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| 1 | What do you think about marrying your first partner?I dated a boy from elementary school to the end of college - this is not a good idea. "Growing together" doesn't really mean anything - even if you spend every waking moment together you still grow so different that you just become incompatible people. I'm glad I left bc otherwise I'd never have met people who I was much more compatible with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 June 2020)If that's what hypnosis is then society lies to us all in some way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do women do not communicate clearly about their feelings and keep multiple options at the same time and later friendzone the less desired partner?You ever seen one of those incidents where a woman straight up tells a man that she isn't interested/likes someone else and the next time she's seen again it's in multiple pieces out in a field somewhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/20 07:43 AM |
| 39 | Are there really no more men around or have men just gone in a mini monk mode during quarantine?It might be bc we are in the middle of one of the most widespread pandemics in recorded history so people's priorities do not lie with fucking It doesn't really have much to do with any mode other than people staying at home and being safe and healthy and following the guidelines we've been given | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 07:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areSo then you do admit that most men only have long term attachments to women for the sake of being able to have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 02:54 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areHamstering is justifying bad decisions or bad expectations. How is this that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Men: do you empathize with women’s issues?Not gonna really make any point but I feel you should know historians pretty much universally agree Marie never said that and the statement was made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?.... Are you saying anal porn and porn featuring slapping/choking is uncommon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 09:24 AM |
| 6 | Should men be focusing solely on their own pleasure during sex (like TRP suggests), or should they focus on the woman's pleasure?That last part is a terrible analogy. Orgasm would be more like taking the first bites of food after spending time making it. Also it's been proven over and over that vibrators don't long-term desensitize the clitoris, only temporarily a few minutes after use. You should care bc no woman wants to fuck you if you come off as entitled and lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Aaaaand that doesn't change the fact that the videos themselves are insanely underpaid and that the issue of actresses being insanely underpaid is a very common problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Again, many other actresses have come out about the same issue of being greatly underpaid. She's just an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Psychologically speaking, exclusionary pedophiles are more likely to have their issues either rooted in some form of trauma, or to be more "innate" in that they cannot pinpoint the origin of these issues, suggesting it may be something they are unfortunately born with proneness to. Usually the strategy here is separation from children, and trauma therapy if possible - unfortunately, there is not much else that can be done. With inclusionary ones, there is usually a common link between porn addic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Yeah that's great and I get that but again, it doesn't change the fact that it has motivated some extremists (not just speculation, Ted Bundy himself literally said porn was the origin or his urges) and, as I said below in another comment, the industry is rampant with rape. And again, it normalizes violence against women to the point that it's very common for guys to pressure women into things they don't want, or assume things they want. For example I read an article recently on how girls were t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Inclusionary and exclusionary pedophiles are terms used, in the field of psychology, to distinguish between these types. It is an important distinction when dealing with pedophiles in the psychiatry field as they usually have different stems and therapy strategies to work with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 09:06 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?No? I haven't really put a lot of thought into the ethics of sex with suddenly fully intelligent animals. Maybe ask the furry community. I wouldn't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Maybe bc the overwhelming majority of actual rape of small children is almost exclusively male? That's less of an assumption and more an acknowledgement of truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 07:39 AM |
| 9 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Some other porn stars have come out as well about the issue. Ironically that may be why women turn to things like patreon or onlyfans; they make far more money that way without the risk of being raped on set, blackmailed, etc. The professional porn industry is dying, thankfully. Unfortunately, no. These things have largely been from "professional" producers in the industry, and lawsuits have been filed for some of it but the rape videos remain largely circulated. Obviously yes it does occur freq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 07:28 AM |
| 5 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Women in porn are not paid nearly as much as you think they are. Mia Khalifa talked about this subject once - porn actresses are insanely underpaid. She, one of the most well known women in the industry, made $12,000 across her whole career. That's it. There have been many cases of women being physically forced into acts they did not sign up for, and being told that if they didn't sign off as consensual then they don't get anything and basically just got violated for nothing. Or of porn being re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Do you consider mildly religious to be crazy? I knew a few like this. They were usually "wait until marriage" men as well. None of them were like off the deep end in religiousness, very mild actually. A lot of older men as well from a different generation where it was less acceptable, also usually religiously influenced And then I've also seen some who quit or migrate to things like paid porn from solo girl producers for ethical reasons. And finally men who avoid porn bc they use their imaginati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?Porn often is rape as we see from the lawsuits and rape scandals in the industry. It doesn't always. Ted Bundy being a prime example. And iirc offenders were more likely to reoffend if they watched porn. Porn also leads to a lot of young boys pressuring girls into things they don't want to do - not rape, but it's bad. Also the fact that that's how you perceive the difference is kinda telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Usually, people argue that the victim of necrophilia is the family of the deceased, not the actual dead person, namely for emotional damages, but also potential destruction of property that is sometimes involved. I guess you could argue the dead person's will or memory is being tainted but that's kinda hard to prove in court. Idrc about fetuses or abortion, it's not really a topic that has any significance to me so I don't have any real opinions. I'm not 100% sure as to the commonality of forced… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 05:31 AM |
