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These are getting increasingly and tellingly specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 10:33 PM
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It is economically smarter to stay with your parents to limit your debt while you're paying off your debt and saving up for a down payment on a property, yes. Unless you mean something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 07:09 PM
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Your definition of a stable living involves making enough money to pay for all bills, in addition for paying for a one-bedroom apartment (at the very least) so that they can live independently. Which is unrealistic (not to mention environmentally and financially wasteful), and you're imposing your view of how society should be on people who don't know you and quite frankly probably don't care about your opinion. The idea of kicking your kids out at eighteen is very much an American thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 07:07 PM
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Literally everyone I know ends up working retail during the transition between "graduation" and "finding a degree in their major that pays." And most degrees that are "better than art history" are degrees that usually encourage continued education.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:47 PM
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We just had a recession. Also, not getting married at 18 probably contributes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 04:02 AM
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I don't understand why people care about whether other people marry. It's nobody's business but their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 01:48 AM
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"We should expect healthy 25 year olds to get into massive amounts of debt because Western society says it's bad for children to live with their parents."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 01:47 AM
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If you go to the right, there's a link to the PDF (but I'm on a University server, so). But from the abstract, your other statement is right. As expected, men used more assertive speech (d = .09), whereas women used more affiliative speech (d = .12) But despite the different types of speech, men do talk more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 10:07 PM
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I think that's kind of average, though? I feel like the words add up over the course of a day if you're a relatively social person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 10:04 PM
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This reminds me heavily of that one study in which it showed that men talk more than women, even when they believe that women are talking the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 04:49 PM
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How so? How does someone's preferred sexual position manage to allow them to identify with a different gender from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 11:08 PM
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A top could read TRP and a bottom could read RPW. Tops and bottoms aren't analogous to men and women. They're both men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 10:32 PM
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How are those doctrinal? If you don't believe that gender exists outside of social pressures, you're going to have a much different approach than someone who believes that gender is inherently biological. What major issue do feminists even agree on, other than the one "equality" thing I mentioned?
/r/MensRights17/01/16 09:33 PM
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Um. No. abortion gender as a whole as something that tangibly exists outside of the patriarchy (is gender biological? psychological?) the importance of race and class in regards to gender the role of heterosexuality in women's oppression (political lesbians/abstinence) and more, which I could look up, but I'm too lazy right now. Basically the only thing that feminists can agree on is "the social/political equality of the sexes" but what that means and how to get there differs highly from person …
/r/MensRights17/01/16 09:23 PM
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There's also many different contradicting branches of feminism, so the idea of a "bad feminist" is kind of difficult to pin down.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 07:25 PM
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My mistake! I definitely meant apathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 07:09 PM
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There's a difference between being disgusted and being ambivalent to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 04:25 AM
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That's literally not how eugenics even works.
/r/MensRights02/01/16 07:06 PM
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This is discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:21 AM
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Exactly. I'm sure there are plenty of people who disagree with Laci Green. Feminism is a hugely varied subject, and as a person who was attended a professional feminist conference before - let me tell you, the drama between different subgroups was apparent. They most certainly are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:09 AM
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I was under the impression that the example provided was from a Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:08 AM
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Women =/= female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:07 AM
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Did you read OP? There's an example provided. I might as well claim that someone who believes Republicans are in the pocket of corporate interests must also believe that Democrats are little angels who are free from big business influence. There are people who actually do claim this. The whole "group x does this so opposing group y does not do this" isn't that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 02:27 AM
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I feel like this isn't necessarily a fallacy that is exclusive to Blue Pill ideology. I feel like this is a fallacy that pretty much every group plays into, including Red Pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 02:07 AM
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How wouldn't it apply? I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:48 AM
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Are you drunk right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:46 AM
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Gay guy here. You're full of shit. Oral sex is probably the easiest way for someone with a penis to get raped. The ability to maintain an erection doesn't equal consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:45 AM
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The only example provided (that I have so far seen) was Laci Green, who is a sex-ed speaker on YouTube who mostly focuses on teaching those with improper sex education (i.e. underage youth).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:42 AM
