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He's talking about an empirical fact.
/r/seduction05/02/17 12:10 PM
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Looking attractive and not being a bitch is enough for most of us to want sex with you. However, if you're looking for something more serious, it depends on the man. any guys in here find "confidence" extremely important, but I'm more interested in general intelligence, ability to self-reflect, passion, integrity, humor and compassion. If there's no doubt, you'd take advantage if I didn't stand up for myself, then I got no problem taking advantage of you. If we're in a relationship and you find …
/r/seduction30/01/17 02:41 PM
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Ahem...
/r/seduction21/01/17 04:09 PM
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Why are these "harsh truths" by the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson. ...just a simplified ripoff of Mark Manson? You'd expect a world-champion to come up with some pretty ground-breaking conclusions of his own.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:43 PM
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I don't see that trend at all here. I see few saying that looks and money doesn't mean anything, though your general "radiance" means a lot more. Most would probably also tell you, that the man leads the date and does the escalation.
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:54 PM
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It's officially "good advice" for guys to masturbate before a date to repress their natural urges. Can you imagine if someone suggested the same to women so they avoid being seen as sluts? Both advices are terrible, but that's besides the point. Even in here, people call "nice guys" for manipulators, pathetic etc. while I bet few would say the same if some selfish jerk took advantage of a love-struck insecure girl who spiralled deeper into depression and isolation. They accuse them of putting th…
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:43 PM
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I look forward to when all the top posts in r/MakeupAddiction is about just being yourself and living a healthy life.
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:09 PM
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Yep, similarly to Models, NMMNG is ripe with this sort of simplistic pseudo-psychology. In reality, there can be a variety of reasons for why men put their own needs in the background. For instance, while many women are taught "not to accept being treated wrong", many men have been taught the opposite. They've been done so by their parents, their teachers, Hollywood and by that sweet girl who loves to cry over their shoulder about how all men are assholes and he should never be like those. Sure,…
/r/seduction18/12/16 11:57 AM
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See the brighter side of it. You might not be free, but there's a good chance you're immortal. If time never ends or it goes around in loops - which I think is the most probably scenario - new universes will keep being made forever. If "you" solely are characterized by the setup in your brain, then it's only a matter of time before it'll repeat itself by random chance. It's just a matter of tossing the dice enough times. You'll never truly experience death, but just jump between various location…
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:34 PM
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Change the dopamine handling and suddenly you're an introvert instead of an extrovert. Fool around with your neurotransmitters and you'll move up or down the ADHD vs. autism spectre. Set your central nervous system up the wrong way and it'll handle sensory input inefficiently which indirectly puts you in a permanently insecure/alert state. When you decide to do a thing out of "free will", that decision can be fully explained by things out of your control if you follow the cause/effect relations …
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:13 PM
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Soccer players know that hitting the ball on the side will send it spinning. They know that you get points if the ball goes in the goal and you need to get more points than your opponent to win. They know the rules. They know to use shoes with good grip. All these facts assist them in being the best possible soccer players and complements their experience. The reason it doesn't confuse the hell out of them is because it's already established knowledge they know inside and out. In contrast, many …
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:15 PM
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A soccer player might miss if he tries to calculate all the relevant laws of physics before kicking the ball, but that doesn't mean Newton is wrong. And the fact that some people believe in creationism doesn't make evolution any less of a science. Similarly, you're using bad application and flawed theories as an argument that seduction is not a science. You're fundamentally wrong. Everything is a science. Even the fact that you get better result if you don't regard seduction as a science, is a r…
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:12 AM
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I can't orgasm with a girl. I thought it was because I never got laid until my late twenties so I, like you, never developed it. However, nothing changed after despite getting regular sex. Half a year ago, I went to a neuro optrician to hear some advice as my vision had been worsening. He found that my eye muscles are too tense and this is caused by a dysfunctional central nervous system which also affects all my other muscles. Since the brain automatically gets in "alert state" if your muscles …
/r/seduction29/11/16 09:35 AM
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If they try to hold your hand, they're interested in you, but when you don't know what to do next they see it as insecurity or lack of experience and lose attraction. Unlike what a lot of us has been brought up with, she won't consider you a gentleman for holding back. Perhaps that's what her logic center says, but it's just a bitch to her primal instincts anyway. Those are saying: He wants me but he's too much of a pussy to go for it. How can my child survive with those genes? Your goal for a f…
/r/seduction29/11/16 08:55 AM
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If you don't cook me breakfast every day, I'm going to find someone who will. This might be a dick move, but it's not manipulation (unless he/she is lying about following through). It's just stating intentions. As tomatosomething said, the title is misleading. Not only that, but he's mostly just listing really shitty behavior that is more about self-reassurance than cynical manipulation to achieve a specific objective. In most times, this behavior will achieve nothing else than putting the manip…
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:48 PM
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Girls might have a scorecard, but that doesn't control their attraction criteria. What they say they want is different from they think they want which is different from what they actually want. What they actually want is primarily defined by their instincts. It can vary to some degree, but there is a very clear tendency. It's like some men like other chubby women, grannies or super-small titties, but the masses will still be attracted to the opposite. If you fulfill that list she might make you …
/r/seduction07/11/16 09:49 AM
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How does that make you feel? Please sit here on the couch with me.
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:37 PM
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Why are you guys downvoting this guy without any counter-argument? Regardless of whether you agree, at least he contributes with something new that is relevant for discussion. We get a shitload of "I'm shit with ladies, but too lazy to use the search function/sidebar" posts with similar repetitive comments. Those are the ones fucking this sub up, not this one.
