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What's your advice to me?
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:11 AM
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🤔 I think you should think about what your requirements are and next time communicate them. If I was dating an ex-onlyfans girl, I would not let her be on Instagram. That's an unofficial dating app.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 06:06 PM
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I think you should have set boundaries at the moment she wanted to be exclusive, not after she already met another guy. I don't think you read my initial advice or perhaps you don't agree with it. Anyway, good luck next time
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 05:54 PM
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So what would you do differently next time?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 05:48 PM
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Ok but what about the advice I gave you? She had red flags, but you liked her and had a great time with her. I didn't criticize you for that. I said next time notice red flags and have standards for an LTR. You let your girl roam free and gave her all your time an attention. Not smart.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 05:27 PM
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At the bottom you write things you learned. What about paying attention to red flags? She was an ex-onlyfans girl ! An LTR with that type of girl is not playing on hard mode, it's playing on extreme difficulty. Even if you are top in you alpha male game, she might monkey branch anyway. This girl has options, and you should have made her cut them off by telling her YOUR REQUIREMENTS for an LTR. She should have closed her Instagram account and no longer gone out parties to limit her opportunities …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 04:55 PM
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If you need the money then ask. Why not? What's your job situation?
/r/newTRP04/02/22 04:51 PM
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In the old days girls would notice guys that had low energy and were cold. They needed men and they didn't have a smartphone at their fingertips. Now they can get wined and dined by simps, open an Instagram account for attention and use onlyfans to get rich. Not to mention that the attention span of an average girl is literally the length of a tick tock video or a tweet. PUAs teach men to entertain women since traditional masculine provider/protector game doesn't work. Girls work and don't need …
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:04 AM
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Masculine is not the same as antisocial. In fact, you need masculine energy and courage to talk to a girl. Lead the conversation and be interesting. Don't be a blue pill simp!
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:01 AM
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PUA game is having a little more energy than the set you are opening. So if you are at a rave, then stimulant drugs could possibly help. But otherwise, I don't see why you would want to take drugs to meet women. Just be more interesting than them, which shouldn't be that difficult. Not sure what red pill game you are referring too. Red Pill is about understanding women and relationships how they really are and not learning pick up strategies. Become an alpha version of yourself, don't put women …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:02 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:36 PM
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What book do you recommend?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:20 AM
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Virgins have lower divorce rates so it could definitely work.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:34 PM
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Don't pressure yourself. Divorce isn't an easy thing. Take time to make new friends, hobbies and enjoy life. Travel and try something new. The dating situation in 2021 is a mess and short term oriented. Before throwing yourself in the deep end, think about what you want in a second wife. Then go to places where you can find those types of women. Screen out girls who don't meet your criteria.
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:07 AM
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Then do indirect approaches and talk about something related. For example, ask where a Starbucks is and then talk about coffee. She wont even realize your hitting on her and you can look for IOIs (she asks you a question) before making the conversation personal.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:37 PM
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There are hundreds of guides from PUAs, just pick one. It basically comes down to having an interesting conversation, not asking too many questions and then getting a phone number. Direct or indirect approach it's up to you. There is also a reddit seduction group.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:34 PM
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Too many girls to bang, not enough time? It's hard for me to feel bad for you...
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:30 PM
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So I know guys that have brought girls back from other countries, with mixed success. I don't know any guy who has relocated himself. Do you speak the language of the country? What about work? Is that where you would want to live anyway? I am considering something similar, but not eastern Europe. If I don't find the girl of my dreams, I will still be happy to live there. So I don't risk as much. I don't think we should change our lives too much for women, since they are unreliable anyway.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:17 AM
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The benefits are having children. I think most women wont do that if they aren't married.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:57 PM
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That's true. So do you think marriage is ever a good idea?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:01 PM
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Thanks for sharing such a personal story. Sorry to hear that it didn't work out for you. What would you have done differently if you could go back in time?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:12 PM
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Good points. I don't know if I can recommend going to Eastern Europe to bring a trad wife home since the girl will become westernized after being more exposed to feminism. But perhaps if it was realistic, he could actually move and live in the country of choice where the cultural beliefs and values are more conservative.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:47 AM
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That's a trad wife not a gold digger. They exist in the USA and Western Europe as well. Back in the 1950s that was normal. A gold digger dates you for your money and normally has expensive tastes, i.e. expects you to buy her gucci purses or whatever. If you want a traditional family, then have an LTR with a trad wife family oriented women especially if she comes from a conservative religious background.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:34 PM