| 3 | What makes some women lose attraction to their hubbies?The only ones I can think of would be, chemical issues/ppd, the husband let himself go a lot while she remained fit, he started being cruel or mean to her, or sex issues came up. Aside from ppd these are also all reasons men leave or cheat on their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 11:39 PM |
| 8 | What makes some women lose attraction to their hubbies?Like many men claim women do, sometimes men will become very different people post-marriage, personality wise. They wait until they have "trapped" someone to let the cruel part of them show. Otherwise, it may be physical, like the men "lets himself go" but she does not. Or sometimes it just happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Are young men getting brainwashed into thinking that being nice will make them attractive?9/10 "I tried being a nice guy and it didn't work they're all attracted to the asshole Chad" guys were never actually nice guys. If you're nice because you want to get laid, women see through that. They know you're not actually nice. It's very easy to tell the difference between "I'm being nice bc I want spare coochie" vs "I'm a genuinely decent human being that will be kind regardless of personal benefit." Yes, you have been lied to to an extent. You've been told that you can fake kindness and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | When men are bad, people ignore them or are compassionate, but when women are bad they are *evil*.I've noticed this a lot too. Women tend to get no excuses for their behavior. Men are treated with a lot more forgiveness or compassion. I think it's a lot to do with the whole "natural urges" idea. The attitude I see when men fuck up is "he can't help it, well he's a guy so they have needs, you know how it is..." But women are not treated this way. I have noticed this in general sentiment too. Sometimes men are met with more frustration but everything women do is met by men with this bizarre ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Do other womens' opinions of a man you are interested in matter?Most women I know have similar tastes to me. Usually with women, we look out for behavior. Most of my friends don't really acknowledge how a guy looks, they just ask you things like "he's not mean to you right? He hasn't hurt you or anything has he? Is he that nice behind closed doors?" Etc. If they don't like him as a person, or have a bad feeling about him, that matters to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?That's great and all but I've specifically said in this thread I don't care about rough sex type of people and that that's not really the topic of debate here, do whatever dumb violent shit you want, it's not really bothersome That being said prude = manly? Women who don't want specifically you to fuck them should be permanently celibate...? What does that even mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yeah, I've answered that a couple of times on this thread and I don't wanna just keep spewing the same text dump, but basically they're in different categories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:01 AM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I have heard this is true for necrophilia, but I wouldn't say that for pedophilia because many pedophiles are what we call exclusionary pedophiles. Inclusionary pedophiles are pedophiles who are attracted to both children and adults. They usually will never act on their urges and may bury them, as it's easier since they are also attracted to adults. Exclusionary pedophiles are not attracted to adults and only to children. I would argue that's not out of desperation - I would say it's more along … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?This is a really interesting idea, I can definitely see this being a true explanation. That being said I don't think a lot of women would really go for dogs even in desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I feel like this could be partially explained by our social conditioning - many women are taught to see our own bodies as impure or wrong to look at when we are young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 04:04 AM |
| 4 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yes rape play falls into abnormal psychology. "Normal" versus "abnormal" psychology is, the study of psychology that naturally occurs in human beings based on physical circumstances (ie your sex) versus abnormal psychology, which is things that deviate from that. It is largely based on evolutionary traits. Women desiring rough sex/domination is normal psychology, as is men desiring to dominate. Men's desire to have sex with many women, is part of normal psychology. Women's hypergamy, is normal p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 04:01 AM |
| 7 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Are you saying that men get turned on by vomit bc women fuck Chad and not them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?If you look at anything regarding fetishes like emeto, vore, scat, etc, it's obvious that the videos are overwhelmingly aimed at and viewed by men. Even just from the things I've been linked to as pranks or come across from unfortunate risky clicks, it's just blatantly obvious that this content is exclusively male-viewed. As for charges for pedophilia, charges for actual pedophilia (around ages 3-10) is almost exclusively male. Statutory rape from women usually has the victim in their late teens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 03:21 AM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yup. I've established over and over in this thread - I'm looking to discuss abnormal psychology fetishes and kinks, which the largely female kinks do not fall into. They are considered normal psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I've said this over and over again in this thread: the important issue here is psychology. You are referring to "rough sex" - this falls into the pattern of "normal psychology" for women. Things like, scat, vore, emetophilia, necrophilia, and pedophilia, fall into the category of "abnormal psychology." Rape play, in certain circumstances, does fall into abnormal psychology. In almost all of these cases, the abnormal psychology is that the woman is a past rape victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I've said on this thread a couple times now - women's desire for what we call "rough sex" does not fall into the grounds of abnormal psychology in the way these fetishes do. Here I am looking to discuss abnormal psychology related kinks. And as you said, women's porn searches are highly unreliable sources because few women are actively searching for porn, and of those that do the vast majority don't use sites like pornhub. Women's porn searches reflect only the most extreme of women - it would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 02:55 AM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?How many scat, prolapse, vore, and vomit fetish videos are aimed at women, exactly? Look at comment sections on things like that, look at the stats of who's watching - it's pretty much all male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Aren't women fairly picky in bed as well? I know I am... I wouldn't let a dog fuck me or do scat play even if you paid me a fortune. A lot of women are "too vanilla" for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Then why do so many people develop fetishes in their formative years, when usually none of them are sexually active? Fetishes often stem from or are in some way discovered in prepubescent years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I didn't really think I was limping them together. I'm saying that, all of these fetishes are rare or semi-rare and are considered, but the majority of people, to be "bizarre", if not "wrong" for the ones like beastiality or pedophilia. I'm not particularly interested in what the BDSM people do. A lot