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I don’t get bored of it but if I catch the feels for someone the sex gets way better. I way prefer sex with feelings to casual sex. If I catch feelings for someone I tend to drop anyone I don’t have feelings for. Unfortunately sex with feelings usually leads either to drama or commitment… so I guess what I’m saying is that while I’ve never been bored of casual sex I don’t find it to be sustainable. Usually I end up in a relationship or too heartbroken to keep messing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:18 AM
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So you're right that a declining population is going to lead to the pension system crashing... Most of our generation will probably work until we fall over, I think the boomers will be the last generation to enjoy a subsidised retirement. That being said, there is the whole global warming, depletion of natural resources (including water), pollution and deforestation thing. Overpopulation isn't some dystopian future, it's already here. There's too many people on this planet for the earth to be ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:01 AM
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Okay so saying “let’s go to my dorm room” can be roughly translated to “let’s go hang out, listen to some music, maybe kiss a little and if there’s a vibe maybe we can make love but only if you feel safe.” The alternative provided “let’s fuck” more accurately translates to “I want to use your body as a fleshlight. How you feel about this isn’t important.” I’m sorry you can’t get laid but I’m more sorry for any woman in your vicinity tbh you insensitive orangutan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:34 AM
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Roe v Wade getting overturned is going to make this a lot worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:34 AM
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This sub is toxic for everyone. I just stick around to see incels in their natural habitat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:31 AM
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Don't listen to the red pill it's a woman repeller.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:48 PM
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You say this because you want an easy “one and done” solution. /u/purplepilleric is right though, you have to put a lot of time and effort into those things to see any noticeable difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:56 AM
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The problem is people pleasers. Sometimes people pretend to be okay with it and then decide they’re not once you’ve already made all kinds of ties… honesty doesn’t seem to be a solution in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah this is what I do and I still get constantly called a jerk, told I string people on, etc… apparently honesty is not enough 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:51 PM
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By feminine I mean romantic, skinny, not particularly athletic or muscled, more interested in psychology and art than sports and guns. Played more with dolls as a kid than soldiers. A chunk of my wardrobe is clothes that were intended for women (as in skinny jeans or button ups, never a skirt or anything like that). I studied marketing. One of the core principles is know your audience and cater to them. If hummer marketed themselves to Ferraris audience they’d be doomed, or at least they’d be wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:41 AM
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I’m pretty feminine and gravitate towards women who are smarter and/or more successful than me. Not doomed at all. I get hella laid. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:38 AM
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They tend to be phenomenal in bed (put in your ten thousand hours!). They have more to talk about, more emotional maturity. They know what they want and are less likely to cause drama. They probably earn more. Jesus Christ sometimes it seems like the purple pill sees women as having the life expectancy of an avocado.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:34 PM
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I think women are naturally more attuned to peoples feelings, so they’re less likely to be a disappointment to their partner. Just speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:39 AM
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Unfortunately I think this tends to be a stubborn holdout of internalised racism... Even people who make a conscious effort to not profile people when it comes to intelligence or safety or whatnot will still nope out when it comes to dating. Don't know what to tell you except that I'm sorry racism exists and I'm sorry you have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:36 AM
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IKR? Is the idea of a shy man so hard to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:57 PM
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I think it’s because they want to reframe their own failures in the dating world… any guy who gets a hot girlfriend who loves him is getting cycled 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:56 PM
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I do want them! My wife made the first move on me… and we split the bill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:52 PM
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Yeah but men get rejected sometimes and it hurts our feeeewinggssss
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:04 PM
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I think if you're too conventionally hot, you'll have people talking to you all the time and your incentives for keeping them engaged or making yourself seem more interesting totally evaporate. So yeah, beautiful people can be kinda dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:23 AM
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So much this! I read recently that cheating usually happens after, not before the relationship dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:21 AM
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Depends on where you live. In Madrid almost every 30 something is still dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:33 AM
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Link please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:21 AM
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Wow. I'd heard that masturbation was technically gay when I was a kid at church. But watching porn makes you a cuck... that's a new one!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:19 AM
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Yoga... great ratios!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:17 AM
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I (31M) have a twin (31F). We're both decently good looking and smart. We both have pretty bad ADD. She has epilepsy but besides that I'd say we're similar enough to be able to give you the data you need. When we were younger she was at a huge advantage when it came to dating. There were 5 guys salivating over her wherever we went, and I almost always had to settle, though I have had some beautiful and amazing girlfriends. Her boyfriends often wanted to mold her into a subservient of sorts thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:21 PM
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There’s a lot of financial reasons. You get taxed differently and of course inheritance works differently if you’re married. You can get loans as a married unit as well, some insurance rates change (all of this depending on your country or state btw). Also ethical reasons. If you want to have kids it’s important that you provide them with as much stability as possible. Part of that is getting married because… it makes it a whole lot harder to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:32 PM
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Non monogamous people are probably more likely to be interested in sex politics… which means they’re probably more likely to end up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:29 PM
