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I think the woman on the left is exceedingly sexy, I'd choose her over the one on the right any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 10:53 AM
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I don't like babies and cute fluffy things. I'm usually the one who fixes stuff in my student house (all the rest are guys). I also have a lot of stereotypically womanly interests; I cook, keep a clean house and do artsy craft stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:52 PM
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Have you ever tried using a washtub and mangle? it's hard, slow work. Plus there's ironing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:47 PM
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I think that she sounds a bit like a whiny idiot who needs to pay more attention to details of electronic purchases and lift more ;) On a more serious note, you have to live the life that's right for you. Some people are happy single, some aren't. Most people have regrets about things they could have done better in the past but there's no universal rule on what those regrets are. For every woman who regrets not settling down there is likely to be another who regrets that she did settle down when…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 08:06 PM
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Most of my friends are guys, I have a few female friends but I seem to get along better with guys in general, though that could just be circumstantial. Not sure how it's affected my dating life as I don't have a control :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 06:34 PM
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To me and my friends, yes. I cannot speak for the population as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 07:56 AM
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Probably. I mean I look at the picture and if they're not posing like a twat and aren't ugly then I check if they have a a bio. It's a two step process but the bio is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 05:27 PM
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I find that women are more likely to read bio's than men, at least from anecdotal non scientific discussions with friends. For example I will auto reject any guy who can't be arsed to write a bio or whose bio is just emojis or a comment about his height or dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 08:01 AM
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I've never really felt jealousy. As long as I'm getting what I want from a relationship I don't mind who else they spend time with. Also most of my close friends are guys or bi/lesbian girls and I would be very miffed if a SO tried to stop me hanging out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:46 PM
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Seriously? What did you say to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 08:29 PM
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Is it acceptable at the moment? What's going to happen to me if I don't wear one? It's not like someone will walk up to you and say 'excuse me but I think I see the outline of your nipple'. If you're more comfortable without a bra don't wear one, if you need the support or prefer to wear one then do, it's just a matter of personal choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 08:45 AM
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I always feel like these people live in a different universe. There were probably only out 10 girls in my year group of a 100 that were having sex. Why are incels and red pills so focused on the sex lives of high school girls. Is it because they're mostly 17 or because they're the kind of guy who peaked in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:25 AM
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What do I want? Someone I'm happy to spend a lot of time with, who has interesting things to talk about and finds me and the things I ramble on about interesting. I'm far from vanilla so they'd need to be kinky ;) and preferably non-monogamous. I want someone who is confident in their self, who doesn't need me to prove their worth and doesn't get insecure or jealous if I'm not with them 24/7. In short I want a best friend who's down for kinky sex, romantic stuff is a bonus. edit: Boobs are anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 10:21 AM
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The first test gives me 44 out of 100, the second gives me 40, which is advantaged. A lot of the first is very US centric. I'm from 'Meh' Europe. The second quiz is annoying because things like salary aren't sensibly ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 03:42 PM
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Sure, though I don't do overseas :) Wait... is this a trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:42 PM
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I do crazier stuff most weekends. Worst happens someone takes me up on it and I have to have a boring or awkward conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:12 PM
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I don't know enough about either of them to say. I don't know their political or religious beliefs, I don't know what their family support network is like and most importantly I don't know if either of the women want children. Again I don't know enough about the women concerned. Ditto. As above. It really comes down to if they want a baby and what their personal view on abortion is. He can try and persuade her, but at the end of the day it is her decision Yes. Given a scenario where they were no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 11:56 AM
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Well can't really answer it as I don't know where you are. I thought you guys had a thing called the wall anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 09:50 AM
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Nah, UK, it was a big thing at the company I used to work for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:39 AM
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Where I am women get false moustaches and join in with Movember by sponsoring men to grow theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 12:16 AM
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That's what I don't get about this sort of thing. If you feel there is an issue that needs more attention/money don't complain about other people's fundraisers, go start your own. It doesn't have to be this big, do a sponsored run or have a cake sale to raise funds for a charity helping male victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 08:39 PM
