mindshift42 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Girl wants to re meet but am different? Nah, fam. You good. Srsly. Go for it.	/r/seduction	11/01/21 12:42 AM
2	How to seduce an older man in a professional setting as a younger female? mid forties here. Looks, you want the sexiness to be subtle, not blatant. As for personality, he needs to know you have a plan (for your life) and are actively pursuing it. Be strong enough not to need a man, but still want one. Turn-offs: basic, back-stabby, dishonest, catty bullshit. If you are doing that to others, you're gonna do it to him. Be about positively pursuing a strong life for yourself. That should indicate that you are capable of handling a mature, lasting relationship.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 10:02 PM
1	“I’m confused. You’re really hot but you act very feminine” I disagree.	/r/seduction	20/09/19 03:38 PM
2	“I’m confused. You’re really hot but you act very feminine” You are probably a care-free person with an easy sense of humor, 90% of the time. That's great at home, about 40% of the time. In public, cut that back to about 10-15%, at most. You can say the same things, just do it with a straight face, and a calm, collected tone-of-voice. That takes practice, but very worth it. She wants a man with a sense of humor, but she wants the humor for herself. She will not risk being with a man that might "embarrass" her in public. Calm, collected, keep it just for …	/r/seduction	20/09/19 06:42 AM
1	Is reddit just full of young dumb and full of cum boys? Reddit is an accurate approximation of society ...so, yes.	/r/seduction	17/08/19 05:04 PM
2	If someone says "are you trying to chill sometime and kill sometime" what does that mean? Chill some-time = hang out. Kill some _ time = fuck. Go getchu some.	/r/seduction	25/06/19 07:51 AM
1	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. Yup.	/r/seduction	28/01/19 03:18 AM
2	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. okay, so, the human psyche is largley dualistic in nature; spiritual/practical, structural/creative, masculine/feminine, animalistic/intellectual. knowing yourself is the key to happiness. In seduction/game, the straight-forward, practical/masculine/animalistic is what is expected, and consequently, the most effective. And I do mean expected. The women that are there to play are expecting that alpha persona. They aren't there to talk about their past or future or how they feel about it. More oft…	/r/seduction	27/01/19 06:37 PM
1	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. (sry for late reply, will reply later today)	/r/seduction	27/01/19 04:01 PM
9	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. I feel ya, bro. (just deleted a 5 paragraph response) Short version: You struggle with rewarding Physical or Intellectual instincts. Physical rewards is the seduction game. They want it. You want it. Everyone wins. Intellectual rewards is actually getting to know someone, caring, and helping people through their struggles. Choose your reward, play accordingly. FYI, fortune favors the bold.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 03:35 PM
1	Hottest girl in class gives me her number to study then doesn't text back... don't make a mountain out of a molehill. understand that she is just as nervous as you, possibly even more so. you initiated, so you are on track. be friendly, but not a total push over. when you get a chance to talk again, a simple familiar greeting, then, we're still on for study, yeah? if yes, all's good. if hesitant, perhaps suggest either a public place for study, or a study session with more people. give it time, my friend.	/r/seduction	13/09/18 03:06 PM
1	On the way to make out, help 2 drinks, maximum. Most solid advice on such short notice: if she was going to take control, how would you want her to be? I'm not saying, how do you think she wants you to be. You'll get totally lost with that train of thought. What actions would tell you that she wants you, respects you, and has an actual tentative plan to please you? Hold the door open. Be proud to be with her. Be coy & playful. Dont rush it, but when she makes indicators that she's ready, give her a path/plan to follow. No g…	/r/seduction	13/09/18 01:41 PM
2	Went on a date for the first time in over 2 years. What did I do wrong? This. Unless the online site was Match or eHarmony, she was tryna bone.	/r/seduction	07/09/18 06:05 AM
2	The way girl was acting made me convinced that we will hook up, but rejected the kiss at the end. It feels crazy, but I promise you we've all been there. I think, for this situation, it's most important to realize that neither of you are experts. There is no master plan, positive or negative. Nobody knows what's coming around the next corner, and every single one of us is just making it all up as we go. That's just true. She is probably more confused and distraught about it than you are. What should you do? Recognize the molehill as a molehill, and not a mountain. Be calm. A few helpful phra…	/r/seduction	16/08/18 10:35 AM
