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“Happy wife, happy life” makes my blood boil. It sums up just how one sided relationships with females are. The man has to disregard everything he needs and wants to appease the woman. And this is seen as normal and acceptable in society. Absolutely fuck all of that. I’m never getting married.
/r/MGTOW11/07/21 06:38 PM
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I appreciate you taking the time to share your story. It’s nice to hear success stories like that. Although I’m surprised that you’re not banned from this sub for saying that you’re in a happy marriage with a good woman. I feel like I’ve been through so many women over the years, that I just can’t be bothered to keep trying. It always ends up the same, which I take as a personal failure, so I try to improve and do something new the next time. But it still ends always ends horribly. I’ve tried so…
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 08:10 PM
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I keep going back for a few reasons. 1) Known misery is better than the unknown. 2) There is a part of me that keeps believing her lies. She promises that she will be everything I’ve always wanted, even though she repeatedly shows me that she is the opposite. 3) Whenever she goes a day without me, she either hurts herself or has a panic attack to the point where she has had to go to the ER. I know this will happen and it guilts me into staying. Basically because I’m an idiot because my brain is …
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 05:36 PM
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Dude, I know. What I’m doing is shamefully bad. Chasing women is not even worth my time. Women in their 20s are so immature and annoying, it wouldn’t be worth putting up with that for sex. She’s definitely a narcissist, which is a recent realization I’ve had. She has exploded recently when I used that word because she knows I’m finally seeing her for who she is.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 05:25 PM
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I’ve been trying to ghost her for over a year. Literally every week. It only lasts 24 hours. I’m trying to leave her, that’s why I’m here for help and motivation. I have known for a long time that she might as well be physically made out of red flags. I really don’t understand this group’s fascination with motorcycles. As if they will magically cure all of men’s problems. Like I said in my post, I already have my dream car. It’s a sports car that I take on the track. It’s great, I love the car, …
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 09:16 PM
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Correct. You are not allowed to point out objective reality to a woman.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 08:14 PM
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I knew I should have left out the part about depression. Yes, this relationship is absolutely terrible for my mental health. But I have been getting diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and PTSD for two decades by a dozen psychologists.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 02:53 PM
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Here you go. hands over man card Isn’t the idea of a man card anti-MGTOW anyway? It’s a concept that a man has to conform to what society at large thinks a man should be. It’s another toxic idea programmed into us. Yes, I need to lose her, but if failing to be the ideal man in every way nullifies one’s man card, then nobody has one. My felt sense of being a man does not need external validation.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 02:46 PM
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My therapist also says that boundaries are the core issue. The two examples you gave don’t work for me either in the long term. I couldn’t live anyone. I won’t be driven out of my own house on a daily basis because the woman pisses me off and I have to go on a walk.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 02:26 PM
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Looking closely at myself is exactly what I’m doing. That’s why I go to therapy. That’s why I’m laying all this out for strangers to help me identity why the fuck I can’t leave. I do have abandonment issues. But in general I am and have always been super independent. I agree, no man should choose this level of crazy.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 02:18 PM
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I feel you, I appreciate your comment. I should pick up my meditation practice again. I know what you mean by being around the same people who just reinforce who you think you are. I went on a short solo vacation recently and it was the first time in a long time that I had one good day. Traveling more is on my list. I agree that nobody ever can or will make me happy but myself. It needs to come from within, as trite as that may sound.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 01:23 AM
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Thanks for the tough love, buddy
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 01:14 AM
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I completely admit that I am weak in this regard. It’s not even a big deal for me to admit that. I am no stranger to intense self criticism. That’s one of the reasons I have success in many other areas of my life. That’s why I’m reaching out here, because I’m failing hard. Hopefully some of these harsh words and advice will get through to me.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 12:42 AM
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I’m glad to hear that you have found meaning in your life. That’s the kind of thing I need to hear. More time with friends and travel would be the two things I currently neglect that would help me. Staying with her is absolutely stunting my progress in therapy and keeping me miserable.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 12:35 AM
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I like the approach, but I made the mistake of telling her all the details of my finances. She knows that even if I lost my job I wouldn’t be in a dire financial position for a while.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 12:00 AM
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