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9 hours? Really? Even if you'd not met her before?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:46 PM
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Radiohead is a high bar to beat indeed. Are you in a large city?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:42 PM
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That is very specific. What about 1 hour 31 minutes? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:39 PM
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Do you live in a city by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:28 PM
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Off topic but does crossing state lines mean paperwork or hassle of some sort? I always imagined that people just drove over them, kind of like the Welsh or Scottish borders, with nothing more than a sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:26 PM
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Feel I should answer it myself. The furthest I have travelled was 2 hours to London but that was a guy I'd seen a few times before and also I really like visiting London anyway. Other than that anything over an hour is a bit far, either on foot or by public transport, though if I really thought someone was interesting I might make a longer trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:24 PM
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Sounds absolutely reasonable, I think twice before catching a bus for a date. perhaps that's an idea for a future topic. How far would you bewailing to travel for a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:11 PM
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Take it you're American then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:04 PM
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I'm only offering to go on a date, not to marry them, so the chance of rejection is par for the course. I don't actually expect anyone to seriously take me up on this. For starters I'm not in the US and secondly going on a date with a stranger is a big step and not one a socially anxious incel is likely to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:15 PM
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Sorry, I don't really understand what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:03 PM
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UK Midlands
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:02 PM
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Single but not unhappy. For the purposes of science I would be willing to go on a date to see if the incel guys really are as hopeless as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 05:12 PM
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Talking to strangers, is that something people actually do? What a bizarre custom, is it from the colonies? In all seriousness I love talking to strangers, I've met a lot of interesting people on trains over the years, though non that I'd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:37 PM
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I'm not a big fan of PIV sex so honestly I'd see it as a plus. Less chance of pain, more chance he'll put effort into giving good head
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 07:08 PM
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I've dated men shorter than that before so the hight wouldn't bother me. However I'm not sure I could date a guy who was that insecure about his height that he had to wear disguised platform shoes. On the other hand a nice pair of heeled boots can look gorgeous ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:35 AM
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If someone pretended to think I was a waitress to lure me away from my friends I would just think they were fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 08:12 PM
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If I'm in a social non threatening place like the pub or the smoking area of a club, especially of I've got mates with me. If he seems friendly I'll chat to him and suss out of I like him or not. I only find it creepy if a guy tries to isolate me from my friends, doesn't take no for an answer or starts getting touchy feely way too soon. On the other hand I find it not creepy per say, but just uncomfortable, if I'm just trying do do my shopping or eat my sandwiches. I don't want to be chatted up …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 01:08 AM
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Ouch! It just seems all so painful and has the potential to wreck my body Expensive, will tie me down and stop me doing what I want in life There are enough people in the world as it is All in all, whilst I like children I don't want any of my own
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 12:57 AM
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About 5/6 I guess, looks kind of average - (If I had to ask one of them out based on guessing personality from picture it would be her. She's at least a 7 for me, but that's not the point of this thread) 9 Hot! For men probably 8 - the obviously fake tits would take her down to a 6 for me though Bad lighting and stretched picture make if hard to tell. Probably a 5 8 - very nice :) 7/8 - Where the hell are you getting these pictures from? 4 - nice face but I think most men would have an issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:36 AM
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Or you know, if you're just a normal student. Maybe this is a US thing. Here in the UK the engineers and physicists go out and get pissed like the rest of us. Some of the most academically successful people I knew at undergrad were the chemistry students's who'd roll straight out of the lab at 4 into the SU then the clubs in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 09:59 PM
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To be fair though, saying something as as firm a footing as social science is hardly a great epitaph :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 10:40 AM
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I guess some people just want to be in relationships more than others. We all have different thresholds for loneliness and independence. I know people who go crazy if they don't see their friends every day, whereas I can quite happily not speak to anyone for a whole weekend - which is wonderfully peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:40 AM
