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Frame is basically being or appearing unmoved. It`s okay to express emotions, but the effect should be to show you`re in control of them not vice-versa. But in this scenario, I`d focus on my health more.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:13 PM
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"Meeting up." ​
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:20 PM
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Oh I didn`t know that. Tho I wont bring flowers I`ll definitely take your advice.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:46 PM
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Is talking less a good move?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:41 PM
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She`s not a plate, she`s my girlfriend. I guess its an unavoidable situation by now, I cant keep cancelling forever.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:41 PM
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True, I should switch to what I think of them not vice versa
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:39 PM
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Bring flowers? It`s never that serious
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:41 AM
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One thing about the human heart is it`s NEVER satisfied. That`s why we have to practice being content with what we have.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:57 AM
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Desire and attraction isn`t negotiated. Simply put she`s attracted more to your friend than you. Read The Rationale male.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 10:48 AM
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She either will break or is trying to move you into a relationship. She probably wants the talk. Just know that evading the talk will eventually lead her to break
/r/askTRP21/11/18 10:39 AM
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What has the RedPill become? The fact that people think communicating feeligs is beta is ridiculous. Bro, hit him up and talk. If I ever fell out with my friends, i`d always be willing to talk.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:01 PM
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The problem isn`t your game, it`s your mentality. What`s the point of having a beach body yet you mentally think you arent the prize? Start thinking you are first.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:52 AM
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Look at her actions not her words. She`s telling you she doesn`t want to lose you but is acting different from the fact. Just continue holding frame. By the way, too much dread game is bad to your relationship, if she thinks you`re doing it too much, stop it!
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:51 AM
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Answer this? What's more important saving money or social life? Trust me you'll have alot of it in college. Besides, social life isn't only on the weekends, learn to weed out the unnecessary
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:15 PM
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Read the Book Of Pook, written in a very simple to understand format. You won't be back here after reading that book, trust me
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:13 PM
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Ignore, change the topic. If she brings it up again, tell her she was the 100th best
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:12 PM
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Personally, I don't believe in counseling. These are people who are paid to listen to your problems, so how authentic can it be. The drive should come from you first, others can only help to find it, not make it. What do you like doing? Any passions? Nurture the above Read the 48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:11 PM
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That's a comfort test. Ignore or change the topic next time
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:08 PM
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My plan is not actually telling her anything, just telling her sorry and that's it, change of topic. Cause unless I find a believable excuse, anything I say will be digging myself into the mud.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:47 AM
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I did, but I was wrong, I didn't get all the facts
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:21 AM
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Noted
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:19 AM
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To be honest, I'd rather say that I wasn't the one with my phone than bring up infidelity.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:01 AM
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She doesn't know it was because of that, I gave her no reason actually. I just told her it was over and ignored her texts and calls.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 10:34 AM
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In those texts she didn't give a reason to, I'm having my doubts, my gut tells me I'm wrong for breaking up with her. This sucks
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:34 PM
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I broke up with her. Simply told her that this isn't working out, she also left there things at my place, told her to pick them up at a mutual friends place
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:33 PM
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She didn't flirt back, but the fact that she talked to an ex without telling me, that made realise everything. I broke up with her.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:26 PM
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I broke up with her
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:25 PM
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I am gaming other women, I won't pretend like nothing is happening, I'm not like that. I have to get the facts. I won't confront her, but if I ask her if she talks to an ex and she lies, I don't need anything more, I'll exit right there and then.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:23 PM
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What I've gathered so far is she's been with other guys before me and her last relationship was a year ago. Possiblity she's still rebounding?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:14 AM
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Elaborate.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:47 AM
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Better than making a decision without any facts
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:19 PM
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Don't react until you get all the facts, which you will by meeting her.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:50 PM
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TRP doesn't say you shouldnt open up to a woman, just don't do it in a way it shows you can't handle it. A captain of a ship is meant to stay in control even if the waves are rocking every side. Basically, be vulnerable but not to the point where it shows you don't have the strength to handle it
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:47 PM
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You have nothing to worry about, 10 days won't do anything to your gains. It's usually after 3 weeks
/r/askTRP18/08/18 06:59 PM
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She brought up the exclusivity talk a couple of times. I always ignored, cause I wasn't sure yet. She was always asking if I was fucking other girls,etc. Eventually when I was sure, she asked again and I decided to commit.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:30 PM
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We were FWBs before we got into a relationship, The relationship has been for three weeks now. I'm guessing she actually doesn't have anything to do lol. I admit her talking to other guys is what's irritating me. Abundance mentality is covered by two things Getting new girls Knowing how to manage relationships. What's the point of me spinning plates for months/years when I don't know to handle a relationship?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:50 AM
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has she asked you for commitment? Is she the one one who brought up the exclusivity talk? If not, she might be wanting the benefits without the title
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:25 AM
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insecurities i guess, trying to change it.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:19 AM
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What do you mean "blew her chance?"
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:56 AM
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Keep it minimal, don't bombard her with texts. Also the how was your day thing gets boring really fast. Let her miss you also.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:55 AM
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What self-esteem?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:58 PM
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Damn, just realized this isn't a shit test. Basically told her an artist was a certain age and it turns out the said artist isn't. Lmao.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:54 PM
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Never say this, this will backfire badly on you, from experience
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:47 PM
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True, thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:35 PM
