| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 85 | Do not trust men, even childhood friends WILL betray you without a second thoughtI am so so sorry this happened to you. Also, you’re right - Your title made me immediately think of Keeley Bunker, who was raped and murdered by her childhood friend who was ‘walking her home’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 41 | Is it ok to not want to give a blowjob? I don't know why it's just feel so humilaiting and it make some wanna cry and KMS that I HAVE RO DO THIS if I ever want to be in a romantic relationshipyou dont have to but the reality is it may be a dealbreaker for some men (and honestly, im not going to pass judgement on those guys bc a man not eating me out would be a dealbreaker for me tbh). However, that probably just means you are incompatible with that guy, there are men out there who prefer other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 85 | Remember when I asked how to do FWB with that hot doctor? This winded up in my DMs (from a man who calls himself a former incel ofc)men like this are neither husbands nor fwbs to any woman gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 38 | Every single timedont put this in your bio It doesnt work - it makes you look like youve been used for sex before, or other men have treated you like shit. This sends a message to other trash men that you are an easy mark for more of the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 27 | And this woman or well actually girl not only has a child but posts pictures of her breasts. This is pathetic.surely most men realise that onlyfans girls/pornstars/strippers etc etc only want their money?? There are plenty of dumb men, but theres a reason why falling in love with an escort/stripper is a joke made about teenage boys in my country, adult men know better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 47 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.It sounds like he is less attractive or in equal attractiveness to her.... he sounds like hes angry he cant get the petite skinny stereotypically hot girl he wanted, and is directing that resentment towards his wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 17 | How to bring up height without seeming shallow?You can offer your height either on your profile or in conversation. If in conversation he doesnt respond/changes the subject/whatever, then I straight up ask. Even better if You can bring it up casually like if he asks about your family, say some other stuff and then say ‘im the shortest in my family, im only xx’, or something like that so it seems natural most men will then offer their own heights. If they dont, 9/10 times when I ask they are shorter than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:33 PM |
| 65 | My boyfriend’s wedding dress unveiled my own shortcomings over masculinity | Life and style (liberal feminists always have to take their wokeness way too far! I am so sick of this)Dress aside, this dude sounds crazy obnoxious and an attention seeker. ‘cat tights’... embarrassing on anyone over the of 10, why does she make it sound like her boyfriends wardrobe is mostly fancy dress? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:09 AM |
| 60 | I hope she gets picked, I really do.that man is so gross, but at least hes getting called out in (most) of the comments I was expecting aita to go their usual route of your clothes, your rules, you dont owe anything to anyone etc etc also he definitely came on her top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 52 | Bro either ask me out or don’t wydI know ! the audacity of being like oh if you want a drink - i aint say nothing about a drink sir! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:04 PM |
| 49 | Bro either ask me out or don’t wydYeah I know, but I was especially shook by this one as this isnt even an invitation for a drink this is an invitation for me to ask him out i think...?? double ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:51 PM |
| 13 | Any of you lovely ladies interested?? I really wonder what kind of woman would respond to this- pickmeisha of a whole new level!please can we not turn fds into r/whereareallthegoodmen gender swapped where we make fun of people down on their luck looking for love... hes not being disrespectful or anything, (maybe a bit pathetic and I myself wouldnt respond, but thats not what this sub is for) braced for downvotes lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 73 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?definitely a porn addict thinks women get uncontrollably overwhelmed by desire to suck dick at random times??? that can only have come from porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 187 | Ladies, not sure what to do when your husband forces you to give blowjobs until your lips are bleeding and you throw up? Male redditor has the solution for you!apart from how insulting/ridiculous this is, how are you gonna find a women to come into your life, no strings attached, and give you painful af blowjobs for free with no reward?? surely, surely no woman is THAT level of pickme (but then again, the desperation knows no bounds) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:00 PM |
| 10 | Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories.he mentioned hes from the uk in his edit I think he just meant his ethnic origins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:54 PM |