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If I were ever to get married (and that's a big if) I'd probably keep my last name but wouldn't push my wife or husband to take mine. I'm headed for academia where changing your name can play havoc with your publication record, plus I have a fairly interesting last name. It's also rather long, so no double barreling under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:35 PM
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Can't answer that but on a related note I'm still pissed at one guy three years ago who stole my best knickers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:55 PM
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I'm one of those girls. Many guys are interested in me, but I don't have a boyfriend. Why? I get a lot of messages on dating sites. 50% are from men I want no interaction with due to age, widely differing interests and views or just being ugly. Of the other 50% many are too far away to meet up with. Of those I do meet up with many just lack the spark of attraction or are just generally dull. If I wanted a boyfriend I could have one by next month or less, but I don't. I'm just not that interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:54 PM
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I'm giving OP the benefit of the doubt that it may be a US thing, because nope, I've literally never heard of anyone 'looking bi'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:16 AM
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This! I really wish people would stop using biology as a direct basis for morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:24 PM
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Sorry, I thought the title was a the question you were asking. I'm currently reading the lancet paper OP cited. The gist of OP's comment seemed to be about men finding teenagers attractive rather than peak fertility or maternal health, which is a whole other minefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:22 PM
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According to this study (free) the falloff in female fertility starts at around 30 and the chance of having a healthy baby decreases by 3.5% a year after then. This more recent (2002) study (unfortunately behind paywall) seems to suggest 21.8 is the best age to have a first child in terms of physical health, but I haven't had time to read it fully as it's rather long. A lot of the studies looking at fertility are focused on IVF, because there's money in improving fertility rates amongst women wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:54 PM
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When I was 16 I used to wear knee high stripy socks over tights... oh dear god! Other than that, no regrets really. I guess a lot of the stuff I do would count as rebellious to some (parties, kink, non-monogamy, kink) but to me that's just my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:24 PM
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-Friendly, with a good sense of humour -Has goals in life and is willing to work to achieve them -Intelligent -Has her own hobbies and interests -Takes care of her appearance, i.e. does exercise, wears clothing that suits her -Self sufficient, i.e. can cook and manage her finances -And finally, naturally good looking, we might not want to admit it but good genes are half the battle at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:11 AM
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Step 1: 'Do you want to come back to mine?' Step 2: Meaningful eye contact and kissing Step 3: Trail hands down towards pants... 'May I?" Step 4: Her "Oh god yes!" Step 5: Profit... I mean sex (Or variations on the above)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:41 AM
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Beta's clearly win, alpha men get stopped by paper, but really gamma is where's it at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 10:54 PM
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No way, I would have missed out on so much. If I had... life would probably be okay, though I'd have a lot less freedom to move to where decent courses are based. As for the guy in question, I could probably live with him quite happily, we've been best friends for years since and shared a house for two years (whilst not sleeping together), but marry at 18, hell no! I wouldn't have slept with him if I'd had to marry him as it was a one night fling. However had I married I would probably have made…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:43 PM
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The computer science students that I knew at my uni held semi-regular orgies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 10:23 AM
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Fair enough - though ideally you do what you both enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:52 PM
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What can I say, I'm just a typical woman. As for the theoretical scenario, I'd go for the sedate men. I can always hit on them if needs be and there'll be more women to go around for me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:50 PM
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I think that's the bad thing. Men see things in porn and expect that to be reality. Some men then expect women to enjoy things that porn actresses pretend to enjoy while in reality they might be painful or downright boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:43 PM
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Would you rather have guys never look at porn,and never masturbate, and hence have more drive, especially a stronger sex drive? Or would you rather men be more sedate, and never bother or hit on you? I'm not sure it really works that way. I think that guys who watch porn are plenty capable of hitting on women. I find it flattering if I get hit on, I find it annoying if that person doesn't accept I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:39 PM
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Befriending women. What kind of madness is that? Seriously, this is the best advice I've seen here for a good while (if anyone actually comes here for advice, which I doubt). As a women I've never slept with a stranger, I have however slept with quite a few friends of friends and people in my wider social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 10:34 PM
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Nobody's ever asked me - literally nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 01:43 PM