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Plausible but probably not, as I said, my best friends are in the group, they'd have told me if they were talking about something like that
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:41 PM
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Lol, "beta" guys still get girls dude.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:31 AM
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I've decided I'll let it slide, cause I know I'll definitely be invited. So it's a non issue to me, I've realised finding why I wasn't added is only driving me deeper into being beta.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:14 AM
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Just wondering if it will somehow damage my SMV if im not added, yet my girlfriend is there
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:22 PM
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Damn, I don't know if I'm just overthinking. All I can do right now is just hold frame
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:06 PM
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How?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:05 PM
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How does it not make sense?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:05 PM
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So you're not going to be watching movies with girls because they're beta? Interesting.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:28 PM
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Dude, you have to have very fragile masculinity to think watching a movie is beta.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:06 PM
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Makes perfect sense. I should stop compromising
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:49 AM
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What the....
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:42 AM
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Lol, you're right, my insecurities ruin so many things for me
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:01 PM
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The key is balancing BP traits and Alpha. Being too Alpha to anyone will only show that you're only good short term. Soft next her then reach out later
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:37 PM
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I guess that's another factor that lead to my decision, the other girls were attractive but were just full of red flags to be anything than a plate. I was wrong in being too fast in the decision what I know is she has a lot of green flags
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:36 PM
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So you're saying there's nothing to look forward to in this LTR?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:06 PM
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Power dynamic?How? I committed because her green flags were more than her red flags, plus she brought up the talk 3 times before I committed.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:56 PM
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We fucked two months before LTR, she popped The Talk 3 times before I decided I would commit.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:47 PM
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Plates will sometimes eventually want commitment. And if they see that you are not up for it, they start detaching themselves from you. Once a woman does that, it's already over. Possible scenarios here: 1. She saw you didn't want commitment.( Most likely one) 2. She found someone else who wanted to commit to her. 3. Found better dick. I'd say you handled it very well. In each case, don't take it personally. Learn, grown and lift
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:40 PM
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At the end of the day, its value over actions, tell them if you want them, otherwise you sue just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:48 PM
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This.Fucking this.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:38 PM
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yes, the only way you`ll know is by escalating
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:23 PM
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honestly, if she hasn`t brought up The Talk, she isn`t interested in you as you think.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:00 PM
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Dating someone who doesn`t feel the same way leads nowhere, that`s why you have to be open with her to know where you are going, right now, just tell her what you want , you`ll know by her reaction.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:45 PM
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Doesn`t matter how Redpilled you are, leading girls on is an Asshat move. Just be open and tell her you`re only looking for something casual. She might break or go with it. Don`t lead people on.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:32 PM
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Has she brought up The Talk recently? If not there`s a chance she`s only in it for sex and is slowly losing attraction. The only solution here is to game other girls, also practice abundance mentality, it will help loads man. You were obviously beta with her, that`s why she`s losing attraction. All the best man, lift, talk to other girls and soft next her. If you drop out of the face of the earth and she doesn`t reach out to you, she doesn`t really care about you anymore, that`s harsh, but it`s …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:28 PM
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Well shit, can't fight endorsed contributors
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:46 PM
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I'll do that but the way she's acting, I'll be prepared for anything
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:45 PM
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Lmao the last part, alright, thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:05 PM
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So her ignoring me is some kind of test?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:56 PM
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Thinking of giving a guy friend of mine her shoes, they're also kinda close, to give her back?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:49 PM
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Bored how?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:49 AM
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Well I have been ignoring her texts lately so I guess that's probably why
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:29 AM
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Isn't that counter-intuitive to the sidebar?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:14 AM
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I've read the sidebar and deflecting comfort test seems to make them worse
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:02 AM
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Already on the ignoring part
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:20 PM
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Doing that so far, just wondering what she hopes to achieve by doing this
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:20 PM
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Anyone who sleeps with a married person is a MAJOR red flag. Don't even demote, just drop her
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:56 PM
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Wait, so I'm guessing she thinks we're already in a relationship?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:22 AM
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Damn why do they always have to expect something more.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:40 AM
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She's already popped the exclusivity question twice, so she still is
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:36 AM
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Very true thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP31/07/18 07:25 PM
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Guessing no cause she literally never hides her phone or brings them up. Nice things such as what exactly?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:07 PM
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Non-sexual: barely anything to be honest Red flags: really sexual on social media, noticed that one so far. She's really family-orientated I guess, lmao she has a blog about feminism and her body count, I don't know, never asks girls their body counts cause they'll obviously lie.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:03 PM
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True about the don't want to lose her part. My oneitis is strong with this one. Was meant to call her today about tomorrow but I probably won't. So how should I go about this especially when we meet tomorrow?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:59 PM
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What about men taking charge sometimes? I've seen many successful relationshiops where the guy is the one who asked first. Or what do you think?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:30 PM
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I'm guessing my insecurities want me to ghost her and my secure side wants an LTR.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:09 PM
