 I'm always curious why my preference for gentle sex is the only one that seems to be 'not okay', even to people who are otherwise all about "don't shame my kink". Choking? Fine. Rape fantasy? Lovely. Screaming 'slut'? Hot. Gentle? Ick! What's wrong with you? 🙄 Fill me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:14 PM
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Not my experience. It varies, ebbs and flows. Sometimes it's intense, fast, needy, convulsive. Sometimes slow burn and build-up, subtle tension. Orgasms can absolutely be slow, too! Orgasms vary. But we're probably talking past each other. When you say 'sex' you mean penis goes in vagina, right? And you'd say the rest of it is 'foreplay'? In any case, I don't think fast and intense is incompatible with gentle either, any more than slow is incompatible with rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:23 AM
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Yeah, gentle. I like gentle sex. So what you say is 'normal vanilla' is still BDSM and still aggressive? Maybe gentle sex was the freakiest kink all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:53 AM
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What do you mean by 'courting'? If you like someone you do random nice things. They're always on your mind. It's natural to show it. If anything it's a relief. You need an outlet for pent up affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:46 AM
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I mean, you will. I filter out a lot of people just by saying up front, "I only like gentle sex". A lot, especially women. Oh well. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:23 AM
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I guess it depends on your circles. I've met women who put hooks into their girlfriends' backs and hung them from the roof. I met a woman once who asked me about some of my most common sexual fantasies, and I offered that sometimes I fantasized about erotic massages. I asked about her sexual fantasies. She scoffed and said men could never understand women's sexual fantasies. I said, oh yeah? Try me. She whipped out her mobile and showed me a video of a woman walking around on a stage with a seve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:16 AM
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That's crazy. People are so cooked! Still though, does this friend have a personality himself beyond, "I'm whatever women want me to be"? Like, okay, they said it's what girls are into and he believed it, but what about him? What is he into? What does he want from his sexual relationships? Just, "whatever she wants"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:58 AM
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You should put it on the table early to filter them out. I do that. I say up front to any incipient partner, I'm into gentle sex only, and absolutely will not have any kind of sex with anyone who sees my body as a tool for punishment. It helps, because otherwise people do assume things about you and what you 'must' want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:55 AM
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It's true it's not like hating people for things they can't help. No one is born feminist, it's a chosen political community. I do understand feminism is a huge tent filled with people who take opposite sides on nearly every issue. Individually, I've met some seemingly decent feminists. In a clique, though, I've only ever seen even those seemingly decent feminists either turn into cackling monsters as soon as it was socially expedient, or face so much in-group hostility from their own fellow fem…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 04:18 AM
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Predatory 13-year-old man grooms innocent 27-year-old girl. That is where we're at. Even the youngest boys cannot be innocent. They even call pre-pubescent toddlers 'future rapists' now. We are never innocent to them, and we cannot be harmed by women. We are innate perpetrators, and women are innately innocent. Where is there to go from here except to fight feminists like hell at every turn and everywhere? This will never be the basis for a healthy society. It will never be the basis for a healt…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 03:46 AM
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I just wanted to know why you needed so many words defined that I felt were already unambiguous. If it's because it's not your mother tongue then it's understandable. It makes no sense to me to say you enjoy the 'company' of someone for their wealth or looks. The fact that they're wealthy or hot is not keeping you company. This may just be a fundamental psychological difference between us, though. Which is why I'm saying, it is silly and pointless to pretend we're all the same. Again, shared aff…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 03:37 AM
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Is English your first language? You ask for the definition of a lot of words it seems reasonable you should already understand. No, it doesn't make sense to say a relationship between two people is all about lust because it is about lust for one person, when the other person has other motivations. It's about an exchange of money for services, although with marriage sex is always considered one of those services. Prostitution is the exchange of money for sex. In relationships based on mutual affi…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/26 07:52 PM
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I didn't say they're about lust alone. They're just prostitution arrangements. Could be about lust for one party, avarice for the other. Could be about other things too, like having a live-in maid, or an heir, or a bodyguard, or whatever. What it is not about is love. It's a financial arrangement. If they also happen to fall in love with each other, which can happen, you see it is almost by accident, as an afterthought. Just look at them. Pay attention to how they talk about their relationships,…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/26 07:03 PM
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Tell him you love him. Hug him. Hang out with him. Make a big deal about being proud he's your brother. 😊
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/26 01:32 AM
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I think most people don't want to pair up and sleep with most other people. I sure as hell don't, anyway. Should that mean I find photos of people and use my lack of attraction to gleefully and systematically attack their self-esteem? I think you underestimate the extent to which it's just the continuous barrage of hatred, ridicule and hostility that obliterates people's self-esteem. It really is like the anorexia epidemic, except instead of society looking at the mounting pile of dead bodies an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:30 AM