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Ok so men in Jordan and Egypt wear eyeliner (no homo apparently) and they look fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:37 PM
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Pretty sure you nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:49 PM
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Look at it this way… less competitors! All you gotta do to stick out nowadays is hit the gym and ditch the twinkies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:21 PM
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Dawww this comment gave me the feels. Tell them that love is real!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:02 AM
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Love is real! It just becomes impossible to find if you believe all this TRP bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:01 AM
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IKR? Sounds painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:36 PM
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Your ex has a serious problem. Id have a problem if my lover was watching 8 hours a day cuz that’s an addiction. A lil 10 minute quickie every week or two is really not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:35 PM
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And you don’t think that “ick” might be a self confidence issue? If you’ve been around the block why wouldn’t you expect the woman you date to have been as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:15 PM
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Ok so could I ask what’s wrong with a woman with a high n-count? Is it that you’re shit in bed so you want her to have nothing to compare you to?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:10 PM
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Has it occurred to you that some women like beef cakes and… some don’t? That there’s a diversity in the tastes of women just like there are with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:53 PM
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I think it has more to do with compatibility. Men with few partners prefer women with few partners. But promiscuous men often prefer promiscuous women. I honestly prefer promiscuous women, they’re more likely to be tolerant of my promiscuity and less likely to have a sense of ownership over me. They’re also likely to be more sexually adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:02 PM
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Not if you say it in a super masculine voice while puffing up your chest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:00 PM
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So in my experience both genders can get lazy after marriage. It’s easy to take the person for granted if they’re always there, and it’s likely they’ll turn into white noise. The things that used to thrill you might fade into the background and their shortcomings become more noticeable because you’re more intertwined with them. If someone’s a drunk or a shopaholic it might be charming when dating, less so when you share a bank account! Also, people change. Period. So yeah, they change after marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:13 AM
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I think the problem is a lot of people here are in insular bubbles. They don’t have friends of the opposite gender and only see the other gender as an unrequited object of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:01 AM
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Isn’t it bizarre how these TRP people see a narrative that contradicts their view and they just pretend it’s not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:39 PM
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All women get bored of sex a few months into the relationship… says the man who doesn’t eat pussy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:23 PM
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It’s a dumb choice. A virgin will have no sexual experience. She has no idea how high her sex drive is and likely doesn’t know how to orgasm. She doesn’t understand her sexuality, and judging by this man’s taste in women, he doesn’t want her to understand it. This will almost certainly lead to a dead bedroom because he chose a woman who doesn’t know how to enjoy sex. And what are the plus sides? A smug feeling of ownership? This shit is medieval and I’m glad this man is probably extremely sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:51 AM
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I think it’s more important that their “n count” is aligned with yours. A virgin and a 40+ aren’t gonna work out. Two virgins will though, and I feel like two 40+ could have some fun together too…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:25 PM
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You appalling fossil
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:23 PM
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I mean it kinda is. Survival and reproduction are the governing urges of all living things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:57 PM
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I mean if you look at it like a biologist… love is a mechanism to keep couples together long enough to raise children. So yeah I suppose you’re right. I’d rephrase it to love and sex are both just about reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:46 AM
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Could you fall in love with a woman who thought all men were oafs who needed to be negged into submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:48 AM
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Then fuck yeah I’m in as long as it’s a femme bot (my partner is bi).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:18 AM
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Can we have three ways with the robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:45 AM
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IKR, obviously this thing would have a self cleaning mechanism…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:44 AM
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Let’s assume the relationship is perfect in every way and so is the career. In that case I’d chose the relationship. If you have a perfect relationship and a meh career you stand a good chance of being happy. If you have the perfect career and a meh relationship, I can’t see that being very fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:39 AM
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So I’ve always had a lot of female friends. Warm approaches have worked really well for me because if a girl brings you around to her friend group you’re already “vetted” I guess. So her friends are going to trust you more, and be friendly and open with you. In this scenario I’ve never really approached, just watched for signs. If a girl is talking to me for a long time, seems comfortable and kind of lingering with her gaze and body language, it’s usually a green light to go in for a kiss. Once …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:45 PM
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I don’t see a problem with women or men who let themselves go… as long as they don’t feel entitled to date people who actually take care of themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:24 AM
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I'm not claiming to be a saint. I'm just saying that TRP ideology is bullshit, and hurts everyone involved. Being mean to women doesn't help you get laid. It just gives women a bad experience and makes sexually frustrated men even more sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:37 PM
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Blame women for the fact that you can’t get laid… and watch the cognitive dissonance dissipate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:04 AM
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I mean the fact that the holocaust was worse than the opioid epidemic does not make the opioid epidemic trivial…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:11 PM
