| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Why is it that men are required to sign up for selective service and women are not?And here we can observe the Idiot admitting he knows absolutely nothing about female anatomy. FTFY | /r/MensRights | 02/01/14 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Military confiscates maxim magazines after woman complains of sexyThe 90-whatever percent that is male or the fraction that is female? Errr ... that's a slippery slope. If we start going based on who is in the gender majority in a given context, where does that end? | /r/MensRights | 19/01/13 07:19 PM |
| 2 | You're an $80k/yr. web designer because we say so!A monkey with some adderall and an etrade account could net you 8% returns easy. That's weird, because around 70% of equities investors (stat goes up if you include people with allocations toward safer bonds) can't do that over long periods or short ones ... so you've found monkeys that are smarter than most people? Now that itself seems like a lucrative operation! | /r/MensRights | 08/12/12 08:39 PM |
| 1 | This is making a stir on another SR ... just trying to figure out: how is this a 'rape apology'? Seems to me like a journalist laying out the facts as well as both basic possible scenarios: that a rape happened or that it did not. Am I missing something?Yup, I agree with your conclusion - the article was ill-thought-out, too speculative, etc... I guess I just think his reaction shared those qualities, even if I agree with at least one of his main points: that the article needn't have gone out on a limb without any basis. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/12 06:01 PM |
| 1 | This is making a stir on another SR ... just trying to figure out: how is this a 'rape apology'? Seems to me like a journalist laying out the facts as well as both basic possible scenarios: that a rape happened or that it did not. Am I missing something?OK, I can now see some of the issues with the article itself, but I'm hung up on (A) it being a 'rape apology' (which he claims), and (b) the reason for his firing - I can't imagine not firing him after his public tirade lambasting his colleagues, even in a different situation (i.e. having nothing to do with rape but some other editorial criticism). But yeah, I can see the reason for the article being skewed, even though the closing paragraph is pretty even-handed to me. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/12 06:46 AM |
| 1 | This is making a stir on another SR ... just trying to figure out: how is this a 'rape apology'? Seems to me like a journalist laying out the facts as well as both basic possible scenarios: that a rape happened or that it did not. Am I missing something?So this freelance author is receiving some praise elsewhere on Reddit for what seems to be his much more dubious piece (talking about a co-worker pulling stuff "out of her ass" and such), and his subsequent firing for criticizing a 'rape apology'. So I'm trying to piece it together. How is the piece he is criticizing a rape apology? How is his harsh and rather crass response an acceptable way to talk about colleagues? How is it wrong for these colleagues to then call you in for coffee and sugges… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/12 06:17 AM |
| 24 | Drunk woman who savagely attacked a man on the train "is sorry" and was just responding to "his male aggression"For reference/lazy people: Melissa says she is ready to move past the incident and would like to personally apologize to the victim, “Hopefully I can eventually meet this guy and give him a hug and a big, fat, wet kiss on the cheek and say sorry.” I agree ... the idea he'd want to be touched by the woman who beat the crap out of him ... if gender roles were reversed ... sigh. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/12 07:57 PM |
| 4 | A girl who supports Mens rights.The place is totally upside down! Sorry, I couldn't resist. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/12 03:09 AM |
| 1 | My son's mother now wants my son to be circumcised. I don't. We have joint custody. Anyone have experience with this matter?unfortunatley changed to Can-FAP Why unfortunate?! :) | /r/MensRights | 30/12/11 01:01 AM |
| 4 | This about sums it up.Right, but the point is: the dad never had that choice, so he evolves into the deadbeat dad when the child is born ... the mom had that choice, and used it. This is the fairness disparity. He is 'forced' into his 'deadbeat dad' roll ... she is not forced into anything. I am glad she isn't, but disappointed he is. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/11 05:09 PM |
| 11 | This about sums it up.I find it hard to fathom the reality of the situation. That a man can be essentially an indentured servant at the whim of a woman for two decades, but the woman can choose any number of alternatives - abortion, adoption, etc... along the way. But you're right, society is stuck in its ways, and this will never be a serious debate. All the more frustrating. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/11 05:04 PM |
| 3 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."I think that's a pretty good analogy/example - I wish I could come up with something clever, integrating a well-known insult at females with a witty second interpretation (i.e. a reverse example of 'manboobz') but ... I'm at a loss, unfortunately. I think of 'TinyBoobs' though and the point seems similar: if we are to assume people know 'boobs' are 'idiots' then our first thought should be of 'little idiots' and not of 'small breasts' ... yet I think most would think of the latter before the for… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 02:40 AM |