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:00 PM
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Why do you think he is vague?
/r/seduction29/10/16 09:52 PM
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Why would any girl be with someone who can't even read the sidebar before bothering other people with questions that's already been answered?
/r/seduction27/10/16 09:27 AM
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Your question belongs in askseddit It has already been answered a bunch of times. Use the search function. There's already tonnes of basic tips and info on the sidebar. Asking for help before doing the most minimal effort to fix the issue yourself is an unattractive trait.
/r/seduction04/10/16 09:31 AM
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Skimming through the source, I don't see any attempt at backing up the claims. When a hot girl is complaining to a nice guy why all the men she dates are assholes, this is the list she has in her head. When asked "what about me" she laughs "not you, silly". Of course, later in life she might still see him as "the smart choice" (at least if he's also got his career going), but that has nothing to do with sexual turn-on. I'm not even that good at seduction (though vastly better than a year ago), b…
/r/seduction19/09/16 05:57 PM
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Perhaps she was just tired of reading words "lol", "srs" and "whatever" and wanted to date an adult.
/r/seduction24/07/16 01:34 PM
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If you had read anything in here, you'd know not to ask her out for dinner. If you're good in conversation and first impression, a simple coffee date is fine. Don't stay at one place, move her around to some different locations. After coffee, go for pool, then grab a beer/drinks somewhere else. Another idea is to go to an amusement park. That's great because not only is it a literal rollercoaster, but also an emotional one. You want her to experience a vast range of emotions.
/r/seduction05/07/16 06:42 AM
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I replied to the definitions of inner game I most often see here. As you correctly note, they are actually external things and supposedly the result of inner game, but it doesn't stop people from calling it "inner game". Apparently the popular definition covers everything that doesn't directly say how to pick up chicks. It's nonsense, yes. However, while the external stuff is influenced by the internal, the opposite is equally true. You develop confidence through positive experiences and lose it…
/r/seduction27/06/16 06:56 AM
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There used to be some pretty good beginner material here, but I can't easily find it. A good idea is to read this: https://www.scribd.com/doc/3536110/The-Book-of-Pook
/r/seduction27/06/16 06:39 AM
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Dismissing mountains of empirical evidence and rational thought seems to be a consistent trait among those who think inner game is everything. Apparently, women are magical unicorns who can sense your "core". Women can wear make-up, get boob-implants, use push-up bras, put on high-heels etc. to fool the male sexual drive, yet somehow they immune to having their own sexual drives influenced by "social make-up"? I'm sorry, but you're speaking bullshit and are putting women on a pedestal. There are…
/r/seduction27/06/16 06:25 AM
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You can have the most awesome "inner game" (job, hobbies, friends etc) and still suck with women. And if that's the case, you'd probably either feel absolutely horrible about it or are in denial (at least if you're in your twenties/thirties). Then you might say "well, develop yourself so you don't feel horrible" and I agree. That's a good thing. But you know what? It's not the only thing. Everybody needs some degree of affirmation and men in particular need the sexual kind. Who wants to feel lik…
/r/seduction26/06/16 09:14 PM
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Great r/seduction. Topvoted comment is an unbased accusation of laziness and insecurity because OP wants to know if he's wasting his time by reading the same thing twice. It seems to me like you've built up this "I'm alpha and do not need to be validated" self-identity and reeeally want other people to validate it.
/r/seduction22/06/16 09:40 AM
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Yes, I totally want to fuck him right now.
/r/seduction19/06/16 10:47 AM
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If said to a man: Compliment If said to a woman: Insult
/r/seduction19/06/16 10:39 AM
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It's probably because they see you asking basic questions that's already been answered a thousand times if you had just read the sidebar material or used the search function.
/r/seduction03/06/16 08:04 AM
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First, I agree with everything Eurasianpersuasion01 wrote. Second, while the article does try to understand the redpillers (to a degree), it still has a lot of hypicritical accusations. They (nice guys) subconsciously do these thing so they can get laid Where is the proof to back this up? Does the author also think that these guys only are nice to their parents, friends, co-workers, random strangers etc. to get laid or other favors? But let's say they really are, then so what? It doesn't make th…
/r/seduction02/06/16 04:24 PM
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I'd rather just fuck an escort than fuck with some poor girl's head ...and that's why that other guy is absolutely wrong in (indirectly) calling you an asshole. However, think about it. What is worse: Never getting out of this horrible situation or that some girl gets a single negative experience she quickly forgets about? You just can't compare the two. You're probably a good guy, but don't put your needs behind everybody else's. Women won't appreciate it. In fact, they'll lose respect for you.…
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:03 AM
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The arrogance of calling him arrogant. Why the fuck are you to say he's not and then put words in his mouth?
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:42 PM
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Here's a few tips from a guy who didn't get laid until his late 20's, but now gets it after first or second date: Watch all the stuff on RSDnation. You might think it's fucked up/immoral, but that doesn't make them wrong. You need to understand how women are different creatures from men. After you've gotten laid a few times you can move over to Mark Manson, but it's crucial to get laid first. Meditate each day for at least ½ hour. Read some books on mindfulness Stand in the mirror and smile to y…
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:38 PM
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I completely agree with the first part, but you're dead wrong when it comes to confidence. Of course the most desperate men will get more confidence around women if they get a minimum of experience (from a willing partner). As you get older, this problem gets worse and worse. Your desperation grows and your skills and experience will matter more and more. Girls might accept a bit of nervousness from a young kid, but not from an older adult. This guy needs to do a lot of stuff (like most men), bu…
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:12 PM
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career oriented, ambitious, kind, and good looking If you, more or less, have the same traits, then there are a lot of men who would want a longterm relationship with you. Especially after 30. However, you probably also want the guy who's great with women? Someone who approaches you, leads, aren't "needy", desired by your girlsfriends, great in the sack, etc. right? Unless you're exceptionally amazing, why should that guy settle for you. With those traits, he's also clearly a person who's used t…
/r/seduction06/05/16 08:10 AM
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I think it doesn't matter much if you're doing it right. However, if you're not and relies heavily on canned material, negging or aren't comfortable with how you act, then things get more context dependent. Of course, the answer isn't to understand the context and constantly change who you are. The answer is doing it right.