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She says she likes me. Usually asks things like "is this only sex to you?" Calls me baby, babe etc. Though has never directly asked for commitment. Usually see it in her actions.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:08 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:43 PM
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She already brought up commitment but I brushed it off. She'll probably bring it up again.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:44 AM
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Plates usually might want commitment so she's trying to get that. Depends on you, do you think she's LTR material? Does she have more green flags than red flags?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:22 AM
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Lmao our texts are in no way like this. Though I get your point
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:24 PM
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Oh then she's a FWB.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:23 PM
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Aren't they the same thing?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:08 PM
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She has more green flags though. Pussy is good, this girl is a freak. Nope, not on a dry spell
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:42 AM
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Unless you want to get into relationships after two weeks
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:16 AM
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The only reason I haven't made my intentions clear with this girl is because she has both green and red flags but not enough for me to make a decision.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:47 AM
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Does this mean the "talk" is coming? We already had it once but I dragged out it, never really answered.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:37 AM
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"He's my heartbeat". Fuck got to start preparing for the talk
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:36 AM
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"low SMV if I'm checking her social media". What even.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:36 AM
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Shit, is there any way I can escape it or drag it out?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:35 AM
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Only thing I've got is she doesn't post other guys on social media. So I don't know
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:13 AM
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Honestly I might use some redpill shit to respond to this but truth is my reputation has been going down the drain lately. Horribly down the drain. Don't know if I can ever recover
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:39 AM
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Good for you I guess
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:33 AM
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What are needle users?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:32 PM
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Tried to make you jealous, failed.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:00 AM
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You've just answered your own question, you aren't as social as before. Meaning you have lesser social market value.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:59 AM
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She told me she liked me after only two weeks, that's infatuation. I didn't answer because I knew it would be awkward for the both of us. Giving it time to see whether it's genuine or not
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:30 PM
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Didn't leave her at seen but just ignored what she said and continued the convo like she said nothing
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:48 PM
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I decided to not respond to her. I just continued the convo like she didn't ask me anything
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:45 PM
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I went the ignore route and basically continued talking to her like she didn't say anything. So far she's eating it up for now.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:08 AM
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Very true, I decided to ignore it. We're meeting up on Friday night and I'll act like she didn't say anything. Need to work on my frame work tho.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:23 AM
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Lmao, got it
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:55 AM
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...I haven't responded to her yet. So how is that entering her frame?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:44 AM
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It's not
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:15 AM
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Thing is, this plate is really pushing for a LTR indirectly. I know it will be time before she realises I probably don't feel the same way and it will become weird. Is there any way I can stop this apart from commiting?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:00 PM
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My plate is showing signs of wanting an LTR
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:33 PM
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Just saying that whenever I dress really good I slay more than when I'm casual
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:18 PM
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Alright. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:28 PM
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Lol didn't see it in that light. Makes sense
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:27 PM
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Build more rapport then ask later. Forget about these guys saying you've already fucked up
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:35 PM
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Because this 'one girl' is in all my friend groups. So ignoring her isnt really an option.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:05 AM
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Only here to get advice not prove anything.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:46 AM
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So I just don't respond and just talk to her tomorrow?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:31 PM
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Nope, haven't soft nexted her before.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:05 PM
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Didn't want to explain. Just wanted to ask her; "What makes you think that?"
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:59 PM
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This might backfire lol
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:57 PM
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Hard next? She hasn't given me any reason to hard next. Not going to hard next a girl because I've of being rejected once. Will soft next
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:57 PM
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Damn England supporters. We can't breathe now?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:33 PM
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What? You realiz even right now you're on social media right?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:36 AM
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Thanks man. That's what I'm trying to do. Differentianting between redpill teachings and outright believing that showing care to a woman is "Beta"
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:14 PM
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That's why I'm thinking that she's not playing games right now. She's just legit pissed. Anyway I've decided to call her and apologize. Being silent will only make things worse
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:45 PM
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I understand your point but don't you think right now she's just mad instead of trying to play games? I didn't know how much this girl wanted me to be in both parties until her best friends told me.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:24 PM
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Yup.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:22 PM
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So contact her after a while?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:59 PM
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She accepted the first time but she's not accepting it this time. Don't really have a valid reason as to why for the second time.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:58 PM
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"I`ll take your credit card number instead"
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:04 PM
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Knowing her freak level, she`d probably be into this.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:56 PM
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Just told her that it was last year, which she replied to "great"
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:56 AM
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I don't know. Help a brother out
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:50 AM
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I know what the sidebar says. Don't cuff a plate.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:16 AM
5

