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"Men who bathe regularly are more sought after than identical men who don't" "Source?" Like dude which part of the statement do you doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:57 PM

What you're describing as a "contradiction" is only a contradiction if every woman alive is unified in how they act and think. There are men who are "house trained," there are women (of every current and past generation) who are teaching their boys to do their part, and some who aren't. You might be responding to some annoying, bad faith comments by women blaming all men for being evil and causing all problems ever, which is fair because those comments are annoying. But if a woman is complaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:00 PM
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Two things (at least) are true: 1. Adult women have agency, even when they pick partners that seem unsavory from the outside. 2. Power gaps can distort consent in practice, and age is one possible proxy for power. The point shouldn't be that "age gap = bad" but that "power imbalance = worth a closer look." Age can correlate with leverage (money, status, experience, connections), and those types of leverage can be used to undermine agency and consent. But I agree that people sometimes get carried…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:58 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:58 PM
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These all seem like personal grievances about women (and generalizations, at that). When have people claimed that those examples do describe emotional intelligence? Or that all women are emotionally intelligent and everything they do is automatically emotionally intelligent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:02 PM
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hahahaha you had me in the first half. I think people who say this go clubbing a few times, and will inevitably see some people making out on the dance floor. Then they say "this is a dungeon of depravity and sin, everyone is here to submerge themselves in each others' fluids."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:38 PM
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A quote from twitter I think about all the time: "unfortunately, love is humiliating, & more unfortunately, love is the main thing that makes life worth living" I feel you, I've walked away from a rejection (she was perfectly polite) humiliated, burning with shame, with my words during the interaction spirally violently through my head for days. It completely sucks, and that's not even counting a situation where she is antagonistic on top of that. But to ask that a life be completely free from o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:51 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:34 PM
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I'm not asking women, I'm asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:38 PM
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For some reason, I've disproportionately dated women who are getting a masters degree in one of the life sciences. Intellectually passionate about their field of study, making them big nerds (this is a good thing, if that wasn't clear).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:38 PM
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He did go on to say he wasn't in a later comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:37 PM
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I see what you're saying about an adjective meaning something different when applied to men and women. Like with short, as you described, there is an implied "short for a woman" vs "short for a man." So if we apply that to promiscuous, ie "promiscuous for a woman," what is the gap between them? If we were to call your behavior promiscuous for a woman, would additional promiscuity would elevate you to the status of promiscuous for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:36 PM
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I am not laughing at your expense, and I hope I didn't come off as snarky saying all this (besides a few comments ago where I was admittedly a little snarky). I also suffer from shockingly low self-esteem at times, and unfortunately when people go on with that stupid bullshit about how you have to love and accept yourself, ya gotta just give in. As a start, seeing a psychiatrist and getting medicated was a huge step for me. Doesn't instantly make things perfect, but helps remove a small number o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:23 PM
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Sucks to suck, you deserve compassion whether you want it or not. I could be way off base, but it feels a little bit like you hate yourself and want to be treated poorly, so you go out and antagonize women so they will treat you poorly, which circularly validates your worldview that women are making you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:48 PM
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Sorry bucko that's non-negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:25 PM
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With which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:07 PM
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You sound like you have a pretty annoying attitude, but you still deserve to be treated as a human, with all the respect and agency that comes with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:01 PM
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Weird, everyone i've slept with on the first date was a huge nerd. Does promiscuity lead to being a huge nerd?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:24 PM
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yeah what would it even look like to "see that throughout history"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:31 AM
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Can you clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:21 AM
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We all know some women are awful. What does that have to do with feminism? The link is not clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:19 AM
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damn i thought it was only loser men who cited "you just need to look around" as evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:07 PM
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Who said anything about "easier"? I think sometimes people just do stuff that is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:19 PM
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I think "nice" usually means like, was respectful to the service staff or stopped to pet a dog. Or listened without interrupting. Women love that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:50 PM
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How do you know it's a topic of conversation when you're not around? Did you plant recording devices?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:17 PM
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the fact that stuff like that gets millions of likes tells you something Right, it tells us something very specific: this stuff drives engagement. And we know that what drives engagement is usually related to what makes people angry. So if anything, a much more reasonable conclusion is that stuff makes most people angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:04 PM
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I fear we are once again confusing women in real life with women on social media. ALL the icks that make it to the top on social media will be inflammatory in some way, because that is how social media works. MOST icks by women in real life (that i've heard) are like "he wears weird belts."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:53 PM
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where did 4.5X come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:37 PM