/r/seduction18/04/16 12:34 PM
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It depends. There's no excuse for being a cunt to a girl who hasn't done anything to deserve it. However, if a she puts herself on a pedestal and expects me to jump through hoops, then it's great fun to pull her down with a bit of humor. That she finds it attractive is just an added benefit. Of course, if I still sent out an overwhelming beta-vibe while doing so, she'd be offended that a peasant dared to speak to her highness like that.
/r/seduction18/04/16 12:19 PM
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The biological drive is the same, but how you approach can differ. When you're a bit provocative to young chicks, you're pulling them down from a pedestal and placing yourself there instead. That's hot. Since their confidence is rooted in their attraction, they get more insecure with age. If you're too provocative then, it's like you're stepping on them and they feel like shit. However, that's only a theory and I don't think it is the case for OP. I don't date these women.
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:14 AM
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Great, we upvote repetitive questions like "how do I get a date" by lazy bastards who can't be bothered to read the sidebar material or karma whores. Then we downvote a genuinely interesting and unique question from a guy who actually seems to have put in the minimum effort. This sub truly has been taken over by the masses. Like /r/askscience it needs greater mod involvement to survive as a useful community. Sub-criticism aside, I unfortunately don't know why they're hitting you. I have a few th…
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:21 PM
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Evolutionary it makes sense to develop both introverts and extroverts. Those who can contemplate and act rationally without as much dependence on social reward vs. those who seek action and make rash decisions. Both would been seen as of value in a small tribe. Unfortunately, modern world has adapted to the majority. As left-handed needs to operate right-handed tools, so do introverts need to adapt to a society that sees contemplation as indecisiveness and time alone as something to be ashamed o…
/r/seduction15/04/16 09:39 PM
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You originally said it's good to be cautious of businesses who have "insecure"/"desperate" customers. This is not a good argument and it doesn't even cover get rich quick schemes. Now you say the issue is that the product quality can be difficult to verify. This is a good argument. At least in general. In the case of RSD it's pretty likely they provide a decent service since so many people on fora everywhere provide great feedbacks. However, people always should do their own research (unless the…
/r/seduction14/04/16 01:06 PM
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You could say the same about psychologists, fitness trainers, hairdressers who make wigs to bald chicks, plastic surgeons who fix tits lost to cancer etc.
/r/seduction14/04/16 11:40 AM
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I'm a natural introvert but if I'm asked if it's better to plan a project alone or to discuss it with people, I'll go for the extrovert answer. Not because I feel like it, but because it's often the logical approach. Similarly, I have zero respect for irrational standards and plans, but can see their relevance in a business environment and the signals I send if I don't follow them. And though I'd put myself pretty far on the NT scale, I'm pretty good at understanding other people because cultura…
/r/seduction11/04/16 12:01 AM
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When you learn to play badminton it feels fucking weird at the start. Why should I hold it like an axe when I don't hit it like an axe? Then over time (with hard practice) you get used to the basics and develop your own style. I had a particular way of cutting that would have my opponent run in the opposite direction. If I started without learning the basics then my progression would have sucked. It's the same with seduction and any other skills. You got to learn the basics, even if it doesn't f…
/r/seduction05/04/16 07:46 AM
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/r/seduction03/04/16 07:59 PM
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Excuse yourself to go to the toilet, jump out the window. Buy a new jacket or come back for it the next day. ...or just tell her it's not going to work.
/r/seduction03/04/16 05:54 PM
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Since almost no girl approach anyways, that still leaves 97 % of the guys. The major difference, however, is that the super confident guy who knows seduction will (statistically) not really be that much into her because he has plenty of other options and didn't get that experience by living a monogamous life. Of course, that is what makes him sexy, so the evolutionary determined sexual drive is basically fucking her logic over. 15 years later she will complain about how all men are assholes when…
/r/seduction01/04/16 07:37 PM
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Three days after she wrote about a cold: "Did you get better or do I have to take a shovel to the graveyard for our second date?" Let's see how this turns out... Update: She prefers to get burned (good choice!) Then I'll sniff you Reply: "Ok :-)" Seems like I've found a keeper
/r/seduction30/03/16 07:34 AM
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I'll just copy-paste a former reply. I agree with a lot of the stuff Mark Manson, No More Mr. Nice Guy etc. writes about and I know this is a wall of text, but you really need to understand this and stop being cunts to the men who needs your guidance: It is astounding how so many assholes in here love to attack men who are being taken advantage of and live an unfulfilled life filled with emotional and sexual rejection. Does that make you feel better? Is that the reason? Few of you would mock a w…
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:19 PM
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If you're shit with women, extremely nervous, emotionally and sexually frustrated, deeply ashamed of your isolation and know she'll react with disbelief and absolute revulsion if you tell her how things actually, then fuck the truth. That dude needs to get laid. Currently, that's his biggest obstruction to any further self-development. If lying to a chick gets that result, then lying to a chick he must do. Just don't continue doing it forever. It's your training wheels.