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I've never been catcalled by a black or asian guy as far as I know. I've been catcalled by plenty of white guys, yelling out of cars, from building sites etc. I agree that it is in part a class thing (upper class twats choose other ways to objectify women) but I'm not sure it's a race thing. It doesn't take many catcalling men to make it an issue for women. It doesn't bother me so much any more because I've grown a tough skin but it did back when I was 14 and it's still unnerving when you're on …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 10:06 AM
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I've been honked at catcalled in rural areas more than I've been catcalled in cities. Mostly it was back when I was 14 or so, drivers used to shout things out of cars at me when I was walking into town to get the bus- I guess they didn't have to worry about the consequences because they were just passing through.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 09:55 AM
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Are you prolife or prochoice? Prochoice (or anti-life I guess) Would you personally get an abortion if you found yourself pregnant today? Yes (Though I would first consider starting a new religion) Would you have an abortion if you wanted to keep it, but your husband/boyfriend/other told you to have an abortion? Probably not. Would depend upon many factors such as how happy our relationship was and how prepared I felt to raise a child on my own. If you found yourself inconveniently pregnant and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 10:37 PM
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In society at the moment yes, hopefully this will change, equality FTW :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 10:45 PM
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I'd say that submissive women are a minority, most women I know prefer equality with another minority preferring dominance. But that's not a scientific fact, just a guess. No idea about the study, but I'd guess context matters and nobody looks attractive when they cry properly (unless you're into that sort of thing ;) )
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 09:47 PM
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Women don't find Loki attractive as a character There's at least one here that does (hint - it's me), but I will also admit that Tom Hiddleston is the convincing factor for most women. Because they don't know how to react seeing their pretend father not being stoic and yadayada. What? 'Pretend father'? Not all of us are into DD/LG you know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 07:35 PM
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Ah, I see what you mean. In my opinion saying something like that just reminds the other person how old you are and perhaps emphasises the weirdness of the situation, as you're thinking 'they were 20 something when I was born!'. Also most people, whatever their age, dislike being talked down to. If I'm having sex with someone I would expect them to treat me as an equal, not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 10:59 AM
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I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 07:59 AM
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I'm 22 and I think the oldest I'd go is 30 at a push, but he'd have to be good looking and not too boring. 40 or over would definitely be a no no as it would feel like dating someone of my dad's generation (even if they're actually 10 years younger than him) who probably has a lot of baggage that I as I young woman am not geared up to deal with. I've not got anything against other people dating older, just not something I'd personally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 04:12 PM
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As constructive criticism, your ethnic background bit is very american in the way it defines categories. Not sure what you could change but I just thought I'd point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 05:17 PM
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I think that women tend to insult men based on their dick size because that's a quick and easy way to hurt most mens feelings. If you want to a insult to shoot down a guy penis size is a go to insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 04:44 PM
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I'd say the 'very sensitive in the bedroom' bit is much more important than the penis size bit. Men seem to care a lot more about penis size that women in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 04:41 PM
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I got let on a bus first, though that might have been because he needed to top up his card and didn't want to hold me up. I also got a free extra orange off the greengrocer. I think that was genuinely because he was flirting but it might have been because he had a hell of a lot of oranges to shift before they started going mouldy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 09:58 PM
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Hell, the seat next to me on the bus is almost always the last one to get filled. ;-) Lucky you. I'm quite a small woman and no matter how much I try to look unfriendly I either get an over chatty old lady or an overweight man with egg sandwiches sat next to me :( It's always fun when the bus stops and you can practically hear everyone thinking 'please not next to me!'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 09:22 PM
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But surely frats only have social status in a system where people care about frats. British uni have plenty of societies for particular interests and peer support groups etc, I don't see how an officially organised clique provides anything they don't. The guys I know from uni who are successful wouldn't have joined a frat (we were talking about them with some americans in the pub a few weeks back), they already have everything a frat could offer i.e. good job prospects, hot girlfriends. They guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 11:05 PM
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Like what? Drugs? British students aren't generally in short supply of booze. (TBH drugs aren't difficult to come by either). I doubt it women as I can't see students flocking to some guys house just because he's in frat, there're clubs to go to and decent house parties already exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 10:35 PM