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Try being a male with anorexia back then. I almost did die of it. No body positivity or sympathy for a boy with a "girl's disease". Still did everything I could to encourage anorexic girls. A lot of us did. To make being a big girl feel like it was also sexy and desirable. Mika sang 'Big Girl (You Are Beautiful)'. We embraced Adele. We made it "men's problem" that women felt so undesirable because of their weight they were starving themselves to death in large numbers. We did sleep with and marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:12 AM
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A HUGE part of stopping the anorexia epidemic was us stepping up and saying, "Hey you big girls, we love you! You are beautiful!" Thanks for returning the favour. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:00 AM
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Catherine Hakim (Erotic Capital) got out ahead of this way back in 2010. Read about her in a ruthless feminist takedown piece in the Guardian, when I still read that rag. Attempted character assassination. Progressives laughed at her. Feminists sneered and made fun of her own appearance, saying she didn't have much 'erotic capital' herself, rather than seriously debating her ideas - petty and profoundly hypocritical, as usual. Being an egalitarian romantic, I found the whole notion offensive mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:58 AM
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Not exactly. It depends and it's not quite that simple. In most mammal species females go into estrus to signal a desire to mate and males respond to it. In one chimpanzee study a male chimpanzee raised from birth around humans was introduced to a chimpanzee troop as an adolescent. He made a female friend, who turned out to fancy him. She went into estrus. He was so unacculturated to chimpanzee norms he just stared at her in confusion. He had no idea she meant for him to mount her. Weird, right?…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:35 PM
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Ugh. Don't give me this hopium right now. I've already gotten over him! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:17 PM
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I'm glad you agree. Please try to be less flippant about it. It's almost impossible to report. Nobody takes it seriously. Not even therapists believe you. So what are we supposed to do? Who are we supposed to tell about it to "count" in the official statistic? Who is going to record it? The same people laughing in our faces? I'm sure it's some minority female perpetrators but I don't believe for SECOND it's only 5%. If it ever becomes possible to report that percentage will go up. I don't know b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:07 PM
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No, that's not what we see in the animal kingdom. What we actually see is it depends on the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:31 PM
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I might be inclined to agree if it weren't that you just don't believe us. That you laugh in our faces when we talk about it. You torment and revictimize us. It's hopeless to say anything or tell anyone because at best nobody cares, at worst even a 40 year old woman could turn around and accuse a 15 year old boy of assault, and you would believe her, not the boy. You point out all the men who say they wish it was them, but you're actually the same as those men. You see things the same as they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:29 PM
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Women are stronger than boys already. Yeah, I drew the short straw there, and got cooked. But some mothers really do love their sons. I've seen it. Just wasn't lucky enough to be born to them. I know not all men are evil despite what misandrists say, so I'd never say all women are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:24 PM
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Yes. If you listen to female psychopaths speak they are very clear that they're constrained in their actions by physical strength, not motive. That's why their targets for physical violence are usually children and the elderly or infirm, and they often use psychological terror against adult males, or hire hitmen. Psychopaths are opportunists. They don't like picking fights they will likely lose. Feminism's intellectual descent into a cult of female moral supremacy is a free buffet for female psy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:19 PM
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Sexual love is a kind of love. It's romantic love. Again, if it were just sex, not love, that is easy to get and there would be no loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:09 PM
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I'm just not interested in prostitution and I'm not attracted to gold diggers. There will be no sex at all because any woman fixated on getting money out of me instead of my character is instant and total ick. Sorry. I find centrist women attractive, not conservatives or liberals. I like people who aren't tribal, have a sense of independence and judge things according to their own criteria and moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:07 PM
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That sounds suspiciously like wanting to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:30 AM
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It's mostly women I see who seem to cope well with being alone by hooking up and having lots of sex. If men really just wanted sex they would mostly hire prostitutes and be cured. Yet most men who report being lonely aren't interested in prostitution. I think this is just another typical way for misandrists to dismiss male depression as being unworthy of serious consideration, because they fundamentally see us as sexual predators who deserve to feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:30 AM
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I think so. I've met a lot of women who are alone but don't report feeling lonely. Some even say they like being alone. I honestly think they're just more mentally resilient to it for whatever reason. They don't tend to anguish over it as much as we do. I don't know why. It depends on the individual, but I do see that tendency. We aren't coping as well with the atomization of modern society and the end of local community. We're less individualistic. I also meet many more romantic men than romant…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:25 AM
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They don't like 69 either? 🤔 Is that not a thing they do with heterosexual men or what?