/r/seduction17/03/16 03:51 PM
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All emotional states are self-perpetuating. One bitter thought feeds the next even though it may be completely unrelated. The good thing is that you can abuse the hell out of this. Instead of unwillingly feeding your bitterness, you can willingly teach your brain to love life and be un-phased by bad shit. Self-brainwashing is your friend. Here's some suggestions. Write down as much shit you're happy about as you can right now. At minimum, you should fill an entire piece of paper. Don't rush it. …
/r/seduction10/03/16 03:50 PM
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Read the sidebar material before posting. It's fair if you disagree with it (especially when it makes excuses for shitty behavior like hers), but do the proper research first.
/r/seduction09/03/16 01:01 PM
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Sometimes it's because she's an inbred cunt to those she doesn't find attractive, sometimes it's a shit test. If you pass the test, she'll fuck you. If you prove your worth she'll even treat you like a prince while shitting on the orbiters. However, her reasons doesn't matter. Shitty behavior is shitty behavior and not to be accepted. We would never make up excuses if other men did the same.
/r/seduction09/03/16 08:33 AM
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It is astounding how so many assholes in here love to attack men who are being taken advantage of and live an unfulfilled life filled with emotional and sexual rejection. Does that make you feel better? Is that the reason? Few of you would mock a woman if she were treated in a similar fashion. Instead, you would either deny or make apologies for behavior that would never be acceptable from a man. You talk about removing the woman from the pedestal, yet place her on top of a monument of moral sup…
/r/seduction03/03/16 11:38 PM
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The importance of social skills for men is pretty much the point of this sub.
/r/seduction15/02/16 10:23 AM
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I did that last sunday, but with a dice game a bit similar to mai. You roll two dices between two cups and say what you hit or lie. Your opponent can then try to beat it of lift the cup if she doesn't believe you. The winner is allowed to ask a question to the loser. She was shit at lying and calculating odds so I won constantly won. It made her feel completely at the mercy of some superhuman mind reader. She couldn't even think straight. Tried to convince my that she hit 13 with two 6-sided dic…
/r/seduction14/02/16 02:44 PM
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I generally also prefer intelligence. The last girls I've dated have been a scientist from the Large Haldron Collider, another economics scientist and a merger and acquisition manager (buys other companies). All in their early thirties/late twenties. The things they are attracted to are the same as everybody else. It's not like intelligent men aren't attracted to a nice set of boobs. Intelligent girls are simply (sometimes) better at seeing through an act, but this doesn't mean dumber girls love…
/r/seduction21/01/16 09:56 AM
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The excuse wasn't some type of psychological condition. It was being unattractive. That excuse is bullshit. Having an actual psychological condition like autism can perhaps severely impact your social skills and thus your attractiveness. Being introverted, however, isn't one. Introverted people don't have the same social need as other people which means they don't get the same "training". This leads to bad social experiences and anxiety. However, it's something you can train away through practic…
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:53 AM
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Average looking dudes should read the shit on the sidebar and/or make an effort into not being average looking before complaining about it. This comment is a prime example of how the sub still proceeds down the toilet. It's not about seduction. It's about people who post just to post while having no idea about seduction NOR any desire learn about it.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:28 AM
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Piss in their coffee cup while maintaining eye contact to establish dominance.
/r/seduction19/01/16 11:17 AM
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If she's Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman: A kiss.
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:49 AM
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Everybody here is asking how to go for the kiss. As you can read in #9 it's rather simple: Ask for anal first.
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:29 AM
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At the men's daily prayer in ISIS HQ
/r/seduction16/01/16 06:36 PM
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If she also supports and loves me when I'm vulnerable, then I know it's me she cares about and not just her emotionally immature fantasy of a man.
/r/seduction13/01/16 08:42 AM
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Nice guys are seen as manipulative because they assume because they have made the right moves such as being emotionally available to a woman or being a good friend (despite them being laden with neediness) they deserve a payout in the form of the relationship they want. Perhaps (some) nice guys are doing it because they think it is seen as a quality. So what? It's probably also what they have been taught their entire life. They're like women with terrible make-up. Do we call those women manipula…
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:24 PM
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This video, Mark Manson and a lot of people in here are basically saying: if women don't find you attractive, then there's something fundamentally wrong with you. Bullshit! Are there also something fundamentally wrong if a woman isn't attractive? If she has saggy boobs or a disfigured face? Do they also "not love themselves" if they're nervous about it? Why put so much focus on defining the undesired men as fundamentally wrong incomplete humans that doesn't deserve anybodys love? It's similar to…
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:31 PM
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#6 Accuse random strangers of doing annoying things
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:04 PM
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Thanks. I completely agree with what you just wrote. Generally I also think the No More Mr Nice Guy-guy and Manson has good advice. However, if my story had been about a guy instead of a girl, the second to last line would have described their opinion very well. Perhaps not if they knew the full story, but if they saw it from the side or heard about him. But that's just it; you never know the full story. This guy; the one that you, me and OP have been/are does not need anybody telling him he's a…
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:13 PM
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The dude is a great listener and plays a caring role in the life of this woman. However secretly he just wants to fuck her .. and it's all a sham. Of course he wants to fuck her. There's nothing wrong with that. However, how do you know that's all he wants? Perhaps he's a great listener because he actually gives a shit. Too many people (especially in here) are very quick to morally accuse people they don't know anything about. Why the need to be morally superior? This is self-development, not a …
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:01 PM
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Women aren't as interested in looks as much as men. Read the side bar material. Sure, it's relevant, but it's not essential for most. What is essential, is that they see you as awesome. I'm by no means an expert, but here's the difference between "the schools" as I see it: 1) In Mystery the aim is to be seen as awesome 2) Models by Mark Manson is about being awesome 3) For Tyler it is a bit of both
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:26 AM
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Most of the PUA stuff is fraud and a scam. You have no idea what you're talking about. Of course Mystery and Tyler can help you get chicks. They have trained a shitload of people who vouch for them. I'm not saying it's necessarily healthy in the long run, at least not if applied the wrong way, but it does work. Build confidence: accept yourself for who you are with all of your flaws that you can't fix That is a shit advice on three levels: 1) It's the usual "just be confident, duh" bullshit the …
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:16 AM
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Googled it. Apparently it's some guy who made 67 steps to becoming succesful and wants to sell it to everybody. Like this comment says: If it's not worth stealing, it's not worth buying. Nothing he's made is on the Pirate Bay.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:34 AM
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Mystery, Strauss and others got plenty of girls by acting. A lot of people, also in here, think it's immoral while still accepting make-up, push-up bras etc. They are hypocrites who puts the pussy on a pedestal. Being genuine isn't a pick-up advice. It's a longterm relationship/life advice. Other than that, I completely agree.