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Yep I skipped ahead to the fact sheets which say twice as many wome experience sexual violence and about three times as many experience stalking… am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:10 PM
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Your sources good sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:02 PM
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I'm super nice and honestly I get more pussy than I know what to do with. I have one friend who just got out of jail and he just jerks off until he's desperate enough to go back to the same crack head he's been fucking for years.... I think you've been misinformed. If you try being super respectful of women you will probably be surprised with the results. Also they don't go for the guy who lives with his mom because... he lives with his mom. That means he's not likely to want to do anything fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:30 AM
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Something between a third and a 10th of men think coercive sexual behavior (rape) is acceptable. About one in five women has experienced sexual violence. Obviously, Ted Bundy's are rare, but rapey assholes are not, and when a woman interacts with a man it would be foolish for her to assume that he isn't willing or able to rape her, and in so doing, cause lifelong trauma. ​ Like I said, I'm not trying to trivialise any man's bad experiences. I've swallowed my share of bitter rejection in my day. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:57 AM
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Men are scared women will laugh at them. Women are scared men will kill them. Not to trivialize the bad experiences you or any other man has had, but women have had them too and it also dictates their behavior. Your comment implies that it’s on women to fix the toxic environment of fear around dating but it’s not. It’s on all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:12 AM
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I look at breakups like a pile of shit in your living room. Finding someone else is the equivalent of sweeping the shit under the rug or in the closet. It gets the problem out of sight and out of mind. The trouble is, the shit is still there. The smell of the shit will affect your life in subtle ways, and likely poison the new relationship. When you break up with the new person, you’ll have twice as much shit in your living room, and it can really pile up. Eventually you’re gonna have to clean o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:19 PM
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I’m a man and I get bored with stability… I’m gonna say this isn’t something that has to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:02 AM
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Me and my wife have an open marriage. It works great when we have strict rules, when we don’t it can be pretty problematic. Also it takes way more communication that a normal marriage, but it also has given us a deeper understanding of our and each other’s sexual needs. I told her when we met that monogamy was off the table for me. Back then that meant I could fuck whoever whenever, but that got ugly. One of the girls I was with got between us, and caused some damage because she was very toxic a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:28 PM
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There’s financial reasons to get married outside of “buying your wife”. Tax breaks, co-ownership, wills, etcetera. Also, getting married makes it harder to split up, which is another reason people do it before having kids. It’s like having steel reinforced concrete instead of normal concrete holding the roof up over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:00 PM
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So much this… it would just be another asymmetry in how women are treated as opposed to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:52 PM
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A little from column A a little from column B…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:36 AM
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Lol what's with incels and "having a strong jaw"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:47 AM
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I’m a femenist who believes that PC culture is low key a way of shaming people who have less exposure to academic environments. Whether you say “black” or “colored” or “POC” has a lot more to do with someone’s academic background than how racist they are. Of course there’s real racists and misogynists out there but it feels like PC does more harm to well intended people trying to have tough conversations and being shamed for their syntax.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:27 AM
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For me a game changer has been find your audience. Don’t go for classic Barbie if you’re not classic Ken. I do lousy with Barbie but I hit a lot of home runs with inked up dyed hair burner chicks. Just be yourself (but a bit more clean cut and working out a bit more) and girls who are cut from a similar cloth will probably be into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:27 PM
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Or get a cat 😻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:44 PM
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I lurk because it’s the only place on Reddit where you can see incels in their natural habitat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:40 AM
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That’s what I mean it was different for everyone. Some women need to be pampered, others ignored. I was dating one girl who was very smart, but she had been told that her whole life so my friend advised not complimenting her on that, but complimenting her outfit instead. But if a girl is always used to her outfit being complimented she might appreciate being called smart more. Generally if a girl is shy you should wait a while before making a move because you might spook her. If she’s looking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:03 AM
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So I discovered TRP when I was in my mid 20s and having a lot of trouble dating. They told me I was too nice to women so I tried being leaned, more distant. All of this backfired, when most women picked this up they nope didn’t out of there, and the ones that fell for it really weren’t worth it. I didn’t last long in that sub because honestly I hang out with too many women and generally trust them a lot (I have a twin sis so I’m a lot more comfortable with F friends than M ones). When I talked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:27 PM
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I thought this way of saying it would be more palatable to TRP and incels. Though the comments are showing this was optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:02 PM
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This all sounds fair. Isn’t that all dating though? Do you think it’s worse online than in the real world? Also is there something a guy can do to show online that he’s not going to treat women like objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:33 PM
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I agree, I think this contributes to the perceived scarcity/imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:48 PM
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This is a great point. However nothing happens in a vacuum. Women pretty much everywhere are aware of the threat of sexual violence from a really young age (and something like 1 in 3 will experience it firsthand at some point). So even if looking to sleep with women, it’s possible that they’re still going to be more cautious than men because of accumulated conditioning and stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:43 PM
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Oh good. You never know these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:26 PM