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Use this formula to get a good approximation: (Age - 16) x 10
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:19 PM
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I have been trying cocky funny but everytime I call her mom answers.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:00 PM
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Do what's in your best interest. Doesn't sound like you have anything to lose by seeing her again, unless her blowjobs are bad. Not sure why you want to "soft next" her. Do you think she is using you for money or attention? Invite her over to your place and try again for sex. Don't spend money or time on her except 30 minutes of talking before you get physical.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:54 AM
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I'm guessing your a lone wolf? I read your advice below, to block both the girl and the friend. I don't disagree with you. That is solid advice. OP wasn't a great friend either pretending he was cool with everything. OP should have said he was upset from the very beginning and called the guy out on his bad behavior. But he didn't and it just got worse. So I don't feel so bad for him.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:12 AM
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That's not how I understood your post.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:16 PM
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Where does TRP advocate harming women?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:58 PM
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I completely agree. Definite lack of communication. Most likely the "friend" isn't able to get plates on his own and OP acts like he is cool with it. Not sure if there is really manipulation. Sounds more like a misunderstanding.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:06 AM
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You should end the friendship if he is manipulating you. If he is not being a good friend, then why have him around? Confront him about it. Men have the ability to communicate logically and solve problems. If it's a mutually beneficial friendship, don't be afraid to share plates.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:45 AM
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Never
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:38 AM
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Write her you don't really care if you ever see her again. Ignore he and become an alpha man. Date other women and don't think about her. After Chad has ran through her, she will come crying back to you. By that point, you will have realized you're better off without her.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:34 AM
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The first step is learning red pill and believing it. The next is becoming alpha and spinning plates. Once you're successful, you'll never look back. Just look forward to that and keep with it.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:07 PM
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I am in Europe. Lockdown light and masks not mandatory outside. The girls I have been matching with online are older and uglier. I met a couple if them and some were afraid to kiss on the cheek or even shake hands. One even wanted to leave her mask on. I told her I wasn't sick so she could take it off. If she kept it on, I would have left the date. Day game has not been going so well. People seem afraid to even talk to strangers nowadays. Night game is of course non existent. Let's hope this sum…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:53 PM
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Alpha widow red flag. Downgrade her to a plate. Increase attraction by withdrawing attention and limiting interaction, not being a jealous beta.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:13 PM
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Call her out if she disrespects you. If she is rude, arrives late, is constantly nagging, don't be afraid to tell her! Also, use dread game to punish bad behavior. Don't share your emotions and expect sympathy.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:13 AM
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You're making a problem out of nothing. Part of being successful with women is saying and doing what's in your best interest. You did that and now your in a great relationship. Get a job and get over your feelings of guilt. Do you think girls always tell the truth? Ask her what her notch count is and then multiply that by 10 to get the real answer.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:16 AM
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Women can just open their legs to get sex, so polyamory is literally alpha fucks beta bucks... riding the cock carosel while being married to an ATM machine. That's a wet dream for any hypergamous slut.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:40 PM
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Glad to here you cut it off with her and came to TRP. It was a very good decision. I get depressed sometimes cause I feel like I should be married with kids but then I think about all the beta guys I know with terrible wives. Now I am much better at meeting women and also know what I want in a potential LTR. To be honest, I don't even need a super hot girl. I want a trad wife who respects me and who I can trust.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:23 PM
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Sounds like her going on onlyfans was a terrible idea. Not good to let women make decisions. They do what is in their best interest not what is best for the relationship. That's why women shouldn't be in charge since they are inherently selfish. I was blue pill too, we all were. I remember I let a girl literally pick bars and restaurants for an entire evening and I just paid for everything. She just blatantly used me and I was nice to her the whole time. She didn't even want to meet after. I rem…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:05 PM
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I can imagine she began to enjoy all the attention from other men. I don't know how a relationship with a girl like that can actually work. But would be fun to bang a hot chick.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:41 PM
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She slept over but didn't have sex... That was a mistake. You don't need to have sex on the 2nd date, since all girls are different. However, you should know if a girl is attracted to you. Keep escalating the touching, kissing, and foreplay every time you see her. If she pushes you off her, then you have your answer. Just keep going for it and stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:33 PM
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Ask max 3 personal questions, then set up a date.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:23 PM