/r/seduction14/12/15 10:00 AM
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Either way, you should know that dismissing girls for being shy - as this sub preaches - is a dumb, dumb ass move. Do this sub really preach that?
/r/seduction06/12/15 12:18 PM
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If I were a women, would I be happy if my guy had a good day because a) it makes him more attractive to me or b) because I care about him. If he told me about something that greatly hurt him would I a) want the topic to go away or b) appreciate that he shared this and understand him better. Yesterday, I just dumped my girlfriend. She's kind, intelligent, quite pretty, have a great humor, no sexual constraints and very much into me. But also an a). If I'm that type of woman, I wouldn't want to da…
/r/seduction06/12/15 11:15 AM
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She's probably doesn't want to feel used and dumped. Don't be that asshole. If all you want to do is fuck her, then make that clear to her.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:53 PM
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Guy upset with Mexican stereotypes: i have taken the maximum lazy route
/r/seduction23/11/15 07:35 AM
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A couple of weeks ago, I asked a girl I'm dating if she find small dicks unattractive (yes, I got the best lines). Answer: Yes. Then I asked if it was because of the penis itself or because he most likely won't be very confident about it. Answer: The last part Even if girls have an extreme lack of confidence themselves, they'll still judge you immediately if you're not completely secure in the situation - even if it's completely understandable. It's easy to judge them for it, but then it might a…
/r/seduction20/11/15 10:48 AM
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Translation: "I am not a leader. I expect her to make the decisions, couldn't man up when I disagreed and now I'm grumpy about it. I don't understand why she doesn't find this sexy." I know that's a bit harsh and not my actual opinion of you, but it might be how she actually thinks consciously/subconsciously. It's great if she wants to invite you somewhere. Don't be a control freak. But if it's turns out to be a shitty place, it's your responsibility to fix the situation without blaming anybody.…
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:56 AM
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All the guys writing so far are correct. You can probably do a lot by "lifting yourself up". However, to actually answer your question, one method might be to lay off porn. We humans are relativistic. If we're used to seeing extremely hot chicks on the net, then the ordinary chick will look like shit. If we're in prison with no access to any ladies, not even porn, then a glance at the ordinary chick will make you jerk off for hours.
/r/seduction19/11/15 11:29 PM
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I was hoping for advice on correctly hanging pictures up.
/r/seduction19/11/15 11:17 PM
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I'm by no means very experienced, but judging by the standard of a lot of other commenters neither are they. I have a lot going for me (above average looks, good humor, amazing job), but always got rejected after 1st date. Learning the basics have meant that of the last 6 dates there were three girls I said no to, one kissed from the 1st (and until I said no), one fucked on 2nd, the last fucked on 1st and I've been dating her for a couple of months. She constantly sends me nudes and will do anyt…
/r/seduction17/11/15 09:32 AM
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Who the fuck goes into a seduction fora with the attitude "don't overthink it and just be yourself" ? More and more people who have nothing figured out and haven't done the most basic research into social dynamics are coming here to splurt the same feel-good bullshit like "just be yourself" to frustrated men who have been fed it all before and are and are a lot worse off because of it. It is like a doctor prescribing a homeopathic treatment to a patient. It might not do any harm directly (althou…
/r/seduction17/11/15 08:21 AM
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Didn't he have LASIK? Why is he wearing glasses?
/r/seduction10/10/15 05:18 PM
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"GIRLS ABSOLUTELY LOVE VIRGINS" Why do you think the PUA's say their ability to pick up women drastically improves if they're seen with a hot girl? Other girls will think: wow, that guy must have something going for him. By telling her you're a virgin, you're doing the exact opposite. Girls have no desire for men, other girls aren't interested in. "good things come to those who wait" If you wait you'll get more and more frustrated and your lack of experience will matter more and more. You can st…
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:58 PM
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As before, you didn't do the most basic research. It already exists. However, I made a post in your honor.
/r/seduction02/10/15 08:25 AM
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If you're incapable of using a search bar you got bigger problems than being unable to flirt
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:14 PM
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Nah, it's an IOI
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:30 PM
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That's what I was after... :-)
/r/seduction01/10/15 10:17 AM
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Here, you forgot the '. Should I place it before the "s" or after?