Lol what
/r/askTRP30/06/18 03:15 PM
4

I didn't blow her off. Things just went horribly wrong and I'm trying to make up for it. Already told her I'll take her out for her birthday. Hope that helps
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:06 PM
0

Could be a number of reasons. Don't take it personally, just talk to her like nothing happened
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:14 PM
1

Then call her over
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:10 PM
14

That was a first class ticket to orbiter land. Her buying the first drink or you buying the first drink doesn't change anything. A drink is a drink. It's normal for girls to be late on dates. Most of TM dated women have turned up late for some reason. Sometimes it's cause they want to make an entrance but it's rarely about disrespecting you. Honestly, she's just not into you from what I can see.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:48 PM
1

She's been asking me to hang out, guessing I can hit pretty easily.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:33 PM
2

Good chance to know if she's into you. I'd say escalate
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:03 PM
1

Literally happened to me last week. Been ignoring this one plate,she started posting pics of dudes who are a snack etc. Next day she asks me if I'm free to hang out then gets sad that I can't. Now she's asking me if she made things weird. What the fuck?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:02 PM
0

Personally, what fucks with me the most is when she doesn't see it for a while then leaves me on blue ticks.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:10 PM
10

She won't pay for her own ticket dude.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:08 PM
1

You the Tinder police?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:40 PM
1

Mood swings? Loss of interest?Cheating? Only you can tell. I'd say just ask her why she's being cold. Literally th sidebar says a man who hides his intentions in the bush can never be respected. Basically opening up about what you feel especially in an LTR isnt beta. That's why most relationships fail, lack of communication.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:57 PM
0

That's what she texted me. Getting the feeling I failed whatever the hell she was trying to do.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 06:30 PM
0

I'm assuming this would have had the same effect. She would have still responded with "Relax,it was game etc.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 06:22 PM
1

Bump...
/r/askTRP21/06/18 06:15 PM
1

Honestly it's kinda difficult when she keeps initiating
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:41 AM
1

I failed or passed?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:38 AM
83

Funny how the Red Pill says you can't climb out of the friendzone but I've seen it happen dozens of times in real life.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 09:39 PM
3

I personally believe if she doesn't put out in 2-3 dates she's not into you
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:48 PM
3

I'm the classic ugly duckling story. I've always been rather unattractive in my teens. This really did affect my self-esteem and I just hid my self from girls and never made any progress until I was 18. Started truly talking to girls at 20. I was always shy. When I reached 20, it's like I all of a sudden became attractive. Girls would hit me up, smile more and even approach me in the streets or in town. I love the attention, I won't lie. But the thing is, my looks now can attract most girls but …
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:21 PM
3

