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I disagree. Being a free agent is INVALUABLE. Being beholden to no one is PRICELESS. Being able to associate and travel freely is CRUCIAL. And BTW, I'm a middle aged man, and I've been single and I've been married. Don't gaslight me. Single life wins, hands down. Being single is exhilarating and empowering, being married is like being a caged eagle. Let me be a free man rather than locked in a cage. There's plenty to be found in hedonism, namely dopamine, which is particularly useful for me beca…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:37 AM
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Strongly disagree. Marriage is a fraud. Casual sex was the best plan all along.
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:22 AM
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You gonna get this boy arrested! I'd think touching should wait until you've established that she is receptive to your flirtations.
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:57 PM
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Basically you're saying you don't want what you knowingly and specifically went and got. You're the one with issues, bro. Either choose to date her or don't. This is the lamest dilemma I've ever heard of. A man can date an Instagram baddie if he knows what he's getting into and doesn't expect the world. If you're looking for wifey material look somewhere else.
/r/seduction03/10/22 01:20 PM
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Porn.
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:38 AM
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This is a personal struggle of mine too. But here's what I know so far. A good way to start a conversation is with a GENUINE compliment. GENUINE is in all caps because it's super important. It can't be like you're just picking something random to compliment. It should be easy because there's already something you like about her, otherwise you wouldn't be approaching. Using a compliment also sets the tone that you're into her, instead of just making friendly small talk. So you could say something…
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:47 PM
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Say, "I sleep alone."
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:33 PM
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She's definitely looking for validation, whether verbal, or at the tip of your dick. The ultimate validation would be if you left your wife for her, especially if your wife was previously unkind to her. Once your marriage is officially over, I'd go get the pussy, but that's me. If you want any hope of saving your marriage, I would suggest you tell the cousin she is very beautiful, but you're not in position to be receptive to that. Encourage her to find someone else to entertain.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:36 PM
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If you genuinely prefer the conventional dating approach rather than just seducing them and inviting them over for sex, then it's not a matter of, "How long do you wait to kiss." The answer is you do it when the time is right. You escalate flirtation until kissing is the obvious next step. So it doesn't come as a surprise, but an organic development. I was seeing a girl who gave me a really hot tip about approaching for a kiss. She said, don't go all the way in for the kiss. Go 90%, and make her…
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:28 PM
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Best case scenario (in the context of a seduction sub like this) is you have already seduced her in text chats prior to getting together. Then, you don't take her out on a date, you invite her over to consummate the seduction (have sex). She comes over, maybe you have some drinks if needed to break the ice, but you both know why you are there and the physical interactions begin fast. Kissing and undressing begin simultaneously. Since I reentered the dating life 9 months ago in the wake of my fai…
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:22 PM
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More pu$$y? Seems obvious. I date multiple women and none of them have the time for a full-time relationship. Rotating among a few women who only have time for you once per week is a stress-free way for everyone to get their sexual needs met without bearing the full weight of a relationship.
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:49 PM
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Wow, u got that incel bitterness too.. I didn't talk down to anyone, I identified what I saw as a self-defeating attitude and shared some constructive experiential insight. You, however, rather than absorb its teachings, saw fit to dig into my commenting history and look for something to hurl at me. This is why you will fail. LOL OK so you got "likes" not "matches" because you refused to match them because they looked too good and you convinced yourself they were inauthentic? Granted, there are …
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:47 PM
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!
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:20 PM
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It's true that there is A LOT that any man or woman can do to improve their appearance, and their overall optics. And if you don't do those things, attractive women won't be into you because compared to them you will look like a slob with no self-esteem. Haircut, beard styling, manscaping, clothing style, hygiene, skin care, exercise and healthy diet, plus, just taking well planned photos like a model and photographer would. I can't stand when I report my success at online dating, and guys say, …
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:03 PM
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The problem with your story is that (1) you assumed these matches were bullshit rather than investigating them directly, and (2) Tinder allows you to match, chat, and fuck free of charge. Paying for premium allows you to spike your game a bit, but it's not necessary. My female best friend was on OKCupid yesterday and swiped right on a dude who said (among numerous other audacious things), "I only date cumsluts." Ironically, my friend, rather than scoffing and swiping left, laughed and said this …
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:54 PM
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Why "walk away" just because a woman is shallow? If she's gawkin on my chorizo she ain't talking! Get it in, get out, repeat indefinitely. When scheduling your week, give the hottest and most enthusiastic women top priority.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:45 PM
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You are over-generalizing your experience. I'm M/44/Michigan, and personally, I want sex on the first date. I read it as a show of interest, and a sign we are both on the same page as far as enjoying sex unapologetically. Using sex as a manipulation tool is about the least sexy thing anyone can do. What your past guys have engaged in is slut-shaming, which is so 20th century it's pathetic. Guys who can't handle women who are as enthusiastic about sex as the men are. The men lose manipulative con…
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:05 PM
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Making them wait assumes you yourself don't want to fuck. Get what you want, and do it without manipulating people. If you meet someone who wants the same things as you then you don't have to play with their mind to get it. If you're not totally compatible, at least get laid.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:14 PM
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You already said it in your post: self-improvement. There are YouTube videos on all of the following and more, so watch them: -How to project confidence -How to listen with empathy -How to win friends and influence people -How to tell great stories and be captivating -How to look your best -How to be witty in conversation -How to be sexy -How to flirt -How to style your hair/beard -How to lose body fat -How to eat healthy -How to care for your skin -How to dress well on a budget -How to seduce w…
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:10 AM
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Those guys just look like pussies and prepube boys to me. As a romantic interest, sure, women may swoon at their harmless relatability. But guys who are more masculine and less androgynous can walk in a room and make women bite their fingers and get wet on sight. I'm not trying to be the romance guy, personally.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:37 PM
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You're speaking to her brain, you should be speaking to her pussy. All the interview questions need to go. Talk sensually about the moment, or don't talk at all. Body language goes a long way.
