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mintegral/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:04 PM
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Being in your late 40s, where do you find those introverts? They seem to hide more than the extroverts. What is the typical age of your girls? (both plates and ltr)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:32 PM
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Awesome post! That was me before my blue pill days. Those introvert girls are very very feminine and nothing is more nurturing for a man than a very feminine girl. You are writing that you are old. How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:02 PM
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I am doing cold showers for half a year now and I really love them. But I have one problem. I've noticed that my muscles get very very tense after cold showers. I am not getting cramps, but the muscle feel like they could cramp any moment and I feel more and more stifled. (had also back problems) Did anyone notice something similar? Do you have any idea how to fix this without giving up cold showers?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:52 PM
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You made a rational decision, despite having a lot of feelings for her. You know the TRP facts, so you know the blueprint of a girl, especially BPD. You can't safe them. She would have swallowed you up with her BPD behaviour and with time you would have suffered a lot of psychological and emotional pain/damage. You did the most honourable and brave thing a man in this era can do. You trusted your gut, you trusted your balls, you trusted yourself and your common sense. Don't listen to the people …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:25 PM
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Does this also apply for an ONS? Do you go full in on an ONS?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:44 PM
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I had multiple LTRs and was not wearing a condom. I need to prepare myself since I am single now. While having sex with a condom on, how do you get a blowjob during and after sex? Doesn't the girl "complain" about the rubber taste? Do you put it off and after the BJ on again? Do you wash your dick after putting off the condom? What is your approach?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:44 PM
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props/jokes/bait/next method Do you have any additional resources (links, books, pdfs) regarding the props/jokes/bait/next method?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:42 PM
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Yeah, had the same thing. Everything was better. My mind was even so fucked up, that when I rolled over on the other side of the bed after some sex with a chick, I would automatically start fantasizing about my ex and comparing all attributes including sex. My ex was BPD so she lured me in. I got every dirty sex I wanted, emotionally she could be the sweetest girl on earth, caring, loving but also give me some monster extremes. I fell hard for her, got addicted. She was my rollercoaster, not I h…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:07 PM
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Can you explain a little bit deeper how you got to that mindset? Any book recommendations or ressources?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 10:47 AM
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Awesome advice, it's similar to NLP. Do you have maybe any books that you can recommend?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 07:38 PM
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Yeah, this is a good filter that I use in order to screen for LTR girls: Is she capable of living a "normal" "boring" life? How does she behave when confronted with this "normal" life style? Does she crave other "shiny" things? Does she constantly need some "adrenalin kicks" by going out, doing crazy stuff, constantly seeing her friends, and so on, more than being with me together? It's a good and fast way to break the initial "mask" for both parties and see if this girl can maintain a LTR on a …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 10:24 AM
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"That morning I woke up, I was extremely sick. I threw up in his bathroom about 4 times, because I don't do dark alcohols. I can't do that again seriously. Except for fireball!" lol This girl knows what she wants!
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 07:50 AM
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Grias eich, nice to see some Austrian dudes.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 10:48 PM
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Really awesome and true post. But DO NOT leave her! Realize where you are doing bad. Make it your personal test study, because you can learn a lot from it. Accept where you are now and plan where you want to be and where you want to go from here. Initially it is the easiest thing to let it just go and leave the relationship behind you, but you will miss the the most important lessons because you will not be able to live and apply them. Jumping from one sinking ship on to the next sinking ship wi…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:04 AM
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Like mother like daughter. My father always told me: "Wanna see how your future wife will be, then take a close look at her mother." Eraaaaaase her from your life! There is no substitute for deleting her completely out of your life. Delete all messages, delete her and her friends from facebook. Actually fuck facebook for a while and just live without social media until you feel much better and stable. DELETE her number. No contact is rule no1. Start building a new life, take the TRP principles i…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:30 PM
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It's like he's posting here in order to show our reactions to his soon-to-be-wife-and-ex-wife, so he can say "look what they think of you, they would all dump you, but I AM a good man! Can you see it now?" Wake up OP, time to eject from this upcoming catastrophe!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:58 PM
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Awesome post, thank you! I have a worst case scenario in my mind. What would you do if she told you that she wants to have sex with another man in a 3some, while being fully honest. Not that you do not satisfy her, but it's a deep old fantasy of hers?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 02:09 PM
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I had a "lucifers daughter" as an LTR for 3 years. She had all the best qualities in the world: HB10 (slavic), dressing awesome, cooking, cleaning, best sex, same standards (you might think) wanted to have family and kids, was religious, and it was muchos muchos fun being together. But she also had millions of red flags! The point is, she will fuck you up mentally as long as you don't decide to actively go for the next LTR or next girl and next her. Being with her together alters your mind becau…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:56 AM