| 2 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."OK, I learned something new today. I can't believe I never noticed that MR had 20 times as many redditors as feminism. I always assumed it had less if anything. Mind = blown, and point = well taken. I guess my issue with AMR conceptually (in terms of its title and corresponding self-definition around being 'against') is that there are some level-headed people and worthy submissions there. It's just ... well, a hard line to draw. Where does it become OK to create an 'anti' site, versus not OK in … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 02:32 AM |
| 2 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."Well, I have to say that's a pretty enlightened thing to do after seeing how much I disagree with you - so kudos for that. It suggests, at least, you are open to discourse even with dissenters. I, for one, have posted on both MensRights and Feminism - sometimes agreeing and sometimes disagreeing, depending on the context. And you may be right about indirectly encouraging downvotes. In that case, though, I have an honest question: are you not doing the same thing to MensRights by having AntiMensR… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 01:50 AM |
| 3 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."Thanks for forwarding it. It's one of those things where it puts me, at least, on the defensive immediately - I see it, I think it's insulting to people with a certain kind of physical appearance, and immediately I associate the SubReddit with people who would be OK with that ... which, again, feels like it's against the spirit of what you're trying to do. I think Google searching (images or otherwise) shows pretty quickly that Google (and people in general, by extension) first thing of the phys… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 01:49 AM |
| 2 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."First, from what I can tell, boob did indeed refer to breast before it referred to idiots: "In 1347, when the bubonic plaque ravaged Europe, one of the symptoms of the plaque was called bubos or boobos which was a swelling of the lymph nodes, hence swelling of the chest can be referred to as boobs. From the novel The History of Joseph Andrews by Henry Fielding,(1762) the Lady of the house( Lady Booby) attempts to seduce the hero and the first thing she does is reveal her breasts, and for convolu… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 01:31 AM |
| 2 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."After reading the comments in this thread, and having some time to cool off, I completely agree - and apologize for stoking the fire. Whether justified or not, my frustrations, vented openly, are not productive. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 01:22 AM |
| 7 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."Lulz. Wait a second ... you can create an 'anti-X' SubReddit, but I can't satirize your actions with an 'anti-anti-X' SubReddit of my own? Hypocrisy running wild here, Stephen. Or perhaps because everything on /r/AMR is instantly downvoted by a crapton of people from MR, and he was attempting to further organize that. 'That' refers to 'instantly downvoting on AMR' in your sentence, I assume. Nothing about what I did in any way encouraged rampant (let alone indiscriminate) downvoting on your SubR… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 01:16 AM |
| 2 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."What, then, was I banned for? Also: fine: if that's the meaning of 'boob' in this context, then I'm sure no one else will possibly draw the connection to 'man boobs' right? I mean it's definitely an entirely accidental play on expressions, yes? So if someone has a site called 'Camel Towing the Feminist Party Line' that would be fine, right? Or 'SaggyBoobs' referring to flacid feminists with an ax to grind would be cool, if the title wasn't meant to refer to 'physical' boobs? I'm not saying I thi… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/11 01:02 AM |
| 4 | "This subreddit will have a strict no oppression policy. Racism, sexism, transphobia, ableism...and so on will not be tolerated here."Aight, points well taken. You are both probably right and I should just be ignoring them ... blech, frustrating tho. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/11 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Divorced single parents in Germany have no legal right to child support after their child turns three if the parent is capable of working full time, Germany's supreme court ruled on Tuesday.I can't answer the last one but ... you don't sound like a German (English is beyond grammatically correct, or even what the pop-culture-savvy German friends I have can muster). Would I be guessing correctly that you are a transplant? If so, are you therefore not eligible for the same kinds of daycare subsidies/options available to German citizens? | /r/MensRights | 04/08/11 09:10 AM |