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:28 PM
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Now, go dig out her guts, young man! 🧔👍
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:15 PM
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It doesn't matter if the mark thinks you're seeing the girl you are with. Might even help if she does think so. But the idea to project is that you have sexual abundance and attention from women, not necessarily that you are commitment-minded.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:14 PM
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I wouldn't think you'd want your lady friend standing side by side with you when you shoot your shot. You'd want her hanging in the background, waiting for you to come back. But, prior to your approach, your mark will have seen you interacting playfully with your lady friend.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:11 PM
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Jason Momoa is a sex symbol and far from androgynous. Dude looks like a caveman. The same type my wife left me for. Your absolutism is not going to convince me I'm hallucinating. Androgynous is a popular choice for the mediocre majority because it's safe. But the hypermasculine type jumps straight to the vagina, and gets the top tier of women. They're rare and dangerous.
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:14 AM
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Being the guy who brings the weed can be a real fast icebreaker. Dude sounds exactly like me, except I am not a video gamer. I've been doing pretty well on Tinder recently, despite being middle-aged, unemployed, broke, etc. I believe it's the confidence and vibe I project, 100% to come and not only when chatting with them, but from every word in my bio, and every pic I put up. Curate every bit of it to come off as fun and sexy. Don't show them a well-rounded picture of you.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:18 PM
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It's wrong to say most women go for that. It's one archetype among a handful that women really gravitate toward. Hypermasculine is another one.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah, I'm refreshing personified! For details, privately message me your selfie, or a link to your Tinder profile.😜
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:09 PM
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Your addendum makes perfect sense from the woman's perspective of a safety and reality check. Guys are just trying to get to the finish line without triggering any red flags, so if they can get a woman to come straight over, great. Otherwise, yes, she will need to do an irl vibe check. Though I have been able to bypass that by having a single phone call or video chat with her. Really, both parties should pass some sort of a catfish test early in the conversation. I usually send a body pic of mys…
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:24 PM
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I'm living on an air mattress in a friend's garage with no job and no money. I've been poor my entire adult life. The girls I fuck from Tinder never even need to know that. They're not asking what I do or how much money I have, because I'm not selling myself as a boyfriend or a provider. Normally I have them come over to my place, but these days I'm just like, "Let me bring over some beers, some weed, we'll chill." If you're better than average looking and still getting no play, you need to work…
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:34 PM
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I'm giving you the keys to the kingdom, and you're not willing to read it. Anyone can be better than average looking. It's in your control. You're just failing yourself by claiming futility and refusing to learn. Good luck with that! Midgets get laid. Disabled people get laid. If you're not willing to learn about how to create a vibe, You will be forever stuck asking yourself the question I used to ask, "Why them and not me?" I figured some shit out since then, but it's been 25 years. If you don…
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:25 PM
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I don't work out, quite sedentary actually because of multiple body pain issues. I hover around 183 at 5'10". I style my hair and beard in a way reminiscent of Keanu Reeves but overall I'm a dad bod with a belly and bad posture. I do look 100% better if I stand up straight and suck in my gut. I do not have any advanced muscle tone anywhere. However, I have noticed that if I stand directly under hard lighting, I can create the appearance of muscle tone as the natural curves of my body catch the l…
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:34 PM
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First of all, my looks are average, but I make sure that the pics I put up are all attractive and elicit a sexual response. A serious face says sex more than a smile or something goofy. I have passionate eyes, so I play them up in my photos, look at the camera as though to say I'm going to fuck you. But natural, not forced. The way you would look at a woman right before you lean in to kiss her. Or the way you would look at her during sex. Make sure the sexual fire is in your eyes, but it can't b…
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:03 PM
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If you put up some solid pics, and make it clear in your profile that you are only looking for something casual, then every woman who engages you in chat will be open to that outcome upfront. They just need a short conversation to make sure you're not crazy or lame. I keep light sexual innuendo and flirtations flowing from the beginning, and by the end of the first solid conversation, the sexual intention is established, and I can invite her over.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:41 PM
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I find your numbers to be arbitrary and exaggerated. After I eliminate all the matches that are obvious sex workers, probably half of my other matches end up coming over to fuck.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:14 PM
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Shit, why didn't I hear about this sooner? Is it generally true you can meet and fuck hot women driving Uber? Or do you have to drive in the bar scene and get party girls? Do you have to operate any sort of game or intentions toward them, or do they solicit you? Do you drive them home and they invite you in? Or do you pull over in an abandoned parking lot? Tell me all I need to get started. Assume I'm moderately attractive. I actually do well on Tinder, but my dick has been locked up in marriage…
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:02 PM
