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| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.For a while I stopped any activity but I keep being fit. And I used to be an athlete and gym enthusiast (at some point) , but honestly I surely find soft bellies (dad Bob) super nice and attractive. I actually don't find gym type of bodies attractive at all. I find it super weird. I find my partner honestly super hot. And is not because he is my partner cause before I even met him I was never this attracted to a man and he ain't no gym worm or athlete. I did had some dates with some of the "athl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?It honestly never bothered me a man expressing his emotions even if it meant he cries, I'm glad my partner doesn't need to hold his tears with me. What I can't stand is broken promises and empty words whose actions don't support what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Honestly the dude you answered is honestly creepy in his comments. Imagine only living to think of sex like there isn't other stuff to ocupy your mind and that girls using t-shirts and shorts or a swimsuit can't complain if men visually use them.... Because we all know summer comes and doesn't really matter what you dress, dress fresh is enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually biologically outnumber men from birth or do they just live longer?What I have learned in school is that there exists more women due to many factors but there are more male being born. I assume there is a higher death ration for males in very young ages. I honestly don't remember more and maybe this is obsolete information now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?You super right! Adding that the woman is still expected to sacrifice her life and career in case a child comes. Or that there is more likely to sacrifice herself for the family well being, (I only see success in places like Norway were things are equal between gender) not even speaking about the verified power game many couples still have especially in more conservative countries (which are A LOT) and how well liked it is for men to have a full time maid to bear children and tolerate them. Many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 14 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?Yep, I like your answer, some people fail to see they aren't good enough for good and great partners. And thinking all going to cheat, who guarantees us that that person wouldn't be the one to cheat?? after all if there is a saying that says 50% cheat so there is 50% chance he is a cheater too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?this surely was a funny post to read, I see very little benefits in being in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 14 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?You hit the nail. There is more reasons why a woman would not want a man that why a man wouldn't want a woman. God even on dates I used to go with the men I met (all types and shapes and backgrounds), I paid it all without any concern but god the way they spoke about women they wanted...housewife, good listener, kind, gives sex all the time they want, helps them through their difficulties, there for the sickness, respect them, not control or try to change them, allows them to have their free tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on the Crystal Jackson Situation?poor kids tho...imagine knowing your mom or dad do porn and other parents of our friends or our own friends see them. Plus as a consequence you get drag to the mud due to your own parents decisions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie.literally...well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 10:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.This is truly bad deal. Especially if one side knows this it will be scared or feel sad for not feeling special. One thing is say I stay with you because " I love you but there is always a woman I would rather have than you but is normal". Other is say "I love you and there is no one else to compete " The two are different commitments and come from different people. I was heartbroken for dating a man like the first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously?You just did not have very good girlfriends :) maybe there is a bad expectation for men to not open up but there are women out there ready to listen and help! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Sex dollsI still don't see the point in your comment. Who said I wanted a provider? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Sex dollsWhat's the point in that comment? Because I don't see how speaking about buying a robot has anything to do with it coming with a bank account... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Sex dollsDildos aren't gonna substitute a man or robot looking man.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Sex dollsWell then nothing to get worried. Besides living a black mirror world! I honestly would not get one. Is kinda scary the idea of everyone preferring a robot... Is like humans quitted to form connections with others in order to find the easy way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Sex dollsWell if that is the case I just hope there's a realistic sex robot for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Men are not and should not be responsible for a woman's safetyPeople own others the same security feeling you get from them, in women's case they still face a lot of issues in public that is a problem of his own kind. Men do feel unsafe too, and have problems such as fake accusations, random beatings, etcetera, I'm not denying them. I feel way more comfortable with a group of men I know around for a walk than no one..I had pretty traumatising experiences, more often than I wished to remember, for example the man that put on daylight his pants down and aske… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The value of the term misogyny -very confusedI honestly found him to have valid points, I think for example a pacific and lovely men wouldn't want a stuck in the ex with bad personality woman for a LTR. Regardless of gender, people with good core values would not want a person with bad relationship qualities or bad core values. Not all women are worth a good man because some women aren't good, some men are not worth a good woman because they aren't good men, there are so many possibilities.I do believe in give and get. If you give king tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 10:49 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.I was compared, so I assumed it was an expected behaviour for that to happen especially if the ex was special and overall better. I also know he had other preferable women, I'm somehow someone out his box so I guess getting compared was normal. But is my only and first partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Ideal body count for ltr/ marriage material women?usually yes, casual sex might be linked to harder commitment to monogamy, not saying is impossible, but it might not be easy to break the cycle of causality in commitment for a serious long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:23 AM |