Yet, some women seem to treat insecurity as an overly negative trait—often using it as a convenient excuse to dismiss average men. "some women"? ok go date the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:45 AM
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**Gotta explain my logistics and dedication here. If your phone goes to sleep, there is a chance hinge will refresh the person it's showing you. So at times I spent ages thinking of something only to see someone new when I open my phone. So I changed the settings in my phone to never go to sleep so while I'm thinking of what to say I can just leave my phone sitting there. Maybe I will watch tv or play video games and if something comes to me, then I pick it up and get typing. This poem that I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:52 PM
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Do you find that the numbers game works? If so, keep at it I guess. In my experience, I have always gone for the sniper approach over the shotgun approach. That is, I spend time looking each profile and crafting an individualized message instead of spreading out the damage. A few times I sat there for hours while i figured out what to say. One time I wrote a poem.** It is obviously still not a guarantee that it will work every time. But I'm always a small number of swipes away from going on a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:52 PM
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Must be tough to go through life with such thin skin, I'll leave you in peace my tender friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:35 AM
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Is that how you interpret what I said here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:32 AM
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Which statistics are you pulling from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:31 AM
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Women are plenty aware that women are capable of DV. But that particular stat, as you correctly phrased it, doesn't refer to the rate of DV within lesbian relationships. It addresses the fact that lesbians are "more likely to experience DV" than hetero women. We can zoom in a little bit with that study and note that of those 44%, about 2/3 have exclusively been in relationships with women. So we have a lower bound of about 30% (44% * 2/3) where there is no excuse, there was definitely a woman pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:29 AM
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Women are plenty aware that women are capable of DV. But that particular stat, as you correctly phrased it, doesn't refer to the rate of DV within lesbian relationships. It refers to the fact that lesbians are more "likely to experience DV" than hetero women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:19 AM

In nowhere in the post was there any mention of "personal victimization" or "hurt feelings". You didn't have to say it buddy, we can see your pain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:55 PM
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My friend, you should not be thinking of these as separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:08 PM
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Yeah thanks for pointing out that line, I responded but kinda glazed over that part because I didn't know what to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:02 PM
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You are nearly correct when you say "no one teaches you this stuff." There is one person you have to learn from, and that is the person you are currently having sex with. Being "good at sex" doesn't require mountains of knowledge and experience (though it couldn't hurt), it requires being attentive to your partner. You try different things, and when something makes them gasp and convulse, keep doing that thing. Remember that thing for later. Try going a little faster or slower, softer or harder …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:11 PM
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Since we are asking for the impossible ("no negative repercussions for cheating") why not just go to the source and ask for no negative repercussions for breaking up? It's much closer to being reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:34 PM
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So it sounds like while I am having sex with my girlfriend, we are monogamous. But the other 23 hours of the day I am breaking the monogamy agreement. I'll try to let her down easy :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:32 PM
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Yeah I agree the connotation has been twisted. In particular, I think the incels and RPers have injected misogyny into it since that definition (in my earlier comment) describes women as something to be taken, rather than a person in her own right. It's kind of like the inherent misogyny in the term "simping," because it implies you are weak/pathetic for being nice a woman who isn't going to fuck you (because ya know, what other possible reason could there be to be nice to a woman?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:35 PM
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You're thinking of "compersion," which is when you enjoy that your partner is receiving pleasure from others. "Cuck" usually has a connotation of humiliation, and that you are so weak/pathetic you would let someone else take something that is yours. Personally I don't use it as an insult directed at someone's relationship dynamics, but I jokingly use it to say stuff like "I'm getting cucked by xfinity" because of what I'm paying for a shitty plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:19 PM