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It will have to do with what your first message is, and whether it captures her attention among all the other men also hitting her up. Good to study her profile first, and say something that will speak to her particular personality or interests. Asking a question that touches on her interests is harder for her to ignore than anything ending in a period.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:55 PM
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I will tell you the women want the casual sex too. They just have higher standards than the men. If you are below a certain desirability level you will be left out. Key is to work on yourself and to put effort into making you profile look exceptionally appealing.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:50 PM
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I do quite well on Tinder, but I'm in my mid-40s. Yeah, your young age probably has a lot to do with it. Women tend to look for men older than them generally, and you're not older than many. Otherwise, it might be something about your profile or your approach, but I can't see it so that's just speculation. Just remember that the best looking girls have many more guys hitting them up than they can respond to, so if you expect a response, you better say something more than just "hey." Starting wit…
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:46 PM
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I'll make sure there is a sexual vibe going prior to the meetup, so you both know what's about to go down. Then you can just go ahead and make your moves without hesitation, like in a porno.
/r/seduction05/06/22 10:49 PM
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A professional catfish? A cyber Cyrano De Bergerac? I could probably do it, but what kind of dates are you looking for? I typically just get them to come over DTF. And I wouldn't just hand over my Tinder profile, in case you'd attempt to clone it. Pay would have to be handsome because I'd be neglecting my own pursuits while attending to yours.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:28 AM
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Incorrect. I'm recommending him because his videos have been invaluable to me as an average dude. And he does not have God level genes, he was a little nerdy dork when he first started his videos. He transformed. That's why it's so powerful to follow and listen to him. He shows what is possible for anybody who puts their mind to it. It starts with the attitude. And it can't be an attitude of futility.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:58 PM
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Gotta get yourself together, man. Check out "Austin Dunham Vlogs" channel on YouTube. He will help you become the best version of yourself so you can attract women effortlessly.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:40 AM
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So what you're saying is, you've been getting rejected by lots of fat and ugly girls, and it's frustrating you? Listen, on the dating apps, even the fat or homely girls are being hit up by countless desperate guys telling them they're beautiful and sexy. That can definitely cause them to get an inflated sense of their dating market value, even if those guys would most likely just hit it and quit it. Just work on yourself, and raise your standards, and you won't have to worry about being rejected…
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:38 AM
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Both are important, and fortunately, both are things that you can do something about. But I have fairly average looks, and a dad bod, and I'm still reeling in some hotties ranging in age from 19 to 44.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:23 AM
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C'mon man, Maybe you just need to work on yourself a little. Check out "Austin Dunham Vlogs" on YouTube for massive inspiration. He teaches men how to be sexy, confident pussy magnets. His teachings have worked wonders for me. No lie.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:15 AM
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No drought here.. Quite the opposite. I only got on Tinder last October when my wife asked for divorce, but it has been very good to me. The other apps, not so much. I'm new in town, but rapidly assembling a solid FWB network.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:11 AM
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It's not about conveying emotions. It's about eliciting them.
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:08 AM
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People just want to get laid, simple as that. Looking for the best strategies to do so. Nothing nefarious, just human nature. Everyone wants to up their game. Asking why a guy gets into redpill is like asking a woman why she gets into makeup. I'm not sure why red pill has such a bad rap in some communities. It's about figuring out what women want and upping your game to become that. If anything, women should love it. But because it's sexually motivated it must be demonized as toxic masculinity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:00 PM
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The best general advice is this: don't scrutinize what girls care about most. Build yourself up to your optimal level on EVERYTHING so you will be the total package. Looks, income, grooming, style, posture, gait, teeth, skin, personality, voice tone, skills, social cred... Every bit adds up to your total attraction value. If you can improve on any of those categories, do it! And keep doing it forever!
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:18 PM
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I guarantee he would be up in you in a heartbeat. He probably assumes you would never be into it. Just give him the slightest opening and you will be moaning in minutes.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:46 AM
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People will give you lots of feel-good advice, but if you really want to aspire to be a 10, be someone who lives at the gym 4+ days a week, and has an overall active lifestyle. Master your personal style, grooming, makeup, and even things like the tone of your voice, your posture, and the way you stand, walk, and carry yourself. Try to be more feminine and less androgynous. Actually work on it diligently and you can actually become that super sexy goddess that 99% of men will drool over. There i…
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:57 PM
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A girl at a party once gave me her number totally unsolicited written on a scrap of cardboard. It was after we shared some laughs playing with a Pee-wee Herman doll. Hot sex was inevitable.
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:07 AM
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