| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | This is not a date (analysis in captions) | LIES MEN TELL | minarabbit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 03:40 PM |
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| 9 | Testing your Boundaries vs Violating your ConsentI don’t think a HVM would test boundaries. Opening discussions to see if we are on the same page, yes. Doing something provocative to see if he can get away with it, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | TAKE UP SPACE, YOUR VOICE MATTERSYou have a point, and it’s upsetting that this is a double standard that men don’t have to think about. Maybe we can channel the Southern U.S. decorum and omit the above statements while speaking with a smile? It would be a step towards progress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 08:04 PM |
| 5 | TAKE UP SPACE, YOUR VOICE MATTERSInstead of, “I don’t know if that made sense,” try, “Do you have any questions?” Completely omit this apology. Ask your question. Chances are that others also want to know the answer, but are afraid to ask. Instead of, “If you’re sure that’s not too much trouble,” just say, “Thank you.” In the unlikely event that it is too much trouble, the onus is on the person who offered help, not you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 08:02 PM |
| 7 | I'm really interested in how society in your country/culture 'discourages interactions in social spaces'!“It’s completely normal to talk to strangers if you actually DO SHIT” This is it. Other women have approached me because they notice a logo on my shirt, or the design on my bag, and realize we have a common interest. This is a wonderful way to connect to people with a shared interest. Sometimes, men approach me for the same reason. It’s rarer, but I truly enjoy talking to people who like the same things I do, regardless of gender. The key is to share that interest. I don’t like when a man uses i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 09:01 PM |
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