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In which case I stand corrected, you learn new things every day :) Though I can't really see what positives frats bring to uni. You're right about sports societies, some of them fill the drunken arsehole quotient, though a lot are just in it for the sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 06:53 PM
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I'm a girl. I like it if the guy wears a condom, babies and STDs are a right pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 04:50 PM
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England. No uni I know of has frats, or if they do they're so small nobody cares about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 04:49 PM
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Where was is contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 04:27 PM
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We don't have frats here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 04:26 PM
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Always wear a condom. Don't be an arsehole. Be nice to girls and treat them like people - hopefully by 18 most of this should be pretty obvious. Don't get too drunk and don't try to get with girls who are plastered, if you really like them help them to a bus/taxi and get their number for another day. Make sure you wash your clothes properly and don't let your room turn into a tip. Always offer tea the morning after if someone sleeps over. Don't fixate on girls who clearly aren't interested in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 07:55 AM
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I watched that film with my housemates and think it holds up quite well... as a comedy. I just love the idea that before the 50 shades phenomenon many men didn't realise how big a thing women's erotica is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 10:11 PM
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And everyone should have opportunity to apply via that process. We cannot see the future so applications can only take into account the applicant's current situation - i.e. grades - and stated life goals - i.e. personal statement (waste of time in my opinion and many admissions tutors seem to agree). Using factors such as age, sex or race would be pure discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 10:19 PM
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I'd say I owe it to society if society was paying for it. As it is I will have to pay back (some) of the cost (as the coverage of fees to course costs varies depending on contact hours etc) therefore I've taken out a loan (albeit one with good T&C) to pay for (discounted) knowledge. How I use that knowledge is now up to me. (FYI I'm not saying I agree with this model - it's just how it is now) Anything beyond a masters is different because by doing research (for a PhD etc) you are using your edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 07:44 PM
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I suppose it boils down to the question of what is higher education for. is it to train people for the workplace or is it an opportunity to gain knowledge? There's an argument that university education shouldn't be focused on future employment and that's what vocational training is for. Though now everything is lumped together as a degree. It's not a debate I'm hugely knowledgable about. People do whole PhD's investigation the social factors surrounding stuff like education, but I'm no social sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 06:41 PM
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Not really, no. Both provide a service to society and one arguably has a much greater potential for positive impact. Besides, even if a woman takes 18 years (unusual for it to be that that long) out to raise children then that's still 27 years or so in the workforce, enough time to get a lot done IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 08:23 PM
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So under this logic should we deny a university education to anyone who won't directly use it? What if someone does an MChem and then goes to train as an accountant? Is that using knowledge for the greater good? Should people who enter a degree intending to work for an international charity be granted the place over someone who wants to become a hedge fund manager? Would a woman have to declare that she will never drop out of work to raise children in order to get a place on a course?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 07:44 PM
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If women are at home raising children and spending a significant amount of time with those children/young adults for 18 or so years, could it be argued that the benefit of the mother's education will be passed onto the children? After all, we learn a lot from our parents. Perhaps well educated SHMs are using their education in a different, but equally valuable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 06:07 PM
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But I thought we were bad mothers if we persuaded a career...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:25 PM
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We judge using collected data, carefully excluding bias. That's how the scientific method operates. If your sky is different to what everyone else observes then that suggests you might live in an anomalous area or that your perception of colour is skewed. The studies I read - not recently and sadly I have no citations to hand - suggest that while girls learn best in a single sex environment, boys do better in co-ed. I hate to use the slippery slope fallacy but if you start by dividing workplaces…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:32 AM
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But I do have strong feelings about RP - I think most of it's subscribers are entitled pricks who need to get over themselves and stop blaming everything on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:21 AM
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Possibly yes. I mean I personally don't care. With all that's going on the world, not being able to date the adoring perfect 10 the movies promised seems like a petty complaint. I also don't care about women complaining that they don't get to marry Tom Hiddleston. I'm not a people person :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:37 AM
