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Effort and energy goes a long way It sure does. You should exert some yourself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 01:43 PM
2

For heaven's sake, put your tongue away. The only things that look cute when their tongues are hanging out are dogs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 08:37 PM
3

It’s like guys are walking on eggshells around us. Probably because: I’m hyper aware of every sexist thing a guy does now. One little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off. I’ve been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. Also: I swear guys are approaching me less. Probably because: I’m hyper aware of every sexist thing a guy does now. Guys are started to think we don’t need them anymore. One little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off. I’ve been brainwashed to assume the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/20 08:05 PM
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Man, where to start? I got home shortly after my 21st birthday, went back to work and college, and struck out in the dating world for the next few years. Early on I thought "Ok, I've been out of normal life for the last two years, so maybe I came off as weird or boring." But even after that passed, dating still sucked. Off the top of my head: I asked a girl if she wanted to go on a double date. Her response was "Can I bring (another guy) with me?" Same girl also told me she couldn't go out one n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 05:56 PM
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Or he got home from his mission with the apparently-radical idea of getting married and starting a family, realized that being a nice guy only resulted in a lot of rejection, and had to become a massive douchebag if he wanted any success with women. Source: personal experience
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 12:27 PM
1

I was thinking Rob Lowe, but to each their own.
/r/MGTOW12/07/20 04:30 PM
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Poor thing, burdened with financial stability from "one guy who pays all my bills" that requires zero commitment and allows her to pursue just about any path in life. It must really suck to waste your adult life up to this point on fruitless, short-term pursuits and still hit the jackpot. Definitely worse than foregoing a social life to go to school full time, plus work full time in order to pay your own way like I did.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 06:39 AM
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They want it, but they don't want it. Get it? Yeah, neither do I.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/20 11:52 AM
9

For real. By my mid teens, I laid out my future and decided how I was going to get there. How does someone exist for three decades before finally thinking "I should probably figure out where I’m going"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/20 02:24 PM
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"A" child is correct. It's not hers, and she knows it: Trying to select an egg donor, on the other hand, was “excruciating,” she says: “You are thinking, ‘This should be me.’ ” Whether the act of growing a baby and then pushing it out will satisfy her was/is up in the air. But I'd definitely wager that there will always be a little something in the back of her mind acknowledging that the baby is not genetically hers. If only there was something she could've done about that...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 12:25 PM
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The (nonexistent) guy she wants is not looking for a 30-year-old single mom with a list of demands, plain and simple.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/20 02:56 PM
3

The baby's isn't around. Hers probably is, but might as well have not been.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/20 11:55 AM
10