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I resonate with most of the things that you've written, except this: I've said this one in my previous post and I'll say it again, do not live together. You need your space where you can come home and take your armour off. Your rock solid frame will not last all day. You need rest. Having her there in your apt will ruin you, she'll get to start knowing your habits more and more and eventually crack you up. What life are you living, if you have to constantly worry if your armour can be cracked by…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:36 PM
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I know what you mean. On the first dates I give the girls room to expand, in that way I know if it is worth to go deeper in the near future. Of course you have to know where you are heading in the conversation, you set the boundaries. As I said, I give them room to expand like water but also control the direction I want to go. I don't get attached to what they are saying, so it's like they are fluctuating to me. So to speak: It's me who's is giving them the space and it's also me who is taking i…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:07 PM
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"Be water, my friend." is so on point. I was on a date yesterday and the girl was talking about herself and it seemed like it was already the 6th big red flag in regards to my personal girl standards. I just stayed stoic, listening to what she was saying, calmly nodding a little bit, still being positive about my world, keeping myself light hearted and let her continue what she was saying. I've noticed that she was opening herself up even much more, the more time was passing. It's like the flood…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 05:37 PM
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I really like your view on the female orgasm. Can you provide any books or good sources to get deeper into that topic. Do you practice tantric sex?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 12:07 PM
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I really like your view on the female orgasm. Can you provide any books or good sources to get deeper into that topic. Do you practice tantric sex?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 12:06 PM
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Once again, thank you for your insights.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 10:38 PM
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One more question. How is the correlation between submissiveness and hypergamy in your personal opinion? Is a girl who is really devoted and submissive to you less likely to branch swing? Does any of your girls submissiveness decline after time, or do they always want more of your dominance? I am not sure about your personal life, but if you had to choose a girl for a LTR, would you choose a girl who is really into that stuff (dbsm) or rather a girl who is just naturally devoted to you without s…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 06:33 PM
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Awesome posts! Thank you! You meet the girl, you establish the Dom frame. When bringing her home, do you instantly tie her up or do you start with normal sex? How do I transition without making it awkward? Asking her if she wants it would normally kill your frame. In what position do you tie them up? What is most convenient for you as a Dom? For example: She lying on her back, legs spread and each leg and arm bonded to the mattress-handles, just like a starfish? Hands higher or lower than the sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 03:33 PM
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The dominance thing is very inspiring! How often does it happen that they don't comply to your demands or proposition of calling you Sir? What do you do if they stop treating you like you want? You are very dominant, so I think there is not much room to "step up" your game and be much more alpha. I guess you probably have to let them go if they stop acting like you want. Or do you have other tools to make them comply again? This one is very personal, but you probably have to fuck them really goo…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 05:04 PM
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My inner beta self wants to say "I am sorry for you", but then I realize that it is what it is and what we all have to expect at some point. It's nature. I call her up. She asks if I'm upset. I calmly respond, "Of course. You slept with some other guy." She denies it. I tell her I saw the sheet. She goes quiet, then tries to claim it was me, from the previous week. I tell her to stop lying. I maintained an emotionless and calm tone throughout the entire conversation. I'll spare you the drawn out…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:28 PM
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The HB factor doesn't necessarily have an influence on loyalty. Just because of AWALT. If you as a man have a SMV of 7 and she is a HB5, then she automatically assumes that she is entitled to be with a man of this value (and probably thinks that she automatically is a 7 herself). If she gets the RIGHT opportunity to branch swing from you to lets say a SMV 8 guy, she would do it. Just because of AWALT. Shitty character doesn't change with the HB.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:19 AM
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How would you next her? Do you just drop her without any notice and concentrate on the better fruits, or do you write something that would give her a future chance to catch up to you later again?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:42 PM
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Very good post. Congrats for your incredible life gains. You seem to be very conscious about your life in general and about your life actions. How often and in which way do you reflect about your strength and weaknesses? Do you objectively track your success like writing a journal?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:36 AM
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Great post and really fascinating insights. Thank you. ... In order to detect stealth sluts the only solution I've found is to sexualize our encounters as quickly as possible and see how they react and then observe their words and actions to see if they are congruent. They are not, of course. ... Can you explain a little more in detail how you manage to detect those stealth sluts. Do you look at their sexual performance? If yes, then they could also shift down a gear in order to fool you (and ma…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:56 PM