/r/EverydayMisandry19/03/26 11:21 PM
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LMAO. These are the same women who are like, "Ewww I'd never date a bisexual man! Uck!" 🤣 Everything about them is fake, the personality, the exaggerated effeminate mannerisms, even the affected misandry. They're just trying desperately to be popular at all times. 🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry19/03/26 09:53 PM
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Why? Most people really do see others as objects. They really do just want a hole to stick their dick in or a sugar daddy to fund a lavish lifestyle. They don't feel or care about love. Why impose a paradigm on them that they don't want? That just muddies the waters for those of us who are civilized and looking for other civilized people. We should stop pretending we're all fundamentally the same. We're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:35 AM
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It's both of you. You're both insufferable and you're both right about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:37 PM
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sigh I could have casual sex if I wanted. It's really not that difficult. Even with women. A lot of women love casual sex. They're usually more cautious than men, but I think it's only because they're smaller and worried for their safety. Once they clock you as safe they are no different than men who just want sex. I'm definitely in the 'lonely man' statistic, but I honestly relate more to the way lonely women on here frame their loneliness. If sex is enough to make you happy, I genuinely envy y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:33 PM
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I was raised around it and spent years immersed in it. It's all gaslighting from start to finish. It's not what they "say". They'll say anything they think makes them look good in their cliques, even if it means contradicting themselves in the same sentence, or denying what is right in front of their faces. It's what they *do*. It's decades of experience with feminists that makes me believe that. What experiences? Off the top of my head: - It's feminists who've told me male sexuality is inherent…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 10:08 PM
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It is normal here in Spain, yes. A date is just tentative first contact to establish compatibility. There are some women who expect some "princess" treatment, but it's not taken for granted, so they announce it beforehand, and it's easy to filter them out. It's very common for women from the Americas and from Eastern Europe to expect to be paid for by men, and to get nasty when they're not, which leads to some selection bias against them. I'm wary of dating women from outside Western Europe, per…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:24 PM
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Just don't do it. The women expecting this aren't looking for emotional bonding anyway. If you play along with their sexist expectations, it's reasonable to assume you aren't either. Emotional bonds are not financial transactions. "Men paying" is a dating framework based on the premise that heterosexual relationships are long-term prostitution arrangements wherein men demand sexual service and simulated companionship and women demand material compensation. Love is not a thing in these relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:09 PM
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I wouldn't. I automatically think he's a sociopathic chamaleon who does not care about love, or being loved, and realized he hit the jackpot with this woman, since all he has to do to impress her is say he is a feminist and uncritically repeat any political platitudes she believes in. People seeking love aren't ever going to gravitate to people who hate them for how they were born.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:46 AM
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Gentle femdom is awesome, but I honestly think it's mostly just us subs daydreaming. 😛 I don't see any gentle dommes in real life. I see a lot of findommes who are happy to charge money for abusing you, or just sex workers who will do whatever (within reason) for a paying customer, including simulated companionship, but none of that is gentle femdom. I lean submissive and I've looked. There is no such community I've ever found anywhere. It's mostly male subs fantasizing about being cherished. It…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:42 AM
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Because it's *not* "so important" to her. She *doesn't* love him. It's just empty verbiage. "Love" sounds respectable, so that's the word she uses, like North Korea calls itself a democratic republic. He's just a thing to her that she uses for money and status, and she is probably just a thing to him that he uses for sex. They don't mean anything more than that to each other.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:33 AM
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OK clawhands. 🤣 She doesn't love her boyfriend. She's literally talking about him and "any man" as a cog she could easily replace within months and have another husband. You don't talk about someone you love as some "thing" you can replace within months - that's the language you use for an appliance. She says herself the only time she is down on her knees is to fellate. What is that? Prostitution. That's all it is. This is a prostitute. That is what most heterosexual relationships are, unfortuna…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:29 AM
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Equality would be a great thing, if we had any, or any movement of substantial size and power supported such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:17 AM
