mintyfreshbtw Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
55	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it In my personal experience, many men don’t care about nail polish but lots of women still use it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/20 07:24 PM
1	Play on words Think most of them just trying to get clout tbh	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/02/20 10:50 AM
17	[24F] "Even three years ago I wanted nothing more than partying, drinking and sex. Now I just want to raise children, cook, and have a loyal man. Is it too late for me to become a good wife?" Ohh alright my bad, thanks for clarifying! I see the comment wasn’t aggressive like I thought it was and sorry for misinterpreting.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/12/19 08:03 PM
26	[24F] "Even three years ago I wanted nothing more than partying, drinking and sex. Now I just want to raise children, cook, and have a loyal man. Is it too late for me to become a good wife?" Thanks for answering my question	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/12/19 07:51 PM
-21	[24F] "Even three years ago I wanted nothing more than partying, drinking and sex. Now I just want to raise children, cook, and have a loyal man. Is it too late for me to become a good wife?" Lol okay dude, I didn’t realise this was a man-exclusive safe space	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/12/19 07:40 PM
-17	[24F] "Even three years ago I wanted nothing more than partying, drinking and sex. Now I just want to raise children, cook, and have a loyal man. Is it too late for me to become a good wife?" I’m an East Asian woman in the West (not America) and I’ve never been called or heard anyone being called a noodle anything before. What does that mean?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/12/19 07:27 PM
2	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? I don’t post anything on most social media and only use it for messaging or keeping in touch with school friends and my fiance doesn’t use it either so for me personally, I wouldn’t assume that he was a creep or had issues. My (only) female friend doesn’t use it much as well but we know we’re not the norm. My mom thinks I’m weird for not using social media for sure though. 21/F	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 12:22 PM
5	How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions? It is completely fine to watch porn imo, given that people understand it is a filmed fantasy and are able to separate it from reality.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/19 09:49 PM
1	Single, Unwed Moms in China do not get State Benefits No it was one child per family	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/19 03:38 PM
6	RPW gives horrible advice to women and /r/FemaleDatingStrategy is unironically closer to being the female red pill That’s what people mean by submissive in RPW though...there are literally posts discussing this definition - like a captain and his second in command is the way they described it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/19 04:39 PM
1	People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy. That’s a good point, communication is really important in any relationship but in one where we are setting future expectations for ourselves, it becomes even more important that we ensure that it is the goal and future we will want later on at that time as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/19 04:29 PM
2	People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy. My partner and I are getting married relatively young at 22/23 but we’re not planning to have kids until late twenties when we’re more financially stable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/19 10:22 AM
10	What would you choose? Hypergamy. You moved countries for him and you’re still unable to commit to him? Why did you move in the first place for him if you thought you could do better?	/r/RedPillWives	20/10/19 04:37 PM
3	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? For personal stories: Guy #1: I was 19/20, he was 28 and relatively financially successful. However, he displayed more passive traits than I wanted in a partner since I’m quite submissive and sometimes, we were frustratingly indecisive. He didn’t have much ambition and was very wishy washy about whether he wanted kids or not, which was a no-go for me. Sometimes, conversations felt distant because we were in different stages of our lives as I was just fresh out of high school. Guy #2 (my fiance):…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 11:28 PM
1	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? ?? It is a good reason from the woman’s perspective. You were just waiting at the finish line when he already finished the hard work - any woman can do that. Set yourself apart or you will become easily replaceable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 10:42 PM
5	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? ‘Ex’ ‘nothing wrong’ lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 10:22 PM
2	pornography and its effects Tbh when you masturbate and think about sex, aren’t you just watching porn but worse in your head?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 02:47 AM
3	Reading men don’t love women like you My partner and I are really straightforward so I have asked him directly literally ‘how do you feel about my submissiveness and is it too much’. And he did tell me that sometimes, he did find it a bit annoying when I’m indecisive and try to get him to make my choices for me, which I’ve tried to improve on. However, obviously people communicate differently and perhaps it would be easier to be more specific like if you could think of certain submissive habits you tend towards e.g. just agreeing wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/19 10:06 PM
3	Reading men don’t love women like you I mean, if he complained about their bitchiness and didn’t criticise you in the matter, I don’t know why you would want to change in that way. If you think you’re being too submissive, you could ask him about his opinion directly.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/19 09:42 PM
1	Question to Modern Conservatives I mean, I don't think women or men should inherently have the right to vote in politics - I believe only positive tax payers should have the right to vote and the path towards this certainly isn't the liberal one. I can't comment on conscription because it doesn't exist where I'm from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 03:37 AM