Damn. How did you get to that level of success?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:53 PM
1

Let's say it's a lay to lmr ratio.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:13 PM
8

You're already thinking about sex? Ignore. She's not into you.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:00 PM
1

I've already figured out my craft, though being in IT will guarantee money not so mu h status. My question is about status and smv
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:48 PM
-2

How does one go about to get status?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:47 PM
1

Lookswise I'd say I'm am 8. In general, if I find a girl attractive she'll also find me attractive
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:59 PM
13

Actions over words. Her actions clearly show she wants the D. Her: I need to know you first. You: My favorite color is red. Now you know too much.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:31 AM
1

Just last week I attended a friend's birthday party. One girl in this party ended up being double teamed by my other friends. In the morning when everyone was sober, she wouldn't talk to anyone and she was clearly upset. Turns out that she thought having sex with them meant it would lead to a relationship or something serious, yet she was dressed like a slut. Women are confusing sometimes even if you are redpilled.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:10 AM
1

I don't agree with these other guys saying that she's already moved on. I've seen this before, she IS trying to make you jealous, which is a girl's speciality. My opinion is there's no point in trying to be with someone who is actively trying to bring you down.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:56 PM
1

Amazing to see how girls react when you have solid frame
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:54 AM
4

Dude. Removing your attention from a girl either does one of two things, it ignites the fire that was there or dulls the spark.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:14 PM
1

You'd have to live in a cave to not know what these titles are.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:41 PM
1

The DC universe is taking too much L's. Even Deadpool knows this
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:41 PM
1

Try it yourself. Be direct or indirect, you will see that being direct will have more success. The red pill on text is different than the red pill in works.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:14 PM
2

Where? Never seen on the Red Pill
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:46 PM
5

"You`re already thinking about getting together?" Also,always make your intentions clear to a girl don`t beat around the bush
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:18 PM
1

Forgiveness isnt about her, its about your peace. Ive found that ive moved on from a number of girls simply because I forgave them, dont hold a grudge.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:14 PM
1

Ive noticed this with a few girls. You set up a date, something comes up, you have to cancel, they go completely cold.The way I see it,they see like youve rejected them or they found someone else. A few pointers tho: 1.Men lead, even if she didnt offer another, you`re the one to offer. 2.Ignoring her is a double edged sword, she`ll either come back or ignore you as well. 3.At this point you should have already nexted her, hovering around won`t help
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:11 PM
1

Set clear boundaries. A man who hides his agenda or plays around the bush wont be respected
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:44 PM
6

I have also seen signs of this, I'm guessing since I'm bulking it cause my face has gotten fat and round. Or I'm being paranoid.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:48 AM
1

Yup wouldnt even try
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:56 PM
1

Aah im guessing because you having girlfriends made your SMV higher
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:04 PM
0

Meaning they become direct?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:04 PM
2

So how does acting uninterested when you are interested in someone help?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:32 PM
1

well reading what you guys have told me here, my decision is taking the chance, I might lose her as a plate but the fear itself of losing her as a plate is blue pill enough. I`ll take the initiative, see how it goes, if it goes well,all good. if it doesn't, lessons learned.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:49 PM
1

Doesn't the sidebar say never to wait for girls to lead? Your answer comes off as counter-intuitive.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:46 AM
1

She's been my plate for 6 months, and I have other plates.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:46 AM
1

Only asking because i feel like im so confused about it. why dont you think she`s ltr material?
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:34 PM
0

my only question is if it`s good or not to ask out a oneitis?
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:48 PM
1

Her actions clearly say shes into me, but my question is should i ask outa oneitis?
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:47 PM
1

too much of anything is poisonous, ive noticed the more time ive been red pill the more i see women as toys and I need to stop that mentality
/r/askTRP24/02/18 11:57 AM
1

Okay, I'm stealing this one lol
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:36 PM
-15

Back at it again with the toxic masculinity :)
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:35 PM
2

It's interesting that you're the one who broke up with her yet you seem more hurt
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:28 AM
1