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You have been cold approaching for a while now. How close have you been in finding a unicorn for a LTR? Or how many potential LTR worthy girls did you meet cold approaching.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:38 AM
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This is actually really great. The dumbest shit you say will be honey in her ears.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:43 AM
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I also do the "gross" face licking. Full tongue on the side of the face from chin over cheeks to the forehead. First she would say things like "Eeeeeehhhhuuww! WTF!", after a few times she would stand still like waiting me to do it. In the end she was doing the same to me, at least trying. No one beats the master!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:52 AM
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When coming home from a walk or from wherever, both of us would need to pee. We would fight who would go first. Sometimes I would let her win. Taking a shower together I would take my flaccid dick and slap her with it. After washing hands, instead of drying them with the towel, I would throw the water drops from my hand into her face. When lying together in bed, I would lay my heavy body on her and don't move. She would be forced to move my body by herself. That are real stupid things but they r…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:25 PM
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I could get really very childish with my Ex-LTR. Just dumb shit, but I loved it and she loved it too. I would open the door to my flat, she would assume that I opened it for her to let her first in, but instead I would just put my shoulder in first and say something stupid like "Let the master enter first!" with a very deep voice. Do it sometimes, not always of course. When she was doing make-up in front of the mirror and I was waiting for her, I would put her pants down to her ankles and give h…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:12 PM
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Prior RP I was watching a lot of RSD stuff. I really like Tylers videos. It was actually Brad who mentioned that he kinda falls in love with every girl he picks up and that was the same with me. Now it's gone. I really like Alex's stuff, but he is not working for RSD any more. Thank you for your reading and watching tips.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 12:16 PM
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You hit it exactly! Next book on my list is Book of Pook and then Models. I hate being a bitter pussy. How do you stop being bitter towards women and transcend that into being charming without lying to yourself? Is there a methodology?
/r/askTRP05/02/15 09:21 AM
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Yes, I need to find a strategy to make myself happy without external stimulation. Just by myself.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 09:00 AM
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Yes, but can the truth be really truer? If anything changes at all it will be just the perception of things, which will probably just be something that will make the truth more visible, which will result in more people plugging out.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:52 AM
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Yeah, I really feel like a robot. I am looking on myself, see the body, how it's functioning, but there are no fucking emotions.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:48 AM
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Yes, actually I am reading all the sidebar material, Rollo's book, and Illimitablemen site. I love this stuff, especially Illimitablemen. It's like a treasure of wisdom, I wish I had since my youth (32 now). But I think that what you have written, is the key. It all hit me very hard, I think I am starting to get bitter and I don't want to. I want to find a way to change my RP perspective in a positive way. Thank you for suggesting r/RedPillWomen. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:44 AM
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That sounds really good. Congrats for your functioning LTR. Maybe it's just that I don't have enough trust in myself after I've discovered the RP and need to adjust to the new thinking. Like in "Matrix", where Neo was using his eyes for the first time after he was unplugged. I love sex and I loved heaving emotional connection with the ladies. The sex was much much better that way. And I mean it in a totally rational (not BP) way. Now it's all gone. Maybe you are right and after a time I will try…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:29 AM
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Great post! Where do you mostly pick-up women? Where you sarging alone or with buddies? How tall are you?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:26 PM
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Your posts are very eye-opening. I am sill recovering from the BP and your posts give me a very good and clear direction. Thank you very much.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:46 PM
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If you do "dread game" by meeting other women or if you have contact with other women, what do you do when she starts to have male friends too or goes to meet some male friends if she is short-term unhappy? You are married and I personally think that if she'd start to see other males that would bring the marriage in danger. Wouldn't you have to react to her, to keep the marriage together? What is the strategy when my LTR uses the same dread as me?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 12:48 PM
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I am wondering how long you can spin the plates. I mean, after a while you get to an age, where it will be hard to get young fresh chicks. Maybe when you turn 50?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:38 PM
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"Vikings" is a great series with lots of Alpha characters.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 11:58 AM
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Don't you think that an LTR including great sex life is possible?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:54 PM
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This description sounds exactly like my Ex LTR. We were in a distance relationship for two years. 1.She approached you. I actually approached her. I met her on a wedding, took her by the hand, went outside where nobody could see us and kissed her. We slept that night together and it was awesome sex. 2.She is more social than you. She loved to go out and meet her friends. Most of her social circle friends were males. (girl/boy ratio: about 40/60) After a while, she stopped going out, stayed at ho…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:53 PM
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