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:09 AM
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The tricks the experts doesn't want you to know!
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:08 AM
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The Game is very much based on tricks and gimmicks. They can give you a great first impression but it doesn't really work for a long-term relationship. Or perhaps he's a perfectionist who hadn't found the right one. However, I think it's more likely because he didn't really want one. The goal changed. He's no longer Neil, he's Style. Getting a GF might mean giving that up. His new career, girls on demand and fame.
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:49 PM
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Yeah, either he's lying to you or he's lying to himself. I commented because you mentioned the opinion of your female friends. It can't hurt to know them, but they're not necessarily how things actually are.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:52 PM
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What girls say they're interested in != What they think they're interested in != What they actually react to For instance, a lot of them say they don't want a short guy because it's impractical to bend down when kissing. That excuse is pretty high on the bullshit scale. Instead, she might think his physical presence aren't particularly manly. However, if he breaks that assumption and becomes the life of the party, she might react by becoming even more attracted to him because he is short.
/r/seduction28/09/15 03:35 PM
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Marriages with househusbands are prone to divorce. Even marriages where the housework is shared are more prone to divorce. Career women, as well as women in general, might think they wants a househusband waiting at home for them doing chores, but that's not what gets their juices flowing. At least unless he can prove his maskulinity in some other way. They want to be fucked by a leader.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:13 AM
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Not 70% more like 30%, but I don't see a problem with it. We want to know how well this stuff works. When you say the remaining 30% value is one liners when he specifically says he doesn't do much in copy/pasta, you're the one sounding like a tool.
/r/seduction16/09/15 09:36 PM
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Most of the time, the self-reflecting leader will keep quiet while the alpha looking dude bursts out his immediate opinion. The project then fails, but everybody has forgotten about it or someone/something else is blamed. Alpha looking dude then gets promoted. However, though it isn't the norm, it is possible to have a strong presence and still be self-reflecting, listening, empowering and all that jazz. Among other things, by doing what you just wrote.
/r/seduction11/09/15 09:30 AM
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A lot of the typical problems in a company are caused by leaders who assume things instead of investigating them properly or delegate the decision. After they've made their assumption, it's difficult to backtrack because then they'll lose face. I agree, assuming attraction will probably get me laid. Assuming I know shit I don't know, will also get me that promotion (if the company isn't well-organized). That behavior shows me as a Boss. As an alpha. However, not necessarily a particular good one…
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:59 AM
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A pretty good post with sound advice. However, a lot of people confuse confidence with arrogance. This is a little off topic, but it got me thinking... I work with leader development. The humble leader that listens, admits mistakes, insists on the right decision instead of the popular one, empowers his people by stepping back etc. gets the superior results. He far (far) outshines the leader that leaves the most "alpha"/dominant impression. He's doesn't necessarily get the best rewards (at least …
/r/seduction10/09/15 11:15 AM
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She could ask "how many" and proceed to ask "why". Either way, it can be necessary to deflect the question or outright lie and this is ok. Especially at the start of your development where you're desperate for results to break the cycle of perpetual rejection and despair that some have (incl. earlier me). Other people, might not need this, but those that are truly in a shitty place do. However, dishonesty/deflection should primarily act as temporary training wheels. You shouldn't become them.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:27 AM
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You need to set fire to yourself
/r/seduction09/09/15 05:42 PM
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How is dealing with the question by deflection or tailoring the story to make myself look good less insecure than lying? In both cases, I filter my reply because I otherwise don't think she'll like me. And that filter is ok, we all adapt to make a good impression. And doing this, doesn't mean I'm insecure. It is how you're doing it and to what extent. Worrying a bit about other people's opinion is ok, but having it fill your head and influence how you perceive yourself is not.
/r/seduction09/09/15 11:43 AM
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Almost everyone wants to make a good impression. "True Confidence" proponents also wants this. Don't tell me they would work out as much, keep the same hygiene, pick the same clothes etc. if stranded alone on an Island. Nice guys appreciate when other people treat them well, so they (wrongly) think this is the way to go. It's also what they have been taught their entire life. They hear girls complain about their boyfriends' shitty behavior and their desire for "a sweet man" and who wouldn't want…
/r/seduction09/09/15 10:55 AM
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Lying may (or may not) be a dick move (which is why you're being downvoted), but there's no reason to assume it always is caused by insecurity. Like you say, sometimes it actually takes confidence to give a 100% bullshit answer. That being said, "confidence" is a bullshit and overly simplified term.
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:42 AM
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If a girl I just met asks me about past relationships, a completely honest me would say "I only had one, because I spent most of my life a shy and rejected man and later suffered from chronic pain I only recently got over"* A PUA might be able to say this in a way that would increase attraction, but the rest of us would get rejected by most women. Does this mean she won't like me "for who I am"? No! It means she will jump to conclusions based on the extremely limited info she's presented. Her op…
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:08 AM
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I read the same type of claim in Models (which otherwise have a lot of good stuff) , but it's still bullshit. It sounds smart at first, but is really really stupid when you think just 2 seconds about it. Let me see one of those "strong independent men" live just a few years with constant rejection and an increasing belief that they'll die alone and childless without having experienced love. Of course it would affect them! Even if it doesn't, you have to be pretty cold to not see how it would inf…
/r/seduction08/09/15 08:28 AM
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Think of your brain as a pc. With meditation you might be able to remove/add programs in your operating system, fix malware and viruses, remove unnecessary procedures for greater processing power etc. However, it can't change your operating system, hardware or the BIOS.