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Okay I 100% agree but please read the comments here. The pushback from some of these folks should give you an idea of what kind of people would benefit from seeing gender in this way. My argument at its core is that people are just people. And you’d be surprised how many people seem to be against that concept…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:49 PM
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I am deeply sorry my queen. I’m merely trying to convince the men that the imminent global takeover of the sisterhood is fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:16 PM
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Thanks frand 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:18 PM
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You a mod bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:16 PM
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This would be more accurate and also less effective for my target audience of incels and TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:49 PM
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Omg I love this and you should write a book
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:48 PM
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IKR his answer is so imbecilic. I guess if we agree that “alpha” just means attentive lover who gives lots of cunnilingus than he’s right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:35 PM
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Have you ever browsed TRP? That’s like they’re whole approach to getting laid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:17 PM
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Yeah the only guys I know who talk that alpha beta shit are insecure and sexually frustrated clowns
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:19 AM
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We are all biological software wired to make as many offspring as possible. Whatever helps your hypothetical babies live longer is likely to be appealing to you. So yeah, money, good health and clout are all going to be pretty appealing to most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:44 PM
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💪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:29 PM
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The opinions on this sub are so cartoonishly oversimplified… can we just accept that there’s variety in the human experience? I’ve only dated women who are smarter than me, and wouldn’t have it any other way. Some men would prefer someone more subservient, and that’s fine too if they’re not dicks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:02 AM
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Humiliation and taboo seem to cross wires with sex for a lot of people. In that context, it makes sense that people would enjoy shitting on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:58 AM
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Honestly, as a guy I have trouble not drinking on dates. It’s just such a good social lubricant…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:14 PM
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Please this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:47 AM
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So just wanna say the tables turn with age. What you’re saying is more or less true in your early 20s, but in your thirties it starts to flip. Older women have trouble finding love or even sex, and have so settle. Older men have much better odds than younger ones. Also what you said is a half truth. Women are more likely to get STDs. Women are more likely to be raped. Women can get pregnant from sex. They assume a lot more risk than you do, and that should be included in your equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:28 PM
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Definitely A. She sounds like she’d let me keep woman B as a side chick too…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:48 PM
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Ok you’re right. Most of America found out who incels were when one went on a rampage (same goes for Muslims btw), so yeah they’re gonna be seen as dangerous even though some I assume are nice people. I guess there’s also a morbid curiosity that a group of Internet radicals exist who’s whole shared identity is being misogynistic and sexually frustrated. It’s kinda fascinating. In the same way purity balls and Jonestown are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:23 PM
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Ok I really enjoy colorful haired women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:33 AM
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Lol I don’t think that username is gonna make you more hireable…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:47 AM
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Im really tempted to change my username to “syrianchadisismember” now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:35 AM
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Okay I don’t think Kodak qualifies as a normal person… that man is toxic af. Some pretty catchy songs tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:37 AM
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Yes and this is why western women aren’t flocking to bearded taliban members… with a couple brainwashed exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:23 AM
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So the dichotomy you’re suggesting is true, but misses some key points. If a woman hasn’t had sex in a while and goes on a date with a reasonably attractive fuckboy, she might have sex with him on the first date, with no expectation that he stick around. If he’s “husband material” she might wait a while to have sex with him. This is damage control, sex makes things complicated so if you want a relationship it is a good idea to build some kind of foundation first. So a lot of women wait if it see…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:04 AM
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Dude because one went on a murder spree and televised it. And others are threatening to do the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:28 AM
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I think this is the flip side of incels. Young women have a huge advantage in dating, so their male counterparts feel cheated. Then around the thirties it kinda flips, and the women feel cheated. It is what it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:25 AM
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You have obviously never “made enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:57 PM
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You’re right. To purple lezos and literally anyone except for Thai prostitutes who have a financial incentive to deal with your infantile insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:40 AM
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You sound like loving you would be kind of a hate crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:28 AM
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Agreed. The red pill makes men assholes to women because they think it will increase their odds of getting laid. In turn, it just makes them really repulsive to women, and so they hate women even more and slide down the slippery slope to inceldom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:17 AM
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Tinder rates you off attractiveness, so if you’re only seeing fatties it’s probably because the algos realized you were a repulsive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:13 AM
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I think there’s a distinction worth drawing here. Some women hate themselves and have lots of chaos goblin sex to run from it, and I’m so doing spread misery and herpes far and wide. I dislike, and avoid such women. Other women just have high sex drives and have lots of sex, but do so consciously and ethically. I love those women. I am partnered with one. The same goes for men by the way. Some are ethically promiscuous and some are ducks about it. It’s not what you do it’s how you do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:19 AM
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