Would be nice to see a debate besides "is it boys fault or girls fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:44 PM
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What is the implication here? That a higher rate of divorce means lesbians are the evil ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:42 PM
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I'll frequently go through weeks or months long breaks from the apps because I just don't feel like slogging back into the whole process with the apps. It's just a lot of work. Swiping through people to think about if I like them, thinking of something to say (Hinge, so I'll always send an individualized message), then sustaining a conversation long enough to learn a bit about them and plan something out..........all of that before even meeting someone. I enjoy almost all of my first dates, even…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:22 AM
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Depends who has friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:36 AM
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Because he's a special boy! And you're a girl! If he likes the same things as a girl, maybe he's kind of a girl? So he's gotta make sure he likes them better than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:41 PM
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Ah ok so the football thing is different from what I was picturing. I thought you were saying like in Mean Girls when she pretends to be bad at math when she is in fact very good at math. This sounds more like giving someone the space to talk about something they care about, which is indeed very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:43 PM
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I'm still not sure what you are specifically saying, but I guess at the end of the day I don't think these are bad things*, and I should have said "annoying to me." If someone is not "naturally all of things [I] seem to like," I don't want her to play games to win me over anyway. And if I detect someone isn't interested, I'm not going to try to talk them into anything. I'd rather we both move on to more compatible people. *besides "playing up not understanding," I just think that's kinda weird a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:27 PM
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I don't think there is a "natural state of humans born female," but I could be misunderstanding what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:06 PM
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The only one on this list I mostly agree with is: Flirting and bantering by leaning in subtly and softly laughing. Grazing his arm lightly or slightly letting your leg graze his when you’re talking. And that's just because it's one way (among many) to demonstrate you're interested. All the others are pretty annoying and feel like they come from a dating self help book written in the 1950s. Maybe some people respond well to this, but I think it is a misconception that most men want someone who ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:42 PM
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My answer to the first question is an easy "nope, I'm good thanks." ​ Who Should Arrange it? This question also has an answer: a professional matchmaker. There are some fun reality tv shows like Jewish Matchmaker and Indian Matchmaker. Someone who actually puts time into getting to know a pool of matches on either side and setting up (hopefully) compatible pairs. To be clear I have never seen either of these shows, but my sister won't shut up about JM in particular so I feel like a second-hand e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:30 PM
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I'm happy to be friends with conservatives, I like chatting about stuff with people who disagree. But when it comes to dating, I'm barely even willing to date liberals. It's not like I have a hard rule about only dating leftists but that is who I've always ended up with. At many points, I'm going to go on rants about capitalism, how both major parties in the US are descending into fascism (albeit at different rates and in different ways), etc. While it's not the only part of dating, a major part…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah I was expecting to see a tiddies :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:44 AM
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I think it makes more sense that the OP is very well thought out, and that saying is just reductive boomer nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:23 AM
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Ok but this video is extremely uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:49 PM
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Lol I agree, although the image I think of is chimps picking fleas out of each other's fur. I'm doing it for social reasons, not because I deeply care what I look like. It's utilitarian more than personally affirming. Ironically I talk about my dog going to petsmart as "getting a haircut" so apparently I treat her with more respectful language than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:05 PM

In a few comments, you have clarified "I want to convey that one party WANTS to do certain activity," or some similar version of that. But that is a contrived hypothetical scenario where you happen to know what they are thinking, which is not realistic. Maybe if you could literally read minds, maybe, HUGE MAYBE, it might be ok. Again, if you could read minds and be 100% sure they enthusiastically want to but have some cultural hangups that they want you to help them overcome, eh idk, I guess so?…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:19 PM
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I've had a few ONSs and a few LTRs. The ONSs always felt like she wanted to have a fun night and go home with someone, and I was in the right place at the right time. Sure, maybe I caught her eye by dressing/grooming myself well or being fun to be around in the right moment, but I never got the impression it was someone who doesn't normally do this and they made an exception for me because I was soooooo irresistible. I have felt way more "burning sexual desire" from women where we've been on a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:37 PM
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Honk shoo is masculine, Honk mimimimimi is feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:05 PM

To be honest, I say this too. I joke that other men make it really easy for me to date because I can just not be creepy and women are like "wow I feel so comfortable around you."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:42 PM
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Lol yeah I would. I wouldn't date the woman saying that though, that's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:48 PM
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It's okay for someone to say "I hate how sensationalized criminal cases can be, and wish people wouldn't lose jobs or friends until the process played out. I wish all parties involved were left alone until the dust clears." Yep, great way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:10 AM
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This is excellently written, you said everything I wanted to say, but more and better. One thing I'll add is I used to volunteer for a sexual assault hotline, and even then no one ever said "believe all victims" to mean "assume 100% of what they're saying is true and use it to destroy the perpetrator." It just meant listen, be empathetic, help them feel heard. The vast majority of callers did not want to go to the police, they just wanted to talk and be heard. So for us "believing" them isn't a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:13 AM

