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Thanks. I'm not tall lol, but I stay skinnyish so I look tall from a distance. It's a look that only seems to work after a certain age. Guys usually make fun of me or shit on my confidence with girls ("he won't use his dick forever lololol) bc I look like a bitch to them, but I'm starting to get stubble and shit (yay late bloomers) so with some patience and fappage as is needed I will look substantially less bitchy relatively soon. Esp given the fact my hair is now thinning at a disturbing rate
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:32 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/sbS208M.jpg FYI that's what I look like
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:22 AM
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some of us, even unattractive, have no choice but to develop social skills fact is, you either wanna get laid bad enough to make it happen or you just whine about the fact that you can't forever. imo.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:19 AM
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That doesn't mean changing should not still be the goal. Honestly I cannot be satisfied with myself unless I fix the shit. I might as well die if I don't
/r/seduction13/04/19 01:32 AM
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my dude!!!!!! im on the exact same train
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:26 PM
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and dude i'm not even playing with a full deck, as a result of so much stress and bullshit i went through even to get to where i am NOW
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:25 AM
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in your opinion, that is
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:25 AM
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well you said college girls dont care about looks so much .. ok thats good but i look like this https://i.imgur.com/4V4ORXy.jpg and i know i look like shit atm cuz im just getting stoned a lot and being stupid and sorta giving up at life, but i mean....do i even have anything to work with??
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:25 AM
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so what is it that makes them not care so much about looks then? they just want a decent confident dude, good dick and free drinks right?
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:51 PM
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they say im weird and you know what the reason they think i'm weird (girls i mean) is because i cant tell whether they are seeing me from the potential-guy-i-could-fuck frame or the little boy frame . so i get all anxious about it and it makes me seem weird but, maybe that shit doesn't matter and all that matters is if i actually bust a move or not or i just need to be Better Looking (tm) olol who knows
/r/seduction08/04/19 05:19 PM
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with college babes looks are like the ONLY thing that will get you laid.... so i've taken to jerking off incessantly until i lose my hair and actually am able to shave and look like charles manson, then i'm gonna grow some shit on my face, get a better haircut, and look way better and probably more fuckable. you see, my hypothesis is that if the girl isnt in any way threatened by you, whether its that you look intimidating/manly whatever, your fuckability goes down. i believe you should err on t…
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:58 PM
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only works if you actually look good yourself
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:57 PM
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i look like this https://i.imgur.com/SMISPb0.jpg so pretty sure she doesnt want to fuck me, she just comes off as condescending when she isnt being nice and i think the niceness is fake she has a guy, and a guy who probably looks better than i do god dammit i fucking hate my god dman life. it doesnt matter how hard i work, how much i bust my ass, i still look like shit, i still get the same shit, theyre not about it, what the fuck does a guy do . i need to be a FUCKING TOP MODEL WITH MUSCLES and…
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:02 PM
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Elaborate plz
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:11 AM
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you know its all about limiting beliefs. this cartoon (or the concept behind it) is starting to change my life: ​ https://d1ejxu6vysztl5.cloudfront.net/comics/garfield/1982/1982-01-19.gif ​ if you go in right from the get go with the expectation it will be shit, it will be shit...if you just are meek and passive and feel like you can't express who you are to her. or limiting beliefs that are rooted in a self-hatred complex or an old ego complex or a complex of "i won't be good enough until...". …
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:21 PM
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yeah, its a shit job. shitty abusive manager and shit. food service. tbh, if i line something else up, i literally believe that managing to bang a girl i work with (then dumping the job) would be better for my confidence and mental health than staying there, just keeping to myself like a bitch and hating my life. the journey overall is what matters ya feel
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:07 PM
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sounds good. yea. i'm at a stage where i can't tell if girls are flirting with me or they are about it or not. i know girls are shy and more subtle tho. ​ i work with several hot girls. i know about the shit where you eat thing. the one girl gets red sometimes when she talks to me or when i smile and make eye contact with her, the girl i mentioned is cool and nice and chill with me, the third is kinda the same. i just dont know whether i am seeing things that arent there. but it doesnt matter at…
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:05 PM
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that's my stoned look on my face. oddly enough, girls like me more when i'm high (unless they know im high) because being high helps me be carefree and funny and smiley and shit, when normally the demons that typically plague the Hard Case Newbie(tm) would be making me fuck up and look like an idiot. well, even more of one, anyway. however - i am well aware that is NOT the answer. it's a band-aid, if anything. because a lot of the shit you do while high is complete bullshit to cover up the fact …
/r/seduction31/03/19 01:53 AM
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well, i'm 5'6", 5'7" on a good day, 6.5" shlong, $23 in the bank account and i look like this https://i.imgur.com/SMISPb0.jpg so if i accept myself and have a genuine confidence i should do just fine .. rite? rite.
