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| 104 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average height | Fundamentals | minskang | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 01:06 AM |
| 26 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones? | Conversation | minskang | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 04:16 PM |
| 14 | For girls who haven't expressed romantic interest yet, do you think they become more attracted when they see you flirt well with another girl? Why? | Comprehensive | minskang | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 04:56 PM |
| 11 | What is the optimal way to give/withhold validation with the most attractive girls? | Escalation & Calibration | minskang | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 04:28 PM |
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| 2 | How do you dance with/kiss girls at nightclubs?Ok so it is different for different people but it starts with mindset. Nightclubs are not for everyone but if you really want to learn, I think that's great because if you can do the hard stuff, then it'll make you feel more confident about the easier stuff, but you should know that there are many reasons for why nightclubs are not the most efficient way for getting quality women and improving your life. For you, I think you have empathy which l like. I think you need to accept that rejection ha… | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Field report 5 (approaches 25-31)Something wrong? You must be inexperienced bruh, not necessarily with women but with different atmospheres. There are lots of 40 year old non-white women who are hot af 8s to 10s. Probably like 3% which is nowhere near as many as chicks who are 20 obviously but 3/100 means there are plenty in populated cities. Now if you only talk to white chicks, that percentage is going to be way worse cuz of something about the melanin I think. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 08:20 AM |
| 6 | Went up to a girl for the first timeFear creates more fear. It is entirely possible that she was scared at your approach. Thought you might be a weirdo. Coming back and apologizing is actually not very manly but it actually feels genuine and actually shows that you're not a complete weirdo because you are aware of what is going on and understanding of her perspective. Is she interested? Not definitely, but there is a chance. How much of a chance? Not that high, not that low either. The positive is that she doesn't view you as depl… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:27 AM |
| 30 | I don’t want to jerk off. I’m not at a point of my life where I can get hot girls. What do I do?100% agree. Rejection is not a big deal. Your fat ego is the problem. If you get rejected there are plenty more out there. If it happens again it's a learning experience. Don't go doing the same thing over and over again if it isnt working. Another thing I want to point out though is that each archetype of girl has a blueprint and you need to meet more girls to understand them and sometimes you'll come to find that less attractive girls don't like you cuz they think your ego is big but more attr… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | For girls who haven't expressed romantic interest yet, do you think they become more attracted when they see you flirt well with another girl? Why?... I'm not doing that at all. It has nothing to do with that individual but it has all to do with learning. This is why I win and become better and you lose and you fail. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | For girls who haven't expressed romantic interest yet, do you think they become more attracted when they see you flirt well with another girl? Why?She probably doesn't but I'm sure some people would have a better idea. I think it's good to know why. Gaining a better understanding of why things happen has always helped me | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 06:29 PM |
| 9 | For girls who haven't expressed romantic interest yet, do you think they become more attracted when they see you flirt well with another girl? Why?The thing that makes girls upset when she's already on a date is because it is kinda humiliating. She was on board to see where it will go but you moved on to another one so quickly. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | For girls who haven't expressed romantic interest yet, do you think they become more attracted when they see you flirt well with another girl? Why?I'm talking about real situations though. She has expressed romantic interest afterwards. Let's say she was already into me but just not showing it. Why would she start showing it? That's what I am trying to find out. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 05:06 PM |
| 16 | For girls who haven't expressed romantic interest yet, do you think they become more attracted when they see you flirt well with another girl? Why?Not when you're on a date bro... In that case by going out with you she has already expressed at least a little interest. I'm talking about when no interest has been shown. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the optimal way to give/withhold validation with the most attractive girls?That's exactly what I'm talking about. Not verbal validation. Any validation. I've done it without verbal validation too. I was wondering if you have an optimal game plan. I'm just getting back into the game after a long hiatus | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 05:23 PM |
| 6 | What is the optimal way to give/withhold validation with the most attractive girls?Lol imagine just having sex without doing anything physical first. Gotta validate before sex imo but lmk if you've had sex before that. I'd love to hear it | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightOh yeah what a badass you are. That'll surely teach him to not lie about his height. How dare he?!!? | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightAw poor thing | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightThis is my point. The vast majority of women do not give a damn about a guy being 5'8 but it grosses her out on paper. They are literally passing on 5'8 guys because they think he's 5'6. We are literally giving women a more accurate idea of what they are looking for by changing our height online. A lot of people are hating because I started this post out with the word "Lie" but this is really helping women out. I am sure people will still disagree but I literally have yet to see anyone give any … | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightIt's not about you. It's about the others. It def helps massively online and if you don't think so then you're delusional. Yes I do think guys should get out there instead of going online but for some guys it's not that easy. I want to help them get a fighting chance | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightI'd say 2 is the max. My post is not about practicing dishonesty. It's about helping good men get a fighting chance like in the movie Hitch. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightYou shouldn't. A lot of people like me actually feel like we're the perfect height. I really love that I don't bump my head into as much shit as you do. #grateful | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 03:11 AM |