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What ended up happening?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:19 PM
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I understand you... I guess that's his call if he wants to risk getting an STD. With a condom he should be ok though. Not plate material but maybe for a late night drunken booty call.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:57 PM
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Good decision. Have fun
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah but remember these questions are just to give you some insight into her personality. Red flags / disqualifying criteria (feminist, woman with children, high notch count, etc.) for an LTR are something else. So yeah, good luck and I hope you learned from your mistake!
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:41 PM
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I wouldn't agree to sleep with a girl that I never met before. You get 5-10 minutes of good sex (if all goes well) and then probably an awkward sleepless night. I Tell her to come during the day and go home after the sex.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:32 PM
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Women are not happy to date a normal guy. They want to compete with other women for the "top guy" and they want him to chose them. It's hypergamy. The only way to win is to become an alpha male. The good thing is women are more concerned with behavior than looks. So you can actually improve your SMV by using game. Look at videos on YouTube of normal looking PUAs getting 9s and 10s effortlessly. It's totally possible. Of course hitting the gym, getting better clothes, haircut, etc. helps as well.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:21 PM
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Think of the girl as a normal person regardless of how hot she is, and just have a normal conversation. Talk about something your interested in or knowledgeable about, but not if it's boring. Be outcome independent and just have fun. Also, when your ready, tease and flirt with her. Qualify her. Remember you're the prize. Don't ask too many questions and don't agree with everything she says. Don't let the girl lead the conversation. There are plenty of PUA and red pill books out there to help you…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:11 PM
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Look up standard screening questions and red flags. You also should have different criteria for a ONS, plate and LTR. It sounds like your limiting yourself to girls in your social circle, which is understandable after that bad experience. Here are some of my favorite questions for a first or second date. Fun but at the same time informative: What animal would you be? - understand her temperament What would you do with $1 billion? - her true calling or passion What other country would you live in…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:25 PM
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Sounds like you have a good idea what you are looking for. How will you determine if the girl meets your criteria? Also, do you look for red flags? You need to pay attention to those.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:55 PM
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You saw all those red flags, but still considered her a potential LTR. Not smart. Good that you realize your mistake. Sounds like your emotional and believing what the girl says. Use logic please, your a man. So what criteria will you use in the future to determine if a plate is worth of becoming an LTR?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:38 PM
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You write in the first sentence she was a potential LTR. So let me understand you, an ex-prostitute with an onlyfans account is a potential LTR? I think you should be asking what your screening criteria should be and not asking what is wrong with modern women. Most women are not prostitutes or porn stars. I don't feel bad for you for making bad choices. You could have turned down the porn video offer and kept her as a booty call. I'm assuming she is hot. But LTR? You have got to be kidding.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:50 AM
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Doesn't sound like you have a "you are the prize" red pill mentality. What are you screening questions? You aren't there to provide her entertainment and laugh at her dumb jokes. Steer the conversation, flirt, tease and be cocky funny.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:29 AM
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Get her phone number, unmatch her, and when age comes up in conversation, tell the truth. She can't accuse you of lying without proof. Girls don't remember everything in your profile, trust me.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:21 AM
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I would tease ger about it. Ask her if she has pronouns in her bio because she often gets mistaken for a man. When she gets overly sensitive and starts lecturing you about 159 different genders, then next her. She should realize how stupid she looks for writing she/her.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:04 AM
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She is a doctor so clearly she knows how important nutrition and fitness is. She is fat while single... not a good sign. Women gain weight after marriage. Since clearly the health benefits are not important enough for her to get on a treadmill, why would she have more motivation AFTER you marry her? I would definitely not tell her she is too fat for you. That isn't going to increase attraction or motivate her to lose weight, but rather just make her more self conscious and maybe depressed - pote…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:37 PM
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She's either wacked out or cracked out
/r/seduction24/04/21 05:24 PM
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I read about 10 PUA books but still not 6'0"... what am I doing wrong?
/r/seduction23/04/21 11:09 AM
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So I am 5'11". How can I become 6'? I don't want to waste time learning game and would rather just get taller. I've tried going to the gym, walking more, and even sleeping upside down. Nothing seems to work. Any ideas? Thanks!
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:59 AM
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I would have replied, "no need to make it personal", cause she is insulting you based on your views. I wouldn't agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:08 AM
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Doesn't sound like a shit test. A shit test is when the girl is interested in you and wants to make sure your alpha. This girl just disagrees with you. In general, I would avoid saying your opinion about this kind of topic at work. There is no freedom of speech in a fem-centric work environment where you can get fired for saying the *wrong" thing.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:05 AM