/r/seduction02/09/15 12:47 PM
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Being an introvert vs. extrovert is defined by how your brain processes dopamine which is set by your genes. I know many people think being introvert = social anxiety. This is essentially the same as saying being gay = depression. The statistically increased depression is a product of how the environment treats gay people and how they react to it, but it isn't the same thing. The depression can be treated without trying to force anybody to be straight. It's the same with social skills/confidence…
/r/seduction02/09/15 11:55 AM
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Your genes define how your body process dopamine and this defines where you lie on the intro-/extrovert scale. You cannot change this and neither should you. Being an introvert is awesome and you should own that shit. People telling you anything different are the mental equivalent of the "pray away the gay" people. Forget about those morons. An introvert might suffer from social anxiety due to being different from the norm, lack of social experiences or something else. This, however, can be vast…
/r/seduction02/09/15 11:29 AM
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I said a tardigrade a.k.a. a water bear. Girl didn't fully understand their awesomeness.
/r/seduction01/09/15 12:50 PM
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I always watch Scarface as a how-to guide
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:36 PM
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Introversion has nothing (directly) to do with social anxiety. It's based on your dopamine levels. If they're naturally high, you don't need as much dopamine-producing "action" and social stuff, but can actually get too much of it and will then need "recharge" alone. If you're extrovert, it's the opposite. You'll recharge in social situations and are drained by being alone. You're never fully intro- or extrovert but people lie on different places on the scale. Since the more introverted don't "n…
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:20 PM
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mom?
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:49 PM
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Does that count as intercourse (with watermelon) or masturbation if you're doing the NoFab?
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:45 PM
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Nah, even if I would do it for my buddy, I wouldn't do it for someone that doesn't appreciate it, let alone think less of me because of it. Also, it's not necessarily self-esteem these guys need. Isaac Newton, one of the most important men in history, died a virgin and would probably be scared shitless to speak to a modern woman. Does that mean he thought less of himself than Mr Alpha down at the docks who were confident with the ladies and had regular brawls because he needed to prove himself a…
/r/seduction25/08/15 02:05 PM
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Some people are just submissive. Some are afraid of women since they're desperate. Some (probably many) doesn't think they're degrading themselves - what trouble is it really to hold a handbag? Some think she asks out of real need (perhaps she needs her hands for some stuff and aren't doing a shitty test). They would help her just as they would help a friend. Some are madly in love and put her happiness above their own. Etc. Point being, there's no reason to assume they're all doing it out of ma…
/r/seduction25/08/15 11:12 AM
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Yes, everybody needs to live in celibacy until they reached true zen (like you), can deflect anything the environment throws at them - even bullets - and shoot fireballs from their ass.
/r/seduction24/08/15 08:02 PM
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Didn't watch it to the end. Traffic was too annoying.
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:48 PM
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That"s great. Thanks a lot.
/r/seduction24/08/15 01:00 PM
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Well, my long-term plan is to earn twice as much while working half the time. Can you tell me how to do that (without it involves sucking other dudes' dicks off) :-) On a serious note, I'd also like to better enjoy my surroundings and all the different stuff going on. I'm too much in my own mind and don't want all my memories to be "then I thought this and this". Looking at a sunsets, trees or horny birds is a bit too "mushy" for me though. On my next date, I plan on having us make up shitty sto…
/r/seduction24/08/15 12:20 PM
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Thanks, I'm making a list of the traits I want to develop and this is definitely going in.
/r/seduction24/08/15 10:40 AM
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I agree to everything you wrote. TRP has some absolutely valid points sometimes, but it's still a harmful place for most. As you say, there's simply too much negativity. I know first hand that negative thoughts breeds negative thoughts. If you frequent a site like TRP, SRS or similar and allow it to fill your head, it'll re-wire your neural pathways and make your default perspective negative. This also influences your chemical balance and a lot of other bad shit. You can do the opposite though. …
/r/seduction24/08/15 10:06 AM
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It's not as much about guys being genuinely kind as it is about how they are perceived. A "nice guy" can be genuinely kind, but if he doesn't show assertiveness or boundaries and is nervous, then women will think he isn't being genuine. The pick-up artists' solution to this is to stop being genuinely nice and fake their behavior. The True Confidence approach is to deal with the root causes so your genuine behavior looks attractive and simply walk away from the women who don't think so. Several p…
/r/seduction24/08/15 09:45 AM
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Being nice probably turns off women to the extent that they see it as insecure, pussy approval seeking. They can't necessarily tell the difference between genuine kindness/empathy and approval seeking though. Because of this, genuine kindness can hurt a nervous guy who doesn't know the game. Like everybody says, it's about how you do it. With enough radiant confidence, you can probably carry all her handbags, pay for her shit and listen to her problems while still looking badass.
