| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?Are you still married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?The posts on here are scary. Is it even worth it getting married anymore???? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/24 02:44 PM |
| 3 | She want alimony included in prenup"My gut feeling is telling me to run away, but I keeping thinking about her good characteristics"......dude, they all seem nice in the beginning. The woman that you marry is totally different from the woman in divorce court. WAAAY different. If you're having second thoughts then that's a pretty good sign that there is something about this woman that makes you uncomfortable, regardless of your attraction towards her. I would either wait it off until you feel more ready or cut her loose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Wife wants a divorceIf this guy takes your advice, all this woman is gonna do is gaslight the shit out of him and make it seem like it's all his fault. And at the end of the day, even if he tries his hardest to meet her wishes, he's still gonna get the boot. Once a woman makes her mind up, dont even bother. LET HER GO!!!!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Wife wants a divorceYou are out of your goddamn mind🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Wife wants a divorceI'm sorry man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us.Stories like this is why I never married. I had an ex gf who treated me like a king. Bought me the best gifts for my birthday, christmas etc. Always took turns paying for dates. And when it was her turn to pay she would take us to the most awsome restaurants. Called me every....single....day like clock work. Knew my schedule to the T and made sure she contacted me when I wasnt busy. I mean, it was like she was like marriage material. Then it all stopped out of nowhere. One word responses to my t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us.Unbelievable. This is why I dont trust women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 09:58 PM |
| 5 | After mediation in WA (no-fault state): 56% and $3,700 per month to herLike my man Coach Greg Adams says...."FREE AGENT FOR LIIIIFEEEEEE!!!"💪💪💪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | ResentmentTrust me bro, it ain't because you make less than her. There is another bull in the ring she wants to ride on. Don't fall for her stupid excuse lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Feels like the last 8 years was a hypocrisyC'mon man. Are you serious?? She can't be herself in front of him, but married him for 8 years and had 3 children by him?? Was it a problem before they got married?? I highly doubt it. Its just an excuse for an exit. That's all it is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea what to do and it's killing meYou said you guys had sex 8-9 times a year on average before it got worse. If you couldnt realize your marriage was over by then, you probably overlooked alot of other things as well. I think she checked out WAAAAAY before the arguments started. You were just oblivious to the signs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 12:21 PM |
| 9 | My wife wants a divorce5 kids and a stay at home wife?? Whatever you do, please dont believe her if she appears like she wants to be cordial in the process of this divorce. She's getting ready to put you on a bbq grill bro. Get a lawyer asap. Believe me when I tell you this. THIS WAS ALL PLANNED!!!!!!!! Dont trust her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?That fact that you even tried to make it work tells me you're a decent guy. I couldn't do it. No sex for like 3 months and I'm out. You have incredible patience. I hope you find someone way better. It's a cold world out here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I miss my wifeThe fact that you miss someone that totally disrespected you without a second thought is a major problem in my opinion. Look, I know you have feelings for this woman, and we can't help who we love. But you gotta love yourself first buddy. The minute you took her back after her first infidelity is where you fucked up big time. She probably lost all respect for you at that point, even tho she wont admit it. I'm 99% sure that's the case here. You should have cut of off the first time. It's easier s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?Looking back on everything, would you marry knowing what you know now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 10:25 AM |
| 1 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?My goodness. 34 months with no sex from the wife?? That's wild man. I'm so sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 09:45 AM |
| 1 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?And the sad part about the whole thing is, that was probably her plan all along. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorceThe red flag part is spot on brother. He's gonna regret ignoring those big time...smh | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorceThis is EXACTLY what I was thinking. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorceIn my honest opinion, I think the person she planned on monkey branching to is probably not taking her serious, and she is keeping you as a safety net just in case. So when she changed her mind and wanted space instead of divorce, she's just testing the waters. Dump her quick and move on. You deserve better than this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Do they have to make it as hard as possible?Something tells me you overlooked ALOT of red flags before marrying this woman. But I ain't judging you. We all make mistakes. Just take it as a learning experience and move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Financial fuckryYou shouldve came up with a plan before you started a whole new family. Now you have 2 households to be responsible for. On top of losing 75% of your income to garnishments??? Sheesh...smh. I hate to say it man, but a lot of this you brought on yourself. I hope you find a way out this. I dont think bankruptcy is worth it with only 7k of debt. Look up Dave Ramsey. He's pretty good at giving advice for people in your situation. Good luck man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Just discovered long affair while on vacationMan you better get an std and a paternity test ASAP!!!!! That's exactly what I wouldve done before coming on reddit looking for opinions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 02:16 AM |