| 11 | Divorced single parents in Germany have no legal right to child support after their child turns three if the parent is capable of working full time, Germany's supreme court ruled on Tuesday.I could be wrong, but I'm relatively sure Germany (or much of it, at least) has free (or heavily heavily subsidized), state-funded childcare options for working parents. I do know that their public school system is excellent (Note: I was in it, briefly - kids get made fun of for going to private schools, which are - according to the stereotype - populated with misfits and rejects who need extra protection, not better schooling. Sorry, it sounds tangential, but I wanted to illustrate that in gene… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/11 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.I'm not sure how it would be worse (or better), though subjectively I would think that, given societal attitudes (somewhat sadly) he might have an easier time pursuing the matter in court, since (unfortunately) a jury might think 'well, he's not just making it up because of regret.' Sort of cynical take I realize, but I do hope he did/does get justice regardless :/ EDIT: I just mentioned this response/post to my girlfriend, who smiled and explained I have it backwards - juries are just less like… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 04:20 AM |
| 9 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.I don't disagree - probably a lot of people would retroactively accept it, but that is unfortunate. A spade should be called a spade - if we agree, legally, that non-consensual intercourse is X, then it should be X in all cases, not dependent on the attractiveness of the perpetrator. More importantly, though, in retelling such stories, adding 'fat' or 'walrus' diminishes credibility even if that was part of the person's problem after the fact. It also suggests to me that the person might be the … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 01:54 AM |
| 7 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.Yup. What is really irksome is: how would you even begin to tell who raped who in a case like this? Is it first come, first served (no pun intended) - whoever tells the police 'that was rape' gets to make their case? Thankfully, I've never slept with someone who would stoop so low, but I shudder to think about the times when I had a fully-drunk hookup when neither party was particularly coherent, but both were clearly consenting. Had someone in one of those cases had regrets ... well, I'm just g… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 12:19 AM |
| -1 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.*penis | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 12:18 AM |
| 35 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.I would like to point out that the fact that these women were both overweight (judging by 'walrus' and 'fat') does not make it more or less rape - it could have been a hot skinny big-boobed blond and it would still be rape. I point this out because I think it potentially gives people the wrong idea about what constitutes consent, and what men are after, and distracts from the core point, which, yes, I'll write it again, is: RAPE. It ultimately (prepare your downvotes, people) makes it sound to m… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 12:16 AM |
| 10 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.I dunno why, but this one got me laughing out loud. Or we could go full-on Silence of the Lambs: "Getting it drunk is not the same as gettings its permission to rub the lotion on its skin. Or else it gets the hose again." | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.Or you could do the awkward way introduced a while back that barely caught on, and use HIM first then HER in the next line (besides, it will probably get THEM to read it twice!). | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 12:13 AM |
| 3 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.Agreed. Put it toward a good and relevant cause - establish a fund for abused/assaulted men (or: men AND women alike), run an awareness campaign, etc... turn that good into more good and keep the ball rolling. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/11 12:07 AM |
| 30 | I reversed the gender on this banner at my university... it didn't stay that way for long.+1 to all of the above - create your own copy, put it up, send the story to the local media AND talk to a lawyer. Seriously, this is the worst kind of double standard. Kudos to you for taking a stand. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/11 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudYou: 'No basis in reality' Me: 'Here's a link to the basis in reality' You 'Feminist little girl dickface!' The End | /r/MensRights | 17/07/11 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudYawn facts can't be disputed. It's logically impossible. If they could, they wouldn't be facts, by definition. Shoo, fly, shoo. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity Fraud+1 to all of the above. I think part of the problem is that when someone says something like 'no basis in reality' it sets the tone for the rest of the conversation, lowering the bar to let things like 'dickface' and 'little girl' enter into the mix ... and that point, the only way to rescue the situation is for both sides to calm down, shake hands, clear throats, and start over. @Factory: I think you could take a lot away from DISM's points here about approaching debates with people. I also agr… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/11 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity Fraudhttp://www.quickmeme.com/meme/52bo/ Um. At this point, I'm assuming you're just trying to troll me and know you're acting like a troll, not I. I responded with nuanced and sourced facts and opinions, to which you derisively called me names. Good day, sir. