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Can you post a pic? It would be helpful to see what you look like so we can give better advice.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/19 08:15 PM
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Yeah, sorry. He’s full of shit. This exact same story has happened to me and my girl friends.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/19 01:36 AM
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Yep, came here to say this. For sure they are still together and he lied to you about being broken up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/19 12:49 AM
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It’s not about how attractive you are, it’s about confidence. Men will brag about you if you have confidence in the bedroom. But anyway, you don’t want to be with a guy that brags about women after fucking them, that’s trashy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:50 PM
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Just curious, what do you mean by “Just not to women like you” I feel like you’re putting yourself down. What do you think is wrong with you?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:45 PM
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I can’t have children due to health problems. I had to give up that dream. If she never finds a man to marry how is she going to deal with that later in life? I have friends tell me that they would commit suicide if they never met a man. You can’t tie your entire worth to another person. I’m making peace with myself and learning to be comfortable on my own. I don’t think that’s playing the victim. I have a wonderful life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:42 PM
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Stop dating the better looking ones. They have a line of women waiting for them. In my experience, these guys will not commit. If you refuse to stop dating, then change the type of guy you’re dating. I have a feeling you’re dating the players and assume they are going to change for you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:13 PM
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Please look up attachment styles on the internet. You’re displaying traits of an anxious attachment style. You will not be able to find a stable relationship until you sort yourself out. You gotta help yourself, girl.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:07 PM
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Jesus Christ. I read a couple of her posts and had to stop, it’s triggering me. This girl is a grade A mess. No wonder she can’t find a decent guy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:04 PM
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It’s not sad at all. The happiest people I’ve ever met in my life have been single. I met a wonderful 80yr old woman on the plane recently. She was never married, no kids, travels the world alone at 80! and she was full of joy. I was so envious of her wonderful life. If you feel sad that people are single, then that’s a reflection of your own insecurities. You create your own happiness and meaning. You cannot rely on a man to fulfill you. If you have close friends and family, you will never be a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 01:46 PM
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You know what? Even if that’s the case, then learn to be at peace with it. I’m 34, never married, and no children. I can either become bitter, or come to peace with the fact that I will never have what everyone else has. I have great friends, I’m attractive, I travel the world alone and create my own happiness. I have so much to be grateful for. You need to get out of this victim mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 01:32 PM
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I’m going through exactly what you’re going through. I’ve been single for 2 years now and I’m trying to better myself to never get into this situation ever again. My advice is to get off social media, get yourself into therapy, and stop dating. If you continue down this path you’re at risk of getting yourself into an abusive relationship (which is what I did), or spiralling into depression because of your very low self esteem. You have to find a way to make yourself whole without a man, because …
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 06:45 AM
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I’ve been celibate for 2 years. Like you, I always felt dead inside after casual sex. I’m proud of myself that I’ve been celibate for this long, I don’t want to have sex with another man until I find one who really cares about me. The bad side is that friends shame me. They laugh and say they feel sorry for me for not having sex for years. That to me is the hardest part because it makes me feel embarrassed and ashamed that I’m not “normal”. “I do not want to be a single mother” Amen! If I never …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 05:50 PM
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I’m in the same position too. Like another person said here, I think we have to grieve our loss. I always wanted to have children out of love so I don’t want to adopt or have a child on my own because I’m worried that I would resent the child. I have to come to peace with the fact that it just wasn’t meant to be. It’s very hard to accept but I don’t have a choice - I lost my baby with the man I loved due to an ectopic pregnancy and he left me. It breaks my heart but I can either let it destroy m…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 09:34 PM
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This would be a deal breaker for me too. He’s planned a holiday for himself, invited you, and you’re paying half of it... It’s your birthday, but somehow he’s made it about himself and where he wants to go? Did you have any say in which hotel etc, you would stay at? This is a major red flag for me, I find it to be very selfish, and kind of controlling on his part.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 07:32 PM
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The same thing happened to me and I also have very bad anxiety and nausea from the trauma of it all. Being in another relationship or even going on a date makes me feel physically ill and it’s been two years. I have trouble sleeping and I wake up nearly every night in a panic. I’ve spent the last two years trying to better myself for the next man I date. I workout, I’m teaching myself how to cook, and I travel extensively to gain new experiences. However, I haven’t had sex for 2 years and the lo…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 11:10 PM
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Thanks :) I hope I can find a leader too! I’m not going to give up hope just yet.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 11:37 AM
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Yep! The thing is, I don’t even have a small ass! My ass is one of my best features. My body is quite similar to Riley Reid’s. He is used to sleeping with hot models, and I’m not hot I’m ‘pretty’, so he told me that I was not hot enough physically to satisfy him. Fair enough he didn’t find me attractive but he didn’t have to be so cruel about it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 11:37 AM
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Oh for sure I won’t let him stop me from finding something meaningful. His behaviour was way outside the realm of normal. But first I want to make sure I’m in a positive and healthy mental state before getting into another relationship. I’m working hard to become the best version of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 11:32 AM
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This happened to me, but we eventually broke up because no matter how hard I tried he still told me I wasn’t attractive enough for him and refused to have sex with me. I tried so hard but it was never enough. I’m petite and skinny, but he wanted me to get a huge ass etc and I really tried, but the stress he was putting on me to be more attractive made me lose even more weight. He was cheating on me with lots of other women and watching porn multiple times a day. Be careful because his comments r…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 08:24 AM
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Yes, 100% this. I have a friend like this, she’s never had a boyfriend and she doesn’t understand why. It’s because she’s so boring that any man can’t be around her for longer than a day. My male friends can’t stand her because she talks for hours and hours about the most vapid things. I can have a coffee with her, but any longer than that and I need to escape. I can’t talk about gossip girl for 3 hours.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/18 02:02 PM
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Holy wow. She looks incredible!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 10:14 AM
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Where do you buy your lacy pjs from? I’ve been trying to find nice pjs since forever.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 10:09 AM
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I live in Europe. It’s no different here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 08:58 PM
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I just had an epiphany reading your comment; I suddenly realised the problem in all my relationships. Thank you for this great advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 07:27 AM
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