| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2001 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself. | LEVEL UP | miss_kay4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | I really love when they weed themselves out like this. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | miss_kay4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I really love when they weed themselves out like this. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | miss_kay4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I’m in recovery and using apps for practice. How did I do | LEVEL UP BRO! | miss_kay4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:51 PM |
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| 29 | Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks?A friend’s NV husband lost attraction when she gained weight after the death of her dad at the start of the pandemic. Apparently he’s been saying he’s unhappy in the marriage. Just found out recently he’s now on OnlyFans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 02:33 AM |
| 11 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?I’ve never dreamed of getting married or having kids. Perhaps if the right person came around, I would possibly consider it. But after my last toxic relationship ended I’m really enjoying being single and focusing on my self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼How did you get into that? Do you have an HR degree? HR was one of my options I was considering. I already have a bachelors but was looking into a certificate program. Not sure if the Masters is worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 8 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼I’d love to get some advice from you for moving into tech! Looking to go back to school to level up and increase my salary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?Reminds me of my ex. He threw his gum out the window and it landed on my car by accident. He half assed cleaned it off and said he would clean the rest later, which he never did. When I was still upset he never cleaned it off like he said he would, he brushed it off as just being a “material item” and that there were scratches on it anyways (done by other people) as if I didn’t care about my car. Said I was overreacting about the situation. I was upset about it, my car is fully paid off with my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Men and grey hairI am 26 with a natural gray streak growing in like Stacy London. I’m using it as a great way to filter out anyone in my life that doesn’t think it’s anything but awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 7 | This weird type of poor communication that I dealt with after talking to a guy for a few monthsOMG I just broke up with my boyfriend and this was a major issue between us!! I explained to him time and time again that I’m a processor, I need to think things through before I can calmly sit down and confront a situation. I have CPTSD so sometimes I freeze, and I need time to think before handling something. Rather than dealing with the issue at hand, he would rather focus on the fact that I waited til the next day to confront him about it, rather than what happened, and he would even get agg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Beware the “Mature Communicator”Wow. I just broke up with a guy exactly like this today. I’m so glad I found your post, it’s giving me so much strength. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | ✨👑In honor of women’s history month👑✨Why is she trash? I’m not super familiar with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 14 | Modern relationships in a nutshellCan I ask you where you live? I’m looking into moving somewhere with a lower COL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:51 PM |
| 5 | I love everyone's ring pics, I decided to join in. I got myself my dream car! Taking myself and my pup hiking all along the east coast for 2021.I love this!! I am a jeep girl myself, but my Cherokee was totaled :( eventually I am going to treat myself to a 4 door wrangler! If you’re ever near NJ and want a hiking buddy, feel free to PM me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:36 AM |
| 12 | “No” is a full sentenceThat’s a thing!? I am going to look into that, thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦♀️Last guy I dated has a whole shelf of self help books 😬😬 I ran running and screaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Geographical dating advice?Some of your descriptions are exactly what I am looking for. I think I’m living in the wrong place... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Geographical dating advice?I am not quite in New York but in New Jersey and having similar issues. Hoping you get some good advice here as I am open to moving as well! I’ve considered denver or San Diego, as I feel like they match my lifestyle more. But I’m not sure what the dating scenes are like there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Do you use hinge?Is coffee meets bagel still a thing? I’ve heard mixed reviews | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:02 PM |
| 7 | When women travelI LOVE to travel, hike and do things solo. I’m not waiting for anyone to do the things I really want to do! If I did, I would never do anything. So happy it filters out the LVM/NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:55 AM |
| 8 | Today, for the first time in my life, I told a stranger, "This is none of your business"I am so, so proud of you!!! I am working on assertiveness and boundaries in therapy. It’s not easy, but will come naturally with practice. You go girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?Printing this out and putting it on my mirror as a reminder! I love this. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 27 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.https://www.tiffany.com/jewelry/rings/tiffany-diamond-wedding-band-GRP00001/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 34 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.He mentioned something about a crazy ex girlfriend. I am just another name to add to that list. He has already reached out to me, and I know this won’t be the last time. But I’m sticking to my guns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 195 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.He didn’t. I am not a confrontational person so I left, but now I wish I had said something for his date’s sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 562 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.I am going to write out my story in case someone else can get something out of it. It’s also helps me move on. I have been following FDS for almost a year now. I would scroll through the posts and briefly read the handbook but didn’t strictly apply it to my life. What a mistake. I started dating a guy I thought was high value. He took me to nice dinners and always paid, opened doors for me, had a great job, owned his own townhome, cleaned and cooked, took good care of himself, and seemed high va… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Don't get it twisted, you're a Queen.Yep! “I’m sorry, I’m a POS” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:18 AM |
| 3 | When the bar is so low, yet....Omg this one NVM I embarrassingly kept running back to... he had moved into his first place (just a rented room) and didn’t even have a mattress, just a blanket and a few pillows on the floor that he was sleeping on. He brushed it off by saying the Japanese slept on the floor and that it’s better for you. He tried to get me to have sex with him on this arrangement of blankets and pillows on the floor. That was the last time I saw him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:54 PM |
| 21 | Glad to be this man’s second choice. We went on a date back in October. This virus is bringing out the desperation in men“Papusa” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:04 AM |
| 2 | I find most men unattractiveEurope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I’m in recovery and using apps for practice. How did I doI’ve used quarantine as a time for self reflection. This time has made me more aware of my codependency and problematic behavior when it comes to dating and relationships. I let the last guy I “dated” walk all over me. He was manipulative, borderline abusive and an alcoholic pos. And we only knew eachother for a month. Sooo many red flags that I blatantly ignored because I wanted attention, validation, sex, intimacy, a connection, etc etc. I found this subreddit a few months ago and it’s changed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:58 PM |
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