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"According to this fairly large feminist site?" Everyday Feminism has multiple writers and multiple perspectives. This is Laci Green's opinion and is literally a video from her YouTube page... which is tagged as private and unviewable to me and presumably to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:39 AM
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It's showing up as Question For Blue... for me, too. You also only asked female feminists, and I'm going to assume that you meant women-identifying feminists. Why not ask all feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 01:36 AM
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It's still victim blaming. People shouldn't have to take precautions against being victims. We need to work on punishing the offenders, but people will still take precautions because they don't want to get raped. It doesn't matter in that sense if the rapist was punished or not - the person was still forced to experience that trauma. That's "punishment" enough. Also, somehow, a strange woman blackout drunk still doesn't strike me as being creating a situation for rape, because that's not exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:56 AM
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Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:52 AM
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You don't "punish" a victim of a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:14 AM
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Being alive is literally the exact definition of life, and nature by extension.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:10 AM
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People should be able to choose whether they want to lock their doors or not, but ultimately, we don't punish victims of burglary for having unlocked doors. EDIT: Also, why is this such a common argument? Rape seems to be one of the few crimes that we view with a mentality of the person "asking for it," and it's so often compared to theft and locked doors, when this is not how a person who is a victim of robbery is treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:08 AM
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Do you get a personal gain from helping the homeless? Are you helping the homeless with the mentality that you're trying to get something from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:05 AM
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I'm pretty sure that they're just suggesting they're going to die when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 12:36 AM
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Gen X is usually the ones that seem to not get it, in my experience. But they could just be particularly dull ones that I've been exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 10:22 PM
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Hence the tail end of that sentence. "To keep something like that going when it isn't natural."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 10:21 PM
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Nah, I just don't like the idea of having to constantly work to keep something like that going when it isn't natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:26 PM
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I thought third grade was around the time when we learned that having the biggest stick to beat others with didn't make you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:25 PM
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People shouldn't be held responsible to make sure they themselves aren't raped. That's the responsibility to the person committing the crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:23 PM
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It depends on your definition of "good." "Morally right" might have been a better set of words to use here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:21 PM
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It depends on their rationale as to what's actually going on there, so it would differ. Most of it's just a lack of experience but some of it can be chalked up to the fact that most people are taught the basics of biology in high school and have no idea how their bodies are formed and how they're not really all that different. Even when it comes to the physical level, it's hard for someone to understand how there could be intersex folks, for example, without realizing that the clitoris and the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:20 PM
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Hence why I used the word advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:16 PM
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I have taken into account confirmation bias but Disagree with this, they're unlikely to sympathise anyway, ??? And even taking into account burden of performance, perpetuating the status quo by playing by those assumptions doesn't really do anything to stop it. It's like I have said before, if you follow those standards you're going to meet someone who follows those standards and play catch-up for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:15 PM
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Why is it when people talk about societal advances since the 90's they don't seem to count the Internet as a factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:50 AM
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Yeah, women are worthy of equality and respect. I agree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:19 AM
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There are plenty of people who do. You can't apply your own personal habits to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:16 AM
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JREF was a huge thing back when I was young. This is definitely a think. The Million Dollar Challenge would be the best example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:14 AM
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Something having power doesn't mean that it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:14 AM
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I don't understand. Are you saying that people have the right to sue over "ugly" children?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:12 AM
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Do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:11 AM
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I know plenty of people in long term relationships who don't have hot bodies or giant piles of money. Note how I said trying. You shouldn't try to impress someone you have a long-term relationship with, otherwise you're going to have to play catch-up your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:15 PM
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You can have a variance of forms (i.e., 'sexual dimorphism,' on a scale bigger than just two) with only two biological sexes. They're different things. For an extreme example, there are several species of animal in which the males take two drastically different forms. Still biologically male, still produce sperm, but they look radically different because of hormones and genes. If you're trying to argue with me down to the "sperm and eggs" level - yes, by that definition, there are two sexes. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:13 PM
