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/r/MGTOW210/08/19 06:04 AM
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When I did keto, I had the most mental clarity I've ever had. I was motivated to hit the library and get work done, which has never really happened before. I didn't need coffee to do work although I did drink some tea as I got my shit done. This continued for months until I got out of ketosis. I also just felt very at peace and content with myself, yet still motivated to get things done. Edit: Other factors may have contributed to that last part, but keto definitely was a factor as well
/r/MGTOW208/08/19 06:39 PM
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Great post. How do you like Thailand and was it easy moving there? It's a place I'm very interested in visiting/moving to once I figure out my finances
/r/MGTOW206/08/19 09:55 PM
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This post reminded me of a time I served a girl at a restaurant I worked at. She had some cool looking tattoos that her boyfriend apparently did for her. Her bf was a talented tattoo artist who, at the time, was recently on a season of a tattoo reality show, I think it was Ink Masters. As our conversation continues she reveals to me that although the tattoos were actually tattoed onto people, everything else about the show, from the designs they came up with to who advanced each week to who ulti…
/r/MGTOW206/08/19 02:54 PM
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Read some books. The Way of Men, Power of Now, 48 Laws, books on body language, Meditations by Marcus Aurelius are some that I've read that I strongly recommend. I'm gonna try to get more into financial and business books so 7 Habits and some real estate books are queued up for me. You can learn so much through books man. Just set aside like 30 minutes and build up to an hour, then an hour and 30, etc of reading and studying. I'm guilty of wasting my time online but if you're not learning someth…
/r/MGTOW204/08/19 05:22 PM
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Tough at first (like all change) but so freeing and peaceful once you really start to internalize. Outcome independence becomes natural. For me, I swallowed red pills gradually over time but didn't truly internalize it as my subconscious motivation was still girls. Took a couple of different experiences that happened to fully grasp it. I'd like to say I'm beyond the anger phase and accept women for their nature. I still flirt, interact, and hookup when it happens, but I am not pursuing or chasin…
/r/MGTOW204/08/19 05:08 PM
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She probably did forget about you. When she constantly gets attention IRL and online, you don't mean much to her
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:19 PM
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If it's truly your passion, then who cares what other people think? If you're worried about SMV, keep lifting, improve your social skills, pick up another hobby or martial art that really interests you, read some books, and improve this passion, your comedy. If you climb the ranks of comedy and make a name for yourself, that'll definitely increase SMV. But if that doesn't happen, then it's still something that makes you more interesting. And you still genuinely enjoy doing it at the end of day s…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:01 AM
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Just do it is pretty straightforward. But for actual advice that helped my discipline: cut out porn or at least reduce it significantly, cold showers everyday, meditate everyday, clean up your diet and eat healthy (way more important than people realize), and workout consistently. But to implement these changes, you just have to do it. Edit: When I was 19, I felt the same way. Way too much porn and consistently on my phone or playing games. Truly didn't think I'd ever break out of the routine of…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:59 PM
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What was your plan/strategy?