of men with fetishes for scat or vomit or prolapses or vore aren't necessarily into BDSM. These fetishes aren't really wrong, they're just abnormal, hence my curiosity as to why men are so much mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 4 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Some This is the key word. Again this whole discussion is about probability. These cases exist and they are terrible - but they are extremely uncommon. Gangbangs and wanted to be degraded is kinda sorta very very different from wanting to fuck animals, dead corpses, and infants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yes, my point is that "victimizing fetishes" would be those that create a victim, a victim is an unwilling person forced into an act, or having an act done against them they did not want. If a woman asks to be choked or spanked, this is not victimizing, as it would deny the inherent meaning of being a victim. Women are usually wanting to be on the receiving end of these kinks. Idk what that second part means, but if you mean discourse on beastiality, I guess it doesn't create a human victim, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?From what I understand, while this is partially true, there are still more males with it based on actual psychological testing from random samples. It's like, on our surface perception from diagnosis it would be like 80-20, but taking into account tests it's more like 70-30, so while there are more women than we realize it's still male. I'm just throwing those numbers as an example, I don't know what the actual ones are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 12:15 AM |
| 5 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?It's a fetish in which a character eats another character. Like, not gore and blood, but like whole, and the character is depicted as still alive in the stomach. Usually a lot of x Ray and stuff. I've seen too much on yiffinhell, bc for some reason it is extremely popular in the furry community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:32 PM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yeah, I don't see scat or similar things as like, morally bad, just gross. The issue with women and fetishes for rough sex/degredation is that it does fall into the realm of "normal psychology," whereas the fetishes listed here are "abnormal psychology." Women having rapeplay fetishes does classify as abnormal psychology, and this is usually explained by the large overlap of rape victims and women having this kink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?There are many vanilla men in the world. This is not at all saying, "the majority of men have weird fetishes," it's saying "men are way more likely than women to have these specific weird fetishes." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Well, with pedophilia, necrophilia, cannibalism, and true rape fetishes, the link is fairly obvious. Fetishes such as scat, vomit, beastiality, etc, are more of an indirect link. It's not that they cause it, rather, these fetishes are abnormal psychology, and the individuals with them tend to possess other frames of abnormal psychology. Basically, all these fetishes, the ones directly linked to crime or not, usually indicate a mental illness of some form, and the mentally ill are more likely to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:13 PM |
| 8 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?How is it an excuse? It's still statutory rape and they need to go to prison for statutory rape. It just does not fall into the same circle of abnormal psychology that pedophilia does, and the topic here is fetishes falling into the category of abnormal psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:04 PM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yes, I've mentioned in this thread a few times now, females having sexual kinks for male dominance or rough sex falls into the realm of what we call normal psychology, whereas these fall into abnormal psychology. The exception is women with rape kinks, which is abnormal psychology, but this is usually very easily explained as a vast portion of them are previous victims of actual rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:02 PM |
| 5 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?None of the female-dominated ones are really victimizing in any way. The only one I can think of would be the rapeplay or cutting/choking ones, which, even then, the females desire to be the ones on the receiving end. And this is usually a very common kink in actual rape victims. Whereas necrophilia, pedophilia, beastiality, these all are crimes that create a victim. Lesbianism has always been seen as bad by society at large. I assume you're referring to how lesbianism has not always been as har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:00 PM |
| 0 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I know, I've said this in this thread a few times now but, BDSM kinks are very different material and are not suitable for this discussion. Women being masochistic, or desiring extreme dominance, except in extreme cases, falls into the realm of what we call "normal psychology," in the same way it does for men to be sadistic and desire submission in women. However, several of these fetishes fall into "abnormal psychology" and are linked to increased likelihood of committing sexual crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I can recognize that things like scat or vomit fetishes aren't wrong, but a lot of psychologists consider them concerning- apparently it is a sign of some deep rooted issues, and it is unfortunate as it can create an individual who is very embarrassed of their sexuality and cannot find partners. Obviously though, fetishes like pedophilia, necrophilia or (actual) rape are very wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?It's a matter of likeliness. There are plenty of very vanilla men. It's just that men are way more likely to have these fetishes than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 10:28 PM |
| 9 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?It's not relevant to this discussion, no, because it is not generally considered to be "as bad as" rape of very small children, nor is it deviant from normal psychology. And yes, this is true. This is why you'll see so many cases of men who don't realize a girl is only 16-17. Why? Because it is normal to be attracted to someone who has reached physical adulthood. Statutory rape is wrong because they are not yet fully matured mentally and emotionally. It is difficult to draw a solid line - there'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?The issue in discussing imprisonment for statutory rape is that people ignore the age differences. I mentioned this to some others, but, in women's cases it is usually ephebophilia, which is around ages 16-17. True pedophiles- usually ages 3-10ish, are almost exclusively male. And yes, I would consider statutory rape of a 17 year old, less offensive than that of a 3 year old. As would most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:41 PM |