1	What are your views on single sex vs. co-ed schools? I have 2 friends who went to an all girls school until 8th grade and they both said it was very gossipy, cliquey and it was easy to get bullied if you weren't part of a group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 03:33 AM
1	Q4All: What do you mean by submissive? For me as a woman, 'submissive' in the non-sexual sense in relation to feminine nature means serving and nurturing your famiy and your partner. It doesn't mean being passive - just doing everything in the best interests of your family and to respect your partner. Sexually submissive means you enjoy being told what to do rather than being the one giving the orders. This can be a bit of a mixed bag though - for example, I'm definitely more submissive than my partner but I really like being cheeky …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 02:51 AM
2	How to find a man in college? Hi, I’m still in my final year of college but wanted to share that I found my fiance while in college at the beginning of my second year. He’s doing a masters right now and is a year older than me (I’m 21, he’s 22). I met him through mutual friends while engaging in a hobby that the two of us were the most passionate about and struck up conversation initially as friends interested in the same thing. We were initially not interested in dating each other (lol), but got more interested in each othe…	/r/RedPillWives	22/09/19 01:05 AM
3	Not sure how to word this 4 months is starting to be long I agree. My LTR boyfriend and I originally met online through mutual friends and we met each other physically after a month and a half. We talked a lot about our values and making sure we shared mutual goals before getting into the relationship though. We were friends for a month more before that if that counts.	/r/RedPillWives	19/09/19 11:20 AM
–	Gratitude: What are you thankful for? I’m thankful for my boyfriend and the time we are able to spend together. His warm hugs always makes my day when I’m feeling down. The food my family has on our table every day and night The home my family lives in (places to live are expensive here) Having pretty good health Being able to afford ballet classes since I love doing it Being born and growing up in a peaceful country not in turmoil	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/19 08:54 AM
3	RPW reaching out to non-RP women I agree very much with positive tax payers and that's what makes the most sense to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/19 10:31 AM
21	Don't fall for "natural". I don’t know if I see femininity as unnatural. To be honest, learning that being feminine and wanting to be a nurturer and supporter rather an ambitious career woman has felt much more freeing and ‘natural’ than whatever those around me used to tell me to do. I understand that for some women, they don’t want to take on that role and don’t feel the same urges and that’s completely fine but for me, it does feel more natural than the alternative of climbing the corporate ladder or being someone’s b…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/19 07:42 PM
13	Why is it hard for some women to be feminine ? Shouldn't it come naturally ? I love being feminine, I feel so liberated knowing that it’s okay to not have ‘career ambition’ and looking forward to supporting my future family.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/19 01:16 PM
1	Q4W: What Has Been Your Experience With Chads? For me, a Chad is just someone who is popular with females so in that case, my brother would be considered one since he has many female friends that he goes out with even though they all know he doesn’t commit. He’s in medical school and is quite tall. He has a very sociable personality and loves talking with and meeting new people. He enjoys partying a lot, which is where he meets most of his female friends. There was a sweet and pretty girl he wanted to date seriously a year ago but he made th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:05 AM
1	Why are women who aspire to and do mate with higher earning/status men ever criticized or mocked as golddiggers? More money is good for their babies, and makes the difficult task of raising them easier. Seeking someone with the ability to provide for the family is different from never being satisfied with your man’s money and taking the next opportunity that comes if that guy has more money than your current partner. Golddiggers expect the man to pay for everything they want in their lives like a brand new luxury sports car rather than want to save the money for the children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 09:41 AM
2	Why the f*ck is it so hard to find sexy cotton panties these days? My fiancé and I both like Calvin Klein	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/19 06:55 AM
12	What's your concept of love? Believing in what we’re building together and not breaking it (the main thing that keeps hypergamy in check imo). Unconditional support, deep appreciation and devotion. Trusting in each other and my unwavering support for him no matter what he does (within reason of course i.e. not abuse or criminal acts).	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/19 08:34 AM
8	To make up for not being a virgin? As long as you weren’t sleeping around with random guys, it shouldn‘t be a problem. In addition, while being a virgin in your early twenties might be attractive to some men, I’ve heard some men tend to see female virgins who are like 28-29 as a bit of a red flag or at least suspicious so depends on your age as well. But at the end of the day, the quality of your character and maternal qualities (if planning to have kids) should be more important than the 2 sexual partners you had.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/19 08:24 AM
3	The Magic "After-Work Conversation" Very insightful!	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/19 07:28 AM
3	Should I dye my hair blonde? Are men more attracted to blondes? All men are different. My ex boyfriend wanted me to dye my hair red which I never did because I didn’t like how ‘out there’ it was while my fiancé prefers my natural hair colour (black) even though many said I looked really nice with my previous dyed dark brown hair.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/19 05:17 AM
2	Why Do Women Hate Men? Feminine qualities are inherently more about support and nurture - to support someone else at home may have made some women feel weak and vulnerable as they would be financially incapable of doing so if their husband did leave them or abused them one day. No one wants to feel weak and vulnerable so women try to be like men to support themselves, where feminism comes into play, promoting masculine qualities in women as these are required in the workplace. But of course men are better at being mas…	/r/MGTOW2	08/08/19 06:54 AM