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Do you think it's possible you're biased by personal experience? I'm sorry you seem to have had such a hard time in education, there are some shitty teachers out there. The rape accusation thing isn't something I'm familiar with, most of the cases I've seen pop up on the news or reddit seem to be in the US. My writing assignments at school tended to be about revenge and 'mankind's essential illness' rather than love or family. The only time we ever looked at love in English was when studying Sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:33 AM
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140 years ago is fairly recent in the grand scheme of things- unless your american :) You know how the saying goes 'In the UK 100 miles is a long way, in the US 100 years is a long time'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:21 AM
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Yes actually and the results were nowhere near that conclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:19 AM
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I'm not talking ancient history here. Universities in the UK only opened their doors to women properly in 1876. I asked him (presumably) to fuck off because he said 'Women bring very little to university except extra manpower, but they take so much away from it, so honestly if they could just fuck off it would be great.' I felt it deserved a reply in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 06:35 PM
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I would consider myself a feminist and I don't think women are perfect at all, neither is feminism. Feminism has a lot of flaws and a lot of different branches, hence the lack of overall agreement about what the aim is. This results in apparent inconsistency and contradiction when feminism is viewed from the outside as one amorphous mass. There will never be a unified feminist movement, there are just too many people and far too many opinions and ideas. Women as a whole will never decide what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 06:23 PM
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So men don't look for the best partner they can? Slightly off topic but still on the subject of educational hypergamy; Esteve et al. (2012) -The Gender-Gap Reversal in Education and Its Effect on Union Formation: The End of Hypergamy? Newly released census microdata reveal the nearly worldwide and substantial decline in educational hypergamy (women marrying men with higher educational attainment) across 56 countries from the 1970s to the 2000s. We examine the extent to which the observed decreas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:55 PM
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I didn't say you were calling me a liar and since when did grumpy single men not get a voice? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:46 PM
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I suppose, but it is something to think about. Perhaps before calling us liars when post about our experiences people should step back and consider the possible social context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:12 PM
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Kindly fuck off. Thank you. As a woman who wants to go into academia I think this is a disgusting attitude for anyone too have. There are male geniuses out there yes, but there are female geniuses too. Think what we could have achieved by now if they hadn't been denied access to education until fairly recently. History would have had more Ada Lovelace's, Annie Jump Cannons and Marie Curies if women hadn't kept out of universities and actively discouraged from academic pursuits. We have drive. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:09 PM
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Is it that dating preference to do with pay or is it about education, intelligence and social circles in which you meet prospective partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 03:54 PM
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I'm not really here to change people's opinions. I just find it entertaining, a way to pass the time on our inevitable march towards the grave. Arguing with people can be exhilarating and I find it best to do it here where it won't affect my real life relationships or create angst in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 11:21 PM
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I know I know - but it's midnight here and getting precise meanings across in text can be tricky at times when you're tired. It's not just women that are hypocritical, or idiots, men are just as good at filling those descriptions - equal opportunity stupidity for all :) .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 11:18 PM
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All over the news? The news I'm getting is still dealing with our recent political excitement and more recent unfortunate events. This is the first I've heard of this. I think most of the things they list were already illegal, they've just reclassified them as a hate crime rather than just crime crime, probably for manipulating stats in one way or another. Edit: I live pretty close to Nottingham as well - nobody here cares about this news at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 11:15 PM
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I think the thing to remember is women are not one great monolithic mass and that the world is a very big place. There are a lot of people out there with a lot of different opinions and some of them are hypocritical idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 11:10 PM
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Why would have an issue with a guy being bi? That would be incredibly hypocritical. I don't care about my partners previous partners unless they've given them a nasty disease or are a vengeful megalomaniac who will hunt me down and chop off my toes. I read an article on that too. I think it's good that men are feeling more able to experiment too, hopefully suggests a general decline in homophobic attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 06:25 PM
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My beauty isn't going anywhere just yet. And I'll be able to pick from all those other well educated, focused women that the 'top men' aren't interested in ;) As I said, I don't even know if I'll want children yet - and I would certainly never have them if it meant I had to give up on my dreams and goals. Taking a break to have children now would be daft, it's easier to work flexi or part time when you're established than when you're just starting out - I'd be locked out of most of what I want f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 06:06 PM