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:12 PM
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Very foundational knowledge that I needed to be reminded of. Looks, muscles, and all that matter, but frame is still everything. If I rememered that, this prob would've ended differently. I need to make the frame thing and prize mentality a daily mantra. I used to obsessively and compulsively repeat "I am the prize, people need to win me over" stuff like that in my head when I first starting my RP journey and it helped.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:17 AM
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Thanks brother. Some people say it was my fault and others say it wasn't. I'm thinking it was a mixture of both. They had no respect, so I need to command respect. Either way, I will learn, adapt, and won't beat myself up. I'm on to the next chapter, and already feel 150% better, although not completely over the situation.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:13 AM
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Yeah man, these girls think they're entitled to do whatever they want if they aren't put in check. They have no human decency, at least most of them don't. It's their nature + society tells them they have a free pass. Very valuable nuggets of how to set boundaries, thanks man. I feel like telling people to fuck off now. I might go the other extreme and tell people to fuck off just so I calibrate in the middle after some time, and also cause it'll feel damn good after dropping the ball on this on…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:53 PM
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Yeah man, pain and failure ingrains life lessons in our memory is the way I view it. And that's real, I've always felt like I needed a lot of friends and a big social circle but after this, it actually helped me realize who my real friends are. I analyzed my relationships and realized that most of friends were just people I would get fucked up with. I can only count like 2 or 3 quality friends instead of my previous perceived number. Especially in high school, people might've liked me, but they …
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:44 PM
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Thank you, bro. I guess it's that remaining BP conditioning that caused me my doubts. I'm glad this happened now instead of 6 months from now when I would have invested even more
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:19 PM
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Thank you for your insight man. I agree. I didn't want to look insecure by calling her out, but ironically I looked like a bitch by not doing shit. Next time I'm saying fuck how I look to anyone, I'm gonna call that out out of self respect. That fucker is not my friend anymore. I don't want to give a specific age, but I need to vet these girls and these friends better.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:18 PM
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He never crossed me before the first incident. I shared too much with him and he exploited my weaknesses. Never fucking again. This shit still has me so fucking angry.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:13 PM
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You're right. I need to command more respect. And I needed to hear that. I grew up very BP and sheltered, and never had to command respect because I was a likeable guy. I was always loyal to friends and nice. Well guess what, I got crossed and burned and I'll never fucking forget this shit for as long as I'm living.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:11 PM
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All facts. I was initially thinking of just plating her, but nah she doesn't even deserve that. That would also just fuck with my head at this point in my life. No thanks.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:13 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, especially about the anti AMOG tactics. Will do all of these. Shit makes me wanna dedicate my life to training with JBJ and become a Welterweight champion.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:13 PM
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This is what I was thinking, too. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:03 PM
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Yeah, I applied dread. She knows my history with some girls. Her roommates were tryna fuck me in the past and she knew it and I made subtle hints at that again. She saw girls' texts pop up on my phone which I ignored. And some more shit that would just sound like humble bragging but you get the point. I guess that put her in line cause she knew I had options and didn't need her for sex.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:59 PM
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Noted. He came up to me, but I should've walked away or told him to fuck off. Gave him the benefit of doubt and got burned again. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:55 PM
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Clearly, either way it doesn't matter if she did or not anymore.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:53 PM
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Things resumed like normal after the first time. I didn't mention it and resumed normal dynamic. Except now I was displaying signs I might walk and distanced. She still seemed totally into me and everything was great until it happened again. But I realize girls will fuck around and act like everything's fine so none of this hamstering matters lol. Just feels good being able to talk about this with like minded people. She was a complete slut though and I did a shit job of vetting and agreeing to …
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:52 PM
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Completely right.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:58 PM
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Yup you're right, although I clearly still need to improve myself, I need to shift less blame on me and more blame on them. I dodged a bullet. The more I think about it, the more I realize that this would've happened eventually. The warning signs were there and I ignored them.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:58 PM
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Fuck yeah, thank you. I was on the fence about this one, but what would my motivation even be for giving her that satisfaction of a reply? To plate her or try to change her? Nah, I'm done with that one.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:54 PM
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They met through me while we dated. Could be naive but I'm confident they haven't at that time, but I know they would've and probably will now. I think she was agreeing and amplifying to diffuse.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:06 PM
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My only regret as well man. I should've played him some sweet chin music. How did you end up handling that interaction?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:04 PM
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Yes I realize it was my fault. How would you have handled the situation in that moment?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:08 PM