| 6 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?What I said is, women are more likely to be ephebophiles. Which is not what I'm discussing in my op. I'm discussing pedophiles, which are almost exclusively male. Female rapists should be punished. But that is irrelevant to this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I'm not getting what you mean, can you explain more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Yeah, I can get that they do indirectly stem from things women do find attractive. The link is just so distant and weak that it's not like it's women's fault that men have these fetishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 10 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Are you saying that a very large portion of the female population, is sexually attracted to dogs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?It's not that those things contribute, it's a side effect. The order is like, Men need to spread seed --> men develop more sexual adaptation capabilities and variance of sexuality --> men are more varied in their sexuality, but as a side effect this opens a gate for weirder fetishes without true reproductive purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 15 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Pedophilia is the attraction to prepubescent children. Usually this is described as being ages 3-10/11. This is almost exclusively male, as is hebephilia. Women's is better described as ephebophilia(late-stage minors, usually 15-18), which is why I did not include ephebophilia in the OP, as it is one that I do not consider to be a relevant aspect of the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Ah, ok, yeah I can get that. I just don't really see how it's relevant to men being more likely to be necrophiles/pedophiles, I can understand that in cases of like scat or vomit porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 6 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?It's not. Both are. What I'm pointing out is. The thing I mention in the OP is pedophilia. Men are almost exclusively the true pedophiles and infantophiles in the sense of very small children. We should not excuse women having sex with minors, it's just not the topic of discussion here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Ah, I thought you were retorting by saying women's fetishes also don't I agree in the sense that, I think bc men were designed this way, in that their brains are more likely to seek lots of outlets due to a strong drive. The ability to accept variance is natural | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Wym? Me or women in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 13 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I don't care about porn like rapeplay or cnc. That has nothing to do with this discussion. What I'm talking about is the classification of fetishes usually considered "bizarre" such as scat, pedophilia, and necrophilia. Even the linked study I posted openly admits rapeplay is popular with women. You're not telling me anything I didn't already see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 4 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?But what your original comment implies is, "well, the women who are into these things are louder and more aggressive... Therefore, the claim that these fetishes are mostly male is wrong." That does not follow in any way. Think of importance however you want. My statement is that the fetishes are largely male dominated, I don't care how important you see those women as. What you're saying in your initial comment is the equivalent of, "a minority of men are rapists. Therefore all men are rapists." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:57 PM |
| 13 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Women's cases of sex with minors are usually later teens with their teachers. Cases of sex with actual prepubescent children or infants is almost exclusively male. Zoophilia does occur, but again, largely a thing with porn and not women who are genuinely into it. Unfortunately beastiality is legal in many places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I actually have considered this to be a possible explanation. In my research one of the studies specifically studied autism and found that autistic individuals in both sexes were more likely to have fetishes. I can post that as well later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?Inherent is the best word I can think of. To elaborate what I mean by inherent is, not that they naturally have these kinks, but that it is natural that boys have very different sexual responses than girls, which is the same thing you've said. I agree that more women are into cnc/rapeplay, but I and most people don't really view that as being nearly as extreme as the things listed, like pedophilia or scat. Cnc is fairly different from those. The issue of participation here, is that participation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?That doesn't make sense. There is nothing about that that makes the general population think that pedophilia is wrong or that scat is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:33 PM |
| 5 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?That makes zero sense. Again, the minority of men are rapists. So they get to speak for all men? The minority of men are into feet. Do we get to say all men are foot fetishists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:32 PM |
| 9 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?You're talking about things like rough sex. I'm talking about, scat, vore, pedophilia, beastiality. The existence of Whitney Wisconsin does not change the fact that dog-on-female is overwhelmingly male. Even then... A minority... Speaks louder than a majority? You realize that that makes literally no logical sense? If a minority of people who are just more aggressive speak louder, we can say all men are rapists, right? Good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 15 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I know, I said "widely seen as" Deviant is definable. Deviant is different from the norm or majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 7 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?There are certainly a very few but the overwhelming majority are male. I'm posting at least one link now and will add more later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?That's actually a really interesting evaluation, that makes a lot of sense. This feels like the best explanation to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:09 PM |
| 0 | It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else?I can't embed links atm but I can get to that in a while, I didn't want to dump a bunch of long links | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:04 PM |
| 6 | If you could give 5 sex tips, what would they be?On a female-to-female tip: 1) there will be two types: the ones that like it when you smile and seem enthusiastic and the ones that want you to cry and seem hurt. Figure out which one a man is, there's usually clues in who they are. 2) controversial advice but - don't be afraid to fake orgasms. If you have something person against it, that's fine, but if you do fake it from foreplay or something, the guy will loosen up, he'll be less nervous bc he feels reassured and even more enthusiastic which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually want or need sex, or is it purely a manipulation tool to get stuff from men?Yeah but usually when women say that they mean, oral or fingering or something. Dicks have to be like the perfect compatible size for a girl for that itself to feel good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What’s the most jealous you’ve ever been?Yeah I mean it's unhealthy but you can never fully predict what people will do. You hear stories of people who have been in happy marriages for years and one day they wake up and it's a sudden out of the blue 180 and their partner leaves them or something. You can be just as close as a normal couple but the idea is to keep in the back of your mind that it is always possible they will be gone and you need to be prepared for that so that when it happens you don't feel anything. I'm not really a je… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Do women actually want or need sex, or is it purely a manipulation tool to get stuff from men?You would be surprised by the sheer number of men who refuse to/don't know how to do very basic tasks or were raised in an environment where they believe they shouldn't have to and that women should do everything for them. I think it's a cultural thing but I know like in my area I have seen adult men who don't know how to use washing machines, dishwashers, even a vacuum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: What’s the most jealous you’ve ever been?You don't get jealous if you keep enough emotional distance to never get 100% close to someone. The best strategy in life is to in your mind act as though a partner like you could wake up tomorrow and they'll be gone. But simultaneously do not show this outwardly, or they will begin to realize it and most likely be upset over it. Basically just remain emotionally detached. As for my partners, I had one that was insanely jealous over pretty much every friend I'd ever had. As for myself, I had a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want or need sex, or is it purely a manipulation tool to get stuff from men?Do you count purely malicious intent to do harm, or do you also count "hey if you do the dishes I'll suck your dick" sort of thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 04:01 PM |
