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Mama Saidmimikayo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:53 PM
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Hey OP, I was in your boat and not pro-OLD as well but looking at it as a tool. I feel ya girl as someone in a big city that has anti-social dynamics (hard to make friends even), OLD was a necessary evil where I live too. IE Work is a small bubble, friends don't know any single people, hobbies small bubble. I built my profile with what I'm interested in, like science museums, animals, and outdoorsy stuff. The usual safety PSA don't share anything revealing, like where you went to school. People …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:34 PM
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This 100% with so much hindsight. I also regret planning dates for LVM and looking back would have prefered to spend that time with my gals as friend dates. My bestie was my safety contact and would be the one to enjoy/listen/cackle with me about my dating woes. I wish I had the wisdom to think of her first to do activities together at the time but I've planned friend dates with her to atone since. 1) Going to pride with a guy (pick me walk date 🤦🏻‍♀️) and seeing a drag queen bestie liked too. M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:51 PM
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Or building handmade furniture. Is it minimalism to only own a folding chair and TV stand for the TV? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:28 PM
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Please pick your last seen location for the milk cartons. 🤪 From John Mulaney's Street Smarts story: He goes, “Okay, when you get kidnapped…” Not if, when. “Okay, so when you get kidnapped, the place where the guy grabs ya, in the biz we call that the primary location.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:29 PM
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I got lucky he ended up showing me who he was after promising things up and down. LVM was 8 years older and my parents disliking him instantly made my 20year old pickmeisha self more attached to him. Half way through our relationship he changed careers and got his "dream" career. After listening to him be excited about wanting to climb the ladder, he dropped hints i should do the traditional thing and make career sacrifices for him. He would gush about how I made him better and how he was always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:24 PM
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I had this big age gap relationship with the exact ages too -the relationship that on paper was not creepy but in real life was. Even though were both 20 somethings it was clear, that something was definitely off because of the lack of experience in the younger person. I wish I listened to my parents pointing that out... 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:58 PM
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Back when I was a Pickmesha, I thought that being on the same "wavelegnth" (the oxytocin bonding) and having a few similar interests made a situationship evolve into something more... 🤡 The libfem gimmick of "being that cool, SMRT, and progressive girl" made you better than basic biology is something i told myself to help prop up my bad self esteem. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:05 PM
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Yeah I wish they'd teach financial literacy along with all the family "planning" stuff. The most our class got was baby expensive... Maybe we could get an education about the legal system and divorce 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:59 PM
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Ooh, maybe it could be a mother's day thing where we share what the strong women figures in our lives have told us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:55 PM
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I hope you've got your chosen family to support you Awkward Plane. Maybe one day she can work and earn back your respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:58 PM
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Thank you! We're getting her favourite takeout, LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:54 PM
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Thank you for celebrating her! My mom's no BS prespective on life has helped me so much. Hopefully, she can help other sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:49 PM
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This is about my current partner. He is my only HV relationship, thinking about things in retrospect. 😓 The date he planned was dinner and a trip to a Halloween fair, after I talked about how much I loved Halloween. During the date, SO checked in often asking if I was cold or needed a snack. He asked if he could hold my hand and at the end of the night if I wanted an Uber home, no you should come over or you should see my place. Not date experiences: My first birthday we were together, we went h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:22 PM
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OP would you be able to find any support within your work for the time being? Is there a women in engineering community near you? The other posters have given good advice about exiting. Hopefully, you can find a way to take back some of your career drive. When I was new/fresh from school in my public sector job, another engineer took us interns aside and gave us a heart to heart. She told us that she faced a lot of issues like you described, undermining and throwing doubt on her expertise. She s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:51 PM
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Ugh, this. They want YOU to justify why you want/bought quality goods because this is cheaper and works fine too. If she settles for less, she will settle for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:44 PM
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Truth! In my 8 month stint with OLD and Tinder, I met 3 dudes in the whole time that were up to snuff and worth more than an evening of texting. 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:59 PM
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