/r/seduction24/08/15 09:15 AM
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If a guy lies about friendship and is extremely nice because he wants a relationship with her he is being manipulative/dishonest. He's probably in it for more than a fuck, but still ...I completely agree. At least if he haven't made his intentions clear. However, there are a lot of people morally judging nice guys on dates and I disagree that they're automatically dishonest/manipulative. If you, for instance, have been taught to treat the women in a submissive way, you're not being dishonest by …
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:31 AM
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You're stating stating what I criticized in NMMNG, but not addressing it. I don't think nice guys have an evil manipulative scheme. They're probably doing what they have been told to do (pay for the woman, listen to her, be understanding etc.) combined with how their relationship is with their friends. They might have been shy, but that is hardly indicative of evil intent. Perhaps they are not used to act on their needs and normally just follow their friends around. This doesn't automatically be…
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:11 AM
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A lot of people in here talk about "inner game" or Models putting focus on being the best you can be and then the women will automatically follow. Yet isn't someone like Bill Gates close to the best a man can possible get. If we define it by being "alpha", he has more power than any of us. If it's positive impact, there's no doubt he's the man. If maximizing own happiness is the important thing, he seems very satisfied with life. Similarly, Tesla and Newton are far far closer to being the best t…
/r/seduction23/08/15 11:59 PM
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TRP is an understandable, yet harmful, reaction from insecure/nice guys as they learn how things really are. Many of the popular books like "Models" and "No More Mr. Nice Guy" accuse us of only being nice to get laid and that our frustrations were because we think women owed us sex. This is (white knight?) bullshit. Most nice guys would probably say their frustration are because they've been taken advantage of. I maybe I'm just projecting my own experiences, but so be it. If you do something nic…
/r/seduction23/08/15 11:12 PM
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How about cemeteries?
/r/seduction20/08/15 10:32 PM
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Negative thoughts feed negative thoughts. If you over several years have focused on shame, insecurity, frustration etc., then you have adapted your neural pathways to think in that way. Even if you got the most beautiful girlfriend, you might still not be happy, because you've trained yourself to not be. This sounds bad, but it is actually very good, because this means you can change it. Each evening write at bunch of things that makes you happy, remember them fully and say each thing out loud. …
/r/seduction20/08/15 10:30 PM
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That is gay? Shit, I need some time for self-reflection.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/15 08:45 PM
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I am ill adjusted. I still have some degree of chronic pain and a shitload of frustrations. Yet my points are perfectly supported by all the stuff I've read here and in the books. They're just seen from a much darker perspective. As I get rid of the last pain and get more and more laid, this perspective will change. That doesn't make it untrue, but it's irrational to focus too much on it if I can avoid it. Negative thoughts feeds negative thoughts whether they're true or not.
/r/seduction19/08/15 12:49 AM
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Why do you assume I expected to get laid for being nice? Did I also want to fuck my friends and family then? I've read here and in the books, that too much kindness is punished. I assume they know more than me on this. "never invest more than the woman", "don't pay for her shit", "don't listen to her sob stories", "don't hear her opinion on where to go", "holding the bag fails the shit test", "reward good behavior with attention, punish bad" etc. I did all the shit I apparently shouldn't do. Now…
/r/seduction19/08/15 12:40 AM
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"Guys here" haven't really been trying to set me straight. You're making shit up. The last 3 girls were happy to date me. And my ex from a year ago (unfortunately) says she still can't stop thinking about me. She was one of those few who appreciated kindness and gave it back too, so I try to help her the best I can without making her dependent on me. You're just in denial because you're so used to getting preferential treatment that you take it for granted and see anything else as unjust. Callin…
/r/seduction18/08/15 10:47 PM
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Your attitude keeps proving my point. Now is the third time you called a man talking about years of chronic never-ending physical pain for "whiny". Have you any idea what that involves? Even if my conclusion were something you agreed with, I would still have had these problems and consequently been "whiny". No man would say the same to a woman in a similar situation. You'll deny it, but it's pretty clear that deep down you are disgusted by men you see as weak. Regardless, my point wasn't to "whi…
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:03 PM
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To you, I'm a beta. You just don't like admitting it. I didn't ignore the guy. I disagreed and explained why. I would have loved some intelligent counter-arguments, but instead you brilliantly confirmed the point I was making through your own shitty behavior.
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:00 PM
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If you don't care, then why reply? And why the need for personal attacks and boasting about not reading what you're commenting on? You seem to try too hard to prove you're an alpha. Remember the starting point? Your goal should be to become the best person you can be and to provide positive emotions to the people you encounter. I don't agree to this, but I understand you might do (...?) If so, how well do you think you're doing right now?
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:10 PM
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So sleeping together is doing something nice for someone...? I disagree but let's say she's only fucking to be kind and not because she wants to. By that argument, when I did something nice for girl, shouldn't she have acted nice in return (or at minimum appreciative) instead of punishing me for it because it apparently "lessened my value"? Life story rant: I wasted my youth getting rejected. I thought I had no chance with women, so I wanted to make a difference with my life. I got a job were I …
/r/seduction18/08/15 07:59 AM
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It doesn't matter what they speak. It's how they do it.
/r/seduction17/08/15 09:30 PM
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Why should it be my goal to provide positive emotions to women that would never have done the same to me? At least not in my earlier state. I go to great lengths for people who treat me right and don't see my former self as "weak". The rest, I owe nothing. I'm not advocating being an asshole. It'd be wrong to fuck-n-dump this shy and insecure girl, even though she told me how much she hated awkward guys (i.e. me earlier) and it would help me develop since I'm still too inexperienced/nervous. I w…
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:25 PM
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If she is really into you, she won't care. Yeah, and it doesn't matter if you're shy, haven't been with other girls, don't know how to play the game etc. Well, except she's not "really into you" if you just met. Of course it matters! It's not necessarily a deal breaker, but it definitely matters to some extent. "If she's really into you" is as bullshit as "don't worry, you'll meet the right one, it just happens" or "just be yourself". I agree that if you want something longterm, then don't lie. …
/r/seduction13/08/15 01:09 PM
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How was it growing up without a father? Would you prefer that he had been there for you, or are you glad he wasn't because, you know, Hitler?
/r/seduction09/08/15 10:48 AM
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What's your problem with cheese? Next thing you'll say I should clean my penis too...? Then were's the flavor?
/r/seduction07/08/15 10:21 AM
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