| 19 | Do women actually want or need sex, or is it purely a manipulation tool to get stuff from men?Some women may use it for manipulation. It is easy to have men do things for the sake of sex. The reason for many women not being into it or going long times without is that with women, masturbation is usually preferable to sex, whereas men seem to prefer sex. To be very frank, sex with a dick is often not particularly fun and doesn't feel very good, it's very slight pleasure and not a whole lot unless you hit very specific spots. Therefore, women don't need sex as much, because sex for many wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 08:39 AM |
| 7 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?I guess really, nothing. It just comes across to many women as disrespectful and saddening - the feeling that someone can't be friends with you without having these thoughts, that they don't truly like you as a person because they subconsciously want to fuck you, these are very degrading feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsYes I would argue it is deceit under good intentions. The intention, the goal, is to make someone else happy, at the expense of your own, because you have that strong of an affection for that person. He also would not like it if you just lay there silently with a flat expression and make zero noise, say nothing, and not pretend to cum. I'd argue he would like that even less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 29 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?If you're even remotely attractive, a ton of men in your life will want to fuck you or have at least a passing thought of it. Your platonic friends. Your coworkers. Your classmates If you're a teacher, your students. If you're in charge of anyone, those subordinates. Your boss. Your married neighbor. Sometimes even your family. That, and the overwhelming majority men never really commit to a woman. One of the saddest things I've seen is that apparently in the medical field, they emphasize that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsManipulation is deceit for the purpose of selfish gain. I gain nothing here. Some women do not enjoy sex under any circumstances, but can take emotional happiness knowing they are making someone else feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsYou realize like a really big portion of the female population does this yeah? We do it to make others happy because we prioritize the man's happiness first and foremost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsBut how is it manipulative to put in effort to please someone else? I'm going out of my way to make someone else happy because I want them to be happy at the expense of my own enjoyment. And that's bad? How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsHow is that manipulative? I have to give 100000% effort at all times. How is that not exhausting? What do I get out of doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsBc it involves a lot more effort than most guys realize. You put in a LOT of work into making the right noises, the right facial expressions, the right movements, word choice, every little second has to be a constant and well-thought performance. With handjobs you usually have to say certain words, make a certain face - it just feels wrong to put it on so fake. And with certain guys blowjobs can be super painful. Sex is an exhausting act for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:42 AM |
| 5 | In your experience, what type of women have the most casual sex? And why do you think they do it?In college it was usually friends into the "party" scene in general. The girls I knew who tended to sleep around more were also girls who drank a lot, got bad grades, missed classes. A lot of people from whom you get the vibe that they don't care too much. But this was the same for guys too. In my experience, they were likely to have had parents who did the same thing, whereas people who didn't sleep around had more conservative families. It's honestly a very small amount of women. In all my fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?That's great, yes visual stimulation is not always a requirement but the same research has shown that even when there is not visual stimuli present, they actually do picture it in their minds. Even tests have been done on blind men that shows that they perceive "shape" of the body and features in a way blind women do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?It's not a matter of psychological, emotional blocks. The human brain just not does work like that, not when you get down to stimuli levels. For kinks, maybe. But looking at the naked human form, no. Stimuli response is one of the very primal and instinctive areas of human psychology and is well known for being virtually unable to be influenced. Extremely rare cases exist in the same sense as some Buddhist monks have been able to make themselves tolerate the pain of burning to death, but that re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?There have literally been scientific studies that show that women have a far more decreased response to visual stimuli and that women do not require nearly the same amount of visual stimuli, if any at all, that men do to achieve orgasm. This is not an opinion issue, this is a fact issue. And the fact is that women are not and will never be nearly as visually aroused as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?It's not at all pathetic for a man to be emotional. I highly encourage it. Express how you feel, don't be afraid to cry, don't be afraid to seek help when you need it. Emotions are human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?If a guy is physically unattractive yeah it's not gonna magically change him. The OP is asking about "high value", which I'm guessing trp and fds define differently. In fds high value isn't about looks it's about behavior. Idk about trp but it's sounding like for them "high value" is just "attractive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?The US, just a very poor, rural, hyper conservative, extremely religious area of it, grew up in one of those borderline cultish religion communities. Ok, I can accept and acknowledge that. That's really unfortunate and I wish men were allowed to open up more by those women. Bottled up emotions just leads to random explosions of it and that benefits no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?Yeah, it might be a cultural thing. Where I am, pretty much all women still learn how to cook from their moms and grandmothers like I did, it's just expected, and men almost never make food. But w/e It's very normal for women to listen to their husband complain about his day at work, is it not? And it always has been. That's not new. Most men's definition of being a "stabilizing force/rock" is being an emotionless sociopath who thinks it's unmanly to cry around me and refuses to show weakness. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:28 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?Rephrase, women are much less visual than men even if still visual. They are much more attracted to "concepts." Much of women's sexuality is very much mental, hence why "mood" is so important to them wanting sex and why the wrong headspace can prevent orgasm entirely. Men are more visual. Every research ever done on this has shown that men have a far more intense sexual response to visual stimuli. It's also why so many men prefer porn whereas women often like erotica or their own imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:16 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: Do you feel better about being a woman now that you know no matter how low you are, you're still better than a man who's at your level?Usually a lot of the "value" assigned to "HVM" that distinguishes them from "LVM" is their willingness to do what is the baseline for women. You don't have as many "LVW" (if we're talking about like the fds definition of value) because women are taught from day one they need to have good hygiene, wear nice clothes, take care of themselves, keep a clean environment, know how to make food, always be ready to lend an ear or shoulder to cry on for men, be a pleaser, etc. These things, considered val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violenceI know you realize how ridiculous that is. Is it really that bad for me to wish I was in a safe world? I don't want a world away from men. I just want a world where I don't have to worry about them hurting me. I used to be naive and trusting and men have ruined that for me. Is it so awful for me to be afraid of them? How is me being scared of you going to hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violenceBecause that's incredibly unrealistic and not possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violence"While it is rare, men do kill women for rejecting them and we should be aware that this is a possibility and exercise some caution and it's not wrong for a girl to be very soft in her approach to rejection to ensure she does not risk becoming a victim of murder or the much more common cases of rape or physical assault." "So you think every man is going to kill a woman when rejected?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violenceNo, that's overexaggeration of what I said. No one assumes all men will kill or rape. I said we should be cautious and remember the possibility. We should absolutely be cautious and remember the possibility of women killing children, especially infants. Postpartum depression is very real and very dangerous. Much like crazy men, there are specific red flags for women who are going to murder children - usually after it happens, close relatives and especially the fathers of the children admit that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 05:42 PM |
| 3 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violenceYes, the number is small. Again, that changes nothing. The chances of being killed by corona are fairly low for healthy adults but look how we're reacting. What matters is that the possibility is real and much like other things we have to take every precaution you can. What you're saying is the equivalent of, "oh, the chances are low so I'm going to ignore everything and go outside and talk to a bunch of people." And again it changes nothing that other things can happen. Sure they don't die - bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:37 PM |
| 10 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violenceAnd only men would ever try to tell women they're ridiculous for worrying about a very real possibility. Many women think the same way you think they should, and then it happens to them and if they live through it they wish they had been more cautious. If you say it's paranoid to generalize men - it's unfair to generalize fearful women. Many women fear these things because they've already been victimized once, and many many women know someone who has been victimized in this way. Being dismissive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 09:08 AM |
| 4 | The real reason why women evolved to be "deceitful" is male violenceAre you actually taking a post acknowledging that women are victimized for not being nice enough and you're still managing to turn that around and make it about how terrible women are? Women are literally murdered for rejecting men - even if they do it nicely. Even if they're not killed they risk being attacked, blackmailed, threatened... It happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?From time to time, more out of "extremely sexually explicit pretty boy x female content that's mdom is hard to come by" than "I like this better". I would always take the hetero content over it if it were available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?As far as I understand it's like, she throws herself at the first piece of meat available, which at cons tends to be less attractive men but if an attractive guy happens to be that first one she'd consider it a bonus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?No, I never questioned that women, on average, desire the more "Chad" type, but I think there is a significant portion who don't, probably more than most rpers realize. My OP was asking whether or not they believe that they truly exist or not, since most people have told me something to the effect of "you don't really like these type of guys, you're pretending to like them to get a bunch of attention from them." As well as, why do you think these women come to exist and do you think of them with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I think it's more because like, "nerdy" boys tend to be very socially awkward - they don't understand social norms, and don't understand "no" as well, especially when you're trying to be nice about it. I think they have less fear of consequences, or maybe feel like they have less to lose, or think they won't get another chance since it is true that women usually go for the other type. Or alternatively, can be super manipulative using their sweetness/fragility to their benefit. In my experience i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I think every woman at some point will have a non consensual sexual experience, not necessarily like actual rape. I've had these experiences both from the types of men I seek out as well as those I avoid. I think that's just one of those male nature things that you can't really escape no matter how masculine or feminine a man is. Given that I date my type though I would say I've had more of these experiences, and more severe ones, with the types of men that I seek out rather than the type I don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I'm 22! And no I'm not into Kpop, I do find Eastern Asian men attractive but I don't have some fetish for Koreans or any other Asian group. And yeah I do know yaoi exists, but I meant like, heterosexual where the femboy/trap is dominating the girl, I was just kind of excluding yaoi by default. I've had to resort to yaoi just to find something remotely appealing before lol. Thank you though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I've... Never fucked a "Chad" actually 😅 who you've been fucking? Not very experienced tbh. My tastes are little difficult to find. My only LTRs were a guy I met at an anime club, and another I met in my language club I was one of those guys No, unfortunately being bitter is a disqualifier from my type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?Yes! And r/gentlefemdom! I'm very active on both those subs on my alt accounts 😊 I think I probably should not have mentioned femdom at all in my post as that's not really my biggest point - I'm a switch, I just like femdom. My question is about that my preferences