| 13 | Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories.oh my mistake, I thought it was two different women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 88 | Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories.I like how he omits WHAT he said that made a girl throw her drink over him, it must have been pretty extreme... edit - TWO different women have poured drinks on him bc of ‘politics’, no doubt his opinion is absolutely abhorrent Also she fell over and was crying and hes like oh I defended myself. Even if she started it, have these men never heard of proportionality... thats not at all an appropriate response. What would have happened if she had actually slapped him first - would he have shot her?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 24 | Has anyone successfully quit online dating and began finding men in the Wild?I think meeting guys organically post-college is really really hard (as is making new friends in general). Usually in the ‘olden days’ (or so my Mom tells me), your best bet was mutual friends or meeting someone through/at work. Theres also recreational clubs/night classes, gyms etc. I think in general the whole reach for the same veg at the grocery store (or whatever else movies are showing us) is pretty unlikely in 2020. tldr - you need to be proactive to date irl, dont count on a meetcute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 07:21 PM |
| 38 | I have trauma and a criminal record. I never settle for less, and neither should you.Thank you so much for this ❤️ I also have a record, and its really really hard to move forward. When I was convicted, I was suicidal. I didn’t do jailtime, but I thought about what had happened every single day probably for a year, just ruminating over it. I’m so glad you’ve realised your worth and turned your life around. also - George Bush had a dui and he became the President. The sky’s the limit hun! (edit - I looked this up, not only does he have a dui, he has two arrests for disorderly con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:31 AM |
| 27 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.He’s not white though ‘deathnik’ is a incel term non white incels use to describe themselves bc they feel like their race is holding them back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 34 | The bar is lower than low for men.also seems pretty dumb to admit your intent to committ immigration fraud online 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:23 AM |
| 81 | This is why you do not accept rough sex. Being a kinkmeisha will get you killed. This poor girl deserves justice! 2 years is a joke! 😔agree but worth noting that no evidence was ever presented in this case that she had a history of bdsm/rough sex. There is only his word that she ever asked for violent sex. Yet her reputation has been dragged through the mud anyway... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:04 AM |
| 7 | sure sure...the ‘best’ comment on that post uses the phrase ‘cold approach’ - just a psa girls, this is a pua expression... if a guy uses it, red flags everywhere that hes trying to ‘run game’ or is gonna neg you or whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:27 AM |
| 91 | Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex.he may have only believed he was well endowed... maybe it was a reality check! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 169 | Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex.he chose an ugly ish dude on purpose 100% ‘shocked and dismayed’ that this man was better/larger? he wanted his wife to hate every minute of it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 23 | She’s supposed to “cOmMuNIcaTe” to her grown ass husband that he shouldn’t treat her like a maid 🤦🏻♀️its the wrappers that gets me the most.... like you eat something and just leave the wrapper on the couch?? what?? how has he survived this long?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 48 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityYes 100% to the sports stamina vet. I never see this mentioned on here but if a man has no physical hobbies/does no exercise, the odds that he is going to be good in bed fall to almost zero. He’ll probably just sweat on top of you, panting 🤮 Are you into sports (actually doing, not just watching lol)/do you go to the gym? is now one of the first questions I ask potential dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 10 | Imagine being such a pickme that you flex that you post your nudes for free and hating on girls who wanna get paidgirl ouch what a nasty little man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 42 | Imagine being such a pickme that you flex that you post your nudes for free and hating on girls who wanna get paidin a way, I really hope this is a man bc otherwise its just sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 296 | Imagine being such a pickme that you flex that you post your nudes for free and hating on girls who wanna get paidJust to be clear - not pro only fans or whatever, but this just struck me as so ‘I post nudes because I love male validation so much teehee I dont even care about money, im not like those other girls’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:53 AM |
| 70 | On an argument about sex work... I can't believe someone copes this wayNever get talked down to... as a sex worker? either this girls luck is insanely good or shes lying about being a sw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:51 AM |
| 31 | Actual Female Hate Subs being banned? Is this real?!thank god!!! maybe theres hope for this hellsite yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 147 | No one that loves and values you will allow you to self-sacrifice like this...bruh one time my ‘boyfriend’ didnt invite me to his birthday party... i got super upset and HE ghosted ME bc (according to his friend) I actes ‘crazy’ over it...I then spent literal weeks beating myself up for overreacting and being too high maintenance, and trying to get him back 🤡🤡🤡 the kindest thing that man ever did for me was leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 26 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meI mean it still annoys me/its rude and lowkey homophobic when women pretend to be gay/bi online and use lesbian dating apps to propose threesomes, but it is the lesser of two evils I guess now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:56 AM |