Only because your overloading your muscles with water? Dude do you even know what creatine is? Creatine is the organic compound that recycles ATP, which is the energy in muscles tissue and brain tissue cells. You can lift more on Creatine because of more ATP production, YOU HAVE MORE ENERGY, sure water plays a part but barely. The increased water in the cell will only make you look bigger not necessarily improve gym performance, only ATP does that.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:54 PM
3

Been taking it for a month now, no bloating so far and no acne either.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:49 PM
2

It's a perfomance enhancer, if you take without working out your heart rate will increase and might lead to high blood pressure. Hence "buzzed"
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:47 PM
1

Lol, white people problems
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:18 PM
1

Creatine, though take this only if you work out, otherwise you'll be buzzed 24/7
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:02 PM
20

Insecurity. Guys on TRP be like "I saw my girlfriend walking with another guy, should I hard next her"? Wtf??
/r/askTRP07/09/17 12:40 PM
9

Yeah, practice in a mirror or in front of your friends. Best advice I can give you is know how to react when you deliver a joke and the crowd doesn't laugh.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:18 PM
1

This. I can't name the number of times, I've seen hook ups because the person had many followers on social media.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:40 AM
5

Does posting stories of you having fun without her show high SMV?
/r/askTRP06/09/17 08:57 AM
7

You: Alright we should just be friends then Her: What are you doing? You: Just checking on my friends to see what's up Her: Okay, have a nice day You: ......
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 07:12 PM
10

This has the potential to seriously backfire on you lmfao.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 06:03 PM
1

Should have asked her when her schedule looks like and when she is free instead. Be more direct
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:53 PM
1

No,she's just a plate, you're overthinking. Just meet up on Saturday.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:50 PM
1

Just beware of pre-cum, it will get her pregnant regardless.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:11 PM
2

Either she'll leave you or she won't. But the regret of knowing that she could have been yours is worse than either of the two outcomes.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 11:29 AM
3

It's either AIDs or latex, choose one
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:00 AM
1

DONT FALL FOR PLATES.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:56 AM
4

She's in love with you, but I wouldn't suggest dating a plate. IMO, shell probably fall in love with another plate and leave you. But go with your gut on this cause I don't know her personally.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:54 AM
11

It does. No matter how alpha you are, you can't force love. I've seen the bluest of bluepills in loving loyal relationships, why? Because they are in love. Don't confuse lust with love. A plate says she wants a relationship? Nah she's in lust. But a girl who'll go the extra mile for you, she's probably in love. Also don't confuse this with infatuation, that's another thing. Haven't you read about LTR green flags? There are certain girls who are perfect for long relationships and some who aren't.…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:52 AM
1

Flattered to have a stalker :)
/r/askTRP04/09/17 03:52 PM
3

You're overthinking this dude, just enjoy fucking her
/r/askTRP03/09/17 07:24 PM
1

Text her again after two days, if she doesn't reply. Not interested.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 06:32 PM
3

Cause she's head over heels for you, what part of that is so hard for you to see?
/r/askTRP03/09/17 06:28 PM
1

Mindstruggled with this one lol. Well just get girls who want to fuck you then. Example: My FWB has saved my contact on her phone as the dick and thirst emoji lmfao, guys next to me have basic emojis. That's how I know she wants this D lol.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 05:43 PM
1

That's call alcohol dick lol. Sometimes I can't even get my dick hard when I'm drunk.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 05:01 PM
4

TRP teaches you to fuck women not to worry about being a beta or an Alpha. So far you're fucking women so that's what you should focus on.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 04:58 PM
2

Because you're basing your worth and happiness on women. Which means you're unstable. Base these two things on something that can't be shaken and you'll be satisfied regardless. Example: My basis of worth and happiness is my belief in God.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 08:03 PM
4

Being drunk numbs the part of your brain that processes and controls fears. Which means instant but temporary boost in confidence. So no, that was you, not the alcohol. NB: Most people approach/get thrice the number of girls when drunk than sober.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 07:57 PM
2

You're the type of person that thinks even talking to a girl makes you beta, lmfao.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:46 AM
1

It's not whether about your ex is a psycho. It's your responsibility as a father, you messed up and now you have to own up to it. Fine, run away, but what will you say to your kid when she comes looking for you years down the line? That you were too scared to take responsibility? No one wants a father like that. So it's your decision. Man up and fight until you find a loophole.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:56 PM
1

If you've reached the second date, you're already there bro. It should be pretty easy to escalate
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:35 AM
1