for both remain the same - even when I am more submissive my taste is still for "pretty boys" or feminine boys or even traps, basically short small guys with feminine features and high voices, no body hair etc. Lemme tell you... Trap/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I would not describe myself as a bisexual. There have been times I could enjoy like, yuri hentai, but I don't enjoy live action lesbian porn and am not attracted to any woman I know. Heteroflexible at best and that's a stretch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I'm not a bisexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?Sorry I probably got into that part too much, I am more of a switch anyway. What I mean is more about the physical preferences, I've always heard the ideal man according to rp as like, masculine, muscly, tall, but I have never found these things to be attractive, I've always liked femboys/small boys who are nerdy and shy, which they describe as "beta". But I've always heard the RP describe it as like, something evolutionarily programmed in women's brains to like the tall/muscly asshole type, so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?Haha go to a bunch of anime cons, she preys there lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?Thank you! In the rare cases of women doing that - does that indicate anything unusual about them? Like an attractive woman who sleeps with a guy far beneath her just because he's an available piece of meat and she's horny? I have an attractive friend who intentionally seeks out fat/unattractive men because she says it's "easy" to get ONS with them, is that unusual or is that normal for rp thought? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?Thank you for the insight, I understand what you mean! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I was more referring to, men here will always say that "no women want men who are short or feminine", and have told me I'm lying, when I said I prefer short/scrawny men, less focused on the hypergamy part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Redpill men, what do you make of women who are dominant or have "weird" preferences? How do they fit into RP ideology/your beliefs on women?I've been told on here, women are "repulsed by" feminine, submissive men, trp encourages men to be all manly and dominant bc "that's what women want" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?Try dating in really religious communities, if possible. Women and men alike there are super repulsed by non-virgins haha, I'm in a very religious sect and girls will turn down dating men for not being virgins fairly frequently, and they themselves are virgins too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?It's fine, I'm 22. I'm not super experienced, I definitely don't fall into "high n count" but what I have had is that more "experienced" men have zero emotional significance. Even in LTRs. I'm not gonna be like RP men are with women and say there's some kind of psyche ability that they've worn out, but I think there's an issue with the culture of sex. Also each experienced man has this "formula" that to him is supposed to work on women, if it doesn't, they're upset (see some of my past posts :/)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?There's actually a ton of women into it! I am in no way unique | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 3 | The Orgasm intensity gapHonestly I'd respect a man far more who can unashamedly tell me what he wants without being too insecure over appearing "gay." I'm a switch so usually yeah it goes back and forth. Like one day the man will be more dominant, the next day I am, and so on. Some women are full into femdom and are the dominant partner 24/7, but I'm not one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 09:03 AM |
| -1 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?Well, I wouldn't really call femdom a fetish unless you're getting into really weird shit like whips and catsuits and shit which is like, the far end. Things like r/gentlefemdom and r/RoleReversal exist too. A lot of women are out there who aren't into high fetish territory, but they still would love boys with less experience because it's cute! I've been in situations where I'm still the "sub" but gently guiding a virgin/non experienced boy too! Seeing the look on a boys face or hearing his moan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 08:14 AM |
| -2 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?Even on my vanilla side there is nothing more of a turn off than knowing a guy has had his dick in a ton of other women. Usually it means you mean nothing to him, and nothing about you is good or special - you're just an object. Would you not also admit that the idea of a girl having had 15+ dicks in her also kinda a turnoff? It makes you feel undervalued. That being said. You should look into femdom! Inexperienced boys are very much liked if not preferred. They're much more fun to play with~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 07:31 AM |
| 2 | The Orgasm intensity gapAll I'm getting out of this is that we need to normalize pegging But for real, the orgasm intensity has no relation to frequency so they're separate issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:26 AM |
| 3 | The Orgasm intensity gapUm, I would pay my life savings for a man to want me to peg him... Do you have any idea how many men get freaked out when a girl even mentions it? And I assure you based on my experiences, it does seem to feel amazing for them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:24 AM |
| -1 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?Why would I or any woman have disgust for "low n count" men? That's a trait I actively seek out... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Women--I am making a cheat sheet for girls who want to date high quality guys--can you think of any additions?But why go to the effort of making such a high effort troll post, I'm genuinely curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Women--I am making a cheat sheet for girls who want to date high quality guys--can you think of any additions?This is really high effort for a troll post Why do you not put this much effort into being likeable people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] We see lots of TRP responses, but not a lot of BP ones. What is considered a BP sexual strategy?That defeats the purpose - if you have no reason to space it out so much, they're going to realize it fast and dump you. That's literally the point, commitment, which is a lot more than that. You can't do that to women "like these" bc I'm not gonna fuck or date anyone who I don't see several times a week. If you try this they're just gonna ghost you bc you're not providing the bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 01:36 AM |