/r/seduction30/03/19 07:15 PM
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even better for me was getting aroused by real women again, and having that sort of spill over evidently into my interactions with them, which is the foundation of pickup. if you channel it properly it can help you come up with stuff to say or kind of guide the interaction. i'm pretty sure they can feel it too when you're in the zone. you can strategize as much as you want but i believe that nothing turns girls on more than the guy who blatantly shows that he wants to take charge. it's getting t…
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:56 PM
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her laughing and tryin to hide it is ?
/r/seduction29/03/19 11:58 PM
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big eyes, like stifling a giggle, cover her mouth, etc
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:14 PM
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i get the hair preening stuff a lot. youre right, i think it means they are trying to look pretty to give you a signal to come talk to them i'm not the best looking guy, but yknow what guys worse than me still probably get laid than me so everything now is excuses since ive actually been with a couple girls. strategy
/r/seduction27/03/19 08:53 PM
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alright. i think next time i see her i;m just gonna go in a funny way "do you come here often?" and it should flow from there. like i can FEEL it man. a, she smiled at me twice, b, she is sitting near me so she obviously likes being near me
/r/seduction27/03/19 08:35 PM
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it's like, i see girls in class looking at me, in fact, there's a girl who has started sitting near me and/or in front of me and sometimes she just turns around to stretch or something and smiles at me. she's done it twice now. now because i'm an idiot i am slow at this stuff but i take it that subtle shit like that is how a girl communicates that she wants to get to know you? very rarely will a girl actually open the convo and of course there's a part of my brain that is always telling me i loo…
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:14 PM
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why? i'm 12, college girls don't want 12 year olds
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:59 PM
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i do not believe i will be successful with girls until i have a beard tbh
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:58 PM
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honestly i don't think jerking off is entirely the problem. it can be A problem, but i don't think it is THE problem, unless it is. if that makes sense. if you just jerk off to porn all day every day yeah that's probably not good. if you jerk off when you feel like it because you feel good, that is good. and until you're getting consistent sex it helps mental sanity a bit . or you can abstain, which is a black magic i try on and off once in awhile too. makes you extremely focused but also more v…
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:16 PM
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yeah i know what you mean its because as soon as you feel sorry for youself you give yourself permission to start doing self sabotage and bad shit again, and then that just fuels it. i've almost gotten to the point where it's gonna have to be like a light switch, shut the old me off and turn the new me on, out of the old and into the new ya know
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:10 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcrhwatDkUM my personal takeaways for the three key points in the title (through my own journey thus far) have been: depression - you are most likely to be the cause of your OWN depression, via neglecting your health, excessive escapism, excessive self-pity. abundance of reaction rather than abundance of action (trust me, i was in a phase where i was just like a little baby with my mouth open, i couldn't do or say SHIT) . also, excessive attachment to unrealistic …
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:59 PM
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the hardcase newbie guide and some of julien's vids about present to the moment have helped me a lot. being healthier helped me (exercising, eating good shit and not bad shit). a firm kick in my ass helped me a lot, quitting cyberporno helped me a lot, practicing socializing with people even if what you say is rehearsed, test people to see what kind of reactions you get. push and pull exercises, on girls, guys, your boss, your prof, etc. i'm FAR from where i need to be but i think i can safely s…
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:50 PM
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yeah...for instance, i was at a rave thing one time when i was stoned and moving like crazy, and i had a girl get up on me and start grinding on me. this was actually during an even more socially fucked up phase for me and i was doing this shit for fun and to get out of my comfort zone. but part of my brain couldn't even process what was happening or ALLOW it to happen. like how Julien was saying when you're in the fucked up phase you can't "let it land"...shit like this, a compliment, a smile. …
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:48 PM
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well hey, i was the same way, and that's why i'm here :) and proud to be!
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:41 PM
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yeah i've been with girls who smoked weed haha. and they're usually cool and horny. for me it was basically that since i was using getting high to act like a different person to get laid, that shit is of course forgotten and you don't really learn the lessons you need to. tyler mentions this conundrum, again, almost as if speaking from experience. you get sober and you feel like a zombie, almost paranoid, like something is extremely wrong with you because you are polarized from the extreme elate…
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:25 PM
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hey man, thanks for the reply. idk, i grew up weird. more like dragged up, it feels like sometimes. a lot of weed smoking, a lot of fights with my parents. moved out at 20 and lived in shitty apartments and have worked dozens of shitty jobs. did bad with girls still then because i was just still growing up. now i feel like i'm kinda where the average 20 or 21 year old guy is, just at the crossroads now since i'm a late bloomer. so i've had high school kinda girls, though brief and wasnt good sex…
/r/seduction23/03/19 02:16 AM
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