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What do you think would be a good equivalent, then? Good recommendations and a strong portfolio/resumé?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:07 PM
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There's a huge difference between getting paid to do what you want for a living and finding a romantic partner. Your problem is a problem because we live in a shitty society in which a lot of what people love to do provides substandard pay (there's very few people who wake up wanting to be an accountant, many who wake up wanting to be artists), not because artists aren't needed. People will always need artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:06 PM
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I'm sorry if I feel like it would make more sense for people to spend their time doing what they actually want to do? Like, if chasing pussy is the one thing in your life you enjoy the most, go for it, but I don't see the appeal in sacrificing what you want to do for some warped ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 10:07 PM
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How would you write a paper on that? It's basic fact. There are women with the same level of testosterone as men (on average, for their age range). There are men with the same level of estrogen as women (same). That's not even considering intersex folks. Outliers are more common than you'd think, especially since they aren't getting selected out as much as they used to be. EDIT: Note, I'm not talking about transgender people here. I'm talking about people who identify as cisgender and aren't und…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 10:02 PM
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Because certain positions don't require much of their employees. If I need someone to slice meat at a deli, I don't need someone with a PhD. - I need someone willing to work at minimum wage and do the job correctly (ideally) over 90% of the time. Obviously, that's why certain positions have recruiters for them. Certain positions require your best talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:57 PM
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I never said any of that? There's a difference between going out and chasing (multiple) women and being in a steady long term relationship. And the last one - there's a difference between impressing someone and trying to impress someone. There are women who are attracted to guys without them having to make the effort to impress them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:53 PM
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Decriminalization doesn't stop rape. It encourages rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:44 PM
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There's a huge difference between your husband and a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:38 PM
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A LOT of difference in strength is hormonal (testosterone, as said earlier), which doesn't necessarily correlate with chromosomes and can be affected by environmental factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:37 PM
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Nah, I saw someone who said they don't care about how they look... caring about how they look and overreacting. How the fuck are you supposed to "teach" them empathy by behaving exactly as they did? How does doing that teach them empathy unless you show them that behavior's wrong in the first place? If they're a moron, they're not going to understand cause and effect (or possibly, even what they did was wrong), particularly if you're not immediately reacting to what they're doing. Also how is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:35 PM
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Why does this even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:29 PM
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I don't get the whole "need to impress women" shit. Even the phrasing sounds really beta-ish to me. I feel like these dudes would actually be happier if they ditched their need to impress women and actually did what they want to do (and found a woman who enjoyed that) instead of chasing tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:24 PM
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Kelly Kapoor is what happens when you chase assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:21 PM
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Why would you assume that women want to settle for average?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:19 PM
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'Hottest' isn't the best term to use. 'Most desireable' would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:18 PM
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Sexual dimorphism isn't a binary, too. People seem to forget and minimize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:13 PM
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I knew a personal trainer who was poor as fuck, and he was forced to eat at Taco Bell just to make up his calorie loss. Not working out, not doing anything really, just standing there. Dude could shed weight by breathing. He was ripped as all hell, but I'm sure that shitty diet did a number on his organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:12 PM
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Bullying someone to stop them from bullying doesn't make them stop bullying. You didn't teach someone a lesson, you belittled someone because they did something shitty to you and therefore perpetuated the cycle. She probably didn't remember mocking you at all, or what she did. She learned nothing and you accomplished nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:10 PM
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Plenty of people talk about the "murder culture." Except we call it the gun control debate, or we talk about violence in video games and other media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:04 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if there are any graphic designers on Team Redpill, judging by some of those websites. That header makes me cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:58 PM
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If men and women being anything like how you just described was how our brains were wired, with such a radical difference, it would be a lot easier for transgender folk to get access to hormones because nobody could doubt that their brain was in the "wrong body."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:57 PM
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If you run with that assumption, you're only going to find evidence to fit that assumption. If you're not willing to trust people, you're not going to find evidence they're trustworthy. If you don't show emotional vulnerability, people won't be able to sympathize with your problems. If you find someone who treats you like they expect you to be more than them, male or female, leave. As a bi guy who's been through that cycle (with both men and women), there's nothing like shitty coping mechanisms …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:54 PM
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