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Thank you for the words, brother. You are completely right. I still care too much about what others think. I was pretty anti-LTR before this but got blinded. Will not consider another LTR any time soon unless it's Megan Fox waking me up with a blowjob every morning and depositing 500k into my checking account if I'm running low
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:42 PM
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Yes, this was a huge eye-opener for me. I always knew girls would fuck you over but the fact that my "bro" could? Damn, that hurts more tbh. I've had my other friend's girlfriends hit on me and touch me when they weren't around and I always shut that shit down out of respect. It's something I always valued. I should've probably said something like you suggested. She wants closure but I won't be budge. Should I respond with something like 'nothing needs to be said, I loved the time we shared. I w…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:36 PM
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Will do. My expectations and standards should be higher.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:31 PM
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Thank you bro. Needed to hear this. This L hurts for now and caught me off guard but I know deep down this will improve me in the future, just like all of my past Ls have.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:10 PM
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Cutthroat, I love it. I'm about to change my tune after this. I take it that something like this has happened to you before?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:58 PM
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Got it, thanks
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:40 PM
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Thing is, I still have to finish up uni and none of my relatives are in that area. Maybe I could say it's financial or something else? Should I take a semester off, and then find a new place? Not sure how my student loans would like that lol
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:21 PM
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I could definitely fuck this guy up but I've never been the violent type. I need to be more assertive and intimidating clearly. One question, I always read that violence was losing frame and could open me up to lawsuits. Thoughts on this? I should've called his bluff and been like, "Okay, let's go" I feel
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:17 PM
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Yes, this is exactly what I thought and read. Staying silent is for some situations but clearly not in this case. I will learn from this.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:14 PM
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You are right man. I knew I did the right thing but it was/is hard as shit for me. My oneitis was acting up this one morning and I had doubts like I was being a beta and it wasn't her fault which is technically true to an extent. I needed to come on here so you guys could tell me to man the fuck up, or to tell me to not give a shit about if she's attracted to other guys (my hamster on overdrive). Obviously it's the former. I was good yesterday but I haven't blocked her on anything yet and seeing…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:10 PM
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I did ltr a whore 100%. But we were together. She brought up the exclusivity talk and wanted it and I agreed.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:03 PM
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Maybe I'm naive but I don't think she did, yet. I feel she was agreeing and amplifying me like we do to girls. She definitely wanted and would have though.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:02 PM
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Got it, thanks. I kinda did this the first time it happened. But was still visibly pissed off. The second time, I was still pissed off but I ended it. So I'm feeling good about what I did. Rest of the summer is dedicated to TRP books/readings and improving myself. Solid.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:56 PM
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I agree completely. I want a new place. Any ideas how I could legally and smoothly get myself off the lease? Like excuses, reasons. Idk if everyone would be on board with me leaving. And I don't want to break ties with all of them when they weren't involved at all. Tbh I like all my other roommates and not all were present. I just got fucked over by this dude and I never want to see him again
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:53 PM
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I'm re-reading your comment and I know I should have vetted and have her earn commitment, but you said I was being a fag who did nothing while she was branch swinging. So what should I have done in that moment? I'm very curious cause I know doing nothing fucked me over and you said doing nothing made me a fag. I'm not disagreeing, but do you have any insights on actions I could have taken, or should I just do nothing and break up everytime that happens?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:42 PM
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Earn commitment in what ways? She would make me meals and always had a drink ready for me at the bar. So she would do some shit like that. I agree though I should have vetted her better. I also didn't establish boundaries early. I've always read up on general TRP posts but never any LTR related posts so some of this was new to me.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:32 PM
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Thank you man. I feel this way, but I have regrets because I know it was my fault and I let this happen. Not really her fault I was being a beta. Could be my oneitis talking but I'm definitely mad at myself.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:28 PM
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Thanks man. She definitely wasn't. The reason I didn't get physical was because I always heard violence was losing frame. The more I think about it, the more I wish I socked him right then and there. He was supposed to be one of my main guys. I'm more mad at him than her forreal. I learned a valuable lesson at least. Don't put all your trust in girls but don't put all your trust in your friends. This is the real world I guess.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:26 PM
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Thank you bro, I appreciate it. I already know what I need to do. As far as my friend, we're supposed to be roommates under the same lease and we share a pretty big social circle. So it's kinda fucked. I wanna tell him to fuck off or knock him out. But I know violence is just me losing frame even more and opening myself to lawsuits. I'm just so fucking mad I let this happen. I thought I swallowed the pill and was over the beta shit but I guess we never stop learning and improving.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:22 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, I know. Still learning and growing. So what would you recommend I do in that situation? I know dread like a mf and not give a shit but there were no girls around in that moment. Should I have called them out, or just left the bar and went somewhere else?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:18 PM
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