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| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"i think the pandemic is kind of skewing my perception as well... its not like i was never approached also at bars i usually have a gaggle of women which doesn't help lol but i also kind of doubt the ability to meet quality men at a bar... seems kinda unlikely so thats prolly the vibe i give off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"No, I'm not rude, lol It's the difference between saying "Could you maybe please do x for me?" and "I need x from you, thanks" in a work environment. First verbiage is tip toeing and fluffy, second one is more professional and to the point. Honesty and rudeness are two different things. I also worded my comment poorly, I would really describe myself as no bs. Just honest and upfront. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"Doesnt bother me. I dont mind being tall, i just think it makes me command a room a bit more. i dont think its because im tall im not being approached lol I have a no bullshit, upfront personality. Im an embedded systems engineer and being a woman in tech has given me no tolerance for men talking down to me. So, i think i sort of carry that with me. Also, Im kind of neutral on men approtaxhing me, like, i dont really invite them to with my body language. Theres also a chance i have been hit on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"i hear ya but i also hate having literally 700 matches on dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"Not generally, no Maybe two three times in my life as a bar going adult (~5 yrs) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"Im really social, but i honestly think im intimidating. Im pretty tall (5'8, 5'11-6' in heels at a bar), and I carry myself well. Not that im insanely attractive or anything, i think i just have a strong vibe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"ah, im sorry dude i could see how IRL would be better. i dont get approached IRL ever, basically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"I am single woman, this is spot on I honestly wish men were choosier with their swipes. i feel like most of the men on OLD just swipe everyone then go from there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?YUP The last few ones ive tried just immediately started sucking out my life force (expected me to hang out with them 4-5 days a week after two dates, emotional manipulation, using my emotional labor, etc) Im feeling really discouraged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020ahs, you are so right. I love this subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:47 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I tried this then a guy showed up to my workplace after he did some digging and figured out where i worked. Left cheap flowers and a shitty poem on my car 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020the secret for me was giving up trying to be charismatic. I communicate my thoughts/work/intentions as professionally and clearly as I can. For me charismatic makes me be too nice. Edit: Also, shoulders back, head up, pelvis tilted forward, always. Walking strongly and with intention also gives you presence in a room. Doesnt matter if youre walking to get water in office, into a meeting, whatever Also eye contact | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:40 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I really suck at rejecting people because i try to be too polite about it, or just kind of phase them out. I feel like men only understand what im doing if im rudely blunt about it. Even though this is usually after 1-2 dates... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020How tall are you? Im 5'8 and have started to really enjoy the way that i have a presence and really take up space in meetings/office settings. When i wear suits I like to wear heels with them so i can get up to 5'11 or so. I work in tech, and lemme tell ya, sometimes its badass to look down when you shake the interviewers hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 57 | Don’t lie to me about your heightthis exact same thing happened to me!! i called him out like "uh, you're not six foot" and he had the audacity to tell me i must be " at least 5'10" like lol that means youre also about 5'10 if that was true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:15 PM |
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