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Tell him you want to listen to different opinions and make your mind up for yourself. Say that his oppressive behavior, trying to control what you watch/listen to, is not cool. It should be about his bad behavior and not wether red pill is correct or not. Tell him to stop. It is normal for teenagers to fight their parents in order to gain more freedom. As a child parents need to protect their kids. But then later, parents need to step back and give their son/daughter some independence. If they a…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:41 AM
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That makes sense. I was hoping to be vague but she is pushing me to make a decision. It sucks. I think it is over with her so I will just move on. Next time I will be more honest.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:51 PM
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I think I will tell her it isn't going to work out. I appreciate your advice. Do actually tell girls you wont be exclusive and they still wanna have sex?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:04 PM
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Good advice thanks
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:02 PM
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I think it's good to listen to the advice from the more experienced PUAs but not copy their style. Learn the psychology of women from them. Also, if you consider that lots of the PUAs are not attractive but get lots of girls, then clearly they are doing something right. The beta guy approach just doesn't work. I am a newbie myself, but definitely think PUAs are an important part of TRP. They may have a bad reputation due to high fees and cringy youtube videos, but some of their strategies are go…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:19 PM
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Well said. I would add, before the surgery talk to your friend. If his friendship is important, help him feel accepted by for example joining a sports team together or some other male bonding. Perhaps, he will change his mind.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:00 AM
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Tell that to the guys in jail... Men are sexual beings. If you can't get pussy no matter how hard you try, who knows what testosterone will make you do. There are guys that have sex with animals! Just saying...
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:23 AM
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Isn't this completely off topic? I am worried some woke SJWs will forward any "transphobic" comments to Reddit and get asktrp shut down. I am on asktrp to learn how to meet women not talk about transexuals. Thanks!!!
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:03 AM
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I just read and then re-read your post. I should have mentioned, I have done more than just read red pill and pua books. I bought new clothes, got a new haircut, and stopped playing video games and work out instead. The other day I talked to 5 random people on the street and they were all very friendly and responsive. That was a first step for me. Approaching hot girls on the street is still scary, but I like your idea of asking them a random interesting question just to get the conversation sta…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:13 PM
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Ok that makes sense. I will try that. Should I ask him if he wants to talk to girls together? Or what would recommend doing after drinking something together?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:08 PM
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I suppose I needed that reality check. Unfortunately, I don't have any private jets or maseratis... not yet anyway ; ). I get your point, no legit PUA would wanna go out and show me the ropes for free. But I do have something going for me, I have been reading lots of red pill / pua books and learning. But yeah, I get that I should do 100 cold approaches, but easier said than done. I guess it's like that feeling like skydiving for the first time. I suppose if I just go out and try with no expecta…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:27 PM
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Totally understand and don't know why I didn't think of that before. But isn't that kinda gay if I offer a guy a drink? Don't wanna send the wrong vibe.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:18 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I never thought to meet other guys at a bar or club, but I guess it's possible. Have you actually done that?
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:07 PM
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I appreciate the advice and I get that PUAs aren't necessary nowadays with all the game advice being free online... but... that doesn't make cold approaching random girls alone easy. All my friends are terrible blue pill wingmen. So going out with one of them is a lost cause. Would you recommend I look for a wingman online or just get drunk and go solo?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:01 AM
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She did it in a really special"teasing" way. First just licking the head and then a little sucking. I made me really horny. I was completely surprised how good she was at that. The day before she texted me asking if we were just f*ck biddies and how she feels that I am not into her enough. I panicked for a second, thought to post in asktrp, and then decided to not answer the question. I wrote her back saying she needs to relax and not stress out and that I look forward to seeing her. I kept thin…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:21 AM
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I just met the girl again and went down on her like you said and then she gave me amazing head. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:23 PM
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I just had sex with her again. I licked her pussy like you recommended and then she gave me an amazing blowjob!! Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:22 PM
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It just drove me crazy how she had every time a different excuse. I was like wtf?? But I read through alle the feedback from you and everyone and get it. I mean, yeah she doesn't know me and doesn't maybe trust my judgement or is afraid or whatever, so I should take that into account.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:30 PM
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I get it now, that my reaction was wrong, but to be fair, it does say clearly in the Sidebar FAQs that the man should decide the dating logistics and I still agree with that. This girl literally found an excuse for 5 different date ideas that I proposed. I honestly think she is complicated and that's why I basically nexted her. But yeah, in hindsight, I could have gone to the place she was recommending since I didn't have any other dates that day
/r/askTRP23/02/21 05:45 PM
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Great advice. I feel kinda stupid that I expected her to just do what I say before we even met.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:14 PM