| 4 | [Q4BP] We see lots of TRP responses, but not a lot of BP ones. What is considered a BP sexual strategy?That's great, that happens. A lot of women have ONSs obviously. A lot of them are seeking validation, money, or are very naive and think it will make you care for them. That's the biggest thing really. I know a ton of girls who are so bewildered that he never texts them after their ONS bc they don't realize that a guy fucking them doesn't make him care about them. It's a mentality difference. Women usually have this experience and learn from it or are taught by other women to watch out for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 6 | [Q4BP] We see lots of TRP responses, but not a lot of BP ones. What is considered a BP sexual strategy?I'm a woman and I'm telling you that I would never fuck anyone who I haven't dated at least several months to ensure commitment and that they actually like me and aren't just trying to use me. The "Chad" frat boy mentality is gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 4 | [Q4BP] We see lots of TRP responses, but not a lot of BP ones. What is considered a BP sexual strategy?The number one thing that is not only besides those but infinitely more important. Emotional connection. Care about her. Mentally healthy women do not want to fuck someone who doesn't care for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How important is it for you that your partner thinks highly of your sexual performance?Extremely important, have faked many an orgasm. Sex is usually a performance for me. Never have cum during sex, never will, so if he didn't either, things would get really awkward lol. Would very much prefer sex where he cums - if he's happy, I can rest easy, regardless of whether or not I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 07:43 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you really want 100% equality? Do you really believe in 100% equality? Details please?No, solely because equality and fairness is different. Treating people equally is unfair. Ex sports: we have different divisions bc on most sports women simply cannot compete. On fields where nature is equal let treatment be equal but otherwise make it according to what the natural laws dictate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel sorry or sympathetic for the average male in any way?I do. I have a lot of sympathy/empathy for everyone and all their hardships, yes even the incels who just desperately want pussy. But I understand why a lot of girls don't, and I don't think women should be required to have that empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 04:02 AM |
| 7 | Utterly shocked how very little women know about TRP.Yeah, the red pill communities here are like that, though. For example on one sub, I remember a while back there was a guy asking about how to convince a mentally ill girl with rape trauma to fuck him... And they all gave him advice to convince her he would be there for her and heal her, etc, but then told him to ditch her the next day. That level of cruelty doesn't usually come out of anything but hatred. You have to have been gradually deconditioned to hate someone and see them as subhuman in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 7 | Utterly shocked how very little women know about TRP.I think the hatred for them comes more from the language and the conclusions that can be drawn from it. I'm subbed to the redpillwomen sub, asktrp, and the red pill sub, a lot of times with the latter two, you see men addressing all women as "sluts" and similar language like AWALT which even radfem subs have no equivalent of, or giving advice on how to emotionally manipulate women who haven't done anything wrong to them, which upsets me in particular. If you want to go your own way do so. But th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 12:50 AM |
| 9 | Utterly shocked how very little women know about TRP.For a group of people that are so happy with themselves, they sure seem to spend a whole lot of time doing nothing but talking about how terrible women are and how miserable women make them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How should a man approach a hot and cold female partner? Blue Pill vs Red PillSlightly unconventional advice but as someone who's been called hot and cold before and never meant to be, please never treat it like a game and be open and honest It may be worth having an honest conversation, once comfortable with them, asking if they have some kind of issue. I have both bipolar as well as BPD and lethargy issues. Sometimes I hurt partners and snap at them without meaning to, and I'm so kinda out of it I don't realize I did it. Other times my reason for being "cold" is that I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do people(YOU) ghosts?Personally I don't like ghosting people as I believe they deserve an explanation if you're just not interested. I've only ever done it when I had serious concerns. For example, had a guy who thought it would be really funny to try and do all of the things I listed as hard limits as a joke, got upset when he hurt me so bad I cried. Never talked to him again. Second guy made comments about how he could "kinda understand serial killers that get off when they kill women, like I feel like the look of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What is it that shocks you the most about TRP and male nature?Probably with both it's the inclination for violence and anger, as well as disregard for others. I grew up in a very sheltered environment in which boys and girls both were held to extremely rigid standards of behavior. I never witnessed "roughhousing" in boys as a kid, which I guess is just proof that that urge can be repressed? After getting out into the real world I was shocked by how quick a lot of men are to anger and violence. Especially with TRP and wishing death and rape on women and bea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | What are your views on 'breadcrumbing'?Im pretty sure that's called being a sociopath 100% conscious, RP men tend to be a bit sociopathic so yes, not personally but witnessed it and the guy literally was diagnosed with ASPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | How do women feel about men who struggle with mental illness?It depends almost entirely on how they address it Are they aware, and acknowledge they have a problem? Do they seek help, medicine, therapy, or whatever is necessary to improve? Do they apologize when their illness causes others to be hurt? Do they use the illness as an excuse for harmful and/or abusive behavior? The answers should be yes, yes, yes, no. Otherwise, it is an issue, because it is an issue with their mentality and them as a person and not the illness itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | The orgasm gapIt literally says right in the source that the stats on anal sex aren't very reliable my dude. Can it feel good? Sure. But look on literally any forum debate dedicated to women and see how they talk about sometimes excruciating pain being pressured on them. There's a reason "painal" is so popular - it is a very painful act that at the very least you need to become adjusted to over a period of time to experience any pleasure. It also notes that anal sex was not the only thing done, it was a combi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are not actually sexually attracted to men.I'm late to this but, to answer each and a few questions for you: 1) it is well known that women are much less visual stimulated, this is true. Some women are but on average I will agree that women tend to be less attracted to the male body - but you are equating that with sexuality bc you view it from a male lense pov. To men, visual is one of the most important components, but you have to realize the same is not true for us. 2) a lot of the reason hetero women watch lesbian porn is because it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are people so obsessed with sex?It just depends on who you are. If you have zero drive whatsoever it may be worth looking into a possible medical issue. Obviously, it feels good. There's also a social imperative for men by other men, that they need to have lots of sex to be masculine. Much like women, men create certain norms with each other that signals worth or value. As for goals, it's an easy way out because it's an easy goal to reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever woke up one day and suddenly lost all physical/sexual attraction to your boyfriend?Definitely. There are a variety of reasons. Sometimes, with some people, you internalize resentment over time and don't even realize it until you hit a breaking point. Other times it can be internal. As someone with BPD, sometimes this kind of thing just happens. It is worth waiting a while to see if it goes away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 07:03 PM |
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