The rule is always the more you do it the better you become. Plus texting a girl should be to meet up or tease her. Do it regularly and you'll become a beast at it
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:33 AM
2

What you're going through now is called Cognitive dissonance. It's the conflict of two selves and two beliefs. Basically you're older self and your present self are fighting sub-consciously. Psychology says this is the epitome of change, this is when you know you have changed. You have no obligation to your older self, to your older beliefs. It will pass soon enough, right now it's very important to stick with your current beliefs and self. Once you pass this stage, you have completely changed. …
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:31 AM
1

Yeah, most likely
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:59 AM
3

There's a difference between narcissism and being alpha. That my friend is narcissism and toxic masculinity. Just pick her up lol.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:03 PM
1

When you mention other girl's name to a girl what's your main motive? To make her jealous. She's trying to do the same to you, the best response to this is using dread game.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:02 PM
2

Pre-cum can ruin your life bruh. Made a girl pregnant with that shit, only way to know to know is to simply take a test
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:32 AM
164

Wow, I'm honestly speechless. The aspect of life being threatened at your prime is definitely something I wouldn't wish on my enemy. You have read the red pill and have seen that it works, the message the Red Pill has for you right now is two things. Be strong, for yourself and those around you. Life is fucking unfair but it's worth it. That's all I can say. Be grateful, for whatever happens, be satisfied with your life and that will bring true happiness in the face of tragedy. Hope you come out…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 07:06 PM
1

When she told you "my room is messy" should have just told her, not to worry, I've always wanted to put my janitor skills to work. Agree and amplify. And getting shot down for 9 months? She probably agreed cause she needed attention not cause she was actually interested.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:12 AM
17

The "leader" of my social group actually doesn't drink. Yet he's the guy making everyone laugh at night clubs and bars. Listen, you don't have to do anything to impress anyone. Trust me, those guys aren't thinking why you arent drinking alcohol as much as you think they do, it's all in your head. My advice is to own it, agree and amplify. Alcohol is the attraction of these events not the centre.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 02:53 PM
5

48 laws of power, isolation is dangerous. It breeds self-doubt and negativity. We all need some alone time but we should never be isolated.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 02:48 PM
1

The smartest people usually don't proclaim they are "smart". You'll see it in actions and results.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:15 PM
9

I don't see what's wrong with self-improvement. Yes, she's probably follow your example.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:41 PM
4

I was good with women before I read TRP. There's nothing as a "natural", it's about talking to and failing with many girls until you get it.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:40 PM
8

I don't think this girl is a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 01:30 PM
20

Self-pity is the biggest enemy of progress. It kills hope and builds a wall around you. Self-pity and self-hate aren't the same thing. Someone can be the happiest person in the world, have the hottest girlfriend, fanciest cars and be a fucking billionaire and still have self-hate. Self-pity on the other hand is a progress leech. Sucks the life out of everything. Why? Because it's victim mentality. Being in this victim mentality turns the responsibility to the world not you. That's why most dwell…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:57 PM
1

Well he clearly still has oneitis, I wouldn't recommend ignoring him, that only works for girls not guys. If he's in your friend group, maybe try to hook him up with a another girl so he can get his mind off her.(Do this indirectly) But the crying part? Lmfao.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 06:35 PM
-2

And if she's a virgin?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:27 PM
1

What if she's open to making out but not to sex?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:18 PM
-2

What's kino?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:18 PM
1

I understand that, but why is she angry?
/r/askTRP05/08/17 01:17 PM
3

Yeah, I haven't even talked to her lmao. Her number is already deleted.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:04 AM
-1

Why doesn't she just tell me upfront what she wants?
/r/askTRP05/08/17 07:29 AM
1

It was just hooking up, neither of us wanted something serious until recently
/r/askTRP05/08/17 07:11 AM
2

How?
/r/askTRP05/08/17 07:10 AM
1

Depends, if she wants monogamy yet you have found out that she has been on a couple of dates before you, that's a definite red flag, meaning she's trying to pull you into her orbit. But if she's has not been on a date before you or even a long time, I'd say it's something she's probably serious about.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 02:22 PM
1

I agree with you on everything you say here but the bit about telling them you were on a date with another girl either leads to auto-rejection or she will resent you. Women do not like hearing about other women, more so if she's attracted to you. You'd rather show them, like posting a picture of you two on social media than telling them.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 11:15 AM
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