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By romantic, I mean either walking along the river or a dark park bench where we can make out. I don't take girls to restaurants.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:53 PM
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I didn't want to meet her because she didn't want to go where I recommended. I just wanted to meet for coffee.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:50 PM
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I am picking a place that I know is romatic or at the very least nice setting for a date. She picks a place the she wants to go where I can pay for her. I made 5 suggestions over 3 days and she either said she would rather go somewhere else or said it was too cold or a "bad part of town". I called her out on it and she said I was bad at deciding where to go. Wtf
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:35 PM
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Looks are definitely important online, but less so with day game. Your behavior is really important to a girl in real life. I can recommend the book Game by Roosh V, but might be hard to get a copy nowadays. I can't give you much more advice, since I'm rather new to TRP myself. But yeah, don't lose hope. Not all girls are narcissist influencers.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:25 PM
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The idea behind TRP is that you can increase you value by learning game. If you act like Brad Pitt, she will think your Brad Pitt. As a man, we see a woman and we automatically can rank her based on looks. But girls can't rank guys like that. Game gives her the impression that your SMV is higher than hers. If you don't do well with Tinder, try day game.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:17 PM
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😅 good point
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:56 PM
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Ok. What excuse do you give if a girl asks you to sleep over?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:45 PM
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Well said
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:42 AM
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If that's true, it's sad. I mean, she let's me enjoy her pussy but not her mouth? Shouldn't it be the other way around if she wasn't totally into me?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:22 AM
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Wow that's a really brave approach! But wont you need to pay child support for all those children? And wont it be difficult to be a good father if the children all habe different mothers and live in different places?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:13 AM
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Ok
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:09 AM
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I see your point. By me asking her questions, it's giving her a chance to show she is worth me taking her out on a date. I am asking you questions because you are knowledgeable and helpful. I ask the girls on Tinder questions and feel like I am wasting my time.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:26 AM
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I will check out the book thanks. Intuitively, seems like a beta thing to have to listen to a girl talk on and on about herself, but I guess it is like a requirement to get a date.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:13 AM
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Ok that makes sense. But so sad that they are so self centered! That's the opposite of what they probably think about themselves. I even noticed with the girl I am seeing, she almost always just talks about herself and tells me what she wants. Wtf? And girls write in their profiles what a great person they are and their interests are usually social things, but they are socially inept!
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:57 AM
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All good advice, thanks. Only thing is, I already put my best pics and ask open ended questions. The thing is, some girls just appear so lazy and socially inept. If I already asked her 3 questions about her hobbies or whatever and she hasn't asked me anything, I feel dumb to continue writing the girl. I thought maybe I could be passive aggressive and write something like, "thought you would be a cool girl to chat with, but it's actually kind of boring"
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:44 AM
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So if she isn't writing much back, I should actually be more direct? I try to match her interest level so as not to come across too needy. Like if she waits a day to write back and writes just one line, then I do the same.... How can I turn some one word replies into a hookup?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:40 AM
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Having open communication was my approach before the red pill. Isn't telling her my thoughts and feelings a beta thing to do? ... I am confused now.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:01 AM
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Ok makes sense
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:57 AM
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But in second thought, is it a Beta thing to do something for her and expect head in return? Just saying. Not that I mind going down on her. I was actually so horny and wanted to just stick it in the last couple times, didn't even consider giving her oral.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:01 AM
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I like that idea
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:54 AM
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Now that I think about it, maybe she isn't into blowing me cause she is afraid of getting an STD.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:08 AM
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I don't fuck without condoms, just considering that as an option and wanted to hear the opinion of other guys. I get what your saying and totally agree. But it's not a dumb question to ask and I don't think I am the only one who considers raw dawging a chick and pulling out. But I get it, it's a bad idea.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:03 AM
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I am going to consider that but not spinning enough plates to lose one.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:00 AM
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I kind of see your point but comon, not all girls are into anal. That's going too far.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:40 AM
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😅 when your not insulting me, your actually pretty funny. What medicine should I be taking? Don't know what your talking about...
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:37 AM
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I get your point... Not the best at asking a girl to do something for me. I just assume she will know what to do.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:36 AM
1