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This is what 99% of people believe. Unfiltered.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:16 AM
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No. The answer is really just no. I've been involved in all kinds of feminism, from radical feminism to liberal feminism to queer feminism to transfeminism. They do not believe in equality. They believe in *anything* but equality.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:12 AM
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I have a hard time imagining lonely self-hating men are desperate for someone like this. I think most of the men who pursue her don't love her either, they just want 'pussy', and they learn whatever hoops they think they need to jump through to get it. Hold the door, bring flowers, don't cry, give money, whatever. If they felt they're lacking love they would not go looking for it there. The blackest pill for me was accepting that these toxic, abusive people really do mostly deserve each other. T…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:09 AM
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Certified "are we the baddies" moment. Just repulsive. It's better to be alone than 'accompanied' by someone like that who despises you for how you were born.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 02:01 AM
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Because we're raised to hate ourselves for how we were born. That's the plain truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:37 PM
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Yes. But that ship sailed, and nobody ever asked me which one I wanted to board. Being a woman is hard and dangerous in its own way, but I'd still prefer it to this life, at least here in Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:35 PM
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Right. But OP is dead wrong. Cultures where women are seen as subhuman are *harsher* on women by far and easier on men. In tribal Pakistan a village council sentenced a rapist's sister to be raped by the victim's brother. Let that sink in. These are societies where rapist men are actually perceived as essentially innocent, and their victims are perceived as the criminals! OP's conclusion is a desperate attempt to preserve a dying philosophy: "cultural relativism". The idea that all cultures are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:31 PM
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That's just nonsense. If anything, the most misogynistic cultures are the hardest on women. It's Afghanistan where women are stoned to death for adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:11 PM
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It's not the same, though. Yes, women are perceived as more innocent than men, all things being equal, across most cultures, but interculturally it is not equal. Here is an anecdote. One day I was walking to the bus from work in an upscale suburb. I walked past a woman struggling in vain to open her front door. She saw me and started waving, "Hey! Excuse me sir! Can you help me? My door is stuck." So to my chagrin I missed my bus trying to force her door open - it had expanded in the door frame …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:07 PM
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The effect is not just 'women are wonderful'. It's about perceived innocence. It's a 'women are innocent' effect, juxtaposed with a 'men are predatory' effect. Look closely. It's racialized. White women and Asian women are perceived as most innocent. Black women are perceived as innocent relative to black men, but share a lot of the perceptions men in other racial groups receive. White men are also perceived as more innocent than black men. Black men are also perceived as the most masculinized. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:46 PM
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You just listed three very different standards of beauty in MLM spaces, which goes to show the diversity of preferences in gay spaces. Despite what people say, I find it much more chill. You're bound to be some guy's cup of tea. It's dating women that has made me feel the most anxious and self-conscious about my appearance, worried about gaining weight, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:13 AM
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Nah. Straight open relationships do exist. They still hate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:05 AM
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I suppose. On the other hand, gay people don't seem constantly miserable the way straight people do, and don't all seem to talk about hating their own partners. Anyway, if you have a shred of intelligence and want more out of life than a man who wants you to be his fuckhole or a woman who wants to bleed your account dry, your dating pool is absolutely not the whole world. It's actually very tiny, sadly, because that right there is most "heterosexual" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:04 AM
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I don't find the caked-on makeup or those claw-like appendages attractive at all. Quite the contrary. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:55 PM
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I'm realizing that delusion is enough for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:52 PM
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I keep having to remind myself you people call coitus 'sex' and sex 'foreplay'. I still have no idea why you do that, though. Anyway I've never understood what this libido stuff is supposed to be about. Women with low libidos have really low libidos, but women with high libidos have insanely high libidos. I've been with women and with men. Women have barely any refractory period, have five orgasms a day easy, and get turned on like crazy when I thought we were just cuddling. I usually have to as…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:46 PM