| 5 | is it a dealbreaker is a man watches pornindeed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do?he was damaged goods, full stop. I'm not a repair shop, Gonna save this for myself, thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Why not be a sex worker in this day and age?I have an interesting article about sex and young people, don't know if I should leave the source. And I remember reading something about "The future". That men and women are less and less interested in sex, they hooked to the idea of sex, but years of pornographic exposition made them unable to understand what sex was and develop issues as PIED, death grip, anxiety, online dating issues (due to the fact there is much swiping but no connection, too much option), escalation of the consumed conten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 11:50 AM |
| -1 | Is there ever any point for a man to be emotionally vulnerable with a woman?Maybe culture plays a role, I'm portuguese and I date a french man and he is never ashamed to be vulnerable, is at times like those that we manage immediate issues that could one day explode, his emotional state of mind is extremely important . I must admit there are girls who prefer "manly close minded men" but the opposite also exists and isn't less masculine. At least I see my partner has a manly man a lot of times. I honestly don't mind his "feminine side" (my family men words, kinda annoyin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Is there any research on if humans are evolutionary conditioned to be monogamous/polyamorous?´this is very interesting! thank you for sharing :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized“my partner is settling for me” & "my partner will always want to upgrade”....this is sad. And it surely feels like is a competition and that nothing is certain. In other subs seeing people saying they settled and aren't very keen to their SO whilst their partners are all over them is very depressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 9 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?We can see the quality of men and some women. But the quantity of men that abandon their wife or girlfriends with kids to raise, at least in my country, is a daily occurrence. Example my own father who never gave us anything. The man that sees my sisters once a year and not even 1 euro gives and decides to show off to others how incredible my sisters are .... I cut ties years ago. Most of his friends are the same and some of my friends were raised by their mothers all alone. I see more "rent one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Could it be that RPers are just aiming for unattainable women?On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable. Considering the physical women expectations some men I know desire.....and the quantity of men that are married and say that this woman is their ideal one (not the wife), I guess is a plausible assumption that some feel they settle for the people they have. But since I don't know all men I can't know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 02:12 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W]Have you ever been a side chick or on a guys Roster?I'm on the same, I couldn't live making my partner feel that he needed to fight to feel secure and wanted by me or me not being the number one. I wasn't for a while in the eyes of a partner and the pain and insecurity ate me alive, I couldn't stop feeling he always preferred and desired someone else above me, which was the actual case... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Why would you chose to sleep around rather than look for a relationship first?My two cents, seems too hard and weird to me the idea of sleeping around, I don't want to give my body to that life and risk myself getting in an unpleasant situation or get a disease. I overall do not trust people when it comes to their intentions in relations and sex and during my teen ages I observed so many women and guys having problems with this life style and feeling always so lost to what they wanted, who the wanted and I didn't want that. I'm by no means hot or something, I'm pretty ave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 11:36 AM |
| 23 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.oh yes it does, is so attractive to see my partner bringing me a snack during the night all naked. his kindness is sooooo damn attractive too. oH DAMN and when he teaches me stuff it makes me melt and think where did I get this person again '?? 10 out of 10 would date again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 14 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Well I wonder, I heard people saying Ariana Grande was a 10 others saying she was a 3.....We really can't be that linear on ratings, plus even if is 1 person in a billion that see "an ugly 3" as a 10 is fine :) But of course is normal to disagree! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 96 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards." Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards." Honestly anyone should stop complaining including women. The problem isn't having high standards is people thinking they entitled to others whilst having nothing to offer, plus attractiveness is on the eye of the beholder, that 2 or 3 can be a 10 in someone else eye, there's tastes for everything, really. I want to add that if hot people meant they had any value as people then things would be very unbalanced. However fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | If older man go for younger women because they aren’t attracted to women their age, what do they do when that woman gets older?Good answer. Honestly they go for the visual. Younger is no guarantee of better sex or better or "better vagina", they just want the hit of saying they got to fuck a young hot chick. But I assume many might differ on this opinion of mine :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 10 | If older man go for younger women because they aren’t attracted to women their age, what do they do when that woman gets older?I guarantee you is the same for men. Many just quit on keeping looking nice, in fact I see man reducing their attraction and body figure considerably sooner than women, at least on my observation, when I spot a well preserved aged man I really feel surprised. Honestly is both fault in a considerate number of couples where attraction goes away, more specifically older couples (in age), both just drop efforts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, does it bother you when men say they don't want daughters? Men who WANT children but not daughters, what are your reasons?My experience on this is from 2 particular expressions I hear often. *Man and even some women speaking* "Turned from consumer to supplier" or "I was young and I know what guys do to girls". Some men can't accept that their daughters could get used by horny guys on puberty or hurt or molested or whatever it happens, others say they don't want a whore. Others said a woman is too much work. On the women side I heard they feel fear for any daughter they could have and not being able to protect the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 10:05 PM |
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