| 66 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meUgh I’m so so glad I didn’t go to her apartment. I just worry about younger, more naive girls bc she obviously didn’t see a problem trying to pressure me into sex and she will probably try this shit again. I dread to think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:54 AM |
| 45 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisI was unfamiliar with Sydney Watson so I looked her up... she aint even just a delusional self hating woman, shes a full on white supremacist... shes from australia/moved to usa and describes both of them as ‘white country’s historically and poc therefore cannot complain about racism when living in either you ever read a history book? racism is wrong anywhere (inc natively white countries obviously) but usa/aus are both native to poc... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menI love that some of the top comments are calling her out. Some even straight up call her a pickme lmao - pls can we make this term mainstream ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:10 PM |
| 15 | Woman gets her period on a weekend getaway, boyfriend gets ANGRY and says she should’ve just “held it in” and that she’s ruining his plans of hiking and sex.also its her parents damn house. They can go back any weekend, and it didnt cost him a dime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 41 | Guys who treated me the worst were ugly guysime men in the 5-7 range of attractiveness resent women the most. Idk why, but I always assumed its bc theyre attractive enough to feel entitled to a beautiful woman but have experienced multiple instances of rejection, making them resent the women they worship. The women they really want are only just out of their reach - and theyre usually delusional that theyre 8-10s - so they hate the rejection the most and resent having to settle for their looksmatches the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:07 PM |
| 50 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.yes I found this comment she made in response to someone asking about reporting illegal content to a law enforcement agency. Like if it isnt illegal and youre doing nothing wrong then why are you discouraging people from calling police/fbi? ‘You don't need to report the urls to an agency, just flag them it email the urls on pornhub.com/support. It's very likely that if they aren't removed it's because it's not illegal content.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 219 | You can get more money and respect as a prostitute 🙄In my past relationships I should have done this except 10 dollars for everytime they actually made me come wouldnt have had to get my loser boyfriends anything for their birthdays lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:58 PM |
| 307 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.u/Katie_PornHub is a pornhub company account that is allowed to post regularly (which is advertising pornhub without declaring its an advert, ofc, apparently free of charge). Reddit doesnt care about that - I wonder if they are somehow partnered with pornhub? She also defended child porn/revenge porn on the site. (and I’d bet money whoever is running the account is not a woman, but giving it a female name is intended to manipulate) How can this be allowed but nothing anti porn?? edit - her entir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 12 | Sex without a condom ladies.. Seen a few of these posts recently😷🙅🏼♀️wait why is this sub anti bi men?? i didnt know that/havent seen anything? I would say that I agree that bi men are more conscientious, unfortunately most likely because of the aids epidemic primarily affecting mlm. Straight men seem to think theyre immune from hiv due to past stigmas and ime tend to dismiss anything else as ‘curable’ (I guess also theyre less likely to suffer serious consequences like infertility from chlamydia. Curable doesnt mean harmless sadly.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:38 PM |
| 66 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsmen literally think you have to be adriana lima to have any standards/requirements of them. Any woman is allowed to have standards, men think that theyre entitled to use/discard/manipulate unattractive/average women without consequence and its disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 96 | If he says this it's a red flagalso - ‘my ex was really vanilla in bed/didnt want to try new things’ if you keep pushing him, new things is invariably threesomes/anal/choking, or, and i wish i wasnt speaking from experience, ‘she wouldnt even try some light whipping’ 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 64 | Your current male partner and ex partner are more likely to murder you than anyone else.also the fact that son/grandson is so far up makes me feel sick there was a post awhile back saying that the most likely perpertrators of rape against elderly women are their own sons as well :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 61 | Your current male partner and ex partner are more likely to murder you than anyone else.the most dangerous time for this is immediately after leaving an abusive relationship unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 132 | KHLOE THE CLOWNShe started dating him when he was still