You refuse to accept fault for leaving me ruined and unable to trust or care about myself in the slightest. You’ve ruined me.... and honestly I hope you’re happy. Translation: I have no self-esteem, I won't motivate myself to gain self-esteem, and my emotional well-being is everyone's responsibility but my own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 06:01 PM
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Unfortunately, in this day and age, you don’t actually have to have the moral high ground in order to claim it; you just need to be louder and more willing to sling mud (i.e. call people misogynist, nazi, racist, incel, etc.) than everyone else.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 02:41 PM
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Maybe he's new to it? It's easy to talk about holding frame and the like, but in the moment, at least in the beginning, I can see how it'd be easy to fall back into the "Oh man, I better not mess up this chance" mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/20 05:29 PM
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It's amazing how many of these problems would be fixed with a little foresight and introspection. I don't think I'll ever understand the inability to gain perspective without experiencing it firsthand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 12:22 AM
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Well, of course, but I'm not gonna just give in to predisposition. What kind of parent would I be to say "Well, she's a girl, and girls are naturally emotional and can't control themselves, so I'll just throw up my hands and wait for her to show up on WAATGM in 20 years"? I know full well she's not going to turn out exactly the way I want her to, but I can live with failure despite my best efforts more than I can live with failure because I surrendered to nature.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/20 05:00 PM
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This kind of crap is exactly why I'm constantly on my daughter about not thinking about what she's doing. Sure, right now it's just little kid stuff, but the last thing I need is to be the parent of a kid who can't take a minute to exercise a bit of self-control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 02:11 PM
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Maybe I misphrased that. I meant that he's treating her as a P&D, and she's interpreting that as commitment. Either way, she's not locking him down. And until women as a whole start prioritizing the importance of commitment and being good companion material before giving up the goods, I doubt any woman will.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 02:00 PM
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Just like women will dangle the idea of sex just out of reach of a "lesser" man in order to secure his commitment, he's dangling the idea of commitment in front of this gold-digging self-proclaimed non-gold digger just out of reach in order to secure sex. And I can't blame him. This is the dating environment they've wrought; he's just participating accordingly. I personally wouldn't even bother with them if I were in his situation, but unlike this and countless other girls, I'm not about to tell…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 01:30 PM
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They're a little anal about personal information, doxxing, brigading, etc. Like, they go a step further and treat anything that could encourage it as though it's just as bad. Personally, it feels like there's a lot of discussion-worthy stuff there that gets deleted too quickly and makes it feel a little echo chamber-y. But I get the reasoning, because the last thing they want is too much attention and the inevitable quarantine/ban that comes with it.
/r/MGTOW10/03/20 04:46 PM
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I agree that this is probably a bit too political. At the same time, it's nice for people like me who feel like they're kind of on the fringes of this community but have apparently connected the dots in the same way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 06:14 PM
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Let's not jump to conclusions about how redpilled someone is. I mean, I didn't find it until I was already married. It makes sense to those of us who are woke, but for anyone still chugging the BP, single mothers are not only a valid choice, but possibly the only recommended choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 05:10 PM
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I must ask, why doesn't she say what she offers? You just referred to everything she offers: demands to go out, demands to travel, demands to go to the gym and motivate her, and hair for you to stroke when she demands it. Her profile is just a long-winded way of saying "I want a guy who bends to my every whim." Ironically, that kind of behavior will also turn her off, because regardless of the guy's height, looks, salary, etc., lap dogs don’t give tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 03:37 PM
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The picture isn't improved, but the smoke is a little thicker and the mirrors are a little shinier. That's a win in the book of someone who knows that what they're offering isn't really worth what they're asking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 10:20 PM
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Let's put it this way: Do you want to take a bite out of an apple that 20 other guys have already taken a bite out of? Do you want to put on a pair of underwear that 20 other guys have worn? Do you want to chew a piece of gum that 20 other guys already chewed? Because I certainly don't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 04:04 PM
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Who do you think took the picture?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/20 08:56 PM
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Can't ask for that, it's against the sub rules.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 01:58 PM
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My mom tells stories like this. I used to get on my dad for being unreasonable when I was a kid because he'd always cut her off like "Ok, yeah, whatever, just get to the point!" Then I got married. Let's just say I've gained a lot of empathy for my dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/02/20 07:23 PM
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Darn that Father Time and his chronological patriarchy! I came to terms in my teens that everyone eventually becomes old, fat, and ugly (some sooner than others). Really helps put a long term perspective on everything in life. She would’ve been smart to do the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 02:41 PM
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Could be a number of things: They’re told all their lives that they’re trash compared to these queens (as most of us were/are to varying degrees), so a woman like this one is all they’re worthy of. There’s such a fear of rejection that they aim low with the idea that there’s less chance of failure with a generally unfavorable woman (I’ve certainly been there before). This woman and/or her kids are in distress and need to be rescued. They’re pedophiles and don’t give a crap about her as much as h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 01:30 PM
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That sub is equally or more toxic toward gender issues in general than the pure mgtow one, but for some reason the mgtow one is quarantined by reddit and that one is not. Yeah, it's been a known issue for a while. Not just the quarantine, but that reporting anything from FDS falls on deaf ears. Funny how encouraging women to withhold sex from a guy they're dating but keeping a FWB hidden from said guy just in case they really need sex is fine, but dropping out of the game altogether is worthy of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 11:56 AM
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Between that and waiting forever to have kids (which is already known to put them at risk for health issues), I didn't have much sympathy for her. She made all of those choices, so she can have the risks and consequences that come with them. The only person that really deserves sympathy is the kid. I mean, to say she'd go back to work if she could? Even functioning as a 4-year-old, I don't doubt that he'd be devastated if he found out what her real #1 choice is. "Mommy loves you, but what she re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/20 02:01 PM
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Capitalizing Every Word Bothers Me More Than It Probably Should. Props to her for being honest, but honesty doesn't make her baggage any more desirable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/20 01:18 PM
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That wasted potential is always the biggest loss. Like, great job girl, you successfully ruined your life and all but ruined two more because you wanted to be irresponsible. Maybe they defy the odds and make something out of themselves, but the cynic/realist in me wagers they'll have next to zero guidance and end up just perpetuating the dysfunction they were wrought in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 03:35 AM
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If she's being genuine (which I doubt, but let's play along), then she needs to take her frustration out on her predecessors who promoted feminism and the like. They created the market she now finds herself in, and men adapted accordingly by either dropping the focus on commitment that women showed they no longer wanted, or by dropping out of the market entirely. I'm sure there are still some guys out there operating under traditional values and standards (I was one of them), but she's gonna hav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/20 02:29 PM
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Usually I’m pretty good at puzzles and deciphering bad grammar and punctuation. But I’ve tried now for a couple of minutes on this one, and even with some translation (in = and, won’t = want, etc.), I still can’t figure out what she’s saying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 11:57 AM
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All the Instagram filters in the world can't hide The Stare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/20 04:47 PM
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I was gonna say, I've been here for over a year and I never recall seeing that post. Looks like a good one, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/20 07:21 PM
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Everyone has their preferences, but height never mattered to me unless she was a midget or something. I'm right at 6'0", but I've been attracted to girls under 5'0", girls over 6'0", etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/20 07:02 PM
3