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Okay. Sorry to have bothered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:16 AM
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What other side? The other side to me are cruel and vindictive people. People who hate women or men because of their sex are on the 'other side' from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:54 AM
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I just don't see the point. I commented because I relate to not wanting a transactional relationship, because I'm looking for a relationship based on emotional and intellectual bonding, but I don't relate to evangelizing it. It's what I'm looking for and it's much harder to find than a transactional relationship by nature. If the point is to be polemic and advocate for social change, sure it makes sense to analyse and critique the things you find objectionable and wish people didn't want. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:51 AM
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What does it mean not to be 'alone'? To me, pretending to be someone I'm not and paying to be with someone who I share nothing in common with, doesn't love me, and just wants my money, is being alone with a lot of extra steps. There is nothing in that kind of arrangement that appeals to me more than being single, and a lot of it that is much worse than being single. Remember what Robin Williams said, “I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:39 AM
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There is a big elephant in the room here. Many, if not most, heterosexual relationships are just long-term prostitution arrangements. That is what you get when men just want 'some pussy' and women want 'money'. They're spoken of as if they were romantic love stories, and but the romance is just a performative veneer on a form of prostitution. I think if they'd just admit that is what they want a whole lot of needless screaming and mutual hatred would go away. But since prostitution is taboo, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:26 AM
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It will happen, because it's what I do. 🤷‍♂️ I think it's the route to the healthiest kind of communities. Everybody is held to the same level of accountability and expectations, everybody gets the same compassion, but also the same boot if they are cruel and evil. I don't get why you'd want to repeat a model you criticize as cruel and unjust precisely because it's indiscriminate. That's just a revenge fantasy. I don't want revenge. I want to build uplifting things that are better than the syste…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:41 AM
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What does 'infantile' mean to you? To me it means... quite literally, people who behave in ways that remind me of children and expect to be taken care of like a child. Infantile by my standards... I've met women in their forties who still live with their parents, have never been independent, never paid their own bills, never even changed a lightbulb, and even struggle not to get lost on public transport. Still make pouty faces or stamp their feet like toddlers. No accountability. Blame everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:21 AM
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I mean, I get the resentment, but I don't want to be cruel or gaslight random women the way I've been gaslit, who for all I know have nothing to do with any of the people or ideas that hurt me. I just don't. I'd rather keep the cruel people away from me. Also, it's a very bad policy. Uncritical and unconditional support for all men as such leads to a space taken over by psychopaths and narcissists who will exploit that to commit abuse and violence. It just repeats the same mistakes of feminism. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:04 AM
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Anyone who wants to attract people has to try to look their best. It's a given. We do our best with what we have and try to find a style that flatters us. For me these days it's a soft daddy style. ;P People do still have different ideas of what 'attractive' looks like, though. I'm attracted to tomboys or casually feminine natural women, for example. Performative hyperfeminine women with meter-long nails who like makeup seriously put me off, but that's the dominant style. What most men and most …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:53 AM
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I don't think it's useful and I don't listen to them. I'm also not interested in being "successful with women". I'm interested in finding a soulmate (woman or man). That would be falling in love with someone and being happy because I know I make them happy and they love me body and soul for who I truly am. Not the same thing as "successful with women". Not even in the same galaxy. My impression of men giving advice for being "successful with women" is they are only intersted in fucking and don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:41 AM
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Homophobia is why men cannot unite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/25 11:03 AM
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I completely agree with you. I've said this for decades, but both left and right wing ideologues have shouted me down at every step of the way. The goal of creating "better gender roles" to replace the existing ones is your first major clue that the people who claim to be against sexism are full of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 08:09 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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