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A lot of more educated career women where I'm from don't have children till they're in the 30s, then they work part time once the children are 5 or so then go back to work when they're teenagers. Seems to work out quite well as far as I've seen. This isn't accounting for those that love the idea of being a housewife or have a husband or wife who wants to stay at home. But it's all too far in the future to think about now, I'm only 22!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 05:12 PM
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To be fair most women my age that I know have about zero interest in children at the moment, but that could just be my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:59 PM
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I'm curious as to why you're so curious if we want children or not - hope that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:54 PM
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Bioinformatics uses computer programming and algorithms to look at biological data, often connected with genome sequencing and protein structure etc. Yes, information gleaned from bioinformatics can often be combined with the fossil record and plant genetics is a huge field. As for children, who knows? That would depend hugely on what a future partner might want and where I am in life ten years or so from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:52 PM
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It's very likely that you have, though it's possible you didn't no they were bi, it doesn't always come up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 01:30 PM
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Really? Because most of the ones I know (which is quite a lot) are just normal women looking for a nice stable relationship, they're just open to more options. In fact out of my group of friends I'm the only bisexual with any interest in ONS or FWB arrangements. The rest are waiting for Mr/Mrs Right. It gets quite annoying at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:57 PM
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What do you do for work? My career hasn't started yet, I'm waiting for masters course in bioinformatics to begin. Till then I'm doing temp admin work for the council, chosen due to severe lack of options where I live. My dream is to get a PhD and go into research, write code and discover things. Why do you feel you chose this field of work? Because evolutionary biology is the best :D and I love learning. Also bioinformatics is a growing field and it turns out I have a knack for phylogenetics. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:42 PM
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And why is it you think a bisexual woman is not suitable for a LTR? Do you believe the media stereotypes about us all being cheating sluts? Because that's not true for all of us... just some ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:15 PM
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volcel? Voluntary celibacy, if you just don't fancy sex at this point in time cbacel? The effort required to get sex is not worth the outcome, especially if there's a high chance the sex will be sub par
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 01:11 PM
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Is bad sex better than no sex? No, bad sex is at best boring and at worst hurts. I'd rather watch a film or get a good nights sleep. Is PIV even your preferred type of sex? No really. It's not bad with the right amount of foreplay but I'd rather do other stuff - I prefer giving blowjobs over PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 12:32 PM
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Men in gangs are more likely to be around lower income women, women who drink more and those with a drug habit etc. These women may see a 'strong' man as a form of protection or use sex as way to support their habit. On the whole I'd suggest they tend to be 'easier' than the kind of woman you'd meet at the local church. A lot of it is about social circles. Drug dealers in my experience will often have young women/girls hanging around them who use it to score free drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 05:06 PM
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Have you ever had a one night stand before? - Yes Have you ever had a fuckbuddy, friends with benefits, or purely sexual relationship? - Yes - sort of In college, did you belong to a social sorority? - No, we don't have them here Have you ever hooked up with someone at a party in college before? - Yes Have you ever had sex while drunk? - Yes Have you ever dated or had sex with a gym bro, or fairly muscular guy? - I guess, he was fairly fit (army guy) Have you ever dated a guy with lots of tattoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 10:00 AM
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What is your pill? - Blue Do you have casual sex on a semi-frequent basis? - Not really, a couple of times a year perhaps, depends if I'm seeing someone or not Have you ever had a one night stand? - Yes Have you ever been to a night club? - Yes. During term time I go about once a week - used to be more. Have you ever been drunk before? - Yes. I'm a student, it goes with the territory :) Have you ever smoked weed or a different illegal drug? - Yes, but not a fan of weed though - Molly is the way …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 10:47 PM
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The sweeping generalisations about human nature. The double standards of behaviour for men and women. The misapplication of behavioural evolution. The word cuck. The constant insults to women's intelligence and capacity for empathy or logical reasoning. The whole us versus then feel of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 10:59 PM
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TBF if someone I didn't know wrote a poem about how much they loved my eyes I would find it slightly creepy. Who stares at other people's eyes that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 12:47 PM
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No, but rather rude Probably no, but not appropriate either. It depends on the nature of the rubbing, if it was lingering and high up on the thigh then quite possibly yes. If it was just a brief tap I'd say no, not assault. Not okay in any way but not severe enough to be assault. I'd possibly call it harassment but that still doesn't quite seem the right word. If he grabbed her arse, boobs or stuck his hand up her skirt without her giving clear indication that she was into him, then I would say …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 10:22 AM