Sure you can, just don't get pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 08:13 PM
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Lady, you're 30 years old with two kids. The days of going clubbing are over. Shopping only happens at the grocery store or the kids clothing section. Grow up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 02:13 PM
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This girl has to have been abused and you should be ashamed of making fun of someone like that. If those three daughters were the result of rape, sure. But she's "done with these games," so I'm inclined to think that's not the case. She made bad choices and is looking for someone to bail her out of dealing with the consequences. That's absolutely something that should be mocked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/20 01:30 PM
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Bill Burr reference?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 05:07 PM
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The problem is, that would be fair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/19 05:51 PM
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"If you're a nice guy, you'll get your turn after no one else wants one."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 12:25 PM
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You sound reasonable and willing to cooperate instead of being full of hate and vengeance. No wonder you got banned there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 02:42 AM
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A few years ago a female writer caught hell for telling young women that they were never going to be in such a target-rich environment as they were in college. Once they take off the cap-and-gown and clear the campus for the final time everything about the mating market changes, and it's seldom for the better. Every link to the actual letter I've seen is broken, but here is a bit about it, plus some follow-up. I have little doubt that the girls she caught flack from are probably now experiencing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/19 10:22 AM
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Even if she’s being honest and it was just the one guy, the effect is already sticking with her. She got on just once and decided that was enough, but now nothing compares to that one go-around. Maybe she didn’t live on it like so many of the girls we see here, but she loved it just the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/19 01:46 PM
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I enjoyed it when it came out (I was 24 at the time). I watched it again about a month ago and realized it wasn't as great as it used to be. Every other character is cast really well, but Michael Cera just doesn't play a good Scott. In the books, Scott is a charismatic jerk/loser who's fun to laugh at because he's such a piece of crap. Scott in the movie is like one of those people who posts themselves on r/RoastMe and then responds to all the roasts with serious comments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/19 03:35 AM
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If it helps, you're not the only one who found the red pill late. Thankfully my wife is pretty open to me taking the lead and her following, so I wasn't gonna blow up seven years of marriage and two kids just because I found vindication for what I observed (seemingly alone) when I was younger. But I know the feeling. If our marriage goes south, I'm not getting married again. Probably not dating again either. It was hard enough weeding out all the junk to find one decent girl; I'm not going throu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 12:52 PM
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The wall does not exist. You are a high value woman who has a career, education, friends, hobbies, and you take care of your body. Your value is not tied to a number. You are allowed to have standards always. Sure it is. And I'm not saying an older woman can't have value; I'm saying that a younger woman almost always has more, even just from a biological perspective. I think my wife is still pretty, and she's held up great after nearly a decade of marriage and two kids. But if I could trade her …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/19 05:20 AM
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This girl reminds me a lot of my daughter. Impulsive, unwilling to take responsibility for her actions, lamenting about the outcome of her bad choices, making everything about herself instead of the people she actually hurt, etc. Except, the differences are 1) my daughter gets a big dose of reality and unemotional logic from me whenever she gets out of line like that, and 2) my daughter is in pre-school. I can't imagine being 35 with a mentality that hasn't changed in 30 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/19 05:20 PM
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Exactly. Look at the example of the guy she was seeing. He wouldn't "connect," he wouldn't open up about his feelings, etc., and yet she still latched on to him. She can't be caught saying it, but she wants a guy who's aloof and emotionally withholding, because it doesn't take "almost a year" to figure out that someone isn't on the same track that you claim to be on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 01:32 PM
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I would rather know up front what you’re interested in. If we go out and you don’t want to see me again (brace yourself cuz this is hard to understand): don’t tell me that you do. Believe it or not, women don’t want to be lied to. I read the Hunger Games years ago because everyone I knew was reading it, and I wanted to see what all the fuss was about (spoiler: not much). I remember while reading the first book, the author ended every chapter on a cliffhanger. It was always some stupid nonchalant…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 04:45 AM
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They are perfectly aware of what constitutes harassment and what doesn’t. Which makes you wonder why so many men are afraid to interact with women at work? The answer to that question, perhaps, is that a lot of men aren’t so much afraid of being accused of anything as they are they are angry that #MeToo ever happened. No, she had it right, it's that we don't want to be accused of anything. You know how when it comes to communication, you can craft your message however you want, but you can't dec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/19 06:00 PM
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It's because you're exciting now. You've got drama. You're a problem that needs solving. It's no fun to them when the work is already done. I was dumped by a girl in high school for a guy who was fat, ugly, stupid, objectified her to her face, etc. When she broke up with me, she told me I was "so sweet, and so perfect," which she intended to be a consolation but I later realized was why I failed. I attributed her choice to the fact that she was 16, and naively assumed girls would stop thinking t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/19 06:46 PM
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If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 06:18 AM
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If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 03:39 AM
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If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 02:48 AM
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If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 02:47 AM
1