3	Virgin because I’m hideous and I don’t leave the house because of it.. We have all answered that question...several times. Your looks are fine. This self-doubt is crippling you. YOUR LOOKS ARE FINE. done.	/r/seduction	13/08/18 10:01 PM
2	Virgin because I’m hideous and I don’t leave the house because of it.. this is the second time we've been through this. Your looks are fine, but there's no life in the photos. The picture needs to say, "these are the things i do in my life and I hope you want to join me." Standing, waiting for a train. Sitting, on a train. ffs, DO SOMETHING!!!	/r/seduction	13/08/18 09:56 PM
3	Virgin because I’m hideous and I don’t leave the house because of it.. If you're here for a pitty party, you're not gonna get it. Your looks are just fine. Srsly. What is attractive in people? A sense of life, of direction, personal fortitude. When you see them, it's like a breath of fresh air. There is gentle power in their eyes. They are not swayed or discouraged by the challenges that are guaranteed by just being alive. Stop looking for someone else's life to cling onto and go build your own. I'm telling you this because that's what it took to wake me up. Wake u…	/r/seduction	13/08/18 09:47 PM
5	Pay to play? i don't think this is the right sub for that.	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/08/18 10:07 PM
1	Why did these girls act like this at work? you don't realize how much women talk/think about sex. Especially when they go out to drink, they are probably wondering how big your dick is. Sounds crass, but it is soooooo true. (15 years a server here) They probably laughed cuz they were talking about it when you looked, and they felt "busted". Don't sweat it, bro.	/r/seduction	11/08/18 07:13 PM
3	Girl sends nude pictures but won't respond to me? "meet up now." suggest a time and place. have a plan. with room for adjustment. own it. go for it.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 02:39 AM
0	Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic? ur pic is fine. For facing personal insecurity, 12 Rules for Life -Jordan Peterson. Read before the date, if you can. Sincerely, good luck bro.	/r/seduction	30/07/18 11:28 PM
5	How to snapchat girls? on Snapchat, humor and intrigue are your best friends. laughs first. then anything that will make her raise an eyebrow. also, show things that require 2 or more people; games, projects, hobbies, etc. interest her in doing together things. go from there.	/r/seduction	16/07/18 09:56 PM
3	Confused about a Tinder date I had likewise. :) cheers.	/r/seduction	12/07/18 02:38 PM
5	Confused about a Tinder date I had a valid perception. I draw my conclusion because she's 30. She's no rookie, and most likely, has refined her taste. I have failed this test at least twice, and passed with flying colors a few times. Mine is not a definitive answer, just...i guess, a "researched" one. Women, especially in 30's, are a wiley bunch. ;p	/r/seduction	12/07/18 02:23 PM
8	Confused about a Tinder date I had yup, she gave you the Alpha test. She, most likely, is hungry for a specific type, the natural alpha. She didn't see it. Let her go.	/r/seduction	12/07/18 02:00 PM
3	17 Tips How To Win a Girl Heart To Love You tl;dr 17: Love her for who she is inside and outside. Show you love for her - this is the most important thing. She must have evidence in the form of your behavior, that you care about her and that you love her.	/r/seduction	20/06/18 03:23 PM
41	Here's how to deal with any and all shit tests that women throw at you. tl;dr: have-, or at least portray that you have-, your shit together, and you will pass every does-he-have-his-shit-together test. this article has solid advice. would also be worth xposting to /r/howtonotgiveafuck	/r/seduction	11/02/17 07:41 PM
50	THE SECRET TRUTH ABOUT LEARNING GAME tl;dr-(from the chapter starting with "Finally") : "...the reason that scripted techniques and routines seem to work is primarily because of the confidence they instill in the person reciting them."	/r/seduction	27/12/16 06:28 PM
1	From "seeing" to gf For a woman to commit, she needs to see long term security. Are you pursuing real life goals? Are you genuinely passionate about what you want in life? Are there things you can accomplish together? Your life can't be about the girl. You have to have a life that she wants to be a part of. (that's the reason confidence works on women people...because they see someone who knows what they are doing and where they are going) hope that helps. :)	/r/seduction	28/09/16 02:30 PM
3	I am afraid I answered this question wrong. Was this a shit-test? depending on the look in her eyes after your reply. if she looked down and away, means she already did it. if her eyes had curiosity or satisfaction, you're in the clear.	/r/seduction	24/07/16 03:10 PM