| 4 | There is always someone elseWell, I'm glad you finally woke up buddy. It's a cold world out here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?I'm so glad I never got married. These stories happen way too often. My goodness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?Wow. How did she manage to tank your business?? Did you atleast file a lawsuit against her?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?Damn bro. That's crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?Omg bro. Wtf?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?10 years of pension credits??.....Lord have mercy smh | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?Holy f...k😢 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | One and a half year marriage ended abruptlyThis^ | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 3 | My wife just threatened separating.Listen man. If a woman truly loves someone, she is not going to threaten him with separation. If she is not afraid of losing him, then that's a clear sign that her heart is not rooted in the marriage like it should be. All relationships has its ups and downs. Gotta work together like a team and stick things through. No one said it was easy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | My wife just threatened separating.She will eventually find a different reason to leave him. Even if he starts doing good again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 7 | My wife just threatened separating.The relationship was over way before she brought this up. She just has a perfect excuse now to leave without feeling guilty. Just do yourself a favor and let her do her monkey branching in peace. Just leave man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The depression returnsDid she find out something about you that you aren't telling us?? Maybe some infidelity or some secret she found out?? How could she be angry for no reason?? She sounds a little crazy if that's the case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Half a fucking million.Wow. Just wow.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/24 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Men over 40 should NEVER get marriedUnbelievable...smh | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Men over 40 should NEVER get marriedGolden comment right here. I just cant say it enough. I wish I could upvote twice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Just found out that my exwife lied to me about another man that she loves during the entire duration of our relationshipI'm not gonna come on here and try to judge you because we've all done stupid things, including me. But please brother, for your sake, get ALL your children a paternity test. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Wife left meDid him a favor after 21 years of marriage??....cutting someone off after a first date is doing them a favor. Not divorcing them after 21 years of marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Wife left meIf you dont mind me asking, did she give you a reason why she wanted a divorce? Do you think she is willing to change her mind at all and try mariage counseling? 21 years being married to someone is a long time. All those years of building together for it to just abruptly end like that just really sucks man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I really don’t know what the fu*k to do.What caused the divorce? Is counseling at all possible? Will she be cordial with you in coming to an agreement to be amicable? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I need and attorneyDid she give you a reason for the divorce?? Is therapy or counseling at all possible?? I would try to see if it is salvageable first before moving forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/24 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Officially Divorced! BOOM!I'm both happy and sad for you my man. You got taken to the cleaners. But glad you're free tho. DONT DO THAT SHIT AGAIN!!!!!🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 07:43 PM |
| 3 | My ex wife has moved on with someone elseWooooowwww. Unbelievable smh | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/24 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Financially devastatedShe gets all that after only 7 years of marriage??? Wow. I'm so sorry man...smh | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Just leave silentlyI'm sorry bro. Did she ever give you a real reason why she wanted the divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Filed yesterdayI dont know if being more attentive wouldve worked. If she was unhappy she would've eventually found a way to sabotage the relationship, even if you did the best you could. This is why I believe young men should understand the nature of a woman before getting married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Filed yesterdayFriendzoned after 16 years of marriage is wild bro. Life is crazy as hell lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Watch out for scammers on here.You had to go there🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does she want me back?Im betting money that's exactly what happened 🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 03:10 AM |
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