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/11 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudSez the guy who used 'Dickface' to articulate his opinion of me. I love it. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity Fraudor, tl;dr "I can provide misleading information and fake facts all I want, because I fully understand the issue. Quoting the law just derails my diatribe, so please don't do it." Good to know. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudHuh, I learned what a 'concern troll' is today (Googled it and came up with UrbanDictionary's definition, and assuming it's close enough). I guess I can see how you came up with that, and have nothing but my word to back this up, but: no, I'm not part of some conspiracy theory to undermine your movement. If you want 'proof', feel free to read my Reddit history, made up mostly of non-serious stuff and periodic political stuff that falls on different parts of the spectrum, etc... It certainly won'… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudTruer words. Thanks for being bored enough to make your way down this dark and windy little path, and your advice - I will take it and amble along. I really did need someone to tap me on the shoulder and cool my blood a bit - much obliged. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudHeya, DISM, thanks for weighing in. I really did not mean to get under anyone's skin here, and normally sit on the sidelines in this SubReddit out of interest. For what it's worth, I think there are some really good points made around here, and even when I disagree with the majority view I often get a new perspective on whatever issue is being discussed. Already I learned some new things today (mainly on the legal front) just by looking things up when I didn't quite trust the information being p… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 02:06 AM |
| 0 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudWow, I've never been called a 'feminist' nor an 'ideologue' - so both in one sentence is a special treat. I also found 'bigoted' and 'sexist' to be new ones on me. I didn't come here to pick a fight - anyone reading this thread can see I started with honest questions and got misleading and aggressively-stated information in return. And being called a 'girl' as if it were an insult isn't sexist? You are a real piece of work dude. Also, I particularly like you how you deride my use of actual sourc… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudNo one else stepped in to point out when the train left Factsville, though some did to downvote my responses. This is a pretty classic symptom of communities that revolve not around truth-seeking but self-reassurance. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudHyperbole would be an understatement. No basis in reality? Sheesh, I defer to my earlier comment, and Wikipedia (followed at the end by a direct link to California's governmental website): "In most jurisdictions there is no need for the parents to be married, and only paternity and/or maternity (filiation) need to be demonstrated for a child support obligation to be found by a competent court. Child support may also operate through the principle of estoppel where a de facto parent that is in loc… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudInteresting points - hadn't thought of some of those issues. My gut says there is a middle ground somewhere, and I'm not really sure of how these things play out in divorce and child custody cases. My understanding, though, is that child support is court mandated only when there is a paternity test, so I'm not sure if last bit is even relevant (maybe in some few exceptional states? I admit I'm not 100% sure here). | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudMandatory may be where we differ - I don't think much should be mandatory, including those disease tests mentioned previously. Default absolutely, but I value civil liberties (regardless of gender) enough that I don't want the government mandating such things. That's my answer - I can elaborate on it, though, if you want: It might sound semantic, but the difference is important. I just don't think parents (either one) should be told what to do or not do, unless it is a matter of public safety (e… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 12:40 AM |
| -1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudUmm, you're adding a lot to a simple question I asked. I am not against men knowing whether the child is theirs, and I am in favor of making it a matter of course like testing for diseases and genetic disorders. Also, I am a man, and I do like my rights, but I'm starting to think that MensRights is not a place open to intelligent discussion and honest questions about gray areas in society, trust and relationships. Showed up here thinking I would get another perspective, not get attacked and down… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 12:16 AM |
| -1 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudWhere do you draw the line? Should we demand birth certificates too, just to make sure their name is what they say? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/11 11:57 PM |
| -3 | Good Man Project is Pro-Paternity FraudBecause it implies a huge lack of trust? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/11 09:40 PM |
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