4	Men want relationships just not with "you"--how do I handle this when people say this to me? Watch Mrs Midwest’s videos on being ladylike and classy. She’s a great example of a feminine woman!	/r/RedPillWives	29/07/19 05:55 AM
1	AMA: I'm RPW Friendly, High Quality & Honest Mature MGTOW Man In His Mid-30's I can relate to my father figure in childhood having a bad relationship with a woman (my mother lol). I was determined not to be like her since I was a kid and to become a better wife and mother than her, which eventually led me to RP. I actually just thought of another question as well: Did you experience red pill rage and how did you learn not to hate women like some other MGTOW do?	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/19 01:56 AM
2	AMA: I'm RPW Friendly, High Quality & Honest Mature MGTOW Man In His Mid-30's Hi, was there a specific event made you turn red pill at 16 or was it just through watching your parents or people around have failed relationships or something like that?	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/19 12:21 AM
9	Newbie looking for advice on how to start No problem and happy to help! I also wanted to recommend the YouTube channel Mrs. Midwest. She talks about the above but expands way more into it which I found really helpful and I think you may as well. Good luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/19 07:34 PM
49	Newbie looking for advice on how to start You can be a strong and confident woman but not in the same way that feminists often say you need to be. Be strong and confident in your feminine energy and try to complement your man’s masculinity rather than compete with it. Feminine traits like gentleness, compassion and nurturance are very important and yet often looked down upon in society especially today where masculine traits like assertiveness and leadership are valued more. Grow in these types of areas and you will start feeling more c…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/19 07:18 PM
7	Newbie looking for advice on how to start With this, try to complain less or at least in a more productive manner - thinking about possible solutions rather than just complaining for hours without planning to do anything about it. Guys do this too but it’s far more common with women in my experience.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/19 07:01 PM
3	Small changes, Big results Not really, I don't dance anywhere near the amount that professional ballet dancers do (I normally do 4 hours a week) so I don't think the shape of my feet will change. The fact that I'm an adult dancer and not a kid whose feet bones are still developing probably also contributed a lot to this. For dancing on pointe, I only do an hour a week so that's not enough for the big bunions that many dancers have to form. I did use to have bigger bunions as a kid/teen though when I danced a lot more.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/19 03:59 PM
5	Small changes, Big results My number 3 was definitely restarting ballet a few years after I quit as a teen. I love coming back to it with a fresh and healthier mindset focused on enjoying myself. It made me feel a lot better about myself because I wasn’t doing any other substantial physical exercise and it is something that I loved and still love now. It’s almost number 2 on self care as well because it’s something I’m just doing for myself and no one else. Ballet also has a meditative quality in that it’s just you, the m…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/19 12:28 AM
3	Boyfriend too clingy I mean a wolf you can’t tame sounds like someone who might run off to another woman as soon as he gets bored of you but what you can tell him is that you want someone who is not afraid to tell you when you’re wrong and able to challenge your views and ways of doing things. Tell him not to put you on a pedestal compared to him. I think you will be disappointed if you think a long term relationship will forever have that exciting new feeling that you seem to desire. While that feeling disappears, …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/19 02:54 AM
17	how would you advise your younger self? Man I really relate to trying to be a cool tomboy and hating being called ‘graceful’ and ‘elegant’ which I equated with being weak at the time. I also looked down on housewives as being too reliant on their man, which was something my mother taught me lol. I am glad that today, I am much better able to separate between good and bad advice she, as well as my father gave.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/19 03:40 AM
1	Which are the typical features any Red Pilled Woman could agree, that man of high value possess? (Advise for a 28M) For me, he doesn’t have to have a career completely aligned with his passions because at the end of the day, most people work to earn money and more often, the money is used to pursue their passions or build a family if they wish to do so. But it is important that he has goals in life and knows why he is doing whatever that he is doing. This is something I try to do as a woman as well.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/19 05:48 AM
1	Feminism, cancer at every stage While I agree with the points being made, I don't see how the 19th can ever be repealed because anyone who mentions that idea will lose most female voters who will no longer be able to vote after.	/r/MGTOW	18/06/19 03:31 PM
2	Economic Reality Guys wtf I got auto-banned from r/offmychest just for commenting here. Maybe I could understand if I was banned from feminism subs but these subs aren't even related what a joke.	/r/MGTOW	18/06/19 02:39 PM
4	Economic Reality True, my dentist says he no longer feels safe being alone in a room with a woman without at least one of his nurses in the room.	/r/MGTOW	18/06/19 02:01 PM
1	Is this not just straight up Jim crow level stuff? Separate it equal BS? I've been to Japan a few times and it's not Jim crow level stuff because it's not like all women must be on the women only carriages legally. They can choose to be on the normal carriages since there are far many more of them. Some train companies only have women only carriages at rush hour when everyone is very squished or at late night hours when there are more drunk people so it varies depending on the company. For men, this can be beneficial in that they have a much lower chance of being fal…	/r/MensRights	29/05/19 09:43 PM