| 12 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightExactly!!!! Most chicks literally do not even know what height they want. I've had numerous chicks tell me their requirement is higher than my height but I can still get them to come home with me and/or fall for me. We are literally doing them a service and they are literally not doing us any service by doing all of that crap. Do some guys actually fall for the girls and just deal with all that? Yes but most guys absolutely feel deceived. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 03:10 AM |
| -9 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightThis is terrible advice because how are you going to tell people who've never been confident to just be confident all of a sudden. It doesn't work that way. They need stepping stones, and if they're going to be using online dating, their self esteem is going to be crushed more if they are short. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 03:04 AM |
| 11 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightThis I completely agree with. The vast majority of girls don't give a damn what the numbers of your height actually are if they see that you're tall enough and 5'7 or 5'8 usually is. This is not a problem for me, but some people have extremely busy lives or they are just too shy. I do think the best is to overcome the hardship by putting yourself out there, but sometimes it is not so easy, and online dating is demoralizing enough. Why not give some guys hope by just adding an inch? Pro basketbal… | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightRight, you cant if shes filtering out for 5'10+ but every inch def makes a huge difference if starting at 5'6. For hookups, definitely yes. For relationship, also definitely yes. If you meet and she falls in love, do you think she's gonna give a damn about what your height is? No. Also, you don't even have to wait that long to be honest about your height. You could say it as quick as the first date. I'm just giving an online tip to get your foot in the door. If she doesn't like you just because … | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:39 AM |
| -3 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightDude I really don't see how this is so bad. I actually think what you're saying to me is way worse, calling someone a bad person just because I am trying to help guys and girls. Is it sooo right that girls judge a man by his height? It's something he can't change. She also misses out on a great guy and the opportunity to become a better person herself. Give me a break dude | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:32 AM |
| -7 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightDang you really think all these nba players have no integrity right? You really think people who actually don't have any confidence should just continue to never use anything to get an advantage right? Even if they want to commit suicide and changing an inch could save his life? If that's integrity to you, then wow I have no integrity for wanting people to live a happy life. I'm not telling people to be dishonest about everything. I'm saying some white lie can literally bring joy to a man, a wom… | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:26 AM |
| 10 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightOnline it matters because they filter you out. If you really do that well online saying you're 5'8.5 then you're probably quite high status | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:03 AM |
| -14 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightI don't. Wth are you talking about | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:00 AM |
| -19 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightRight? Some guys wanna just deprive women of the chance to have them. Absolutely disgusting | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightDon't put 5'10. That's just dumb. You could put 5'7 or 8 and pass on the ones that you think are too tall | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightI'd put 6. You're already tall and 6 is usually the marker for most girls. If you really want the 5'9 and taller girls you can probably stretch to 6'1 but honestly you have lots of options at 6. Your options won't increase much at 6'1 although I'm sure some girls filter to 6'1 cuz they know guys are already lying on apps often. That's another reason why you just gotta go with the trend to keep up | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?I just used that as a metric for people to gauge physical attractiveness. Personally I think it's a fair observation and I think many people would agree but if you still think I'm just shallow then okay, we can agree to disagree | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?This I agree with especially in the nightlife but even then they're still less entitled than the less attractive ones in general. The area is NYC and the age preference for long term is 25 to 30 but I'm flexible if her character measures up and even more open if we're just going to smash. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?I love this explanation. I felt this was a possibility too. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 05:45 PM |
| 6 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?This is an excellent explanation. This makes me feel really good about pretty girls, and I always have deep down. This is why I hate when less attractive girls whine about how guys are shallow. The prettier girls are literally cooler and they look better too so it's kinda a no brainer. I do think sometimes the pretty ones are unaware of the degree of their pretty privilege but more often than not they do try to understand. I wonder though, why can't these less attractive chicks see that the enti… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?Why though | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?Are you saying that less attractive girls are sick of getting approached? Would they not be happy that a more attractive guy approached? Are they just more used to game being used on them? | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 04:42 PM |
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