with his then pregnant ex. He cheated on her and left her for Khloe I dont even feel bad for her, she knew what kind of man he was from the beginning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 82 | The UK’s sinister ‘rough sex’ defence is officially being bannedwhenever i see grace millane (bottom left) i want to cry. her killer sat and watched porn next to her corpse. I read so much true crime so im pretty desensitised but of all the cases ive read about, that one detail in hers really, really stuck with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 52 | They seriously think this gf is cheating because she said she was with her friend when she wasn’t yet OP was lying about what he was doing with her best friendI’ll probably get downvotes but I don’t think asking her where she was seems unreasonable to me? If my boyfriend told me he was with a particular friend all day and I found out he wasn’t I, at the very least, would start asking questions. Maybe not jump immediately to cheating, but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:01 PM |
| 83 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.i completely agree with you I feel like women are constantly being gaslit by the patriarchy and this sub (and pinkpill, gc etc) made me feel sane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 89 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.oh but thats fine because thats porn!!! /s also r/ strugglefucking (havent linked bc honestly it will ruin your day) the list is honestly endless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 174 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.apparently they were banned for misandry (eye roll) misogyny is perfectly ok tho - its not just mensrights, r/mgtow is still up in spite of literally using misogynistic languge in every single post. see also r/whereareallthegoodmen where gross entitled men expose the dating profiles (including face pics) of women they dissaprove of | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:09 PM |
| 47 | The delusional standards of some menplenty of men wouldnt show an ounce of kindness or politeness to a woman they didnt find attractive, so I think thats why they think women who are just being civil like them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 17 | If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him.I actually bought some earlier for my brother - an 18 pack of carling is £12 at tesco (like walmart but british) thats the biggest pack so probably best value for money, but he overcharged her for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:38 PM |
| 17 | If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him.I wouldnt ask my friends to pay me for beer at my house (esp cheap ass beer)?? his respect level for her must be like -100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:32 PM |
| 137 | There are few things less attractive on a dating profile than a man whose "About Me" is just a list of demands and feature requests.maybe im bitter, but I think most men are delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 116 | There are few things less attractive on a dating profile than a man whose "About Me" is just a list of demands and feature requests.‘are you drop dead gorgeous?’ who wants to bet he isnt?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 39 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?It was more of a case of me rejecting him and then him throwing a tantrum but yeah it wasnt pretty. he was a creep. He spent a good portion of the date complaining about his ex having an abortion against his wishes and his older brother being more successful than he was. he also revealed that - in spite of saying he was interested in motorsports on his tinder bio - he couldnt drive (i was like ??). it was pretty cringey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 139 | A reminder. Sit on your throne doing your queen shit. Let them impress you and show you they’re worthy and take you seriously. Otherwise, next!this is so true do yourself a favour and take mixed messages as a no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:39 PM |
| 78 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?this happened to me 40 pounds heavier and 5 inches shorter than he had claimed. Then when I told him I wasnt interesting in pursuing things further he yelled at me for wasting HIS time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Friend Bringing Fiancé on K-1 VisaI know I’m late but a few things he may be shady but - dont suggest hes an economic migrant. Acting like a man with a UK passport wants to come to the US to ‘make money’ is kind of absurd to me? He’s from the first world, not everybody is desperate to come to America. Also, if hes that cheap/broke, why would he choose to relocate somewhere with considerably less of an economic safety net/no free healthcare? It’s not a good argument, and it makes you look ignorant about the rest of the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:43 AM |
| 360 | I’m sorry, he what?this actually made me sad more than anything. Imagine your bf coming on one of your most sentimental childhood possessions you have had for more than twenty years.... this aint even funny, what a horrible man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:18 PM |
| 22 | Girlfriend puts her own money/time/effort into boyfriend’s business, doesnt even get a public thank youlooks like she’s gonna have to learn the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 58 | Lordt.sometimes i think back to men i used to date and shit i put up with... honestly i make myself cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:11 PM |
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