Ok cool. I just assumed pretty much all girls give head. To be fair, I haven't gone down on her so maybe I am a hypocrite for expecting her to do the same. Also, I get hard without needing her mouth, so maybe that's also why. Not necessary for her to blow me. Maybe she just wants to skip right to the hard sex and forget about foreplay.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:35 AM
1

Ok I get it. You don't have to get personal. I should have worded the question differently. Condom vs. pull out... Not planning to cum inside a girl.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:20 AM
1

So if I understand you correctly, you have sex without a condom if the girl is on birth control and then you don't pull out? How can you be 100% sure she is actually taking the pills?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:17 AM
1

Don't think that's the reason. Like I wrote above, we have sex.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:04 AM
1

I am so tempted not to use one, but appreciate the good advice. I just need to suck it up and wear protection. Don't wanna get stuck paying child support.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:54 AM
0

Ok, I get your point... but seems like it would be worth a try if the girl was really hot or if you didn't have condoms with you cause the sex was spontaneous.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:53 AM
1

Are you more concerned with getting her pregnant or STDs? I am circumcised so the risk of HIV should be relatively low and I would just pull out to avoid pregnancy. I use condoms as well, but just considering going raw if the girl is hot.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:45 AM
-1

I agree it having sex without a condom isn't the most responsible thing to do, but would it really be so bad?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:37 AM
-5

But you can pull out to make sure she doesn't get pregnant.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:34 AM
1

Just to add, I do use condoms and even bought custom sized ones in europe, since they are not sold in the states. But to be honest, I'd rather live life on the edge and take a risk once in a while.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:26 AM
3

How about telling your wing woman what she is doing wrong. It sounds almost like you were afraid to confront her bad behavior. I never had a wing woman to be honest, and after reading this, I don't think I ever will. I've been out with a bad wing man before, he was drunk and jealous of me so he literally talk shit about me to a girl while I was in the bathroom. I confronted him about it, and he blamed it on the alcohol.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:35 PM
2

I'll def check it out, thanks.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:21 PM
2

I think TRP helps you understand women and should therefore help you reach your goals, wether it be spinning plates or a ltr. Don't give up on your dreams... If anything, you should get more sex and have a happier marriage than without the red pill. Plus virgins almost never divorce their man.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:01 PM
5

Just to clarify, the first date for me is just coffee and 45 minute chat. I wanna make sure the girl actually looks like in the pics. I usually leave early to make her think I am not interested, which I think gives me high value. I think trying for sex on the first date wouldn't work for me, so I don't want to even try and come across as being desperate.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:50 PM
3

These are my minimum requirements to go on another date. Expectation for the 1st date: Be good looking and friendly. 2nd date: make out session at a minimum 3rd date: try for sex but handjob or blowjob is ok 4th date: sex or she is out
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:44 PM
1

What should I have written back to this??? Hey, I'm in process of cooking :) would you be so kind to get some fresh bread on the way, the drink of your choice and some flowers ☺️ I expect her to have everything ready, like I do when she comes to me. And I don't like being told to buy flowers!
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:11 PM
1

How should I have responded to this: I found one TV stand not far from you, but it seems to be big for me to carry. I would really appreciate if you could help me to transport it this or Wednesday evening if you are free ☺️ FYI - I have no interest in helping her carry furniture.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:08 PM
1

I'll definitely check that book out, thanks. Is there a list of compliance tests and the correct answer? Are girls doing this intentionally or subconsciously?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:06 PM
1

I think my problem is I can't say no. She asked me last week to help her pick up a tv stand that she found online. I thought to myself, wtf?? I told her I was sick and didn't see her for a week. Then yesterday as I'm driving to her place, she asked me to pick up bread, drinks and flowers!! I did it, but felt stupid. When she comes to visit me, I have everything ready.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:31 PM
1

Thanks for your advice
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:34 PM
19

Yeah, as long as she doesn't say or do anything else crazy, I would keep banging her. It sounds like she just keeps a diary of sex buddies. She seems to have accepted that these guys just want her for sex and she is also dtf. Don't see the problem.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:17 AM
2

Anyone know where there is a list of standard shit tests? That would be helpful. I have the same problem, not sure when a girl is just being rude and when it's a test.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:54 PM
1

Totally agree. Like I said, it was a good post.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:07 PM
2

That was definitely helpful. I will remember this post cause it's helpful not only in meeting girls but also in a workplace. I do wanna point out though, if someone is a manager they automatically get respect from people. Sounds like in his case, he would get respect anyway cause his personality. But I do know some managers who probably think everyone likes them but behind their back the employees talks bad about them.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:23 PM
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