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I can see why it could be arguable stupid but I find applying the word immoral has a slightly puritanical taste to it. From what I have seen in my last four years at university, the people who have a lot of ONSs do have friends that look out for them. It's not like they just rock up to the club on their own. I've also never heard any of the people I know 'wailing' about it after, gossiping maybe, but no wailing. Half my friendship group has had ONSs with the other half and nobody seems to care. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 10:12 AM
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Immoral? What is so bad about two people who want to have sex with each other having sex with each other. As long as both of them want it and neither are cheating on someone, why should anyone else care what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 12:03 AM
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I've seen it more over social media and online than in person. A guy will chat to you, be friendly, then ask me for a drink or something. If I politely decline he then goes into 'fuck you bitch' mode and calls me an ugly whore. It's really quite off-putting and is why I stopped hanging around on certain forums I used to use. In the real world my friendship group doesn't really have any guys like that. As in they are nice guys (not TM), but are nice to everyone, not just the more attractive girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:25 AM
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Where I am changing rooms are mostly unisex with cubicles, therefore it would make zero difference. For where it is just one room, anyone filming, staring etc should get thrown out, be they man, woman or whatever, otherwise I don't much care. In most toilets and changing rooms there is nothing to stop a man walking into the ladies anyway, it's not like there are bouncers on the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 09:15 AM
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To me personally not much. I mean I'd prefer not to date someone who's so tall I get a crick in my neck and spend half my time talking to his chest, but if he was hot enough then it would outweigh excessive height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 05:50 PM
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I'd date a bi guy. But then I'd also date a bi girl, a lesbian or a straight guy. I'm not the pickiest of people :) Why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:33 PM
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What? Since when was socialising and hanging out with people other than your partner is bad for a relationship? It's all part of being a well rounded person. A partner that tries to stop you doing such things is likely very insecure and potentially emotionally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 08:05 PM
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So yes, it's extremely stupid to send someone you care for into the lion's den of temptation. There is far more to lose than there is to gain. Nobody said anything about sending anyone anywhere. If a woman wants to go out dancing and drinking with her friends then her boyfriend/husband has no right to say she can't. Likewise if he wanted to go to the pub, a club, a sports match... Just because you are in a relationship does not mean you wave all personal autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 01:51 PM
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Where I am 'media shape's beauty standards' is generally taken to mean that the media makes ordinary young women feel ugly and unlikable, not that the media will make you fall in love with a fat woman. I think we're arguing from different points of understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 08:19 PM
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No, there's at least two of us. I'd bet there are plenty more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:59 PM
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You see I wasn't even aware that anyone was making that argument. It has seen said before - but feminism is not one great monolith where everyone knows what everyone else is saying. There could be an argument that putting a more realistic cross section of society on billboards would put less pressure on girls and women to push themselves to an unrealistic goal and feel like they are ugly because they aren't a photoshopped size 6 or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 08:28 AM
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Well the the people in films and on billboards are hardly a representative cross section of society. Is it not obvious that they aren't a realist example of what a normal person can look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 09:35 AM
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No. My mum taught me that I should be well read, follow current affairs and form my own opinions of the word. I always knew that the most important thing I had was my brain, and that I should use it to its full potential. My dad on the other hand taught me not to depend on a man by cheating on my mum and walking out on us when I was young. I was never taught directly about feminism, when I first heard about it I thought 'Well duh. This is obvious. How do people still not get this?'
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 04:30 PM
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Are you single? Currently yes, sort of What do you look for in a man? Good sense of humour, sociable, likes to so interesting things, intelligent, good looking, not obsessed with sports of video games Do you think men should pay for the Check when out on a date with you? No. I split or take it in turns Do you like chivalrous men? Do you believe in chivalry? Would you like it if a man opened the door for you, lent you his jacket? I believe in kindness and manners. If a man does those things then …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 05:53 PM
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I don't think automated teaching below about 16 or so (maybe younger) is a good idea. A lot of what you learn at school isn't pure academic knowledge. It's about relating to other humans, listening to the teacher, developing social skills etc. I can see the point for very rural communities or higher education (think OU) but if there is an opportunity to go to an actual school then surely that is better for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 03:33 PM
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