If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 02:46 AM
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If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 02:46 AM
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If I ever get into a serious relationship do I have to mention this? Something tells me that's never going to be an issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 02:45 AM
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Maybe it's because I've never really been a feelings-driven person, but I can't comprehend how someone could think feelings are so important that they would jeopardize an otherwise ideal situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/19 02:33 PM
7

Same here. I don't see it as a concession if it's something I'll enjoy too. Regardless of a woman's intent, a good idea can still be a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 10:50 PM
7

Taking it the wrong way? What other way is there to take it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 07:32 PM
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He said he was done with the relationship altogether. ... Is this something that I can save? Should I wait for him to see if he realizes this? Should I leave and see if this has any effect? I have no words for how detached from reality someone has to be to put all these sentences together with a straight face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 08:14 PM
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The blokes who don’t say things like that, you know, the ones who give me the puppy dog eyes, I’ve discovered just don’t push my buttons. Yep, there it is. Can't look at things from a logical, long-term perspective; we gotta have those tingles, and now!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 07:02 PM
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Only the plus side, she's not looking for a bailout, and she's not listing a lot of demands... Not listing them directly. She didn't list her height and weight just because she's fine with an old fat guy. She didn't spend half a paragraph on the career successes of her and her daughters just to get together with a plumber/electrician/factory worker. I highly doubt she's looking for a guy to take care of, nor would she "reduce" herself to being taken care of in the wake of her career accomplishme…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 12:47 AM
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I love the incredulity at the end, like she can't believe she may have stumbled upon some important information about men and how they work. They can shape the playing field all they want, but the players haven't changed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 07:02 PM
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I used to catch so much flak in high school for suggesting celibacy and self-control to kids my age. "Why are you so against a basic human experience?" "It’s my body, blah blah blah." "We just need more condoms, not your outdated churchy ideas." Heaven forbid we use our advanced brains and elevate ourselves above the most basic biological urges...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/19 04:03 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting to be a little more emotionally invested with a girl first. I was the same way, and actually didn't lose my virginity until I was married. I had plenty of opportunities, but they all felt shallow in the moment, and my body (generally) responded accordingly. If anything, this is a strength to you because you don't have to fight yourself when it comes to determining the direction and progression of these things. Don't let the thought of "But everyone else does such-and-s…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 10:47 AM
10

How hard is it to at least look like you're "tired of hookups"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 04:25 AM
10

When I was a teenager, I made it my top priority to get married and have kids while I was still in my 20s (it mostly worked out). That goal shaped just about every decision I made for school, work, etc. For this woman, having a family was never a top priority to her. She focused her choices around her career, the she took a chance pulling one over on biology/time/nature and lost. I’d feel bad, but...at least she still has that career that means so much more to her, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 04:04 AM
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"Please provide the statistical probability of someone ever encountering that situation. You can't? Then I'm going to ignore your hypothetical question, chug some more BPs, and get back on my high horse so these women can see me defending them."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 05:34 AM
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Nice guys aren’t creepy when they’re responsible, have money, and are still clinging to the blue pill idea that they can be the hero in some irresponsible girl's story.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/19 12:37 PM
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Sounds like she'd make an excellent husband. Seriously though, how stubborn does someone have to be to disregard their own spot-on observations like that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/19 04:12 AM
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I feel sorry in the sense that they got got by feminism and the consequences of their choices, but I don't feel sorry that they never stopped to consider those consequences. More of a "sucks to suck"-type of sorry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/19 03:03 AM
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