rare FBI W
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:40 PM
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Glad you said "arguably" because I love to argue: You gotta stick something in your mouth to suck dick. I mostly just have to lick the outside, there's less head movement (because the sensitivity is concentrated in a much smaller area), pre-lubricated (don't have to provide so much of your own saliva). Gotta overcome the gag reflex, apparently. I've heard jaw cramping is also a thing when you suck dick too long, but the worst I'll get is sweaty or impatient. Also the times I've had a too toothy …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:37 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:23 PM
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Agreed. I've heard the expression "foreplay starts in the kitchen," which I take to mean "it's sexy when someone shares the burden of everyday chores." If you feel your work and contribution isn't appreciated by your partner, you probably won't get all horny about them. This could be about stuff besides housework too, just an example where "she's withholding sex because she's mad at me" could be a misreading of "I have let her down in some way and now she is too annoyed to be horny." Obligatory …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:21 PM
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These aren't two binary categories, you're just describing that women are more attracted to some men than others. I also treat different women differently depending on how attracted I am to them. If I go on a date with someone and I don't feel a spark*, I'm not going to be as receptive to their advances. *lol as if my depressed ass has felt a spark for any reason in years, but you get what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:45 PM
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Actually I changed my mind, men act this way about physical appearance too. Thinking about when Jordan Peterson said "Sorry. Not Beautiful." about the fat woman on the cover of sports illustrated. And it was funny to me because I'd smash in a second, but he was trying to make the case she was objectively not beautiful. In other words, he just wasn't attracted to her but thought it was a problem with her, not a matter of his own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:10 PM
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On one hand, I'm temped to say this post is clearly wrong in the first 6 words and call it a day. After all, I have personally experienced meeting a woman and initially thinking she was ok looking, then she starts talking and she is fun and hilarious. All of a sudden she is a smoke show. There are also some incredibly hot women who I realized weren't interesting to me and they are suddenly less appealing. Case closed, I'm attracted to more than just physical looks. On the other hand, this answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:15 PM
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I don't mean to make you justify it, everyone has their icks and red flags. If these are yours, these are yours. You mention height, and I agree that's a similar example, and I'd make the exact same case about it. I know there are plenty of women who create that barrier (among others) and are almost certainly going to block out some very compatible matches. But again taste is taste, and I wouldn't try to talk someone into being attracted to someone they're just not attracted to. What concerns me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:57 AM
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These restrictions would rule out nearly every woman I have ever been with. Why hold yourself back like that? edit: added strikethrough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:28 AM
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She gave her best to men in her past I don't see hookups the same way. I've done hookups and LTRs, and LTRs to me are the higher quality product. Don't get me wrong, hookups are a thrill in their own right if you can manage to make it happen. But sex to me gets more satisfying as you learn more about your partner so at a certain point into relationships I feel that I am getting (and giving) much more than in a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:20 AM
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But making your own decisions about what you do with your body is respecting your body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:13 AM
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Depends on who she is. Someone I'm trying to date: Good, that is kind of expected if we are going to become monogamous together. A friend: ok. A stranger: ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:10 AM
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I would not pursue someone with a diamond pussy, that shit would hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:17 PM
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I'll address these in order. As stated, you're correct-ish, but each section is missing a little something. You should not take everything every woman online says as representative. But that doesn't mean ignore it. If 10 women say different things, that's not a contradiction. You don't have to figure out which was one "correct," you have simply been exposed 10 different things a woman might think/feel. Absorb them, pause to reflect for a moment, go grab a snack, watch, tv and live your life. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:30 PM
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I'm a man, and it's pretty easy to see what she's talking about. Society is incredibly critical about women's appearances. Society also holds men to unfair standards, but it's outrageous to say people aren't constantly telling women what to do and how to live their lives. ​ There is FAT women in covers of MAGASINES working as MODELS !! It is incredibly recent that magazines have been willing to consider displaying women outside "conventional" beauty standards. Perhaps that trend will grow, perha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:12 AM

I've been the less horny person in every relationship I've been in. Women in LTRs can be frighteningly horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:22 PM

"Harder to cum, easier to die." That's how my sister describes it. Women are horny too, but on average face different challenges in dating than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:31 PM
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I love stories like this, and it paints a key ingredient of a good "cold open": having something to say that is relevant to the situation. He didn't just approach a random person he found attractive, he clocked that you might have something in common, and chose that angle. Very different from walking up to a rando with some generic pickup line.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:22 AM
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If every single woman here is saying that, maybe that's part of the answer to the op. This post is about why women are afraid of men, and a chorus of women are telling you, and you're ignoring them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:52 AM
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These people need jesus calculus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:58 PM
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How do we know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:37 AM
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